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Marina Starr
04-30-2013, 09:17 PM
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^...and you can thank Camming Connection for a lot of that behavior
Nina_Den
05-01-2013, 03:24 AM
Hello, ladies! MFC dropout and a SW newbie here (been lurking around forever, though, and I adore you). :drum:
So, I am currently in the process of signing up to SM. I have already successfully submitted my Account Holder Information and Payee Information, but whenever I try to submit the Streamate Agreement, I am being redirected to the Requirements page and the agreement is being listed as "not submitted".
The agreement looks like this on my browser:
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Which "submit" button are they reffering to? Upon finishing everything (accepting the TOS, date of birth and full legal name) I click on the "Done" button.
Am I doing something wrong?
Thank you for your help and I'm thrilled to be a part of this community!
kittykrane
05-01-2013, 04:36 AM
Tuesday has always been slow for whatever reasons. I think most girls would agree!
I was busy on tuesday afternoon this week. And I was doing all PVT/EXC...Told the guys I am not wasting time starting GS anymore if they are just going to sit there for the entire timer duration not pledging. If they want it that bad, now they have to tip me to START a timer, just so it's not a total waste for me and they still have to pledge the minimum to join the show. IT still works out cheaper for them than a PVT/EXC, but they don't think like that, do they? So they end up taking me PVT, EXCL, or leaving the room.
justanothercamgirl
05-01-2013, 05:16 AM
Believe or not, Wednesday is my second best day!!!
Missymissdemeanour
05-01-2013, 05:50 AM
Believe or not, Wednesday is my second best day!!!
You just have to be different don't you? ;) Love you really xxx
justanothercamgirl
05-01-2013, 06:11 AM
You just have to be different don't you? ;) Love you really xxx
I don't have to be different, it is just a sad fact I always end up that way. (*laughs*)
Love you lots too.
justanothercamgirl
05-01-2013, 06:31 AM
I just had someone come in the last 30 seconds of $1 gold show and pledge $100.00!!!
I am sure it was an accident. I was unable to cancel the money to give them their money back because as soon as I got over the shock of hearing the 'angels from heaven' song the show was over.
Um, now what?
kittykrane
05-01-2013, 06:34 AM
^^^^ LOL I wonder if he realized he did that?
Oh well...that's what happens when the blood is flowing to the other head :)
justanothercamgirl
05-01-2013, 06:52 AM
^^^^ LOL I wonder if he realized he did that?
Oh well...that's what happens when the blood is flowing to the other head :)
I am just wondering if it is an actual mistake and not a charge back if they are going to take the money way.
Has anything like this happened to anyone else before?
VoluptiousBriadda
05-01-2013, 11:41 AM
I just had someone come in the last 30 seconds of $1 gold show and pledge $100.00!!!
I am sure it was an accident. I was unable to cancel the money to give them their money back because as soon as I got over the shock of hearing the 'angels from heaven' song the show was over.
Um, now what?
Girl,fuck cancelling! What about if he was really giving you that money? I would NEVER return their money unless the site MADE me.
I wouldn't be so sure that it was an accident.Ive been in several models rooms,just in free chat, and have witnessed guys coming in,tipping $100 GOLD and then leaving like 2 sec later without even going private.Random guys too - and these werent first row girls either (since most would assume shit like that only happens to them)
Did he come back into your room and say it was a mistake? Im gonna assume most guys would have immediately went back into your room in a panic,explained it was a mistake and then begged you to give them a refund.If he didnt come back in,I'm thinking theres a fair chance that it WASNT an accident.Let us know what happens! SM is supposed to cover us from chargebacks. I remember that one incident with...was it Isobel? not too long ago but I havent seen anything about any chick having a chargeback-like incident on SM except for her.
kittykrane
05-01-2013, 11:46 AM
Actually, I once had someone pitch in 100 in the last few minutes of my countdown. He didn't even stay for the GOLDSHOW. Maybe there are just camangels out there :). One of them visited me today after I made $5 off a goldshow..HE stayed over an hour in private with me.... most of it just talking...
justanothercamgirl
05-01-2013, 12:29 PM
Girl,fuck cancelling! What about if he was really giving you that money? I would NEVER return their money unless the site MADE me.
