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Marina Starr
08-06-2021, 10:24 AM
I've blocked guys in pvt/exclusive countless times and no regrets!
One of my biggest pet peeves is when guys coming in and out of my room, dragging their asses then finally enter pvt/exclusive and start barking orders right away such as 'get naked', 'strip'.
Who the fuck do they think they're talking to?! I don't take orders like that. I don't even have the fucking patience to tell them to ask nicely. I just block away.
55755
argh, just blocked a paying viewer in exclusive. I should be more patient I guess but he kept pushing for a meeting telling me he was going to get a flight for me and the last straw is when he pasted in his phone number. plus he was kind of an ass, but man I hate that.
Not to mention if it can get the site in trouble with fosta/sesta WHY are they allowed to paste in phone numbers? I can't imagine why we need a phone number format in a damn sex chat site when there is already a phone feature provided.
Can't say I'm sorry to see him go though. He was irritating as hell.
~Carmen~
08-06-2021, 02:25 PM
someone had recently posted a question about uploading videos on Streamate and it starting, then disappearing. I didn't think anything about it, because it wasn't happening to me.
It's happening today. I've tried twice and it will start, then disappear. NO upload.
Any answers to that??
I like to add a video a week ;-(
What worked for me was to refresh the page anytime it disappears or gets hung up. Good luck!
fetishqueen
08-06-2021, 02:32 PM
Has anyone in the UK received their payment/wire email yet, I haven't but it's also not showing in my SM account.
Yes I had mine as normal, Worldpay email about 9.30am then payment early afternoon. Do you have a minimum payout set up or anything, I have it set so it only pays above a certain amount so I don't get payouts each week. If there is no reason why they haven't sent the payment you need to get in touch with them.
Strawberryblonde
08-06-2021, 02:52 PM
Yes I had mine as normal, Worldpay email about 9.30am then payment early afternoon. Do you have a minimum payout set up or anything, I have it set so it only pays above a certain amount so I don't get payouts each week. If there is no reason why they haven't sent the payment you need to get in touch with them.
Yes I reached the minimum I set I've emailed Liz. Liz replied a glitch showed my account as on hold, they'll send the payment today.
laurielegs
08-06-2021, 04:28 PM
I was going to post about this earlier this week! If you havent blocked someone in a exclusive yet, you are missing out!!! Its a great feeling to choose yourself over a small amount of money for a horrible experience.
hahhah you know I was thinking how surprised my viewer must be when I blocked him while paying close to $10 per minute to interact with me. I'm sure he thought that entitled him to push boundaries including risking me being banned for talking about meeting him. I made sure to report him to the site too to protect my own account. I added a note to support to consider blocking phone numbers. Other sites do. I don't think viewers need the ability to type in 7 numbers in a row for any reason.
Maybe he will think twice next time he continues pushing after a woman tells him a firm no.
everythingiscake
08-06-2021, 04:58 PM
Is it awfully slow for everyone else this week? No traffic and very few shows.
Genoveve
08-06-2021, 07:29 PM
hahhah you know I was thinking how surprised my viewer must be when I blocked him while paying close to $10 per minute to interact with me. I'm sure he thought that entitled him to push boundaries including risking me being banned for talking about meeting him. I made sure to report him to the site too to protect my own account. I added a note to support to consider blocking phone numbers. Other sites do. I don't think viewers need the ability to type in 7 numbers in a row for any reason.
Maybe he will think twice next time he continues pushing after a woman tells him a firm no.
I would have just pretended I couldn't see it. You know how when they type certain things that are disallowed it won't show up to us even though it shows that they sent it on their end? Just don't acknowledge it and then when he is like "Did you save it?" Be like "Save what?" and when he explains that he sent his number say nothing is showing and that numbers must be something that is filtered out. And believe me once you do that then they'll type:
5
5
5
8
3
1
4
2
6
8
or "five five five eight three one four two six eight" or "fiiiive fiiiiive fiiiive ate threeee won for too sex ate" and just keep acting like you can't see it and the site is ahead of such attempts. I mean the site clearly states that sharing contact info isn't allowed so I don't feel like it's a stretch. And report them.
