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Erika_Xstacy
08-27-2019, 04:01 PM
I want to be able to reach out to the guys. If they would let us send them email through the system, then it's great for marketing. You know, like you can on NF.

As it stands, I have to wait and hope that a potential or current custy sends me an email, and only then can I respond. It puts the power in their hands. I want the power to get them to connect with me when I'm ready for them.

you can send messages if you switch back to classic mode from the new messenger
the compose button is the first button and from there you can send a mass email

do not include the link to your webcam, support will deny it

AmaraWaters
08-27-2019, 04:41 PM
No worries. Nothing rude in asking a question.

Yes, some of my gold shows don't involve sexuality. They do involve nudity, but we drink, smoke and laugh. Sometimes I cook naked (careful not to fry something greasy, ouch), sometimes I shower, sometimes I clean the balcony naked, sometimes I just chat with them (naked story time). None of those involves a toy or anything going in my "holes". Do guys complain? Some of them, cause they are stupid enough not to read the topic. Majority like it very much and constantly ask me for more. I mean, 30 min for $5 to see a naked chick making an omelette and dancing to country music. Fuck, that's something new and unusual and not repetitive at all. And wifey material for most.

I market my personality more than my body. I "fish" all my good clients with words and giggles, more than services. No anal, no squirting, toys only in exclusive, no big toys, small feet, no major fetishes, not glamour, not a cumming machine (I won't fake it for 5-10 minutes of show).
I don't stay much online (4-5h), I try not to set goals for $ or time, cause I get bored or grumpy and then I ruin my whole marketing. Because I focus mostly on the impression I leave, it gets tiring to stay in that role/persona if traffic doesn't bring me money. Rarely I stay online just to make hours.

Only issue is they get attached. I always tell them I have a hubby, so they know right away. Still, some of them will try forcing my hand by sending me their email or phone. So set your limits from the start.

Do I offer sexual shows? Yeah, definitively. But I get creative avoiding it when I want to. It's good to have such an option, more than telling them "shark week" or "not in the mood to fuck my vagina".

thank you so much for clarification!

I’m actually really glad to hear you do that kind of stuff. I started camming on sites like MFC and chaturbate and used to do stuff like that all the time and have never been a huge fan of how sexually-driven SM is. It’s good to know there’s guys who will too for chill shows like that!

ill definitely have to start doing them


what do you set as a gold goal normally?

izshadow
08-27-2019, 05:53 PM
If you hover your mouse over the profile pictures on the models, it now shows you the model in real time. You dont even have to enter the room.

Some models take a little longer then others but I'm sure cause its "beta". But if you hover long enough, you will see them.

Erika_Xstacy
08-27-2019, 09:28 PM
If you hover your mouse over the profile pictures on the models, it now shows you the model in real time. You dont even have to enter the room.

Some models take a little longer then others but I'm sure cause its "beta". But if you hover long enough, you will see them.

normally its only when members log in this feature is used. I was surprised to see it work for non member accts so i wonder if its permanent

euro_princess
08-28-2019, 06:22 AM
thank you so much for clarification!

I’m actually really glad to hear you do that kind of stuff. I started camming on sites like MFC and chaturbate and used to do stuff like that all the time and have never been a huge fan of how sexually-driven SM is. It’s good to know there’s guys who will too for chill shows like that!

ill definitely have to start doing them


what do you set as a gold goal normally?


Privates are yes, mostly sexually oriented or explicit at least. Exclusives I would say not that much, especially it you have a clientele focused on GFE.

Depends how long is my gold show. At least $200 for 6 min. I would normally start it around $150.
If we're talking about a special show, that ups the price, even if there is nothing sexual. I'm not risking being seen by my neighbors for $100, even if I'm just waving my tits. And I will tell them that.

$400 for 30 min. $500-600 for 60 min. Yeah, sounds crazy. I don't reach it all the time, but I'm good with a couple of hundreds, as long as I get 60-70% of my goal. Plus, with such a long show, expect others to join during your time left. More time left = more chances for random guys to pop in.
High prices are fascinating for guys, they wanna know what's in there for so much money, so they join.
Talk your way through! Your show is special and rare and your price is actually a bargain. I mean, just a few dollars for an hour of you naked?! Dude, you must be asexual if you don't join.

