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Nina_Den
06-29-2013, 04:13 PM
@lifetravelergirl - that's correct, you don't have to click on anything when somebody takes you private. You're just being swept away!

DoodlebugBites
06-29-2013, 04:24 PM
I *knew* there was a reason I decided to wait til tomorrow when I'm tan and skinny-as opposed to puffy and pale, like I am now :(

The playoffs are over now, for anyone deciding whether to log on.

Not saying it doesn't FEEL like the playoffs are still going on, LOL!

Nina_Den
06-29-2013, 05:03 PM
Wow, it must be REALLY dead today, cause when I logged in for a few minutes now (without even showing my face nor body, just to test some settings) I was on the front page. :alien:

Angelfaced
06-29-2013, 07:51 PM
does anyone know how traffic is gonne be for the 4th of the july ? it was dead on labor day.

JaneBurgess
06-29-2013, 08:02 PM
Seems to be a ton of freeloaders but good traffic. Shame because most Saturday's are amazing on there. Might get better in an hour or so.



Wow, it must be REALLY dead today, cause when I logged in for a few minutes now (without even showing my face nor body, just to test some settings) I was on the front page. :alien:

SoloDesire
06-29-2013, 08:07 PM
I was on earlier today and had great traffic, but soooo many douche bags!! I blocked like 5 people in the first hour. I don't normally cam on Saturdays...I guess that's why lol.

HaydenBlue
06-30-2013, 01:38 AM
SOOOOO sorry that happened to you........

I think that Hayden posted a while back about this happening to her too.... where she was logged into her members account and when she sent a link to someone else it automatically logged that person into her members account as well!

It's not really that you were "hacked" but that the login "key" was part of the link and it's a glitch on SM's end. Your computer and your model account should be fine but I would change passwords just incase!

I thought they might have fixed it.... but I guess not....? Everyone be super careful if you are logged into your members account and decide to share a link with someone!

Yes!! It happened to me too! Like a year + ago.

I was chatting with some friends browsing rooms and shared a link, and like all five of them were automatically logged into my account, they could see all of my personal information and everything.

Then later on my account was frozen. So I called support. I got some woman on the phone who was decent then she paused and said "Uhhh, are you a model?" I said yes. She transferred me to some rude-asshole of a man who yelled at me over the phone saying my info changed and my IP was different (well no shit sherlock) I tried to explain the glitch but he cut me off. And said I was committing fraud and they will be banning my account, then he hung up on me. Miserable bitter people running support over there.

And they MUST still be banning people because of a glitch like this - I'm SURE guys share links with their buddies - I send a message to support. Nothing. So if they want to fuck themselves they must be enjoying it. IDK!

Sorry that happened to you BBJ!

Billabong
06-30-2013, 02:13 AM
I shared a model link with one of my friends and he was able to go through my account as well and could've bought shows if he wanted to. I did the IM support with SM and they said that sort of glitch was impossible and that my friend was a professional hacker and lying to me. I had to argue with him nearly an hour before he finally took me seriously enough to write a report, though I'm sure he was just saying that to get me to close the chat.

lifetravelergirl
06-30-2013, 04:23 AM
Gawd... Last night / this morning, on Streamate just sucked so hard.

When I am in free chat talking to jerkoffs (and I mean that literally) for an hour at a time I start to get so sleepy that it is like I begin to nod off, mainly I feel it in my eyes, like my eyes are trying to close and I occasionally start to loose the battle. Well last night was one of those nights. The thing is I kept having guys ask me if I was drunk or high. I had one straight up ask me if I was on drugs O_o . It was such a lame night and free chat was making me so sleepy that I took a nap, for like an hour and a half and came back to the same thing.

