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kortneykay
04-15-2018, 11:33 AM
Under payment details on Streamate, "Date Issued" on the check payment is the day its mailed?
I know it sounds like a relatively simple question, but ive never gotten a single check from Streamate so im going thru a relearning/readjusting process.
I wasn't expecting a check mailed until next week as I didn't switch it until early Wednesday morning (Around 1 AM).
Im getting it via Fedex (Bills due).
Honestly, im rather impressed if it is indeed already mailed.
Payoneer comes Friday, and if its mailed ied probably get it no later then Wednesday, which is only a 5 day delay compared to the 2 week delay I was financially prepared for.
Lets see how my bank handles cashing, or depositing a random ass check for totally different amounts every week.

Honestly, Ive been wanting to joining up my husbands income and mine for awhile instead of keeping it separate.
This might be a push I needed.

It's usually correct but I too haven't seen my check issued and I changed it in time (or so I thought). With fedex they show up on Fridays usually. Be sure to be dressed and awake because they knock on your door to deliver it and you have to sign for it. At least that's what it was like when I did fedex last. Regular checks usually come on Monday for me.

anonamiss
04-15-2018, 12:04 PM
Under payment details on Streamate, "Date Issued" on the check payment is the day its mailed?
I know it sounds like a relatively simple question, but ive never gotten a single check from Streamate so im going thru a relearning/readjusting process.
I wasn't expecting a check mailed until next week as I didn't switch it until early Wednesday morning (Around 1 AM).
Im getting it via Fedex (Bills due).
Honestly, im rather impressed if it is indeed already mailed.
Payoneer comes Friday, and if its mailed ied probably get it no later then Wednesday, which is only a 5 day delay compared to the 2 week delay I was financially prepared for.
Lets see how my bank handles cashing, or depositing a random ass check for totally different amounts every week.

Honestly, Ive been wanting to joining up my husbands income and mine for awhile instead of keeping it separate.
This might be a push I needed.


they're always issued on Wednesday and about 95% of the time I have received my mailed checks by usps on Mondays. I've had a couple that randomly show up early on Saturday. I have also had two instances where the check was late by one or two days, and then I think only once have I ever had to reissue it ($25) for being lost in the mail.

I deposit my checks into my chase checking account via their mobile app. I only have to go into a physical bank to make deposits when on the rare occasions my checks are over $2k. I don't see why your bank would give you any issues over depositing "random amounts" every week. That's not uncommon for freelancers.

kortneykay
04-15-2018, 02:26 PM
Does everyone have Weds the 11th on their 'check issued' date? I have a feeling SM just didn't send my check because they probably didn't knowledge my payment change until it was too late. I did it on Sun or Mon. I emailed to ask but I can't get into my email for some reason.

Marina Starr
04-15-2018, 02:28 PM
April 11.


Does everyone have Weds the 11th on their 'check issued' date? I have a feeling SM just didn't send my check because they probably didn't knowledge my payment change until it was too late. I did it on Sun or Mon. I emailed to ask but I can't get into my email for some reason.

Esixxx
04-16-2018, 04:19 AM
Does everyone have Weds the 11th on their 'check issued' date? I have a feeling SM just didn't send my check because they probably didn't knowledge my payment change until it was too late. I did it on Sun or Mon. I emailed to ask but I can't get into my email for some reason.

Mine still isn't showing up on my payments report either. I made the change Tuesday morning as soon as I read FCP had closed.

alexismay
04-16-2018, 06:59 AM
yeah me too! I changed mine on Thursday.

AcidYellow
04-16-2018, 01:25 PM
Hello. In my case I changed payment method the past tuesday 10 of april (the Payment from 1-7) Was sent to my FCP account but really frustrated because that money is now frozen until the choice bank decide to pay back. The process will take around two months so yeah, I worked holy week for nothing and really, I needed that money to pay something for an upcoming trip... But for now I cant do anything else, just wait.

kortneykay
04-16-2018, 02:58 PM
Mine still isn't showing up on my payments report either. I made the change Tuesday morning as soon as I read FCP had closed.