Yeah, is cheap, but you're not doing much actually. 😉

BubblyBlonde
08-28-2019, 09:57 AM
I am considering getting a new laptop for better placement and was wondering if it’s worth it now that SM has changed how they do placement. My stream heath Excellent and it says I have priority placement each time. Anyone have any insight on this?

Shanda1836
08-28-2019, 12:02 PM
AH CRAP! streaming connection lost! 5 minutes on cam!
I'm hardwired, great speed!

anonamiss
08-28-2019, 12:45 PM
thank you so much for clarification!

I’m actually really glad to hear you do that kind of stuff. I started camming on sites like MFC and chaturbate and used to do stuff like that all the time and have never been a huge fan of how sexually-driven SM is. It’s good to know there’s guys who will too for chill shows like that!

ill definitely have to start doing them

what do you set as a gold goal normally?

I do a lot of chill hang out shows as well, and my room in general is really laid back. For me, it tends to naturally weed out the guys I don't like. The guys who are just there for generic overly sexualized "wam bam thank you mam" kind of private shows are not my type at all, and they usually just leave when they see me being so talkative in free chat. It attracts the guys I do like, who usually spend good money and become GFE-esque regulars. Like euro_princess said, though, that does make it more likely they'll get attached. I am very careful not to lead anyone on. They know I'll never meet up and that this is strictly my job.

Its definitely more of a token site vibe / hustle in some ways, but because that is rather uncommon on SM, you stand out and get guys attention.

izshadow
08-28-2019, 04:07 PM
I am considering getting a new laptop for better placement and was wondering if it’s worth it now that SM has changed how they do placement. My stream heath Excellent and it says I have priority placement each time. Anyone have any insight on this?


I got the best of the best. Purchased the top of the line recommendation for SM by SM and it did squat. I actually think I looked clearer on my old set up.

If you can afford it though, do it. I did it through a lease to own program.

I had high hopes it would have helped get me where I need to be with SM and so far it has done diddly.

BubblyBlonde
08-28-2019, 05:46 PM
I got the best of the best. Purchased the top of the line recommendation for SM by SM and it did squat. I actually think I looked clearer on my old set up.

If you can afford it though, do it. I did it through a lease to own program.

I had high hopes it would have helped get me where I need to be with SM and so far it has done diddly.

THanks for your feedback! When I do the Neon App my placement is exactly the same as when I am on my i3 laptop. It's possibly it doesn't make a difference anymore.

izshadow
08-28-2019, 07:01 PM
THanks for your feedback! When I do the Neon App my placement is exactly the same as when I am on my i3 laptop. It's possibly it doesn't make a difference anymore.

You are welcome! When you have the money though, do it just because it would be good to have updated equipment but do it for you when you are ready. Not for SM.

I have till September 12th to pay off my remaining balance or get sucked in to paying twice as much in interest for another year. So I've been selling things around the house and putting off my dentist appointment to pay the damn computer off. I had hoped it would have paid for itself in the course of those three months and it hasnt causing me even more stress.

DeepThoughts
08-29-2019, 02:46 AM
I got the best of the best. Purchased the top of the line recommendation for SM by SM and it did squat. I actually think I looked clearer on my old set up.

If you can afford it though, do it. I did it through a lease to own program.

I had high hopes it would have helped get me where I need to be with SM and so far it has done diddly.


I also have the best of the (almost) best but its is not a laptop its a desktop that I built myself and honestly it made a HUGE difference. I had a pretty fast internet connection and I never ever got dropped off, my image was really clear and my placement was excellent. About a month ago we were able to upgrade to optic fiber and its lightening fast!! I never have any of the issues that people complain about on the SM venting, complaining thread! Im convinced that 90% of the issues they experience are a result of internet connection, computer issue or both and they just dont realize it.

I would argue that having a desktop for camming is always going to be better then a laptop but I get that some people like to be able to move around with a laptop when doing their shows. I used to do this and spent thousands on laptop (that is a lie cause mostly I had clients buy my laptops for me but you get what I mean) over the years cause I always had to replace them. You cant fix them or upgrade them and just one shower show gone wrong can mean you need a whole new system so Im a desktop girl now.

