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Miss_ShaSha
01-27-2021, 08:26 PM
Thank You! So I had to tell my doctor want i do for a living because I though it was injuring my hand. He obviously didn’t say it like this, but he’s like you’re not getting any younger. Yes as an older model you have to respect the aging process. But age is just a number. I could tell he was low key judging me. Whatever screw him. Oh and he said I can go back to work full time. Yay!
I hate vanilla peanut sometimes
OMFG that's you? Are you for real right now? Unbelievable! The sensuality & timing was perfect! Enough to get the guys paying! Seriously? That is you?
Erika_Xstacy
01-27-2021, 08:26 PM
has anyone had clients try to register on sm but their country is blocked? are some arab countries blocked? or?
yes mam
bigbum
01-27-2021, 09:11 PM
yes mam
cool good to know miss erika , hope you have a good night.
whirlerz
01-27-2021, 09:31 PM
[QUOTE=whirlerz;3209127]
Can someone explain to me how VPN works for streamate? I mean does it still show my flag (from europe rn) or I am able to change it for US or what? Does it show my profile more often or what?
It shows whatever country you choose .
I don't think it affects profile?
moneybags
01-27-2021, 10:01 PM
OMFG that's you? Are you for real right now? Unbelievable! The sensuality & timing was perfect! Enough to get the guys paying! Seriously? That is you?
im sorry. I was saying thank you meaning, “Thank you someone agrees with me older women are hot!”
I’m not being melodramatic when I say it’s inspiring to other women to just do you and get money. Because of you think the stigma of being a nude model is bad when you’re 20
something..omg it’s a 100 times worse as a mature woman. It takes a real bad ass to be a mature model. Truly. I plan on doing this until I find a man who makes it worth my while not to $$$
~Carmen~
01-27-2021, 11:58 PM
Is the site going down and back up for anyone else? It has happened to me several times.
kamiliam
01-28-2021, 12:09 AM
Is the site going down and back up for anyone else? It has happened to me several times.
Happened once to me
moneybags
01-28-2021, 01:16 AM
Is the site going down and back up for anyone else? It has happened to me several times.
Feels like it. Been getting complaints all night.
whirlerz
01-28-2021, 01:51 AM
I lost audio twice, losing potential privates, along with actual privates, (2 guys)!
When I see the audio bars not moving, I log off &back on, it helps.
Meanwhile, I lost $ & potential $ :(
Miss_ShaSha
01-28-2021, 02:35 AM
im sorry. I was saying thank you meaning, “Thank you someone agrees with me older women are hot!”
I’m not being melodramatic when I say it’s inspiring to other women to just do you and get money. Because of you think the stigma of being a nude model is bad when you’re 20
something..omg it’s a 100 times worse as a mature woman. It takes a real bad ass to be a mature model. Truly. I plan on doing this until I find a man who makes it worth my while not to $$$
Ahhhh yes! Older models are hot! I watch many of the mature models hustle!
Strawberryblonde
01-28-2021, 04:08 AM
Thank You! So I had to tell my doctor what I do for a living because I thought it was injuring my hand. He obviously didn’t say it like this, but he’s like you’re not getting any younger. Yes as an older model you have to respect the aging process, but age is just a number. I could tell he was low key judging me. Whatever screw him. Oh and he said I can go back to work full time. Yay!
Vanilla people can be so damn judgy!
I've had people do this regards other life activities, hobbies etc they usually don't realise the age spread which is 18-over 80.
HollyD
01-28-2021, 04:56 AM
So I've never used my vibe when I'm on my period and I use sponges for when I cam. How do you girls who use a vibe do it while on?
gbjenna
01-28-2021, 05:08 AM
So I've never used my vibe when I'm on my period and I use sponges for when I cam. How do you girls who use a vibe do it while on?
I do both, but I have to wait until towards of the end of my period normally. I just use the vibe as normal though with an absolute shit tonne of lube if I’ve got a sponge in
princess_casual
01-28-2021, 08:26 AM
[QUOTE=princess_casual;3209117]Does anyone here use a VPN? I'm sick of having my EU location listed and attracted either cheap ass dudes from my display country or Americans who are disappointed I don't have an accent. I also think US custies might skip over me, and that ppl expect lower prices for EU girls.
