View Full Version : The Streamate Thread
kamiliam
01-24-2021, 04:20 PM
Silly question regarding this, what if you can't actually SEE pussy but the model is clearly nude below the waist? I've seen a few where they are completely naked but are tilted to the side so it's not actually showing. I'd regard this as the same as breaking the rules but is it a sneaky way to circumvent them? I sound like a right prude (ironic, given my job!) but I make them pay for EVERYTHING, no free tits, panties, ass - pay, fuckers!
I consider rule violations to be the "pink" or the whole unclothed "mound" and and honestly insertions w/o seeing anything, but that too is subjective because what about tip vibes? plenty of models show their pubic hair, pull down their bottoms to show bare ass, wear sheer items and can keep the rules in mind. it gets really wishy washy. I personally am always keeping an eye out, there are some outfits I cannot do my normal teases in. Now is it more likely that those who go without bottoms will break the rules? Sure, that's why I don't risk it. I think what we need to assess is the intention, we can see the difference in those who are unaware(and yes maybe need a reality check) and those who are just saying fuck the rules.
Miss_ShaSha
01-24-2021, 04:50 PM
Silly question regarding this, what if you can't actually SEE pussy but the model is clearly nude below the waist? I've seen a few where they are completely naked but are tilted to the side so it's not actually showing. I'd regard this as the same as breaking the rules but is it a sneaky way to circumvent them? I sound like a right prude (ironic, given my job!) but I make them pay for EVERYTHING, no free tits, panties, ass - pay, fuckers!
PINK. I had a pic of my pussy and a plug approved on the site. So PINK.
Miss_ShaSha
01-24-2021, 05:54 PM
DEAD AF Sunday. OMG I thought later hours would be good. Boy was I wrong. Almost 4 hrs for shit! Dear Lord, help a sister out!!!
Erika_Xstacy
01-24-2021, 06:17 PM
Silly question regarding this, what if you can't actually SEE pussy but the model is clearly nude below the waist? I've seen a few where they are completely naked but are tilted to the side so it's not actually showing. I'd regard this as the same as breaking the rules but is it a sneaky way to circumvent them? I sound like a right prude (ironic, given my job!) but I make them pay for EVERYTHING, no free tits, panties, ass - pay, fuckers!
no. im in free chat all day nude a lot of times. i know the rules being w them forever
no pink no stink
girls wear sheer panties but they are covered
PINK. I had a pic of my pussy and a plug approved on the site. So PINK.
loool thats funny. i noticed they took away the option to snap a photo in paid chat. i wonder if models took those photos loool
euro_princess
01-24-2021, 06:37 PM
Silly question regarding this, what if you can't actually SEE pussy but the model is clearly nude below the waist? I've seen a few where they are completely naked but are tilted to the side so it's not actually showing. I'd regard this as the same as breaking the rules but is it a sneaky way to circumvent them? I sound like a right prude (ironic, given my job!) but I make them pay for EVERYTHING, no free tits, panties, ass - pay, fuckers!
Have no issue with that, tho I rarely care what other models do. Wanna show your pussy for free? Go ahead, your loss of money. I’m too busy finding ways to keep guys interested in actually paying for mine. Even on freemium sites guys will pay for pussy, in a sea of vaginas getting fucked every click away. There is no such thing as going out of business cause some models give away everything for free. Ofc, dusty clients will say anything to make it cheap and mainstream. Who cares what non paying users say? lol
Pink is pink and models have different styles of teasing. Some are more erotic than others and like to play peek a boo or hustle in a more sexual way (not that verbal). Personally, I don’t bother running my room in such manner, cause I’m too lazy for it. Can’t bother taking shit off unless I’m tempted with money, not even my bra.
At the end of the day, if a customer wants to stroke, he’s not going to need much. I have tons of people that brag about cumming when I just sit and talk, with all my clothes on. I ignore them, not worth my energy, cause I can never turn that sort of shit attitude in 3 digits. Plus, that fucks up their mind. Imagine actually cumming and a girl ignoring you. Your ego just went through the window.
