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fetishqueen
01-19-2021, 03:25 AM
I just sweetly say "tickle my pussy with GOLD baby" or when I do a JOI I say "it'd be nice if you tease me while I tease you". If they give GOLD without prompt I say "damn that feels good. Can you do that again?"
This is a usual day of asking for GOLD. Just finesse it. This was yesterday. I don't make it a point to ask all, but most of the time I do. They know I have a tip vibe. I even get ballsy enough to ask for 25 GOLD and about 8 out of 10 times they will.
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This is awesome! Can I ask if you are asking
Guys in free who aren't speaking
or
Guys in free who are speaking but not tipping
or
Guys already in a paid show
Or a mixture?
Thank you!! xx
Dahlia Fallon
01-19-2021, 03:36 AM
I get paid direct into my bank, wire transfer. As has been said it’s in Friday around 2pm. I set my payout at my weekly low goal and that’s what I work towards so I get paid every week.
Wire transfers are the best way to get paid for sure but I would recommend shooting for a payment once a month at most if you can a) afford to straight away or b) trust SM to hold your earnings for you. I have never had an issue with them holding my $$ in 7+ years, even through their payment processor issues they always came through.
$1300 a year to get paid weekly is a LOT! When this is coming out of your net pay it is over $3700 gross that you worked for just poof disappearing. Once a month is $300. Even every 2 weeks pulls it down to half that. I know it's hard to switch from weekly to bi weekly or monthly but doing it gradually and then sticking to it really pays off over time :)
gbjenna
01-19-2021, 03:46 AM
they need to hit the button to see.
honestly I really get annoyed with the guys who want me to go over my prices verbally. Never been surprised with a show when I do tell them after they ask five times. I think most are other models
Does this include not verbally discussing gold menu prices too?
I won’t talk about my pvt/excl prices out loud, I make them click private. I usually say my GM prices out loud but I’ve started ignoring them occasionally to let them figure it out themselves if they ask. When they ask me outright how much Gold it is to see X, I find they don’t usually tip for it. Similar to you with shows.
Dahlia Fallon
01-19-2021, 04:07 AM
Theres not even any point telling them as you dont know where they are from, what taxes they are subject to and what the exchange rate is. I just say I don't know :)
kamiliam
01-19-2021, 04:07 AM
Does this include not verbally discussing gold menu prices too?
I won’t talk about my pvt/excl prices out loud, I make them click private. I usually say my GM prices out loud but I’ve started ignoring them occasionally to let them figure it out themselves if they ask. When they ask me outright how much Gold it is to see X, I find they don’t usually tip for it. Similar to you with shows.
honestly unless they have already paid me something I don’t mention the price of anything. For example if they tip 5 for ass I will explain it costs more. If they have not given any tips, I tell them to look at my gold menu. I have different prices for what I offer in free chat and will often just give the flash. Money=sexy time. I always show full face but am only attentive to actual prospects.
But obviously these are only my intentions. I break down and say the numbers if I think that may make the sale
Jodyjensen
01-19-2021, 04:26 AM
Theres not even any point telling them as you dont know where they are from, what taxes they are subject to and what the exchange rate is. I just say I don't know :)
Yeah I let them know that the price they see depends on where they are so it’s easier for them to just click and look themselves. I generally don’t find that those who ask price, are willing to pay. I want men who don’t care about the price, not those who are gonna sit and calculate what a 2 minute show will cost them.
fetishqueen
01-19-2021, 04:28 AM
If they have to ask, they can't afford it!
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 06:15 AM
This is awesome! Can I ask if you are asking
Guys in free who aren't speaking
or
Guys in free who are speaking but not tipping
or
Guys already in a paid show
Or a mixture?
Thank you!! xx
In free chat if someone tips GOLD I give a genuinely pleasant reaction with a bit of a chuckle and a huge smile then say that feels quite nice. Often times I'll explain that more GOLD or more frequently applied GOLD accelerates the vibration and intensifies it and even more so with larger amounts and they'll give more even quicker.
Most of my hustle with GOLD is in EXCL. They are already buying and it's easier to really finesse it since we are one on one. I rarely ask for 25 GOLD in free. But I almost always ask for 25 GOLD in EXCL.
