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naughtybabe1
12-23-2020, 03:59 AM
What the fuk is this shit? I'm almost at the bottom of the second page??? I'm always on the front page even on a bad contest. Damn it. One last day before the fuking contests. I know SM is screwing around with the site. Ugh!
EDIT: ok...so i knew something wasn't right. I ended up logging in and logging out about 4 times. on the last time, i saw my potential number go from 4 to 15 in one blink and i knew i was back on page 1. i guess it takes awhile to calculate...who knows. i work hard to be on page 1 and i know the difference in traffic. SO...yeah...i'm on page 1 and good traffic and shows. going to milk it like yesterday cuz here come the contest and the crickets!...
gbjenna
12-23-2020, 06:21 AM
I had no idea until today that customers are actually made aware that they shouldn’t exchange off site contact info. I genuinely thought some of them didn’t know. As annoying as it is.
Today an email I got from a new customer began with, “I know it says not to send you my personal info but..... blah blah here’s my email address for you to contact me only if you want to of course blah blah”.
That blatant disregard for rules and boundaries seriously pisses me off. I’m really stern when they try sending me off site contact because if they can’t respect the rule to begin with, then in my experience the chances are they still won’t respect the boundary if I’m all nice and sweet to them about it either.
Why they can’t just use google I don’t know!!
innocentindian
12-23-2020, 08:17 AM
I had no idea until today that customers are actually made aware that they shouldn’t exchange off site contact info. I genuinely thought some of them didn’t know. As annoying as it is.
Today an email I got from a new customer began with, “I know it says not to send you my personal info but..... blah blah here’s my email address for you to contact me only if you want to of course blah blah”.
If SM doesn't want us to contact guys offsite, they should censor the customers themselves from typing out words like email, sky pe, paypal, amazon, onlyfans, insta, twitter, etc. SO MANY guys come into my chatroom saying dumb shit like "will you be on skye later" or "I found your instagram" or "hey check ur email I want to set up a show" or "i bought some stuff off your manyvids" like ok great dude, happy for you, but don't fucking come ON CAM to say that shit! I don't care! They should just auto-censor those words to show up as ***** instead.
One time an idiot customer stumbled upon my defunct public amazon wishlist which I never used since I didn't want to put my address, and I never tell anyone about it. He came into my chatroom on SM and was like IS THIS YOUR WISHLIST? CAN I BUY YOU STUFF and LINKED THE WISHLIST and then I GOT 24 HOUR SUSPENSION. WTF? I have no control over what a stupid guy decides to type into MY CHAT ROOM.
I wish Streamate would implement an auto-censor and just ban customers from saying things they don't want us communicating.
*EDIT* and all the PHONE NUMBERS. SO MANY guys come and say "hey bb here's my # call me" and leave their whole ass phone number there for anyone to see. Please implement an auto-censor SM, I beg you
Jodyjensen
12-23-2020, 08:45 AM
If SM doesn't want us to contact guys offsite, they should censor the customers themselves from typing out words like email, sky pe, paypal, amazon, onlyfans, insta, twitter, etc. SO MANY guys come into my chatroom saying dumb shit like "will you be on skye later" or "I found your instagram" or "hey check ur email I want to set up a show" or "i bought some stuff off your manyvids" like ok great dude, happy for you, but don't fucking come ON CAM to say that shit! I don't care! They should just auto-censor those words to show up as ***** instead.
One time an idiot customer stumbled upon my defunct public amazon wishlist which I never used since I didn't want to put my address, and I never tell anyone about it. He came into my chatroom on SM and was like IS THIS YOUR WISHLIST? CAN I BUY YOU STUFF and LINKED THE WISHLIST and then I GOT 24 HOUR SUSPENSION. WTF? I have no control over what a stupid guy decides to type into MY CHAT ROOM.
I wish Streamate would implement an auto-censor and just ban customers from saying things they don't want us communicating.
*EDIT* and all the PHONE NUMBERS. SO MANY guys come and say "hey bb here's my # call me" and leave their whole ass phone number there for anyone to see. Please implement an auto-censor SM, I beg you
They must censor some stuff as I had a guy PM me asking for my onlyfans, it just showed up as a blank message on my end so I asked next time he came in my room. Most sites I’ve worked on whether camming or content, don’t allow you to discuss their competitors or any way of taking payment off site which makes sense, so the guys have no excuse to keep doing this. It frustrates me as I don’t want to get in trouble for their stupidity.