Erika_Xstacy
01-24-2021, 06:44 PM
I worry you guys are live streaming when browsing
members know when the model is not paying attention and they will leave your room in a snap and possibly go to that free room
Im guilty of this and stripperweb.. I had to ban sw from my computer at one time.
your attention to your room is what is important
dildoing, straight out pussy, dicks out has happened everyday and it doesnt have a income issue for me
I highly recommend to not browse the site while on cam.
euro_princess
01-24-2021, 06:49 PM
Second that. Rarely even check my phone while on cam. I only focus on my room, any minute is a chance to make my day a high earning one. The more engaging, the better chances of other people clicking on my room.
I die inside when girls say they watch movies while on cam. But none of my business, maybe that helps some, def not me.
Erika_Xstacy
01-24-2021, 08:04 PM
what happened to all the camming sucks n shit threads? bc I need to complain
I hate camming when shit gets emotional in real life.
adds 10 years quick. working on live cam with bags under my eyes. red. looking old w makeup crusted bc i tried too hard to not look crazy. the black eyeliner just emphasizing the fact your day sucked. maybe month lol
and tired from being emotional and hating everyone lol
i had to vent
moneybags
01-24-2021, 08:30 PM
what happened to all the camming sucks n shit threads? bc I need to complain
I hate camming when shit gets emotional in real life.
adds 10 years quick. working on live cam with bags under my eyes. red. looking old w makeup crusted bc i tried too hard to not look crazy. the black eyeliner just emphasizing the fact your day sucked. maybe month lol
and tired from being emotional and hating everyone lol
i had to vent
im all for staying positive, but it’s healthy to vent as long as it’s not all the time. I agree bring the camming sucks thread back. You all have me cracking up with the annoying things customers say thread.
Erika_Xstacy
01-24-2021, 08:38 PM
im all for staying positive, but it’s healthy to vent as long as it’s not all the time. I agree bring the camming sucks thread back. You all has me cracking up with the annoying things customers say thread
last few months was terrible for me performing and i was so moody. I had to end up seperating myself from outsiders. makes the biggest difference
I hate when that happens. i have to show my face to get joiners. /:O;D
anonamiss
01-25-2021, 01:07 AM
was just browsing the front page and clicked on one of the top row models. she is currently in a private but i can hear EVERYTHING that's happening. her screen is just her profile pic and says "this model is currently performing live" but I am literally hearing her entire explicit private show.
i did not get online tonight but holy hell if this is a normal glitch i am super not okay with that.
MissAdriana
01-25-2021, 09:52 AM
I highly recommend to not browse the site while on cam.
Just to piggyback off this comment - FYI for any models who don't know - not keeping your streaming cam window on top/open will cause your stream #s to PLUMMET. I recommend not browsing ANY site while live if you can avoid it.
she is currently in a private but i can hear EVERYTHING that's happening.
WTF THAT IS NOT OK! OMG I'm mortified I want my privates to stay private what the actual FUCK that better not be a common occurrence EW
gbjenna
01-25-2021, 02:01 PM
Those of you who are chatty/talkers in free chat, do you find talking for hours on end in free + privates makes your voice tired or full blown sends you hoarse? If so, do you do anything which you attempt to limit creating damage to your voice?
I had a bad case of laryngitis last year that had me where I barely spoke for an entire month, and I still didn't get my voice back to normal for 3 months. Docs said if I have a 'public speaking job' then it would prolong the healing which explained that. Anyway, I did long hours for the contest last week and now my voice is going again. So I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced similar issues and if you have ways to protect your voice without changing the way you work?? I feel like I convert a lot more when I'm chatty so I try to avoid typing.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-25-2021, 02:13 PM
Those of you who are chatty/talkers in free chat, do you find talking for hours on end in free + privates makes your voice tired or full blown sends you hoarse? If so, do you do anything which you attempt to limit creating damage to your voice?
I had a bad case of laryngitis last year that had me where I barely spoke for an entire month, and I still didn't get my voice back to normal for 3 months. Docs said if I have a 'public speaking job' then it would prolong the healing which explained that. Anyway, I did long hours for the contest last week and now my voice is going again. So I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced similar issues and if you have ways to protect your voice without changing the way you work?? I feel like I convert a lot more when I'm chatty so I try to avoid typing.
I sip on warm water with lemon and honey to preserve my voice. I also keep a humidfier in my work space because it helps to keep my throat from drying out. If I lose my voice Im basically toast. But I still like to type to some people to entice them.
ggminx
01-25-2021, 02:13 PM
Those of you who are chatty/talkers in free chat, do you find talking for hours on end in free + privates makes your voice tired or full blown sends you hoarse? If so, do you do anything which you attempt to limit creating damage to your voice?