I kept having jerkoffs (I mean that in the nicest way) tell me they were jerking off in my free chat. I had one guy say, "Baby this 16 year-old is jerking off to you right now." And I banned him. In my chat text I have that I will flash for tips but all it was, was one after another chatroom jerkoffs asking for freebies. I don't drink or use drugs (can't afford to), I just drink weak coffee while I work but god... Here I am trying to seem interested in guys who are just weird handles and text, trying to act like they are real people, trying to engage them and make them feel welcome and appreciated. Here I am reading the same old crap over and over again and looking into the camera to help them feel like it's actually a conversation and like I am interested in them and it is just so exhausting sometimes.

But I don't understand why they all thought I was on drugs. Is it because it was Saturday night / Sunday morning? Is it because they are all drunk and high and they are projecting / mirroring? Is it because it is so difficult to stay awake, trying to pretend creepy text conversations are intriguing, trying to pretend like my Logitech camera eye is a person? I really can't afford camgirl burnout right now. Ugh...

lifetravelergirl
06-30-2013, 04:31 AM
@lifetravelergirl - that's correct, you don't have to click on anything when somebody takes you private. You're just being swept away!

How romantic is that O_O ? No seriously, how romantic is that? Right now I wish someone would sweep me away but not like garbage or dirt.

Thanks ^_^ , I am piecing together the clues O_o. Eventually I may have it all figured out ^_^ .

VictoriaChaos
06-30-2013, 04:42 AM
^ It reminds me of the fact that I really, really like that first moment when doing C2C and seeing the custie's cam is actually directed at his face rather than his genitals. I honestly don't even care how they look like nor how old they are when that happens; it immediately puts a smile on my face, that they feel comfortable enough (even though many times they look very embarrassed) "exposing" themselves to me, too.
Plus, once it gets that personal, it's a great time-filler, always gets a conversation going before everything else.

Also, I don't know why, but when you mentioned the guy looked like your high school science teacher I imagined Walt from Breaking Bad. LOL.

It was nice.
That c2c accept is always a crapshoot.
Most of the time it's a dick and a fat belly...
It was nice to see a skinny guy with a cute face and good conversation skills.
It really makes me wonder why he was paying me in the first place.
He was really friendly and sweet, I'm not sure why he couldn't just find someone in real life to talk to.
Would cost him less.

And lol at the breaking bad reference, my high school science teacher was pretty bad ass ( cannot wait for the show to come back! OMG, One more month!)

On topic, so I was just reading the SM tips page. It tells you to promote your page on dating sites. Wtf?

VictoriaChaos
06-30-2013, 04:44 AM
How romantic is that O_O ? No seriously, how romantic is that? Right now I wish someone would sweep me away but not like garbage or dirt.

Oh my god, it's nice to laugh so hard at four;forty in the morning.
I do hate that, than the room clears and it's back to square one.

kittykrane
06-30-2013, 05:58 AM
On topic, so I was just reading the SM tips page. It tells you to promote your page on dating sites. Wtf?

And all that will do is clog up those sites with fakes, which in turn pisses off the rest of the people on there who are actually trying to find someone. And they will get vicious, flag you, ban you, report you once they know what you are up to...NOT EVEN WORTH IT (I have not done it but I read about all the people who complain about the bots, spammers, and fakes).

bootiebabe
06-30-2013, 08:58 AM
Hi Girls,

I have search but cannot find my answer, Has anyone been in dP on Sm and managed to get out of it without having to close there account down and start a new one?
I have asked dP but was told my account would need to be closed down and another one started up, which really would suck for me as i don't want to have to start all over again on there if there is another option.

Snowy0Star
06-30-2013, 09:39 AM
Speaking of hustle - am I making a mistake by sitting in free chat, showing my face and upper body (breasts - covered, obviously - included), and just smiling, playing with my hair and waiting for someone to take my private (of course, I completely engage in conversations once one starts?). I've been thinking a lot about actually dancing on my bed in free chat, showing full body, cause perhaps it might make more members actually stay in my room, but I tend to think it could also simply be too much of a trouble, or, like, giving too much for free.
What do you think about this issue?