Erika_Xstacy
08-06-2021, 07:49 PM
i don't want to cam this weekend but i will
i lost my lucky top and its been semi slow all week for me. i have had that top everyday on cam wearing it, i washed it once in 8 months lol
reordered a few more the exact same. I bet as soon as they come in the lucky top will appear.
lil 5 dollar top
a lot of regulars not talking which is alarming from these guys
Is it awfully slow for everyone else this week? No traffic and very few shows.
Yes, definitely. I m working less as well. Taking time off now which it's more likely to be the slowest month in the year. Summer, no lockdown....at least IMHO even it's v fun to earn money lolololol
MissAdriana
08-07-2021, 09:06 AM
Big influx ofusers rating 4s. It's always the guys I try to say do you like this or that, they never respond. How am I supposed to give you a 5 star show if you don't tell me what you want? And I question whether or not I want to even do a show for them ever again. If you give me nothing to work with and only rate me a 4.. the earnings take a hit - is it even worth it to do show for low ratings? Idont know anymore
emkato
08-07-2021, 10:17 AM
Is it awfully slow for everyone else this week? No traffic and very few shows.
I have just come to expect every week to be this way until it eventually... isn't anymore lol. Its been dragging for what feels like forever.
tashiepuck
08-07-2021, 12:05 PM
This is the second week in a row where I have gotten my payment late... I usually always get it on the Friday but last week I got it on the Tuesday, and this week still has not showed up. I wonder who's slacking on their end. This sucks !
emkato
08-07-2021, 01:23 PM
Today has been one of the slowest for me thus far but I stayed on and someone new to my chat room tipped $50 for Goddess Appreciation out of nowhere (I have seen other girls on here talk about having that on their tip menu so I added it as well, I thought why not)
he proceeds to take me into an exclusive show. it lasted a good while and he said he has to go, I tell him I undertsand. He then proceeds to ask me not once, but twice if I would be down to do this "In real life" and both times I simply said "I cannot talk about that" just to keep it short and sweet. so he apologized, said thanks for the show, and left.
WHYYY did he have to spoil my first real $$$ earnings of the day with his foolish questions?? blegh.
random stripper
08-07-2021, 02:25 PM
Ok can you get in trouble for talking about meeting them even if you are not serious and just want them to stay more minutes in your show to collect more $$$?
random stripper
08-07-2021, 04:12 PM
It's fucking dead for me today, but I cussed everyone out and it seemed to help a bit. I recommend this approach :) But seriously a lot of POS SOB troll fucks online tonight. blocking a lot more than usual. Glad I am not online much longer at all.
laurielegs
08-07-2021, 07:34 PM
Ok can you get in trouble for talking about meeting them even if you are not serious and just want them to stay more minutes in your show to collect more $$$?
Yes you can get suspended or permanently banned for that due to Fosta/Sesta laws. It could get the whole site shut down.
Strawberryblonde
08-07-2021, 10:53 PM
Yes you can get suspended or permanently banned for that due to Fosta/Sesta laws. It could get the whole site shut down.
Is it OK to turn it a fantasy roleplay about meeting?
Also is it against SM rules for customers to have their email or SM name as their nickname?
Marina Starr
08-08-2021, 05:57 AM
It is NOT okay. It's against the rules to talk about meeting in any shape or form.
It is also against the rules for guys to have their personal info as their screen names. However, you are safe as long as you don't ask for their emails, phone numbers etc.
Is it OK to turn it a fantasy roleplay about meeting?
Also is it against SM rules for customers to have their email or SM name as their nickname?
Strawberryblonde
08-08-2021, 06:16 AM
It is NOT okay. It's against the rules to talk about meeting in any shape or form.
It is also against the rules for guys to have their personal info as their screen names. However, you are safe as long as you don't ask for their emails, phone numbers etc.
As soon as I see their personal info I'm on my guard, it might not even be theirs but that is not the point.
I do have a 'This is a cam site' line.
ChristieX
08-08-2021, 07:36 AM
Well I've been unable to cam for the past month and looks like another month to come. I broke my foot and have 2 plates and 8 pins in. Started on a knee length cast and now onto a knee length "ski boot".
