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VVV
05-17-2021, 04:09 AM
Can I email them about my list? Lol I got only Europe country? I can't usa or UK is so boring. Someone who did it? Thank you girls

Luckygoldfish
05-17-2021, 04:12 AM
Can I email them about my list? Lol I got only Europe country? I can't usa or UK is so boring. Someone who did it? Thank you girls

You need any British identification. Driving license or resident card. No point in messaging without ID

VVV
05-17-2021, 05:09 AM
I sent my address verification with my bank account. There is many ppl from Europe in UK and I was thinking that cam wasn't just only EU or just UK or just usa. wasn't something without borders cam? Tks

Luckygoldfish
05-17-2021, 05:14 AM
I sent my address verification with my bank account. There is many ppl from Europe in UK and I was thinking that cam wasn't just only EU or just UK or just usa. wasn't something without borders cam? Tks

You need ID, issued in UK ( driving license, resident card) do u know what that means? Address is not enough. If you live in UK long enough u must have some sort of ID
55031

VVV
05-17-2021, 06:02 AM
I m still have EU nationality made by the consulate in uk. Btw I sent an email to them. Dor example I m spanish I must cam only with spanish but I m based in uk. Lol. I m just looking to understand. Btw I know what mean identity card LOL. BUT thanks for the wikipedia. Very useful

Luckygoldfish
05-17-2021, 06:06 AM
Ok I am giving up lol
Hopefully SM support has more patience than I do

Ambercat
05-17-2021, 06:19 AM
VVV it's very simple, you just need to apply on the DVLA website for a British provisional driving license, this is the most simple and quick solution for you. Don't worry if you don't understand why, don't waste your time trying to get logic for the situation or whether it's fair, it's now the rule. IT IS WHAT IT IS. It's 1 simple step and luckygoldfish suggested it for you already.

Marina Starr
05-17-2021, 06:34 AM
Yes, there should be a volume icon on their cam that you cam mute.


Is it possible to turn their sound off during c2c?

fetishqueen
05-17-2021, 06:54 AM
It's nice we can help each other but if English isn't someone's first language then it's not always going to be easy to understand what's being said.

kikixxxx
05-17-2021, 08:04 AM
I sent my address verification with my bank account. There is many ppl from Europe in UK and I was thinking that cam wasn't just only EU or just UK or just usa. wasn't something without borders cam? Tks

if you have a residence and bank account in the UK you must have shown some ID at some point? i find it hard to believe someone living in the uk would have no uk issued ID, unless its bullshit and you're not really in the uk but want to appear as if you are? lol

gbjenna
05-17-2021, 08:06 AM
I've seen a couple of people here mention that they were once signed up to SM via studio's but they managed to get released by their studio and work with SM directly.

Has anyone been with the 'UK Daily Pay Service' and managed to be released, without being made to close their account and wait another 6 months before they can sign up again?

Ambercat
05-17-2021, 08:11 AM
if you have a residence and bank account in the UK you must have shown some ID at some point? i find it hard to believe someone living in the uk would have no uk issued ID, unless its bullshit and you're not really in the uk but want to appear as if you are? lol

You can be resident in a country without having their ID and still get a bank account. I used my British ID to open up a bank account here, showing proof of address and (at the time) having a job and paying into their TAX system. But to get a Cyrpiot ID, I've had to trade in my UK driving licence. It's Usually not essential for a migrant to have the resident countries ID but it certainly helps.

IvyRose
05-17-2021, 09:58 AM
I've seen a couple of people here mention that they were once signed up to SM via studio's but they managed to get released by their studio and work with SM directly.

Has anyone been with the 'UK Daily Pay Service' and managed to be released, without being made to close their account and wait another 6 months before they can sign up again?

