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Smurfette
12-12-2020, 11:23 AM
I don't see what the big deal is with C2C. I've always accepted that seeing guys and their dicks on cam is just a part of the job. Hell I make most of my money by doing Skype calls on Niteflirt. I don't get a tiny window like on SM, their cam literally takes up my entire laptop screen lol! No way to avoid it.

Guys pay good money to get personalized interactions with us, doing C2C and having us watch them is often a big part of that.

Yes most of the guys on C2C are gross but every now and then I'll luck out and get a hottie or a guy with a very nice big cock lol. It's not all bad.

SoloDesire
12-12-2020, 11:26 AM
That's why we're all obliged to run our own room the way we want ;) C2C or not to C2C, it's all a personal choice.

I also don't fuck my pussy on cam, which most guys expect. Doesn't mean I have to do it.

ETA: I do offer C2C, like I said earlier. I get a lot of shows by accepting it. I just don't use their audio because I'm uncomfortable hearing their voices. I also never actually watch their cam (accept and minimize) unless it's a Femdom show and I get to humiliate or control them...but those are the types of shows I offer, so if they're just jerking off and want me to watch then I'll pretend I'm watching.

Jodyjensen
12-12-2020, 11:30 AM
I don't see what the big deal is with C2C. I've always accepted that seeing guys and their dicks on cam is just a part of the job. Hell I make most of my money by doing Skype calls on Niteflirt. I don't get a tiny window like on SM, their cam literally takes up my entire laptop screen lol! No way to avoid it.

Guys pay good money to get personalized interactions with us, doing C2C and having us watch them is often a big part of that.

Yes most of the guys on C2C are gross but every now and then I'll luck out and get a hottie or a guy with a very nice big cock lol. It's not all bad.
I also see c2c as a pretty big part of camming, but each to their own of course. I actually prefer it, it gives me something to work with/something to talk about. I rarely have anyone I find repulsive, most are average.

kamiliam
12-12-2020, 11:36 AM
Absolutely we run our rooms! I don’t do anal despite their assumptions, when they ask I say no. I am sure you say no for penetration. The customer is given a choice, if they are into your look or the idea of you, they will stay. I have gotten long no anal shows from guys named like “analonlyhardhardnow” after telling them my limits.

If the dude’s main goal is watching them jack off you should give them the opportunity to find someone else who can do that for them.

Boundaries are great but you have to assert them

Miss_ShaSha
12-12-2020, 11:55 AM
I've been offering C2C since returning to cam almost 2 years ago. I'm a Domme and often times find that cam enhances the performance especially when audio is used. I've blocked someone who was repulsive and shitting on himself, but besides that...most guys aren't even bad. I've just assumed seeing dicks is part of the job.

More often than not, when I can hear and see them, I can lengthen the show and really get them to perform for me. I see it as an advantage which has increased earnings in many shows.

izshadow
12-12-2020, 12:15 PM
That's why we're all obliged to run our own room the way we want ;) C2C or not to C2C, it's all a personal choice.

I also don't fuck my pussy on cam, which most guys expect. Doesn't mean I have to do it.

ETA: I do offer C2C, like I said earlier. I get a lot of shows by accepting it. I just don't use their audio because I'm uncomfortable hearing their voices. I also never actually watch their cam (accept and minimize) unless it's a Femdom show and I get to humiliate or control them...but those are the types of shows I offer, so if they're just jerking off and want me to watch then I'll pretend I'm watching.

What do you say when they ask if you have toys and to fuck yourself?

Genoveve
12-12-2020, 12:39 PM
What do you say when they ask if you have toys and to fuck yourself?

I usually am like "If you had read my profile you'd know I don't do any penetration." What happens after that varies from guy-to-guy.



I don't see what the big deal is with C2C. I've always accepted that seeing guys and their dicks on cam is just a part of the job. Hell I make most of my money by doing Skype calls on Niteflirt. I don't get a tiny window like on SM, their cam literally takes up my entire laptop screen lol! No way to avoid it.

Guys pay good money to get personalized interactions with us, doing C2C and having us watch them is often a big part of that.

Same. If you don't like doing it and are able to still make a lot of money and maintain regulars without it or by fake watching it then more power to you, I see no issue with that. But for me I prefer it and find it to be way easier to read guys with and thus make more money off of them.

