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Peachesxo
11-07-2015, 08:51 PM
Are women allowed to use sex toys in public free chat on Streamate? I am watching some chick right now on streamate and she is using a vibrator in free chat just talking to people in her room o_o
Below the waist nudity is not allowed, so I guess the answer to your question depends on if she is wearing panties or not.
Marina Starr
11-07-2015, 08:51 PM
You can use and show toys as long as your snatch is not showing. No masturbation in free chat either.
Are women allowed to use sex toys in public free chat on Streamate? I am watching some chick right now on streamate and she is using a vibrator in free chat just talking to people in her room o_o
edit: I should clarify....the vibrator is under her panties and she's just moving it around lol....also, I am asking just because i'v never seen anything that explicit in free chat before lol
CanadianRuby
11-07-2015, 09:40 PM
I finished camming on SM after a shift a year or so ago and went lurking abound to see what others are doing. I found a very beautiful Colombian girl sitting in a chair that leaned back. She started a $20 show 10 minutes with a $1.00 buy in. She made if very fast. So I thought why not. $1.00.
By the time she ended her show she had a big dildo in her ass and a vibrator in her pussy. Not unusual right? Not so fast. She was also making breast milk squirt out of her boobs at the same time. When her show ended my mouth was hanging open and I was in shock. I went to bed depressed thinking how in the world will I make money on this site with a circus show like that for a buck. lol! True story.
How much does that mean she earned? Like $7?
I like chipping in for goldshows, especially if I know the cam girl and/or it's really slow for them etc. But...I find gold shows seem to take forever to get guys to chip in. Like, there will be 40 men in the room but all they are doing is sitting there watch. Granted, it doesn't really help if the woman is topless for 10 minutes in her room with a goldshow countdown going lol.
Yeah I wouldn't do all that for 7 bucks o_o Maybe like....$200 my cut haha.
IvyRose
11-07-2015, 09:56 PM
I finished camming on SM after a shift a year or so ago and went lurking abound to see what others are doing. I found a very beautiful Colombian girl sitting in a chair that leaned back. She started a $20 show 10 minutes with a $1.00 buy in. She made if very fast. So I thought why not. $1.00.
By the time she ended her show she had a big dildo in her ass and a vibrator in her pussy. Not unusual right? Not so fast. She was also making breast milk squirt out of her boobs at the same time. When her show ended my mouth was hanging open and I was in shock. I went to bed depressed thinking how in the world will I make money on this site with a circus show like that for a buck. lol! True story.
Even with those kind of gs going on, sm luckily has lots of gents looking for quality time (1 on 1 or pvt) and are willing to spend big for it.
I once felt depressed too when a "member" was spamming another girls room inside my freechat - goldshow THREEsome, hot young girlS, doing anal and all that jazz with the THREE of them for 1G buy in and 50dollar goal. Even that moment I kept selling my shows and they kept buying my pvt and excls.
Keep confident, believe in your worth and stand your ground. There is only one you.
Promised
11-08-2015, 01:53 AM
Sometimes when i'm doing gold shows I will put an incentive for highest tipper. I always make it something along these lines "High Tipper gets custom vid at goal ONLY" but say if the goal is 100 and we get to 85 I will start the show instead of letting it cancel. Almost everytime this happens the high tipper still feels like they deserve the "prize" even if their high tip wasn't that much "like 10 bucks" or something. One person who only tipped 10 towards a show, waited exactly one month to come back into my chat full of people and without private messaging me or writing me on the site at all began saying "look who's on, it's the scammer" "where are my panties" when I told him i'd only ever received 10 dollars from him that only equaled 3.50 for me and that the show hadn't reached the goal for him to get the panties he said he was gonna contact the site if I didn't send them, so I did, but felt really bad about it. He could have just messaged me and not waited a month to mention it in my chat. Am I wrong, or did I owe him the panties?
CanadianRuby
11-08-2015, 02:28 AM
No I don't think you did. If you state things specifically, if their own fault for not listening.
I have chipped into gold shows and seen this happen to models. Like, if specific toy will be used if X goal is reached, but the goal doesn't happen....so the model doesn't use X toy, but guys in the chat are demanding the toy....but the goal didn't happen. Urgh, it's annoying.
Don't let them boss you around because they don't listen.
Kitcatt
11-08-2015, 05:26 AM
I had a guy who chipped in the whole $4 for a gold show tonight tell me my show was boring because I didn't do anal. Did you read the description? did you read my model page? Are you my high tipper at $40 who I know does NOT like anal even though,as stated on my page, I don't DO anal? No? Shut up and leave. Fuck gold show guys, they can't even leave a review, they can suck my ass.
