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Candyland69
04-06-2021, 07:43 AM
Thanks. im still waiting for my earnings in my acc... im wonderring if they increase the wire fee . used to be 25. now they took 40. thanks!

Angela888
04-06-2021, 07:45 AM
Thanks. im still waiting for my earnings in my acc... im wonderring if they increase the wire fee . used to be 25. now they took 40. thanks!

Oh dear, has this come up on your payment info on SM?

Angela888
04-06-2021, 07:51 AM
Well done!! And yes use to love just getting my shifts over with then you can relax. X

I try and do a couple in evening as well, just cos I have regs that come on from like 6-8pm ish then my evebing is mine:) xx

Kinky_chloe_mae
04-06-2021, 08:30 AM
Truth is as many as you can. I’d love to say 3 hours but truth be told I put in 8 hours max. If you want first page position you got to just put in the hours, especially when you first start. I use vitabiotics 3000 iu super strength , think most chemists sell them xx

Brilliant thank you so much really appreciate your input. Tbh i dont mind putting the hours in if its going to be rewarding. Yes will get some. X

fetishqueen
04-06-2021, 08:35 AM
I also got charged $40 but credited $15 at the same time, no idea why?

princess_casual
04-06-2021, 08:40 AM
Brilliant will do now going into town to get a hair dye so will pick some up xxx one last thing as a newbie on streammate how many hours do you recommend of being online ? Xx

As many as you can commit to consistently and without burning yourself out. Start off small and work your way up to longer shifts. Play around with short shifts and multiple breaks or longer shifts and getting it over with... find what works for you, your body and your personal schedule ! The beauty of the job is the flexibility.

Kinky_chloe_mae
04-06-2021, 08:41 AM
As many as you can commit to consistently and without burning yourself out. Start off small and work your way up to longer shifts. Play around with short shifts and multiple breaks or longer shifts and getting it over with... find what works for you, your body and your personal schedule ! The beauty of the job is the flexibility.

That's so true. Thank you!! X

Luckygoldfish
04-06-2021, 09:04 AM
Need advice ladies,
I cam from my 3rd bedroom right now, it’s the smallest room in my house which is a big old Victorian house. I’m thinking about moving everything to my dining room as it’s pretty big and I don’t actually use it. Bought a gorgeous dining table etc but don’t use it so thinking might be better for cam. Do you think a larger space is better for cam? At the moment I don’t really have room to get up and move away from camera to dance etc. I need my other rooms, guest bedrooms, living room so this is only room I can think is ok.
Thanks x
Bigger space looks better BUT only if properly lighted which is difficult if u are not studio. I gave up
And set up a small place and even for that small place I have 3 large soft boxes, one light ring and 2 small
Lamps lol
good light changes everything !

Angela888
04-06-2021, 09:05 AM
Bigger space looks better BUT only if properly lighted which is difficult if u are not studio. I gave up
And set up a small place and even for that small place I have 3 large soft boxes, one light ring and 2 small
Lamps lol

Do you think I’m better keeping as is then hun?

Luckygoldfish
04-06-2021, 09:08 AM
Do you think I’m better keeping as is then hun?

On my opinion I would do more light in your room but not sure if u be ok with such a bright light? It’s tiring .
But plz experiment, they love it when u move I am just too lazy to do so lol u might find it better
If u get soft boxes u don’t have to set them up very bright or the ring.. actually u can just put soft boxes each side so u don’t have to stare at light
it’s so difficult to make a light right . I will pop in to see you once u on to have better look and will write u proper advise xx
I was working in studio long enough to understand about proper lighting

Angela888
04-06-2021, 09:12 AM
On my opinion I would do more light in your room but not sure if u be ok with such a bright light? It’s tiring .
But plz experiment, they love it when u move I am just too lazy to do so lol u might find it better
If u get soft boxes u don’t have to set them up very bright or the ring..
it’s so difficult to make a light right . I will pop in to see you once u on to have better look and will write u proper advise xx

Awww thank you hun if you could that would be so wonderful. I had to turn ring light off in my face cos of my epilepsy and so I can cam longer that’s why I’m thinking bigger space x