I am with them. I have not left them though
As far as I know they are not a studio. They are a daily pay service, you give up 5% for their daily pay out service.
You can leave and there will be no 6 months waiting period, as far as I know of. You can start anew immediatly (but maybe check this with Liz and dailypay service uk themselves. Dailypay uk is always fast in email response, and helpfull even about this matter)
You can keep your name if you contact Liz about it, but your profile will get renewed. Liz once told me you can keep the name, but the notes you make on your clients will be gone. I dont know what happens to your fav comments or tags)

Losing the notes on customers made me stay with dailypay bec the info is to valuable after years of camming and having a huge customer base

kikixxxx
05-17-2021, 10:11 AM
I am with them. I have not left them though
As far as I know they are not a studio. They are a daily pay service, you give up 5% for their daily pay out service.
You can leave and there will be no 6 months waiting period, as far as I know of. You can start anew immediatly (but maybe check this with Liz and dailypay service uk themselves. Dailypay uk is always fast in email response, and helpfull even about this matter)
You can keep your name if you contact Liz about it, but your profile will get renewed. Liz once told me you can keep the name, but the notes you make on your clients will be gone. I dont know what happens to your fav comments or tags)

Losing the notes on customers made me stay with dailypay bec the info is to valuable after years of camming and having a huge customer base

would you recommend uk daily pay over boleyn models for SM? x

VVV
05-17-2021, 10:19 AM
thank you so much :)

MsJess
05-17-2021, 11:43 AM
I wish that SM would let me:

Choose my own video cover or grab a screen capture from the vids
Add photosets for fan club
Add a timer right on the SMconnect screen so I know how much time I have been on a private or excl so i dont have to use my phone or some random app cause sometimes I'm so busy I can't do it!
Arrange my videos by duration, price, older or newer ones.
Add categories for videos so users can find what they want easily.
A list of video buyers so i can offer them new deals
Let me know what video had been bought and stadistics.
Send automatic personalized messages instead of me having to click on the buttons while I'm busy
When my device storage is full, not cover my whole screen in the middle of a private/excl with the damn warning notice ugh
ETC.

<3

Luckygoldfish
05-17-2021, 12:01 PM
Sm broadcast is still alive!? :D

MsJess
05-17-2021, 12:02 PM
As far as the lush goes, for ladies who are wondering about having to reconnect their tip vibe toy: I've been working with mine for the last few days and I've noticed that it disconnects randomly. I will randomly feel it buzz telling me that it reconnects. Because of where the power button is, I'm wondering if the weight of me grinding on it or sitting on it occasionally turns it off. Is this something that could be possible? Because when I have it outside of my body and I am just playing with it on my clit never disconnects

Which lovense toy do you have?
The only i have managed to keep connected all the time and reating to tips is the nora

KittenGirl
05-17-2021, 12:09 PM
Okay, once again I'm asking this question and I really could use some advice. How do you girls get guys to rate you, tag you and leave comments?

I have it in my show description, and I have it on an automatic message I throw out every 10 minutes, I ask sometime during the show and I still can't get guys to drop tags or comments or hardly ever any rates. I've had 10 shows in the last two days and I've had two ratings, no tags and no comments, even though the guys promise they will. I don't think I'm bad, because they say they absolutely love the show and they cum really hard. I haven't had any new tags in almost 3 months, and I get a rating about maybe 4 times a week. It makes me feel like I'm fucking terrible.

It's just getting discouraging that I haven't had a new comment in almost a month. I wrote SM because one guy said he went to leave a comment and he couldn't. But their response was total bullshit. I see girls that get like 6 comments every day, or at least a handful every week, they've got over 200 tags and I've seen ladies on here show their screenshots of getting like 10 ratings a day. It's killing my confidence and messing with my head. I don't know what else to do. I was thinking about like "Leave a rating, and drop a comment after our show and earn a $0.99/minute exclusive!" but I didn't want to be cheap. I hate doing videos. It's so much to manage because my days are completely busy as it is and rendering, uploading, sending, editing, etc it's just way too much to keep track of.

Any advice would be totally REALLY appreciated

fetishqueen
05-17-2021, 12:17 PM
Kitten I don't get many ratings either, and hardly any comments. I do have a few videos though and keep a couple of them private so I can offer them for ratings, they are only 1 minute vids. I think if you put together even one or two short videos you can use them time and again, far more time-saving than offering a cheap exclusive.

MsJess
05-17-2021, 12:20 PM
Sm broadcast is still alive!? :D

my bad SMconnect lmao <3

KittenGirl
05-17-2021, 12:21 PM
Kitten I don't get many ratings either, and hardly any comments. I do have a few videos though and keep a couple of them private so I can offer them for ratings, they are only 1 minute vids. I think if you put together even one or two short videos you can use them time and again, far more time-saving than offering a cheap exclusive.

