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Genoveve
05-08-2021, 12:24 AM
I just had no idea classy means basically none nude (mistresses and such)

Well it doesn’t necessarily, everyone is going to have a different idea of what ‘classy’ is to them. I don’t do anything explicit and I have a very polished look, but I do fetish shows where I talk about things that are anything but ‘classy’ so I don’t consider what I do to be more ‘elegant’ or more morally superior in any way.

moneybags
05-08-2021, 12:30 AM
Yikes. Speak for yourself.

Society sees us all the same no matter what kind of erotic labor we do. My intention wasn’t to piss anyone off; I’m just passionate about destigmatizing sex work. The only we can do that is together. We have the whole world tearing us down everyday. We have to be each other’s allies no matter if someone is full service or a cam model. Because society thinks we’re all whores. When I call myself or anyone else a whore I’m reclaiming the term. I’m really passionate about the smashing the whorearchy, so we all can be sexually liberated people.

Luci Fer
05-08-2021, 12:34 AM
PS: what about taking models excl in order “to study”? Putting oddness of it aside I don’t think some girls would be ok with that lol
Maybe just spend some more time online u will study better this way ;)

Yeah, it's like to look to different sides and somewhat 'outside' instead of looking at yourself and learning from it. This forum is damn amazing for learning and has a lot of info which helped me (with lightning and some other things) but, for example when I look at other girls hustling online, it doesn't help me, more like messing with my own style.
Kitten, do you say that you r a girl/camgirl when you take others in shows to learn from them?

Genoveve
05-08-2021, 12:53 AM
Society sees us all the same no matter what kind of erotic labor we do

No it doesn’t. I’ve never understood this attitude that I see from some women on here, ‘society thinks we’re whores so we’re whores.’ 1.) You can’t make a blanket statement like that, ‘society’ is diverse. I’ve been in the adult industry openly for my entire adult life and have not experienced this attitude from ‘society.’ Granted I am sure that people’s attitudes towards it have a lot to do with where you live and who you’re around, but to say that what you said is so certainly the case is simply not true. 2.) Even if a lot of people consider adult entertainment to be ‘whoring,’ or shameful....so?? A lot of people think a lot of things. A lot of people believe that being gay is a choice, or that being gay means you’re going to hell. And?? Doesn’t mean that it’s true or that everyone thinks that way. A lot of people think that if you’re Republican you’re a total moron, a lot of people believe that if you are Democrat that you’re a total moron. A lot of people believe that if someone eats meat that they’re a murderer and disgusting. And?? There’s always going to be people judging groups of people, it doesn’t mean what they say is true.

Honestly Moneybags it’s surprising to me that it’s coming from you. You have written post after post after post about how personally crippling the ‘camgirls stigma’ is—to where you’ve joined a SUPPORT GROUP for it—only fo turn around and say to your peers ‘Society thinks you’re whores so you’re whores.’ Do you hear yourself? You’re doing to us what you can’t bear being done to you.

kamiliam
05-08-2021, 01:14 AM
No it doesn’t. I’ve never understood this attitude that I see from some women on here, ‘society thinks we’re whores so we’re whores.’ 1.) You can’t make a blanket statement like that, ‘society’ is diverse. I’ve been in the adult industry openly for my entire adult life and have not experienced this attitude from ‘society.’ Granted I am sure that people’s attitudes towards it have a lot to do with where you live and who you’re around, but to say that what you said is so certainly the case is simply not true. 2.) Even if a lot of people consider adult entertainment to be ‘whoring,’ or shameful....so?? A lot of people think a lot of things. A lot of people believe that being gay is a choice, or that being gay means you’re going to hell. And?? Doesn’t mean that it’s true or that everyone thinks that way. A lot of people think that if you’re Republican you’re a total moron, a lot of people believe that if you are Democrat that you’re a total moron. A lot of people believe that if someone eats meat that they’re a murderer and disgusting. And?? There’s always going to be people judging groups of people, it doesn’t mean what they say is true.