MissAdriana
12-12-2020, 01:03 PM
How’s the wishlist going for people who have it? I don’t have it and I can’t see it on anyone’s profile

I have it and nobody tipped for it yet so far

SoloDesire
12-12-2020, 01:04 PM
What do you say when they ask if you have toys and to fuck yourself?

If I'm asked then I tell them I don't offer that in my shows. By reading my profile they can see that I Domme...most guys don't bother to read shit though.

princess_casual
12-12-2020, 01:13 PM
Wishlisht? Am I missing something because I never heard anything about a wishlist

Des
12-12-2020, 01:16 PM
LiveJasmin let models charge for C2C from 0 - $3/ min, same with two-way audio, from 0 - $3/ min. Wish i could do that on Streamate. And also wish i could choose to offer C2C only in Exclusive like the Phone...

Miss_ShaSha
12-12-2020, 02:28 PM
LiveJasmin let models charge for C2C from 0 - $3/ min, same with two-way audio, from 0 - $3/ min. Wish i could do that on Streamate. And also wish i could choose to offer C2C only in Exclusive like the Phone...

While members can still send cams in pvt, you can reject & explain excl only. You can charge more for excl which includes things like cam or phone. You have that option :)

Des
12-12-2020, 02:46 PM
While members can still send cams in pvt, you can reject & explain excl only. You can charge more for excl which includes things like cam or phone. You have that option :)

Yeah, i know all that but the idiots don't care and rate you bad and takes one+ week for the support to answer your report and you don't have proof that the reason idiot rate you poor is cuz you did not accept C2C in private. Maybe you are lucky and did not had to go through this . Right now i just swallow it and go on. I wish i had all the options i feel i can control my room. Those are ones about C2C situations.

bigbum
12-12-2020, 04:46 PM
yeah fraud is perhaps not the right term but the customer will believe it to be correct and their cc company will agree and there will be a charge back and perhaps a lost customer from the site or worse one who wants to scam us back. It is automatically enabled and used as a selling point for us.if we never do c2c that should be stated.

I am just a big believer in saying “sorry babe i don’t offer that”, rejecting cams and pretending reality isn’t happening isn’t something i am gonna say is great advice even if it works for them.
oh i forgot to mention that if they ask me before the show if i do c2c i tell them no that i dont
its only if they go in without asking me first, or trying to turn their cam on below the 30 second mark.
If its after the 30 seconds i tell them thats i dont do it if they ask me directly.
But if they dont ask and dont complain about me rejecting it , then i go on with the show like normal
because they think that the cam is on.
I have received atleast 500 or more 5 star ratings and have so many regulars and raving reviews .

Everyone is understanding..
But for those 30 second pushers who try to turn the cam on and leave right after.. Its fair game as far as i am concerned.
They just want you to watch them for 30 seconds or 1 min at most and leave.
So fuck that.

BUT LIKE YOU LADIES SAID. WHAT WORKS FOR 1 GIRL DOESNT WORK FOR ANOTHER , I HAVE A VERY SPECIFIC NICHE AND CLIENTS.
MOST DONT WANT TO SHOW ME THEIR CAM. SO ITS ALL GOOD.
for me i couldnt do this job if i had to look at cams, and i am married so thats our rule.
my point here is , you dont need to do anything you dont want to do.
you can still be sucessful.
you can still be a top earner without compromising.
actually thats something i learned from this forum.

ChloeGreenX
12-13-2020, 02:21 AM
Ok, so I think there's something wrong with the site. I am getting hardly any viewers, then when I go to Streamate to look for myself, I can't even find myself searching by username? Is anyone else experiencing this?

gbjenna
12-13-2020, 04:16 AM
Tbh I take the same approach with c2c sometimes and just decline it repeatedly in private.

It says on my profile c2c is only in exclusive. I tell them in the chat that’s it’s only in exclusive. Telling them that didn’t sink in for a lot of them so I tell them that in layman’s terms now. I say I only do c2c in exclusive. When you click private, you must choose the ‘exclusive’ option for c2c.

Then they still come private and try c2c the moment they enter. I try letting them know we’re in private and we’d need to switch to exclusive for c2c and they just keep sending the request over and over or leave, never to return. So sometimes in that instance I just keep declining and don’t say anything. It works better than wasting energy talking to the equivalent of a brick wall.

Sometimes they listen and they exit out and come back in exclusive but many times they don’t.

