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Miss_ShaSha
04-25-2021, 10:52 AM
^^YUP! Contest def over cause I'm making the most I've ever made this Sunday: currently $397 tho now
54840
This time last week I had to do like 16 hrs to hit this amount and here I did it in 4 hrs!!!
I hate contests!!!
kamiliam
04-25-2021, 11:03 AM
I noticed the same!! I banked Sunday then it tanked for me.
just curious, what are your rates (if you don't mind me asking).
Congrats on your placement :)
I’m at 669/999 right now.
It’s pretty obvious that whatever machine learning peeps they are using for contractors didn’t want to start till the work week. Good for them, but resulted in some of the weirdest traffic patterns I’ve seen in a contest. We got through. Congrats!
emkato
04-25-2021, 11:10 AM
^^ thats amazing I am so happy for you ^__^ I just started my shift so I am hoping for those same vibes~
Miss_ShaSha
04-25-2021, 11:48 AM
^^ thats amazing I am so happy for you ^__^ I just started my shift so I am hoping for those same vibes~
Good vibes!
Angela888
04-25-2021, 12:20 PM
Good vibes!
oh miss sha 8888 too ...xxx you know what means girl xx
Miss_ShaSha
04-25-2021, 01:05 PM
oh miss sha 8888 too ...xxx you know what means girl xx
IK OMG OMG! lolollll
kinkydirtybitch
04-25-2021, 01:12 PM
sometimes when the gold menu goes off I think it’s gold and do a reaction anyway lol I dread to think how ridiculous I look sometimes x
You’re not alone there 😂 I’ve been conditioned to respond like pavlov’s fucken dogs
Angela888
04-25-2021, 01:23 PM
You’re not alone there 😂 I’ve been conditioned to respond like pavlov’s fucken dogs
yeah or like a flapping fish that’s out of water ....
I mean when you actually think about it, it’s ridiculous
tropo
04-25-2021, 01:26 PM
Hello All... does anyone here use the Paxum payment method? The Paxum Q&A thread has been dormant for over a year. I'm having some trouble accessing my account due a new bs verification process that I must complete when I first log in, but it has some major glitches that don't allow it to complete, and if hasn't completed, you can't access your account. I get a similar problem using the app, which boots me out after clicking the last confirm button.
I'd be interested to know if anyone else is having the same problems....
kinkydirtybitch
04-25-2021, 01:29 PM
Hello All... does anyone here use the Paxum payment method? The Paxum Q&A thread has been dormant for over a year. I'm having some trouble accessing my account due a new bs verification process that I must complete when I first log in, but it has some major glitches that don't allow it to complete, and if hasn't completed, you can't access your account. I get a similar problem using the app, which boots me out after clicking the last confirm button.
I'd be interested to know if anyone else is having the same problems....
I had exact same issues so fuckem. Revolut every £3k to make the £25 fee worth it.
Hello All... does anyone here use the Paxum payment method? The Paxum Q&A thread has been dormant for over a year. I'm having some trouble accessing my account due a new bs verification process that I must complete when I first log in, but it has some major glitches that don't allow it to complete, and if hasn't completed, you can't access your account. I get a similar problem using the app, which boots me out after clicking the last confirm button.
I'd be interested to know if anyone else is having the same problems....
I too had this problem... Just keep doing it and give it a day or two to see if they approve the doc and pic and if not, do it again. Try doing it on the phone with the app or just Chrome browser. Is what i did. With the PC i had no luck.
bigbum
04-25-2021, 02:24 PM
}:D}:D
The only good enough reason not to stay to the end of the contest is death }:D
Haha I am joking same goes for me I had some people messaging “are you aright? We are worried , you normally stay to the end lol has something Bad happened ?
Cause they know that even if I am ill with corona and high fever I take pills and stay on until I pass out lol
It’s funny they thought I am rather dead than not just participate
i know you arent even joking.
thats why you win in life
thats the difference right there of why i am not a top model on this site.
i own it. i need to change.
bigbum
04-25-2021, 02:25 PM
^^YUP! Contest def over cause I'm making the most I've ever made this Sunday: currently $397 tho now
54840
This time last week I had to do like 16 hrs to hit this amount and here I did it in 4 hrs!!!