JessRyan
11-08-2015, 08:35 AM
I finished camming on SM after a shift a year or so ago and went lurking abound to see what others are doing. I found a very beautiful Colombian girl sitting in a chair that leaned back. She started a $20 show 10 minutes with a $1.00 buy in. She made if very fast. So I thought why not. $1.00.
By the time she ended her show she had a big dildo in her ass and a vibrator in her pussy. Not unusual right? Not so fast. She was also making breast milk squirt out of her boobs at the same time. When her show ended my mouth was hanging open and I was in shock. I went to bed depressed thinking how in the world will I make money on this site with a circus show like that for a buck. lol! True story.
I have a lot of "gold show" guys from when I used to do a lot of them for low goal. Then slowly I started to dislike the whole countdown and almost feeling like I was begging just for 5 gold. So I kinda gave up on gold shows. I do a lot of privates anyway, and still make my goal every day. I just liked giving my GS guys an option, but when I'm not making half my goal after 6 minutes of twerking and bouncing, screw that! So when those guys would come in begging, I'd tell him NO. And I'll cancel that countdown if I don't start making some gold...I restrained for a few weeks, then when I felt I had the right guys, I started one, reassuring them I would cancel that mo fo if they didn't start tipping! It worked, but I'm still soured on gold shows. ONLY because of the countdown when tons are guys are just sitting there. Well, not for long because I'm a banning bitch now too.....mimosa down the hatch~
JessRyan
11-08-2015, 08:42 AM
Even with those kind of gs going on, sm luckily has lots of gents looking for quality time (1 on 1 or pvt) and are willing to spend big for it.
I once felt depressed too when a "member" was spamming another girls room inside my freechat - goldshow THREEsome, hot young girlS, doing anal and all that jazz with the THREE of them for 1G buy in and 50dollar goal. Even that moment I kept selling my shows and they kept buying my pvt and excls.
Keep confident, believe in your worth and stand your ground. There is only one you.
Right. She's right. I think some girls and I was guilty of this, get hung up on the gold show thing. Thinking it's the end all be all to making money on SM. For some girls, yeah great, they do very well and it's their thing. But once that happens, and all you do is gold shows, it may be hard for guys to see them as girls to take private??? I wonder? Then if you think that way about GS, you get depressed if you don't make your goal and the countdown is like pulling teeth. Ivy's right. there are guys who will take you private and don't put all your hope into gold shows. I've even told some of my GS guys who ask and ask and I'm just NOT playing, to go see this girl or go see that girl who does GS...then you know what has happened? They end up taking me private.
JessRyan
11-08-2015, 08:48 AM
Sometimes when i'm doing gold shows I will put an incentive for highest tipper. I always make it something along these lines "High Tipper gets custom vid at goal ONLY" but say if the goal is 100 and we get to 85 I will start the show instead of letting it cancel. Almost everytime this happens the high tipper still feels like they deserve the "prize" even if their high tip wasn't that much "like 10 bucks" or something. One person who only tipped 10 towards a show, waited exactly one month to come back into my chat full of people and without private messaging me or writing me on the site at all began saying "look who's on, it's the scammer" "where are my panties" when I told him i'd only ever received 10 dollars from him that only equaled 3.50 for me and that the show hadn't reached the goal for him to get the panties he said he was gonna contact the site if I didn't send them, so I did, but felt really bad about it. He could have just messaged me and not waited a month to mention it in my chat. Am I wrong, or did I owe him the panties?
well if this is streamate, we're not allowed to sell or give away panties. You can get suspended for that. if a guy came into my guest chat(and they have) and started chatting ANYTHING about panties,
I'd ban his ass ASAP (and I have) sounds like a setup to me.
Promised
11-08-2015, 02:25 PM
I use about 5 different sites, SM most often, don't usually do panties on SM, but I've seen lots of the girls who I consider to be "top girls" you know really popular and always on the first line do it often. I've seen them as prizes for gold shows, and also seen them just straight out tell the person who was asking how much gold they wanted for them, so I figured SM is kinda letting some things slide. Just not for girls like me lol. I wrote to SM and asked them if I was allowed to have advertise a wishlist and they replied "yes, but it's frowned upon" So I put my wishlist in my profile, the next day they suspended me for 24 hours because someone asked a question about it.
IvyAdams
11-08-2015, 02:44 PM
I use about 5 different sites, SM most often, don't usually do panties on SM, but I've seen lots of the girls who I consider to be "top girls" you know really popular and always on the first line do it often. I've seen them as prizes for gold shows, and also seen them just straight out tell the person who was asking how much gold they wanted for them, so I figured SM is kinda letting some things slide. Just not for girls like me lol. I wrote to SM and asked them if I was allowed to have advertise a wishlist and they replied "yes, but it's frowned upon" So I put my wishlist in my profile, the next day they suspended me for 24 hours because someone asked a question about it.