Honestly Moneybags it’s surprising to me that it’s coming from you. You have written post after post after post about how personally crippling the ‘camgirls stigma’ is—to where you’ve joined a SUPPORT GROUP for it—only fo turn around and say to your peers ‘Society thinks you’re whores so you’re whores.’ Do you hear yourself? You’re doing to us what you can’t bear being done to you.

but what if you don't think being a whore is a bad thing...it's all kinda wrapped up in how you personally think of that concept.

I don't think everyone who does sex work should accept that label if they don't want it. But that doesn't mean there aren't plenty of whores who take on this framework in our subculture. Like I don't care if people think I am a whore, but we all have the right to stick up for ourselves when a label doesn't fit our world view.

I just didn't think she said anything controversial. Love all whores and non whores. whatever ye label.

Genoveve
05-08-2021, 01:19 AM
^^^Some people have ‘reclaimed’ that word or like that word and don’t consider it to be derogatory. Moneybags used it in a derogatory manner.

fetishqueen
05-08-2021, 01:54 AM
Quick q if anyone knows please, I have a new customer who wants to speak to Live chat, how does he find that please?

moneybags
05-08-2021, 02:02 AM
^^^Some people have ‘reclaimed’ that word or like that word and don’t consider it to be derogatory. Moneybags used it in a derogatory manner.

I’m so sorry if I offended you. I’ve been on here for 10 years and have offered nothing but grace and support. I say one thing and off with my head! I seriously go out of my to help everyone here. No good deed goes unpunished. I’m use to that. I need to quit caring so much.

wealthmagnet
05-08-2021, 02:03 AM
at the end of the day, it's important to remember that we are ALL just trying to get by. some cam girls make 6 figures and live lavish while others scrape by and live in poverty. Not everyone comes from the same background on here. everyone is going to have a different perspective based off of their life experiences and circumstances. a cammer who regularly pulls in 10k + a week is not going to see eye to eye with a cammer who is lucky to make $500 a week. This is not a competition of who is classy and who is trashy. I feel like there's so much more we can focus our energy on on this forum besides a catfight on what the definition of classy/trashy is. that's beneath us! *hugs*

Luckygoldfish
05-08-2021, 02:23 AM
at the end of the day, it's important to remember that we are ALL just trying to get by. some cam girls make 6 figures and live lavish while others scrape by and live in poverty. Not everyone comes from the same background on here. everyone is going to have a different perspective based off of their life experiences and circumstances. a cammer who regularly pulls in 10k + a week is not going to see eye to eye with a cammer who is lucky to make $500 a week. This is not a competition of who is classy and who is trashy. I feel like there's so much more we can focus our energy on on this forum besides a catfight on what the definition of classy/trashy is. that's beneath us! *hugs*

No fights
Discussion;) xx

~Carmen~
05-08-2021, 02:44 AM
Quick q if anyone knows please, I have a new customer who wants to speak to Live chat, how does he find that please?

Have him click on "My account" in the upper right corner, then click "Support". From there he can choose "Live Support".

fetishqueen
05-08-2021, 02:50 AM
Have him click on "My account" in the upper right corner, then click "Support". From there he can choose "Live Support".

Thank you Carmen much appreciated, I thought my question got lost there!

Angela888
05-08-2021, 03:41 AM
PS: what about taking models excl in order “to study”? Putting oddness of it aside I don’t think some girls would be ok with that lol
Maybe just spend some more time online u will study better this way ;)

I agree, I really find this werid no offence. I wouldn’t like another model taking me exclusive but that’s just me.

Angela888
05-08-2021, 03:50 AM
Society sees us all the same no matter what kind of erotic labor we do. My intention wasn’t to piss anyone off; I’m just passionate about destigmatizing sex work. The only we can do that is together. We have the whole world tearing us down everyday. We have to be each other’s allies no matter if someone is full service or a cam model. Because society thinks we’re all whores. When I call myself or anyone else a whore I’m reclaiming the term. I’m really passionate about the smashing the whorearchy, so we all can be sexually liberated people.