Luckygoldfish
04-06-2021, 09:16 AM
Awww thank you hun if you could that would be so wonderful. I had to turn ring light off in my face cos of my epilepsy and so I can cam longer that’s why I’m thinking bigger space x
Yes that’s what I thought. Put that ring to the right side of yours horizontally , will give ur hair a shine)) and more)

Angela888
04-06-2021, 09:18 AM
Yes that’s what I thought. Put that ring to the right side of yours horizontally , will give ur hair a shine)) and more)

Ok darling thank you I will try that ! Beats moving everything downstairs xx

Candyland69
04-06-2021, 09:30 AM
[QUOTE=Angela888;3220708]Oh dear, has this come up on your


yes. i dont know why..

Candyland69
04-06-2021, 09:33 AM
yes. on my statment. -40 wire fee. + 15 credit

Candyland69
04-06-2021, 09:34 AM
same here I dont get it. they changed wire fee and added 15 credits.
im still waiting for my income.

Angela888
04-06-2021, 09:38 AM
same here I dont get it. they changed wire fee and added 15 credits.
im still waiting for my income.

Streamate are super reliable payers do not fret it’s coming . They don’t dick around with payments in my experience xx

Luckygoldfish
04-06-2021, 10:13 AM
same here I dont get it. they changed wire fee and added 15 credits.
im still waiting for my income.
It’s up to 3 business days depending on a bank. It is said so. Today is the day one. U can start panic if u don’t get paid by Thursday.
Yes 40 wire fee then 15 credit which makes it 25 anyway so who cares, probably just a mistake

Strawberryblonde
04-06-2021, 10:57 AM
Streamate are super reliable payers do not fret it’s coming . They don’t dick around with payments in my experience xx

Apart from mine in February, it was awful and still no explanation. :-\

princess_casual
04-06-2021, 11:01 AM
Do you think I’m better keeping as is then hun?

I second Luckygoldfish - lighting is everything. I use a softbox, warm lamp in the back for accent. I'm always getting compliments on my lighting.... you want to look professional but still cozy and inviting IMO. Pick a space that you can 1. set up easily (i.e. won't be a pain to set up/break down after a shift) and 2. that has character... some nice furniture in the back is better than a blank wall IMO.

Angela888
04-06-2021, 11:10 AM
I second Luckygoldfish - lighting is everything. I use a softbox, warm lamp in the back for accent. I'm always getting compliments on my lighting.... you want to look professional but still cozy and inviting IMO. Pick a space that you can 1. set up easily (i.e. won't be a pain to set up/break down after a shift) and 2. that has character... some nice furniture in the back is better than a blank wall IMO.

Yeah it’s a pain this lighting stuff especially with epilepsy and the fact I love to cam long hours so it’s even bloody harder but I’ll get there:) xx

emkato
04-06-2021, 11:42 AM
I have a question for you ladies if its okay to ask, I have been wanting to for a while but felt awkward about bringing it up..

So I have raceplay as a tag because I do a lot of BBC cuckolding/sph as well as a lot of custies who just like to see me enjoying BBC, dirty talk related to BBC ect. but as of late I get a lot and I mean a LOT of guys coming in my room asking if I will get nasty and talk dirty with slurs and I tell them no I will not use any offensive slurs because I am not comfortable with it, especially on cam.

after saying so they tend to leave because they want to hear me call them racial slurs. Even though they WANT me to say it I just don't feel comfortable with it. Does anyone else get these requests too? I don't want to remove the raceplay tag because I get a lot of customers who don't want to hear those offensive things just to get off but I am sick of having to tell so many guys that NO I will not do that. ugh.

EDIT: I always assumed raceplay just meant interracial scenarios but I am starting to think it attracts strictly customers who want something more hardcore/offensive. wondering if I should take down the tag completely to avoid this. what do you guys think?

innocentindian
04-06-2021, 12:16 PM
I have a question for you ladies if its okay to ask, I have been wanting to for a while but felt awkward about bringing it up..