I wouldn't be so sure that it was an accident.Ive been in several models rooms,just in free chat, and have witnessed guys coming in,tipping $100 GOLD and then leaving like 2 sec later without even going private.Random guys too - and these werent first row girls either (since most would assume shit like that only happens to them)
Did he come back into your room and say it was a mistake? Im gonna assume most guys would have immediately went back into your room in a panic,explained it was a mistake and then begged you to give them a refund.If he didnt come back in,I'm thinking theres a fair chance that it WASNT an accident.Let us know what happens! SM is supposed to cover us from chargebacks. I remember that one incident with...was it Isobel? not too long ago but I havent seen anything about any chick having a chargeback-like incident on SM except for her.
You are 100% right.
He never came back and said anything.
You've made me a believer, VoluptiousBriadda. I do believe in cam angels!
Everytime an angel song bell rings.......a camgirl gets her wings. Erm, uh. I mean gets to log off early. ;)
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view2/3171452/it-s-a-wonderful-life-wink-o.gif (http://gifsoup.com/view/3171452/it-s-a-wonderful-life-wink.html)
Missymissdemeanour
05-01-2013, 01:09 PM
I just had someone come in the last 30 seconds of $1 gold show and pledge $100.00!!!
I am sure it was an accident. I was unable to cancel the money to give them their money back because as soon as I got over the shock of hearing the 'angels from heaven' song the show was over.
Um, now what?
Way to go JAC! So happy for you am doing a little cam girl dance :). You gotta believe in yourself hunni, you rock!
bootiebabe
05-01-2013, 01:17 PM
Hi Girls,
I got a customer account on sm today used it once then logged back in and it said there is a problem with my account - is this due to me working on there?
Surely your allowed a customer account and work there too?
kittykrane
05-01-2013, 01:54 PM
^^^^ Yes..they did the same to me. JUst call CS and they will verify you are a model and then unblock your customer account.
justanothercamgirl
05-01-2013, 04:03 PM
Does anyone know what's going on with the site today? When I tried to look at it using chrome, there were all sorts of issues. Firefox has annoying pop ups all over. A lot of my customers were complaining about it.
What time were you on?
I had no problems today but yesterday was a whole other story.
justanothercamgirl
05-01-2013, 04:08 PM
I was just on. I'm streaming just fine from my end. Half of the guys are having no issues, but the other half either can't see me or hear me.
I didn't have that today but I had that yesterday.
I had a guy who I had to log back on for several times (trying to make a private show work with me) because he couldn't hear me. I check everything to do with sound on my side and it wasn't my issue for sure.
Not to mention the fact it magically started working after the 4th hard reboot I did!
VoluptiousBriadda
05-01-2013, 04:13 PM
You are 100% right.
He never came back and said anything.
You've made me a believer, VoluptiousBriadda. I do believe in cam angels!
Everytime an angel song bell rings.......a camgirl gets her wings. Erm, uh. I mean gets to log off early. ;)
http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view2/3171452/it-s-a-wonderful-life-wink-o.gif (http://gifsoup.com/view/3171452/it-s-a-wonderful-life-wink.html)
LMAO! Yay for getting to rest and log off early and (hopefully) not having to push yourself as hard this wk as you have been lately! Im so happy for you girl,how exciting!!
I STILL havent received a $100 tip yet (or a tip anywhere near that amount yet honestly) but I cant WAIT to hear that sound!! I bet I'll cream my sexy big girl panties for REAL when it happens (I dont orgasm on cam.EVER.My clit clams up and turns to steel the sec I press start show) Hell Im already rubbing my nips just *thinking* about that allegedly magical sound.
I wanna google what it sounds like,Im dying to know, but then I'm like "NO!NOO! *bitch slaps self* Dont you DARE ho,thats cheating!!!"
Cam_Model_Jess
05-01-2013, 04:31 PM
It's the same sound as when you get a $50 tip, unfortunately. But still really awesome sound to hear.
shysara79
05-01-2013, 06:34 PM
^...and you can thank Camming Connection for a lot of that behavior
Well I agree and not to mention.... Which I just found out recently that the chat feature on SW is not just models. Btw. I need to get in verified. It's on my to do list !
justanothercamgirl
05-01-2013, 07:51 PM
It's the same sound as when you get a $50 tip, unfortunately. But still really awesome sound to hear.
I think the sound is on $30 too?
I am not so sure. I could of swore it was. I figured you'd know better than me.
XAnastasiaX
05-01-2013, 08:28 PM
The different sound is on anything over 20 dollars in GOLD. There isn't a special sound over 100 GOLD but damn is it nice to get. I remember my 300 GOLD tip one time and it was on TV too :D I screen shoted it because I teared up that was so nice. I never do GOLD shows so it was awesome that when I tried that one my super amazing regular was like you know what here's a big ass tip to make you feel better after trying this 3 times!