Shanda1836
08-29-2019, 10:37 PM
Email to Liz at Streamate

Hi Liz,

I've noticed along with numerous other models who follow Streamate's rules that there is an awful lot of below-the-waist nudity in free chat. I could not stream on Streamate for three years because of low-quality internet service. I used to do quite well on Streamate, but now I don't do so good. My traffic is awful. I can't help but think, after reading all the comments on StripperWeb's Camming Connection forum that it is due to all the free nudity. Does Streamate have any plans to curb this behavior?

Thank You So Much,

Liz (Streamate)
Aug 29, 2019, 3:47 PM (8 hours ago)
to me, Liz

Feel free to take screenshots of any violations and send them to [email protected] We do all that we can to catch violations but sometimes things slip through.



Thanks!

AmaraWaters
08-29-2019, 10:42 PM
I saw a dude full on jerking off, completely naked yesterday. I just don’t understand it 😂

Shanda1836
08-30-2019, 12:21 AM
I saw a dude full on jerking off, completely naked yesterday. I just don’t understand it ��

You did not. Do not tell stories! ROFLMAO!

AmaraWaters
08-30-2019, 12:34 AM
You did not. Do not tell stories! ROFLMAO!


Oh how i wish wish I was joking 😭😂 having to dive deep into page 8 to find myself I came across some very interesting rooms

NitaBaby
08-30-2019, 04:26 AM
I saw a dude full on jerking off, completely naked yesterday. I just don’t understand it ��

Bet you 5 bucks there's a guy on sm doing it right now. Honest question, how do they sell shows? What do they do in pvt? If that's what some are doing in free chat. Truly curious.

NitaBaby
08-30-2019, 06:04 AM
Are we allowed to have a customer sm account? I tried to make one and have to send a scanned copy of my ID because my cc was flagged for fraud. Don't want to risk getting my model account banned by sending this info in if we aren't even supposed to have a customer account.

euro_princess
08-30-2019, 08:58 AM
Bet you 5 bucks there's a guy on sm doing it right now. Honest question, how do they sell shows? What do they do in pvt? If that's what some are doing in free chat. Truly curious.

Most of people on far away pages work on multiple sites. They have no strategy, no persona, just log on and wait for the money to come from whatever website.
They split cam with token website (Chaturbate, Bonga, Stripchat), so they end up performing a show on all the platforms, because they are too lazy to log off or they try "fishing" clients with an ongoing show. Not the best hustle, if you ask me. They should at least pair similar platforms, but whatever pays the bills. I'm nobody to judge!

Plus, I've heard stories of studios forcing people to perform shows, in hope they will at least make some money, than nothing at all.

euro_princess
08-30-2019, 09:00 AM
Are we allowed to have a customer sm account? I tried to make one and have to send a scanned copy of my ID because my cc was flagged for fraud. Don't want to risk getting my model account banned by sending this info in if we aren't even supposed to have a customer account.

I think so. Never had an issue with mine.
Advice for girls that want to spend money with other girls: make your account on your own affiliate link. This way, you'll get 20% back!

Marina Starr
08-30-2019, 09:56 AM
Thank you Streamate for removing my 1 star rating from a 33 seconds private... the bastard was spiteful because he has to pay.

How the fuck do you rate a 33 seconds show? Bastard.

Panthera
08-30-2019, 10:06 AM
Thank you Streamate for removing my 1 star rating from a 33 seconds private... the bastard was spiteful because he has to pay.

How the fuck do you rate a 33 seconds show? Bastard.


Happy to hear they removed it for you. What email address did you use? I have been emailing them for the last 3 clearly wrong 1 star ratings and they never answered me for any of those. Nor removed them as usual, after my clear explanation with added print screen.
They used to be ok at removing 1 star ratings, but lately I don't know why they ignored me. The 3 ratings were during 3 months or so, because I rarely am not listening to my intuition, therefore only rarely some motherfucker manages to catch me off guard, but still. Now I am not allowing anyone (except regulars) in my private chat without first exchanging a few words in free, so I can "feel their energy".

NitaBaby
08-30-2019, 10:18 AM
Most of people on far away pages work on multiple sites. They have no strategy, no persona, just log on and wait for the money to come from whatever website.
They split cam with token website (Chaturbate, Bonga, Stripchat), so they end up performing a show on all the platforms, because they are too lazy to log off or they try "fishing" clients with an ongoing show. Not the best hustle, if you ask me. They should at least pair similar platforms, but whatever pays the bills. I'm nobody to judge!

