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Angela888
04-21-2021, 01:10 AM
yeah the weird thing is IRL i dont wear makeup. but on cam i need it because i got into a cycle of breakouts on my face. i wouldnt say i am glam. but i need to to match my theme and overall brand. ive gotten good at getting the makeup just right. but its just when i take a break to eat, or something or the neighbors are next door working outside i have to stop. or sweating from shows.
i have frizzy hair, and pimples lol.
the struggle is real . i dont know how these studio girls do it. its not like they can run home to relax or change.
if you can be a sexy nerd and run around in tank tops more power too you, you have to invest way less, and you can jump on cam anytime! imagine how much $$ you are saving and time.
we always think the grass is greener dont we. you are right just stay true to you, or to whom you play on cam (in this case haha)
Hi hun
I used to have just awful skin, major breakouts all the bloody time. It was horrendous ! Way I fixed it was to double cleanse. I use Clinique take the day off first, using a clean flannel , then I use a liquid cleanser so basically make sure my face is squeaky clean and no makeup at all, then I use an exfoliant , clearasil do a great one! I use obaji products now , vit c serum etc they are very pricey but they work and no breakouts not even on my time of the month . I did end up seeing a dermatologist and was well worth it she prescribed my skin treatments and products to use. Hope this helps but double cleanse is so important if you are prone to breakouts xx just came back and edited this cos I just remembered I also started drinking celery juice! I juice fresh celery every day in morning have done for years and I think this has also really helped cos flushes out toxins that create bad skin, although it’s prob a combination of both x
seicento
04-21-2021, 01:13 AM
Looking into buying the original lovense. Does anyone know if it's still sm compatible?
Yes, it is. I still use that one.
Angela888
04-21-2021, 01:23 AM
Oh hun sending you the biggest cuddles, as you say, it all evens out but it really does suck to feel that way all the same. You got this girl!
I agree and sending you hugs. Never take a bad time on cam personally because there are many factors involved that determine how you do that day. It’s really not worth tears. My self esteem is not based on perves, possibly because I am older and now don’t give a shit haha x
Strawberryblonde
04-21-2021, 01:34 AM
Hi hun
I used to have just awful skin, major breakouts all the bloody time. It was horrendous ! Way I fixed it was to double cleanse. I use Clinique take the day off first, using a clean flannel , then I use a liquid cleanser so basically make sure my face is squeaky clean and no makeup at all, then I use an exfoliant , clearasil do a great one! I use obaji products now , vit c serum etc they are very pricey but they work and no breakouts not even on my time of the month . I did end up seeing a dermatologist and was well worth it she prescribed my skin treatments and products to use. Hope this helps but double cleanse is so important if you are prone to breakouts xx
Take the Day off is fantastic so is their foaming cleanser (the white one), just pulls everything off skin. Pep Start scrub, and the blue with white lid Pep start moisturiser.
Angela888
04-21-2021, 01:42 AM
Take the Day off is fantastic so is their foaming cleanser (the white one), just pulls everything off skin. Pep Start scrub, and the blue with white lid Pep start moisturiser.
If you have bad skin avoid foaming cleansers, use an oil based one first this really cleans the skin and gets in the pores. I know when I was told use oil on bad skin I was like what the Fuck but it works so take the day off balm works a treat. Also nothing with perfume in it, this irritates the skin.
Seductive_Brit
04-21-2021, 02:06 AM
I have another random question. How do studio girls make so much damn money? I've been religiously digging into the ways of Lourdes Studio models because that's like how I want to build my image around and exactly how I'd like to run my show and stuff. They post screenshots of their models earnings and it's like $2,500 a day, easily. These girls will close out their weeks at 35 hours and have like $13,000. Now I know that the studio takes a big cut of that. But I've seen girls on here say "I can't compete with the studio girls". These studio women will have like 300 people in their room. Even if they're all the way at the bottom of the front page.
Do studios like, push traffic somehow to your room? I've heard "befriending affiliates" before for better advertisement. Anyone heard of this? Is this what studios do?
Wow, I admit I would be very curious about this too.
Angela888
04-21-2021, 02:11 AM
I have another random question. How do studio girls make so much damn money? I've been religiously digging into the ways of Lourdes Studio models because that's like how I want to build my image around and exactly how I'd like to run my show and stuff. They post screenshots of their models earnings and it's like $2,500 a day, easily. These girls will close out their weeks at 35 hours and have like $13,000. Now I know that the studio takes a big cut of that. But I've seen girls on here say "I can't compete with the studio girls". These studio women will have like 300 people in their room. Even if they're all the way at the bottom of the front page.