Yes!.
I love Express VPN, had them over a year. Lots of countries to choose from, USA & many states too!
Thanks! Someone else recommended Express too... what browser do you use? I just got it and it worked but it makes my bitrate drop down super low (using chrome).
EDIT: NVM! I played around with the settings and got it to work! Sooooo much better now
arielbriel
01-28-2021, 12:04 PM
im sorry. I was saying thank you meaning, “Thank you someone agrees with me older women are hot!”
I’m not being melodramatic when I say it’s inspiring to other women to just do you and get money. Because of you think the stigma of being a nude model is bad when you’re 20
something..omg it’s a 100 times worse as a mature woman. It takes a real bad ass to be a mature model. Truly. I plan on doing this until I find a man who makes it worth my while not to $$$
For sure!
People are like you're 30+, when are you going to get a real job?! ::)
And don't get me started on the FB stripper groups, those girls call us old bitches for still dancing over 30 LMAO.
bigbum
01-28-2021, 12:07 PM
I do both, but I have to wait until towards of the end of my period normally. I just use the vibe as normal though with an absolute shit tonne of lube if I’ve got a sponge in
couldnt you get toxic shock from that? seems a bit dangerous
Jodyjensen
01-28-2021, 12:26 PM
So I’ve finally got the wishlist function enabled but it says guys pay using reward tokens? Or am I missing something? Options are pretty shit too imo. Suppose if guys actually do it it’s worthwhile for offline tips, will have to wait and see.
(Tried to edit pic to show as a thumbnail but I’m dumb and can’t work it out)
princess_casual
01-28-2021, 12:28 PM
I finally have access to the "wishlist."
manicure = 30$ ?
lingerie = 50$ ?
Are these prices from 2010?? pffft
kamiliam
01-28-2021, 01:14 PM
couldnt you get toxic shock from that? seems a bit dangerous
not necessarily. Of course some women are more susceptible to toxic shock then others, but in general as long as it is made from body safe materials you can have something inserted for say overnight protection. Tampon manufacturers used to play a little loose with what is in their tampons and perhaps lead to toxic shock. They also benefit from encouraging women to change their product often those buying more. Just pay attention to your reactions and the ingredients and you should be fine
AcidYellow
01-28-2021, 01:45 PM
So I’ve finally got the wishlist function enabled but it says guys pay using reward tokens? Or am I missing something? Options are pretty shit too imo. Suppose if guys actually do it it’s worthwhile for offline tips, will have to wait and see.
(Tried to edit pic to show as a thumbnail but I’m dumb and can’t work it out)
Well well, why not an amazon wishlist? Or why not just let the customers buy directly the Item from our list instead points? Lets see.......
moneybags
01-28-2021, 02:08 PM
I've had people do this regards other life activities, hobbies etc they usually don't realise the age spread which is 18-over 80.
Agism is particularly bad for women. Older men are distinguished and accomplished. As an older model, we are considered past our date. Never mind my room is full of younger guys asking for privates all night.
Age is as much of a state of mind as it is biology. I’m in the prenursing program and a PT as soon as I told him-my doctor- what I did for a living (because I thought that was how I was hurting my hands) he started talking down to me-crazy how unconscious people are of their white male privilege. Literally I’m the same woman he met months ago, but when I self disclosed my occupation then all of a sudden I’m a dumb old whore who he can talk down to!!! I should have said, “your privilege is showing.” I proud of myself. I’d rather end hated for what I am than loved for what I’m not. The patriarchy can suck a big fat dick.I swear men and women are like cats and dogs. We can sometimes get along, but at the end of the day we just aren’t on the same team.
Also, my personal trainer who is the president of NANBF bodybuilding said he believes a lot people hit their prime 35-45. So yeah my dr saying I can’t go back to bodybuilding is just being an jerk. My health issue is mostly likely pandemic stress and not a structural issue. I just need to take it easy and I’ll get back to lifting by the end of this year.
looklovely
01-28-2021, 02:35 PM
For those that use the GOLD MENU, what are your rates? I occasionally change it...