I give the silent lurkers about 3 to 5 min before I say "hello, you're really quiet. Are you reading my profile?" This results in them leaving or saying "yes". If a guy has turned down a show and seems to just want to chat I say "in order for you to stay in my room it's required that you tip, otherwise you must leave." I say it in the nicest way possible which is assertive and direct without coming off bitchy or greedy.
fetishqueen
01-19-2021, 07:28 AM
In free chat if someone tips GOLD I give a genuinely pleasant reaction with a bit of a chuckle and a huge smile then say that feels quite nice. Often times I'll explain that more GOLD or more frequently applied GOLD accelerates the vibration and intensifies it and even more so with larger amounts and they'll give more even quicker.
Most of my hustle with GOLD is in EXCL. They are already buying and it's easier to really finesse it since we are one on one. I rarely ask for 25 GOLD in free. But I almost always ask for 25 GOLD in EXCL.
I give the silent lurkers about 3 to 5 min before I say "hello, you're really quiet. Are you reading my profile?" This results in them leaving or saying "yes". If a guy has turned down a show and seems to just want to chat I say "in order for you to stay in my room it's required that you tip, otherwise you must leave." I say it in the nicest way possible which is assertive and direct without coming off bitchy or greedy.
I have never tried asking in paid chat, I think I might try now! The buying mentality is a thing though, someone who is already spending is more likely to spend more, when it's much more difficult to get someone who isn't spending to spend anything unless they want to. I don't think I explained it well but it is a thing with buying habits I'm sure!
And thank you for such a great answer! xx
Jodyjensen
01-19-2021, 07:47 AM
I have never tried asking in paid chat, I think I might try now! The buying mentality is a thing though, someone who is already spending is more likely to spend more, when it's much more difficult to get someone who isn't spending to spend anything unless they want to. I don't think I explained it well but it is a thing with buying habits I'm sure!
And thank you for such a great answer! xx
I also ask for gold, both in paid and guest. In paid, I usually say something along the lines of ‘you’re gonna make me cum aren’t you?’ and they tip. This is while I have my lovense in, I keep it in for all shows until I get the dildos out after I’ve cum using my fingers on my clit first. After that, I may well leave the lovense on my clit depending how into it they’ve been so far. In guest, I outright tell them to tip me (if they’re hanging around without spending) or leave haha.
Changing my bio and auto response to include *50g makes me cum!* has worked fucking wonders!
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 07:54 AM
Jesus Fucking Christ...today is horrible so far. 1 hour of freeloading, asking for cheap min shows, and even a couple trolls trying to rile me up. Trolls rarely come around, but for some reason they have found my room. I don't let them phase me as I rarely feed them what they want, but they sure are trying to play with my buttons.
I'm gonna give it just 40 more min then log off to meditate. THIS IS SHIT!!!
Jodyjensen
01-19-2021, 07:57 AM
Jesus Fucking Christ...today is horrible so far. 1 hour of freeloading, asking for cheap min shows, and even a couple trolls trying to rile me up. Trolls rarely come around, but for some reason they have found my room. I don't let them phase me as I rarely feed them what they want, but they sure are trying to play with my buttons.
I'm gonna give it just 40 more min then log off to meditate. THIS IS SHIT!!!
Omg tell me about it!! 4 hours of fucking nonsense this morning, finding it hard to find the will to get back on later if it carries on like that.
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 08:02 AM
Omg tell me about it!! 4 hours of fucking nonsense this morning, finding it hard to find the will to get back on later if it carries on like that.
OMFG I hardly have hair, if it continued like this for me for 4 hours I'd be bald lolollll. You are a soldier lady hahaha. Oh, congrats on your placement so far! That kicks ass!!!
Jodyjensen
01-19-2021, 08:04 AM
OMFG I hardly have hair, if it continued like this for me for 4 hours I'd be bald lolollll. You are a soldier lady hahaha. Oh, congrats on your placement so far! That kicks ass!!!
It’s tanked now, I was on 163? I think hahaha, thank you though!
gbjenna
01-19-2021, 09:24 AM
Do you ladies ever get guys ask you for a show, then ask you, "Are you any good?"
I'm rated 5* and have an entire page full of feedback. I refer them to that but I immediately lose interest in doing a show for them as I feel like I'm gonna be under pressure to meet some out of reach standards they have in their head. Either that or I feel like they're gonna be really demanding and pushy. I really have to stop myself telling them, 'no I'm crap'.
Does anyone else see a question like that as a red flag for being difficult?