Thank you so much, makes me feel a lot better that I'm not the only one. And that's a great idea about the videos. I'll go ahead and suck it up! Thank you, Queen :)

Luckygoldfish
05-17-2021, 12:25 PM
my bad SMconnect lmao <3

On that case there is a timer!
It’s below the video session timer u can see how long u are in current paid chat and total paid as well

MsJess
05-17-2021, 12:26 PM
Okay, once again I'm asking this question and I really could use some advice. How do you girls get guys to rate you, tag you and leave comments?

I have it in my show description, and I have it on an automatic message I throw out every 10 minutes, I ask sometime during the show and I still can't get guys to drop tags or comments or hardly ever any rates. I've had 10 shows in the last two days and I've had two ratings, no tags and no comments, even though the guys promise they will. I don't think I'm bad, because they say they absolutely love the show and they cum really hard. I haven't had any new tags in almost 3 months, and I get a rating about maybe 4 times a week. It makes me feel like I'm fucking terrible.

It's just getting discouraging that I haven't had a new comment in almost a month. I wrote SM because one guy said he went to leave a comment and he couldn't. But their response was total bullshit. I see girls that get like 6 comments every day, or at least a handful every week, they've got over 200 tags and I've seen ladies on here show their screenshots of getting like 10 ratings a day. It's killing my confidence and messing with my head. I don't know what else to do. I was thinking about like "Leave a rating, and drop a comment after our show and earn a $0.99/minute exclusive!" but I didn't want to be cheap. I hate doing videos. It's so much to manage because my days are completely busy as it is and rendering, uploading, sending, editing, etc it's just way too much to keep track of.

Any advice would be totally REALLY appreciated

Now that you mention it now, my last comment was a month a go, but i don't really care tbh, guys barely read them, I only have comments from my regulars lol, i have plenty of tags but at some point guys stopped adding them, i asked some regular friends to drop me some but i judt don't care anymore nor Im gonna give them free shite for them lol

Luckygoldfish
05-17-2021, 12:30 PM
I just messaged the support regarding comments as I had none for 1,5 months and they replied that I had 18 comments which were backed up for some reason but they got them submitted now and will update in 24 hours . Message the support

KittenGirl
05-17-2021, 12:34 PM
Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. While I'm at it, I just thought to ask, what do you girls do with guys that always come into your room and talk but they never tip or take you private? I have a couple of guys that are super nice, but they always come up with some reason to never even tip. They may be legit, but it's getting exhausting having people who just want to "talk" in your room. Do you ever finally say "fuck it, I'm banning them" or what? I'm kind of equating it to like, I would never go into a cafe and just sit down and want a waitress to talk to me without ordering anything.
It's weird.

I sometimes wonder if I'm not assertive enough. I'm kind of passive online, and sometimes I feel like I may be too nice. It was just the other night I finally banned a guy who was one of these dudes, but I banned him because he started trying to want to "date me" UGH! Go to a dating site for that!

KittenGirl
05-17-2021, 12:36 PM
I just messaged the support regarding comments as I had none for 1,5 months and they replied that I had 18 comments which were backed up for some reason but they got them submitted now and will update in 24 hours . Message the support

Thank you so much for the advice! I'll message them again. Because the bullshit answer I got was, the person replied with the reasonings why customers rate and review. It's like, no shit sherlock. I'll try again! Thanks!

KittenGirl
05-17-2021, 12:36 PM
Now that you mention it now, my last comment was a month a go, but i don't really care tbh, guys barely read them, I only have comments from my regulars lol, i have plenty of tags but at some point guys stopped adding them, i asked some regular friends to drop me some but i judt don't care anymore nor Im gonna give them free shite for them lol


Wow! So I guess it's totally not just me. If I could even get tags that would be amazing. Just anything! Thank you for your input!

