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Erika_Xstacy
02-20-2018, 09:53 PM
For a few hours today, Streamate was having some server issues. It was a thing. It could be related to that.

People this week have also been noting the differences in placement. We'll have to re-open the studies we did on placement before.

What I know is that this is, bar none, the best 2 weeks we've had in 3 years. Brand new models are banking right out of the gate, and long time models in our studio are much happier (doing more hours) because of the earnings jump. There's a few factors that could cause this like general economy, other websites getting sanctioned by Google, etc. It wouldn't surprise me if a re-shuffle in the way Streamate displays/orders models is also contributing.

I assumed placement is was what it has been..work our ass off :)


I've been keeping screenshot of my offline and online placement, earnings, time online, ratings and favorites, speed test and anything else I can remember.
Since August I have doubled my time, almost tripled most weekly earnings. slow roll bc I had to get accustomed to my old schedule.
The screenshots go back to October
I can see when I will fall or not. its pretty easy seeing what is wanted when tracking yourself up or down.
I've been working on my sm hustle since August watching myself on sm rise bc Its hard to climb back up. Watching myself is my only motivation. I take screenshots so I can question why I might be 10 rows off with placement if that happens.

I did this before with the same outcome.
Im not sure if anything has changed but Ive noticed changes as well with some models but I assume it all has to do with money, ratings, hours online. I was told that models are cutting hours. That would make sense.
*I dont have a member account so Im not logged in when looking.

*Lynn*
02-20-2018, 11:34 PM
Ast year August I was doing so much better. Ever since October it has been really rough. My placement is 15+ spots off from where I used to be, and that's as a guest so there is still more when logged on that can't be seen. I go on incognito.
I'm still having days where I sit there for 3 hours and only get one of those privates that lasts 3 minutes.
I know performers say then you need to go bring in your own traffic but if I have time to do that I'm going to drive traffic to my indie shows. I just wish that the % I bring would actually count for getting some traffic in my direction.
Their cut for me last week was 3k. I'm ONE of how many performers, and I'm not even close to banking like many others.
Ok now I'm going to depress myself, lol think happy thoughts :-)
Tiramisu! yum!

Marina Starr
02-21-2018, 12:59 PM
Is it possible to have over 5.0 rating score? This must be a glitch especially since some asshole rated me 3 stars yesterday for a less than two minutes show. Messaged support to have it removed. I got tons of 5 stars rating prior to this.

http://i68.tinypic.com/5y5ao.png

CAMGIRLANA
02-21-2018, 01:23 PM
its so slow on steamate ? or its just be its quiet room they just go nad leave without say even hi :(( i have liek that from month or so hardly to make even 50 $ :(((

kortneykay
02-21-2018, 01:28 PM
^^ I never took as a insult to other models. If a guy is talking to you its cause he is interested in you so if he has the cash he will pay it but sometimes you have to nudge their ego a bit.

Oh, I know I just didn't want models charging $0.99-2.99 coming for my neck, haha.

kortneykay
02-21-2018, 01:32 PM
omg i want to design these quotes in fancy lettering and make motivational posters/canvas art with them. they're all good but some of these are brilliant. :)

Go for it, lol. I have one as a preset message for the whiners.

*Lynn*
02-21-2018, 02:04 PM
I don't mean to be offensive in saying that, but with hundreds of Women charging $0.99-3.99, what are they complaining for? Also, some of us have been doing this for 5-10 yrs, so the nut is guaranteed and experience doesn't come cheap. A clean appearance, a nice room, a good looking, well put-together model, and experience should be considered.
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Sometimes I charge very little, but it isn't because I am desperate or not hitting goals, or slow, etc I do it strategically. I'm usually on the 3.99 range and I try to engage more than one viewer at a time, 2-3 at least! I also adjust what I am doing when I lower my rate, and only do it for a specified hour. The other day I changed my rate to $8.99 and 10.99, so coolest thing is that they were still coming into pvt! Not my regulars but new custs. I'm going to confidently up my rates every so often. It can be a LOT of money for some, and some of those loyal custs, I feel like they deserve a bonus or reward, they really save my butt when I'm hearing crickets, they are constant even if they do private for 5-8 minutes sometimes. They comment and rate and are always very complimentary.
I guess I'm considered vanilla? borderline maybe ;-) so I have always been hesitant to makes rates higher.

