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TheBrownFox
11-19-2012, 05:41 AM
This happen to me twice last week, had a guy go into the private (non exclusive) never saw him in the room or heard the sound, didn't know he was there until I heard the slamming door sound. I also had 2 different guys try to do c2c within 20 min of each other and all I would see is the little black box and then a youcam it logo in the corner and then nothing, disappeared. and never connected c2c with him. SM said it was on the guys end, but just weird it happened to 2 different guys.
It seems like any time I e-mail SM about an issue, they are quick to place the blame on anyone else BUT themselves...lol. I've e-mailed them about issues that MANY of us have had, and they still claimed they "never received reports about that issue." Yeah, okay.....
They pretty much said to me "If you don't have an i7 computer, you're gonna have problems." Now I guess some models would hear that and think "Well, why the fuck am I wasting my time on this site then?" But I'm not gonna think like that. I admit that SM has been/will be difficult to deal with on my current laptop, but since i7 computers don't just grow on trees, I'm gonna make do with what I've got for now. This laptop I have wasn't exactly cheap.....
The money I earn from SM daily pay and the other sites I'm on will be able to get me a new laptop soon enough, and I'm gonna decorate that boring colored laptop with a pretty pink laptop skin too, as soon as I get it...lol. :P
Even though I sometimes have sound issues on there (having to exit and re-enter, so guys can hear my sound again), I'm still capable of getting Gold in public chat and getting exclusives. So I still think that, despite my issues on there, SM is very well worth it, and can only get better for me in the near future when I have a good amount of regulars and a new laptop. And no cam score...yay!
Cam_Model_Jess
11-19-2012, 06:45 AM
Thanks, Many Roses! I forgot that I wouldn't get the pop-up. THe guy's name had a "1" in front of it but I don't remember him, which was another weird thing. He was probably one of the guys that popped in for a minute and logged off. I'll look back through my log. Jerk. I'll ban him next time.
They get a "1" if they've tipped you or if they've been in private 1 min and 1 sec. I have a lot of those I don't remember. But most of my tips are $5, so I'm not sure if a $1 tip gets them a number.
CamGirl4M
11-19-2012, 08:03 AM
I looked back at my log and he was someone that had tipped $5, he had never taken me private.
I've also had the issue mentioned above where the guy tries to do cam2cam and all I end up seeing is the black box with YouCam logo so I just ended the cam2cam and told the guy sorry. Neither one ended the session, thankfully, but I did wonder what was up.
They get a "1" if they've tipped you or if they've been in private 1 min and 1 sec. I have a lot of those I don't remember. But most of my tips are $5, so I'm not sure if a $1 tip gets them a number.
lifetravelergirl
11-19-2012, 09:01 AM
I have had guys think they were being sneaky by typing in the free chat, " Has tipped you 20 GOLD." But they never actually tipped me and it never showed up in my earnings. They always do it before asking for stuff in free chat.
Also I have noticed that guys in free chat who have fetishes involving feet and clothing tend to be the worst time wasters and the cheapest guys who almost never spend any money ever. I swear they are only there to waste your time or jerk off in free chat to whatever clothing they asked you to show them. As soon as someone mentions feet or asks me about other clothing, nylons and lingerie I ignore them and start talking to other guys or take a break from cam.
JackAlexander
11-19-2012, 11:36 AM
I could not agree more! I finally said screw it and took it off.
I honestly was trying to find my placement on SM as I am still pretty new and curious. WHOOOOOAAAAA - DOUBLED my average per hour rate. Weird though, seems like I am still getting people from the same states as before the geo blocker so not sure what changed.
HOWEVER, I still have the United Arab Emirates blocked as a suggestion from here. Seems to work very well in keeping the beggars down to a minimum.
Wheres my check???! I have regular mail check, I use to do fedex but then find myself still not cashing it until monday. My old SM account I got regular checks on mondays without any problems. However I just made a new sm account and this would of been my first check on it. I had asked to be removed from the 3 week delay but are wondering if support had done so. Going to mail box and not seeing check is very disappointing!! >:[
ManyRoses
11-19-2012, 12:51 PM
I looked back at my log and he was someone that had tipped $5, he had never taken me private.
I've also had the issue mentioned above where the guy tries to do cam2cam and all I end up seeing is the black box with YouCam logo so I just ended the cam2cam and told the guy sorry. Neither one ended the session, thankfully, but I did wonder what was up.