So I have raceplay as a tag because I do a lot of BBC cuckolding/sph as well as a lot of custies who just like to see me enjoying BBC, dirty talk related to BBC ect. but as of late I get a lot and I mean a LOT of guys coming in my room asking if I will get nasty and talk dirty with slurs and I tell them no I will not use any offensive slurs because I am not comfortable with it, especially on cam.

after saying so they tend to leave because they want to hear me call them racial slurs. Even though they WANT me to say it I just don't feel comfortable with it. Does anyone else get these requests too? I don't want to remove the raceplay tag because I get a lot of customers who don't want to hear those offensive things just to get off but I am sick of having to tell so many guys that NO I will not do that. ugh.

EDIT: I always assumed raceplay just meant interracial scenarios but I am starting to think it attracts strictly customers who want something more hardcore/offensive. wondering if I should take down the tag completely to avoid this. what do you guys think?

If you're not comfortable with it, then that's all that matters! Just ignore the guys who ask you if you do x or y, you don't even have to address it if you don't want to.

Maybe take down the raceplay tag and ask customers to tag you as BBC lover or BBC worship instead or Size Queen, Cuckoldress, etc?

kamiliam
04-06-2021, 12:34 PM
I have a question for you ladies if its okay to ask, I have been wanting to for a while but felt awkward about bringing it up..

So I have raceplay as a tag because I do a lot of BBC cuckolding/sph as well as a lot of custies who just like to see me enjoying BBC, dirty talk related to BBC ect. but as of late I get a lot and I mean a LOT of guys coming in my room asking if I will get nasty and talk dirty with slurs and I tell them no I will not use any offensive slurs because I am not comfortable with it, especially on cam.

after saying so they tend to leave because they want to hear me call them racial slurs. Even though they WANT me to say it I just don't feel comfortable with it. Does anyone else get these requests too? I don't want to remove the raceplay tag because I get a lot of customers who don't want to hear those offensive things just to get off but I am sick of having to tell so many guys that NO I will not do that. ugh.

EDIT: I always assumed raceplay just meant interracial scenarios but I am starting to think it attracts strictly customers who want something more hardcore/offensive. wondering if I should take down the tag completely to avoid this. what do you guys think?


I would remove the race play tag. There are some cucks that think they are the same thing, but if you don’t do race play you don’t want those cucks. I feel it is best to not have the acts you don’t do written out or tagged on your profile or description. I verbally say no when asked then private message them in chat if they don’t get the point. There are better tags to get the shows you would enjoy.

tashiepuck
04-06-2021, 01:01 PM
I still do not have my direct deposit from last Thursday either. Any update on yours?

andreaxchanel
04-06-2021, 01:13 PM
Hey ladies, I'm making my way back in the game and I may have just blew $130 lol and I'm trying not to be pissed about it. Has anyone successfully used the We-Vibe Moxie on SM?? Cuz this damn Feel Connect app is not picking up the device and I'm getting mildly irritated. Now, if I did just blow $130 can somebody tell me how to rectify it and at least make the shit look like it works online lol?

--and are yall using the Feel Connect or Feel Connect 3.0 app for SM?

emkato
04-06-2021, 01:28 PM
If you're not comfortable with it, then that's all that matters! Just ignore the guys who ask you if you do x or y, you don't even have to address it if you don't want to.

Maybe take down the raceplay tag and ask customers to tag you as BBC lover or BBC worship instead or Size Queen, Cuckoldress, etc?



I would remove the race play tag. There are some cucks that think they are the same thing, but if you don’t do race play you don’t want those cucks. I feel it is best to not have the acts you don’t do written out or tagged on your profile or description. I verbally say no when asked then private message them in chat if they don’t get the point. There are better tags to get the shows you would enjoy.

ty both for the input ^__^

I will delete the tag to save me the headache lol. I just got two new tags one fore bbc cuckold and bbc lover so it worked out beautifully! haha

Luckygoldfish
04-06-2021, 02:02 PM
I have a question for you ladies if its okay to ask, I have been wanting to for a while but felt awkward about bringing it up..