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 09:59 AM
Find it really interesting that I talk about tipping here and today I'm getting trolls talking about tipping and not doing it. Models maybe? Silent forum lurkers? Dunno. Pretty strange coincidence.
I rarely get trolls and now they're in full force? Funny :D
bigbum
01-19-2021, 10:01 AM
Find it really interesting that I talk about tipping here and today I'm getting trolls talking about tipping and not doing it. Models maybe? Silent forum lurkers? Dunno. Pretty strange coincidence.
I rarely get trolls and now they're in full force? Funny :D
gosh i hope not. that would be so f ed up. maybe its just contest traffic?
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 10:02 AM
Do you ladies ever get guys ask you for a show, then ask you, "Are you any good?"
I'm rated 5* and have an entire page full of feedback. I refer them to that but I immediately lose interest in doing a show for them as I feel like I'm gonna be under pressure to meet some out of reach standards they have in their head. Either that or I feel like they're gonna be really demanding and pushy. I really have to stop myself telling them, 'no I'm crap'.
Does anyone else see a question like that as a red flag for being difficult?
I refer them to my tags and comments and that's that. I don't try to sell anything. They see my GOLD menu and can get a taste before a show. I feel the same way.
~Carmen~
01-19-2021, 10:44 AM
Do you ladies ever get guys ask you for a show, then ask you, "Are you any good?"
I'm rated 5* and have an entire page full of feedback. I refer them to that but I immediately lose interest in doing a show for them as I feel like I'm gonna be under pressure to meet some out of reach standards they have in their head. Either that or I feel like they're gonna be really demanding and pushy. I really have to stop myself telling them, 'no I'm crap'.
Does anyone else see a question like that as a red flag for being difficult?
I refuse to do shows for people like that. I only do shows with respectful gentlemen and I'm much happier this way.
minibagel
01-19-2021, 10:48 AM
Do you ladies ever get guys ask you for a show, then ask you, "Are you any good?"
I'm rated 5* and have an entire page full of feedback. I refer them to that but I immediately lose interest in doing a show for them as I feel like I'm gonna be under pressure to meet some out of reach standards they have in their head. Either that or I feel like they're gonna be really demanding and pushy. I really have to stop myself telling them, 'no I'm crap'.
Does anyone else see a question like that as a red flag for being difficult?
I feel like anyone who would ask such a thing is rude af and almost certainly wouldn't pay, so I'd personally be blocking their pathetic ass instantly. Only have time for respectful gentleman!
Jodyjensen
01-19-2021, 11:00 AM
Really don’t know what’s going on today but the trolls and broke losers are out in full force. Just got a 1* rating for a 1minute private because the guy repeatedly ignored me telling him I don’t take requests in pvt. Hopefully get it removed. Fucking annoyed today, guys getting on my nerves. Huge contrast to Sunday when I can’t remember a single bad client.
Aaaand a big F YOU to the 1* wanker, cause it’s been removed already :D
Sugarsteepdoll
01-19-2021, 11:11 AM
Do you ladies ever get guys ask you for a show, then ask you, "Are you any good?"
I'm rated 5* and have an entire page full of feedback. I refer them to that but I immediately lose interest in doing a show for them as I feel like I'm gonna be under pressure to meet some out of reach standards they have in their head. Either that or I feel like they're gonna be really demanding and pushy. I really have to stop myself telling them, 'no I'm crap'.
Does anyone else see a question like that as a red flag for being difficult?
I have those guys at least everyday I log in...They really annoy me too...such a rude comment. All I say is something along the lines of "If you arent sure about me why dont you read my reviews" One guy actually did so and had a good "not pushy" or "demanding" show. I will say though it is a red flag and it immediately puts me in a sour mood!
whirlerz
01-19-2021, 11:18 AM
gosh i hope not. that would be so f ed up. maybe its just contest traffic?
YUP^
Seems that way! >:(
Find it really interesting that I talk about tipping here and today I'm getting trolls talking about tipping and not doing it. Models maybe? Silent forum lurkers? Dunno. Pretty strange coincidence.
I rarely get trolls and now they're in full force? Funny :D
Maybe keeping a lower profile would be a good thing to do? Coincidences are rare, just saying ;)
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 11:52 AM
Maybe keeping a lower profile would be a good thing to do? Coincidences are rare, just saying ;)
Right. I'm thinking I might have to as my name gives it all away lolollll. Good advice.
gbjenna
01-19-2021, 01:49 PM
Thanks everyone!! Today's culprit was actually quite polite and tipping me before he came out with the 'are you any good line', but it killed my mood instantly. It's good to know you all have similar feelings about it.