That cam issue is on the custy end, not SM's fault.
It's when they haven't set up their cam properly - same as if you have YOUR cam set up to run through another programe (like ManyCam) but haven't turned on ManyCam - you will just see a box saying "please turn on ManyCam". Definitely NOT a SM issue there - usually I tell guys to double check their cam because it isn't set up properly, and they get it sorted out.
AshleyRyder
11-19-2012, 04:00 PM
Wheres my check???! I have regular mail check, I use to do fedex but then find myself still not cashing it until monday. My old SM account I got regular checks on mondays without any problems. However I just made a new sm account and this would of been my first check on it. I had asked to be removed from the 3 week delay but are wondering if support had done so. Going to mail box and not seeing check is very disappointing!! >:[
I would not get upset just yet. My first check came on week 2 of my account being open. I've never heard of someone asking SM to remove the delay, so I can't give you any info on that, but I wouldn't worry until week 3 comes. I know it's easy to get impatient when it comes to money.
SarahTime
11-19-2012, 08:17 PM
They get a "1" if they've tipped you or if they've been in private 1 min and 1 sec. I have a lot of those I don't remember. But most of my tips are $5, so I'm not sure if a $1 tip gets them a number.
I have guys who have spent for cheap gold shows and don't have numbers. I think if they spend less than $5 they don't get a number.
THICKNSWEET
11-20-2012, 04:08 AM
I have guys who have spent for cheap gold shows and don't have numbers. I think if they spend less than $5 they don't get a number. yes I do tip girls so once i spent 5 i got a 1 next to my name and a 4 cent discount. sarah love your post by the way.
LittleSexBunny
11-26-2012, 06:16 PM
Anyone else see how streamate was turning into MFC today?
Vela Valentine
11-26-2012, 06:47 PM
How so, Bunny?
CamGirl4M
11-26-2012, 07:02 PM
I was having encoder issues last night. Couldn't figure it out. I had a 3-8 second lag time going on. THe audio & video matched, just lagged. I have never really checked my feed before, so I don't know if this has been going on a lot, but maybe this is why I have been having such varied results. ? I am camming with a late 2009 iMac (3.06GHz Intel Core Duo) with 4G RAM. I check my internet speed every night and always get 33mps download and 4.5 upload. I'm using a Logitech C920. I checked my CPU usage while using the encoder and it was up to 55-70% with the bare minimum open to cam. As soon as I turned off the encoder, it dropped to 7%. What a hog that encoder is!!!
I had been doing pretty well since I lost my "New Model" status the other day. I am either towards the bottom of the first page or at the top of the second. So needless to say I was bummed to have a $0 night. I logged off and then logged on without the encoder and everything was fine. I logged off again, then checked other models' feeds and saw some of them were having issues, too. The model in the #1 spot had a freezing issue.
The only thing I can do is upgrade and buy more RAM, so I ordered 2-4G RAM cards that will arrive Wed. Hope it helps! Any other suggestions would be greatly appreciated! I have read every thread I can find on the topic.
TriXieBaby
11-26-2012, 10:07 PM
I just started at SM on Friday. I had no idea what to expect as I've never done anything like it. I really enjoy it too! I love being able to express my sexuality! I'm currently expecting (7 months a long) and am getting as much work time in right now as possible. Because once I give birth I'm not sure when I'm going to be able to get back on /: Which makes me a little sad since I finally found a job I truly enjoy. Boo. But I cannot wait to meet my babygirl!! So in the end all is well....I got gold shows enabled today and also opted in for the TV broadcast. I've done one gold show so far & yet to try the TV broadcast.
funnymoney
11-27-2012, 02:58 PM
Is there a phone option on SM that I'm not aware of because I have gotten asked for phone with 2 guys so far, if so, is there a separate charge for phone and for they get your actually cell number to phone you or what?
TriXieBaby
11-27-2012, 03:06 PM
Yes there is a phone option. On your profile page underneath profile overview there is a part that says My Phone Numbers. Click edit and add your number. I'm not for sure if they can see your number or not? But just in case I set up a google voice phone number for mine. And I offer it in exclusive only since in premium it could get confusing with more than one person in there.
PrincessLuna
11-27-2012, 03:08 PM
No, they never see your number. It's actually just like Google Voice; the program calls you both individually and then connects the call together. Neither party ever has access to the other's number.