Jodyjensen
12-23-2020, 08:52 AM
Still no bonus on my end. Getting a little worried now, I was hoping for it in time for Christmas. Anyone else still waiting?
Edit: Nevermind, got it now
Sugarsteepdoll
12-23-2020, 09:46 AM
The cheap asses are out in hoards this morning!!!! Woohooo! Im going to be positive and wait for the jolly dudes coming? LOL
MissAdriana
12-23-2020, 10:18 AM
If SM doesn't want us to contact guys offsite, they should censor the customers themselves from typing out words like email, sky pe, paypal, amazon, onlyfans, insta, twitter, etc.
I agree completely I find it pathetic when sites don't have this feature. We should be able to block whatever words we want especially our real names and cities for our protection and anything that could turn our viewers off including anything against the rules like puking etc, or even what we just dont want to do so we dont have to respond constantly like 'no i dont do that fetish' but thanks for turning everyone else off in my chat talking about your disgusting puke fetish.
^^^ Agree, i get them to call me mom and how they wanna do this and that with me and I always get scared I could be penalized by SM for what they type to me as I have no control over what they type. I don't even know what I should do in this situation cause I don't wanna loose on money and cut the show but how to tell them is not allowed and keep them in still?! I said step mom is allowed but no, they don't like that, they leave. They take me by surprise with what they type omg!
I don't promote myself anywhere so I don't have the issues u guys have regarding privacy issues but what they type in my chatroom is beyond my control.
minibagel
12-23-2020, 11:00 AM
Still no bonus on my end. Getting a little worried now, I was hoping for it in time for Christmas. Anyone else still waiting?
Edit: Nevermind, got it now
where do you see the bonus? My earnings for last week is still the same
Jodyjensen
12-23-2020, 11:11 AM
where do you see the bonus? My earnings for last week is still the same
Mine is showing in this week’s pay under pay adjustments. I was looking at last week too so couldn’t see it ha
Miss_ShaSha
12-23-2020, 12:01 PM
where do you see the bonus? My earnings for last week is still the same
Same. I'm not seeing it anywhere. The payment hasn't been issued yet either.
minibagel
12-23-2020, 12:35 PM
^I can see the bonus amount now in pay adjustments for this week, but it doesn’t reflect in my total balance cuz it still says $0.00. I am guessing it’ll just be added when they send the paycheck out?
anonamiss
12-23-2020, 02:13 PM
^I can see the bonus amount now in pay adjustments for this week, but it doesn’t reflect in my total balance cuz it still says $0.00. I am guessing it’ll just be added when they send the paycheck out?
bonuses and contest prizes are never added directly to your "total earnings" on the earnings report page itself. they're only visible in the pay adjustments tab.
once the paycheck is issued you will be able to see the total amount on your payment history page.
anonamiss
12-23-2020, 02:24 PM
and all the PHONE NUMBERS. SO MANY guys come and say "hey bb here's my # call me" and leave their whole ass phone number there for anyone to see. Please implement an auto-censor SM, I beg you
i actually think it's hilarious when they do this in free chat. i call them out like "hey guys check it out -- some loser was stupid enough to post his whole phone number, feel free to go spam him with dick pics"
then the guy calls me a bitch and leaves. hahaha.
fetishqueen
12-23-2020, 03:47 PM
A quick question please ladies as I'm not sure, is watersports allowed on SM? I've been saying no when asked just in case. I only pee into a jug (sorry, too much information!) so nobody else is involved. TIA!
Susperia
12-23-2020, 03:52 PM
A quick question please ladies as I'm not sure, is watersports allowed on SM? I've been saying no when asked just in case. I only pee into a jug (sorry, too much information!) so nobody else is involved. TIA!
Unfortunantly not. It sucks because there are a lot of those fetish guys around. Just politely tell them its against the rules.
fetishqueen
12-23-2020, 03:56 PM
Oh shame, thank you for letting me know. I get a few and I wasn't sure.
Oh shame, thank you for letting me know. I get a few and I wasn't sure.