I can't see any way I can hide this, I cam from a reclining desk chair so might just be able to keep legs open and boot out of site but no way I can stand up or turn around.
Any suggestions would be most helpful.
everythingiscake
08-08-2021, 07:46 AM
Well I've been unable to cam for the past month and looks like another month to come. I broke my foot and have 2 plates and 8 pins in. Started on a knee length cast and now onto a knee length "ski boot".
I can't see any way I can hide this, I can from a reclining desk chair so might just be able to keep legs open and boot out of site but no way I can stand up or turn around.
Any suggestions would be most helpful.
I wouldn't hide it! Casts and broken bones is a real fetish. You can show it off and work that angle or just do whatever regular shows you can and most users won't care you have a boot on.
Film fetish clips too! Take advantage of the situation.
Well I've been unable to cam for the past month and looks like another month to come. I broke my foot and have 2 plates and 8 pins in. Started on a knee length cast and now onto a knee length "ski boot".
I can't see any way I can hide this, I cam from a reclining desk chair so might just be able to keep legs open and boot out of site but no way I can stand up or turn around.
Any suggestions would be most helpful.
Try try. Some just want a blow job w dildo or just boobs. I would keep going with this. At least you can potentially earn something instead nothing to do. X
gbjenna
08-08-2021, 10:17 AM
Well I've been unable to cam for the past month and looks like another month to come. I broke my foot and have 2 plates and 8 pins in. Started on a knee length cast and now onto a knee length "ski boot".
I can't see any way I can hide this, I cam from a reclining desk chair so might just be able to keep legs open and boot out of site but no way I can stand up or turn around.
Any suggestions would be most helpful.
I'm sure there's got to be some guys white knight types floating around who would love to come to your aid aswell? If you can subtly play that angle a bit, if you're not the type to milk it!
whysky
08-08-2021, 10:34 AM
It is NOT okay. It's against the rules to talk about meeting in any shape or form.
It is also against the rules for guys to have their personal info as their screen names. However, you are safe as long as you don't ask for their emails, phone numbers etc.
The less camgirls use the "we could meet" as a fantasy to get more money, the less they will expect it. Train the men for the behavior we want. One lady might get more $ for playing the fantasy, but that could lead to another camgirl getting harrassed, triggered or banned cause that guy thinks he can talk about stuff that is against the rules and makes most cam people uncomfortable. Think of the consequences for other camgirls and even the whole industry, if one is ever tempted to wiggle the rules.
edited to say i wasnt replying directly to the quote, just used it to reference the thread!
~Carmen~
08-08-2021, 01:11 PM
Well I've been unable to cam for the past month and looks like another month to come. I broke my foot and have 2 plates and 8 pins in. Started on a knee length cast and now onto a knee length "ski boot".
I can't see any way I can hide this, I cam from a reclining desk chair so might just be able to keep legs open and boot out of site but no way I can stand up or turn around.
Any suggestions would be most helpful.
I'm sorry that happened to you!
I would just tell them your limits. I have had limits from health problems many times and most guys are very understanding.
anonamiss
08-08-2021, 02:04 PM
Well I've been unable to cam for the past month and looks like another month to come. I broke my foot and have 2 plates and 8 pins in. Started on a knee length cast and now onto a knee length "ski boot".
I can't see any way I can hide this, I cam from a reclining desk chair so might just be able to keep legs open and boot out of site but no way I can stand up or turn around.
Any suggestions would be most helpful.
i've broken a foot and cammed with a knee-length boot before. at the right angle, a lot of guys didn't even notice (i was on a bed, with my back propped up nearly 90 degrees with pillows, and my leg/foot laying flat or slightly elevated on the bed or right over the edge). but i didn't intentionally hide it, in fact i let everyone know and milked it for extra sympathy tips and easier shows. not sure what your normal cam style is but there's plenty you can still do. closeups, BJs, external vibrators if you can't comfortably penetrate yourself, etc. and certainly you still could do a lot of talk-heavy/fetish/domme shows like SPH, JOI, etc if that's your thing. personally i would put it in my topic or make sure guys are aware of it before you accept a show. if you do a show with customers who already know you're injured and not able to do certain things, that is going to make it way more pleasant/easier for you.