Great post hun. I call myself a Whore all the time, so what doesn’t mean I’m not classy too:) why do people insist on putting people in these boxes and sticking a label on it. I’m just me.... I press go on my stream, laugh , talk might be termed as classy might not , I guess that’s down to personal interpretation. There are some amazing ladies on SM who should be celebrated for all their skills and talent , this defining people as classy or hardcore stuff is just not cool, do what you like, mind your business and never put down other models (now this is what I can’t stand in free chat when models do this) whatever way works for you is just fine, you aren’t defined by your cam character ...nor what you do for a living. Whores are fabulous anyway:)

seicento
05-08-2021, 03:56 AM
PS: what about taking models excl in order “to study”? Putting oddness of it aside I don’t think some girls would be ok with that lol
Maybe just spend some more time online u will study better this way ;)

I'm one of those who's not ok with that. Ever since I read she was taking models excl, a while ago, I felt soooo uncomfortable that I even thought of only offering C2C shows. I'll be honest, I find that weird AF. And I don't think it's a good way to "study" because each show is customized. Better buy videos than playing the customer for another camgirl. And we learn more from what customers want not from what another camgirl does.

Luckygoldfish
05-08-2021, 04:07 AM
I'm one of those who's not ok with that. Ever since I read she was taking models excl, a while ago, I felt soooo uncomfortable that I even thought of only offering C2C shows. I'll be honest, I find that weird AF. And I don't think it's a good way to "study" because each show is customized. Better buy videos than playing the customer for another camgirl. And we learn more from what customers want not from what another camgirl does.
Yeah I know
It’s just weird she makes models do all that sexy stuff “in order to study”
If it makes you feel better remember she was blocked lol (assuming she is saying the truth)

Luckygoldfish
05-08-2021, 04:20 AM
Ok that’s how it’s for me
First of all I don’t like my colleges (especially girls from forum) spend $ on me , not even a dollar it makes me feel somewhat guilty lol

Second of all I am in “my cam character” so when someone interfere from outside “wankers world “ I kind of loose it lol makes me feel weird (girls watching as a guests in free chat are fine for me not that I can control it anyway lol now that I even like lol) but I don’t think she tells she is cam girl otherwise it’s completely no point
Third of all she comes here and discuss using terms “extreme shows” or whatever based of what she saw probably among us now that’s total sucks I don’t want to be studied lol( again free chat is different completely)

Maybe she tells herself she studies but reality is she is hooked on watching girls doing things for her lol or it’s just easier than actually working ( like u am studying almost like working lol)
From logic point doesn’t make sense top models are expensive and she claims she took many and often lol
I don’t see any other explanation why someone “takes many models top and not top models to excl” spend lots of $ Instead of making it lol

Luci Fer
05-08-2021, 05:26 AM
Ok that’s how it’s for me
First of all I don’t like my colleges (especially girls from forum) spend $ on me , not even a dollar it makes me feel somewhat guilty lol

Second of all I am in “my cam character” so when someone interfere from outside “wankers world “ I kind of loose it lol makes me feel weird (girls watching as a guests in free chat are fine for me not that I can control it anyway lol now that I even like lol) but I don’t think she tells she is cam girl otherwise it’s completely no point
Third of all she comes here and discuss using terms “extreme shows” or whatever based of what she saw probably among us now that’s total sucks I don’t want to be studied lol( again free chat is different completely)

Maybe she tells herself she studies but reality is she is hooked on watching girls doing things for her lol or it’s just easier than actually working ( like u am studying almost like working lol)
From logic point doesn’t make sense top models are expensive and she claims she took many and often lol
I don’t see any other explanation why someone “takes many models top and not top models to excl” spend lots of $ Instead of making it lol

The idea of a model taking another model to exclusive (and pretending she 's a dude) got me mortified, to be honest. I know that customers can lie about their age etc there as well, but it is just another case. The vibe is not good about it.
Yes, I agree with Goldfish, it is easier than working on your own persona.
Earlier someone mentioned girls taking other girls in shows for some seconds and then leaving during contest, for competition. This is just the same kind of creepiness to me.
Really, everyone goes there to make $. I had a regular who came to me to ask what his another fav model should do if some dudes bother her, and what I do in that case. I made him pay for that lol, but honestly, I don't like such things. They create some unhealthy competition.