Marina Starr
02-22-2018, 08:10 AM
I love Streamate support, they've always been helpful. 3 stars rating is removed!!!!

anonamiss
02-22-2018, 01:26 PM
does anyone know if there are rules as to what the customer is allowed to do over c2c, and whether or not we can be penalized/suspended for watching it?

in my case, i have a custie/regular who has a knife fetish and says he wants to do some kind of cutting show in an exclusive block session. i wouldn't be doing anything to myself; it would be all on his end of the camera. i imagine it could get a bit graphic.

i've seen submissive guys do all sorts of seemingly painful things to themselves on c2c, but this request just got me wondering if there are ever repercussions for the model for watching and encouraging certain behaviors.

imelly21
02-22-2018, 02:38 PM
in my case, i have a custie/regular who has a knife fetish and says he wants to do some kind of cutting show in an exclusive block session. i wouldn't be doing anything to myself; it would be all on his end of the camera. i imagine it could get a bit graphic.

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I guess some of us would do really anything for the money including watching someone hurt themselves?!!? Please reconsider. From hurting themselves on cam to hurting others on cam or off cam is just a little tiny step.

anonamiss
02-22-2018, 03:18 PM
I guess some of us would do really anything for the money including watching someone hurt themselves?!!? Please reconsider. From hurting themselves on cam to hurting others on cam or off cam is just a little tiny step.

it's not about "doing it for the money" and it's not necessarily as simple as "watching someone hurt themselves." pain is very subjective and some people like it. there's nothing wrong with consensual masochism. these things can be done safely (with risk-awareness, proper technique, etc.) and without lasting damage/injury. also, lots of girls do CBT domme shows where they literally tell guys how to torture themselves, so your response seems pretty misguided.

anyway, that wasn't my question. frankly i expected someone to get all judgmental and kink-shamey about it.

eta: also, are you implying that someone hurting themselves would lead to hurting another person? that makes no sense. just because a guy is into knives doesn't mean he'll be violent with nonconsenting people. knife play is a fetish, and if cutting is involved it's likely not going to be a deep cut. it's more like a scratch with the intent to draw a bit of blood.

kortneykay
02-22-2018, 05:25 PM
^^^ I'd look over the SM rules or email Vanessa to be on the safe side. IMHO, and I know it wasn't asked: They could cut their balls off right in front of me and I wouldn't bat an eyelash if he was paying my rate. I'd charge even more for the pleasure. I'll look (as long as pets, kids, etc aren't involved) or pretend to look for the MONEY. #idontcare

anonamiss
02-22-2018, 06:01 PM
^^^ I'd look over the SM rules or email Vanessa to be on the safe side. IMHO, and I know it wasn't asked: They could cut their balls off right in front of me and I wouldn't bat an eyelash if he was paying my rate. I'd charge even more for the pleasure. I'll look (as long as pets, kids, etc aren't involved) or pretend to look for the MONEY. #idontcare

i've emailed liz before but never vanessa. curious, are there certain topics or concerns that would be best directed at a specific person? i don't really know much about these people or their specific roles at SM; i just learned to hit up liz when tech support is being useless, lol.

as for what else you said, i generally agree -- if the guy is paying and not breaking any rules, what he's doing on his side of the camera is ultimately his responsibility, and i will (for the most part) happily take the money.

although i will say, i do occasionally find myself in an ethical quandary when it comes to camgirls instructing guys to do anything dangerous/painful over C2C. i guess it's because i practice BDSM in real life, and i believe it's the responsibility of both the domme and the sub to be aware of safety protocols, and to ensure the sub doesn't get seriously injured. so on cam, i'm much more comfortable taking a show where the guy is self-inflicting pain by his own admission, as opposed to by my instruction. that way i'm not responsible for any of the consequences. but i suppose that's a separate tangent/discussion. :)

kortneykay
02-22-2018, 06:11 PM
i've emailed liz before but never vanessa. curious, are there certain topics or concerns that would be best directed at a specific person? i don't really know much about these people or their specific roles at SM; i just learned to hit up liz when tech support is being useless, lol.