Plus, I've heard stories of studios forcing people to perform shows, in hope they will at least make some money, than nothing at all.


Ahh. I hadn't thought of that, it would really explain it. Thanks!

Amollah
08-30-2019, 11:16 AM
Today is Friday so that's a long shot but you can message [email protected]

She's great at helping when you need it so bad.

I contacted her and she helped me I am happy I am back to sm again ;D;D;D I am so thankful to liz if only I can give her a hug heheh as if she wanted it tho haha. Thank you very much

Sweet_Sadie
08-30-2019, 12:13 PM
I think so. Never had an issue with mine.
Advice for girls that want to spend money with other girls: make your account on your own affiliate link. This way, you'll get 20% back!

Question: Why would we want to spend money on another girl? Is this for coaching purposes? I understand why a girl wants to enter in another girl's free chat (to see what her hustle might be). I've even had some girls pose as the guy, and I didn't figure out it was another performer until I started getting firm about starting a show.

Anyway, why would we book a show with another performer?

Marina Starr
08-30-2019, 12:31 PM
I wrote support from my account (clicked support and contact) . I think it depends on who got your message. Sometimes I don't hear back at all but the majority of time I do hear back and they removed bad ratings.


Happy to hear they removed it for you. What email address did you use? I have been emailing them for the last 3 clearly wrong 1 star ratings and they never answered me for any of those. Nor removed them as usual, after my clear explanation with added print screen.
They used to be ok at removing 1 star ratings, but lately I don't know why they ignored me. The 3 ratings were during 3 months or so, because I rarely am not listening to my intuition, therefore only rarely some motherfucker manages to catch me off guard, but still. Now I am not allowing anyone (except regulars) in my private chat without first exchanging a few words in free, so I can "feel their energy".

Marina Starr
08-30-2019, 12:34 PM
Liz is wonderfully helpful but I don't like to bother much with ratings unless I really need them removed because it's rating my overall rating. I know she deals with a lot of shit so I try my best not to bother her.

One or two bad ratings don't really hurt so if it's my ego that's hurting I usually just let it go :)


I contacted her and she helped me I am happy I am back to sm again ;D;D;D I am so thankful to liz if only I can give her a hug heheh as if she wanted it tho haha. Thank you very much

euro_princess
08-30-2019, 02:13 PM
Question: Why would we want to spend money on another girl? Is this for coaching purposes? I understand why a girl wants to enter in another girl's free chat (to see what her hustle might be). I've even had some girls pose as the guy, and I didn't figure out it was another performer until I started getting firm about starting a show.

Anyway, why would we book a show with another performer?

I don't think is about getting a show, at least not for me. But more giving a tip as a tribute for liking her. I've done that before. I like certain performers (not sexually, not that would be anything wrong with it, I like them for their personality, I would hang out with some if I could). So sometimes I pop in to make their day better. Is that weird? Probably. But I enjoy their joy. Dropping $25 and vanishing right away, it's fun.

Some people do join to see what others do in pvt/GS. Not my cup of tea, cause I don't honestly care. I mind my own business, but sharing is caring. And seeing a girl cheering up after a tip is addictive (pretty easy to understand the MFC culture after you experience tipping somebody).

Erika_Xstacy
08-30-2019, 02:15 PM
Question: Why would we want to spend money on another girl? Is this for coaching purposes? I understand why a girl wants to enter in another girl's free chat (to see what her hustle might be). I've even had some girls pose as the guy, and I didn't figure out it was another performer until I started getting firm about starting a show.

Anyway, why would we book a show with another performer?

I've tipped girls for having bad days, sometimes a angelic ring makes her smile.
I dont say anything.
I log in, switch my name and ghost tip. I dont want her to think I am stalking her but if she did find out I tipped at least it was over 25 gold

I've had 1 account on sm banned when I was harassing Trina lol but since then its been cool.
I rarely go out out my way to go into a models room and spend money but if I notice on my end she is legit having stream issues I do enter throw her a 5 and tell her shit is fucked up.
I have it preset to send bc some models legit hate other models names in their room and instant ban. Keep it nice and keep your eye closed
other than that if shes hustling, let her hustle. I report lingering customers to sm as spam, credit card not theirs... lol

Personally I hate when models come in my room to chat, despise it, fucks up my flow.
models ask questions, i hate questions.
Social media is for being social if thats the point of the visit.
I browse not logged in.