This was in another thread but i felt like answering it in the thread would have derailed it even more so im moving it here.

When i tryed to do this i got zero pvts and i did it for two weeks untill i gave up. my rates were 3.99 and i think 4.99 i stood up danced flirted blew kisses free ass when asked free ass when not asked and all i got was show pussy do this do that ppl just talking like im there fuck buddy or something and leaving as soon as i tried to get to go into pvt. i dunno ive had horrible luck on there so i plan on trying to do it again with lower rates and see how to goes. whatever im doing now isnt cutting it since every week for the past 4 weeks ive been making less and less every week.

Glamourmilf
06-30-2013, 10:15 AM
^^^True THAT Snowy!! Same here! When i noticed that a model in my age category do that, who is always in prvt. i tried it, with zero luck!! All I got was, 'Do doggy', show ass without pants, show tits,etc. For me, just showing my face ONLY (or just face from mouth down gets me more prvts.)

SoloDesire
06-30-2013, 12:23 PM
^^^True THAT Snowy!! Same here! When i noticed that a model in my age category do that, who is always in prvt. i tried it, with zero luck!! All I got was, 'Do doggy', show ass without pants, show tits,etc. For me, just showing my face ONLY (or just face from mouth down gets me more prvts.)

I agree. The more you give for free, the more they want for free. And it makes it so much more frustrating for me when I feel like I'm giving so much of myself and still not getting spenders. I do best when I sit and chat and make them tip for EVERYTHING, including "stand up bb". The loser freeloaders will leave and the spenders will spend.

Pippi_Hicks
06-30-2013, 12:41 PM
Streamate Glitch Report: Saturday June 29th 2013

Time frame: Late afternoon, MSD (Mountain Standard Time - USA, or 8-11pm GMT)
Streaming with: Adobe Encoder, Widescreen Settings
Browser: Firefox

- Members disappearing from my free chat mid-conversation (asking detailed questions and then leaving before I have a moment to answer, NOT the more common pattern of idiots making random comments and leaving).
- Very low traffic.
- Member requested Exclusive session, pop up window appeared and I clicked "Accept". At that point the paid chat window dropped down halfway (like it would have for a Premium session) but the member didn't appear in it, the streaming screen in my browser window went completely black (it no longer said "External Encoder" like it normally does), and everyone disappeared from my free chat room. I then opened my a new browser window to view my Streamate profile and... IT SAID I WAS IN A PRIVATE SHOW! Even though I was NOT. I had to stop my stream and restart the encoder to get back into free chat. The member who had requested the Exclusive session did not reappear, he probably thought someone else had taken me private first.
- Regular member came into my room and took me Premium. Requested Cam2Cam, I selected "Accept". Cam appeared to work at first but then became jerky and finally froze completely. Member ended the session and I returned to free chat early before the 30 second countdown had completed. Member took me Premium again and again I accepted his Cam2Cam request. This time it appeared to freeze immediately. (The member may have tried typing something during these first two attempts but nothing showed up.) Member ended the Premium session and I went back into free chat. Member took me Premium for a third time, Cam2Cam FINALLY worked and we had a good session. (He and I had successfully done Cam2Cam before this incident.)

Other issues:
- Friday June 28th 2013, Firefox, External Encoder Standard Settings, late afternoon: Cam2Cam feature again took three tries before working. Member (different guy) selected Cam2Cam but when I accepted I would only see the loading icon and then a black screen.
- Sound feature with member's cam in Cam2Cam feature not working - EVER! I had it work earlier this year with one member who would do regular sessions with me and I have an external USB speaker connected to my computer but set far away from my cam so that I won't have feedback issues with the mic. Unfortunately it hasn't worked with anyone else.

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I'm posting this here because I read once that SM occasionally reads this thread and to let other women know about the issues I'm experiencing in case anyone happens to be interested.