I hate contests!!!
omgg its your time!!! yessssss. pull a big weekend!!
tropo
04-25-2021, 02:31 PM
I had exact same issues so fuckem. Revolut every £3k to make the £25 fee worth it. ��
I hadn't tried to access my account for several months. I have $300 I need to get off, but I can't access my account due to this problem. I've sent some emails to support about it.
Did you solve the problem and gain access to your account?
Miss_ShaSha
04-25-2021, 02:37 PM
sometimes when the gold menu goes off I think it’s gold and do a reaction anyway lol I dread to think how ridiculous I look sometimes x
A lot of my GOLD menu items have the high tip vibe chime & I get that urge to go "mmmmm" like it set off the vibe lolollll. I feel this. But sometimes I hear it off menu & respond positively anyway cause it's a high tip. I don't moan, but I do get a lil body reaction cause of the sound.
Someone said Pavlov & that's it exactly lllolll.
tropo
04-25-2021, 02:37 PM
I too had this problem... Just keep doing it and give it a day or two to see if they approve the doc and pic and if not, do it again. Try doing it on the phone with the app or just Chrome browser. Is what i did. With the PC i had no luck.
In my case my ID, address and phone number have long ago been verified. I just had to confirm that they are the same as before... but now they were asking questions about the source of my money and even which sites I'm working on. It's so messed up that it's not even possible to complete the form from a browser (PC) or the mobile app.
7 years I've been with them and they always manage to mess things up.
Luckygoldfish
04-25-2021, 03:05 PM
i know you arent even joking.
thats why you win in life
thats the difference right there of why i am not a top model on this site.
i own it. i need to change.
Noooo don’t say that!
First of all u are doing great yourself,
Second of all just because I am crazy competitive bitch doesn’t mean you have to be :D
Not everybody wants to cam till their last breath :D
as you see I skipped Saturday and preferred to party lol
Trust me you are doing really good considering you are very new!
You will get their I believe in you
DeliveryLadyx
04-25-2021, 03:07 PM
Noooo don’t say that!
First of all u are doing great yourself,
Second of all just because I am crazy competitive bitch doesn’t mean you have to be :D
Not everybody wants to cam till their last breath :D
You have lot of stamina, I get knackered easily after 3-4 shows. Taking vitamins and trying to get healthier in order to make more on Streamate xx
Angela888
04-25-2021, 03:18 PM
i know you arent even joking.
thats why you win in life
thats the difference right there of why i am not a top model on this site.
i own it. i need to change.
big bum you are very hard on yourself! I’m pretty sure lucky goldfish fish has been camming for a substantial time and practice makes perfect as they say. Also you have to build up to doing that many hours, it’s a bit like exercise, you don’t start running 10 miles if you aren’t used to it, same goes for camming, you build up to it. Sure there are some overnight successes on cam but I think you’ll find most top earning models didn’t start off as top at all, so chill out, do your best you will get there but don’t put yourself down xx
Angela888
04-25-2021, 03:49 PM
It’s a bit pricey, but I use Tatcha cleansing oil to remove my makeup and following it with the Tatcha rice powder to gently exfoliate. It’s the best skin care I’ve tried so far and makes my skin feel so soft and supple after a long days makeup
agreed, love their products xx
SoloDesire
04-25-2021, 04:13 PM
So many freeloaders and trolls on today...give me a fucking break already!
bigbum
04-25-2021, 06:21 PM
You have lot of stamina, I get knackered easily after 3-4 shows. Taking vitamins and trying to get healthier in order to make more on Streamate xx
yesss i actually just ordered a full vitamin routine of the garden of life brand, i have an autoimmune disorder of hashimoto's thyroid. excited to see if i get some good results.
ill post if i get results i am going to get a blood test before , and then after to see the progress.
bigbum
04-25-2021, 06:28 PM
Noooo don’t say that!
First of all u are doing great yourself,
Second of all just because I am crazy competitive bitch doesn’t mean you have to be :D
Not everybody wants to cam till their last breath :D
as you see I skipped Saturday and preferred to party lol
Trust me you are doing really good considering you are very new!
