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Hello! Does anyone know, if I want to change my proof of address on my Streamate account, do I have to email Support or I can just upload my new proof of address in my account? I took a long break and before that, I was living in Spain. Now I am living in Germany but as my last POA is fom Spain, it only gives me Spain and a few Eastern European countries to pick from, and traffic is horrible with these options, lol. I wanted to ask, as I dont wanna mess something up by uploading it myself, and honestly I don't want to email Support either, when not absolutely necessary, because I know they are taking so long to answer and at times they may not even understand the problem well....
I think the display countries you can choose from are based on the ID you used to register with SM rather than any proof of address. Maybe it’s best to contact them and ask
You should be able to stream from your model account on safari. They used to use an app called neon or something but I don’t see it available anymore.
Yeah that’s what I do but it’s a bit shitty tbh and I thought maybe I was missing something but yeah the app is not available in the country I’m in
kamiliam
07-19-2021, 11:21 AM
Yeah that’s what I do but it’s a bit shitty tbh and I thought maybe I was missing something but yeah the app is not available in the country I’m in
adult apps are useless to develop, they will be shut down by Apple/google play store guidelines. That’s why tip vibes are marketed so heavily towards couples
^^^ I know :/
Btw anyone else is getting paid by euros/pounds? I’m with dailypay but I’m trying to figure out what’s the conversion rate to make sure all adds up and that it makes sense to me I use this service rather than an international bank transfer. Are those weekly? And is there any extra fee to receive those? Getting paid directly to my bank account is very convenient but I really don’t want to get ripped off
Sarita
07-19-2021, 12:56 PM
^^^ I know :/
Btw anyone else is getting paid by euros/pounds? I’m with dailypay but I’m trying to figure out what’s the conversion rate to make sure all adds up and that it makes sense to me I use this service rather than an international bank transfer. Are those weekly? And is there any extra fee to receive those? Getting paid directly to my bank account is very convenient but I really don’t want to get ripped off
I get paid in pounds and also use Daily Pay. I have a currency converter app on my phone that I keep an eye on and the amount I get is always spot on. The $£ rate is shit for us at the moment.
laurielegs
07-19-2021, 12:57 PM
i cant use lube because i have alergies to sperm , lubes or anything put in there results in an infection bladder infection for me.
I can't use most lube either, so irritating to me.
I only use organic coconut oil. It's naturally antibacterial and I haven't had a yeast infection since using it, for years now. I used to get infections all the time. (For me it's important to get the organic kind, melts easier and even smells nice).
emkato
07-19-2021, 01:20 PM
I can't use most lube either, so irritating to me.
I only use organic coconut oil. It's naturally antibacterial and I haven't had a yeast infection since using it, for years now. I used to get infections all the time. (For me it's important to get the organic kind, melts easier and even smells nice).
YES! I tell people ALL the time to use coconut oil instead of lube in the bedroom. they still choose to use fruity cheap lube tho... once i started using coconut oil I knew I couldn't go back.
edit: actually lube isn't really cheap in my experience.... they charge so much for certain kinds and people assume expensive = good.
bigbum
07-19-2021, 01:28 PM
YES! I tell people ALL the time to use coconut oil instead of lube in the bedroom. they still choose to use fruity cheap lube tho... once i started using coconut oil I knew I couldn't go back.
edit: actually lube isn't really cheap in my experience.... they charge so much for certain kinds and people assume expensive = good.
ok i am going to try the coconut oil on my week off. just to be sure . good idea though
LeilaB
07-19-2021, 01:35 PM
I can't use most lube either, so irritating to me.
I only use organic coconut oil. It's naturally antibacterial and I haven't had a yeast infection since using it, for years now. I used to get infections all the time. (For me it's important to get the organic kind, melts easier and even smells nice).
Damn, I have to try coconut oil, I use average lube, and even though I sterilize my toys with alcoholic disinfectant regurarly, I have infection at least 1x a month :( I think coconut oil might be cheaper than the lube I use right now, and if it helps to prevent infection, it totally worth it. As soon as the lube runs out, I'll give it a try!
anonamiss
07-19-2021, 02:52 PM
I can't use most lube either, so irritating to me.