Looks like several of us got screwed over this week. I don't see my check in my informed delivery digest so it looks like it'll be added to next week's pay and we'll get it on the 23rd.

kamiliam
04-16-2018, 06:00 PM
Got my check today, it was mailed on Friday fyi. I would expect our checks to be later from now on fyi. As I have seen first hand signing checks is a bitch and I am sure a lot of American models who were with FCP are now with checks, ergo a much more tedious process.

kortneykay
04-17-2018, 05:07 PM
So SM is offering Cosmo Pay which allows people from outside of the US to access their money via card, but we can't even get them to send us direct deposit without a $40 wire fee here in the US. Interesting.

h0ttie
04-17-2018, 08:10 PM
it would be nice if streamate gave us a button that said something like " Sorry, the performer can not chat about that, please contact support if you have any questions"

something that looks like its automated so we don't have to be the ones to shut them down, and also so they don't keep asking

minniesoporno
04-17-2018, 08:34 PM
Got my check today, it was mailed on Friday fyi. I would expect our checks to be later from now on fyi. As I have seen first hand signing checks is a bitch and I am sure a lot of American models who were with FCP are now with checks, ergo a much more tedious process.

This did have considering how much more effect I need to put into affiliate marketing outside of adult. I am switched to check for majority of the sites at the moment. There is debate if I can still use Paxum or not. but not sure yet. Wiill keep checks until I am more confident of a service I can use to get E-transfers to my bank account or a new reload credit/debit card.

laurielegs
04-17-2018, 08:44 PM
it would be nice if streamate gave us a button that said something like " Sorry, the performer can not chat about that, please contact support if you have any questions"

something that looks like its automated so we don't have to be the ones to shut them down, and also so they don't keep asking

That's a great idea. I think I'll make myself one of those autotext buttons, click it and act like I have no clue that was typed into my chat room, hahahah.

Erika_Xstacy
04-17-2018, 08:50 PM
I report the guys
“Soliciting to meet offline”

As far as check: it came today. . It’s the same day from 5 years ago.
Expect Checks on holidays to be late :(

It’s so weird they don’t offer ach

Sunnylexie
04-17-2018, 10:57 PM
That's a great idea. I think I'll make myself one of those autotext buttons, click it and act like I have no clue that was typed into my chat room, hahahah.
Phrase Express is golden lol. It lets you program as many phrases as you want and you can hotkey them all so you don't have to fumble through the dropdown list on the site.

Blovely
04-18-2018, 07:22 AM
Mer my check was issued on the 11th but I still haven't gotten it yet. I so do not miss this check fuckery. I was really hoping that the whole P/FC thing would push SM to finally incorporate direct deposit/bank transfer but nope. I guess I will have to get use to getting checks again because I refuse to sign up to another card company as well as have a bunch fee's taken.

Edit: finally got my check :)

BadBitch
04-18-2018, 08:15 AM
I report the guys
“Soliciting to meet offline”

As far as check: it came today. . It’s the same day from 5 years ago.
Expect Checks on holidays to be late :(

It’s so weird they don’t offer ach

I do the same, Erika. I report them, but I wonder if anything really comes out of us reporting them.

kortneykay
04-18-2018, 11:36 AM
My check still says it wasn't issued, nor is it in the mailbox via informed delivery so I'm really starting to think they shoved it with this week's pay. Does anyone see their 4/18 issued payment yet? If I don't see it by tomorrow I'm bitching.

alexismay
04-18-2018, 12:26 PM
My check still says it wasn't issued, nor is it in the mailbox via informed delivery so I'm really starting to think they shoved it with this week's pay. Does anyone see their 4/18 issued payment yet? If I don't see it by tomorrow I'm bitching.

mine still hasnt been issued either!

Esixxx
04-18-2018, 12:48 PM
My check still says it wasn't issued, nor is it in the mailbox via informed delivery so I'm really starting to think they shoved it with this week's pay. Does anyone see their 4/18 issued payment yet? If I don't see it by tomorrow I'm bitching.

I contacted support about my missing payment. I thought I made the switch in time. I got a reply last night saying that the payment would be processed this week and would include all other eligible earnings.

As long as it comes in on time next week, I will be relieved.

Halo88
04-18-2018, 03:25 PM
it would be nice if streamate gave us a button that said something like " Sorry, the performer can not chat about that, please contact support if you have any questions"

something that looks like its automated so we don't have to be the ones to shut them down, and also so they don't keep asking

Thank you, this is brilliant! I'm creating a saved message with something similar.

tropo
04-19-2018, 02:34 AM
Thank you, this is brilliant! I'm creating a saved message with something similar.

I like it just the way it is (i.e. "Sorry, the performer can not chat about that, please contact support if you have any questions"). It looks official, but polite and will get the point across. I have saved that message to use next time I log on.

Thank you h0ttie!!