I had a bad case of laryngitis last year that had me where I barely spoke for an entire month, and I still didn't get my voice back to normal for 3 months. Docs said if I have a 'public speaking job' then it would prolong the healing which explained that. Anyway, I did long hours for the contest last week and now my voice is going again. So I'm just wondering if anyone has experienced similar issues and if you have ways to protect your voice without changing the way you work?? I feel like I convert a lot more when I'm chatty so I try to avoid typing.
pretty much why i keep to simply saying, hello, hru, then they get a question and i'll maybe ask a question...keeps from taxing the vocal chords and the brain. to me, just bc how taxing making small talk is, i think my % would go down if i tried. i only lasted my first 2 weeks camming being chatty...back in 2014. on that note, i've had people take me excl just to have a convo since i never convo in free, which is hella fun!
looklovely
01-25-2021, 02:37 PM
A troll who keeps asking me to "Ban" him, and I don't because he tips me on occasion and I told him I need more gold to "Ban" him. He got a new screen name last night asking the same thing, but saying "You should do something else with your life, skanky, fat. BAN ME! BAN ME!" I ignored him. He returns with his original screen name...I said "Hi XXX" (his new SN) then he left quickly. I wish there was a way to put these SN's up since I know EXACTLY who this is.
SoloDesire
01-25-2021, 03:08 PM
A troll who keeps asking me to "Ban" him, and I don't because he tips me on occasion and I told him I need more gold to "Ban" him. He got a new screen name last night asking the same thing, but saying "You should do something else with your life, skanky, fat. BAN ME! BAN ME!" I ignored him. He returns with his original screen name...I said "Hi XXX" (his new SN) then he left quickly. I wish there was a way to put these SN's up since I know EXACTLY who this is.
Sometimes I think their significant other manages to log on to their account (dumbasses leave a trail), see their favorites and ask us to ban them hoping that they won't be able to jerk to their favorite camgirls anymore. I had this happen with a regular one time. Never had a bad experience with him and then out of no where one night he logged in and said "Block me!", which I didn't do because I knew it was so odd. The next time he logged on I asked him about it and he was completely floored...had no idea what could have happened and then took me private. So I'm pretty sure it was someone else on his account. Use your instincts and if it seems out of character then that's probably the case.
minibagel
01-25-2021, 03:37 PM
A troll who keeps asking me to "Ban" him, and I don't because he tips me on occasion and I told him I need more gold to "Ban" him. He got a new screen name last night asking the same thing, but saying "You should do something else with your life, skanky, fat. BAN ME! BAN ME!" I ignored him. He returns with his original screen name...I said "Hi XXX" (his new SN) then he left quickly. I wish there was a way to put these SN's up since I know EXACTLY who this is.
lol this guy came into my room last night. SSxxxxppu? he's never tipped me so i had no trouble fulfilling his wish
looklovely
01-25-2021, 03:41 PM
lol this guy came into my room last night. SSxxxxppu? he's never tipped me so i had no trouble fulfilling his wish
Holy smokes! Did he say the same thing to you as well? I know his original SN also...I'm pretty sure it's him, I can DM you it if you wish.
HollyD
01-25-2021, 04:20 PM
Can tell customers are waiting to get paid.its so quiet for me and Mondays are my busy day! And sooo many saying im expensive haha
HollyD
01-25-2021, 04:40 PM
Also any UK girls on here checked their pay adjustments?
Miss_ShaSha
01-25-2021, 04:52 PM
Can tell customers are waiting to get paid.its so quiet for me and Mondays are my busy day! And sooo many saying im expensive haha
It's dead AF in my room. I'm going 5-10 min without an in or an out. It's been like this all day for me. I started at 5am and it was the same. I left and came back for these later hours and yet...still DEAD.
I'm tryna stay til 9pm but if it's like this much longer I'm gonna BOUNCE!!!
HollyD
01-25-2021, 04:53 PM
It's dead AF in my room. I'm going 5-10 min without an in or an out. It's been like this all day for me. I started at 5am and it was the same. I left and came back for these later hours and yet...still DEAD.
I'm tryna stay til 9pm but if it's like this much longer I'm gonna BOUNCE!!!
