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brittany_bitch
11-20-2013, 02:07 AM
Thanks alot :) For all of your responses. This payment issue has me worried has this happened much in the past? I am just wondering what is going on.
bootiebabe
11-20-2013, 02:09 AM
Got a reply back from liz to say my payment for the 3-9th nov will be put with this weeks funds, so will get two weeks worth this friday in my payoneer. Cannot get any sooner as payoneer payments will only be sent out on a friday.
I asked why it was missed and was told there was a problem with payoneer account so they couldn't send it......"sigh"
I had spoken to nissim the week before and it was all set up and also nissim confirmed no payment was sent so god knows what has gone wrong, but it would of been nice to know with an email saying we tried to send funds but it failed or something.
Never got an email back from support about this, only got a response last night from liz.
She did say about the glitch with payment history and it should be fixed but mine is still not showing, maybe due to the fact this is my first payment direct with streamate and the fact nothing was sent IDK.
Anyway feel a bit better now i have actually got a proper reply, will be looking tomorrow to see if its on the payments history and have a smile on my face again once i see an email from payoneer friday to say two weeks worth have been put in.
I would of had a much better last few days on cam if i knew what was going on from the start.
Re Anal - i was once an anal virgin, best bet is to start off with a tiny butt plug then work yourself up to a bigger one, your best off doing this by yourself rather than on cam and training your arse learning how to relax it.
I only use a glass toy for anal i could use a dildo but that would mean me having a butt plug up there first thing in the morning before cam and to be honest its not really what i want to be doing while i am drinking my cup of tea!
I only tend to do anal in exclusive and some some days just won't do anal, i have to be in the mood.
Never just think "oh i can stick a dildo up there no problem while on cam for the first time, i learnt from my mistake years ago trying that and my arse just clamped up and i was in so much pain trying to get the bugger out :/ not a good look on cam when your trying to be sexy ;)
A lot of guys are just happy to see your fingers go up there.
This probably is not the best thread to just talk about anal as cam-model-jess is right it does not just apply to girls on streamate, i would have thought there should be some kind of thread on here about toy use etc.
Saying that i do feel you, its nice to just ask a question and not being told you shouldn't be asking it here and to search.
Some girls have been on here longer than others i guess the ones that have been on here a long time get sick of the same questions being asked when there are other threads on them. Its like that on a lot of forums but there really is sooooo much info on here if you read loads of threads.
xxx
NikkitaExotica
11-20-2013, 07:03 AM
Ugh thank you Streamate for taking 3 days to reply to my email then just sending me the stock 'payment info' email that I had already received and doesn't answer anything. Awesome.
bootiebabe
11-20-2013, 07:18 AM
^ your waiting for payment for 10-16th nov right? You will not get it until this friday thats when payments go out for that week x
Missymissdemeanour
11-20-2013, 08:13 AM
I was wondering girls I do anal finger play in exclusive but I am working my way up to toys lol. i have heard I could get a butt plug what is the idea of that? DO I just plug it and leave it or play lol. Thanks.
I don't do anal at all but I know you buy 'trainer plugs'. They usually come in a pack of 3 different sizes, small medium and large. I assume the idea is you start with the small then go up in size as and when you get used to it. I'm not sure about leaving in for the shift, I think the guys just wanna see you put something in your ass lol
Snowy0Star
11-20-2013, 01:28 PM
I don't do anal at all but I know you buy 'trainer plugs'. They usually come in a pack of 3 different sizes, small medium and large. I assume the idea is you start with the small then go up in size as and when you get used to it. I'm not sure about leaving in for the shift, I think the guys just wanna see you put something in your ass lol
yeah i think so too i have stretching set on my amazon wishlist because im interested in anal . i had a bad experience with anal when a male friend tired to get me started with his own "thing" and it turned me off to anal ever since then but i did a pvt with my finger a few weeks back and it felt kinda good ....