Cam_Model_Jess
05-01-2013, 08:29 PM
I think it's the same sound as even for $20, if I remember right. And no, I wouldn't know better than you, JAC. We've talked about this, lady. You've probably gotten just as many tips as I. ;)
Edit to Add: Anastasia, I just saw your post
justanothercamgirl
05-01-2013, 09:32 PM
I think it's the same sound as even for $20, if I remember right. And no, I wouldn't know better than you, JAC. We've talked about this, lady. You've probably gotten just as many tips as I. ;)
Edit to Add: Anastasia, I just saw your post
I mean, you'd know better than me because your memory is epic!
I'd bring mine back, if the warranty hadn't expired on it. ;)
justanothercamgirl
05-01-2013, 09:34 PM
I remember my 300 GOLD tip one time and it was on TV too :D I screen shoted it because I teared up that was so nice.
$300? That is fantastic! I am so happy for you. I'd tear up too. :)
VoluptiousBriadda
05-01-2013, 10:54 PM
I have YET to hear it bc all of my guys are either cheap asses who think a big tip is like 5 GOLD or the ones that pay well will tip in increments of like 5 and 10 GOLD. I charge 15 for a tit flash but I'm upping that shit to 20 just so I can hear that goddamned sound! Thanks ladies! }:D
*I'd straight up cry like a little bitch if someone ever tipped me $300 GOLD.And I mean like UGLY face crying,clearing the entire ROOM crying,not sweet,aww look how cute she is crying! Then Id probably beat myself up the next 8 mths for dropping the ball lol.
kittykrane
05-02-2013, 07:07 AM
I only occasionally offer goldshows and I hardly EVER get a big tipper ( for me that's 25+). So I'm changing up my goldshows rules. I'm taking them AWAY and will only do them on one condition> A big tipper throws it down to JUST TO START THE PRESHOW, so I can make my minimum upfront. Then with whoever joins on top, I"ll still do the show on the first try. Otherwise it's a waste of time for me, pretty much every time, seriously..I used to easily hit 100+ almost every time...now I'm lucky to get 30 GOLD..it's just not worth it at that point. I"m not that desperate.
Snowy0Star
05-02-2013, 07:11 AM
I run a goldshow and I hardly EVER get a big tipper (I'm talking someone who pitches in 50 or more). Just the bare minimum, maybe a few extra bucks. Thing is, these guys don't get that either a) we need them to pledge more than the minimum or b) we need a few high tippers. So I'm changing up my goldshows rules. I'm taking them AWAY and will only do them on one condition> A big tipper throws it down to start the timer/make my minimum upfront to do the show and then I'll do it. Otherwise it's a waste of time for me, pretty much every time. I can make more in pvt/exc and I'm giving those up just to collect 20 GOLD with a roomful of 20-30 perfectly capable tippers??? Screw that!
I dont get it u want a big tip in free chat without u starting the gold show then have the other guys tip u the little bits for the actual gold show countdown?
Cam_Model_Jess
05-02-2013, 07:16 AM
^There are quite a few girls who do that. Guys will request gold shows (pretend they're interested) just to see what the girl is willing to do in the countdown then won't tip in. The girl wastes a bunch of time. So some ladies are telling the guys there's a minimum tip just for her to start the countdown. That way she's not losing money while trying to get the show started.
Snowy0Star
05-02-2013, 07:18 AM
^There are quite a few girls who do that. Guys will request gold shows (pretend they're interested) just to see what the girl is willing to do in the countdown then won't tip in. The girl wastes a bunch of time. So some ladies are telling the guys there's a minimum tip just for her to start the countdown. That way she's not losing money while trying to get the show started.
I like that idea just confirming that was what it was : P
kittykrane
05-02-2013, 07:32 AM
^^^^ yup.
I cannot tell you how many times I have offered GOLDSHOWS and I have a line of guys wanting to go pvt/exc. I hardly ever hit the G/S goal (usually 60-100 gold..that's NOT high)..Heck, I can't even hit the minimum I'd do it for. By then, my regulars are gone & I just lost money because of these fellas either jerking off for free or hesitating over whether or not they can afford a few gold for a show. If they are serious about wanting one, they need to show me HOW serious they are by committing to it. I mean, if some gals can get guys to throw down big amounts during the countdown, why can't they do it just to START a countdown, then throw down a few extra just to reserve their spot?