I only use organic coconut oil. It's naturally antibacterial and I haven't had a yeast infection since using it, for years now. I used to get infections all the time. (For me it's important to get the organic kind, melts easier and even smells nice).
Also note - be sure it is unrefined. It should smell like coconuts. Refined coconut oil has added chemicals and should not be used as lube. Also be careful using coconut oil with anything latex (I.e. condoms) as the oil may degrade it.
Otherwise i also recommend coconut oil. Ive been using it on cam for years. If you insert a cold/unmelted chunk of it inside you before your shift it gradually melts and makes you appear wet for hours lol.
I get paid in pounds and also use Daily Pay. I have a currency converter app on my phone that I keep an eye on and the amount I get is always spot on. The $£ rate is shit for us at the moment.
Oh what app do you use?? I got some delays in payments and from my calculations there is like €25 missing but they say the bank said all the payments were processed so I don’t know where they getting those conversion rates. I convert it from google. I can understand it might be some euros off but €25 idk maybe I misscalculated smt…
roseforarose
07-19-2021, 06:23 PM
Oh what app do you use?? I got some delays in payments and from my calculations there is like €25 missing but they say the bank said all the payments were processed so I don’t know where they getting those conversion rates. I convert it from google. I can understand it might be some euros off but €25 idk maybe I misscalculated smt…
Have you checked if there's a processing fee? I don't use dailypay but use the normal wire transfer to EU- the fee is $25 for that. Also it's worth checking if your bank takes a chunk on their end, mine always has a fee for international deposits
Luci Fer
07-19-2021, 07:25 PM
That means message was not delivered. You wouldn't get any message if it was successfully sent. Her email is:
[email protected]
Thank you, Marina. I'll try again.
Luci Fer
07-19-2021, 07:36 PM
Damn, I have to try coconut oil, I use average lube, and even though I sterilize my toys with alcoholic disinfectant regurarly, I have infection at least 1x a month :( I think coconut oil might be cheaper than the lube I use right now, and if it helps to prevent infection, it totally worth it. As soon as the lube runs out, I'll give it a try!
Girls, it's worthy! I have the same trouble with lube, it just made me have fucking cystitis every month, like in your case, Leila. (my doc also told me that lubes can be the reason of it). And I keep my toys clean too.
I 've been struggling after I had to reject lube completely, because anal shows became a torture without it hahaha, and then I was advised to substitute it with coconut oil (thanks to the forum!), and now my butt is in safety lol
And I can say it is much better than the lube because I suspect it has some healing effects too. Well at least I feel much better than I did with lube. And it is good to know it also takes care of your skin while you use it, not just helps you to insert things lol
I also have some stubborn lipstick, that can't be easily removed (water- and everythingproof I guess), but coconut oil does it without any problem.:)
bigbum
07-19-2021, 07:43 PM
if you see the username "dont your parents know what your doing" i left it with spaces so it cant come back on google.
he is literally the must abusive member EVER
anyone know this freak?
pm me for his user id and be sure to report him!
he sent me 17 PMS while i was streaming. i forgot to block him from PM because i was busy.
55595
Luci Fer
07-19-2021, 07:48 PM
if you see the username "dont your parents know what your doing" i left it with spaces so it cant come back on google.
he is literally the must abusive member EVER
anyone know this freak?
pm me for his user id and be sure to report him!
he sent me 17 PMS while i was streaming. i forgot to block him from PM because i was busy.
55595
fuck. what the hell. lately I experience an influx of bastards honestly, and it is so weird. but this is just...wow. maybe he accidentally put his balls between some closing doors or something?
bigbum
07-19-2021, 08:09 PM
i honestly rarely get trolls but the 17 inboxes from this freak for sure caught my attention haha. his insults are so funny. and petty. its like.. what are you? 12?
kinkydirtybitch
07-19-2021, 09:53 PM
And I can say it is much better than the lube because I suspect it has some healing effects too. Well at least I feel much better than I did with lube. And it is good to know it also takes care of your skin while you use it, not just helps you to insert things lol
It’s a natural anti fungal anti bacterial while respecting the body’s acid mantel which is especially important in the lady bits 8)
kinkydirtybitch
07-19-2021, 09:55 PM
if you see the username "dont your parents know what your doing" i left it with spaces so it cant come back on google.
he is literally the must abusive member EVER
anyone know this freak?
pm me for his user id and be sure to report him!
he sent me 17 PMS while i was streaming. i forgot to block him from PM because i was busy.