Same! I went on ib the morning and it was deeeeeaaad! It has to be waiting to get paid
Jodyjensen
01-25-2021, 04:55 PM
Also any UK girls on here checked their pay adjustments?
Mines in, showing under this week
Miss_ShaSha
01-25-2021, 05:04 PM
Mines in, showing under this week
Mine never shows up until it's been paid. It's annoying AF to hear others can see their adj and mine is just...well just the same pay for the week. It's always paid, but it'd be nice to see that there's some kind of adj.
bigbum
01-25-2021, 05:12 PM
Can tell customers are waiting to get paid.its so quiet for me and Mondays are my busy day! And sooo many saying im expensive haha
yesss had a good client come tell me they were waiting to get paid.
Jodyjensen
01-25-2021, 05:13 PM
Mine never shows up until it's been paid. It's annoying AF to hear others can see their adj and mine is just...well just the same pay for the week. It's always paid, but it'd be nice to see that there's some kind of adj.
It never shows under my actually earnings, only under the pay adj tab. That’s annoying but I can live with it! Not seeing it all would stress me tf out hahahaa
HollyD
01-25-2021, 05:24 PM
Mines in, showing under this week
Ahhh cus I've got an additional 1 for a uk project... I have the bonus for the contest too.
Not complaining but alittle confused.
SuperPookie
01-25-2021, 05:29 PM
trolls, timewasters, ...more trolls
Miss_ShaSha
01-25-2021, 05:35 PM
trolls, timewasters, ...more trolls
I'm not even getting that. I swear I'm dead and a fuckin ghost! NOTHING for 2 hrs 12 min. What the fuckin fuck?!?!?!
AcidYellow
01-25-2021, 05:37 PM
trolls, timewasters, ...more trolls
Yes¡ I have a Ton of traffic but for nothing because No takers, just chatters blah blah same as yesterday, was a waste of make up lol. Getting them moneys tmrw or later this week. XoXo.
Miss_ShaSha
01-25-2021, 06:03 PM
Mines in, showing under this week
Thanks. I always looked under the week it's supposed to be paid, but it is under the new weeks info. THANK YOU!!!
moneybags
01-25-2021, 11:20 PM
Sounds like I didn’t miss much today. I was in therapy taking about how to cope with cheapskates today. All I came up with is 80% of your money comes from 20% of customers. So if we have 100 guys in our room in a couple hours only 20 of them are taking us to pvt. Which means 80 of them are asking for free attention with no intention to buy. I wish SM had the feature CB has where you can see if they have money to spend.
whirlerz
01-26-2021, 12:37 AM
Well, there is a bit of a snowstorm here, not severe..
My stream just cut out in the middle of private:(
The other show I was in, I didn't see til after he left, he said I froze?
Lol, was getting tired so maybe I just stopped..
Then, a different guy was having tech issues, all pixelated.
Then, it stopped, said sm couldn't verify my credentials?? Weird
The wiring's fucked in this house, so that could be part of it.
~Carmen~
01-26-2021, 01:31 AM
Tonight I did a show for a guy who never said anything. I went on and did my thing anyway. He came back a bit later for another show and and turned his cam and mic on. It turned out that he has Parkinson's so it's hard for him to type. I'm glad I that didn't push for him to type because he was the nicest guy. I admire him for having the courage to go c2c.
^^^ My dad has Parkinson and is barely able to lift a mug to drink water or manage a spoon with soup or a fork with food. It's just impossible to type on a keyboard or phone when ur hands shake soo bad. Yes, we never know who is behind the screen there, could be someone in such condition. Well done Carmen!
Strawberryblonde
01-26-2021, 04:53 AM
^^^ My dad has Parkinson and is barely able to lift a mug to drink water or manage a spoon with soup or a fork with food. It's just impossible to type on a keyboard or phone when ur hands shake soo bad. Yes, we never know who is behind the screen there, could be someone in such condition. Well done Carmen!
Yeah it's so difficult to know the reasons, the person behind the keyboard. I have experience of clients with Parkinson's as well as other difficulties in-person, just amazing and usually appreciates patience. If it were me I'd be so frustrated so I imagine they are too, meaning not only sexually.
PrincessAngel
01-26-2021, 06:05 AM
Anyone have any experience with trying to change your email address on streammate? The site doesn't seem to allow you to do it yourself but support hasn't been all that responsive for quite a while.
