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Luci Fer
02-24-2021, 06:33 PM
Interesting, thank you. Can I ask what everyone else's average potential viewer #s are? Especially those with geoblock on?

When I say it's normally 1-3, I mean the base number is 0-1 it might go up to 3 then it'll drop back to 0-1. Seems pretty low compared to someone getting 80 for example


usually 0-1 here. Sometimes it's even 2 or 3. But I know these are all logged off guys who visit me. I don't really see the point of that feature honestly. SM suggests to greet them, but in my opinion it's like to greet potatoes. Well, could even be more success with actual potatoes.:jester:

Genoveve
02-24-2021, 06:45 PM
I had minor issues today; earlier my potentials kept showing as -- and later my toolbar on the streaming page kept disappearing.

minibagel
02-24-2021, 07:14 PM
usually 0-1 here. Sometimes it's even 2 or 3. But I know these are all logged off guys who visit me. I don't really see the point of that feature honestly. SM suggests to greet them, but in my opinion it's like to greet potatoes. Well, could even be more success with actual potatoes.:jester:


Thank you sounds just just like me, do you have geoblock on too?

Are people with names like user0019 ppl without actual accounts? Cuz "user" types come in my chat a lot and write me all the time in messenger. Seems weird if my base potentials are 0-1. This is my final question of the day

Luci Fer
02-24-2021, 09:57 PM
Thank you sounds just just like me, do you have geoblock on too?

Are people with names like user0019 ppl without actual accounts? Cuz "user" types come in my chat a lot and write me all the time in messenger. Seems weird if my base potentials are 0-1. This is my final question of the day

hey, yes also geoblock enabled, that's why I answered your question before.
btw, I am also curious about 'user678676' etc What are they? I always think that's their automatically generated nickname because they are too lazy to invent something ahah.

kamiliam
02-24-2021, 10:48 PM
I think they just censored a bunch of new words in chat, that or they are banning more and customers are trying to avoid another one. This is great, it's fun to absorb how they try to type the banned things it's always good for a brain teaser.

Also placement is for sure different but not at the same time. Logged in/out/cleared cache and it's not really a country thing. Can't quite put my finger on it. Traffic has been normal but I am also coming off a low hours week last week.

~Carmen~
02-25-2021, 12:07 AM
I think they just censored a bunch of new words in chat, that or they are banning more and customers are trying to avoid another one. This is great, it's fun to absorb how they try to type the banned things it's always good for a brain teaser.

Also placement is for sure different but not at the same time. Logged in/out/cleared cache and it's not really a country thing. Can't quite put my finger on it. Traffic has been normal but I am also coming off a low hours week last week.

I hope so much that "mommy" is one of the banned words.

kamiliam
02-25-2021, 02:09 AM
I hope so much that "mommy" is one of the banned words.

well no mommy tonight but plenty of "mommi", fingers crossed

fetishqueen
02-25-2021, 02:24 AM
I'm in the UK without any geoblock and my potentials are usually quite low, sometimes 0 but sometimes up to 4 or 5. The number goes up when someone pays for the Flash Tits off the Gold menu! Weird that... :)

Shaher
02-25-2021, 03:03 AM
I'm in the UK without any geoblock and my potentials are usually quite low, sometimes 0 but sometimes up to 4 or 5. The number goes up when someone pays for the Flash Tits off the Gold menu! Weird that... :)


Are potentials the ones watching without an account?

fetishqueen
02-25-2021, 05:06 AM
Are potentials the ones watching without an account?

I have always assumed so...

bigbum
02-25-2021, 05:35 AM
Oh my. So some model died from it and they banned it?

not on SM , it was a girl from the uk, i dont know which site it was, but you can google it. i dont want to post it here in the SM thread since its not related to SM

bigbum
02-25-2021, 05:41 AM
Do you only do fetish? Because a lot of times vanilla guys will try to pretend they have XYZ fetish just to get in pvt only to proceed to just try to rush you naked or topless and shit so they can leave. I just block, or if I think that they actually do have the fetish and are just cheap I ask them who the fuck they think they are to tell ME what to do and proceed to do things my way. A lot of my sissies and cucks aren’t into nudity or toplessness though; sissies because they’re more into cock and cucks because they ‘don’t deserve it.’