as for what else you said, i generally agree -- if the guy is paying and not breaking any rules, what he's doing on his side of the camera is ultimately his responsibility, and i will (for the most part) happily take the money.

although i will say, i do occasionally find myself in an ethical quandary when it comes to camgirls instructing guys to do anything dangerous/painful over C2C. i guess it's because i practice BDSM in real life, and i believe it's the responsibility of both the domme and the sub to be aware of safety protocols, and to ensure the sub doesn't get seriously injured. so on cam, i'm much more comfortable taking a show where the guy is self-inflicting pain by his own admission, as opposed to by my instruction. that way i'm not responsible for any of the consequences. but i suppose that's a separate tangent/discussion. :)

They're generally in the same department and both are the go-tos for model issues. I believe Liz is Vanessa's boss. I used to have this client when I first got into the business that was obsessed with self-castration. I got hired to a direct dial line where anything goes and they encouraged this type of call.

Needless to say after that I no longer cared, lol. Also, with today's technology some of these guys will go as far to record or pirate an actual 'castration' and play it back on c2c so you assume it's real when he really just wanted a reaction. I had it happen before and when I questioned the guy he showed me the clip he stole from ebaum's word from 2 yrs prior, lol. Men are a trip.

MissMoore
02-23-2018, 03:33 AM
Typical tantrums we hear all the time:

"You're too expensive!" = I can't afford you.
"You're the most expensive girl on this site. Why?!" = I can't afford you.
"If you lowered your rates, I'd take you for a longer show." = I can't afford you.
"Wow, your rates are too high." = I can't afford you.

When they try you, try these.

"The clearance pussy is down the hall to your right. BYE!"
"There are X amount of girls on charging $2.99, go bother them, then."
"Go wine to someone who gives a fuck."
"I charge according to my personal bills, as do all the girls on the site."
"Get a better paying job."
"Steak or chicken fingers, your choice."
"My rates and comments speak for themselves."
"Can't have everything you want."
"I'm only here for the men who can afford me. Can't have everything you want."
"The site keeps over 60%, take it up with them."
"Real men don't complain, they go after what they want."
"Considering the comments and 5 star rating I have, you seem to be the only one who can't afford me. Ask for a raise."
"What does your low income have anything to do with me?"
"Awww, go ask your Mommy for a bigger allowance, little boy."

I really wish little boys would stop verbally harassing us as if we give a damn. I have big bills. If you can't afford the expensive cars on the lot, settle for a cheaper one.

So to answer your question: Depending on the client, I'll take off $3-4 from the SM rate. If they don't like that, I tell them to feel free to pay my full rate or fuck off. We Women don't owe them SHIT. If they were Women, they'd charge out the ass, too![/QUOTE]


Insert a hundred rows of fire and clapping hands emojis.... and all of them are so true... especially about the one about real men don't complain... they just STFU get after what they want. Nothing gets on my nerves more then when grown men don't won't to act like grown men! Ugh! Makes my lady parts want to fall off and run away. They all just need to get off the internet and stick with reading highlights magazine and drinking there little apple juices until they are ready to act like they have a grown mans dick. When a man acts like a man... and handles his shit... nothing sexier. Jesus... if they can't figure out how to get some interactive pussy of the internet....I dunno lol

AuroraJade
02-23-2018, 04:00 AM
They are great. I just choose to block those guys now. I am not going to give them energy and this approach makes me feel way better!

anonamiss
02-23-2018, 04:29 AM
has anyone gotten a top spot/guaranteed gold show recently? i haven't for at least a few weeks, and anytime i check the front page there doesn't seem to be a top spot show happening. have they stopped offering them?

i recall something like this happening last year where they seemed to stop doing them for a few months, and then it randomly picked back up again.