We all get them and we all say it's against SM rules and they keep asking... Some do it and call it squirt ... go figure ... :-))))
anonamiss
12-23-2020, 09:13 PM
We all get them and we all say it's against SM rules and they keep asking... Some do it and call it squirt ... go figure ... :-))))
this subject always gets on my nerves a bit, lol.
personally i don't squirt. not in real life or in porn. the way i would differentiate squirting vs pee/watersports (at least in terms of the way a site with rules might view it) is that with squirting there is a direct sexual component to it, like having an orgasm while squirting, whether it's fake or not. yet with pee, the fetish is usually just that guys want to see you pee. or maybe squirming around because you have to pee so bad. but that's it.
so it blows my mind that for whatever reason, credit card companies deem the act of literally urinating in a cup as being more offensive/obscene than female-ejaculating which is presumably allowed on a lot sites where "water sports" are against the rules. i'm not drinking pee or peeing on another person. if a girl can lay back and "squirt" all over the place, i should be able to pee in a bowl if a guy wants to pay me for it. i really do not see a valid distinction here.
it's SO arbitrary and stupid. obviously this isn't a hill i would die on, but it's still something that really does piss me off. pun intended? lol.
this subject always gets on my nerves a bit, lol.
personally i don't squirt. not in real life or in porn. the way i would differentiate squirting vs pee/watersports (at least in terms of the way a site with rules might view it) is that with squirting there is a direct sexual component to it, like having an orgasm while squirting, whether it's fake or not. yet with pee, the fetish is usually just that guys want to see you pee. or maybe squirming around because you have to pee so bad. but that's it.
so it blows my mind that for whatever reason, credit card companies deem the act of literally urinating in a cup as being more offensive/obscene than female-ejaculating which is presumably allowed on a lot sites where "water sports" are against the rules. i'm not drinking pee or peeing on another person. if a girl can lay back and "squirt" all over the place, i should be able to pee in a bowl if a guy wants to pay me for it. i really do not see a valid distinction here.
it's SO arbitrary and stupid. obviously this isn't a hill i would die on, but it's still something that really does piss me off. pun intended? lol.
Agree with you 100%. Same as you, no squirt ;D but if someone wants to do it, fake or not, go for it! The guys won't care if is squirt or pee...
whirlerz
12-23-2020, 09:48 PM
i actually think it's hilarious when they do this in free chat. i call them out like "hey guys check it out -- some loser was stupid enough to post his whole phone number, feel free to go spam him with dick pics"
then the guy calls me a bitch and leaves. hahaha.
LOVE^!
Miss_ShaSha
12-24-2020, 05:44 AM
I wonder if direct deposit will arrive on Thursday instead of Monday. I seem to remember they sent it a day early in the past Christmas week.
Got deposit already :)
naughtybabe1
12-24-2020, 05:47 AM
and BAM! ...yep, i only have to look at the slow ass traffic...in and outs...and know without looking it's a contest. A few regs are going for shows but nothing like a "non contest" day. indy has come through so there's always that. oh well..just another day in paradise. SM has come down to "contest or no contest"...pretty much the way it is these days.
happy holidays ladies!
minibagel
12-24-2020, 07:34 AM
Got deposit already :)
me too. woo!
Miss_ShaSha
12-24-2020, 10:44 AM
OMFG I'm doing really well this contest. 4.5 hrs in and currently #217 hahahaaaa THIS ROCKS!!!
whirlerz
12-24-2020, 01:45 PM
Are we in a contest now, I didn't know.
Dead AF now, earlier it was the k.
I just got a random show
Miss_ShaSha
12-24-2020, 01:58 PM
^^Yeah, for 2 more days. It's really slowed down. I started at 7am CST and it was fast. Hang in there.
bigbum
12-24-2020, 06:06 PM
Unfortunantly not. It sucks because there are a lot of those fetish guys around. Just politely tell them its against the rules.
i just got a temp. ban for doing squirt shows. which is complete bs considering i watch so many gold shows and thats all these girls do is pee instead of squirt but.. whatever rules are rules. we should resepect thm
moneybags
12-24-2020, 09:05 PM
^^^OMG I bet with everything they are super strict now cause of all the stuff going on with visa/MasterCard
gbjenna
12-25-2020, 01:15 AM
Sorry to hear you got a ban! You’ll probably be one of many soon, if you’re not already, cause loads of people seem to do squirt shows. I always feel like I’m an odd one out for not doing them.