TriXieBaby
11-27-2012, 03:11 PM
Awesome to know! I haven't used the phone yet. I honestly don't get the point of it if I have audio already. I had two people ask about it but they never did it.
Jessica1001
11-27-2012, 03:11 PM
Is there a phone option on SM that I'm not aware of because I have gotten asked for phone with 2 guys so far, if so, is there a separate charge for phone and for they get your actually cell number to phone you or what?
There is no separate charge. Most girls only offer it in exclusive though, because in premium it is off-putting to the other guys to see you on the phone.
They cannot see your number, but the jury is still out on whether or not they can hear your voicemail message if you fail to pick up or if there is a glitch. I know that when the system has messed up for me in the past, I was able to hear a customer's voicemail recording. For this reason, I suggest you either use a google voice # or ensure that your outgoing voicemail message just says "hi there! I'm not home right now, leave a message!" or something similar, rather than "Hi, you've reached RealName at 212-Real-Number." It SHOULDN'T mess up this way, but better safe than sorry.
funnymoney
11-27-2012, 03:13 PM
Ok thanks ladies. Since I already have my audio on, I guess the point of them wanting the phone option is so they don't have to type back to me when I speak?
I will use my Google number as well
TriXieBaby
11-27-2012, 03:16 PM
Since I already have my audio on, I guess the point of them wanting the phone option is so they don't have to type back to me when I speak?
Yeah, that makes sense. Didn't think of that.
PrincessLuna
11-27-2012, 03:16 PM
It's really just more personable. They don't have to type and they can hear you more clearly without headphones. Plus a lot of men do not have webcams/microphones so it's an easy method. I don't offer it. I'm not a very good actress and get wigged out easily when it comes to other people. I see the logic behind it, but I've never been able to get over that mental hump.
Jessica1001
11-27-2012, 03:17 PM
Ok thanks ladies. Since I already have my audio on, I guess the point of them wanting the phone option is so they don't have to type back to me when I speak?
Or they don't want your audio to be coming through the speakers (someone in the next room? wife?), and they either don't have headphones or they are in a physical position where headphones are unwieldy.
SweetPinkCupcake
11-27-2012, 03:23 PM
I feel that phone is a great tool and it's a good thing to actively push to your customers. Any exclusive I have with phone, I get happy because I know it will be a longer private. It's just more 'personal' and after awhile gets the guy hooked on you. At least that was always my experience. . .
TriXieBaby
11-27-2012, 03:32 PM
Yeah I do as much as possible for the income $. Except for the men who try to get me talking to them outside of streamate. Ick, that's why I be straight up about being married. I have men tell me they will send me money to have a sexy e-mail friend. Uhhhhh, that's why I'm on streamate so you can send me money that way AND I can please you. DUH!
Rosexxxx
11-27-2012, 04:14 PM
Is anybody having a problem trying to get on sm? I clicked the start my show button and I got loading interface then it says contact support.
TriXieBaby
11-27-2012, 04:17 PM
It's working for me. Maybe restart your pc, see if that works.
CarmenF
11-27-2012, 04:29 PM
No, they never see your number. It's actually just like Google Voice; the program calls you both individually and then connects the call together. Neither party ever has access to the other's number.
Like as phone calling to your phone number without access to it or like voip?? Does it use internet connection or do they use their phone? Could get expensive or calls outsid us
Benefit
11-27-2012, 11:23 PM
Was SM being glitchy for anyone else tonight? I'm using an i7 computer, but several times tonight my cam would just show as "loading" for the guys. Then I would need to restart my cam, but it would just happen again later. It also lost connection a couple of times. I had to stop privates a couple of times because of it. Did anyone else have this issue tonight or one similar?
webcamcutie
11-27-2012, 11:33 PM
Yeah keeps doing it to me too.
Awfully dead, site keeps bumping me offline for no random reason.
I swear to god lately, this week has been terrible, and now they are having issues since the site crashed earlier, SM used to be good, they need to fix their shit, seriously, this is very tiresome.