You will get their I believe in you
awww thanks! yes i for sure see it as a positive thing actually!!! i mean it in a good way!
this thread is so inspiring. i am not really competitive with regards to contest ranking or comparing myself to others, but more so i am doing it to meet my goals for life.
i inspire to be better, to make more money.
i have to make things happen. or else.
and in order to do that i need to make more hours. and not make excuses.
i want that FRENCH LONG STAY VISA LIKE NOWWWW. but i need to earn it.
and not settle for less.
bigbum
04-25-2021, 06:31 PM
big bum you are very hard on yourself! I’m pretty sure lucky goldfish fish has been camming for a substantial time and practice makes perfect as they say. Also you have to build up to doing that many hours, it’s a bit like exercise, you don’t start running 10 miles if you aren’t used to it, same goes for camming, you build up to it. Sure there are some overnight successes on cam but I think you’ll find most top earning models didn’t start off as top at all, so chill out, do your best you will get there but don’t put yourself down xx
you are a speaker of the truth. i am going to reflect on this. thank you for your kind words.
FloridaSunDoll
04-25-2021, 11:43 PM
So fucking happy that contest is over and things are back to normal. Busting my ass and only making half of what I would on a typical week fucks with my motivation and mood big time. I’m glad to see it picked up for others too! Kill it ladies!
SnugglySeal
04-25-2021, 11:53 PM
Hii, I’ve been camming since 2016 originally on AW and only just started on SM about a month ago! That contest almost killed me off and I was convinced that it was just me losing my touch haha glad yesterday was like night and day! Congratulations to those in the contest who got what they wanted :D I use to be able to do 16hr days but noway could I could I now haha you girls inspire me! It would be super nice to get to know some of you as this has been my full time work for a few years now so I don’t have any friends really, and lockdowns haven’t helped with that over the past year. Anyway sorry for the long message, I hope you’re all having a nice Monday morning!
Luci Fer
04-26-2021, 01:18 AM
you girls inspire me! It would be super nice to get to know some of you as this has been my full time work for a few years now so I don’t have any friends really, and lockdowns haven’t helped with that over the past year. Anyway sorry for the long message, I hope you’re all having a nice Monday morning!
Hey, same here! I irrationally felt like the onliest camgirl in the world lol (not in a good way), then joined this place and find it so inspiring:) wish we could found our own state ;D
Angela888
04-26-2021, 03:16 AM
you are a speaker of the truth. i am going to reflect on this. thank you for your kind words.
Hi darling, small steps equal big rewards cos they add up over a year.... so for example you can say I’m gonna do an extra hour a day on cam, this adds up over a year. Don’t push yourself mega hard, it only creates burn out especially if you aren’t used to it. Girls who have been camming years are used to it mentally. If you push too hard, you end up failing and then beat yourself up! Bit like diets, limit yourself too much, you end up cheating and feeling crap.
To be amazing on cam does take time, experience and confidence and all this takes time x
FloridaSunDoll
04-26-2021, 06:14 AM
Hii, I’ve been camming since 2016 originally on AW and only just started on SM about a month ago! That contest almost killed me off and I was convinced that it was just me losing my touch haha glad yesterday was like night and day! Congratulations to those in the contest who got what they wanted :D I use to be able to do 16hr days but noway could I could I now haha you girls inspire me! It would be super nice to get to know some of you as this has been my full time work for a few years now so I don’t have any friends really, and lockdowns haven’t helped with that over the past year. Anyway sorry for the long message, I hope you’re all having a nice Monday morning!
Hello seal! I totally feel you..I’m new to the forum and also looking forward to making some friendships with people in the industry. The job itself is so isolating not to mention the world shuttting down. I’ve also moved to a new state last year so it’s been tough making friends with ALL of that lol btw- that was personally my worst contest I’ve had in about a year and was also thinking it’s me. But if you’re anything like me, I put WAY too much pressure on myself during contest weeks
Esixxx
04-26-2021, 08:02 AM
Am I the only one getting a shit ton of traffic pop in and most of it going right out the window this morning?