55595
After a little tantrum like this I ask them if they feel better after their little outburst. before blocking. These people are damaged
anonamiss
07-19-2021, 10:02 PM
i had that "do your parents know..." guy earlier this month.
i laughed because i always say hello and say everyone's name out loud when they come into the room. it makes for funny banter. anyway he came into free chat and said something like "hey whore has your mom disowned you yet?"
my response was something like "sorry dude both my parents are dead, but thanks for the reminder. also, just want to let you know your grammar sucks. it's do your parents know what_YOU'RE_doing, dumbass."
not true about my parents, but a bunch of people in my room know me well enough to know i was joking and they all lol'd and ganged up on the guy and called him a douche, so he basically wrote "stupid bitch" and then left and never bugged me again. it was pretty great. wouldn't necessarily recommend this tactic if you're not good with trolling guys back, particularly with dark humor, or don't have an army of free chat guys to back you up. worked for me though. sorry he was such a dick to you. what a pathetic turd.
Luci Fer
07-19-2021, 10:05 PM
It’s a natural anti fungal anti bacterial while respecting the body’s acid mantel which is especially important in the lady bits 8)
I truly like the idea of being able to put it literally...in everything! your pie, your face, your hair and your kitty! ;D
anonamiss
07-19-2021, 10:09 PM
I truly like the idea of being able to put it literally...in everything! your pie, your face, your hair and your kitty! ;D
it's true, it's also great in a stir fry. lol.
Luci Fer
07-19-2021, 10:11 PM
i had that "do your parents know..." guy earlier this month.
i laughed because i always say hello and say everyone's name out loud when they come into the room. it makes for funny banter. anyway he came into free chat and said something like "hey whore has your mom disowned you yet?"
my response was something like "sorry dude both my parents are dead, but thanks for the reminder. also, just want to let you know your grammar sucks. it's do your parents know what_YOU'RE_doing, dumbass."
not true about my parents, but a bunch of people in my room know me well enough to know i was joking and they all lol'd and ganged up on the guy and called him a douche, so he basically wrote "stupid bitch" and then left and never bugged me again. it was pretty great. wouldn't necessarily recommend this tactic if you're not good with trolling guys back, particularly with dark humor, or don't have an army of free chat guys to back you up. worked for me though. sorry he was such a dick to you. what a pathetic turd.
and note how he starts 'Parents' with a capital 'P'. looool. What a family guy. He probably thinks that even a small hint about parents will make every camgirl cry with tears of shame and remorse.
Carmel57
07-19-2021, 11:54 PM
if you see the username "dont your parents know what your doing" i left it with spaces so it cant come back on google.
he is literally the must abusive member EVER
anyone know this freak?
pm me for his user id and be sure to report him!
he sent me 17 PMS while i was streaming. i forgot to block him from PM because i was busy.
55595
I had this guy in my room. I just laughed at him, he soon left. Not getting the response he wants spoils his fun.
kinkydirtybitch
07-20-2021, 04:55 AM
I had this guy in my room. I just laughed at him, he soon left. Not getting the response he wants spoils his fun.
I had him earlier today.
I said I was flattered that he assumed my parents were still alive ;D
it said I was funny (realising it had bitten off more than it could spew ) and shuffled back from whence it came. ::)
Have you checked if there's a processing fee? I don't use dailypay but use the normal wire transfer to EU- the fee is $25 for that. Also it's worth checking if your bank takes a chunk on their end, mine always has a fee for international deposits
they told me the fee was $1.40 or something like that. And they get a percentage of my earnings. So I’m a bit upset money is missing for no reason and money is not in my bank account next day or day after I shouldn’t have to chase them to pay me.