Benefit
11-27-2012, 11:42 PM
I'm sorry you had problems, but I'm glad it wasn't just me. SM was driving me nuts tonight with their connection issues. I knew something was up. Also, one minute my room would have 2 people, and the next minute it had 20 ... it was so weird.
webcamcutie
11-27-2012, 11:54 PM
Yeah that happens to me all the time! from like 15-20 guys they all disappear then no one for 5-10 mins, thought it was just me or a shitty internet connection, glad to know its the site acting like a POS :D
0TaraM
11-28-2012, 12:20 AM
Yeh. Contact support -> Restart your brownser, shut down and reopen encorder, login to your account again. When I login I will get guys in to my room, but then it drops down and silence. If I login and logout and then again login and logout I´ll get more guys.. Maybe it´s some advertising at first gets guys to my room or maybe camcorder helps..(let`see how can camcorder works when I´ll get it..)Maybe some guys has bad connection and video doesn´t works.
ManyRoses
11-28-2012, 11:25 AM
With the phone - they CAN hear your voicemail if you don't pick up, so like Jessica said, make sure that your voicemail message doesn't give anything away.
Guys like it because you can talk in real time - zero delays, and they can talk too, rather than typing.
Some also like it because they want you to hear them cum. Mmmm.....*shudder.
lifetravelergirl
11-30-2012, 12:30 AM
So if I add my phone number to my Streamate account I don't have to worry about customers finding out my number and all I have to do is to make certain that I don't have a message that gives away anything in case I don't answer in time? I have a pay as I go phone with 1500 minutes per month, I am guessing that time would never get used up on Streamate? If it did I would be rich! O_O
Oh and there is a guy on Streamate who goes by Tapegag30, and his deal is to trick girls into dressing up for him and putting a piece of tape over their mouths (promising to take you exclusive after you are dressed) then he leaves your free chat room and the gag is on you. After one time of being "gagged" (ha ha, cleaver pun), I will no longer do anything before a session unless I am tipped. Otherwise I will get dressed up in private or exclusive.
Very funny gag Tapegag30 (not).
Vela Valentine
11-30-2012, 12:41 AM
Lifetravel, if they are serious about me performing their request, they WAIT while I set up, IN exclusive. I had a guy do it before, wait while I moved my entire cam setup in the bathroom & put on another outfit, etc, before even getting to the show & he stayed the entire time. Never take their requests to do this bb and I take u pvt seriously.... Cuz 97% of the time.... They dip out.
kittykrane
11-30-2012, 06:58 AM
Lifetravel,
Like Vela said...don't do it...I fell for it too back in my early camming days... They still do it all the time...You even have to watch out for the ones who ask to see your shoes..sounds so simple, but as soon as they seem them they leave. Sometimes I'll show them if they are right next to me, but I flash them really quick.
LittleLexy
11-30-2012, 11:07 AM
UGHHH those guys drive me nuts. It happens to me quite often...and always I get pissed when they do it. I still tend to be a little giving on the getting ready before the show. It's getting to the point though that I see myself being more strict about that. I do take into consideration the customer too. If its a awesome regular who always does nice shows..I am more nice to them and will give a little more of myself.
TheBrownFox
11-30-2012, 12:03 PM
Happy Friday! :)
*I've posted the following message on another forum too, and wanted to copy/paste it here to get your opinions as well.*
Often times on Streamate, I'll be standing up and teasing, and then the moment I sit back down, that's when someone enters the room and asks me to stand up. :doh: Happens all the time. I feel like many of the guys who do that will just keep asking you to do simple stuff until you refuse to. It's like they figure it's the smartest way to make a request without actually asking for a flash (they know they'll have to tip for a flash).
As for me standing up and turning around...well, those are things I just do naturally at my desired intervals when I'm standing and teasing...lol. If they'd stick around in the room long enough, they'd see that.
Also, out of curiosity...how do you ladies handle guys who (most likely, have their cocks in their hands) just want to ask you a million questions about your sexcapades and favorite position, etc? At some point, do you finally ask them to tip or go private, or do you just proceed with their sex questions interview? LOL.
ManyRoses
11-30-2012, 12:10 PM
^^^^ I know the feeling when you have been doing something for free - dancing, moving around, whatever - and then stop and a guy requests it. It feels kinda ridiculous to ask for a tip to do something you were just doing for free, but if you don't, you are putting yourself at the mercy of the beggars!! I get around it by being honest. I say "If you want to request something, you just have to ask with a little gold....otherwise I only do things when I want to! After all...I'm a selfish little slut! Teehee!!!!" Makes it clear that if they want me to do something on request, they have to give gold, but that I may do things for free if I feel like it.