ShadyPinesMa
02-23-2018, 06:28 AM
has anyone gotten a top spot/guaranteed gold show recently? i haven't for at least a few weeks, and anytime i check the front page there doesn't seem to be a top spot show happening. have they stopped offering them?

i recall something like this happening last year where they seemed to stop doing them for a few months, and then it randomly picked back up again.

They haven't been running them, at least during my shift. I don't check the site when I'm not logged in so I don't know if they're on pause all together or just during non-peak hours.
Them not handing out topspots is always my first indication something is amiss with the site, though. Might not be a site-breaking issue, but if they're not running them there's usually something going on.

DeepThoughts
02-23-2018, 08:05 AM
They are great. I just choose to block those guys now. I am not going to give them energy and this approach makes me feel way better!

Im with you. I dont block anyone as a rule unless they threaten me or talk some taboo shit I dont want to know about but when guys say these things to me I just smile and say "thank you sweety". Its as good as blocking cause most guys do it to get a rise out of us anywais so they arent sure how to respond and just leave to find someone more gullible

whirlerz
02-24-2018, 09:59 PM
Typical tantrums we hear all the time:

"You're too expensive!" = I can't afford you.
"You're the most expensive girl on this site. Why?!" = I can't afford you.
"If you lowered your rates, I'd take you for a longer show." = I can't afford you.
"Wow, your rates are too high." = I can't afford you.

When they try you, try these.

"The clearance pussy is down the hall to your right. BYE!"
"There are X amount of girls on charging $2.99, go bother them, then."
"Go wine to someone who gives a fuck."
"I charge according to my personal bills, as do all the girls on the site."
"Get a better paying job."
"Steak or chicken fingers, your choice."
"My rates and comments speak for themselves."
"Can't have everything you want."
"I'm only here for the men who can afford me. Can't have everything you want."
"The site keeps over 60%, take it up with them."
"Real men don't complain, they go after what they want."
"Considering the comments and 5 star rating I have, you seem to be the only one who can't afford me. Ask for a raise."
"What does your low income have anything to do with me?"
"Awww, go ask your Mommy for a bigger allowance, little boy."

I really wish little boys would stop verbally harassing us as if we give a damn. I have big bills. If you can't afford the expensive cars on the lot, settle for a cheaper one.

So to answer your question: Depending on the client, I'll take off $3-4 from the SM rate. If they don't like that, I tell them to feel free to pay my full rate or fuck off. We Women don't owe them SHIT. If they were Women, they'd charge out the ass, too!


Insert a hundred rows of fire and clapping hands emojis.... and all of them are so true... especially about the one about real men don't complain... they just STFU get after what they want. Nothing gets on my nerves more then when grown men don't won't to act like grown men! Ugh! Makes my lady parts want to fall off and run away. They all just need to get off the internet and stick with reading highlights magazine and drinking there little apple juices until they are ready to act like they have a grown mans dick. When a man acts like a man... and handles his shit... nothing sexier. Jesus... if they can't figure out how to get some interactive pussy of the internet....I dunno lol[/QUOTE]

Awesome Post^!
This reminds me of the thread, "What guys say, vs. what they mean" & I need to reboos that too. :)

DeepThoughts
02-26-2018, 12:32 PM
Needless to say after that I no longer cared, lol. Also, with today's technology some of these guys will go as far to record or pirate an actual 'castration' and play it back on c2c so you assume it's real when he really just wanted a reaction. I had it happen before and when I questioned the guy he showed me the clip he stole from ebaum's word from 2 yrs prior, lol. Men are a trip.

Your serious this happened to you!?!?!! I would have been horrified! And then when I found out it wasnt real I would have felt super ripped off! What a pussy! :D

naomi_doll
02-27-2018, 01:17 PM
Got the option to do gold shows after a week, thats kind of cool. Do they send this in every generic email because I have "excellent" in every spot right now:



We highly recommend going through the Improving Streaming Quality and Speed page before trying out Gold Shows. Because you are only paid at the end of Gold Shows, it's important to make sure you don't have any technical difficulties while streaming!