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 03:19 PM
So about tipping: this guy comes in and does 1 GOLD in free and I'm like giggly and say "that feels real good". He tips 1 GOLD again and I say "one on top of another increases the vibe" and he tips 1 GOLD a few more times. Then I say "a higher amount really increases and prolongs the vibe" so he tips 5 GOLD.
He keeps at it for a bit then I show him how wet my pussy is in free (by my fingers) and say I can get really wet for 25 GOLD then invite him to EXCL.
He goes EXCL and keeps tipping and I say 25 GOLD will get you a wet surprise so he does 25 GOLD and I got so wet he did it two more times. LOLOLLLL
That's how I hustle GOLD:
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Carmel57
01-19-2021, 03:24 PM
Wire transfers are the best way to get paid for sure but I would recommend shooting for a payment once a month at most if you can a) afford to straight away or b) trust SM to hold your earnings for you. I have never had an issue with them holding my $$ in 7+ years, even through their payment processor issues they always came through.
$1300 a year to get paid weekly is a LOT! When this is coming out of your net pay it is over $3700 gross that you worked for just poof disappearing. Once a month is $300. Even every 2 weeks pulls it down to half that. I know it's hard to switch from weekly to bi weekly or monthly but doing it gradually and then sticking to it really pays off over time :)
I never thought of that, how daft am I. I don’t know why I never did. Thank you
fetishqueen
01-19-2021, 03:30 PM
Loving the hustle for Gold today! I feel a bit slow on the uptake though because lots of you are using the tip vibe and I don't have one. I think it's high time I did, is it the Lovense Lush 2 one I need for SM please? It looks right but I don't want to spend that much and get the wrong one!
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 03:37 PM
^^I did research on compatible devices before getting mine. I have the JIVE. THere is an article, lemme see if I can find it...one sec.
UPDATE:
https://streamatehelp.com/interactive-vibes/#toggle-id-1
xxxGothBarbie
01-19-2021, 03:39 PM
Loving the hustle for Gold today! I feel a bit slow on the uptake though because lots of you are using the tip vibe and I don't have one. I think it's high time I did, is it the Lovense Lush 2 one I need for SM please? It looks right but I don't want to spend that much and get the wrong one!
I know dude haha i feel like im missing out too. Im def gonna get one soon. Sha you rock 🖤 im gonna try those gold tips when i get one. May the gold rush in.
Jodyjensen
01-19-2021, 03:42 PM
Loving the hustle for Gold today! I feel a bit slow on the uptake though because lots of you are using the tip vibe and I don't have one. I think it's high time I did, is it the Lovense Lush 2 one I need for SM please? It looks right but I don't want to spend that much and get the wrong one!
I have the lush 1, works fine and cheaper :)
fetishqueen
01-19-2021, 03:45 PM
^^I did research on compatible devices before getting mine. I have the JIVE. THere is an article, lemme see if I can find it...one sec.
UPDATE:
https://streamatehelp.com/interactive-vibes/#toggle-id-1
Thank you so much for that, I thought it was only a couple that worked with it. Would anyone know which are the easiest to set up on SM because my tech knowledge is embarrassingly poor! :D
fetishqueen
01-19-2021, 03:46 PM
I have the lush 1, works fine and cheaper :)
Liking your style here, they are not cheap are they!
Jodyjensen
01-19-2021, 03:49 PM
Liking your style here, they are not cheap are they!
Lush 1 are always on offer on the Lovense site, I’m on to my second one now as I broke the first ha. It’s paid for itself 10x over! Can’t recommend it enough
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 03:50 PM
Liking your style here, they are not cheap are they!
Not exactly cheap, but very much worth it!
Lush 1 are always on offer on the Lovense site, I’m on to my second one now as I broke the first ha. It’s paid for itself 10x over! Can’t recommend it enough
Yup, same here. Mine paid itself off in one shift lolollll.