Pippi_Hicks
06-30-2013, 01:43 PM
I agree. The more you give for free, the more they want for free. And it makes it so much more frustrating for me when I feel like I'm giving so much of myself and still not getting spenders. I do best when I sit and chat and make them tip for EVERYTHING, including "stand up bb". The loser freeloaders will leave and the spenders will spend.

Most of the time I make guys tip for requests but occasionally if I'm feeling generous I just make them say please for simple stuff...

Them: "stand up BB!"
Me: "Say please sweetheart - I don't give in to demands and I like the guys in my room to have good manners."

The majority of guys will obey and say please, however I'll sometimes get a guy who says no - and they get kicked out. Showing tits always requires gold though.

biancabaker
06-30-2013, 01:53 PM
So I have sent two questions to support and never got a response. I stopped using SM because after 2-3 weeks it was dead.. like ghost town dead. I got 0 traffic- I used the encoder and everything- SM was also my first site so I really had no idea what I was doing.. Now that I am on MFC and have learned the ropes I would love to give SM another shot but i am terrified even w using the encoder my placement will be horrid. What do they even base it on? And is it worth me even going back now that its been like a month-month and half- I have 5 star ratings and pretty awesome tags people left.

Missymissdemeanour
06-30-2013, 01:54 PM
I agree. The more you give for free, the more they want for free. And it makes it so much more frustrating for me when I feel like I'm giving so much of myself and still not getting spenders. I do best when I sit and chat and make them tip for EVERYTHING, including "stand up bb". The loser freeloaders will leave and the spenders will spend.

Yep me too! I am lucky in as much as I can move my computer around if I want, so I do sometimes try the whole dance around show ass (panties on), legs, whole length, face etc and I end up getting pissed of and/or knackered with no $ forthcoming. I know it doesn't matter what you show they will always want to see what you don't show. My usual view is neck to knees, so I'm sitting cross legged on my bed guys can see my cleavadge, waist and thighs, anything else including my face they can tip for. My response to face/ass/legs etc is 'there are plenty of FREE pics on my profile or you can see everything in pvt etc' I make more money this way.

Nina_Den
06-30-2013, 02:39 PM
Shit. During the best night I had in a while, I noticed that while I look normal to myself on the encoder, the same members kept on going in and out of my room for 10 minutes, without saying anything, over and over again. I realized something MUST be wrong, so I looked at my encoding log, and noticed this has been happing for the latest minutes -

34101

Umm, yeah. What's going on? I've never had any problems with the encoder before. I tried restarting my computer, but it didn't help. Anybody knows what it is? :(

EDIT: Yeah, I just realized my Windows username is there, but nevermind, I'll live through it.

SarahTime
06-30-2013, 03:14 PM
Shit. During the best night I had in a while, I noticed that while I look normal to myself on the encoder, the same members kept on going in and out of my room for 10 minutes, without saying anything, over and over again. I realized something MUST be wrong, so I looked at my encoding log, and noticed this has been happing for the latest minutes -

34101

Umm, yeah. What's going on? I've never had any problems with the encoder before. I tried restarting my computer, but it didn't help. Anybody knows what it is? :(

EDIT: Yeah, I just realized my Windows username is there, but nevermind, I'll live through it.

Your stream is dropping connection to SM. How's your Internet connection?

Snowy0Star
06-30-2013, 03:20 PM
Your stream is dropping connection to SM. How's your Internet connection?

Is that how the encoder works ? it doesn't tell u the connection dropped? it just keeps disconnecting and reconnecting? that kinda sux because shit like what happened to nina happens. u just sit there wondering wtf not knowing whats going on lame sm lame... -_-

SarahTime
06-30-2013, 03:33 PM
Is that how the encoder works ? it doesn't tell u the connection dropped? it just keeps disconnecting and reconnecting? that kinda sux because shit like what happened to nina happens. u just sit there wondering wtf not knowing whats going on lame sm lame... -_-

Yes, if the encoder loses connection it shows just like that screen shot. Eventually if it can't reconnect you will know because SM will have a pop up saying you've been disconnected, but hers is losing connection and reconnecting every few seconds, so SM isn't picking it up to the point of giving her the pop up, even tho members are losing her feed.