Would suck to have my account blocked after I've generated some income because the associated email address is no longer valid :/
gbjenna
01-26-2021, 07:40 AM
I sip on warm water with lemon and honey to preserve my voice. I also keep a humidfier in my work space because it helps to keep my throat from drying out. If I lose my voice Im basically toast. But I still like to type to some people to entice them.
I’ve just ordered a humidifier! Thank you!! The heating is nearly always on full power in my room, it never dawned on me that might not help. Only suggestions the doctors had were, try not to talk to let it heal and drink plenty of fluids, and maybe a referral to an ENT surgeon if it becomes a recurring issue, which I really want to avoid.
Strawberryblonde
01-26-2021, 09:01 AM
I'd noticed the dry throat effect but had initially thought it was due to something else.
Quite a few ask if I have a Lush, are these any good worth buying or is it just a fantasy? How do they work?
By the way really getting into this now, didn't 'get' the forum for months all seems to have happened in the last week or so motivated and inspired.
audreymadison
01-26-2021, 09:01 AM
Just had a 10 min exclusive not show up in my earnings. I sent in a support ticket asking for help. Has this happened to anyone else? Did they help you get the money from the show? I'm pretty bummed to be honest.
audreymadison
01-26-2021, 09:03 AM
Just had a 10 min exclusive not show up in my earnings. I sent in a support ticket asking for help. Has this happened to anyone else? Did they help you get the money from the show? I'm pretty bummed to be honest.
Okay it just showed up. Maybe it was delayed? Something to keep an eye out for ladies. It appeared back in my earnings. So so so weird.
DeliveryLadyx
01-26-2021, 11:37 AM
Is slow for everyone today? Barely any potentials and traffic... Want to do full time today x
Miss_ShaSha
01-26-2021, 11:44 AM
Is slow for everyone today? Barely any potentials and traffic... Want to do full time today x
Started at 9am did an hour and it was dead AF. I'm back on after gym and meditation and it's still very very slow. SM has been really shit this week. If it wasn't for a custom order paid I'd be broke in earnings.
Hang in there.
~Carmen~
01-26-2021, 11:49 AM
^^^ My dad has Parkinson and is barely able to lift a mug to drink water or manage a spoon with soup or a fork with food. It's just impossible to type on a keyboard or phone when ur hands shake soo bad. Yes, we never know who is behind the screen there, could be someone in such condition. Well done Carmen!.
Thank you Kat. I'm so sorry your dad has Parkinson's. Bless his heart! I can't imagine how frustrating it must be not to be able to do the simplest things such as drink water.
Yeah it's so difficult to know the reasons, the person behind the keyboard. I have experience of clients with Parkinson's as well as other difficulties in-person, just amazing and usually appreciates patience. If it were me I'd be so frustrated so I imagine they are too, meaning not only sexually.
He told me his meds affect his sex drive but I brought it out. That was sweet to hear. Some clients just touch your heart.
Miss_ShaSha
01-26-2021, 02:10 PM
This is by far my worst week yet. WTF is wrong with the guys on SM??? Is anyone else having a tough go of it? I'm ready to rage quit this whole goddamn week. My Regs are nowhere to be found and the freeloading is making me want to rip all my goddamn hair out.
HELP! SOS! 911!!!!
Sugarsteepdoll
01-26-2021, 02:13 PM
Same thing here...going to take a break soon but I'll try again tonight. Lets hope it will pick up a bit.
^^^ ^^^ Same here, i am not making anything! This weeks is pure torture and no money!
($2.81 made on sunday, nothing last nite, nothing tonite, i cam 3 hrs shifts normally because i get bored to death for the lack of business).
HollyD
01-26-2021, 03:07 PM
This is by far my worst week yet. WTF is wrong with the guys on SM??? Is anyone else having a tough go of it? I'm ready to rage quit this whole goddamn week. My Regs are nowhere to be found and the freeloading is making me want to rip all my goddamn hair out.
HELP! SOS! 911!!!!
I'm exactly the same! Dunno what is going on. I thought yesterday was a fluke but today isn't looking promising at all. I've had alot of newbies and none of my regs.
DeliveryLadyx
01-26-2021, 03:09 PM
I am outta here, is just ghost town today. I don't have any new traffic, only regulars and guys which favourited me, including freeloaders muhaha.