Back in the day a lot of us power cammed... meltdowns would happen specifically with goldshows and members not tipping. I hate seeing a girl upset so I tip her lol
I never stayed for a show.




Are you using a pre paid card? they get red flagged from what ive heard

SoloDesire
08-30-2019, 02:23 PM
Question: Why would we want to spend money on another girl? Is this for coaching purposes? I understand why a girl wants to enter in another girl's free chat (to see what her hustle might be). I've even had some girls pose as the guy, and I didn't figure out it was another performer until I started getting firm about starting a show.

Anyway, why would we book a show with another performer?

I've tributed to GOLD shows many times (anonymously) . Mostly out of intrigue. To see why that model tends to draw in a crowd. Curiosity mostly...because what's a few bucks here and there to watch an entire show? That's why I don't offer GOLD shows...pretty much anyone can chip into it and I'm not about that life lol.

euro_princess
08-30-2019, 02:29 PM
^ Some girls are really fun and it sucks seeing them struggle with those morons. A random tip might switch her day. I never talk either. I'm not in there to keep them busy, just to throw something and leave.

I'm not social at all, I get very awkward even on Twitter. I'm almost ashamed to talk to other girls. WHAT IF THEY DON'T LIKE ME BACK?! So I feel better if I anonymously tip them, my personal way of saying I appreciate their work, even if they have no clue who's behind.
That reminds me, one of my fav girls vanished from the website a few months ago and closed every social media. I was so sad I never got in contact with her. We shared a common customer and I know she was fond of me too. I truly hope she found something better and is happy!

I guess you could find friendship and collegiality in this industry! I'm that dreamer.

NitaBaby
08-30-2019, 03:58 PM
Question: Why would we want to spend money on another girl? Is this for coaching purposes? I understand why a girl wants to enter in another girl's free chat (to see what her hustle might be). I've even had some girls pose as the guy, and I didn't figure out it was another performer until I started getting firm about starting a show.

Anyway, why would we book a show with another performer?

Because it's awesome. We all know what a random tip over $20 feels like. Being the source of that great feeling is worth it to me. Some of these girls are entertaining asf and alot of times they're always logged in, hustling. I respect that.

It's not making any of my bills late by tipping her so why not.

Amollah
08-30-2019, 04:53 PM
Because it's awesome. We all know what a random tip over $20 feels like. Being the source of that great feeling is worth it to me. Some of these girls are entertaining asf and alot of times they're always logged in, hustling. I respect that.

It's not making any of my bills late by tipping her so why not.

Hehe lets be friend LOL :D:D:D:D

Amollah
08-30-2019, 04:56 PM
Someone rated me 4 lol but its ok I am not a pro tho I don't have toys or any thing I don't even finger lol so I understand that, its acceptable LOL. My day is complete because I am back on streamate yaiks so happy.

PixiieGirl
08-30-2019, 05:02 PM
Question: Why would we want to spend money on another girl? Is this for coaching purposes? I understand why a girl wants to enter in another girl's free chat (to see what her hustle might be). I've even had some girls pose as the guy, and I didn't figure out it was another performer until I started getting firm about starting a show.

Anyway, why would we book a show with another performer?

I'd maybe be inclined to but Im bisexual - tho I'd probably tip in a friendly way to tbh, I've some models I genuinely count as good friends so I like spreading the wealth if I've done well myself if that makes sense? lol

anonamiss
08-30-2019, 05:18 PM
Question: Why would we want to spend money on another girl? Is this for coaching purposes? I understand why a girl wants to enter in another girl's free chat (to see what her hustle might be). I've even had some girls pose as the guy, and I didn't figure out it was another performer until I started getting firm about starting a show.

Anyway, why would we book a show with another performer?

I have several camgirls (some who work on other sites) who hang out and tip in my free chat or for gold shows. The guys love having another girl on there, and I don't mind as long as she doesn't advertise herself (which has never happened. They are generally there because they like my vibes and seem to genuinely want to tip me. So who am I to judge? If anyone becomes problematic I'll block them, but I don't do that automatically just because the other person is another camgirl.)