So I have raceplay as a tag because I do a lot of BBC cuckolding/sph as well as a lot of custies who just like to see me enjoying BBC, dirty talk related to BBC ect. but as of late I get a lot and I mean a LOT of guys coming in my room asking if I will get nasty and talk dirty with slurs and I tell them no I will not use any offensive slurs because I am not comfortable with it, especially on cam.

after saying so they tend to leave because they want to hear me call them racial slurs. Even though they WANT me to say it I just don't feel comfortable with it. Does anyone else get these requests too? I don't want to remove the raceplay tag because I get a lot of customers who don't want to hear those offensive things just to get off but I am sick of having to tell so many guys that NO I will not do that. ugh.

EDIT: I always assumed raceplay just meant interracial scenarios but I am starting to think it attracts strictly customers who want something more hardcore/offensive. wondering if I should take down the tag completely to avoid this. what do you guys think?
When they ask for race play they most certainly mean N word not just BBC
I will be completely fine to do that -I am loosing bunch of clients because N word isn’t allowed , doesn’t make sense because they want us to do it but it’s the rule and it doesn’t worth a risk. Today he wants us to call him N word and tomorrow he record us post it somewhere and “get offended “ SM will be in trouble and will ban us for life at the very least
Even though they have no problem in calling me “white bitch” lol

emkato
04-06-2021, 02:36 PM
When they ask for race play they most certainly mean N word not just BBC
I will be completely fine to do that -I am loosing bunch of clients because N word isn’t allowed , doesn’t make sense because they want us to do it but it’s the rule and it doesn’t worth a risk. Today he wants us to call him N word and tomorrow he record us post it somewhere and “get offended “ SM will be in trouble and will ban us for life at the very least
Even though they have no problem in calling me “white bitch” lol

gotta hate that double standard when it come to name calling... And that's another thing that crossed my mind. not just the morality of it, because I understand how it can be erotic and a turn on when its consensual and theres no actual racism happening but in this day and age and the state of our society someone could record it, edit and clip it, post it and suddenly you are a racist because some guy asked you to use a word that turns him on sexually. too risky in my opinion whether its allowed or not.

Miss_ShaSha
04-06-2021, 03:02 PM
I have a question for you ladies if its okay to ask, I have been wanting to for a while but felt awkward about bringing it up..

So I have raceplay as a tag because I do a lot of BBC cuckolding/sph as well as a lot of custies who just like to see me enjoying BBC, dirty talk related to BBC ect. but as of late I get a lot and I mean a LOT of guys coming in my room asking if I will get nasty and talk dirty with slurs and I tell them no I will not use any offensive slurs because I am not comfortable with it, especially on cam.

after saying so they tend to leave because they want to hear me call them racial slurs. Even though they WANT me to say it I just don't feel comfortable with it. Does anyone else get these requests too? I don't want to remove the raceplay tag because I get a lot of customers who don't want to hear those offensive things just to get off but I am sick of having to tell so many guys that NO I will not do that. ugh.

EDIT: I always assumed raceplay just meant interracial scenarios but I am starting to think it attracts strictly customers who want something more hardcore/offensive. wondering if I should take down the tag completely to avoid this. what do you guys think?

Remove the tag or SM will for you. They banned my tag & when I found out its a violation I stopped altogether.

Add tag like Innocent suggested: BBC worship or BBC cuckold.

Luckygoldfish
04-06-2021, 03:06 PM
Girls, look what I found) A Bill from some American diner, I think we would benefit to do the same ::);D
Oh we would be very rich lol
54591

Dahlia Fallon
04-06-2021, 05:02 PM
just hit my account for those still concerned. It will come :-*

tashiepuck
04-06-2021, 05:12 PM
just hit my account for those still concerned. It will come :-*

Thanks for letting us know. Where are you from ?

Dahlia Fallon
04-06-2021, 05:24 PM
Thanks for letting us know. Where are you from ?