Do studios like, push traffic somehow to your room? I've heard "befriending affiliates" before for better advertisement. Anyone heard of this? Is this what studios do?
I just had a look online at these. Woweee gorgeous girls, amazing set ups so I can see how they make lots!! I’ve so much respect for ladies who do really well on cam without the help of a studio because it’s no easy task xx
Seductive_Brit
04-21-2021, 02:29 AM
TRIGGER WARNING ABUSE, WARNING ABOUT MEMBER
Guys, I've just had to log off from the contest to take a breath because I was faced with the following, if you see this guy immediately block and report. I have blocked and reported and also emailed with the screenshot. For some reason couldn't attach the screenshot here but this was it:
Badbenn22: Can I ask you a question
Badben22: I love to touch my daughter when she is asleep do you want to watch
Traumatizing, some men out there shouldn't exist.
kinkydirtybitch
04-21-2021, 02:44 AM
Hi hun
I used to have just awful skin, major breakouts all the bloody time. It was horrendous ! Way I fixed it was to double cleanse.
Double cleanse is absolutely vital especially when you’re caked in slap like we are.
First cleanse should be oil dissolving OIL and a wash off one to follow to wash off all that lovely emulsified oil.
My skin is awesome and I’m an old biddy!
Angela888
04-21-2021, 02:44 AM
TRIGGER WARNING ABUSE, WARNING ABOUT MEMBER
Guys, I've just had to log off from the contest to take a breath because I was faced with the following, if you see this guy immediately block and report. I have blocked and reported and also emailed with the screenshot. For some reason couldn't attach the screenshot here but this was it:
Badbenn22: Can I ask you a question
Badben22: I love to touch my daughter when she is asleep do you want to watch
Traumatizing, some men out there shouldn't exist.
Yuk hope you are ok?! This guy needs prison not a cam site. I hope heÂ’s just fucking around
Angela888
04-21-2021, 02:45 AM
Double cleanse is absolutely vital especially when you’re caked in slap like we are.
First cleanse should be oil dissolving OIL and a wash off one to follow to wash off all that lovely emulsified oil.
My skin is awesome and I’m an old biddy!
yes double cleanse also stops you ageing I swear xx
liquidsilk
04-21-2021, 02:51 AM
I had one a few years ago. C2C opened and there is a kid running around in the back. I went straight to the live support that customers have access to and reported it there. They were fine dealing with it there and then. Some things need a faster turnaround than 3 working days and I'm not wasting time on support tickets.
Angela888
04-21-2021, 02:53 AM
I had one a few years ago. C2C opened and there is a kid running around in the back. I went straight to the live support that customers have access to and reported it there. They were fine dealing with it there and then. Some things need a faster turnaround than 3 working days and I'm not wasting time on support tickets.
Oh god this makes me feel sick
seicento
04-21-2021, 03:12 AM
I have another random question. How do studio girls make so much damn money? I've been religiously digging into the ways of Lourdes Studio models because that's like how I want to build my image around and exactly how I'd like to run my show and stuff. They post screenshots of their models earnings and it's like $2,500 a day, easily. These girls will close out their weeks at 35 hours and have like $13,000. Now I know that the studio takes a big cut of that. But I've seen girls on here say "I can't compete with the studio girls". These studio women will have like 300 people in their room. Even if they're all the way at the bottom of the front page.
Do studios like, push traffic somehow to your room? I've heard "befriending affiliates" before for better advertisement. Anyone heard of this? Is this what studios do?
Some studios have preferred placement but the models are keeping the high spot only if they work hard and earn enough. They also have a different hustle. Great set up, classy, high rates and not showing anything in free chat. They cater to a different clientele. I love those girls, I often check on them just because I love what I see.
kinkydirtybitch
04-21-2021, 03:29 AM
I love those girls, I often check on them just because I love what I see.
How do you search for them?
Seductive_Brit
04-21-2021, 03:30 AM
Yuk hope you are ok?! This guy needs prison not a cam site. I hope heÂ’s just fucking around
Thanks hun yeah I'm ok now just shaken. Same here but even if he is, he's still trying to traumatize people, or he has this fetish which means he's dangerous, I emailed support and said he should be reported to the police. Can't do anymore, they're the ones with his credit card and ID details etc.
Luckygoldfish
04-21-2021, 03:40 AM
How do you search for them?
Yes how I wanna have a look as well
Seductive_Brit
04-21-2021, 03:49 AM
So sorry to hear about that c2c incident that's horrible. If anyone has the customer live chat could they send in that guys name? BadBen22. Managed to get the screen shot:
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seicento
04-21-2021, 04:10 AM
How do you search for them?