Miss_ShaSha
05-08-2021, 12:07 PM
This Sat is so weird. It has to be that there is better weather and the members are out and about. If I think about it any other way I'll just want to go HULK and smash shit lololll.

Damn, regs...where are you???

whysky
05-08-2021, 12:42 PM
same! super weird day.

Sorry for the chaos. its pretty funny cause what I meant originally by "perpetuating the patriarchy" was about their use of the concept that there even is a "classy" sex worker and a "dirty" sex worker binary. Not that only being a "whore" is perpetuating it!!! That belief that acting slutty makes you a whore, is the patriarchy! You all proved my point though, showing how we are all soooo much more complex, multidimensional and real, than the 2D assessment we got given. Telling anyone as advice that "classy" or "whorey" are viable sex worker personas is ridiculous. None of us fit into those divisions. Thank you for so many sane ladies here!

random stripper
05-08-2021, 05:27 PM
Ok I've barely been online, but it was beyond dead and shit traffic for me while i was wearing shorts. then i got down to g string and bra and hey look money again? LOL

Ambercat
05-08-2021, 06:40 PM
I just had a guy come in excl, turned on his cam and he's got a screen full of many different people playing. Ignored me when i asked if he could hear verbally and typing. He bought up a woman who appeared to be playing live so I booted him. If anyone wants his username gimmie a shout x

SuperPookie
05-08-2021, 06:54 PM
PS: what about taking models excl in order “to study”? Putting oddness of it aside I don’t think some girls would be ok with that lol
Maybe just spend some more time online u will study better this way ;) I personally would feel very uncomfortable with this and tbh would end up giving a study in what not to do as I would probably be so nervous I would choke.

bigbum
05-08-2021, 10:44 PM
omg nothing was working today. no one was in my room , internet and stream kept getting disconnected but my fiberoptic was perfectly stable. i had to get my other computer. install the cam logitech software set everything up, AFTER 2 hours of getting cut off over and over from my stream.

and on top of all that i did a show where someone who had done 1 show with me before.. said this " i really cant do this, this isnt for me, i am leaving now "
WTF!!!! i was mortified!

that was my night. i was so stressed so much bad energy i almost cried.
but i didnt give up. i set up the other computer and pulled some quick money.
things were going along GREAT internet working, streamate working. and then all of the sudden, downstairs outside 3 of my fucking neighbors on the terrace. just below my window.
grandma grandpa 2 adult kids and 2 large dogs having fucking dinner.

JUST NO.

i have to pull a double tomorrow to make up for this.

was anyone else having weird traffic tonight? or issues with connection?
or ?
maybe it was just weird vibes over here.

ChloeGreenX
05-08-2021, 11:01 PM
omg nothing was working today. no one was in my room , internet and stream kept getting disconnected but my fiberoptic was perfectly stable. i had to get my other computer. install the cam logitech software set everything up, AFTER 2 hours of getting cut off over and over from my stream.

and on top of all that i did a show where someone who had done 1 show with me before.. said this " i really cant do this, this isnt for me, i am leaving now "
WTF!!!! i was mortified!

that was my night. i was so stressed so much bad energy i almost cried.
but i didnt give up. i set up the other computer and pulled some quick money.
things were going along GREAT internet working, streamate working. and then all of the sudden, downstairs outside 3 of my fucking neighbors on the terrace. just below my window.
grandma grandpa 2 adult kids and 2 large dogs having fucking dinner.

JUST NO.

i have to pull a double tomorrow to make up for this.

was anyone else having weird traffic tonight? or issues with connection?
or ?
maybe it was just weird vibes over here.