Nina_Den
06-30-2013, 03:58 PM
Thank you, Sarah; I've got it fixed (I mean, I didn't really do anything -- it just fixed itself). Yeah, my connection's not the best (I'm not hardwired), but I was still surprised cause up until this day I've never had this problem. Hope it won't happen another time.
Again, thanks! :thumbsup:

SarahTime
06-30-2013, 04:01 PM
Thank you, Sarah; I've got it fixed (I mean, I didn't really do anything -- it just fixed itself). Yeah, my connection's not the best (I'm not hardwired), but I was still surprised cause up until this day I've never had this problem. Hope it won't happen another time.
Again, thanks! :thumbsup:

I think that is pretty common when it comes to wireless connections, for camming or anything else. My hubby is always frustrated his xbox drops connection lol ;)

If you can, get hard wired! It should help your connection and your internet speeds!

Snowy0Star
06-30-2013, 04:02 PM
Thank you, Sarah; I've got it fixed (I mean, I didn't really do anything -- it just fixed itself). Yeah, my connection's not the best (I'm not hardwired), but I was still surprised cause up until this day I've never had this problem. Hope it won't happen another time.
Again, thanks! :thumbsup:

r u unplugging/restarting ur router before u start ur shift? that seems to help me have less lag when i start and ive read in a post that some had to do that like every hour or two.

Nina_Den
06-30-2013, 04:05 PM
The router's in my sister room and she's almost always asleep when I cam (nighttime in Israel), so that's not possible. :(
When you guys talk about being "hardwired", do you mean simply being connected directly through a router?

temptingmodel
06-30-2013, 04:09 PM
^^ yes

temptingmodel
06-30-2013, 04:11 PM
I swear, Give everything you can , even in half ass gold shows and you will make it, they want more all the time. SM is such a tricky bitch

Snowy0Star
06-30-2013, 04:11 PM
The router's in my sister room and she's almost always asleep when I cam (nighttime in Israel), so that's not possible. :(
When you guys talk about being "hardwired", do you mean simply being connected directly through a router?

yes with a cat 5/ethernet cable how far away is ur sisters room? maybe u can snake an epically long cable around the walls of the house to get to ur room or drill some holes thru some walls to get a cat 5 from ur sis's room to urs.

Nina_Den
06-30-2013, 04:17 PM
And what if I just buy my own router?

Snowy0Star
06-30-2013, 04:24 PM
And what if I just buy my own router?

that would depend if ur internet provider would let u have two separate accounts in ur house witch is what would be required if u wanted to get a dedicated line and router for u to use. i wanted one at one point but Cox said no so we couldnt -_-

VictoriaChaos
06-30-2013, 05:47 PM
Fuck you SM!
Fuck you booting my room.
My dom was just sitting watching and he got booted.
Plus it just kept happening to anyone who entered.
I think people got fed up at the end.

CamVeteran
06-30-2013, 06:03 PM
no it isn't but the bitches have made it tricky. LOL.. do not give everything you can.. you won't have anything left. See my posts on Dr Streamate.

temptingmodel
06-30-2013, 09:12 PM
what I MEANT IS TO GIVE YOUR BEST PERFORMANCE.

1. free chat.. who buys shows from models just doing nothing? There is no sexual energy SEX SELLS , even if its being one of these "bitches" I GIVE IT ALL. #1 reason is they are hooked.

2.goldshows, EVEN IF HALF ASS JOINED, they come back for more
3.privates

GIVE ALL YOU CAN AND NO HALF STEPPING
I do think like a man, if a woman is half stepping , bullshitting, fuck that, I want a fun person who has the sex drive of a demon.