JaneBurgess
11-20-2013, 01:46 PM
It makes me nervous when multiple performers are not paid without a vaild reason. Payoneer can be sent out at anytime, we all know that. I get payments from an indy site on Sundays.
sophiesecrets
11-20-2013, 01:47 PM
yep! hopeing all goes well this friday. I havent had any probs yet but if i do, im screwed, totally depending on that this week.
Snowy0Star
11-20-2013, 02:08 PM
It makes me nervous when multiple performers are not paid without a vaild reason. Payoneer can be sent out at anytime, we all know that. I get payments from an indy site on Sundays.
i think it has something to do with accounting at SM but i agree they need to make an exception and just pay up. i didnt make payout so this doesn't effect me but its the principle of it. id be royally pissed if my payments got backed up a week
JaneBurgess
11-20-2013, 02:23 PM
They should. So many of those performers only work on there so that is their only source of income. A week without pay would be real rough for them. :(
i think it has something to do with accounting at SM but i agree they need to make an exception and just pay up. i didnt make payout so this doesn't effect me but its the principle of it. id be royally pissed if my payments got backed up a week
JaneBurgess
11-20-2013, 02:26 PM
A big shout out to a custie named Murdock that is actually a cam performer that signed up under her man's info. Stupid cunt you need to worry about yourself and STOP bothering other performers while they are logged in. Your sorry ass would actually make money if you stayed in YOUR room and stopped trolling people you stupid whore. I don't ever bother anyone or go into other performers room without permission, so don't bother me.
Sorry just had to vent!!!
bigbootyjudy1
11-20-2013, 02:35 PM
What the heck i still havnt received my Streamate check.I usually get it by monday .I hate checks but im too greedy to pay payoneer an extra percentage.Oh well.
Staples
11-20-2013, 02:39 PM
What the heck i still havnt received my Streamate check.I usually get it by monday .I hate checks but im too greedy to pay payoneer an extra percentage.Oh well.
I haven't got mine either. Mail hasn't ran today but I'm hoping soon!
Staples
11-20-2013, 03:42 PM
Mail ran... Still no check :( I fly out in 3 days and I'm broke without that check grrr. I have other sources of income but none of those pay until after the first. This is so irritating. SM support told me to give the check up to 9 days to arrive before I start to worry so I'm giving it until Friday (the day before I leave of course). I make way more on SM than I do on CB but it doesn't do me any good if I don't actually get the money.
LustyLark
11-20-2013, 09:49 PM
Two things:
1) I got my cheque in the mail today and did a happy dance as it appears so many people seem to be having issues getting theirs
2) I just logged in and found out I have Gold Shows enabled! Weee can't wait to try that out tomorrow :)
Nocturnelle
11-20-2013, 11:19 PM
Ladies, I get paid through payoneer (on fridays, always). Do you think with thanksgiving next week that payment will be delayed?
temptingmodel
11-21-2013, 09:15 AM
if the holiday is not on Fri or Mon I think we should be good. The payments are sent on Fri
Sonikku
11-21-2013, 12:25 PM
I hate to ask this, but I'm having a derp time searching.
Is there a simplified list of all Streamate's rules anywhere on this forum or anywhere that are up to date; not just tips and advice?
Snowy0Star
11-21-2013, 12:28 PM
well the rules are on the sm website under the TOS - its probably i link in ur model account somewhere or a link u can only see when ur logged into ur model account
Vlodina
11-21-2013, 12:31 PM
I hate to ask this, but I'm having a derp time searching.
Is there a simplified list of all Streamate's rules anywhere on this forum or anywhere that are up to date; not just tips and advice?
http://streamatemodels.com/documents/en/conduct.pdf
Sonikku
11-21-2013, 12:33 PM
I feel dumb, but thankful haha.
Thanks.
<3
Sonikku
11-21-2013, 12:34 PM
Oh, also. Flashing ass isn't allowed either is it? Since it says no below the belt?
That was the main thing I was confused about, but I see girls doing it... so IDK.