HA! I Wish we could advertise our wish lists! Whoever told you that didn't know what they were talking about. I don't know why I'm shocked, SM support are a bunch of buffoons most the time. It states right in the TOS that we aren't allowed to mention any other sites, and we are not allowed to lead members off of site in any way. SMH. If that happens to you again, make sure you keep the email where they tell you it's okay and fight the suspension. :)
Promised
11-08-2015, 03:19 PM
HA! I Wish we could advertise our wish lists! Whoever told you that didn't know what they were talking about. I don't know why I'm shocked, SM support are a bunch of buffoons most the time. It states right in the TOS that we aren't allowed to mention any other sites, and we are not allowed to lead members off of site in any way. SMH. If that happens to you again, make sure you keep the email where they tell you it's okay and fight the suspension. :)
I did keep it and fought it, but they said I went wrong by when he asked if could he get something I replied "sure I would love to have something from my wishlist" they said that the phrase I used was telling him to go to the other site.
WierdGirl
11-08-2015, 07:03 PM
What is the "Babes" category on Streamate? I've just wondered this, not for any specific reason. I guess I just thought that all cam models were considered "Babes." Which models go in this category?
CanadianRuby
11-08-2015, 08:41 PM
HA! I Wish we could advertise our wish lists! Whoever told you that didn't know what they were talking about. I don't know why I'm shocked, SM support are a bunch of buffoons most the time. It states right in the TOS that we aren't allowed to mention any other sites, and we are not allowed to lead members off of site in any way. SMH. If that happens to you again, make sure you keep the email where they tell you it's okay and fight the suspension. :)
I had seen a model last night that had in her description for guys too look her up and join her personal membership site. I don't cam on SM, so I never really know what is allowed or not.
Also...I saw some girl rubbing her asshole in freechat last night....that was surprising o_o
CanadianRuby
11-08-2015, 08:47 PM
I have a question about streamate and privates....
if a guy clicks the private button and it whisks the model away to private....is there like, a time period where the guy is supposed to tell her what he wants to see? or what happens?
I was watching one model tonight, and the private sound dinged....and she got angry and said "a bunch of rapists" in reference to guys that take her private without telling her what they want the show for?
So...it is just super awkward to get pulled into a private but then, realize what the guy wants is fucked up or you don't do what he wants? like what happens then?
BadBitch
11-08-2015, 08:55 PM
well if this is streamate, we're not allowed to sell or give away panties. You can get suspended for that. if a guy came into my guest chat(and they have) and started chatting ANYTHING about panties,
I'd ban his ass ASAP (and I have) sounds like a setup to me.
Girl,I thought the same thing re "setup".
Be careful with stuff like that! A model who may not like you may be waiting for that perfect opportunity to report you. Don't break the rules.
BadBitch
11-08-2015, 09:05 PM
I have a question about streamate and privates....
if a guy clicks the private button and it whisks the model away to private....is there like, a time period where the guy is supposed to tell her what he wants to see? or what happens?
I was watching one model tonight, and the private sound dinged....and she got angry and said "a bunch of rapists" in reference to guys that take her private without telling her what they want the show for?
So...it is just super awkward to get pulled into a private but then, realize what the guy wants is fucked up or you don't do what he wants? like what happens then?
To avoid this, I list what I do in my topic as well as my bio. A lot of guys who have a fetish will ask in free chat prior to taking private. Fetish and requests are reserved for exclusive where no one can come in.
I'm not sure what happened with what you saw. But,it could have been a case where the customer wanted something in premium that is normally done in exclusive. I get guys who will take me premium and ask to do anal. Anal is reserved for exclusive for me.
TrifilinCamHo
11-08-2015, 09:06 PM
I have a question about streamate and privates....
So...it is just super awkward to get pulled into a private but then, realize what the guy wants is fucked up or you don't do what he wants? like what happens then?
Use the first 30 seconds of the pvt to get a general idea of what they want. If they request something that you aren't comfortable or not allowed to do than politely tell them that you're not gonna do that and either end the chat or wait until they do. If they leave you a bad rating or review e-mail support and explain what happened, generally they will agree to remove it.
DeepThoughts
11-09-2015, 01:00 AM
I have a question about streamate and privates....
if a guy clicks the private button and it whisks the model away to private....is there like, a time period where the guy is supposed to tell her what he wants to see? or what happens?