oh yeah haha the dom guys who say TAKE OFF ALL YOUR CLOTHES NOW. .within 30 seconds of arriving . yeah thats an instant ban for me.
real bdsm clients do 1 hour block shows with me and tip well.

i mean sissy ones for some reason and cucks they are the ones who rate me low. i have no idea why. i find sissy the most to be free loaders or 1 minute shows.
i also find that the apparent "cuck" who ask to hear about me fucking another man, once i start telling them about it, they seem to get seriously upset and then leave. its like.. thats what you asked for! me to cuck you!
yes i do a lot of fetish work.

bigbum
02-25-2021, 05:45 AM
There was a discussion about this quite some time ago so I asked and I was told by support that any sort of family roleplay, step or otherwise, is not allowed. I've stopped doing them since, but loads of people seem to do them and have no issues. I don't think it's strictly enforced. Just to add, I also remember someone else saying they asked and they were told step family is fine. There doesn't seem to be a straight answer. It's probably worth asking.
i was told directly from SM less than a few months ago that STEP was ok.
as long as it was step.

this is when i get worried. i was given 1 slap on the wrist with a temp ban, first time ever, i made all the changes that were asked.
but i was told it was my last change. so i live in constant stress whenever im on cam that it could all be taken away from me at any moment for a gray area or confusion or what a client may say.
i just try to police the chats as best as possible and pray it turns out well

bigbum
02-25-2021, 05:51 AM
Is squirting a grey area? - no, squirting is totally allowed, but obviously in private.


how are you differentiating between squirting and peeing? so just by calling it squriting instead of peeing its ok?
i wont be doing it anymore , and i block all requests regarding this for the sake of my account. i cant risk it.
but im asking for everyone else here who may be confused.

gbjenna
02-25-2021, 06:05 AM
i was told directly from SM less than a few months ago that STEP was ok.
as long as it was step.

this is when i get worried. i was given 1 slap on the wrist with a temp ban, first time ever, i made all the changes that were asked.
but i was told it was my last change. so i live in constant stress whenever im on cam that it could all be taken away from me at any moment for a gray area or confusion or what a client may say.
i just try to police the chats as best as possible and pray it turns out well

Yes Christina above also confirmed that step family is fine, which is good but also a bit annoying as ever since I was told by someone at support that it was a no, I've turned down countless shows for it when I could have taken them. At least there's a solid answer now!
I do wonder what happens if for example the customer keeps saying 'sis' instead of 'step sis' though? It used to happen to me a lot and I used to have to interrupt to remind them to say step sis/daughter etc, just to make sure my back was covered. I don't like to push my luck. Does it take us from abiding by the rules to breaking the rules if they don't explicitly say 'step' throughout the show??

Tbh whilst typing this now, I'm thinking maybe I'll keep staying away from this step family business stuff. Mainly because of the above concern, but also whilst most the customers were fine, there were occasionally some (what I thought to be) questionable comments made from some. Particularly around the step dau/step daddy roleplay and it didn't always sit right with me.

gbjenna
02-25-2021, 06:09 AM
oh yeah haha the dom guys who say TAKE OFF ALL YOUR CLOTHES NOW. .within 30 seconds of arriving . yeah thats an instant ban for me.
real bdsm clients do 1 hour block shows with me and tip well.

i mean sissy ones for some reason and cucks they are the ones who rate me low. i have no idea why. i find sissy the most to be free loaders or 1 minute shows.
i also find that the apparent "cuck" who ask to hear about me fucking another man, once i start telling them about it, they seem to get seriously upset and then leave. its like.. thats what you asked for! me to cuck you!
yes i do a lot of fetish work.

I have pretty much the same issue with sissy's and cuck's. Nearly always 1-2min shows. I refuse all sissies because they're extremely annoying in free chat anyway and I refuse a lot of cuckold shows aswell cause it's very rare I can get them to stick around. I think it's me tbh who doesn't seem to be able to wrap my head around the fetish.