KatM
12-13-2020, 05:55 AM
The snapshot feature, oh! how i dont like it, i dont wanna pose my full face and i dont have the proper tits to attract tit lovers, what else can i pose cause i need to be able to click on the button to take the pose and the count down is too short, 3 secs is not enough to click and move to a further away position and make sure the picture is right in the frame and clear plus the preview is too small.
I still cant see the snapshots in the listings, maybe i need to clean cashe or so.
Maybe Calatina the SM EU rep here will come back and read this post and talk to the people in the tech dept to improve this feature?!
I read further back in the thread how others also dont like what i mentioned above.

Shaher
12-13-2020, 08:24 AM
The snapshot feature, oh! how i dont like it, i dont wanna pose my full face and i dont have the proper tits to attract tit lovers, what else can i pose cause i need to be able to click on the button to take the pose and the count down is too short, 3 secs is not enough to click and move to a further away position and make sure the picture is right in the frame and clear plus the preview is too small.
I still cant see the snapshots in the listings, maybe i need to clean cashe or so.
Maybe Calatina the SM EU rep here will come back and read this post and talk to the people in the tech dept to improve this feature?!
I read further back in the thread how others also dont like what i mentioned above.

Snap! Me to hate it. I take a few and until I check I don’t what’s going to show up and I always look demented but having said that I have been busier with this snap shot feature tho still hate it, what can one wear every day or just wear the same in my case.

dancer0307
12-13-2020, 09:05 AM
Hi! I'm thinking about joining SM to make some extra cash!

When I used to strip in the clubs I always hated when customers would ask me to "talk dirty" during a lap dance...it's just not my thing.��

How successful can you be on cam if you're not into talking dirty or role playing? Or is that what pretty much every guy wants/expects?

wealthmagnet
12-13-2020, 09:12 AM
it's like pulling teeth today. getting guys to even talk is nearly impossible. I'm riding it out though. just disappointing

Smurfette
12-13-2020, 09:13 AM
I hate talking dirty in my real life, I get so embarrassed and I just can't do it. But on cam I do it all the time and it doesn't bother me.

Before I started camming there was a lot of things I thought "oh I could never do that", but then I started doing it and realized it wasn't a big deal! So dirty talk might just be something you have to ease yourself into and practice until you feel more comfortable doing it.

Of course, you don't have to do it if you really don't want to. I think most guys expect at least a little bit of it though.

KaliGuurl
12-13-2020, 09:39 AM
So adobe flash is being discontinued pretty soon and I got a pop up from them suggesting I uninstall the program so I did. I go this morning to add a photo to my profile and I can't access the page because it requires flash. Am I just going to have to reinstall it to add more photos? It doesn't really make sense why they haven't changed it since flash is completely useless next month.

Jodyjensen
12-13-2020, 09:40 AM
Hi! I'm thinking about joining SM to make some extra cash!

When I used to strip in the clubs I always hated when customers would ask me to "talk dirty" during a lap dance...it's just not my thing.��

How successful can you be on cam if you're not into talking dirty or role playing? Or is that what pretty much every guy wants/expects?
I absolutely hated dirty talk until I started camming full time, it comes pretty naturally now. You could try it out but spend more time moaning or something until you’re comfortable.

Role play is something I’ve never offered and never plan to. It’s too far out of my comfort zone. I get asked for it a lot but just turn down those shows. I do have the odd couple of clients who wanted roleplay originally but they’re happy to just discuss their fantasies instead of acting it out, I’m fine with that.

You’ll be fine, everyone has their own expertise.

gbjenna
12-13-2020, 09:43 AM
it's like pulling teeth today. getting guys to even talk is nearly impossible. I'm riding it out though. just disappointing

It's been slow for me today! Sooooo many of the guys coming into my chat are people I've marked as constantly free chat peeping over the past few months and never spending. So many people parking and staring aswell. Friday night was dire aswell and that's one of my best times

Emanuelle
12-13-2020, 09:44 AM
So adobe flash is being discontinued pretty soon and I got a pop up from them suggesting I uninstall the program so I did. I go this morning to add a photo to my profile and I can't access the page because it requires flash. Am I just going to have to reinstall it to add more photos? It doesn't really make sense why they haven't changed it since flash is completely useless next month.