I am one of these "bitches" I GIVE IT ALL. Again #1 reason is they are hooked.

I saw the long posts and I ignore them. Time is money , I don't have time to read all the long posts. I have cams to run. Money to make, not a lot of time to spend on SW reading/writing/arguing etc.

temptingmodel
06-30-2013, 09:37 PM
Example
I went to a concert recently held at a venue. His show was no way sold out or 1/4th . HE PUT ON THE MOST AMAZING SHOW. The very first time I saw this cat perform. It was not crowded BUT He gave his all, he was able to perform more intimate, he reached down to the girl that talked me into going, he held her hand , he rapped to her, he was sweating bullets. He came out and gave us free stuff just for showing up.
Every show he performs is AWESOME. I have been to 3 since. If he didn't give me a awesome fucking show and give me his all , I wouldn't have showed up, fly out to see him perform.
He was not popular. Now, a few months later, he is touring with some big name artist.

With that said giving your all, pays off in the end.

Cam_Model_Jess
07-01-2013, 07:07 AM
I took today off. I'm in no way admitting that abusive member I posted about the other day is right, but I'm going to lower my rates and try again. I think I may have started too high right off the bat being relatively new with no established regulars, and for just for a laugh I'll just post I'm 60 or so years old. (Maybe start again at 3.99/4.99) It'll help me maintain my sense of humor when the bastards bash me accusing me of being 40+. (Although I must state they're some extremely hot, gorgeous ladies on SM up into their 60's.)

Maybe go halfway with the age? I know it sucks, but I used to get that on SM. I had my online age 5 years lower than my actual. And IRL, I looked really young. But once I put on all that make-up, I looked older. I got rude comments. So I changed it to my real age. If you look older than your age on cam, then maybe change it? If you're 30 & they say you look 40, try 35? If it's just one stupid moron, ignore it. Don't change anything. But you'll probably get A LOT of age-related comments/attention if you put 60. Just warning you b/c I've seen it happen to others. And SM will put you in a diff category.

Mare
07-01-2013, 09:21 AM
Everything is WIDE for me today. The encoder works but I notice it giving a black screen blip every few seconds. So I drop down to HD High. Works ok . BUt my screen to read my earned details is huge or I cant see all of it. My notes has to be opened up all the way too or I cant add notes. Frustrating. Anyone else having same issues? I'm still using the C910. I'm not even sure what my encoder settings are. I might have to fiddle with that. I'd rather be making $$$. But I guess I have to pretend I 'm tech savy and work it out. Ick.

~Carmen~
07-01-2013, 09:27 AM
I took today off. I'm in no way admitting that abusive member I posted about the other day is right, but I'm going to lower my rates and try again. I think I may have started too high right off the bat being relatively new with no established regulars, and for just for a laugh I'll just post I'm 60 or so years old. (Maybe start again at 3.99/4.99) It'll help me maintain my sense of humor when the bastards bash me accusing me of being 40+. (Although I must state they're some extremely hot, gorgeous ladies on SM up into their 60's.)

I have seen some very hot 99 year olds on SM ;)

laurielegs
07-01-2013, 10:58 AM
Example
I went to a concert recently held at a venue. His show was no way sold out or 1/4th . HE PUT ON THE MOST AMAZING SHOW. The very first time I saw this cat perform. It was not crowded BUT He gave his all, he was able to perform more intimate, he reached down to the girl that talked me into going, he held her hand , he rapped to her, he was sweating bullets. He came out and gave us free stuff just for showing up.
Every show he performs is AWESOME. I have been to 3 since. If he didn't give me a awesome fucking show and give me his all , I wouldn't have showed up, fly out to see him perform.
He was not popular. Now, a few months later, he is touring with some big name artist.

With that said giving your all, pays off in the end.