Luckygoldfish
05-17-2021, 12:39 PM
Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. While I'm at it, I just thought to ask, what do you girls do with guys that always come into your room and talk but they never tip or take you private? I have a couple of guys that are super nice, but they always come up with some reason to never even tip. They may be legit, but it's getting exhausting having people who just want to "talk" in your room. Do you ever finally say "fuck it, I'm banning them" or what?
I sometimes wonder if I'm not assertive enough. I'm kind of passive online, and sometimes I feel like I may be too nice. It was just the other night I finally banned a guy who was one of these dudes, but I banned him because he started trying to want to "date me" UGH! Go to a dating site for that!

“Nice” freeloader is still a freeloader lol ask where is my fucking money ? If Any excuses- mock kick ban :D
It’s not a dating site they know it and they are wasting your time
Ban them all lol
Be nice to those who are generous;)

KittenGirl
05-17-2021, 12:43 PM
“Nice” freeloader is still a freeloader lol ask where is my fucking money ? If Any excuses- mock kick ban :D
It’s not a dating site they know it and they are wasting your time
Ban them all lol
Be nice to those who are generous;)


Always can count on LuckyGoldfish for the most straightup talk ever :goodvibes

thank you so much, I SINCERELY appreciate it!

Luckygoldfish
05-17-2021, 12:52 PM
Always can count on LuckyGoldfish for the most straightup talk ever :goodvibes

thank you so much, I SINCERELY appreciate it!

Lol thanks
Well my style is not necessary good for everybody though
I have insane amount of freeloaders and some girls get on well by being nice lol
But really don’t talk too much with them if they want to pay they will pay almost right away , if they claim they are busy now they can leave a small tip . All “I would like to get to know u better before pvt” is bullisht

Miss_ShaSha
05-17-2021, 12:59 PM
Kitten I don't get many ratings either, and hardly any comments. I do have a few videos though and keep a couple of them private so I can offer them for ratings, they are only 1 minute vids. I think if you put together even one or two short videos you can use them time and again, far more time-saving than offering a cheap exclusive.

This!

Miss_ShaSha
05-17-2021, 01:09 PM
Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. While I'm at it, I just thought to ask, what do you girls do with guys that always come into your room and talk but they never tip or take you private? I have a couple of guys that are super nice, but they always come up with some reason to never even tip. They may be legit, but it's getting exhausting having people who just want to "talk" in your room. Do you ever finally say "fuck it, I'm banning them" or what? I'm kind of equating it to like, I would never go into a cafe and just sit down and want a waitress to talk to me without ordering anything.
It's weird.

I sometimes wonder if I'm not assertive enough. I'm kind of passive online, and sometimes I feel like I may be too nice. It was just the other night I finally banned a guy who was one of these dudes, but I banned him because he started trying to want to "date me" UGH! Go to a dating site for that!

I am assertive yet kind. Assertive doesn't mean aggressive. I kindly say to those who have been in my room a few minutes after I've suggested my GOLD menu or a show "in order for you to stay in my room you're going to need to tip or go to show. I'd hate to have to kick you out of my room. I hope you understand." All said politely with a smile at the end. They either tip, go to show, or leave. Makes no difference to me. I don't let guys loiter in my room.

And if they want to ask questions to get to know me better my response is always "I can entertain all your questions in private." Some go pvt, but most just leave. It's fine with me cause I'm not going to talk for free. THEY WILL PAY or LEAVE.

I'm really rather sweet in a demanding way. I'm a soft Domme. I don't yell or get bitchy, but my point gets across.

Like Lucky said: a "nice" freeloader is still a freeloader and they get no play in my room unless they PAY.

BE ASSERTIVE. It takes practice, but it's really good emotional boundaries. And take your time during shows. Your other post mentioned you feel pressured to perform fast. FUCK THEM...take your sweet time. I do IN chat and IN private and exclusive. I talk slow in free chat and perform slow and sensually. NOBODY rushes me else they get told off in a nice tone.

It's your room, your world...so do you!!!!

VVV
05-17-2021, 01:46 PM
Like this. 100%

Luckygoldfish
05-17-2021, 02:10 PM
55032Don’t kick silent users in pvts or excl, just do the show
I just got that comment (along with those 18 missing )
I remember that guy he stayed around half an hour didn’t say a word, not even hi
It happens they just can’t type for some Reason or they don’t know how

kamiliam
05-17-2021, 02:12 PM
55032Don’t kick silent users in pvts or excl, just do the show
I just got that comment (along with those 18 missing )
I remember that guy he stayed around half an hour didn’t say a word


yeah learning to just accept the silent ones was a game changer.