How is the international transfer to your EU bank account? Is it weekly? And what do the statements say when the money comes like is it discreet? And what conversion rate do they use? I feel if it’s a weekly deposit and it’s reliable, descreet and has a good conversion rate (I know some banks have horrible conversion rates tho) then for $25 it’s worth it
Have you checked if there's a processing fee? I don't use dailypay but use the normal wire transfer to EU- the fee is $25 for that. Also it's worth checking if your bank takes a chunk on their end, mine always has a fee for international deposits
they told me the fee was $1.40 or something like that. And they get a percentage of my earnings. So I’m a bit upset money is missing for no reason and money is not in my bank account next day or day after I shouldn’t have to chase them to pay me.
How is the international transfer to your EU bank account? Is it weekly? And what do the statements say when the money comes like is it discreet? And what conversion rate do they use? I feel if it’s a weekly deposit and it’s reliable, descreet and has a good conversion rate (I know some banks have horrible conversion rates tho) then for $25 it’s worth it
Strawberryblonde
07-20-2021, 07:12 AM
they told me the fee was $1.40 or something like that. And they get a percentage of my earnings. So I’m a bit upset money is missing for no reason and money is not in my bank account next day or day after I shouldn’t have to chase them to pay me.
How is the international transfer to your EU bank account? Is it weekly? And what do the statements say when the money comes like is it discreet? And what conversion rate do they use? I feel if it’s a weekly deposit and it’s reliable, descreet and has a good conversion rate (I know some banks have horrible conversion rates tho) then for $25 it’s worth it
I don't know which rate for conversion , the transfer fee is $25 it can be weekly, you can also set your own payout threshold higher, or hold one week. Fortnightly payout only usually generates 1 x $25 fee but 3 weeks seems to create 2 payouts with $25 charge each.
FloridaSunDoll
07-20-2021, 07:16 AM
Does anyone else feel like their brain literally stops working after a certain amount of hours lol I work 5 hours in the AM and 5 in the PM. Around the 5 hour mark my brain seriously needs a break from being “on.” Even if physically I feel like I can keep going and I’m not even tired, I start to get tongue tied and can’t remember my sales pitches anymore. I look like a total dope so I know it’s time to call it for break time lol so strange especially to try and explain. It really feels like my brain has reached its limit. All this to say, I am SO ready for a day off
DeliveryLadyx
07-20-2021, 07:17 AM
Girls in the UK, do you experience constant bitrate fluctuations since yesterday? I have and I appear pixelation, I am using brio, different resolutions and is the same, checked on the laptop and pc and is the same. Err, that coincides with tons of traffic in my room which I cannot convert either. Support for UK says is nothing reported. Weird.
Esixxx
07-20-2021, 07:24 AM
Girls in the UK, do you experience constant bitrate fluctuations since yesterday? I have and I appear pixelation, I am using brio, different resolutions and is the same, checked on the laptop and pc and is the same. Err, that coincides with tons of traffic in my room which I cannot convert either. Support for UK says is nothing reported. Weird.
I am not in the UK- but yesterday and Sunday afternoon I experienced bitrate fluctuations.
Strawberryblonde
07-20-2021, 07:25 AM
Girls in the UK, do you experience constant bitrate fluctuations since yesterday? I have and I appear pixelation, I am using brio, different resolutions and is the same, checked on the laptop and pc and is the same. Err, that coincides with tons of traffic in my room which I cannot convert either. Support for UK says is nothing reported. Weird.
I ceased looking at bitrate soon after I started looking at it, sure noticed big overall difference when I changed from WiFi to line in connection but the fluctuations I found distracting. Couldn't control it (made sure no one else was using it, turned off unnecessary gadgets) so just no longer look. Caught a glimpse a few days ago, immediately saw it low, decided not to look again. Dashboard still says stream quality 'Excellent' in green so I just get on with my hustle.
DeliveryLadyx
07-20-2021, 07:36 AM
Yeah, and with that, ton of traffic and loads of in and out which is lowering my morale. Can't make them pay no matter what, doubt is a coincidence. Thank you ladies for answering xx
Strawberryblonde
07-20-2021, 07:40 AM
Yeah, and with that, ton of traffic and loads of in and out which is lowering my morale. Can't make them pay no matter what, doubt is a coincidence. Thank you ladies for answering xx
It'll come the only day I let that bother me was the time SM broke down for 4 hours, sorry if that sounds flippant I may be doing something wrong. Also that flit-by might favourite you for a future spend, has happened to me.