Dahlia Fallon
02-25-2021, 06:09 AM
I interpret it as if someone asks you for pee, say no. If someone asks you for a squirting show, say yes if you do it. Squirting is always in the trending tags section and SM is partnered with squirtamania on their special shows programme.

I know that the long debate about what squirting is runs deep on the internet but in our situation I dont think the area is that grey really. It is a popular act and lots of women have it as their main skill or username. You could always cover base with a pre written message 20 gold to squirt or something so it's there in black and white what it is you are charging for and providing and just block those who make you feel like they are being ambiguous or trying to change their wording towards their preferred fetish.

Ambercat
02-25-2021, 06:35 AM
My top menu bar keeps disapearing but comes back if i refresh my feed. Any one else having this or has something gone wrong with my PC?

audreymadison
02-25-2021, 07:04 AM
My top menu bar keeps disapearing but comes back if i refresh my feed. Any one else having this or has something gone wrong with my PC?

yes me too

Ambercat
02-25-2021, 07:17 AM
it's really irritating!!

Luci Fer
02-25-2021, 08:08 AM
not on SM , it was a girl from the uk, i dont know which site it was, but you can google it. i dont want to post it here in the SM thread since its not related to SM

So,just to be clear- it happened on another site, but choking is no-no on SM as well?

Luci Fer
02-25-2021, 08:10 AM
My top menu bar keeps disapearing but comes back if i refresh my feed. Any one else having this or has something gone wrong with my PC?

I had it yesterday, very uncomfortable, I just reloaded the streaming page and it never happened again.

Angela888
02-25-2021, 08:24 AM
My top menu bar keeps disapearing but comes back if i refresh my feed. Any one else having this or has something gone wrong with my PC?

me too

MissAdriana
02-25-2021, 08:31 AM
Dont you think its ignorant to call out some countries as POOR on an international forum?Sounds somewhat unschooled to me considering we live in a time of acceptance of all races, nationalities, religions ,body types.I get your point but the language you use is just unacceptable.

Hmmm now that you mention yes. I see how that could be seen as insulting even though that is not the context I am using it in here. Language can be limiting. Feel free to enlighten me. Would 'poverty stricken' have been better?

Esixxx
02-25-2021, 09:56 AM
My top menu bar keeps disapearing but comes back if i refresh my feed. Any one else having this or has something gone wrong with my PC?
It's been happening to me as well.

bigbum
02-25-2021, 10:02 AM
So,just to be clear- it happened on another site, but choking is no-no on SM as well?

i read it in the rules somewhere. it was listed under asphyxiation play i think in the main site rules of SM.

Esixxx
02-25-2021, 10:15 AM
Noticed something different on the homepage

54199

AuroraJade
02-25-2021, 11:27 AM
Jeez I am just not having any traffic today! 1hr and 10 mins and 11$, lol.

DeliveryLadyx
02-25-2021, 11:41 AM
Nor I, over one hour and big fat 0. No traffic whatsoever in room. Checked myself and others and all pixelating badly when moving back and forwards.

SkySmith
02-25-2021, 11:51 AM
ALL of the babestation girls on streamate: instagram, snap, twitter, live on babestation tv, etc. etc WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK?
Is this allowed or not?
Also, alot of studio girls with their IG and TW...
CAN WE SHARE OUR SOCIAL MEDIA NOW? cause if WE CAN! I'm blasting all my urls there!!!!!

Ugh I have reported several Babestation models for below the waist nudity in free chat. they also do shows on other sites and stay in free chat on Streamate. And yeah ive seen them all with their links all over their stuff. Its not a good look. The babestation studio needs addressing by Streamate.

xoprincessremy
02-25-2021, 01:55 PM
Where's the traffic been this entire month?

Jopka
02-25-2021, 03:05 PM
Hmmm now that you mention yes. I see how that could be seen as insulting even though that is not the context I am using it in here. Language can be limiting. Feel free to enlighten me. Would 'poverty stricken' have been better?

To describe your character, absolutely!��

Genoveve
02-25-2021, 03:09 PM
^^^Here we go again. Still making no sense.

lula_xoxox
02-25-2021, 03:46 PM
anyone having any issues with going exclusive? just had 2 different clients try to take me exclusive several times and it's just not working!!