Vlodina
11-21-2013, 12:39 PM
I'd just take that to mean no asshole, clit or vagina hole! :P
Sonikku
11-21-2013, 12:40 PM
Oh, haha. Good 'nough.
sexyred
11-21-2013, 03:18 PM
I know this has been asked before, but I wasn't sure if there was ever an answer. Do any of you other girls have issues with the sounds (entering chat, tips, tv show offer, etc) sporadically not working while streaming? It's definitely not something I do on my end and it doesn't seem like messing with the enable sound settings does much. Restarting my computer sometimes helps, but that isn't very practical when it keeps happening.
Does anyone know what causes this and any ways to fix it? It makes privates stressful because you have to be watching to know when you'll be thrown back into freechat and I often miss tips in freechat if I"m not paying attention. Thanks!
SarahTime
11-21-2013, 03:29 PM
I know this has been asked before, but I wasn't sure if there was ever an answer. Do any of you other girls have issues with the sounds (entering chat, tips, tv show offer, etc) sporadically not working while streaming? It's definitely not something I do on my end and it doesn't seem like messing with the enable sound settings does much. Restarting my computer sometimes helps, but that isn't very practical when it keeps happening.
Does anyone know what causes this and any ways to fix it? It makes privates stressful because you have to be watching to know when you'll be thrown back into freechat and I often miss tips in freechat if I"m not paying attention. Thanks!
Yes, this happens to me a lot! I haven't found a fix or anything tho, sorry.
laurielegs
11-21-2013, 03:32 PM
I know this has been asked before, but I wasn't sure if there was ever an answer. Do any of you other girls have issues with the sounds (entering chat, tips, tv show offer, etc) sporadically not working while streaming? It's definitely not something I do on my end and it doesn't seem like messing with the enable sound settings does much. Restarting my computer sometimes helps, but that isn't very practical when it keeps happening.
Does anyone know what causes this and any ways to fix it? It makes privates stressful because you have to be watching to know when you'll be thrown back into freechat and I often miss tips in freechat if I"m not paying attention. Thanks!
It must be something on streamate's end because this never happened to me until this past 2 weeks.
NikkitaExotica
11-21-2013, 04:24 PM
Still no payment to Payoneer...:headache:
Staples
11-21-2013, 04:26 PM
Still no payment to Payoneer...:headache:
And I still haven't received my check.
NikkitaExotica
11-21-2013, 04:32 PM
Ughhhhh what the hell is going on!? If nothing happens in the next 24 hours I will freak out!
Staples
11-21-2013, 04:40 PM
From what I understand, payoneer only pays on Fridays so you'll have to wait until tomorrow for anything to happen anyway. Don't quote me on that, that's just what I've gathered from reading.
Snowy0Star
11-21-2013, 05:22 PM
From what I understand, payoneer only pays on Fridays so you'll have to wait until tomorrow for anything to happen anyway. Don't quote me on that, that's just what I've gathered from reading.
pretty much when ur payment got messed last week ur next payment load got pushed back until tomorrow the loads come in between 11-1 EST i live in the east coast and i thats when i get paid. most of the time i get paid between 11-12 VERY RARELY do i get paid any later then 12 between 12-1 its happened a handful of times.
NikkitaExotica
11-21-2013, 05:35 PM
I swear I would have gone insane if it wasn't for this forum and you wonderful ladies! <3
Lexilexxx
11-21-2013, 06:03 PM
WTH is wrong with Streamate's traffic? Where do these, non paying people come from, and trying to convert them into paying traffic is almost impossible. I hope u models get paid soon, I've never had an issue with not getting paid, I have had issues about who the hell will cash it and banks not wanting to deal in Porn money.
JaneBurgess
11-21-2013, 07:02 PM
I agree. I mentioned it to Liz in an e-mail. This traffic is HORRIBLE. They don't want to talk, they think a dollar tip in free chat equals full nudity and they sure don't want to buy shows. It really kills your happy, positive thinking for sure. I'm starting on a new site next week so I hope that site has better traffic. Cross your fingers for me please
WTH is wrong with Streamate's traffic? Where do these, non paying people come from, and trying to convert them into paying traffic is almost impossible. I hope u models get paid soon, I've never had an issue with not getting paid, I have had issues about who the hell will cash it and banks not wanting to deal in Porn money.