I know who they are because the studio is in my country but I can not out them here, no idea how to search other than names that I can't give.
Angela888
04-21-2021, 04:11 AM
I know who they are because the studio is in my country but I can not out them here, no idea how to search other than names that I can't give.
you can look at their Twitter and then search from there I think xx
seicento
04-21-2021, 04:16 AM
you can look at their Twitter and then search from there I think xx
Right. I don't use social media so I didn't think of that :)))
Ambercat
04-21-2021, 04:49 AM
On the site there's a promotional video where some of the models are featured. They're all stunning!
KittenGirl
04-21-2021, 06:26 AM
I'm sorry I haven't been thanking you ladies for answering my questions. I know I've been asking a lot. Kind of got busy last night with stuff but I'm looking forward to thoroughly reading these responses today!
LeilaB
04-21-2021, 06:28 AM
Such an amazing feature! but sometimes their placement in block list is not on top so I cant find their names there.
Yes, unfortunately, but it's easy to solve this problem. :D
In the Black list click on the Customer name coloumn, and this way the names will be in alphabetical order. These bastards cant hide!! :D
Miss_ShaSha
04-21-2021, 09:09 AM
It's pretty upsetting that I can do the same hours one week and make $1k+ then on a contest week do the same hours and make less than half of that. It's utter bullshit and if I don't let this shit go I'll smash my laptop lolollll.
FUCK!
TheBrownFox
04-21-2021, 09:13 AM
So it sounds like I picked a bad week to start trying out SM again?
looklovely
04-21-2021, 12:23 PM
Thanks, for the heads up! I googled his SN, and he posts that same rubbish on other porn sites.
LeilaB
04-21-2021, 12:43 PM
Ladies please help me, something weird happened to me in my free chat.
So, originally Im from a small Central European country, and my displayed country is another small Central European country.
For the first time, someone came to my chat and talked to me in my native language. I was freezed, but I told him to speak english please. Then in 1-2 mins he left. Another guest came whose name was a commonly used last name in my country. He left almost immediately.
I hope they didnt recognize me, but I was scared :(
Maybe if they had recognized me, they would have written my name in the chat too? Maybe they are just guys from my country writing the same thing ("you have cool tits") to models from random Central European countries, hoping that they would answer in their native language? OMG Im so worried :(
AcidYellow
04-21-2021, 12:53 PM
Ladies please help me, something weird happened to me in my free chat.
So, originally Im from a small Central European country, and my displayed country is another small Central European country.
For the first time, someone came to my chat and talked to me in my native language. I was freezed, but I told him to speak english please. Then in 1-2 mins he left. Another guest came whose name was a commonly used last name in my country. He left almost immediately.
I hope they didnt recognize me, but I was scared :(
Maybe if they had recognized me, they would have written my name in the chat too? Maybe they are just guys from my country writing the same thing ("you have cool tits") to models from random Central European countries, hoping that they would answer in their native language? OMG Im so worried :(
Same happened to me but was last week. What i did was blocked my own country and some others that I dont wish to have visitors from. Then, that stopped.
LeilaB
04-21-2021, 12:58 PM
Same happened to me but was last week. What i did was blocked my own country and some others that I dont wish to have visitors from. Then, that stopped.
Can I ask you if the geoblocking affected your traffic? I haven't turned it on so far due to the potential traffic drop.
wealthmagnet
04-21-2021, 01:00 PM
It's pretty upsetting that I can do the same hours one week and make $1k+ then on a contest week do the same hours and make less than half of that. It's utter bullshit and if I don't let this shit go I'll smash my laptop lolollll.
FUCK!
This is the exact reason i go hard non contest week, that way if i decide to sit most of it out I'll be fine. Tbh, it's just not worth the stress and frustration. This week so far has been lots of movie watching and cleaning up around my house. It's always been the same song and dance, a particular group banks and places high while the other half experience glitches, 0 traffic and earnings that are slashed by more than 70%. Instead of trying to figure out the why, I'd rather just not play the game anymore and enjoy my free time. *hugs*
whirlerz
04-21-2021, 01:11 PM
This is the exact reason i go hard non contest week, that way if i decide to sit most of it out I'll be fine. Tbh, it's just not worth the stress and frustration. This week so far has been lots of movie watching and cleaning up around my house. It's always been the same song and dance, a particular group banks and places high while the other half experience glitches, 0 traffic and earnings that are slashed by more than 70%. Instead of trying to figure out the why, I'd rather just not play the game anymore and enjoy my free time. *hugs*
Awesome^
So much Gold^
AcidYellow
04-21-2021, 01:12 PM
Can I ask you if the geoblocking affected your traffic? I haven't turned it on so far due to the potential traffic drop.