As for the interviewers - I try to lure the fuckers into pvt...I'll throw out a detail or two about their question....and then giggle and act all horny/shy (its a delicate balance, that one!) and say "oooh....I would LOVE to tell you ALL about it...but not here when anyone can hear me! Lets go pvt bb, and then I can tell you all kinds of things!".
JGB2009
11-30-2012, 12:15 PM
Happy Friday! :)
*I've posted the following message on another forum too, and wanted to copy/paste it here to get your opinions as well.*
Often times on Streamate, I'll be standing up and teasing, and then the moment I sit back down, that's when someone enters the room and asks me to stand up. :doh: Happens all the time. I feel like many of the guys who do that will just keep asking you to do simple stuff until you refuse to. It's like they figure it's the smartest way to make a request without actually asking for a flash (they know they'll have to tip for a flash).
As for me standing up and turning around...well, those are things I just do naturally at my desired intervals when I'm standing and teasing...lol. If they'd stick around in the room long enough, they'd see that.
Also, out of curiosity...how do you ladies handle guys who (most likely, have their cocks in their hands) just want to ask you a million questions about your sexcapades and favorite position, etc? At some point, do you finally ask them to tip or go private, or do you just proceed with their sex questions interview? LOL.
If someone ask me questions anything related to sex. I just flat out say I dont answer those kind of questions in free chat and explain that I only answer those kind of questions in private. Sometimes they will go private after I say that, but for the ones who don't I just figure they are looking for something for free to help them get off. Those kind of men are totally not worth it...
SarahTime
11-30-2012, 03:16 PM
If someone ask me questions anything related to sex. I just flat out say I dont answer those kind of questions in free chat and explain that I only answer those kind of questions in private. Sometimes they will go private after I say that, but for the ones who don't I just figure they are looking for something for free to help them get off. Those kind of men are totally not worth it...
And of course, if they do take you private, don't answer the question until the 30 seconds has passed! :D
I've had so many guys jump into private and then immediately want to know the answer, and if I don't answer right away, they leave. Just looking for a freebie, even if it's a non nude one!
JGB2009
11-30-2012, 05:08 PM
lol yea very true....some men try to be so sneaky
And of course, if they do take you private, don't answer the question until the 30 seconds has passed! :D
I've had so many guys jump into private and then immediately want to know the answer, and if I don't answer right away, they leave. Just looking for a freebie, even if it's a non nude one!
TheBrownFox
11-30-2012, 05:52 PM
You even have to watch out for the ones who ask to see your shoes..sounds so simple, but as soon as they seem them they leave. Sometimes I'll show them if they are right next to me, but I flash them really quick.
Exactly! Because I'm not about to get up to go search for something for free (which also takes my focus away from the cam and chat). When they say to put on this and that before private, I never do. I tell them I'll put it on IN private...lol.
lifetravelergirl
11-30-2012, 05:54 PM
Happy Friday! :)
Also, out of curiosity...how do you ladies handle guys who (most likely, have their cocks in their hands) just want to ask you a million questions about your sexcapades and favorite position, etc? At some point, do you finally ask them to tip or go private, or do you just proceed with their sex questions interview? LOL.
First I just want to say thank you ^_^ to all the fantastic women on this site, without all your help and advice I would just be lost O_o ...
When a guy starts asking about my sexcapades and favorite position, etc., I may answer a question or two but then I say, "Some of the people in my chatroom don't want to hear about this (I always disable party chat so customers can't see what other people are saying), If you want more details you are going to have to take me exclusive where we can talk about whatever you want.
Recently some guy who has tipped me in the past (but who now thinks I don't deserve his tips I guess) I had mentioned I had to be quiet because there are people downstairs trying to sleep. He asks if they are roomates and then he wants to know how many people live in the same house with me. This is the guy who thinks I need to have an Amazon Wish List that is entirely anonymous (kidding) because it only shows your City and State (says he). Anyway... it is like he is always in my chat room compiling information on me, like writing a book maybe or sizing me up for rape.