Also, are there people who just never do gold shows? I'm not 100% sure what to do or if I would even enjoy it. Maybe I'll read a bit more and then give it a go tomorrow.

Erika_Xstacy
02-27-2018, 01:44 PM
Got the option to do gold shows after a week, thats kind of cool. Do they send this in every generic email because I have "excellent" in every spot right now:



Also, are there people who just never do gold shows? I'm not 100% sure what to do or if I would even enjoy it. Maybe I'll read a bit more and then give it a go tomorrow.

this is something you will figure out if you enjoy it or not.
i know successful models 5 years plus that do GREAT focusing on privates and exclusives.

My personal take on this is I LOVE PRIVATES. I love them. All of us do. :D
I love Goldshows bc they can save my ass.
They are a hustle. certain times of year I go hard on goldshows bc I cant get a private to save my life. sometimes
they can be a complete failure and dont EVER let that get to you. Last night I had 2 top spot goldshows (opt in for this if you want more exposure) The second one was a complete failure. 2 ppl joined. Top Spot is he first box on the site. I shouldve done more but I did not.
Some nights I do all privates and some nights I do all gold.

Good luck!

Rachelj87
02-28-2018, 06:59 AM
how long does it take to get approved for your ID? It's almost been 24 hours

naomi_doll
02-28-2018, 07:27 AM
It took a couple of days for me if I remember correctly.

Ginnyyy
02-28-2018, 05:15 PM
It took about 3 days for me.

laurielegs
03-01-2018, 01:40 PM
Those of you who are paid by firstchoice bank transfer through Streamate - did you get your payment notification email early? I usually get the Payoneer email Friday but got it today instead. Makes me wonder if my deposit might come on Monday rather than Tuesday, which would be awesome.

Erika_Xstacy
03-01-2018, 02:21 PM
Those of you who are paid by firstchoice bank transfer through Streamate - did you get your payment notification email early? I usually get the Payoneer email Friday but got it today instead. Makes me wonder if my deposit might come on Monday rather than Tuesday, which would be awesome.
same here :D that would be pretty awesome

AuroraJade
03-02-2018, 02:59 AM
I got it early too, I was wondering if there maybe was a bank holiday in the US on Friday but that doesnt seem to be the case. I hope I wil get the money today instead of Monday!

kortneykay
03-02-2018, 03:27 AM
Your serious this happened to you!?!?!! I would have been horrified! And then when I found out it wasnt real I would have felt super ripped off! What a pussy! :D

It happened. He kept saying "I'm going to cut off my cock for you." and invited me for cam 2 cam. Then the video showed some guy on cam chopping it off. He was a reg and one day he just confessed then emailed me the link and it had like 400k views lol. This was like 7 yrs ago.

Rachelj87
03-02-2018, 08:34 AM
Hey has anyone else have an issue with the SM broadcast? I just downloaded it, and I selected broadcast on my profile and start cam, but it wont go on..

DeepThoughts
03-02-2018, 09:34 AM
^^ On the top left of the chat page there is a drop down list called "Quality" and there you can select SMBroadcaster. Did you do that???

sweetgapeach
03-02-2018, 09:41 AM
^^ Here is a tutorial on the Streamate Recruiting blog for the Broadcaster. Hope it helps.

http://streamaterecruiting.com/using_smbroadcast/

Rachelj87
03-02-2018, 10:45 AM
^^ On the top left of the chat page there is a drop down list called "Quality" and there you can select SMBroadcaster. Did you do that???

yeah , I did...the SM broadcaster wont go on, I am wondering if it's my built in cam that's preventing it from streaming? I am waiting to get paid to get a HD webcam lol

thanks sweetga, I will check that out

Erika_Xstacy
03-04-2018, 10:05 PM
i cant stay logged in to email a mod I have to relog in and re log in and it kicks me off or doesn't log me in.
IT IMPOSSIBLE :( Ive tried. I know this is a thread jack but I cant go to another thread w out being logged off a million times.
HALP!

jadaskyy420
03-04-2018, 10:21 PM
i cant stay logged in to email a mod I have to relog in and re log in and it kicks me off or doesn't log me in.
IT IMPOSSIBLE :( Ive tried. I know this is a thread jack but I cant go to another thread w out being logged off a million times.
HALP!
I keep getting kicked off too!

laurielegs
03-05-2018, 11:39 AM
I got it early too, I was wondering if there maybe was a bank holiday in the US on Friday but that doesnt seem to be the case. I hope I wil get the money today instead of Monday!