Well, some models say they got affected and some no, so is a personal experience I can tell. I was unblocked for a couple of months but traffic was the same or worse. No Geo.restriction for me didnt work so I went back to use it and traffic was normal as usual. Idk, maybe u should try and see what works for u. :)
Miss_ShaSha
04-21-2021, 01:12 PM
This is the exact reason i go hard non contest week, that way if i decide to sit most of it out I'll be fine. Tbh, it's just not worth the stress and frustration. This week so far has been lots of movie watching and cleaning up around my house. It's always been the same song and dance, a particular group banks and places high while the other half experience glitches, 0 traffic and earnings that are slashed by more than 70%. Instead of trying to figure out the why, I'd rather just not play the game anymore and enjoy my free time. *hugs*
Agreed. This is all great to advise. Contests have taught me to save and save a lot. And I do try my best to go hard non so I don't have to stress, but the inconsistency still fucks me up so much. I'm trying to just surrender and accept, but after two years I still get them feels.
Thanks for the empathy. It means a lot!
Miss_ShaSha
04-21-2021, 01:16 PM
Ladies please help me, something weird happened to me in my free chat.
So, originally Im from a small Central European country, and my displayed country is another small Central European country.
For the first time, someone came to my chat and talked to me in my native language. I was freezed, but I told him to speak english please. Then in 1-2 mins he left. Another guest came whose name was a commonly used last name in my country. He left almost immediately.
I hope they didnt recognize me, but I was scared :(
Maybe if they had recognized me, they would have written my name in the chat too? Maybe they are just guys from my country writing the same thing ("you have cool tits") to models from random Central European countries, hoping that they would answer in their native language? OMG Im so worried :(
It's probably just coincidence. Often times we get triggered because there is the very real fear of stalking and danger, but most of the time it's just coincidence.
I had geo on for almost 2 months when I first started back up full time and actually made it to page 1 by the time I took geo off. You will still get traffic. Someone I used to talk to would do geo off and on. She still remains on page 1 pretty high with and the short times without. She actually uses geo a lot and does pretty well.
She doesn't have a lot of regs either. New guys will find you just the same and your favs will too.
Either way...I think you're ok just a little spooked.
KittenGirl
04-21-2021, 01:18 PM
Chin up, kittens...
You're all beautiful and we all need time off, for sure. I work during contests and I'm grateful I don't seem to be suffering. But I'm in bbw category so that could be why. There's like 200 of us and like 8,000 of the svelte ladies.
I only take a week off for my period because I'm like dead during that time lol
LeilaB
04-21-2021, 01:25 PM
Well, some models say they got affected and some no, so is a personal experience I can tell. I was unblocked for a couple of months but traffic was the same or worse. No Geo.restriction for me didnt work so I went back to use it and traffic was normal as usual. Idk, maybe u should try and see what works for u. :)
You are right, thank you. :) Uhh Im already calmed down, and I try geoblock, I dont want to experience this again. At least I will not be able to check my placement and worry about that lool :D
wealthmagnet
04-21-2021, 01:27 PM
Agreed. This is all great to advise. Contests have taught me to save and save a lot. And I do try my best to go hard non so I don't have to stress, but the inconsistency still fucks me up so much. I'm trying to just surrender and accept, but after two years I still get them feels.
Thanks for the empathy. It means a lot!
If anybody on this forum is a boss babe, it's you! A big kiss and a squish right back at ya. Xox
Miss_ShaSha
04-21-2021, 01:35 PM
If anybody on this forum is a boss babe, it's you! A big kiss and a squish right back at ya. Xox
:blush::goodvibes:heartbeat:hug:
wealthmagnet
04-21-2021, 01:41 PM
Chin up, kittens...
You're all beautiful and we all need time off, for sure. I work during contests and I'm grateful I don't seem to be suffering. But I'm in bbw category so that could be why. There's like 200 of us and like 8,000 of the svelte ladies.
I only take a week off for my period because I'm like dead during that time lol
I hope you smash through all your goals this week!
LeilaB
04-21-2021, 01:42 PM
It's probably just coincidence. Often times we get triggered because there is the very real fear of stalking and danger, but most of the time it's just coincidence.
I had geo on for almost 2 months when I first started back up full time and actually made it to page 1 by the time I took geo off. You will still get traffic. Someone I used to talk to would do geo off and on. She still remains on page 1 pretty high with and the short times without. She actually uses geo a lot and does pretty well.