Miss_ShaSha
05-17-2021, 02:30 PM
55032Don’t kick silent users in pvts or excl, just do the show
I just got that comment (along with those 18 missing )
I remember that guy he stayed around half an hour didn’t say a word, not even hi
It happens they just can’t type for some Reason or they don’t know how

I remember one show in particular where the guy went excl and didn't say a thing for more than 30 min. I just kept doing my thing, looking at the timer, and thinking is the show still going? Haha, I kept checking and was like "is he still there?" Yeah, good advice. You never know. Just go.

fetishqueen
05-17-2021, 02:31 PM
I've had a few silent ones lately too. I had a pvt where we started and I asked and typed if he could hear me, no response so just carried on my show. Then a 2nd guy came in and didn't speak either! What was really pissy though was that the 2nd guy gave me a 2 rating :( but stayed nearly 4 mins so don't think I can get it removed. SO annoyed for a bad rating when he never spoke or typed to me, what can I do! He got tits and pussy right from the start! Just can't please some people.

I used to get annoyed with non-speakers in free, used to try to encourage Gold or shows then kick them after a few mins. But really there is no point, now I encourage tips and a show then say no more to them and leave them to stay, why give my energy if they don't respond but also if they have connection issues or a disability they might just be taking some time. I tend to think now that if they are not talking, they are not taking my attention. Some tip, some don't but it's cost me no time. It's those who talk with no intention of paying that piss me off!

SoloDesire
05-17-2021, 03:06 PM
I guess it depends on what type of shows you do. There's no way I can do a show for a guy who won't speak to me. All of my shows are fetish and femdom based. If he's not talking then I don't have a show. They either speak to me at least at the beginning to get a feel for what they're in to or they get nothing. I don't do full nude or masturbation so without communication I can't just go through motions.

~Carmen~
05-17-2021, 03:33 PM
Yes, there should be a volume icon on their cam that you cam mute.

Yes, and if that doesn't work you can mute your speakers but then you have to pay close attention because you will no longer get entering or leaving sounds.

JessRyan
05-17-2021, 03:58 PM
Thank you so much. I really appreciate it. While I'm at it, I just thought to ask, what do you girls do with guys that always come into your room and talk but they never tip or take you private? I have a couple of guys that are super nice, but they always come up with some reason to never even tip. They may be legit, but it's getting exhausting having people who just want to "talk" in your room. Do you ever finally say "fuck it, I'm banning them" or what? I'm kind of equating it to like, I would never go into a cafe and just sit down and want a waitress to talk to me without ordering anything.
It's weird.

I sometimes wonder if I'm not assertive enough. I'm kind of passive online, and sometimes I feel like I may be too nice. It was just the other night I finally banned a guy who was one of these dudes, but I banned him because he started trying to want to "date me" UGH! Go to a dating site for that!

Quiet or freeloader friendly is fine with me. Freeloader asshole, beggar, pain in the ass..then yes, I'll ban. As long as they don't give me an obvious reason to ban, I won't.
I've had several long term quiet, or quietly friendly members FINALLY take me private/exclusive. I'm glad I didn't ban. One guy (who is now a subscriber on my OF) would sit quietly in my room for years. I'd tease him a little. But he never said a word. Out of the blew he took me for a 10 min exclusive.
You never know who that member name is & what his issue might me. Be more forgiving, men have bad days just like us, or just can't afford a tip/private today. They'll remember you were the nice camgirl when they do have $$

Luckygoldfish
05-17-2021, 04:23 PM
Quiet or freeloader friendly is fine with me. Freeloader asshole, beggar, pain in the ass..then yes, I'll ban. As long as they don't give me an obvious reason to ban, I won't.
I've had several long term quiet, or quietly friendly members FINALLY take me private/exclusive. I'm glad I didn't ban. One guy (who is now a subscriber on my OF) would sit quietly in my room for years. I'd tease him a little. But he never said a word. Out of the blew he took me for a 10 min exclusive.
You never know who that member name is & what his issue might me. Be more forgiving, men have bad days just like us, or just can't afford a tip/private today. They'll remember you were the nice camgirl when they do have $$