Here are mine:
GOLD Menu
Flip Off
$2
Stand Up
$3
SPH
$4
Strap-on
$4
Bounce Tits
$6
Show Feet
$7
Twerk
$10
IvyRose
01-28-2021, 02:36 PM
Agism is particularly bad for women. Older men are distinguished and accomplished. As an older model, we are considered past our date. Never mind my room is full of younger guys asking for privates all night.
Age is as much of a state of mind as it is biology. I’m in the prenursing program and a PT as soon as I told him-my doctor- what I did for a living (because I thought that was how I was hurting my hands) he started talking down to me-crazy how unconscious people are of their white male privilege. Literally I’m the same woman he met months ago, but when I self disclosed my occupation then all of a sudden I’m a dumb old whore who he can talk down to!!! I should have said, “your privilege is showing.” I proud of myself. I’d rather end hated for what I am than loved for what I’m not. The patriarchy can suck a big fat dick.I swear men and women are like cats and dogs. We can sometimes get along, but at the end of the day we just aren’t on the same team.
Also, my personal trainer who is the president of NANBF bodybuilding said he believes a lot people hit their prime 35-45. So yeah my dr saying I can’t go back to bodybuilding is just being an jerk. My health issue is mostly likely pandemic stress and not a structural issue. I just need to take it easy and I’ll get back to lifting by the end of this year.
It is def a jerk reaction of your doc!
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I think yoir intuition is on point. You will get through this, ps i believe your personal trainer about prime!
gbjenna
01-28-2021, 02:47 PM
couldnt you get toxic shock from that? seems a bit dangerous
I use natural sea sponges so it shouldn’t cause any issues and I change them very frequently. I would never use a make up sponge or something, I would say that’s probably asking for trouble.
I have crippling periods and I usually have to take at least a day off before I even come on. I lose almost an entire week nearly every month, so when I am fit to work again the sponges mean I can work without offering a limited service, which is the last thing I need after a week off already
HollyD
01-28-2021, 03:08 PM
I use natural sea sponges so it shouldn’t cause any issues and I change them very frequently. I would never use a make up sponge or something, I would say that’s probably asking for trouble.
I have crippling periods and I usually have to take at least a day off before I even come on. I lose almost an entire week nearly every month, so when I am fit to work again the sponges mean I can work without offering a limited service, which is the last thing I need after a week off already
I use those European soft tampons designed for playing sport or having sex. Are sea sponges any good?
HollyD
01-28-2021, 03:12 PM
Wow something is defo up with the site my bitrate has barely gone into green :(
gbjenna
01-28-2021, 03:13 PM
I use those European soft tampons designed for playing sport or having sex. Are sea sponges any good?
Are they the really smooth, sort of round ones? If so, I think I've used them some time ago and I find the sea sponges easier to get out as they're easier to get a grip on!
HollyD
01-28-2021, 03:22 PM
Are they the really smooth, sort of round ones? If so, I think I've used them some time ago and I find the sea sponges easier to get out as they're easier to get a grip on!
Yeah pink with a sort of wave to them. Used them for years but they are abit difficult to get out
bigbum
01-28-2021, 03:27 PM
I use natural sea sponges so it shouldn’t cause any issues and I change them very frequently. I would never use a make up sponge or something, I would say that’s probably asking for trouble.
I have crippling periods and I usually have to take at least a day off before I even come on. I lose almost an entire week nearly every month, so when I am fit to work again the sponges mean I can work without offering a limited service, which is the last thing I need after a week off already
just take care of yourself. health first. i havent tried sponges yet i dont have a heavy flow so i just take the first 2 days off due to extreme belly bloating.
ill have to try those sponges
HollyD
01-28-2021, 03:49 PM
Is anyone's bitrate low too? Been on 45 mins and its gone green a couple of times but only for a few secs
moneybags
01-28-2021, 07:19 PM
I use those European soft tampons designed for playing sport or having sex. Are sea sponges any good?
As far as I know material itself isn’t the issue with TSS-it’s the bacteria. The problem with tampons along time ago is people left them in to long and the bacteria multiples quickly.