I got my bank deposit today and normally get it Tuesday! Hope this is a new time for payday, seems my bills always are due on a Monday ;)

JenniTS
03-05-2018, 07:19 PM
Soooo..... Have any of you guys ever had a female customer? I have one, recently, at least so she says, idk if this is some kind of catfish situation either.

Kind of odd, PM me for the username, I am mainly just curious. She is buying shows so whatever. Also wanting to meet up irl but what else is new LOL!

kortneykay
03-06-2018, 03:31 AM
Soooo..... Have any of you guys ever had a female customer? I have one, recently, at least so she says, idk if this is some kind of catfish situation either.

Kind of odd, PM me for the username, I am mainly just curious. She is buying shows so whatever. Also wanting to meet up irl but what else is new LOL!

Unless you see her on cam and hear her communicating with you; it's a guy.

DeepThoughts
03-06-2018, 05:12 AM
Yep I have had a few female clientele. One of them actually visited me here in Spain. We became friends. Im not gay so it was a non sexual relationship but most in my experience they disappear fairly quickly because its not as exciting to SEE or Watch women they are attracted to like it is for men.

However I have had hundreds of men who say they are women so like KK says if you didnt see and speak with the person they are most likely male! I have done a fairly large amount of G/G porn for a major company and that is the only reason some women seek me out.

Ginnyyy
03-06-2018, 05:01 PM
Kudos to support blocking a dude for me. I had 3 of his account blocked already and when contacting support, they also blocked for me another 3 new accounts of him, which I didn t know about :)) I went into my dashboard and saw all the variation names, new fake names and such. Really lame for someone to get to all this trouble to stalk me. I mean, he must really adore me or adores to stalk me. Haters spending their time stalking and harassing are bound to be known they secretly love you, anyway. I just hope he can live without me for now. Hang in there, little one :))

JessRyan
03-08-2018, 07:56 AM
Soooo..... Have any of you guys ever had a female customer? I have one, recently, at least so she says, idk if this is some kind of catfish situation either.

Kind of odd, PM me for the username, I am mainly just curious. She is buying shows so whatever. Also wanting to meet up irl but what else is new LOL!

I have a regular who's a "girl" yeah...right. I just play along if they're buying shows. I DID see on C2C for the first time on SM a good regular ..said he had a surprise for me and guess what? It was a girl. That was a first and fun to watch. Then after about 10 min, guess what? He had ANOTHER girl! Wow! that guy had it going on. LOL

Ginnyyy
03-08-2018, 09:38 AM
I had a reg girl when I was skinny, literally bones. She was soooo muscular and big, she just wanted to lift me in the air.

StellaPurr
03-08-2018, 03:17 PM
Soooo..... Have any of you guys ever had a female customer? I have one, recently, at least so she says, idk if this is some kind of catfish situation either.

Kind of odd, PM me for the username, I am mainly just curious. She is buying shows so whatever. Also wanting to meet up irl but what else is new LOL!

I recently had a private show with a "girl" even though they probably weren't a girl it still was awkward for me because I felt like I had to play along and I just didn't know what to say. I'm straight af and used to dirty talking/playing for the male gaze and I just felt uncomfortable dirty talking to "her" about her pussy and stuff. I dunno it was just strange and I felt out of my element.

BadBitch
03-08-2018, 07:45 PM
Typical tantrums we hear all the time:

"You're too expensive!" = I can't afford you.
"You're the most expensive girl on this site. Why?!" = I can't afford you.
"If you lowered your rates, I'd take you for a longer show." = I can't afford you.
"Wow, your rates are too high." = I can't afford you.