It's a bit slow for me too tonight. Hope it picks up!

bigbum
05-08-2021, 11:24 PM
Ok that’s how it’s for me
First of all I don’t like my colleges (especially girls from forum) spend $ on me , not even a dollar it makes me feel somewhat guilty lol

Second of all I am in “my cam character” so when someone interfere from outside “wankers world “ I kind of loose it lol makes me feel weird (girls watching as a guests in free chat are fine for me not that I can control it anyway lol now that I even like lol) but I don’t think she tells she is cam girl otherwise it’s completely no point
Third of all she comes here and discuss using terms “extreme shows” or whatever based of what she saw probably among us now that’s total sucks I don’t want to be studied lol( again free chat is different completely)

Maybe she tells herself she studies but reality is she is hooked on watching girls doing things for her lol or it’s just easier than actually working ( like u am studying almost like working lol)
From logic point doesn’t make sense top models are expensive and she claims she took many and often lol
I don’t see any other explanation why someone “takes many models top and not top models to excl” spend lots of $ Instead of making it lol

i think positive energy and being happy for other people creates more positive energy.
when i am getting ready i leave my computer on to SM while doing makeup gets me in the mood to see you ladies killing it! pick up some great vibes. like "wow she is killing it" or "wow she looks amazing".
most of my favorite models are literally the exact opposite of me style wise or show wise. and i like that. its cool.

most importantly i HATE when people copy each other or this "studying" thing. same idea.
be yourself or invent your own things.
i dont have same outfits ect as everyone else on this site.
my music is way different ect.
music--- there are millions of songs out there ladies. be creative.

actually i caught 1 studio a few months ago copied a few of my outfits for their models and MY MUSIC which is rare. like NO ONE has ever heard of some of the songs i play its like some real underground indy stuff that match my theme. they just googled it and copied directly. they copied my props too for 1 girl. the whole thing.
weird AF.

people who say they study models ect or try to copy their style. it will never work. you have to command that personality from the inside. it has to come from within, thats what i believe.
so dont worry about it ladies its not a threat . but yeah not something i would spend my hard earned cash on to do
also if they are going exclusive are they giving 5 stars atleast? damn imagine if they didnt.
not going to spend hours watching others make $$ when i can be online making it myself. seems obvious.
that sounds so weird. i couldnt do it. a cam model take some one exclusive or private. seems like an invasion of privacy? or is that going to far. IDK

as far as watching other models my 2 cents
if you are watching the free chat i think its polite to tip a bit.
sometimes if i have good night ill start someones gold show if i can see they are struggling or whatever drop a few gold then leave. never write anything dont even watch the show most times as i need to work.but we all have been there. maybe there was a hard night , or a time when we were barely making rent. sometimes 1 little tip can get things going.
or maybe a troll wrote something rude. ill just tip 2 gold and say something nice.

because thats just good energy and manners.

actually someone on here helped me with something via pm . so i just went to her room and left her a tip. i didnt say it was me. no need . just a way to say thanks.


i have actually had women come and spend on me. one lady dropped me 300 gold 1 time. she was so nice. and yes i am sure it was a girl.but she wasnt a cam girl.

moneybags
05-09-2021, 02:10 AM
omg nothing was working today. no one was in my room , internet and stream kept getting disconnected but my fiberoptic was perfectly stable. i had to get my other computer. install the cam logitech software set everything up, AFTER 2 hours of getting cut off over and over from my stream.

and on top of all that i did a show where someone who had done 1 show with me before.. said this " i really cant do this, this isnt for me, i am leaving now "
WTF!!!! i was mortified!

that was my night. i was so stressed so much bad energy i almost cried.
but i didnt give up. i set up the other computer and pulled some quick money.
things were going along GREAT internet working, streamate working. and then all of the sudden, downstairs outside 3 of my fucking neighbors on the terrace. just below my window.
grandma grandpa 2 adult kids and 2 large dogs having fucking dinner.

JUST NO.

i have to pull a double tomorrow to make up for this.

was anyone else having weird traffic tonight? or issues with connection?
or ?
maybe it was just weird vibes over here.

Awful. Yeah I might log off and I’ll have to work tomorrow night instead. No one is even in my room!