I had that problem too a couple weeks ago. I thought about adding them with my phone, but I assume they'll update it soon. Hopefully.

wealthmagnet
12-13-2020, 09:45 AM
It's been slow for me today! Sooooo many of the guys coming into my chat are people I've marked as constantly free chat peeping over the past few months and never spending. So many people parking and staring aswell. Friday night was dire aswell and that's one of my best times

the trolls are out in full force too! not making things any easier. also I've been blocking all guys with a history of lurking. i give them plenty times to make it right with me but i've had enough. i tag lurkers with a random emoji and save it as a note. some of these guys will have a long list of notes which tells me they are bots or just guys with the manners of a box of rocks at the bottom of the ocean and 0 intention of spending . the buck stops right here right now. since it's pure crap today I'm going to make a fun day out of banning them. i will remain in high spirits one way or the other today.

Ladybuggie
12-13-2020, 09:49 AM
I've been online for less than an hour and I've already had to ban like 5 people. Timewasters and beggars, and one abusive guy too. And of course, made less than $10. One of those weird Sundays. They're normally pretty good for me!

gbjenna
12-13-2020, 10:00 AM
the trolls are out in full force too! not making things any easier. also I've been blocking all guys with a history of lurking. i give them plenty times to make it right with me but i've had enough. i tag lurkers with a random emoji and save it as a note. some of these guys will have a long list of notes which tells me they are bots or just guys with the manners of a box of rocks at the bottom of the ocean and 0 intention of spending . the buck stops right here right now. since it's pure crap today I'm going to make a fun day out of banning them. i will remain in high spirits one way or the other today.

That’s what mine are like, long list of notes either all stating they pop in and out multiple times a day or park each time. I’ve had at least 3 come in under different usernames who I blocked before for the same thing aswell. Why bother making a new account just to do the same thing I don’t even know

Jodyjensen
12-13-2020, 10:02 AM
Talking of bannings, I’ve just checked mine. I’m up to 98 now, wonder who the lucky ones are who get me to 100 tonight! Probably cal99 and cal100 (dunno if you guys have spotted him but he has sooo many accounts and never spends) :)

wealthmagnet
12-13-2020, 10:04 AM
That’s what mine are like, long list of notes either all stating they pop in and out multiple times a day or park each time. I’ve had at least 3 come in under different usernames who I blocked before for the same thing aswell. Why bother making a new account just to do the same thing I don’t even know


I've never been a conspiracy theories kinda person but i'm starting to think that most of these users are bots.

gbjenna
12-13-2020, 10:18 AM
I've never been a conspiracy theories kinda person but i'm starting to think that most of these users are bots.

I honestly think some of them must treat this like facebook or insta and just sit scrolling through shit aimlessly for hours a day

wealthmagnet
12-13-2020, 10:25 AM
I honestly think some of them must treat this like facebook or insta and just sit scrolling through shit aimlessly for hours a day


LOL yeah could be that too.

MissAdriana
12-13-2020, 10:27 AM
The snapshot feature, oh! how i dont like it, i dont wanna pose my full face and i dont have the proper tits to attract tit lovers, what else can i pose cause i need to be able to click on the button to take the pose and the count down is too short, 3 secs is not enough to click and move to a further away position

Do you have a movable cam? I do my best to get in position before pressing the button, you could zoom in, cameltoe, legs, feet, high heels, a toy beside you or a paddle against your ass, your lips licking lips if you show them at all, stomach, arch your back sideways doggystyle view showing off your outfit, handbra, just have to mix it up and work with YOUR angles.


the trolls are out in full force too! not making things any easier. also I've been blocking all guys with a history of lurking.

So glad I'm not alone. This month is on another level for some reason. I lost it in a rage on friday and had to sign off to calm down I was shaking with anger at how brazen some of them are in insulting us. It's always party chat. 1 insult and 3 others jump in to attack me too its truly pathetic. They are harassing women online for kicks. They deserve to be IP banned

Silent blocking will save your sanity. The parking in free chat has gotten worse for me too, so SICK of being STARED AT ALLFUCKING DAY if they dont spend or at least chat they are GONE!

Miss_ShaSha
12-13-2020, 10:37 AM
The snapshot feature, oh! how i dont like it, i dont wanna pose my full face and i dont have the proper tits to attract tit lovers, what else can i pose cause i need to be able to click on the button to take the pose and the count down is too short, 3 secs is not enough to click and move to a further away position and make sure the picture is right in the frame and clear plus the preview is too small.
I still cant see the snapshots in the listings, maybe i need to clean cashe or so.
Maybe Calatina the SM EU rep here will come back and read this post and talk to the people in the tech dept to improve this feature?!
I read further back in the thread how others also dont like what i mentioned above.