Angela888
04-26-2021, 08:10 AM
Am I the only one getting a shit ton of traffic pop in and most of it going right out the window this morning?
not just you, it’s been like it for quite a while hence why I have not been online yet this week, working myself up mentally to deal with it lol x
Miss_ShaSha
04-26-2021, 08:12 AM
Am I the only one getting a shit ton of traffic pop in and most of it going right out the window this morning?
I had a shit ton of it my 4 hr midnight shift. There was sooooo much traffic but in then right back out. My stats were all excellent, checked my stream both logged out and in, still all fucked up and weird!
I hope it stops for this day shift I'm about to attempt.
Esixxx
04-26-2021, 08:14 AM
I had a shit ton of it my 4 hr midnight shift. There was sooooo much traffic but in then right back out. My stats were all excellent, checked my stream both logged out and in, still all fucked up and weird!
I hope it stops for this day shift I'm about to attempt.
Same here!! I hope it resolves itself soon!!!
Angela888
04-26-2021, 08:14 AM
Hello seal! I totally feel you..I’m new to the forum and also looking forward to making some friendships with people in the industry. The job itself is so isolating not to mention the world shuttting down. I’ve also moved to a new state last year so it’s been tough making friends with ALL of that lol btw- that was personally my worst contest I’ve had in about a year and was also thinking it’s me. But if you’re anything like me, I put WAY too much pressure on myself during contest weeks
I think everyone does hun, you can’t help but get caught up in it. I don’t really bother with them, I do my hours and if I rank high then I’m chuffed but I never stay on past my 35 hours really to do really well. Mentally I find it hard, I’m building myself up slowly to do more, if I feel it is right for me to do but I don’t put pressure on myself x
Miss_ShaSha
04-26-2021, 08:23 AM
omgg its your time!!! yessssss. pull a big weekend!!
How'd I miss this? lololll Big...I'mma try to channel your vibe cause you be killin it!!!
Angela888
04-26-2021, 08:31 AM
you are a speaker of the truth. i am going to reflect on this. thank you for your kind words.
anytime lovely xx
Angela888
04-26-2021, 08:32 AM
Noooo donÂ’t say that!
First of all u are doing great yourself,
Second of all just because I am crazy competitive bitch doesnÂ’t mean you have to be :D
Not everybody wants to cam till their last breath :D
as you see I skipped Saturday and preferred to party lol
Trust me you are doing really good considering you are very new!
You will get their I believe in you
Lovely words hun xx
Miss_ShaSha
04-26-2021, 10:22 AM
Angela you are right: I'm actually getting trolled and that HARDLY EVER happens. They are really trying to ruffle my feathers. NOPE NOPE NOPE.
I MIGHT come back at 3pm CST, but fuck these fuckers right now.
I need to cleanse my aura, balance my chakras, and get an exorcism. JESUS!!!
Angela888
04-26-2021, 10:49 AM
Angela you are right: I'm actually getting trolled and that HARDLY EVER happens. They are really trying to ruffle my feathers. NOPE NOPE NOPE.
I MIGHT come back at 3pm CST, but fuck these fuckers right now.
I need to cleanse my aura, balance my chakras, and get an exorcism. JESUS!!!
yes hun get off line!! It’s werid as fuck right now xx it will be cos was full moon last night tomorrow will be better, but towards end of week I think busy x
DeliveryLadyx
04-26-2021, 11:49 AM
Have you noticed that since the changes with flag is more HD when looking at cams and no more significant bitrate issues? I rarely see anyone pixelating now, much more crisper streams now. Hope that will result in better traffic retained (paying one of course).
Luckygoldfish
04-26-2021, 12:06 PM
Have you noticed that since the changes with flag is more HD when looking at cams and no more significant bitrate issues? I rarely see anyone pixelating now, much more crisper streams now. Hope that will result in better traffic retained (paying one of course).
Yes 100%
No more red bitrate I stoped abusing my router lol
Luckygoldfish
04-26-2021, 12:18 PM
I had a shit ton of it my 4 hr midnight shift. There was sooooo much traffic but in then right back out. My stats were all excellent, checked my stream both logged out and in, still all fucked up and weird!