OMG this makes so much sense. One of my favorite bands is super famous in Europe but still performs here to stupidly smaller crowds. I've always had a lot of respect for them for putting on the same show for crowded stadiums or a small bar with a stage.

Thank you for posting this, and it is a fantastic comparison as we are performers after all.

VictoriaChaos
07-01-2013, 12:05 PM
Encoder's not loading for me right now.
Lame.
Ugh, maybe I should just log on later.
Not feeling it right now...

WOW.
After I posted that a guy came in asked to go private.
He fucking typed it!

Fucktard has gone private
"strip for me bb"
I ignore him.
"Show me that ass baby."
I ignore.
"bb?"
Fucktard has left private.
I start fucking laughing.
"Alright guys, do you really think i'm that fucking stupid? Really?
Come on, give me more credit than that. Jesus."
Fucktard gets blocked.
I'm not dealing with that shit right now, now in the mood.

SarahTime
07-01-2013, 12:29 PM
Encoder's not loading for me right now.
Lame.
Ugh, maybe I should just log on later.
Not feeling it right now...

WOW.
After I posted that a guy came in asked to go private.
He fucking typed it!

Fucktard has gone private
"strip for me bb"
I ignore him.
"Show me that ass baby."
I ignore.
"bb?"
Fucktard has left private.
I start fucking laughing.
"Alright guys, do you really think i'm that fucking stupid? Really?
Come on, give me more credit than that. Jesus."
Fucktard gets blocked.
I'm not dealing with that shit right now, now in the mood.

He actually typed his name and then "has gone private"? LOL

VictoriaChaos
07-01-2013, 12:59 PM
Oh yeah, he typed his whole name out.

My ban hammer is thou mighty today.
It evened out though, I started bitching about just leaving and coming back later, some guy stopped me and took me exclusive for fingers.
Woot, woot.
Afterwards he thanked me and asked if I was glad I stayed.
Fuck yeah, I just got paid to do something I was doing for free three weeks ago.

Streamate hates me today.
I just got a message from someone who I've never seen in my room asking if my feet smell and sweat.
"I would live to know, thanks."
I expect this anywhere else but a cam site...

JaneBurgess
07-01-2013, 01:12 PM
Tons of performers have been trolled. Half the time it seems it's another cam performer, which I find pathetic. Tell them hell ya you love to eat bacon all day and then go oink, oink. Normally when you flip what they say to you back on them, they shut the hell up. They just want to get a rise out of you because they suck.




Thank you ABigNerd. Although I'm certainly not happy the BBW's are being trolled by some jackass, I'm somewhat comforted knowing that. I also began to think though. It can't hurt to rock more than one niche. Milfs ARE hot.

CinnimonKiss
07-01-2013, 01:34 PM
Are we not suppose to talk to the TV producers while doing Goldshow countdown? Yesterday I was joking around and said that my TV producers are like my pimp, guys in my room thought it was funny..its basically true Lmao but he didnt say anything...then I asked "was I not suppose to say that"? anyway I love joking with them once they do talk, I think its fun to interact with the producers! :P
Also did you guys know the tv producers watch the goldshows too......:great:

Marina Starr
07-01-2013, 01:40 PM
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Also did you guys know the tv producers watch the goldshows too......:great:

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laurielegs
07-01-2013, 02:00 PM
Also did you guys know the tv producers watch the goldshows too......:great:

Ewww. I never thought of that.

That totally creeps me out.

SarahTime
07-01-2013, 02:17 PM
Here's why I don't mind the "dating" ads...

Guy enters free chat says "I'm new to the site, I'm looking to meet girls in my area to fuck"

I said, "Welcome to the site! I'd be happy to help you with that in exclusive chat"

He waits a couple minutes.....then he enters exclusive chat for 13 minutes at $9.99/min - $46 in my pocket - and forgets that he was there to meet girls to fuck....

SOOOOOO............. you CAN make money off these guys if you play it right..... just sayin'.