I do the same pose every time as it's the easiest to do that looks somewhat decent. 3 seconds isn't enough time to do what I really want. I feel ya. I'm seeing the snapshots on Chrome, MS Edge, and Firefox.


Hi! I'm thinking about joining SM to make some extra cash!

When I used to strip in the clubs I always hated when customers would ask me to "talk dirty" during a lap dance...it's just not my thing.��

How successful can you be on cam if you're not into talking dirty or role playing? Or is that what pretty much every guy wants/expects?

I never really dirty talked in the bedroom, but camming has made it really easy. Not every guy wants or asks for it. Every once in a while I get a guy who REALLY needs it and asks, but otherwise soft stuff is ok.

RP on the other hand I'll do if it doesn't violate TOS. You don't have to offer RP. It's kinda like dirty talk. Guys that want it ask. Most of the time I won't entertain it, so it's not gonna break you if you don't.


it's like pulling teeth today. getting guys to even talk is nearly impossible. I'm riding it out though. just disappointing

I'm in hr 3 and it totally slowed way down. My first hour was fast, and now it's just ugh lol.

Ladybuggie
12-13-2020, 10:42 AM
Do you have a movable cam? I do my best to get in position before pressing the button, you could zoom in, cameltoe, legs, feet, high heels, a toy beside you or a paddle against your ass, your lips licking lips if you show them at all, stomach, arch your back sideways doggystyle view showing off your outfit, handbra, just have to mix it up and work with YOUR angles.



So glad I'm not alone. This month is on another level for some reason. I lost it in a rage on friday and had to sign off to calm down I was shaking with anger at how brazen some of them are in insulting us. It's always party chat. 1 insult and 3 others jump in to attack me too its truly pathetic. They are harassing women online for kicks. They deserve to be IP banned

Silent blocking will save your sanity. The parking in free chat has gotten worse for me too, so SICK of being STARED AT ALLFUCKING DAY if they dont spend or at least chat they are GONE!

Ugh I'm sorry, it's awful when they gang up against you. My only advice is, as angry as you feel, try to look bored, like, absolutely over it. Be like "yeah yeah blabla, anything else?" and just quietly ban them. If you need to take a break after that to breathe, do so, but never show them you're upset or angry, they don't deserve knowing that they got to you.

Today I got a guy trying to make me feel bad by calling me fat and I kept replying to him super chilled until I plain yawned, and he got all "Don't yawn at me you bitch!" I went "well, you're a boring cunt", and I banned him. Afterwards I was a bit shaken but it's worth it to try to piss them off. Hugs x

wealthmagnet
12-13-2020, 10:57 AM
Do you have a movable cam? I do my best to get in position before pressing the button, you could zoom in, cameltoe, legs, feet, high heels, a toy beside you or a paddle against your ass, your lips licking lips if you show them at all, stomach, arch your back sideways doggystyle view showing off your outfit, handbra, just have to mix it up and work with YOUR angles.



So glad I'm not alone. This month is on another level for some reason. I lost it in a rage on friday and had to sign off to calm down I was shaking with anger at how brazen some of them are in insulting us. It's always party chat. 1 insult and 3 others jump in to attack me too its truly pathetic. They are harassing women online for kicks. They deserve to be IP banned

Silent blocking will save your sanity. The parking in free chat has gotten worse for me too, so SICK of being STARED AT ALLFUCKING DAY if they dont spend or at least chat they are GONE!


so sorry to hear that! i usually troll them back but decided it wasn't worth it cause i could be using that energy on those who deserve it. i also find that being overly friendly attracts way too many members who park in my chatroom and endlessly chat and never tip or go private. i'm definitely going to be less chatty from now on. it's like the nicer i am the more they use and abuse me.

gbjenna
12-13-2020, 11:00 AM
I switched off party chat about a month ago. I forgot I did it actually. If they come in annoying me or trying to insult I just leave them to talk to thin air until they realise they aren't getting a reaction and other idiots can't join in with them, unless they're really really abusive. Sometimes they start asking why I've not blocked them yet. It blows their mind sometimes not getting a reaction

Miss_ShaSha
12-13-2020, 12:08 PM
I'm not sure why, but I rarely get trolls. I don't show all of my face so perhaps not being able to see me react is a deterrent. I do block members however that are just bad AF. I don't even respond to them; I immediately block.

I'm also rarely in party chat. Classic is my usual mode of chat.

I'm of the camp that doesn't feed trolls. I don't give them any of my energy. I save all energy for spenders. I guess I'm boring lololll.