VVV
05-09-2021, 04:17 AM
I was rejected from a website today... not streamate however feel so shitty �� just because I didn't earn lot. Uhmm depressed.

wealthmagnet
05-09-2021, 04:35 AM
I was rejected from a website today... not streamate however feel so shitty �� just because I didn't earn lot. Uhmm depressed.

Don't let it get you down. You're way too good for the other site anyway. You're fabulous darling *hugs*

VVV
05-09-2021, 04:57 AM
Try to let it empower me but lol it's shocking need time.

Teddy_Bear
05-09-2021, 04:58 AM
Streamate was one strange beast last week it was like it had bipolar disorder or something. I was sat at $300 for the week for days and then suddenly ended at $900 yesterday afternoon and I'm still not sure how I did it. Chock full of freeloaders and trolls but some absolute gems mixed in as well, barely any regs all week either and I still did great. Very strange week indeed.

VVV
05-09-2021, 05:01 AM
Herbicepscam is the website. Tbf I m not too muscular yet but I got some good muscle and I had my regular. They emailed me and I can't log in anymore. I was earning 200 dollars by month �� ... however always server issues but really often and all clients complaining.

Thank you so much for your support girls ���� I need to make streamate better. I do fine on adultwork too so far. But ohh for them ... I m not okay ����♀️

euro_princess
05-09-2021, 05:46 AM
Came to say money is money, no matter how’s paying. If a girl wants to spy on me, go ahead, I’ll take your $. I would rather have another model in my show, than my neighbor (now that’s really spooky). I provide a service, she pays. Fair enough. Her choice what she does with that info. If she can actually learn something from me, then I’m happy I could help and make a living at the same time. You know, studios take a commission for this sort of mentoring. You literally pay them to teach you tips and tricks. At least, allegedly.

As for what people label us. It doesn’t matter. Call yourself what makes you feel better. Somebody calling you a slut doesn’t erase your whole persona. Learn to separate your expression online from your true self. You run your life! Your job doesn’t define who you are, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. You could be the baddest domme out there and the sweetest most caring mother/partner/friend in your private life.

RambleOnRose
05-09-2021, 09:09 AM
Hi, I just want to thank each and every one of you for providing so much help and support. I'm new here, but not to camming/PSO/content work. I've read through quite a bit of these threads and am so appreciative to be here. I hope I'll be able to add to it from some of my experience over the past few years. I'm almost 60, and, because of family duties and lack of household privacy, aside from only having a few hours each week to invest in it, my only real complaint is that I didn't start sooner! Peace and love to all.

Luckygoldfish
05-09-2021, 09:27 AM
Came to say money is money, no matter how’s paying. If a girl wants to spy on me, go ahead, I’ll take your $. I would rather have another model in my show, than my neighbor (now that’s really spooky). I provide a service, she pays. Fair enough. Her choice what she does with that info. If she can actually learn something from me, then I’m happy I could help and make a living at the same time. You know, studios take a commission for this sort of mentoring. You literally pay them to teach you tips and tricks. At least, allegedly.

As for what people label us. It doesn’t matter. Call yourself what makes you feel better. Somebody calling you a slut doesn’t erase your whole persona. Learn to separate your expression online from your true self. You run your life! Your job doesn’t define who you are, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. You could be the baddest domme out there and the sweetest most caring mother/partner/friend in your private life.

Well it’s cool that u are comfortable with it but some girls don’t and they are allowed to feel this way. One thing about giving tips in studio and another thing prentending to be a dude , watching show and then tell about shows in forum lol
If she came in my free chat and said I am cam model can u give me tips in excl I would say sure go ahead take me l( even though I personally think it’s silly and a waste) , considering she isn’t from forum lol I prefer to give tips for free for those who is a asking for an advise

kamiliam
05-09-2021, 09:44 AM
I’ve done a few shows for aspiring cam models. I recently did one in private where she would have to wait till we were alone for me to talk to her about it. If she was annoying I probably would have kicked her out, but she was fine. I didn’t mind at the end of the day but prefer exclusive if they want me to talk about practicalities, and am happy to help in a paying environment. I’ll save any pro bono for here.
Now do I want to do a normal show to an aspiring/new cam model? No not really, at the very least don’t tell me you are a cam model, and if I found out somehow later that they were I would feel a little taken advantage of.