*Austin Powers voice* I'm from London baybee

bigbum
04-06-2021, 10:22 PM
i had a lot of issues of droppped streams today, ive never had that happen. toy getting disconnected. clients getting disconnected.
all and all i lost about 3 shows due to getting cut off. anyone else have issues with that today?
my internet is very fast fiberoptic. no issues here on my end.
damn it cost me some $$ .

bigbum
04-06-2021, 10:23 PM
i want to mention there is an ass hat going around writing "pig noises" i am by no stetch of the imagination heavy weight wise at all. so umm
if someone writes that to you just ignore it. they are just trolling literally everyone regardless of weight ok? dont take it personally

HollyD
04-06-2021, 10:46 PM
i had a lot of issues of droppped streams today, ive never had that happen. toy getting disconnected. clients getting disconnected.
all and all i lost about 3 shows due to getting cut off. anyone else have issues with that today?
my internet is very fast fiberoptic. no issues here on my end.
damn it cost me some $$ .

I've had the same problem since last night :(

bigbum
04-06-2021, 11:21 PM
I've had the same problem since last night :(

omg you too? ive never ever had a drop stream . that was a first for me.

Candyland69
04-07-2021, 02:23 AM
Hey Girls

I always get the email from World pay telling me it takes 3 days for my income to show up in my acc but never waited 3 days its been almost instant from the moment i got the email. now it takes days.. im still not being payd, uk acc.. anyone else?

Thanks

Strawberryblonde
04-07-2021, 04:09 AM
Hey Girls

I always get the email from World pay telling me it takes 3 days for my income to show up in my acc but never waited 3 days its been almost instant from the moment i got the email. now it takes days.. im still not being payd, uk acc.. anyone else?

Thanks


I only started in January 2nd payment made end Jan or first week Feb never arrived, the 3 payments I have received arrived morning of Monday. I receive payment email Friday afternoon, arrives Monday. Payout didn't happen this week because I hadn't streamed much the week before.

Not had an explanation for the failed payment, it was returned after 7 days no reason given.

Strawberryblonde
04-07-2021, 10:17 AM
What happens if a customer block books, then gets kicked out partway through - not by me.

emkato
04-07-2021, 10:24 AM
What happens if a customer block books, then gets kicked out partway through - not by me.

(I may be wrong but this is what I remember) I believe they can come back and finish the allotted time remaining but they have to come back and initiate the show again.

Strawberryblonde
04-07-2021, 10:31 AM
(I may be wrong but this is what I remember) I believe they can come back and finish the allotted time remaining but they have to come back and initiate the show again.

Thanks that is what happened to another customer a few days ago, today I advised the guy to try it but he said it didn't work.

Angela888
04-07-2021, 10:55 AM
(I may be wrong but this is what I remember) I believe they can come back and finish the allotted time remaining but they have to come back and initiate the show again.

I had this happen before, streamate pay you anyway don’t worry xx

wealthmagnet
04-07-2021, 11:24 AM
What happens if a customer block books, then gets kicked out partway through - not by me.

The customer (i believe) has 2 hours to come back and finish it which means the model isn't suppose to log out for those 2 hours.

Shaher
04-07-2021, 12:07 PM
The customer (i believe) has 2 hours to come back and finish it which means the model isn't suppose to log out for those 2 hours.

This happened to me early on in the year, he paid for 1 hour then left after 7 mins and I got paid and he didn’t return I was so happy!

Also Jenna and Strawberry Thank you lots for recommending Totals - they are amazing! Thanks too Angela for the post on vitamins I got the same today after reading here hoping I am bouncing in the mornings ;)

fetishqueen
04-07-2021, 12:10 PM
Here is the info on block sessions

https://streamatehelp.com/block-sessions/

2 hours for them to return is just silly in my opinion.

emkato
04-07-2021, 12:24 PM
Here is the info on block sessions

https://streamatehelp.com/block-sessions/

2 hours for them to return is just silly in my opinion.

too many seemingly silly rules and not enough beneficial rules lol

pippapippa
04-07-2021, 01:00 PM
Anyone know how to speed up the ID verification process? Mine expired and I just uploaded my new one. Would like to get back to work ASAP.

laurielegs
04-07-2021, 01:42 PM
Girls, look what I found) A Bill from some American diner, I think we would benefit to do the same ::);D
Oh we would be very rich lol
54591


I really really wish we had "one stupid question" as an option to choose on the tip menu!!