Glamourmilf
04-19-2018, 07:54 AM
During this whole FOSTA thing, I've been poking around at other options/jobs.
Since everyone I've been meeting is a ' life coach', I decided to Google how to become one.
Look what popped up! ICF ( Not Streamate's ICF technology name), but close enough for a good chuckle)
LOL! Turns out I'm already a Life coach, and have been one for over 7 years. We all are! Who knew?;D
49799

DeepThoughts
04-19-2018, 08:20 AM
^^^ JOI for the soul! :D

Glamourmilf
04-19-2018, 08:50 AM
^^^ JOI for the soul! :D
:rotfl::rotfl:
The title of my new book. Omg too funny! Love it!

kortneykay
04-19-2018, 09:09 AM
Anyone's pay been issued yet for 4/18 on their accounts? I'm going to have to contact Vanessa and 'nem.
'

Marina Starr
04-19-2018, 09:12 AM
My check has been issued for 4/18.

Anyone's pay been issued yet for 4/18 on their accounts? I'm going to have to contact Vanessa and 'nem.
'

kortneykay
04-19-2018, 10:07 AM
My check has been issued for 4/18.


Thank you!


Ugh,

So it turns out SM MANUALLY changed my state! O.o My bank is in Texas, my home state is not. When I switched from check, to wire, to check it was already been pre-filled. I've received checks for months, no issue. Apparently when I switched back to check, they carried over TEXAS as my state from my wire's bank address- but how if it was already pre-filled out with the correct state?

Either way, I emailed vanessa to see if they'll send it today, if not- looks like the 30th for me.

SamanthaSugar
04-19-2018, 01:13 PM
Hi Kortney - I just checked my account and SM issued my check yesterday 3/18. They included checks for 4/1 & 4/8. I've never done the check thing, does anyone know how long it takes for checks to get to California? I miss having my earnings appear like clockwork in my account every Tuesday :(
I'm moving at the end of the month so this couldn't have come at a worst time!

SamanthaSugar
04-19-2018, 01:33 PM
So if a check was issued on 4/18 does that mean it was mailed out on the 4/18? I'm for sure going to the PO and getting Informed Delivery ASAP!

Marina Starr
04-19-2018, 02:13 PM
Issued on Wednesday mailed out Friday. I almost always got mine on Monday.

So if a check was issued on 4/18 does that mean it was mailed out on the 4/18? I'm for sure going to the PO and getting Informed Delivery ASAP!

anonamiss
04-19-2018, 02:37 PM
Finally another bonus week that isn't competitive.

"For the entire week of April 22-28 (GMT), we're giving all performers a 20% earning bonus! If you earn at least $25 during that week, we'll add up all of your eligible earnings and add on a 20% earnings bonus (eligible earnings excludes Video Sales, Cammodels, TopSpot adjustments, Partner Site, and Gold Club earnings, which do not count towards your bonus earnings).

This means that if your eligible earnings for the week are $1000, we'll add an extra $200 bonus, just for streaming! This special event doesn’t have a leaderboard or a prize list, and there’s no limit to the amount you can earn. Once you make at least $25, this bonus applies to all eligible earnings made between April 22-28 GMT, so make sure you know when those dates start in your time zone."

kortneykay
04-19-2018, 05:13 PM
Hi Kortney - I just checked my account and SM issued my check yesterday 3/18. They included checks for 4/1 & 4/8. I've never done the check thing, does anyone know how long it takes for checks to get to California? I miss having my earnings appear like clockwork in my account every Tuesday :(
I'm moving at the end of the month so this couldn't have come at a worst time!

You can sign up for informed delivery online. SM is in Seattle so you'll probably get it a lot sooner.

scarletl
04-19-2018, 05:57 PM
These may be SUPER obvious questions or I may just be lacking some brain cells lol. I have a few VERY basic questions regarding SM and wondered if anyone is able to clarify some things for me.

1. Is SM a free chat site or a privates/groups site? Can you do both or just do privates only?

2. Anyone know how UK models can be paid, if/what the minimum payouts are on there for those options?

3. Is the payout 30 or 35%?

Thank you :)

kortneykay
04-20-2018, 01:01 PM
I'm really thinking they don't send anything out until Friday because being in the midwest, I get mine on Monday as well. So if people a state over are getting it on Monday too, they probably issue it (like someone mentioned) on Weds, and mail them out Fri.

DeepThoughts
04-20-2018, 01:28 PM
These may be SUPER obvious questions or I may just be lacking some brain cells lol. I have a few VERY basic questions regarding SM and wondered if anyone is able to clarify some things for me.