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 03:52 PM
Thank you so much for that, I thought it was only a couple that worked with it. Would anyone know which are the easiest to set up on SM because my tech knowledge is embarrassingly poor! :D
I'm basically illiterate with tech shit. The JIVE was easy to navigate. I've sure the others are too.
looklovely
01-19-2021, 03:57 PM
Would anyone happen to know what the customer sees when I reject their webcam request?
bigbum
01-19-2021, 04:13 PM
Would anyone happen to know what the customer sees when I reject their webcam request?
i also would like to know
bigbum
01-19-2021, 04:15 PM
Loving the hustle for Gold today! I feel a bit slow on the uptake though because lots of you are using the tip vibe and I don't have one. I think it's high time I did, is it the Lovense Lush 2 one I need for SM please? It looks right but I don't want to spend that much and get the wrong one!
i just got the lush 2 a week ago. and it works with SM the only thing i cant figure out is why it is reacting to only 1 gold. when i clearly put a higher number as the minumim!
bigbum
01-19-2021, 04:15 PM
its raining trolls and loosers, no one wants to spend today. damn .
kamiliam
01-19-2021, 04:16 PM
Loving the hustle for Gold today! I feel a bit slow on the uptake though because lots of you are using the tip vibe and I don't have one. I think it's high time I did, is it the Lovense Lush 2 one I need for SM please? It looks right but I don't want to spend that much and get the wrong one!
I use the esca, and for me it is the most comfortable and the best sensations of all I have tried. I also went through 6 of them in 2020 (many warranty replacements) and will probably go back to the lush due to that.
Erika_Xstacy
01-19-2021, 04:35 PM
I use lush 1 and 2
2 is better but if its a huge price difference 1 is great!
careful w plugging any of these into a speaker to charge. blows mine every time. 2 different brand speakers lol like are you fuckn kidding me? does it to my ecigs too
wires are way too expensive. i did wire when payoneer was zilched but quickly lol switched to check bc fuck that fee and back to ACH when it was available. its released on thursday from sm and arrives same day as wire did but its available at 3:00 am my time
Miss_ShaSha
01-19-2021, 04:36 PM
its raining trolls and loosers, no one wants to spend today. damn .
I hear that. My first shift was horrible, but this second shift is better. Hang in there Big! Sending good vibes!!!
laurielegs
01-19-2021, 04:37 PM
wires are way too expensive. i did wire when payoneer was zilched but quickly lol switched to check bc fuck that fee and back to ACH when it was available. its released on thursday from sm and arrives same day as wire did but its available at 3:00 am my time
Exactly. With people talking about wires I was wondering if I was missing something. Direct deposit ACH is only $5 and checks are free.
Wires would cost me a few hundred a month with bank fees.
HollyD
01-19-2021, 05:27 PM
Loving the hustle for Gold today! I feel a bit slow on the uptake though because lots of you are using the tip vibe and I don't have one. I think it's high time I did, is it the Lovense Lush 2 one I need for SM please? It looks right but I don't want to spend that much and get the wrong one!
I got one in Dec and honestly its increased my money by loads! I have regs who love tipping it non stop in free and in pvt/excl.
I've got a jive too like miss sha
HollyD
01-19-2021, 05:31 PM
Exactly. With people talking about wires I was wondering if I was missing something. Direct deposit ACH is only $5 and checks are free.
Wires would cost me a few hundred a month with bank fees.
I think someone asked because they're from the u.k and it's just easier doing wire with a u.k account as they have to convert it into euros for us which then is converted into pounds by the bank. I don't get charged in bank fees as its euros rather than dollars.
If anyone has done other payment options I would love to know :)
caramelcraze
01-19-2021, 06:43 PM
Is the new girl status on streamate 2 weeks from the time they approve you or 2 weeks from the time you first stream? or is it a month.. I'm lost :S
Erika_Xstacy
01-19-2021, 07:39 PM
Is the new girl status on streamate 2 weeks from the time they approve you or 2 weeks from the time you first stream? or is it a month.. I'm lost :S
30 days from the day you start streaming
minniesoporno
01-19-2021, 09:07 PM
I think someone asked because they're from the u.k and it's just easier doing wire with a u.k account as they have to convert it into euros for us which then is converted into pounds by the bank. I don't get charged in bank fees as its euros rather than dollars.
If anyone has done other payment options I would love to know :)
I'm in Canada I am using paxum right now. When I have more of a bank buffer I might get checks my bank holds them for 30 days because its a USD from a US account going into a Canadian account even though it's USD.
Paxum works at with my local ATM so it's good for now.
Streamate doesn't have swiftcode on the wire only paxum does and it's $17.50 per incoming wire.