She doesn't have a lot of regs either. New guys will find you just the same and your favs will too.
Either way...I think you're ok just a little spooked.
Thank you, girl! <3 I felt like my heart stopped for a moment, but it's okay now :D I think in 1-2 months I will see how geoblock works for me, after this incident it's definitely worth trying :S
fetishqueen
04-21-2021, 02:17 PM
The contests really do put unnecessary pressure on people, don't they? Either you feel the need to do extra hours during the contest which might not suit you, or extra hours outside of contests if you feel you do better then. I work on another site too and do the same hours each week, every week. They can kiss my ass if they think I'm going to fuck with my schedule in the hope of placing. I don't mind the contests in theory and I'm sure many love them especially those who earn the big prizes. I just think there are FAR, FAR too many of them.
Angela888
04-21-2021, 03:05 PM
The contests really do put unnecessary pressure on people, don't they? Either you feel the need to do extra hours during the contest which might not suit you, or extra hours outside of contests if you feel you do better then. I work on another site too and do the same hours each week, every week. They can kiss my ass if they think I'm going to fuck with my schedule in the hope of placing. I don't mind the contests in theory and I'm sure many love them especially those who earn the big prizes. I just think there are FAR, FAR too many of them.
I think some people thrive under pressure and find it motivating. You got to do what feels good for you mind, body and soul. If it doesn’t feel good or right don’t take part, if you love it and find the competition motivating then great, go for it. I go on how I feel at the time. If something makes you feel sad, down or irritated then best not to push it. This is how I live my life , I just do what feels good . Everyone’s different and that’s great, competition is healthy if you find it healthy I guess xx
bigbum
04-21-2021, 04:16 PM
i feel so gross like a hangover, soar and tired.. but im going live right now. its moments like this I think to myself .. #WHATWOULDLIZZY DO?
she would pull 13 hours with a smile. i am sure i can manage 2 hours to hit my goal
KittenGirl
04-21-2021, 07:27 PM
I hope you smash through all your goals this week!
Aww you're such a queen! Thank you!!
KittenGirl
04-21-2021, 07:27 PM
I hope you smash through all your goals this week!
And likewise to you too!
Luci Fer
04-21-2021, 08:34 PM
yes, unfortunately, but it's easy to solve this problem. :d
in the black list click on the customer name coloumn, and this way the names will be in alphabetical order. These bastards cant hide!! :d
I. Love. You. ;D
seicento
04-22-2021, 01:14 AM
Well, some models say they got affected and some no, so is a personal experience I can tell. I was unblocked for a couple of months but traffic was the same or worse. No Geo.restriction for me didnt work so I went back to use it and traffic was normal as usual. Idk, maybe u should try and see what works for u. :)
I have experienced the same with geo block, it seems to be worse for me when I have it off.
Seductive_Brit
04-22-2021, 01:28 AM
Lot's of love and positive vibes to everyone. I totally agree with the points above to go with how you feel. I like to ride the wave when it's going good and take a break when it's not. Sometimes I use this little tip which I picked up from the forum, if I make anything in the next 15 minutes I'll stay another 15 minutes, if not I take a break, you can use this logic for staying on another hour or half an hour but often when I've felt like logging off it's kept me going and earning more. Also looking at your hourly averages as opposed to what you made that specific hour, oh if I stay longer than this it falls below the average I want so I'll take a break then.
Look after yourself ladies, good things are coming your way. Everything you wish to manifest will be attracted to you! I'm just so grateful to have this community as I know for many of us, we don't have many if any people we can talk to about it. Big hugs. You're not alone. You've got this. You are beautiful, strong, magnificent and sexy. You keep doing you.
Angela888
04-22-2021, 01:37 AM
Lot's of love and positive vibes to everyone. I totally agree with the points above to go with how you feel. I like to ride the wave when it's going good and take a break when it's not. Sometimes I use this little tip which I picked up from the forum, if I make anything in the next 15 minutes I'll stay another 15 minutes, if not I take a break, you can use this logic for staying on another hour or half an hour but often when I've felt like logging off it's kept me going and earning more. Also looking at your hourly averages as opposed to what you made that specific hour, oh if I stay longer than this it falls below the average I want so I'll take a break then.
Look after yourself ladies, good things are coming your way. Everything you wish to manifest will be attracted to you! I'm just so grateful to have this community as I know for many of us, we don't have many if any people we can talk to about it. Big hugs. You're not alone. You've got this. You are beautiful, strong, magnificent and sexy. You keep doing you.
lovely words hun. High , positive vibes for everyone xx