Strawberryblonde
02-25-2021, 03:49 PM
I had the top bar issue myself.

MissAdriana
02-25-2021, 03:53 PM
To describe your character, absolutely!��

I can see that you just want to be offended. Hope that works out for you

moneybags
02-25-2021, 04:04 PM
I can see that you just want to be offended. Hope that works out for you

She’s obviously triggered. I would just use the ignore button as I don’t think anything fruitful will come from anymore interactions. I can understand where she’s coming from,but at the same time you clearly we’re trying to understand and make amends.

As an American, I do try to be conscious of things like “Third world” are “poor countries” are a bit offensive to people who live there. Things like colonialism and imperialism have caused a lot of suffering for “poor” countries making them poor in the first place.

Less/underdeveloped are more politically correct terms.

kamiliam
02-25-2021, 04:32 PM
She’s obviously triggered. I would just use the ignore button as we don’t need negativity on this forum. You tried. I can understand, but at the same time you clearly we’re trying to understand and make amends.

As an American, I do try to be conscious of things like “Third world” are “underdeveloped” are a bit offensive. Things like colonialism and imperialism have caused a lot of suffering for other countries making them “underdeveloped” in the first place.

“Less developed” is a more politically correct term.


to be hella pc or whatever it is suggested that you label those from the majority world by whatever they label themselves as for example if you are talking about someone who states they are Italian they are Italian. It may match up to your idea it may not.
But words aren’t the end of the world if there are no ill intentions behind the initial remark. I don’t believe there were any in this little scuffle. No need for a continued fight where someone will inadvertently say something shitty to another.

MsJess
02-25-2021, 04:40 PM
I'm in the UK without any geoblock and my potentials are usually quite low, sometimes 0 but sometimes up to 4 or 5. The number goes up when someone pays for the Flash Tits off the Gold menu! Weird that... :)

My theory about this: some affiliates have a live preview and not a static pic or a pic we shoot, (let's say like MFC when you switch to it), that's why we get more potentials while we show our ass, tits etc.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
02-25-2021, 04:43 PM
Well said and I thank you for the input.


She’s obviously triggered. I would just use the ignore button as we don’t need negativity on this forum. You tried. I can understand, but at the same time you clearly we’re trying to understand and make amends.

As an American, I do try to be conscious of things like “Third world” are “underdeveloped” are a bit offensive. Things like colonialism and imperialism have caused a lot of suffering for other countries making them “underdeveloped” in the first place.

“Less developed” is a more politically correct term.

Someone pointed out this issue a few days ago and I wanted to see how you all would work things out? I'm really sorry if her words hurt you, but Jopka I do believe your frustrations are a bit displaced in this situation. I cant tell you how to feel because our life experiences aren't exactly the same. My anttena goes up during certain conversations and at times other people may not realize how offensive it is to me and then they attempt to silence me. I dont want to do that to you. Still I don't believe her intention was to put anyone down. If it were I would have been all over her. Please believe me when I say that because I dont play that crap. Be nice. Be kind and lets try to move on.

moneybags
02-25-2021, 06:18 PM
One more thing and then I’ll do what I call “shutty-shutty”. Is I remember going to the survival sex worker summit awhile ago we were talking about how to build community. She said something like our community is often full of traumatized individuals and so often we work out out stuff on each other. Just something to think about before reacting. In my humble opinion, that’s been my experience working in the industry. So maybe if someone says something on this forum realize they may have a lot of unresolved trauma or is under a lot of stress. The ignore button is a wonderful tool to use if someone makes you feel prickly or yucky. More often than not the person is unaware and it’s best for me to ignore and keep scrolling. If it’s intentional then I have no problem standing up for myself, but most the time people are simply unaware or we just aren’t in alignment. Hope this was helpful post. Now let’s make some money. That’s why we’re here right.

minibagel
02-25-2021, 11:14 PM
The only models with potentials permanently at zero are those who have used the preferences setting to turn them off. Even if you have geoblock on customers can log out and go to your room using the web address or an incognito browser as long as they are outside of your geo blocked area

Liz just confirmed to me that potentials should always say 0 since I have geoblock on. She isn't sure why it fluctuates higher though, as it should not do that.