1. Is SM a free chat site or a privates/groups site? Can you do both or just do privates only?

2. Anyone know how UK models can be paid, if/what the minimum payouts are on there for those options?

3. Is the payout 30 or 35%?

Thank you :)

These are super obvious questions and probably you have applied zero effort into finding the answers so I will help you out.

1. Yes and No/ Yes and No

2. Minimum pay out is 100USD and the other part is a great question!

3. Yes

Hope that helps

OH! And look here. Its called FAQ (pronounced FAC) Go make yourself a big bowl of popcorn and tuck in!

http://streamatehelp.com/faq/?pid=10900170&pname=SabrinaDeep&std=0

kamiliam
04-20-2018, 01:43 PM
I'm really thinking they don't send anything out until Friday because being in the midwest, I get mine on Monday as well. So if people a state over are getting it on Monday too, they probably issue it (like someone mentioned) on Weds, and mail them out Fri.

I swear they used to send them on Thursday, but of course I can't find any envelopes (even looked in my trash) This week will be the test, I really liked getting it on Saturdays!

DeepThoughts
04-20-2018, 03:30 PM
Please note: If you are expecting payment via CosmoPayment this week, it has been initiated. Because this payment solution was implemented quickly, there may be a delay on when you see the funds in your Cosmo account. We are working to resolve this and expect processing to return to normal schedules in the coming week or two. Rest assured, your payment will be received!

Just saw this on my home page. So I guess I might not see any money for this week or next week then? Normally I get payment on Friday. I really hope next Friday I get at least one payment!

KatM
04-20-2018, 04:53 PM
Please note: If you are expecting payment via CosmoPayment this week, it has been initiated. Because this payment solution was implemented quickly, there may be a delay on when you see the funds in your Cosmo account. We are working to resolve this and expect processing to return to normal schedules in the coming week or two. Rest assured, your payment will be received!

Just saw this on my home page. So I guess I might not see any money for this week or next week then? Normally I get payment on Friday. I really hope next Friday I get at least one payment!

Just posted this myself in the SM vent thread and Cosmo Pay thread for all to see before i saw ur post here; what i understand from the bolded part of the sentence is, the payments for this week will be delayed but they dont specify for how long (can be hours or days) and for the next week and the week after things will go smoother, i dont read it like it'll take a whole week or two to get the money that were supposed to hit our cosmo accounts today (friday).
Not a native english speaker here but this is what i personally understand and i hope i am right cause i too need that money. xx

Erika_Xstacy
04-20-2018, 09:39 PM
Thats weird @KK. Does your mail go through another post office first?

When I send off things from where I live in NC, it has to go up to VA and then get on track. My home city in NC was direct to and from

They are mailed on Thursday and if we get lucky on holidays they will mail them out weds, same day as cutting.

FUCK! fucking holidays.. fucking mail and banks. I forgot that some holiday weeks I didnt get a check until Thurs.
We need ach :(

didnt mean to vent

tropo
04-21-2018, 08:44 AM
These are super obvious questions and probably you have applied zero effort into finding the answers so I will help you out.

1. Yes and No/ Yes and No

2. Minimum pay out is 100USD and the other part is a great question!

3. Yes

Hope that helps

OH! And look here. Its called FAQ (pronounced FAC) Go make yourself a big bowl of popcorn and tuck in!

http://streamatehelp.com/faq/?pid=10900170&pname=SabrinaDeep&std=0

Question 3 was: Is the payout 30 or 35%, to which you answered "yes". LOL

It's 30% for me streaming from Asia. I don't know if only US models get 35% or others too.

kortneykay
04-21-2018, 01:40 PM
Thats weird @KK. Does your mail go through another post office first?

When I send off things from where I live in NC, it has to go up to VA and then get on track. My home city in NC was direct to and from

They are mailed on Thursday and if we get lucky on holidays they will mail them out weds, same day as cutting.

FUCK! fucking holidays.. fucking mail and banks. I forgot that some holiday weeks I didnt get a check until Thurs.
We need ach :(

didnt mean to vent

Someone above mentioned cutting them on Weds and sending on Fri which I thought was odd because I get mine on Mondays as well as many others but I went with it. I'm just thinking what you're thinking- they send on Weds or Thurs. If they sent it on Fri, I wouldn't have it until Weds.

minniesoporno
04-21-2018, 02:18 PM
Finally another bonus week that isn't competitive.

"For the entire week of April 22-28 (GMT), we're giving all performers a 20% earning bonus! If you earn at least $25 during that week, we'll add up all of your eligible earnings and add on a 20% earnings bonus (eligible earnings excludes Video Sales, Cammodels, TopSpot adjustments, Partner Site, and Gold Club earnings, which do not count towards your bonus earnings).