I wonder if they’ll crack down on the step family stuff now too
anonamiss
12-25-2020, 06:40 AM
Wow I had no idea squirting was actually against the rules, particularly after my last little rant about it a few posts prior.
I do agree with the notion that we as models should respect and adhere to SMs rules... But at the same time they need to start consistently enforcing them. If squirting is indeed against their TOS, they shouldn't be allowing it to be an easy-to-search-for tag, or let model names include the word 'squirt', let alone selectively allowing certain (many seemingly) models to advertise/include it as an offering on their profiles and get away with it.
TooNiceToHustle
12-25-2020, 07:22 AM
The TOS is SO vague. They should give us a simple table with yes and no to everything important. But no, easier to keep us on our toes.
BTW our answer to "Do you do x (banned but hot fetish)?" is "No, but feel free to write Mastercard and Visa how it pisses you off you can't get it".
whirlerz
12-25-2020, 11:18 AM
Well been dead for me today so far..
A couple dudes complained about vid quality, says excellent on my side so I wonder if sm's glitching
whirlerz
12-25-2020, 12:26 PM
Well, they're definitely having glitches, like 5 ppl have told me of issues>:(
Been on since 5am, (now 1:30).Not 1 show the whole time.
Time to get off this shit
Edit Just sent an email to support, for all the good it'll do.
I suggested they stop having so many freaking contests.
Miss_ShaSha
12-25-2020, 01:09 PM
Well, they're definitely having glitches, like 5 ppl have told me of issues>:(
Been on since 5am, (now 1:30).Not 1 show the whole time.
Time to get off this shit
Edit Just sent an email to support, for all the good it'll do.
I suggested they stop having so many freaking contests.
Have you reset your router? I'm not having any issues at all, but when I had bitrate issues it was my ISP. I had to have them reset the channel to accommodate the fact I was streaming so much.
gbjenna
12-25-2020, 02:22 PM
The TOS is SO vague. They should give us a simple table with yes and no to everything important. But no, easier to keep us on our toes.
BTW our answer to "Do you do x (banned but hot fetish)?" is "No, but feel free to write Mastercard and Visa how it pisses you off you can't get it".
I actually did see a table made for all sites somewhere a while back. An industry representative or something contacted a bunch of cam and clips sites to confirm which ‘taboo’ acts were or weren’t allowed. Ie water sports, incest, and others that I can’t remember off the top of my head.
The sites were listed with a simple yes or no for each act.
I’ll have a dig around and see if I can find it. It might be useful for some since the lines do seem to be a bit blurred on SM.
bigbum
12-25-2020, 07:42 PM
The TOS is SO vague. They should give us a simple table with yes and no to everything important. But no, easier to keep us on our toes.
BTW our answer to "Do you do x (banned but hot fetish)?" is "No, but feel free to write Mastercard and Visa how it pisses you off you can't get it".
yes yes and yes!
the TOS are very very vague!
even talking about potty stuff like "i want to shit in your mouth" purely verbal . in no way actually doing those things.
i thought it was funny just to talk to subs about these things.
i just liked to talk about it.
that will get you blocked as well
so in addition do not even talk about it.
verbal is considered a ban as well.
if you are unsure about the rules. contact sm directly dont be afraid to confirm these "gray areas"
this is a really great company but we just need to be sure about what is and isnt allowed .
it can get confusing navigating all of these requests us models receive.
especially when user names are "daddy" or a request seems in a gray area such as squirting.
its better to be on the safe side.
trust me.
i have been a model there for more than 1 year doing the same shows but things are always changing.
so ASK First.
i was too shy to ask and i lost my Christmas bonus week because of it.
learn from my mistake.
bigbum
12-25-2020, 07:43 PM
I actually did see a table made for all sites somewhere a while back. An industry representative or something contacted a bunch of cam and clips sites to confirm which ‘taboo’ acts were or weren’t allowed. Ie water sports, incest, and others that I can’t remember off the top of my head.