What I am beginning to realize is that guys deserve nothing from us unless they are willing to pay for it. I believe in being courteous (at least I try to be) but all of these questions are designed to allow guys to get something for nothing. The guys who take me private, it is like they just jump into my chat and BOOM, before I even know what is happening I am in a private with them. Guys who want to know what you do in private, guys who want to know about your sexual habits, guys who are compiling information on you, guys who need a baby sitter and are always in your room, guys who start talking about imaginary scenarios, narrating what they want to do with you, 90% of the time (or more) they are there to waste your time. I frequently ban these guys, more and more. Also just like in strip clubs I have found that regulars tend to have an expiration date and they go bad after a while.
The problem is, if you focus your attention on the 90% who are there to waste your time and distract you, you may miss out on an opportunity to make some money.
Also no one (absolutely no one) has been tipping me lately. Apparently I have been tagged with #noob, well things are about to change.
TheBrownFox
11-30-2012, 05:57 PM
Thanks for the responses, ladies! It sounds like we're all pretty much on the same page here. :)
I use the first 30 seconds (on ImLive, it's the first 20 seconds) to smile and be like "Hey, how's it goin'?" and "You can see and hear me ok, right? Just making sure." :) LOL.
MommieLongLegs
11-30-2012, 09:06 PM
I don't talk about fave positions, answer a million questions or indulge in the "I have X issue. Act like you care for free" guys.
They're wasting my time and it pisses me off. You're not gonna sit in my room and talk to me for an hour either, whether you've gone private before or not. My free time is for attracting paying clients.
Also, if a random guy comes in my room and immediately goes private and quickly turns on his cam, I let the 15-sec timer run out and ask what he wants etc. instead of automatically clicking yes or whatever it is. Once or twice, I've had guys leave as soon as they knew I'd seen their dick, before the 30 seconds was up. Now, time wasters will leave after 5 seconds because I didn't opened their cam fast enough lol.
Sunnylexie
11-30-2012, 09:37 PM
Lifetravel, if they are serious about me performing their request, they WAIT while I set up, IN exclusive. I had a guy do it before, wait while I moved my entire cam setup in the bathroom & put on another outfit, etc, before even getting to the show & he stayed the entire time. Never take their requests to do this bb and I take u pvt seriously.... Cuz 97% of the time.... They dip out.
UGHHH those guys drive me nuts. It happens to me quite often...and always I get pissed when they do it. I still tend to be a little giving on the getting ready before the show. It's getting to the point though that I see myself being more strict about that. I do take into consideration the customer too. If its a awesome regular who always does nice shows..I am more nice to them and will give a little more of myself.
I'm not about to get up to go search for something for free (which also takes my focus away from the cam and chat). When they say to put on this and that before private, I never do. I tell them I'll put it on IN private...lol.
How do you explain them why you don't want to do the preparations for the show beforehand (or agree to do just some certain part of it)? Or you just tell them it's done in the paid section and they are free to take it or leave it? This hs always been a problem to me(((
GracieBlue
12-01-2012, 01:11 AM
^^^ I always say I'm not going to leave my room and ignore the other guys in a sweet voice. Then in my head I say f*ck no I'm not moving unless we go private!
TheBrownFox
12-01-2012, 08:02 AM
How do you explain them why you don't want to do the preparations for the show beforehand (or agree to do just some certain part of it)? Or you just tell them it's done in the paid section and they are free to take it or leave it? This hs always been a problem to me(((
What sucks is that no matter how nicely it's worded, there will still be some guys thinking we're "money whores" (gold-diggers?) who put a price tag on everything...lol. But the fact is that they're in FREE chat telling sexy adult cam models to "gimmie a sample, bb." If this had been, say, ImLive or AdultWork, the broke-asses wouldn't even get to see me unless they paid my private chat rate. Any guy who wants a "sample" can look at a model's profile photos to see "how dat ass look." LOL! I'm not giving guys a free 'show them how I suck on my brown dildo for a quick minute' sample. Samples are those little things that Avon sales reps. stick inside the Avon catalogs they hand out...lol.
Here's an example of something you could say:
"I'd love to model my sexy heels for you in exclusive, and I know exactly where they are! Just let me know when you're ready." But then don't sit there WAITING for him to click the button for exclusive, because now you're giving extra attention to a guy who could just be getting you hyped up over nothing. After you smile and say the above to him, continue focusing on the rest of your public chat too when guys enter the room and tell you hi. If this dude is serious, he'll click that button for private or exclusive. And remember to draw out those 30 seconds by saying hey, and maybe tell him the size of the heels you're about to put on, etc.