This means that if your eligible earnings for the week are $1000, we'll add an extra $200 bonus, just for streaming! This special event doesn’t have a leaderboard or a prize list, and there’s no limit to the amount you can earn. Once you make at least $25, this bonus applies to all eligible earnings made between April 22-28 GMT, so make sure you know when those dates start in your time zone."

This was interesting to see. since its just 20% bonus over earnings $25. and it's not a leaderboard contest.

My check arrives April 18 sent out April 13th. (Canada) just now waiting for my bank to release those funds. because I am trying a thing where I am not visiting money mart often. I am not sure about Paxum I am waiting a few months before I use my paxum account.

since I am back from my trip I just need to crush it and make enough for a new powerful computer. then eventually have my room set up with 2 or 3 computers depending on layout and comfort.

kamiliam
04-21-2018, 04:47 PM
Someone above mentioned cutting them on Weds and sending on Fri which I thought was odd because I get mine on Mondays as well as many others but I went with it. I'm just thinking what you're thinking- they send on Weds or Thurs. If they sent it on Fri, I wouldn't have it until Weds.

check just came, this time it was mailed on Thursday. Last week it was mailed on Friday, normally it is mailed on Thursdays

scarletl
04-22-2018, 10:21 AM
Question 3 was: Is the payout 30 or 35%, to which you answered "yes". LOL

It's 30% for me streaming from Asia. I don't know if only US models get 35% or others too.

Thank you for helping/confirming that, without feeling a desperate need to be condescending or rude.

pussyhoe
04-23-2018, 03:41 AM
HA! Love this!!!!

DeepThoughts
04-23-2018, 04:44 AM
Thank you for helping/confirming that, without feeling a desperate need to be condescending or rude.

I wasnt being condescending or rude I was being passive aggressive and sarcastic. The answer to all the questions were intended to be vague because you came here asking someone to spoon feed you the most basic information about the working on SM I found that rude.

Im thinking maybe I need a break. I always enjoy being helpful on this site and offering advice to all the other models but when I see something I dont agree with I do call it out. Im not one of those "if you dont have anything nice to say" types but I do try to do it with out being outwardly insulting or attacking a persons character I just stick to calling a spade a spade. I think that just like sometimes the cam clients can wear you down sometimes you other models do it to me as well. Think I need to just refocus my energy and spend less time here. Maybe just visit the goal threads and keep to that for a while. Obviously Im not appreciated here.

JackAlexander
04-23-2018, 05:19 AM
I wasnt being condescending or rude I was being passive aggressive and sarcastic. The answer to all the questions were intended to be vague because you came here asking someone to spoon feed you the most basic information about the working on SM I found that rude.

Im thinking maybe I need a break. I always enjoy being helpful on this site and offering advice to all the other models but just like sometimes the cam clients can wear you down sometimes you other models do it to me as well. Think I need to just refocus my energy and spend less time here. Maybe just visit the goal threads and keep to that for a while.

:-) maybe you do need a break. I think scarletl was being sincere and I think you might have thought she was being sarcastic?

scarletl
04-23-2018, 10:36 AM
:-) maybe you do need a break. I think scarletl was being sincere and I think you might have thought she was being sarcastic?

Yes I was being sincere. I have been a cam model for many years, alongside being on this and another cam girl forum. And yes I understand how frustrating it is when people ask simple questions. (Hence why I pointed it out that they were simple).
My questions was more so looking for confirmation of things that I wondered before I joined SM.

tropo
04-23-2018, 10:53 AM
I wasnt being condescending or rude I was being passive aggressive and sarcastic. The answer to all the questions were intended to be vague because you came here asking someone to spoon feed you the most basic information about the working on SM I found that rude.

Im thinking maybe I need a break. I always enjoy being helpful on this site and offering advice to all the other models but when I see something I dont agree with I do call it out. Im not one of those "if you dont have anything nice to say" types but I do try to do it with out being outwardly insulting or attacking a persons character I just stick to calling a spade a spade. I think that just like sometimes the cam clients can wear you down sometimes you other models do it to me as well. Think I need to just refocus my energy and spend less time here. Maybe just visit the goal threads and keep to that for a while. Obviously Im not appreciated here.

I'm with you there. This forum is invaluable and I've learned a lot here as well as tried to be as helpful as possible to others, but if you hang out here too much it can do your head in if you get on the wrong side of certain members that feel they own this place. If you stop getting email notifications about replies you soon forget this forum exists and you can get on with your regular life (camming).