DeliveryLadyx
07-20-2021, 08:17 AM
Bitrate is almost stable now, nothing dramatic and no traffic anymore and where I had constant guys and minimum 40 potentials I barely have 4 and none in room. Can sm say whatever they want, I truly believe they manipulate traffic upon the server a model account is placed on.
Miss_ShaSha
07-20-2021, 08:22 AM
STFO 149.5 hrs the last 4 pay periods this July and income generated so far is $3,660.27
Still got 1 more week left. After all those hours I am taking it easy cause I don't have to rise, grind, rest, and repeat anymore.
Thank fuck for self care, SM members, and STFO. Damn, did pretty good for summer slow down. I am relaxing and happy AF!!!
#GRATEFUL
Panthera
07-20-2021, 09:17 AM
Does anyone else feel like their brain literally stops working after a certain amount of hours lol I work 5 hours in the AM and 5 in the PM. Around the 5 hour mark my brain seriously needs a break from being “on.” Even if physically I feel like I can keep going and I’m not even tired, I start to get tongue tied and can’t remember my sales pitches anymore. I look like a total dope so I know it’s time to call it for break time lol so strange especially to try and explain. It really feels like my brain has reached its limit. All this to say, I am SO ready for a day off
well I think that's a good amount of time, cause mine stops after 2 hours! :))) I used to get frustrated and push through, but now I just take a break :)
Panthera
07-20-2021, 09:19 AM
Girls in the UK, do you experience constant bitrate fluctuations since yesterday? I have and I appear pixelation, I am using brio, different resolutions and is the same, checked on the laptop and pc and is the same. Err, that coincides with tons of traffic in my room which I cannot convert either. Support for UK says is nothing reported. Weird.
I'm not in the uk, but you know, I've also noticed, every time the bitrate fluctuates, the traffic is much better! Weird huh? Tryin' to understand how that can be connected, as it doesn't seem to only be a coincidence...for me at least.
gbjenna
07-20-2021, 09:28 AM
Thank you for the replies about the tip vibe!! I'm definitely sold on the Ferri, going to order this week. I can't be having the esca giving me as much agro as it is doing some weeks. It's crazy how sore it can make me if I'm not careful.
For those struggling with lube causing infections. I really recommend YES WB lube on Amazon, it's a natural lube and doesn't contain glycerin which is a huge cause of infections apparently. I think it's meant to be approved by gynecologists too. I used to get yeast infections ALL the time, sometimes really bad where the single course of treatment wouldn't get rid of it, then I changed my lube and suddenly they stopped. It's very rare I get them now!
gbjenna
07-20-2021, 09:36 AM
they are both rock hard :(but id say the esca is smaller than the lush though. i know what you mean, im thinking of getting the ferri instead as thats just a little clit one and doesnt need inserting.
where do you buy your soft toys from? i need to replace mine with soft too.
John Thomas toys. I think a model here recommended the site. They're pure silicone (so body safe) and came in 3 options I think, like soft, medium and hard. I got the softest and they don't give me any grief whatsoever, unlike my previous. On the face of it the site looks like it mainly has big and XL toys but if you dig through there are smaller/average sized toys too. Dependent on what your preference is.
Luckygoldfish
07-20-2021, 10:53 AM
I'm not in the uk, but you know, I've also noticed, every time the bitrate fluctuates, the traffic is much better! Weird huh? Tryin' to understand how that can be connected, as it doesn't seem to only be a coincidence...for me at least.
More people in the room are watching i premise each take a a bit of connection lol if it make sense
I have the same .
It’s rough today holy f.ck shitty traffic /no traffic
Luckygoldfish
07-20-2021, 11:15 AM
Bitrate is almost stable now, nothing dramatic and no traffic anymore and where I had constant guys and minimum 40 potentials I barely have 4 and none in room. Can sm say whatever they want, I truly believe they manipulate traffic upon the server a model account is placed on.