Want to see my tits, shake my ass, anything on my gold menu, go right ahead fellow models

Angela888
05-09-2021, 12:21 PM
i think positive energy and being happy for other people creates more positive energy.
when i am getting ready i leave my computer on to SM while doing makeup gets me in the mood to see you ladies killing it! pick up some great vibes. like "wow she is killing it" or "wow she looks amazing".
most of my favorite models are literally the exact opposite of me style wise or show wise. and i like that. its cool.

most importantly i HATE when people copy each other or this "studying" thing. same idea.
be yourself or invent your own things.
i dont have same outfits ect as everyone else on this site.
my music is way different ect.
music--- there are millions of songs out there ladies. be creative.

actually i caught 1 studio a few months ago copied a few of my outfits for their models and MY MUSIC which is rare. like NO ONE has ever heard of some of the songs i play its like some real underground indy stuff that match my theme. they just googled it and copied directly. they copied my props too for 1 girl. the whole thing.
weird AF.

people who say they study models ect or try to copy their style. it will never work. you have to command that personality from the inside. it has to come from within, thats what i believe.
so dont worry about it ladies its not a threat . but yeah not something i would spend my hard earned cash on to do
also if they are going exclusive are they giving 5 stars atleast? damn imagine if they didnt.
not going to spend hours watching others make $$ when i can be online making it myself. seems obvious.
that sounds so weird. i couldnt do it. a cam model take some one exclusive or private. seems like an invasion of privacy? or is that going to far. IDK

as far as watching other models my 2 cents
if you are watching the free chat i think its polite to tip a bit.
sometimes if i have good night ill start someones gold show if i can see they are struggling or whatever drop a few gold then leave. never write anything dont even watch the show most times as i need to work.but we all have been there. maybe there was a hard night , or a time when we were barely making rent. sometimes 1 little tip can get things going.
or maybe a troll wrote something rude. ill just tip 2 gold and say something nice.

because thats just good energy and manners.

actually someone on here helped me with something via pm . so i just went to her room and left her a tip. i didnt say it was me. no need . just a way to say thanks.


i have actually had women come and spend on me. one lady dropped me 300 gold 1 time. she was so nice. and yes i am sure it was a girl.but she wasnt a cam girl.

Frankly if someone copied me I’d be over joyed, it’s the best compliment to ever get! Xx also I think it’s nice someone knows you appreciated their help so it’s good to tell them, like hey I appreciated this thank you! Xx

Luckygoldfish
05-09-2021, 04:36 PM
Quite good Sunday wasn’t it? I couldn’t force myself to work more than 3.5 hours though even though I didn’t work for a week. So clearly I am only motivated when contest is around. I need to make schedule and stick to it like many girls do..
Advice? How do u keep yourself motivated and STFO without contest lol

BuffyFlame
05-09-2021, 06:24 PM
Has anyone noticed their checks becoming really tiny lately?
Despite me working my minimum of 200m in PVT a week(40m pvt a day), my dd was 250!

I charge $8 a min
What could this possibly be???

Ive been sat on this method for years and ive never noticed such small deposits.

wealthmagnet
05-09-2021, 08:48 PM
Has anyone noticed their checks becoming really tiny lately?
Despite me working my minimum of 200m in PVT a week(40m pvt a day), my dd was 250!

I charge $8 a min
What could this possibly be???

Ive been sat on this method for years and ive never noticed such small deposits.