Case and point yesterday. I tried a goldshow...3 GOLD for 7 minutes..5 GUYS JOINED...not one was a high tipper. I did the show anyhow (mild show) because i am not going to restart the timer over and over, hoping to get more. After the show, someone asked for another G/S I said no. Then one of my old regulars takes me EXC for a long time. I made over $150 on my show with him...Ummm, sorry, but GOLDSHOWS are not my prioirity.
kittykrane
05-02-2013, 07:35 AM
I even tried the short timer, short gold show/take what you can get thing..Pffft...I still could have made more in an Exclusive.
kittykrane
05-02-2013, 07:45 AM
^There are quite a few girls who do that. Guys will request gold shows (pretend they're interested) just to see what the girl is willing to do in the countdown then won't tip in. The girl wastes a bunch of time. So some ladies are telling the guys there's a minimum tip just for her to start the countdown. That way she's not losing money while trying to get the show started.
I've seen those gals do it. I don't blame them. These guys have to be trained! Why should we start timers over and over and over again? I'm not taking my chances with lady luck.
There was this one guy who always asked for Goldshows in which I offered a stocking fetish, which apparently he loves. Mind you, he only joined ONE Of them. Well every time I was online, he would come in asking me to do that type of show again, but was he ever the first one to pledge. NO. And even if I did the show, he wouldn't even join!!!! WTF??? I caught on to his little game and banned his ass. I mean, all he wanted to do was watch me wear the stockings in free chat! That was enough for him, he didn't need to rejoin the show. .
I'm positive that 98% of them will only ask for a goldshow so they can get flashes of tits, gals sucking on toys, simulating fucking, etc..so they don't have to pay for a show. I want the 2% who is serious and shows me upfront that he is!
PrincessLuna
05-02-2013, 07:59 AM
Guys who ask for a gold show in my room are required to be one of the first tippers, or they get banned. I always start the gold show and then click on "ban" under their name so that the pop up comes up. I then give them like 30 seconds to pledge, then give them a 10 second warning. If they don't tip, or leave, they're banned (if they leave the room before you hit the ban button then you need to click "ban from sending messages" and then go to your dashboard to ban them from the room).
justanothercamgirl
05-02-2013, 09:18 AM
I only occasionally offer goldshows and I hardly EVER get a big tipper ( for me that's 25+). So I'm changing up my goldshows rules. I'm taking them AWAY and will only do them on one condition> A big tipper throws it down to JUST TO START THE PRESHOW, so I can make my minimum upfront. Then with whoever joins on top, I"ll still do the show on the first try. Otherwise it's a waste of time for me, pretty much every time, seriously..I used to easily hit 100+ almost every time...now I'm lucky to get 30 GOLD..it's just not worth it at that point. I"m not that desperate.
That is kind of what I do now. But, I just asked them for $1 to show they are commited to me doing a gold show.
You'd be suprised how often most of the time guys won't even put in $1 AFTER asking for a gold show.
sexyred
05-02-2013, 09:47 AM
I'm pretty positive it's $25 GOLD for the sound.
I think it's the same sound as even for $20, if I remember right. And no, I wouldn't know better than you, JAC. We've talked about this, lady. You've probably gotten just as many tips as I. ;)
Edit to Add: Anastasia, I just saw your post
LittleLexy
05-02-2013, 11:39 AM
This happened to me one time about 8 months ago. I had a guy come into my free chat and tip me 100.00...I was speechless and he also left. LOL
Girl,fuck cancelling! What about if he was really giving you that money? I would NEVER return their money unless the site MADE me.
I wouldn't be so sure that it was an accident.Ive been in several models rooms,just in free chat, and have witnessed guys coming in,tipping $100 GOLD and then leaving like 2 sec later without even going private.Random guys too - and these werent first row girls either (since most would assume shit like that only happens to them)
Did he come back into your room and say it was a mistake? Im gonna assume most guys would have immediately went back into your room in a panic,explained it was a mistake and then begged you to give them a refund.If he didnt come back in,I'm thinking theres a fair chance that it WASNT an accident.Let us know what happens! SM is supposed to cover us from chargebacks. I remember that one incident with...was it Isobel? not too long ago but I havent seen anything about any chick having a chargeback-like incident on SM except for her.
LittleLexy
05-02-2013, 11:49 AM
I despise gold shows! I refuse to give all these guys a show before the actual show. Most of the ones I get want that..cheap fucks! I had a guy come in yesterday asking for a gold show. I told him I hate them, they hardly ever work out. He said "Oh baby I'm in it" I ignored him then he went on to say if I would start one and do some booty clapping I would make my goal. I'm like what the fuckever dude! I told him No again..in a bitchy way. Then I said "I'm not giving you guys a free show just to make the show. Fuck that..I'm not that desperate for money and I refuse to beg for tips"
I just can't lower myself to show off for them when there is no guarantee of the show working out. It pisses me off and puts me in a BAD mood. I really would like to find a way to make it work out for me though. To all the ladies who work the gold shows with success and who don't end up wanting to stick needles through these guys eyeballs....Your amazing and kick ass!