Yes. They switch us to shitty server periodically I think it depends if u make “more than you should” does it make sense?
Like if I make money quick and double my $/hour or something means next couple hours shitty server no traffic and yes it depends on a placement
At least I think so
Well today I made 2 times less than usual $/hour when are they going to switch me to a good server?)) it has been 8 hours lol
DeliveryLadyx
07-20-2021, 11:16 AM
More people in the room are watching i premise each take a a bit of connection lol if it make sense
I have the same .
It’s rough today holy f.ck shitty traffic /no traffic
That does make sense, thank you!
honeybirdette
07-20-2021, 11:16 AM
John Thomas toys. I think a model here recommended the site. They're pure silicone (so body safe) and came in 3 options I think, like soft, medium and hard. I got the softest and they don't give me any grief whatsoever, unlike my previous. On the face of it the site looks like it mainly has big and XL toys but if you dig through there are smaller/average sized toys too. Dependent on what your preference is.
just looking now! did you get the size small? is the soft one still firm enough to for penetration? i have some which are too bendy they wont go in lol
waogtrain
07-20-2021, 11:33 AM
Ooof I could only manage 3 hours yesterday and made a whole $2. I know I should have streamed for longer but I was running late signing on and didn't want to skip the gym in the morning. Aiming for 5 hours today and my goal is to log those hours without any extra caffeine or resorting to wine.
Edit: I may resort to doing a 1 hour voyeur gold show but I am limiting myself to one of those per day until I hit the 25 and I can only do that if I've reached my free chat boiling point.
DeliveryLadyx
07-20-2021, 11:35 AM
Yes. They switch us to shitty server periodically I think it depends if u make “more than you should” does it make sense?
Like if I make money quick and double my $/hour or something means next couple hours shitty server no traffic and yes it depends on a placement
At least I think so
Well today I made 2 times less than usual $/hour when are they going to switch me to a good server?)) it has been 8 hours lol
I admire you and all those girls grinding hard for hours and money, it's a real skill getting money out of those guys and so much psychology, is not easy feat!!
bigbum
07-20-2021, 12:12 PM
I had him earlier today.
I said I was flattered that he assumed my parents were still alive ;D
it said I was funny (realising it had bitten off more than it could spew ) and shuffled back from whence it came. ::)
omg haha. seems this guy is making his rounds.
these loosers just go room to room all day long.
how boring their life must be
bigbum
07-20-2021, 12:14 PM
I had this guy in my room. I just laughed at him, he soon left. Not getting the response he wants spoils his fun.
what gets me is that even here on this forum so many of you ladies already know this freak.
bigbum
07-20-2021, 12:16 PM
i had that "do your parents know..." guy earlier this month.
i laughed because i always say hello and say everyone's name out loud when they come into the room. it makes for funny banter. anyway he came into free chat and said something like "hey whore has your mom disowned you yet?"
my response was something like "sorry dude both my parents are dead, but thanks for the reminder. also, just want to let you know your grammar sucks. it's do your parents know what_YOU'RE_doing, dumbass."
not true about my parents, but a bunch of people in my room know me well enough to know i was joking and they all lol'd and ganged up on the guy and called him a douche, so he basically wrote "stupid bitch" and then left and never bugged me again. it was pretty great. wouldn't necessarily recommend this tactic if you're not good with trolling guys back, particularly with dark humor, or don't have an army of free chat guys to back you up. worked for me though. sorry he was such a dick to you. what a pathetic turd.
i think he hated me more than the usual SM girl, because i had blocked him instantly upon reading the user name.
that must have triggered him because there was no time for reaction. and let's be real he craves attention.
gbjenna
07-20-2021, 12:34 PM
just looking now! did you get the size small? is the soft one still firm enough to for penetration? i have some which are too bendy they wont go in lol
I think mine were are like 6inches/5 or 5.5 insertable! So not big but they don’t look small on camera. If that makes sense lol. Yes the soft ones are firm enough for penetration, I was indecisive about the soft or medium for the same reason but they’re literally perfect.
I can message you the links to the ones I bought if you like x