I have joined several gold shows out of curiosity, and have anonymously tipped girls I find fun and entertaining. I always use a very generic dude name so I blend in with the crowd, and I never mention that I'm also a camgirl.

I don't do it much anymore though, because at the end of the day it's kind of a waste of my time and money for me.

Serena113
08-30-2019, 10:52 PM
Someone rated me 4 lol but its ok I am not a pro tho I don't have toys or any thing I don't even finger lol so I understand that, its acceptable LOL. My day is complete because I am back on streamate yaiks so happy.

It’s not acceptable if you were performing the show described in your profile and room topic. There are plenty on there that don’t masturbate or even undress, and if that is your niche and you performed as you stated you would then you deserve 5 stars. Yay for getting back on track though :)

Charlotteslut
08-31-2019, 01:19 AM
I used the SM wire option for the first time and it was so fast! I'm Canadian and the payment was sent on Wed and I got my money in my account on Friday :) My bank is Simplii financial which I also recommend bc it has no fees. So much better than Paxum where I had to wait a month for my money lol

NitaBaby
08-31-2019, 05:30 AM
Hehe lets be friend LOL :D:D:D:D

I'm down! lol
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Miss_ShaSha
08-31-2019, 10:34 AM
Question: Why would we want to spend money on another girl? Is this for coaching purposes? I understand why a girl wants to enter in another girl's free chat (to see what her hustle might be). I've even had some girls pose as the guy, and I didn't figure out it was another performer until I started getting firm about starting a show.

Anyway, why would we book a show with another performer?

I tip fellow cam girls I support here on SW or when I visit a girl who has an awesome personality. I always announce myself after the tip, genuinely compliment their personality, then leave. I never stay long.

A $25 GOLD tip feels good to give & receive. Kinda like Nita says it's just "awesome".

I like supporting girls & sharing my wealth.

Panthera
08-31-2019, 11:03 AM
^

I'm not social at all, I get very awkward even on Twitter. I'm almost ashamed to talk to other girls. WHAT IF THEY DON'T LIKE ME BACK?!

I guess you could find friendship and collegiality in this industry! I'm that dreamer.


Well, girl, I can honestly say that I like you, even if I don't know who you are as a camgirl, but I love your personality and I appreciate the help that you provide on here. I bet that you are an awesome friend in real life, awkward is authentic and that's awesome! I perfectly understand though what you mean, because I am just the same. I only had a few friends that I chatted with in this business (and only 2 that I met in real life as well), during the 18 years that I have been here. Unfortunately I lost contact with them and one of them disappeared 2 years ago too, and I am afraid something bad has happened to her, because she was not the type to cut all communication like that. She was an angel of a girl, she has helped me with support and advice in a hard period of my life and I will always be grateful to her and thankful for having met her. I wish someone could tell me what has happened to her, but when I posted here to ask, my post got deleted...dunno why, for privacy reasons maybe, because I had posted her camgirl name. She was on this forum too, but I don't know her forum name.

I always hoped I could find friendship and collegiality and genuine connection in this job but somehow I was very naive to think there could be, or I don't know. I always ended up in awkward situations where people would get me all wrong (except for that girl that disappeared).

Fact is, I still think there are good people out there :) I wish I could fins my tribe one day. Until then, I try myself to be the kind of person that I would like as a friend. And I am very thankful for this forum!

laurielegs
08-31-2019, 01:17 PM
I only had a few friends that I chatted with in this business (and only 2 that I met in real life as well), during the 18 years that I have been here. Unfortunately I lost contact with them and one of them disappeared 2 years ago too, and I am afraid something bad has happened to her, because she was not the type to cut all communication like that. She was an angel of a girl, she has helped me with support and advice in a hard period of my life and I will always be grateful to her and thankful for having met her. I wish someone could tell me what has happened to her, but when I posted here to ask, my post got deleted...dunno why, for privacy reasons maybe, because I had posted her camgirl name. She was on this forum too, but I don't know her forum name.

Maybe you can make a separate post with your own camgirl name asking her to PM you or get in touch somehow.

Panthera
09-01-2019, 10:27 AM
Maybe you can make a separate post with your own camgirl name asking her to PM you or get in touch somehow.