I don’t know anything about how the body reacts to foreign objects in the vagina. I worry with sea sponges they aren’t FDA approved. I’ve done it out of desperation, but I take the pill everyday now so I don’t have a period. I would think sea sponges are at your own risk. They are a bitch to get out, but they really do the job of you have to make money. I also use regular sponges. The have menstrual disks with are FDA approved. I’ve used them with mixed results. They are comfortable, but at times I was leaking. Sponges are awesome if you HAVE to cam and can’t afford to miss out any money. I’d recommend as a cam girl to take the pill everyday and skip the period altogether.
bigbum
01-28-2021, 08:03 PM
Are they the really smooth, sort of round ones? If so, I think I've used them some time ago and I find the sea sponges easier to get out as they're easier to get a grip on!
oh gosh to i miss european tampons .. so smooth. so compact.. and comfy.
and cheap
bigbum
01-28-2021, 08:04 PM
Is anyone's bitrate low too? Been on 45 mins and its gone green a couple of times but only for a few secs
for the first day in weeks my bit rate is stable..
kamiliam
01-28-2021, 08:10 PM
As far as I know material itself isn’t the issue with TSS-it’s the bacteria. The problem with tampons along time ago is people left them in to long and the bacteria multiples quickly.
I don’t know anything about how the body reacts to foreign objects in the vagina. I worry with sea sponges they aren’t FDA approved. I’ve done it out of desperation, but I take the pill everyday now so I don’t have a period. I would think sea sponges are at your own risk. They are a bitch to get out, but they really do the job of you have to make money. I also use regular sponges. The have menstrual disks with are FDA approved. I’ve used them with mixed results. They are comfortable, but at times I was leaking. Sponges are awesome if you HAVE to cam and can’t afford to miss out any money. I’d recommend as a cam girl to take the pill everyday and skip the period altogether.
yeah there is debate whether 100% cotton tampons are any better. Toxic shock is rare, like 1/million. This all started because P&G put polyester in tampons and it caused a big reaction. Don’t put polyester in your vagina.
It’s like our toys, try to find the best materials, but the number one thing is hand washing and making sure no foreign bacteria gets in our system. There are certain materials that hold on the bacteria better then others. But you can get an infection from the nicest of silicone if you are not taking the other precautions.
also make sure you are lubricated, pain with tip vibes or toys can be an indicator of other problems. Small tears can cause infections and the likelihood of a hostile environment where things like TSS can thrive. Lube up!
Erika_Xstacy
01-28-2021, 08:11 PM
I used tampons for years. switch them out every few show
i've never had a bacterial infection or anything bad
i think when camming we are more alert
i've had to do some crazy gymnastics, squat and push to get it out. i used big toys
2017 i did get a implant and omg the period never stopped. the reason i got it was for cam
i spotted every day until last year. but now i have serious pain. the fuck machine did something.
im hardly doing toy shows this week because i feel like im about to explode. planned parenthood had the earliest opening next week
Id rather stuff a tampon https://www.google.com/search?q=u+tampons&sxsrf=ALeKk02SJd4w3fcVPdDvyYWx_l5fGXR4dA:161188994 8496&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjN4K_-lcDuAhXulOAKHWDZACkQ_AUoAXoECBgQAw&biw=1920&bih=945 i like these bc they dont expand long ways or side ways. not a lot of material that is real cottony. regular size is perfect
Erika_Xstacy
01-28-2021, 08:16 PM
yeah there is debate whether 100% cotton tampons are any better. Toxic shock is rare, like 1/million. This all started because P&G put polyester in tampons and it caused a big reaction. Don’t put polyester in your vagina.
It’s like our toys, try to find the best materials, but the number one thing is hand washing and making sure no foreign bacteria gets in our system. There are certain materials that hold on the bacteria better then others. But you can get an infection from the nicest of silicone if you are not taking the other precautions.
also make sure you are lubricated, pain with tip vibes or toys can be an indicator of other problems. Small tears can cause infections and the likelihood of a hostile environment where things like TSS can thrive. Lube up!
I refuse to sit with that tip vibe inside me
im suspicious of the little hole and fluids
Erika_Xstacy
01-28-2021, 08:22 PM
oh gosh to i miss european tampons .. so smooth. so compact.. and comfy.
and cheap
what are european tampons?
kamiliam
01-28-2021, 08:28 PM
I refuse to sit with that tip vibe inside me
im suspicious of the little hole and fluids
I am too suspicious of it but still do it. Somehow it hasn’t caused any problem in the 4 years or so. I was so paranoid when they became the norm, but relaxed when nothing bad happened. boric acid is helpful along with high cleaning standards. It doesn’t bother me, I feel like I am shaming my pussy but me and the tip vibe are buddies. An unexpected benefit of the wide set hips.