I was watching one model tonight, and the private sound dinged....and she got angry and said "a bunch of rapists" in reference to guys that take her private without telling her what they want the show for?
So...it is just super awkward to get pulled into a private but then, realize what the guy wants is fucked up or you don't do what he wants? like what happens then?
Most clients wont read your bio so no matter how much you want them to ask in the Guest chat if you will do X or Y things it will be ignored. Personally I dont mind at all telling a client I wont do something while he pays for my time and I have never ever ever had a bad rating for it.
If a guy wants to ask me if I do something that is on him and its up to him to decide to ask in Guest chat or Paid chat. If he asks me to do something I do not do I dont feel more "obligated" to do that thing cause he is already paying. In my experience most guys will just ask for something else.
Worst case scenario if some asshat left you a bad rating just contact SM and they will remove it. Its not a bad show because you said NO. Saying No is your right and SM will support you on that.
Kitcatt
11-09-2015, 01:31 AM
I drill guys before excl, don't take there requests unless they have already done a show with me. If they take me premium without asking or saying a word I know its going to be a short show that might end in a ban. Hey, at least read my fucking ROOM TOPIC that says "ask before pvt excl". If you haven't done that you don't have any idea what I do and I probably hate you. I'm nice about it but seriously???
Kitcatt
11-09-2015, 01:35 AM
Also, just to add, you never HAVE to accept a show. I reject at least 10 shows a night until they tell me what they want. It saves them money and it saves me the headache of banning them or dealing with them if they just tell me what they want to do. Generally I just say "hey *so and so* sorry, we haven't done a show before and I just wanted to make sure what you wanted was in my wheel house"
TrifilinCamHo
11-09-2015, 01:42 AM
So basically I ended a block session early tonight because I wasn't paying attention when the exclusive notification came up and then when the show started, it didn't give the highlighted text at the beginning letting you know you're in a block. I ended the session because my boyfriend came home unexpectedly and the customer heard and (understandably) was not comfortable continuing, at which point I apologized and disconnected because I felt shitty about wasting his time. My question is, does anyone know what the penalty is exactly for disconnecting a block early?
Edit: Just found my answer, looks like they revoke your earnings for the show and flag you account. I can live with that.
xxtinamariexx
11-09-2015, 10:25 AM
So again today, i have a guy asking me if I'm "here" he couldnt see me, he was on his phone, I went on mine, of course, it was showing me in PRIVATE... as I sat in free chat :( why why can't they fix this shit.
Girly_Girl
11-09-2015, 09:09 PM
is anyone else having problems with their bitrate tonight? Mine was at 600 something so I rebooted and now its up to 739?.....wth?????
Halo88
11-09-2015, 11:12 PM
if a guy clicks the private button and it whisks the model away to private....is there like, a time period where the guy is supposed to tell her what he wants to see? or what happens?
I never turn down money, so they can whisk me away and take all the time they want as long as they are paying.
So...it is just super awkward to get pulled into a private but then, realize what the guy wants is fucked up or you don't do what he wants? like what happens then?
You can always just tell him no and ask what else he would like to do. He will make another request or leave.
SaraLaughs
11-10-2015, 04:40 PM
This is a quick question that I feel I *should* know the answer to, but don't.
On SM, when a customer selects block sessions, does SM apply 65% of the discount you give to their cut?
TrifilinCamHo
11-10-2015, 05:09 PM
This is a quick question that I feel I *should* know the answer to, but don't.
On SM, when a customer selects block sessions, does SM apply 65% of the discount you give to their cut?
The discounted rate is applied to your cut.
So like, I charge $6.99 per min in exclusive. If someone buys a 15 min block session a 5% discount is applied which means I get 35% of the discounted rate, which is 6.64 a minute. So ultimately my cut of a 15 minute block is $34.86 altogether.
EffyRose
11-11-2015, 07:29 PM
When you get a block session and the guy leaves early. Do you have to stay online? If so for how long?
Marina Starr
11-11-2015, 07:31 PM
They have a two hours time frame to come back and finish it!
When you get a block session and the guy leaves early. Do you have to stay online? If so for how long?
euro_princess
11-11-2015, 07:34 PM
You don't have to stay online for him, it's not your fault that he left. In case he will ask for a refund, you won't be affected, I assume. He has 2h to come back and claim his minutes.
plumwine
11-11-2015, 08:36 PM
I had a couple guys in private, and a third guy kept coming in and out. He did it at least 8 times and never said anything. Since the other two guys weren't having a problem, am I right in assuming the third guy was doing it intentionally...? I finally blocked him, but I never had that happen before.
pippapippa
11-11-2015, 08:49 PM
I had a couple guys in private, and a third guy kept coming in and out. He did it at least 8 times and never said anything. Since the other two guys weren't having a problem, am I right in assuming the third guy was doing it intentionally...? I finally blocked him, but I never had that happen before.