The sites were listed with a simple yes or no for each act.
I’ll have a dig around and see if I can find it. It might be useful for some since the lines do seem to be a bit blurred on SM.
i refused to cam until i was clear with each question i had.
i still havent gotten back on.
i just get so worried now. its always going to be in the back of my mind about these "gray areas"
sm is amazing. i really love the site and working with them.
so i am just staying positive and moving forward this new year.
Erika_Xstacy
12-25-2020, 11:02 PM
yes yes and yes!
the TOS are very very vague!
even talking about potty stuff like "i want to shit in your mouth" purely verbal . in no way actually doing those things.
i thought it was funny just to talk to subs about these things.
i just liked to talk about it.
that will get you blocked as well
so in addition do not even talk about it.
verbal is considered a ban as well.
if you are unsure about the rules. contact sm directly dont be afraid to confirm these "gray areas"
this is a really great company but we just need to be sure about what is and isnt allowed .
it can get confusing navigating all of these requests us models receive.
especially when user names are "daddy" or a request seems in a gray area such as squirting.
its better to be on the safe side.
trust me.
i have been a model there for more than 1 year doing the same shows but things are always changing.
so ASK First.
i was too shy to ask and i lost my Christmas bonus week because of it.
learn from my mistake.
how did you not get your christmas bonus?
Jodyjensen
12-26-2020, 03:20 AM
Wondering what the general ballpark is for the top 500 in this contest if anyone’s close to it? I’m only doing the one day but made an alright amount this morning and still the rest of the day to go so wondering if it’s possible.
Miss_ShaSha
12-26-2020, 04:07 AM
Wondering what the general ballpark is for the top 500 in this contest if anyone’s close to it? I’m only doing the one day but made an alright amount this morning and still the rest of the day to go so wondering if it’s possible.
$880 is #197
$394 was #488
Jodyjensen
12-26-2020, 04:26 AM
$880 is #197
$394 was #488
Thanks! Probably not make it but worth a try :)
Miss_ShaSha
12-26-2020, 04:33 AM
Thanks! Probably not make it but worth a try :)
You never fuckin know with SM. Give it your best shot!
Genoveve
12-26-2020, 10:42 AM
how did you not get your christmas bonus?
I think she’s saying that because she got a temporary ban during the bonus week she wasn’t able to fully take advantage of the contest like she was planning.
princess_casual
12-26-2020, 11:11 AM
Question.... has anyone had a member say they reported you and you heard something about it from support?
MissAdriana
12-26-2020, 11:24 AM
Question.... has anyone had a member say they reported you and you heard something about it from support?
Nope and random losers say they are reporting me all the time too whether they actually do I have no idea
wealthmagnet
12-26-2020, 11:34 AM
Question.... has anyone had a member say they reported you and you heard something about it from support?
probably reporting you to the troll that lives with them in their grandmas basement with them. don't sweat it , some guys say anything they think will stress you out.
Miss_ShaSha
12-26-2020, 11:34 AM
I literally can't even right now! The last contest I placed in was New Year's 2020. After 2+ years full time it feels like "finally" hahahaaa.
Trying my best to land in the top 100 by contest's end.
Currently #188 and trying to pick up the pieces of my head that exploded lololll.
I literally can't even right now! The last contest I placed in was New Year's 2020. After 2+ years full time it feels like "finally" hahahaaa.
Trying my best to land in the top 100 by contest's end.
Currently #188 and trying to pick up the pieces of my head that exploded lololll.
Can't wait for it to f*cking end, i'm tired af and today is slower then other days... Aiming the same ... Made $50 and got down 2 places then made $5 and got up 3 places... WTF! :-))
Miss_ShaSha
12-26-2020, 11:49 AM
Can't wait for it to f*cking end, i'm tired af and today is slower then other days... Aiming the same ... Made $50 and got down 2 places then made $5 and got up 3 places... WTF! :-))
Today is significantly slower than the last two days by A LOT! I have made a little over $100 in 4+ hrs and I'm basically where I started when I logged back in today. It is TOUGH!!! Yesterday by this time I was rollin in at like $300+.
The guys are cheap today lolollll. Yesterday they were just throwing money around haha.
Hang in there!!! Best of luck to ya <3