Cleaning it well enough probably has something to do with me going through them so often(I don’t dunk it in bleach or anything)
~Carmen~
01-28-2021, 09:41 PM
I am too suspicious of it but still do it. Somehow it hasn’t caused any problem in the 4 years or so. I was so paranoid when they became the norm, but relaxed when nothing bad happened. boric acid is helpful along with high cleaning standards. It doesn’t bother me, I feel like I am shaming my pussy but me and the tip vibe are buddies. An unexpected benefit of the wide set hips.
Cleaning it well enough probably has something to do with me going through them so often(I don’t dunk it in bleach or anything)
Boric acid does work great but I always worry about the possibility of ingesting it orally.
fetishqueen
01-29-2021, 01:20 AM
I have the wishlist now too but I've set up my choices and it's not even on my profile, where should it be?
Miss_ShaSha
01-29-2021, 01:50 AM
For those that use the GOLD MENU, what are your rates? I occasionally change it...
Here are mine:
GOLD Menu
Flip Off
$2
Stand Up
$3
SPH
$4
Strap-on
$4
Bounce Tits
$6
Show Feet
$7
Twerk
$10
Mine are all $25 except twerk is $40 lolollll. Lower prices never got me a show & I felt they were not worth it, so now I make it worth it. Each flash is about 1-2 min except twerk is like 3-4 min.
Jodyjensen
01-29-2021, 05:32 AM
My bitrate is going crazy today
Edit: bitrate sorted itself out, now my sound’s apparently not working properly. I thought updates were meant to be during contest weeks not just randomly. Ahhhh
Angela888
01-29-2021, 07:35 AM
My bitrate is going crazy today
Me too >:(
Miss_ShaSha
01-29-2021, 08:44 AM
My bitrate is going crazy today
Edit: bitrate sorted itself out, now my sound’s apparently not working properly. I thought updates were meant to be during contest weeks not just randomly. Ahhhh
Me too >:(
Jesus, my bitrate and RTT have been all over the place and in the red. That hardly ever happens. I was in a double private and bitrate went red for like 2 min. FUCK!!!
MsJess
01-29-2021, 11:00 AM
Bit rate and RTT were fucked up for me last week ugh they need to fix this.
I don't usually report pussy or whatever, cause you know my pussy is fire!!! and custies pay to see it, if these girls don't want money for it, it's not my prob... but I just reported a whole bunch of girls promoting their snapchat, twitter, IG, everything diplayed on the site!! If I can't promote it, you can't either!!! Do not steal our customers.
izshadow
01-29-2021, 12:41 PM
I see everyone else is having bit rate and RTT issues still to. Nice.
Erika_Xstacy
01-29-2021, 01:21 PM
Received my ICF 1099s today
I hate taxes so I’m not excited but if your waiting they have shipped out
I’m on the east coast for reference to distance from Seattle
Erika_Xstacy
01-29-2021, 01:23 PM
I see everyone else is having bit rate and RTT issues still to. Nice.
Knock on wood but I’ve had zero issues when streaming this week
looklovely
01-29-2021, 01:33 PM
Mine are all $25 except twerk is $40 lolollll. Lower prices never got me a show & I felt they were not worth it, so now I make it worth it. Each flash is about 1-2 min except twerk is like 3-4 min.
Do you recommend I raise the prices? I'm struggling as it is.
izshadow
01-29-2021, 01:42 PM
What do you guys say to the annoying PIA customer who thinks his stupid $1 dollar golds are worth actual gold. He will sit and tip $1 every few minutes, sometimes try and talk dirty and just get off for free in free chat. I hate feeling like I'm nailed down to the room cause of his stupid golds. It would hold value if it was like $5 or more per tip but 30 cents isnt your my best friend material.... at all. Would you ignore or block? I highly doubt we are ever going to get past the $1 gold tipping in free chat. He can go for up to an hour doing it and well its not worth the whooping $7 bucks I may make out of it at the end of that hour.