Snowy0Star
11-21-2013, 07:07 PM
I agree. I mentioned it to Liz in an e-mail. This traffic is HORRIBLE. They don't want to talk, they think a dollar tip in free chat equals full nudity and they sure don't want to buy shows. It really kills your happy, positive thinking for sure. I'm starting on a new site next week so I hope that site has better traffic. Cross your fingers for me please
what did she say about it
NikkitaExotica
11-21-2013, 07:29 PM
So many beggars and cheap skates this past week. Its like pulling teeth to get a private and exclusive is out of the question!
JaneBurgess
11-21-2013, 07:32 PM
Honestly they seem to think everything is fine and good. Seriously? When you have drones of performers quitting or split camming and super unhappy that is not fine. This thread is a good example of what performers think. 99 percent of it is not happy at all. Performers are frustrated and losing money. If I read these threads I would stop with the dating traffic and go back to buying better traffic. I would make Gold shows at least a buck a minute, crack down on the performers that do shows for free in free chat, stop with the site becoming MFC and revert back to the way it was a couple of years ago. We are paying 65 to be sent traffic, it should be GOOD traffic. If you arent buying traffic anymore than pay us 50 percent.
The only people happy about this is the other cam sites. Unhappy performers will just go to another cam site to make money.
what did she say about it
Lexilexxx
11-22-2013, 12:54 AM
I agree. I mentioned it to Liz in an e-mail. This traffic is HORRIBLE. They don't want to talk, they think a dollar tip in free chat equals full nudity and they sure don't want to buy shows. It really kills your happy, positive thinking for sure. I'm starting on a new site next week so I hope that site has better traffic. Cross your fingers for me please
Finger's crossed, I might have to head to a new place too. I hope not, but I have before.
Blovely
11-22-2013, 02:02 AM
We are paying 65 to be sent traffic, it should be GOOD traffic. If you arent buying traffic anymore than pay us 50 percent.
http://www.sharegif.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Justin-bieber-yes-gif.gif
bootiebabe
11-22-2013, 03:02 AM
Still no payment to Payoneer...:headache:
I keep saying your be paid today, you are still on about the week 10-16th that pay day won't be till today! So streamate are not slow have not missed your payment at all.
You work one week get paid it the following friday.
Your pay for that week will go in today.
x
They did miss my payment as i was on about the 3-9th nov which they completely missed.
Its now showing on my payment history so i am expecting two weeks money today.
bootiebabe
11-22-2013, 03:11 AM
Are there any UK girls that use the wire payment?
Does the money hit your account on a friday or is it no better than payoneer and you still have to wait a 3-4 days before it hits your account to be able to have the funds available?
I have come off DP and with both options depending on your earnings of course it is much better to use payoneer or wire.
Xmas is coming up and i would like to have an extra week for money so will change to wire if the funds hit your account friday and your able to draw on them quicker than payoneer.
trouble is sm mucked up my payment once already so don't want this happening again, if i change to wire today after payoneer payment has gone will that give sm enough time to pay me for this week on friday the 29th?
If the wire is not changed in time will they still pay me with my method of payment now which is payoneer? or will it mean it get stuffed up again and i will have to lose a week until they change it to wire?
do not want to shoot myself in the foot so close to xmas.