Smurfette
12-13-2020, 12:17 PM
I never get trolls either lol. No idea why.

Genoveve
12-13-2020, 01:27 PM
I never get trolls either lol. No idea why.

They're very rare for me too. I get freeloaders and guys saying absent-minded shit all the time, but straight-up trying to insult or bully me out of nowhere is very rare, I can go for weeks at a time without a true troll incident.


The snapshot feature, oh! how i dont like it, i dont wanna pose my full face and i dont have the proper tits to attract tit lovers, what else can i pose

Well what did you used to use in your profile pictures? Just keep doing the pose you'd use in your profile pics. You could also just open one of your old profile pics in another tab and use your webcam to take a pic of it on the screen for your 'live' photo.

Miss_ShaSha
12-13-2020, 01:40 PM
Holy smokes! I'm at 5.5 hrs and I feel like doing 10 hrs is gonna kill me lololll. This is tough!!!

everythingiscake
12-13-2020, 02:30 PM
worst. shift. ever. quick, someone help me do the math, what is 30% bonus on nothing?

bigbum
12-13-2020, 05:59 PM
omg yes to all of the above, i was down $20 an hour less than my usual wage. regs didnt join me, and tons of new traffic that never spent.
i am up to 1261 blocked members. i have zero mercy for lurkers lol.
as soon as the bonus started last night the kind of clients changed. and im making much less per an hour than usual
so far the bonus money is just completing my normal wage.

oh well. it was kind of SM to offer this, and also i am sure they are sending a lot of traffic which is great.
my hope is to pull a few 1000 this week from all my sites and then get the stimulus check to get a nice bonus for this years end.. or towards taxes.

bigbum
12-13-2020, 05:59 PM
oh and most of my shows today were less than 3 minutes.. for some odd reason.

gbjenna
12-13-2020, 06:27 PM
I blocked so many people today. A lot of them were people I’d already blocked before on old accounts. They’d obviously set up new ones in exactly the same name and just came back to do the same shit they probably got blocked for before.

One guy tipped 1 gold at the beginning of my shift and was in and out of my room all day for nearly my entire 8 hour shift. He said at one point “I keep popping in in the hope to see some action!” I guess that’s why the majority of them do that then for hours a day.


oh and most of my shows today were less than 3 minutes.. for some odd reason.

I have days like that sometimes where all my shows are 1-2mins long. It’s so frustrating. It usually seems to be new customers.

bigbum
12-13-2020, 06:37 PM
Even if I just say “hi” to a reg... they were literally running away... wtf.
I’m taking the rest of the night off .
I’ll be back on tomorrow

bigbum
12-13-2020, 06:41 PM
[QUOTE=gbjenna;3200954]I blocked so many people today. A lot of them were people I’d already blocked before on old accounts. They’d obviously set up new ones in exactly the same name and just came back to do the same shit they probably got blocked for before.

One guy tipped 1 gold at the beginning of my shift and was in and out of my room all day for nearly my entire 8 hour shift. He said at one point “I keep popping in in the hope to see some action!” I guess that’s why the majority of them do that then for hours a day.



I have days like that sometimes where all my shows are 1-2mins long. It’s so frustrating. It usually seems to be new customers.[/QUOTE
Oh yeah the “action seekers “
Lol I love to kick them when I finally do flashes lol. Waiting all day to see action... then... BAM!
But you know what? I think they lurk anyways jerking off at the mini preview screen even if we kick them lol.
How do I know? Because some creepy user knew everything about me. Even though he had never been in my room.
Either they lurk outside in the preview, or as you said they make new user names.
At this rate I might hit 3,000 blocked users by New Years !!!!

Genoveve
12-13-2020, 07:07 PM
A guy just showed me a screencap of my profile saying my tip vibe is in.......I've never had one. I have no idea how long it has said that for either.

izshadow
12-13-2020, 10:28 PM
Well damn. I didnt start Saturday night because I was super sick in a flare from over doing it on Friday with having to drive all over the freaking state. I am now on to bust my hump cause I want a really nice 30% on top of my income this week and its insanly dead. Seriously?!!?!? Is SM doing this on purpose to us?!?!!?

Erika_Xstacy
12-13-2020, 10:33 PM
A guy just showed me a screencap of my profile saying my tip vibe is in.......I've never had one. I have no idea how long it has said that for either.
mine did that for months;. it hasnt done it in a while.




I'm still casually losing stream connection. anyone else still?