Try 8.99 per minute instead of 8.00 . i know it sounds crazy but many of us experience more $$ with the .99 vs. without it.
Not sure if it's a mental thing for customers or what.

wealthmagnet
05-09-2021, 08:52 PM
I’ve done a few shows for aspiring cam models. I recently did one in private where she would have to wait till we were alone for me to talk to her about it. If she was annoying I probably would have kicked her out, but she was fine. I didn’t mind at the end of the day but prefer exclusive if they want me to talk about practicalities, and am happy to help in a paying environment. I’ll save any pro bono for here.
Now do I want to do a normal show to an aspiring/new cam model? No not really, at the very least don’t tell me you are a cam model, and if I found out somehow later that they were I would feel a little taken advantage of.

Want to see my tits, shake my ass, anything on my gold menu, go right ahead fellow models


I'm an old head and have been in the industry forever so i actually don't mind when newbies ask for pointers. But i can see it being annoying sometimes cause i feel like a broken record 😆

Luci Fer
05-09-2021, 09:49 PM
Ladies, if I block someone and then block messaging too (ticking the box in my block list), do I get it right that I have to block the option to message in new messenger, too?
I mean if they 're totally blocked (from chat and messaging), they still can message me via new messenger if I don't block them there separately?

moneybags
05-09-2021, 09:56 PM
How many days does it take to update my profile? I’m surprised it doesn’t update right away. There seems to be lag time between updating my profile and what it displays. Damn you SM! (I’m being cheeky.) streamate is domming me.

I’m switching from a sub to a dom, so I kinda need it ready by my next shift.

~Carmen~
05-09-2021, 10:34 PM
How many days does it take to update my profile? I’m surprised it doesn’t update right away. There seems to be lag time between updating my profile and what it displays. Damn you SM! (I’m being cheeky.) streamate domming me.

I’m switching from a sub to a dom, so I kinda need it ready by my next shift.

I have noticed that too. I updated my profile a couple of days ago and it's still showing the old text.

wealthmagnet
05-10-2021, 02:52 AM
anyone else sitting in a mega dead room with nothing but members funneling in and out?


edit: cam to cam not working either. guys reporting spinning circles

ChloeGreenX
05-10-2021, 02:58 AM
anyone else sitting in a mega dead room with nothing but members funneling in and out?

Yup! It's dead tonight.

Miss_ShaSha
05-10-2021, 03:53 AM
anyone else sitting in a mega dead room with nothing but members funneling in and out?


edit: cam to cam not working either. guys reporting spinning circles

There's been a lot of in and out and bitrate issues so I cleared browsing history, restarted lap top, and logged back in.

5 min back on and it's the same thing. Guys are just coming in then leaving. I thought 5am CST dick would be hard and ready to play. Nope. This might be a NO GO Monday lololll. Yikes.

wealthmagnet
05-10-2021, 04:07 AM
There's been a lot of in and out and bitrate issues so I cleared browsing history, restarted lap top, and logged back in.

5 min back on and it's the same thing. Guys are just coming in then leaving. I thought 5am CST dick would be hard and ready to play. Nope. This might be a NO GO Monday lololll. Yikes.



i feel you babe! it took my regular 5 times of logging in and out of an exclusive to get cam to cam to work. definitely not feeling today man. i hope our day turns around. *hugs*

ChloeGreenX
05-10-2021, 05:11 AM
There's been a lot of in and out and bitrate issues so I cleared browsing history, restarted lap top, and logged back in.

5 min back on and it's the same thing. Guys are just coming in then leaving. I thought 5am CST dick would be hard and ready to play. Nope. This might be a NO GO Monday lololll. Yikes.

I feel the same. Early am Monday for me and nope. I ain't staying any longer. Done 7 hours and I'm off to bed. Tomorrow (today late afternoon/evening) is another day :D

Emanuelle
05-10-2021, 05:49 AM
What do you guys think about over exposure? I've seen a lot of posts about Streamate placement that recommend around 30 hours per week, and they said too much more than that risks over exposure. Most of these posts are several years old though, so I don't know if this is relevant anymore. I like working more than that, but if it's going to improve my income then maybe I should split it up between sites.
I'm not brand new, but I'm still figuring things out.

Wow I scrolled back a few days and I feel like I missed so much. I literally was sitting here eating my popcorn for breakfast and watching the drama unfold. Good morning!