Hope this confirmation helps anyone else with geoblock who also get confused when others say they have tons of potentials while ours only show 0-1

AuroraJade
02-26-2021, 03:40 AM
The potential customers going up to 1 or 2 with GB on could be because of people watching you from the blocked country with a VPN.


Also, even with GB on you can still watch a stream if you use a direct link, for example the cammodels link.

fetishqueen
02-26-2021, 04:53 AM
A question about Gold shows please - do you find that they bring more people into the room? My traffic seems so quiet right now I wonder if doing a Gold show might help or do you need the people in your room first if that makes sense?

KatM
02-26-2021, 04:56 AM
^^^ Not an expert in gold shows but when i tried them it was enough to start a count down and the people will come in right away.

LeilaB
02-26-2021, 05:14 AM
My bitrate is constantly in red/yellow, I tried to refresh the page, restart the wifi router..Ahh its gonna be a shit today :@

Udpdate: it has resolved , its all in greeen now, but my room is still dead lol :D I cant wait the end of this month

minibagel
02-26-2021, 06:38 AM
The potential customers going up to 1 or 2 with GB on could be because of people watching you from the blocked country with a VPN.


Also, even with GB on you can still watch a stream if you use a direct link, for example the cammodels link.

Potentials are supposed to say 0 but that doesn't mean 0 ppl are watching me. I know lots of people are watching me based on various things, which is why I was confused

My main concern was that maybe something was wrong with my stream to be getting such low potentials. It didn't sound right that other people could get 80 potentials for example and I only had 0 or 1

AuroraJade
02-26-2021, 09:42 AM
Blergh. I can't seem to make money the last few days. Emailed SM ,because of the tech issues and asked for an explanation but only got a reply that its all my fault because I have geoblock enabled and thats why I can't make any money these last days. Why is Streamate so good at gaslighting us? Its actually horrible if you think about it.

Could GB really be the reason why? There are more models struggling traffic wise now, right? I can't really afford to take the block off because of numerous reasons. I had some great money making days with it so it can't really be the reason I think.

All I get these last two days are freeloaders and 10 whole mins without traffic. Or they start talking and I respond and they leave. I am really bummed out now. Hope someone can talk some sense into me because I am not feeling it today...

Miss_ShaSha
02-26-2021, 10:24 AM
Blergh. I can't seem to make money the last few days. Emailed SM ,because of the tech issues and asked for an explanation but only got a reply that its all my fault because I have geoblock enabled and thats why I can't make any money these last days. Why is Streamate so good at gaslighting us? Its actually horrible if you think about it.

Could GB really be the reason why? There are more models struggling traffic wise now, right? I can't really afford to take the block off because of numerous reasons. I had some great money making days with it so it can't really be the reason I think.

All I get these last two days are freeloaders and 10 whole mins without traffic. Or they start talking and I respond and they leave. I am really bummed out now. Hope someone can talk some sense into me because I am not feeling it today...

I don't have GB on and I hardly have any traffic this week. Last week was hard and silent too. It's not GB. Just gonna have to try Gold Shows or just STFO maybe try different hours. It sucks. It really sucks...cause I've tried all 3 the last two weeks with hardly any improvement. I hate to sound negative, but Feb is just notoriously bad for many streamers.

MissAdriana
02-26-2021, 11:42 AM
Less/underdeveloped are more politically correct terms.

Thank you for providing the answer. Unfortunately since I've already used an offensive term the point of the message will likely be lost. As I said before it was never meant to be an insult to anyone and I'm sorry that it was received so. The jist is that I believe models should have control over what country we appear as and these changes should not be forced upon us.

I apologize to anyone who was triggered. This is our space. I'm not too proud to say I'm uneducated on things and feel free to correct me anytime. Just last week I learned we don't say 'homeless' anymore.

The top bar is disappearing for me too. I've also noticed some guys may be having their msgs blocked? Just guessing based on the way they are chatting. Are they banning words perhaps?