Genoveve
08-08-2021, 02:20 PM
I don't know what kind of shows you tend to do Christie but if you do the regular vanilla stuff I could think of a zillion ways to work with angles to make camming from a bed to work without ever having to get up off the bed. Also I've never had to wear any kind of cast, but could you cover it with these? https://www.etsy.com/listing/537946430/fursohappy-vibrant-white-faux-fur-gogo?gpla=1&gao=1&&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=shopping_us_halloween_Accessories&utm_custom1=_k_CjwKCAjwgb6IBhAREiwAgMYKRlNMhM3SFx6 n5pSbjufA91DEqFQC6tuZkGTcQAzuHwW7xYwlYU3sVhoCC7kQA vD_BwE_k_&utm_content=go_1707961854_69268682609_331635230346 _aud-301856855998:pla-294930372950_c__537946430_125844566&utm_custom2=1707961854&gclid=CjwKCAjwgb6IBhAREiwAgMYKRlNMhM3SFx6n5pSbjufA 91DEqFQC6tuZkGTcQAzuHwW7xYwlYU3sVhoCC7kQAvD_BwE
euro_princess
08-08-2021, 04:48 PM
Is it OK to turn it a fantasy roleplay about meeting?
Also is it against SM rules for customers to have their email or SM name as their nickname?
My 2 cents. Don’t waste your time with such clients. If people are delusional in thinking an online girl will ever meet them or do anything remotely special just cause they ask for it, then ghost them. Not worth the time and energy! I get creeped out when guys msg me garbage (date proposal and phone no). I hate that level of entitlement! Get fucked, don’t care how hot or rich you are, I don’t wanna do it just cause you ask for it. This girl has enough anxiety! I have more respect for guys that understand my job and get to the point, masturbating. Period!
Main issue I see is the gateway. This sort of fantasy and talk sets a bad example for your customer. Next time he will think is cool moving to the next level.
I dumped a lot of regulars just for this reason. At some point, they get too comfy into thinking they are entitled to ask for more and I honestly put my mental health first. Yeah, money is great, but burning out cause of being pressured into doing something uncomfortable and against the rules is def not on my list. I would rather take a dildo in my throat and call it a day!
Aquamarin3
08-08-2021, 04:59 PM
I totally met my husband on Streamate. He took me into an exclusive, and eventually found my OnlyFans. Oops. ;D:shhh:
Best exclusive ever! He is the man of my dreams.
Luci Fer
08-08-2021, 09:40 PM
I totally met my husband on Streamate. He took me into an exclusive, and eventually found my OnlyFans. Oops. ;D:shhh:
Best exclusive ever! He is the man of my dreams.
wow! ;D I thought it happened only in the earlier era of camming. So funny!
Horny
08-09-2021, 04:44 AM
Well I've been unable to cam for the past month and looks like another month to come. I broke my foot and have 2 plates and 8 pins in. Started on a knee length cast and now onto a knee length "ski boot".
I can't see any way I can hide this, I cam from a reclining desk chair so might just be able to keep legs open and boot out of site but no way I can stand up or turn around.
Any suggestions would be most helpful.
I am currently camming in a boot I dont attempt to hide it
SapphireXO
08-09-2021, 10:28 AM
Well I've been unable to cam for the past month and looks like another month to come. I broke my foot and have 2 plates and 8 pins in. Started on a knee length cast and now onto a knee length "ski boot".
I can't see any way I can hide this, I cam from a reclining desk chair so might just be able to keep legs open and boot out of site but no way I can stand up or turn around.
Any suggestions would be most helpful.
Back in Jan 2018, when I JUST CAME BACK TO CAMMING, I had bilateral foot surgery as well. I cammed at the edge of a bed, sitting, with a TV watching pillow behind me. I never stood up and dangled my surgical boots off the edge of my bed. I used a bedside adjustable table for my camming desk. I never ever showed my surgical boots. It's really easy to hide this way I promise. I adjusted my weight a lot on my knees if I decided to turn around and just kept my calves at the edge of the bed still.
looklovely
08-09-2021, 01:39 PM
I used to get inbox messages forwarded to my email, and it suddenly stopped. Anyone else have this issue?