When they try you, try these.

"The clearance pussy is down the hall to your right. BYE!"
"There are X amount of girls on charging $2.99, go bother them, then."
"Go wine to someone who gives a fuck."
"I charge according to my personal bills, as do all the girls on the site."
"Get a better paying job."
"Steak or chicken fingers, your choice."
"My rates and comments speak for themselves."
"Can't have everything you want."
"I'm only here for the men who can afford me. Can't have everything you want."
"The site keeps over 60%, take it up with them."
"Real men don't complain, they go after what they want."
"Considering the comments and 5 star rating I have, you seem to be the only one who can't afford me. Ask for a raise."
"What does your low income have anything to do with me?"
"Awww, go ask your Mommy for a bigger allowance, little boy."

I really wish little boys would stop verbally harassing us as if we give a damn. I have big bills. If you can't afford the expensive cars on the lot, settle for a cheaper one.

So to answer your question: Depending on the client, I'll take off $3-4 from the SM rate. If they don't like that, I tell them to feel free to pay my full rate or fuck off. We Women don't owe them SHIT. If they were Women, they'd charge out the ass, too!


Insert a hundred rows of fire and clapping hands emojis.... and all of them are so true... especially about the one about real men don't complain... they just STFU get after what they want. Nothing gets on my nerves more then when grown men don't won't to act like grown men! Ugh! Makes my lady parts want to fall off and run away. They all just need to get off the internet and stick with reading highlights magazine and drinking there little apple juices until they are ready to act like they have a grown mans dick. When a man acts like a man... and handles his shit... nothing sexier. Jesus... if they can't figure out how to get some interactive pussy of the internet....I dunno lol[/QUOTE]

I absolutely love your responses. However, I don't think it's wise for us to tell the guys the % that the site gets. The guys tend to stop paying because "the site takes too much". Then they want to start paying in other ways because "I want you to get all of the money, bb."

AuroraJade
03-09-2018, 04:34 AM
Yeah I agree NEVER tell the percentage! They feel ripped off and want to ' Skype bb' because then they have to pay less. Dude I dont wanna Skype, I cant handle seeing and hearing your ugly ass in full screen.

DeepThoughts
03-09-2018, 06:20 AM
^^ I agree. If they ask me the percentage I tell them to open their own account. Its not like hidden information after all. When it comes to Skype I charge in Euros and I charge the same as I do in SM. I dont see why for one second they should get a discount because its Skype. I believe Im worth what Im worth regardless of the platform.

Also there are no charge backs on SM so I always always always send guys to SM first. I cant even believe how many morons ask for a Skype show on Twitter and when I direct them to SM they tell me "Oh they wont accept my credit card" or "I cannot because I still owe them money". My Favorite is "I dont have a credit card"! How the fuck are you gonna pay me your twat?!?!?! Like why the fuck am I gonna take a chance on your ass after you just admitted to being shady!

laurielegs
03-09-2018, 11:44 AM
I got my bank deposit today and normally get it Tuesday! Hope this is a new time for payday, seems my bills always are due on a Monday ;)

*sigh* was too good to be true I guess. Now it's back to Friday notifications with Tuesday deposit. :( Oh well.

CatBBW
03-09-2018, 01:00 PM
I've heard that on SM you can programme your keys with stock phrases, but there's nothing in the Help files about it. Can someone tell me how it's possible please?

BadBitch
03-09-2018, 03:20 PM
Yeah I agree NEVER tell the percentage! They feel ripped off and want to ' Skype bb' because then they have to pay less. Dude I dont wanna Skype, I cant handle seeing and hearing your ugly ass in full screen.

THIS!!!!! GIRL!!!! HAHA!! I thought I was the only one who didn't want to see them on Skype!!!! I have a really high paying customer who wanted to do Skype. I told him that my Skype was down because I did not want to watch his ugly-ass jerking off!!!!!!