It's possible there was a glitch, but he was probably been peeping intentionally. When something like that happens to me, I block the guy, but still allow him to send me a message. If it really was an issue, he'll usually say something.
BadBitch
11-11-2015, 09:48 PM
Today was one of the worst days on SM for me.
BadBitch
11-11-2015, 09:51 PM
Also, what the hell helps placement? I've heard so many things. I'm always 5th row despite me doing well. Is paid time vs open chat time? Earnings? Earnings by hour? Ugh.
xCamLovex
11-11-2015, 09:57 PM
Today was one of the worst days on SM for me.
Does anyone feel theres a huge dip in traffic starting mid last week? I never sit in a room of 0 viewers and i've been encountering this regularly for minutes at a time this week.
ShadyPinesMa
11-11-2015, 10:06 PM
Does anyone feel theres a huge dip in traffic starting mid last week? I never sit in a room of 0 viewers and i've been encountering this regularly for minutes at a time this week.
I was off for a week, but the last 3 days I've been back the traffic HAS been weird.
Usually I'm in classic chat for 90% of my day (I noticed I get more privates & exclusives this way), and I only switch to party to do like 1 gold show a day to keep my conversions up.
I'm in the second row and my chat would be EMPTY for minutes at a time in classic. Unbelievable. I switched to party and my room count was astronomically better, even if I wasn't doing a gold countdown (which I HAVE had to do more of). So what worked for me somehow completely flip flopped this week, but it is what it is.
Glamourmilf
11-11-2015, 10:37 PM
Today was one of the worst days on SM for me.
I blame it on Veterans Day. Made me feel better.
IvyAdams
11-11-2015, 10:39 PM
I blame it on Veterans Day. Made me feel better.
.... good idea. I also will be blaming it on Veterans Day. :D
Redcandy
11-11-2015, 10:51 PM
me as well^
MadamDragon
11-11-2015, 10:55 PM
I blame it on Veterans Day. Made me feel better.
And damnit, I was hoping there would be a holiday surge in traffic!
Glamourmilf
11-12-2015, 12:44 AM
And damnit, I was hoping there would be a holiday surge in traffic!
Nope. Holidays are usually a surge in freeloader traffic. Esp. Thanksgiving...
MadamDragon
11-12-2015, 01:15 AM
Double-damnit! So eating all that turkey and pie and forced niceties with family won't make men lose their will to live (thus forcing them to seek refuge in wanking).
webcamcutie
11-12-2015, 02:07 AM
Kinda like Valentines Day.. I've come to the conclusion after 4 years of working them on SM that they are terribly slow and full of thee WORST type of freeloaders. No thank you this year, I will spend my Vday with my couch, dogs, sad sappy movies, chocolate and icecream and save myself the head banging into my monitor!
webcamcutie
11-12-2015, 02:08 AM
But I also have to add, that Christmas eve and Christmas day have always been 2 of my best days so not all holidays suck!
Kitcatt
11-12-2015, 02:29 AM
Christmas eve was filled with requests of 'tell you bad son you want to fuck him mommy" and Christmas day was all "fuck you pussy you fucking SLUT" for me...
Glamourmilf
11-12-2015, 09:05 AM
:crying:
But I also have to add, that Christmas eve and Christmas day have always been 2 of my best days so not all holidays suck!
Shhh!! Well, it WAS until this post. Lol!
webcamcutie
11-12-2015, 12:53 PM
:crying:
Shhh!! Well, it WAS until this post. Lol!
Shit.. Well, at least I rock my leopard Santa hat??
xCamLovex
11-12-2015, 02:22 PM
not complaining but i have to say...its just obvious theres very little traffic going to SM right now. what is the excuse for 0-2 people being in my room? they leave, 5 minutes, they come back and just park themselves in silence. it's obvious the same people (i've seen the same rounds of guys 4+ times this morning) are window shopping and not much else but what's alarming is that is ALL the traffic i'm getting. 3 weeks ago i had 8-10 guys in my room everytime i'd get back from a show. now, i get 1 or 2 after 2 minutes of 0 viewers.
WOW.
1800+ models online with recycled non converting traffic.
WOW.
Ok, that's my observation. That's all I'm going to say.
Tigrillo
11-12-2015, 02:45 PM
I also realized there's a ton of us online. How couldn't there be, when I'm 60% gone for my shift and only 5% into my goal? ..... all of us must be in the same condition.....