Esixxx
08-09-2021, 02:06 PM
I used to get inbox messages forwarded to my email, and it suddenly stopped. Anyone else have this issue?
Yeah I haven't had a notification in my email in quite sometime
Erika_Xstacy
08-09-2021, 02:59 PM
did anyone find out if the first member in private loses the go exclusive button permanently if another member comes in behind them?
everythingiscake
08-09-2021, 03:02 PM
did anyone find out if the first member in private loses the go exclusive button permanently if another member comes in behind them?
Yes they do lose it, confirmed to me by multiple users in the last week.
And plenty of users can't find the button at all. Not sure if this is users on mobile or the computer illiterate.
anonamiss
08-09-2021, 03:32 PM
Yes they do lose it, confirmed to me by multiple users in the last week.
And plenty of users can't find the button at all. Not sure if this is users on mobile or the computer illiterate.
that is really dumb that they lose the button when so many guys just pop in and out of private with no intent to stay and pay. ugh.
i would write into them with a suggestion to change this, but i've written in SO much feedback to them over the past year or so. it feels like any legitimate suggestions/improvements i write about just get ignored while they work on releasing new features that no one asked for. super frustrating.
emkato
08-09-2021, 04:16 PM
My 2 cents. Don’t waste your time with such clients. If people are delusional in thinking an online girl will ever meet them or do anything remotely special just cause they ask for it, then ghost them. Not worth the time and energy! I get creeped out when guys msg me garbage (date proposal and phone no). I hate that level of entitlement! Get fucked, don’t care how hot or rich you are, I don’t wanna do it just cause you ask for it. This girl has enough anxiety! I have more respect for guys that understand my job and get to the point, masturbating. Period!
Main issue I see is the gateway. This sort of fantasy and talk sets a bad example for your customer. Next time he will think is cool moving to the next level.
I dumped a lot of regulars just for this reason. At some point, they get too comfy into thinking they are entitled to ask for more and I honestly put my mental health first. Yeah, money is great, but burning out cause of being pressured into doing something uncomfortable and against the rules is def not on my list. I would rather take a dildo in my throat and call it a day!
I wish I could give thanks to this post 100 more times, well said
emkato
08-09-2021, 04:26 PM
that is really dumb that they lose the button when so many guys just pop in and out of private with no intent to stay and pay. ugh.
i would write into them with a suggestion to change this, but i've written in SO much feedback to them over the past year or so. it feels like any legitimate suggestions/improvements i write about just get ignored while they work on releasing new features that no one asked for. super frustrating.
I cannot stand the in and outs. It feels really shitty knowing these guys are taking advantage. Its so unnecessary and doesn't benefit anybody but freeloaders. they need to get rid of it, and lessen the amount of useless traffic.
Strawberryblonde
08-10-2021, 01:34 AM
My 2 cents. Don’t waste your time with such clients. If people are delusional in thinking an online girl will ever meet them or do anything remotely special just cause they ask for it, then ghost them. Not worth the time and energy! I get creeped out when guys msg me garbage (date proposal and phone no). I hate that level of entitlement! Get fucked, don’t care how hot or rich you are, I don’t wanna do it just cause you ask for it. This girl has enough anxiety! I have more respect for guys that understand my job and get to the point, masturbating. Period!
Main issue I see is the gateway. This sort of fantasy and talk sets a bad example for your customer. Next time he will think is cool moving to the next level.
I dumped a lot of regulars just for this reason. At some point, they get too comfy into thinking they are entitled to ask for more and I honestly put my mental health first. Yeah, money is great, but burning out cause of being pressured into doing something uncomfortable and against the rules is def not on my list. I would rather take a dildo in my throat and call it a day!