Well yeah but chance of it is 0.0001% I personally wouldn’t take a risk of wasting my time and energy for someone who maybe join in a year but everyone is different, it’s good to hear other opinions
If he doesn’t have money right now he shouldn’t be here. As simple as it is. It’s not a porn charity

Marina Starr
05-17-2021, 04:44 PM
That sounds like a nightmare if you don't hear or see them end the show and you keep dildoing yourself in free chat ;D


Yes, and if that doesn't work you can mute your speakers but then you have to pay close attention because you will no longer get entering or leaving sounds.

~Carmen~
05-17-2021, 06:24 PM
That sounds like a nightmare if you don't hear or see them end the show and you keep dildoing yourself in free chat ;D

Eeek:scared:. I can't even think about that!

fetishqueen
05-18-2021, 12:30 AM
Well yeah but chance of it is 0.0001% I personally wouldn’t take a risk of wasting my time and energy for someone who maybe join in a year but everyone is different, it’s good to hear other opinions
If he doesn’t have money right now he shouldn’t be here. As simple as it is. It’s not a porn charity

I think that's the key point, are they taking your time and energy? If not then they don't worry me. But I'm not someone who is good at multi-tasking or entertaining lots of people at once. I can really only give one person my attention so I'll try to make that work best. I've also had some that had been quiet ages suddenly have a show or buy something from the Gold menu. If they are silent and not bothering me they can stay.

Angela888
05-18-2021, 12:59 AM
Which lovense toy do you have?
The only i have managed to keep connected all the time and reating to tips is the nora

Ive found lush to be pretty bad, I much prefer Kirooo ohmybod no problems connecting with SM. I’ve tried both and had major issues with lush connecting, disconnecting etc. I wouldn’t buy a lush again x

Angela888
05-18-2021, 01:01 AM
I think that's the key point, are they taking your time and energy? If not then they don't worry me. But I'm not someone who is good at multi-tasking or entertaining lots of people at once. I can really only give one person my attention so I'll try to make that work best. I've also had some that had been quiet ages suddenly have a show or buy something from the Gold menu. If they are silent and not bothering me they can stay.

depends on my mood really but honestly I really don’t like people sitting in my room not spending, I find it rude but that’s just me xx

Ambercat
05-18-2021, 01:39 AM
depends on my mood really but honestly I really don’t like people sitting in my room not spending, I find it rude but that’s just me xx

I'm the same, I find it rude. I tend to suggest they at least join in and chat, then type something along the lines of "Why don't you come back when you're feeling more friendly" and boot them. I should be more tolerant, I hadn't considered they might be having tech problems. I did it with a guy yesterday, he bounced straight back in, tipped me $15 and then continued to just sit silently, perhaps he wasn't able to type or simply didn't speak English.

fetishqueen
05-18-2021, 01:44 AM
There are many reasons why they might not want to type, yes it might be rudeness and entitlement. But it could be tech problems, distractions like work calls and they stay in the room until they are ready to interact, disabilities, language barriers, all sorts of things. I'm certainly not a very patient person but after being a little rude myself to people who weren't talking only to find they had tech issues I felt that I'd leave the ones who were silent. Guess we all work differently and there is nothing wrong with that!

Luckygoldfish
05-18-2021, 02:24 AM
There are many reasons why they might not want to type, yes it might be rudeness and entitlement. But it could be tech problems, distractions like work calls and they stay in the room until they are ready to interact, disabilities, language barriers, all sorts of things. I'm certainly not a very patient person but after being a little rude myself to people who weren't talking only to find they had tech issues I felt that I'd leave the ones who were silent. Guess we all work differently and there is nothing wrong with that!
Well it’s not hard to find a gold button and I am pretty sure 99.9% are just stroking for free especially that I get lots of golds and vibes and doing gold show so stuff going on in free chat why would I let them watch for free! Again not pushing my opinion on anyone as u said everyone is different xx
Yes they are taking my energy as I am annoyed as fuck
As for tech troubles normally they are not just silently waiting they are trying to refresh coming in and out and if they can’t type for some reason they can still tip or come back later (I am kicking those not banning)