I have her email address, phone number, twitter, c4s profile, camgirl names on 2 sites (and she has all that about me too), and I tried contacting her everywhere and no answer. I also have her real name but it seems to be an usual name, I googled and found thousands of people by that name. Her profiles seem untouched since more than 2 years ago and her website domain expired, so...
She was a very organized lady so she would have never just let her domain expire but her twitter up, I don't know..
The only thing that I don't know is her SW nickname, to ask if someone else knew her. She was from China, and living in Australia.
I am thinking about her very often. But I guess some people just enter our lives for a while and make a big difference, and we should be grateful for that while, and then go on with our own lives... She inspired me to be just like she was for me, to others, as much as I can. At least that I can do to honor her.

Panthera
09-01-2019, 11:12 AM
Liz is wonderfully helpful but I don't like to bother much with ratings unless I really need them removed because it's rating my overall rating. I know she deals with a lot of shit so I try my best not to bother her.

One or two bad ratings don't really hurt so if it's my ego that's hurting I usually just let it go :)


Haha, that's why I left it like that, because it was more my ego than the ratings. I still have a 5 overall and one bad rating a month or even more rarely won't affect me. But still, they should at least answer. The no answer hurt my ego too! lol

PixiieGirl
09-01-2019, 12:38 PM
I have her email address, phone number, twitter, c4s profile, camgirl names on 2 sites (and she has all that about me too), and I tried contacting her everywhere and no answer. I also have her real name but it seems to be an usual name, I googled and found thousands of people by that name. Her profiles seem untouched since more than 2 years ago and her website domain expired, so...
She was a very organized lady so she would have never just let her domain expire but her twitter up, I don't know..
The only thing that I don't know is her SW nickname, to ask if someone else knew her. She was from China, and living in Australia.
I am thinking about her very often. But I guess some people just enter our lives for a while and make a big difference, and we should be grateful for that while, and then go on with our own lives... She inspired me to be just like she was for me, to others, as much as I can. At least that I can do to honor her.

sounds like she probably left the work, Im sorry you lost a friend in that tho

laurielegs
09-01-2019, 03:26 PM
Haha, that's why I left it like that, because it was more my ego than the ratings. I still have a 5 overall and one bad rating a month or even more rarely won't affect me. But still, they should at least answer. The no answer hurt my ego too! lol

A lot of times customers won't trust ratings if they are all 5 stars across the board. It makes it look like it's real people rating if there are a few sprinkled in there not all 5.

alexiarose22
09-02-2019, 03:46 PM
Does anyone know the difference between being in a studio account? I had an independent account few years ago but what are the payment options for an independent account in 2019? Do they have direct deposit? Can you get back a previous account once its been closed? Thank you Xxx

Amollah
09-04-2019, 09:11 PM
Does anyone know the difference between being in a studio account? I had an independent account few years ago but what are the payment options for an independent account in 2019? Do they have direct deposit? Can you get back a previous account once its been closed? Thank you Xxx

Yes you can get back your previous account happened to me it, was inactive for almost two years so they closed my account, I just messaged the streamatemodelssupport, I requested for re activation of my account gave them my streamate account and email address and they open it again.

anonamiss
09-05-2019, 01:03 AM
Does anyone know the difference between being in a studio account? I had an independent account few years ago but what are the payment options for an independent account in 2019? Do they have direct deposit? Can you get back a previous account once its been closed? Thank you Xxx

payment options depend on your location and each of them have different minimum payouts and some have fees -- but no, there is no direct deposit. (which I think we're all getting really sick of... I work on two other sites and they both do direct deposit, I don't understand why SM hasn't gotten on board.)

anyway. here's the list from SM: check via regular mail, check via FedEx, Wire Transfer, Paxum, Cosmo Payment, Juicy Service, EPay Service.

EPay Service looks like the closest to regular ACH/Direct Deposit, but if I'm understanding their fees page correctly ( https://epayservices.com/en/fees.html ), when all is said and done it basically costs 2.5% plus $45 to get your money. (Can anyone confirm if that is correct? Does anyone use this service with SM? It looks like you have to pay fees both to get it to your "EWallet" then again to take it out and put it in your bank. If that is the case, that is total bullshit, IMO.)

gbjenna
09-05-2019, 02:45 AM
Possibly a stupid question, but what happens if you set a gold show up and don't hit your target? Do you go ahead anyway but just end up doing a show for pennies?

I'm thinking of trying one out as it's so quiet right now but I don't know if it's a bad idea!