Regs know because they have seen me be very clear on this "This is a cam site, for camming - it is not a dating or Escort site". Some have actually reiterated this in my room when anyone has not taken "No" for answer "The lady says "No"" has been typed a few times by other members.
gbjenna
08-10-2021, 06:46 AM
I really wish we could disable premium blocks and just choose to have exclusive blocks. The amount of times someone takes me for a premium block, then it turns out they just want to chat or C2C or basically want the most exclusive show imaginable, is getting ridiculous
I know it’s their own silly fault cause all they have to do is read (god forbid) or ask prior, but its a bit awkward telling a guy who’s committed to a 15min show with me that we can’t do what he wants to do.
I don’t really want to decline them all off the bat aswell, cause they could be fine once in there! I never know until they begin. But it would be a nice option to just set blocks for excl to save a bit of headache.
Maybe it’s worth disabling them all together! Does anyone think it even influences them that much when it comes to converting them?
kamiliam
08-10-2021, 09:48 AM
I really wish we could disable premium blocks and just choose to have exclusive blocks. The amount of times someone takes me for a premium block, then it turns out they just want to chat or C2C or basically want the most exclusive show imaginable, is getting ridiculous
I know it’s their own silly fault cause all they have to do is read (god forbid) or ask prior, but its a bit awkward telling a guy who’s committed to a 15min show with me that we can’t do what he wants to do.
I don’t really want to decline them all off the bat aswell, cause they could be fine once in there! I never know until they begin. But it would be a nice option to just set blocks for excl to save a bit of headache.
Maybe it’s worth disabling them all together! Does anyone think it even influences them that much when it comes to converting them?
In private blocks I do make it a touch more personalized but really the only thing they get is a toy without a tip there, no fetish or role play. I just tell them no, many do just go exclusive(not a block because they are trying to save$ Obviously) I agree that they are useless for the most part for us and customers.
gbjenna
08-10-2021, 11:22 AM
In private blocks I do make it a touch more personalized but really the only thing they get is a toy without a tip there, no fetish or role play. I just tell them no, many do just go exclusive(not a block because they are trying to save$ Obviously) I agree that they are useless for the most part for us and customers.
Yes I try and cater to a few small requests with toys etc but then once I allow the odd small requests, I end up seeming to saying yes to more and more stuff and they're running the whole show before I know it. That's probably a me problem though. Normally if they want specific stuff in private then I'll just tell them to go exclusive but when they're in a block, I feel obliged to carry on. I like to keep things black and white, one or the other!
I think I'm going to turn them off. They feel like a lot of hassle right now. Especially after the £ conversion with the discount.
Esixxx
08-10-2021, 12:29 PM
Anyone pushing higher bitrates recently? I just noticed my bitrate at 3.87 (the highest I have ever seen mine was at 3.0)
Marina Starr
08-10-2021, 12:34 PM
Min fluctuates. Highest for me was 2.89 something. As long as it stays mostly green and excellent that's all I care about.
Anyone pushing higher bitrates recently? I just noticed my bitrate at 3.87 (the highest I have ever seen mine was at 3.0)
SoloDesire
08-10-2021, 01:01 PM
Anyone pushing higher bitrates recently? I just noticed my bitrate at 3.87 (the highest I have ever seen mine was at 3.0)
Yes, mine have been over 3 all day. Currently at 3.86
naughtybabe1
08-11-2021, 02:42 AM
Hey is anyone not seeing all of their dashboard this morning's? I'm missing buttons and windows and have large black patches. Shit..
EDIT
nevermind..it's working now. i switched to firefox and it was ok then i went back to chrome and now it's up...ugh i don't need this first thing in the morning
looklovely
08-11-2021, 12:37 PM
I wonder if USA, models will get paid tomorrow (Thursday) via ACH, like last week.
bigbum
08-11-2021, 12:51 PM
is anyone else having issues getting their stream to go live? i click go live and then it just buffers. i tried everything.
anyone else having issues right now?
Esixxx
08-11-2021, 12:54 PM
is anyone else having issues getting their stream to go live? i click go live and then it just buffers. i tried everything.
anyone else having issues right now?
I am attempting to restart my stream and experiencing the same. Restarted because I noticed on my member account the stream wasn't loading