LittleLexy
05-02-2013, 11:57 AM
Oh good idea...I will keep this in mind and try it
I only occasionally offer goldshows and I hardly EVER get a big tipper ( for me that's 25+). So I'm changing up my goldshows rules. I'm taking them AWAY and will only do them on one condition> A big tipper throws it down to JUST TO START THE PRESHOW, so I can make my minimum upfront. Then with whoever joins on top, I"ll still do the show on the first try. Otherwise it's a waste of time for me, pretty much every time, seriously..I used to easily hit 100+ almost every time...now I'm lucky to get 30 GOLD..it's just not worth it at that point. I"m not that desperate.
DoodlebugBites
05-02-2013, 04:18 PM
Ugh I feel so stupid I was in a TV gold show and a custie with no audio kept asking for things. Since I couldn't type back and since no one else was saying anything I tried to accomodate a couple of No Audio's requests. He wanted four fingers which I really cannot do but was trying to sort of fake it when a big producer message came up that said NO FISTING. I wanted to die, I had no idea that four fingers were considered fisting and that it was not OK in a TV show. I feel bad because there is only one producer that seems to ask me for shows so I don't want to piss him/her off especially since it was such a boon on a slow day like today. Ughhhh. JE NE FIST PAS. Whatever. /rantover
Missymissdemeanour
05-02-2013, 04:35 PM
Yaaayyyy I heard the angels tonight! lol 2 x $25 during a long exc!
~Carmen~
05-02-2013, 04:51 PM
Ugh I feel so stupid I was in a TV gold show and a custie with no audio kept asking for things. Since I couldn't type back and since no one else was saying anything I tried to accomodate a couple of No Audio's requests. He wanted four fingers which I really cannot do but was trying to sort of fake it when a big producer message came up that said NO FISTING. I wanted to die, I had no idea that four fingers were considered fisting and that it was not OK in a TV show. I feel bad because there is only one producer that seems to ask me for shows so I don't want to piss him/her off especially since it was such a boon on a slow day like today. Ughhhh. JE NE FIST PAS. Whatever. /rantover
Ugg that sucks but I wouldn't worry. I've broken rules in those before without meaning to. It makes you feel like a kid being scolded doesn't it? lol
DoodlebugBites
05-02-2013, 05:06 PM
It makes you feel like a kid being scolded doesn't it? lol
It really does, and I couldn't get to the keyboard to cancel out of the pop-up so I had to look at the warning the rest of the show. It was almost over but still. Oh well, I still got the money and I learned something new, LOL!
justanothercamgirl
05-02-2013, 06:19 PM
Yaaayyyy I heard the angels tonight! lol 2 x $25 during a long exc!
I knew cam angels exisited!
I am so glad they visited you today Missy. :)
justanothercamgirl
05-02-2013, 06:21 PM
It really does, and I couldn't get to the keyboard to cancel out of the pop-up so I had to look at the warning the rest of the show. It was almost over but still. Oh well, I still got the money and I learned something new, LOL!
It is part of the reason I won't do a TV Gold Show. I hate being told what to do.
(Kind of makes you wonder why on god's green earth I am a camgirl, huh? :D )
Cam_Model_Jess
05-02-2013, 07:42 PM
/:OI know this is kind of beside the point, but since when is 4 fingers "fisting"?
DoodlebugBites
05-02-2013, 07:48 PM
/:OI know this is kind of beside the point, but since when is 4 fingers "fisting"?
That was total news to me, glad I am not the only one.
PrincessLuna
05-02-2013, 08:17 PM
/:OI know this is kind of beside the point, but since when is 4 fingers "fisting"?
I absolutely swear that I've read it before on SM but I'm having trouble finding at the moment.
Marina Starr
05-02-2013, 08:18 PM
Fisting to me is 2 fingers, LMFAO!
CanadianRuby
05-02-2013, 10:29 PM
Is it weird I go and watch some of the count downs for gold shows now that I am a cam girl?
I like to see how you guys work it on streamate, some of you guys are just AMAZING at handling the room. Like, just brilliant.
I kind of want to check out streamate but that's a pretty big step >.< I'd probably get a lot more money though.