Any help much appreciated x
h0ttie
11-22-2013, 03:26 AM
Honestly they seem to think everything is fine and good.
they know how much they are profiting per month so if they think it's fine I would assume it is. just because girls complain doesn't mean there isn't money to be made, has there ever been a time where people didn't complain about streamate? if there was i never saw it lol
Snowy0Star
11-22-2013, 06:49 AM
^ but thats what camming is all about hustling and proving to them ur worth the price u ask for no matter how much u charge if they like u enuf they'll pay whatever rate you ask for .
my issue is im getting like 1 person in my room every 5 min and then they leave as soon as they get in my room ive been spending more time in an empty room then i have been with ppl and the ppl that do come in either leave right away or wont go pvt and demand for free flashes and expect what they want to be done in free chat or say they'll go pvt then just leave my room. I cant hustle a white screen on my computer so i dont know what to do about this :/
Glasses
11-22-2013, 07:58 AM
^ but thats what camming is all about hustling and proving to them ur worth the price u ask for no matter how much u charge if they like u enuf they'll pay whatever rate you ask for .
my issue is im getting like 1 person in my room every 5 min and then they leave as soon as they get in my room ive been spending more time in an empty room then i have been with ppl and the ppl that do come in either leave right away or wont go pvt and demand for free flashes and expect what they want to be done in free chat or say they'll go pvt then just leave my room. I cant hustle a white screen on my computer so i dont know what to do about this :/
They don't even have to come to your room, if they are signed in. I'm sure it was mentioned previously, but they can just hoover over profile pictures and see what's going on in the room, whithout actually entering. Or maybe they are watching without signing in, so they are invisible and they come in if they saw something worthy of signing in. I always assume someone is watching and seeing if there is anything interesting to come in for. So I kinda always try to hustle someone even if noone is there. Or at least I try to look like I'm doing so.
Other: Did you check your feed on your cammodels link? Is it fine?
Snowy0Star
11-22-2013, 08:05 AM
They don't even have to come to your room, if they are signed in. I'm sure it was mentioned previously, but they can just hoover over profile pictures and see what's going on in the room, whithout actually entering. Or maybe they are watching without signing in, so they are invisible and they come in if they saw something worthy of signing in. I always assume someone is watching and seeing if there is anything interesting to come in for. So I kinda always try to hustle someone even if noone is there. Or at least I try to look like I'm doing so.
Other: Did you check your feed on your cammodels link? Is it fine?
yeah i ask almost everyday and most times its fine so i dunno :/ im so uncreative tho i cant talk to myslef what kind of things should i talk about ? just anything or act like im trying to hustle guys into pvt and im getting a lot of guys in my room and theyre all just talking to me?
audritwo
11-22-2013, 08:10 AM
Don't mean to get off the current subject. But I have terrible eyes, I rather be sitting on my couch and not be super close to my monitor. That being said I have my font maxed completely in chat, and I still have issues seeing. Not to mention I cannot see who is in my room or if I'm doing a Gold Show how much until goal. I know you can't zoom the browser because of SM performer interface being only flash. I really don't want to drag my TV into my camroom.
That being said... Is there a way to make my whole interface bigger instead of just the chat. Also I would love to make the chat bigger.
Glasses
11-22-2013, 08:26 AM
yeah i ask almost everyday and most times its fine so i dunno :/ im so uncreative tho i cant talk to myslef what kind of things should i talk about ? just anything or act like im trying to hustle guys into pvt and im getting a lot of guys in my room and theyre all just talking to me?
Whichever. I don't have lines to memorize for you or anything, you have to come up with something that suits you and makes you comfortable. It can be anything. Just try something, and if you don't like it or it doesn't work, try something else that comes into your mind. You have nothing to lose.
@audri I don't know I have the same problem. If I place the monitor too far away I can't see shit. But if I keep it as close as I can see everything then I don't have enough space between the sofa and the desk+monitor to move around.
audritwo
11-22-2013, 08:33 AM
@audri I don't know I have the same problem. If I place the monitor too far away I can't see shit. But if I keep it as close as I can see everything then I don't have enough space between the sofa and the desk+monitor to move around.
Agree, My partner was like well move your couch closer to the screen. Are you kidding me? That would look so fucking stupid.
BlueBunny
11-22-2013, 08:58 AM
I have not checked my email yet, but in my sm account it now shows payment forweek of nov 10 as having been sent. Just thought id update for those who recently left dp like me.