I hope it stops for this day shift I'm about to attempt.
You know why right? Contest week: girls fighting for every gold, 500 vids for 5$, jumping around , 1$ Gold shows and lots of teasing and smiles and then Sunday it all stops :D Finita La Commedia
They are like wtf where is it all gone
And those who did pay are recovering from big financial losses
Miss_ShaSha
04-26-2021, 12:36 PM
You know why right? Contest week: girls fighting for every gold, 500 vids for 5$, jumping around , 1$ Gold shows and lots of teasing and smiles and then Sunday it all stops :D Finita La Commedia
They are like wtf where is it all gone
And those who did pay are recovering from big financial losses
That makes sense. However, oddly, Sunday I made the most I've ever made in the least amount of hours. That usually happens for me Sun after contest. Sometimes it's bad, but most times it's good--by my standards lololll.
But you make a valid point. That is all true. I do not offer specials on contests. I stream like I usually do. It's my lack of hustle that makes contests horrible for me.
Angela888
04-26-2021, 12:44 PM
That makes sense. However, oddly, Sunday I made the most I've ever made in the least amount of hours. That usually happens for me Sun after contest. Sometimes it's bad, but most times it's good--by my standards lololll.
But you make a valid point. That is all true. I do not offer specials on contests. I stream like I usually do. It's my lack of hustle that makes contests horrible for me.
But sundays are mostly always the bomb on cam don’t you think? X
Angela888
04-26-2021, 01:15 PM
Have you noticed that since the changes with flag is more HD when looking at cams and no more significant bitrate issues? I rarely see anyone pixelating now, much more crisper streams now. Hope that will result in better traffic retained (paying one of course).
Yes I’ve had zero bit rate issues and I have amazing internet, omen new lap top and wired connection and before I still got them x
looklovely
04-26-2021, 02:01 PM
I need some input...I had a customer tell me about getting someone under 18 pregnant awhile ago (probably lying), I changed the subject, he says "I feel like I'm boring you." Luckily, I didn't get a bad rating and the show ended normally. Once, a guy mentions that stuff do we just cut him off? It was disturbing.
kamiliam
04-26-2021, 02:13 PM
I need some input...I had a customer tell me about getting someone under 18 pregnant awhile ago (probably lying), I changed the subject, he says "I feel like I'm boring you." Luckily, I didn't get a bad rating and the show ended normally. Once, a guy mentions that stuff do we just cut him off? It was disturbing.
I mean it depends on the kinda show or where you are in the show. Like if we were just talking or setting up a role play, I would probably just make a joke and basically be “we gotta keep this 18+” if it is during the sex I will be a bit firmer, and more like announce that we can’t do it. If they didn’t mean to be a creep they get it. I find it has way less drama just to acknowledge the no no. If they keep pushing or being weird I block.
wealthmagnet
04-26-2021, 03:01 PM
There's been an obscene amount of f*ck machines being used in free chat. The sad part is, these are BEAUTIFUL ladies who could easily become top earners if they stopped doing it all for free in free chat
Angela888
04-26-2021, 03:05 PM
There's been an obscene amount of f*ck machines being used in free chat. The sad part is, these are BEAUTIFUL ladies who could easily become top earners if they stopped doing it all for free in free chat
I agree hun, it’s sad to see. Hopefully SM will tell them to put vag away!! X
moneybags
04-26-2021, 03:13 PM
I need some input...I had a customer tell me about getting someone under 18 pregnant awhile ago (probably lying), I changed the subject, he says "I feel like I'm boring you." Luckily, I didn't get a bad rating and the show ended normally. Once, a guy mentions that stuff do we just cut him off? It was disturbing.
Always honor your own internal guidance. When in doubt don’t. That being said, I feel there’s a bit of nuance in the fact sometimes it’s hard to set boundaries when you need the money or aren’t sure what to do or say.
I just ignore it and change the subject. If they say something again, I tell them I could lose my platform and give them an alternative (For example if they call me mom, I tell them im there friends mom instead of mom). The third time I stop the show.
I feel like some of these guys are in desperate need of therapy and sometimes setting boundaries are exactly what these guys need. We’re doing society a favor.