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Erika_Xstacy
08-18-2021, 11:39 AM
Anyone else seeing NAN when the member spins the wheel?
liquidsilk
08-18-2021, 11:43 AM
Anyone else seeing NAN when the member spins the wheel?
Yeah I've had nan gold for about a week now.
kamiliam
08-18-2021, 12:00 PM
I find the nan shows up after a couple of hours on, or when the day switches over on SM. Usually it is time for a break for me, when I reload and come back it is back to normal.
I’m on Firefox, windows 10*and it does take a sec to get to the start scan button, but real quick after that. I have found that since they started the verification it doesn’t work to pre set up my tip vibe, I have to do it while I am logged in now.
*brio/smc also if that is a help to anyone
Yeah I've had nan gold for about a week now.
Me too
Sugarsteepdoll
08-18-2021, 12:45 PM
Im getting a regular vanilla job again. I have really enjoyed my camming full time but its been SOOOO dead. Im sick of working like this. Hopefully picks back up again and I can make good side money. I cant believe I was making 2k+ a week this time last year. Its so disheartening.
naughtybabe1
08-18-2021, 12:53 PM
Thank you, sis!
Spenders don't like a burned out hoe.
And on a random note, I just took my bipolar (batshit crazy) meds and ready to sleep like a baby.
DAMN! I'm jealous. I'm manic depressive/anxiety GAD and I am the "crazy" catagory but I'd rather go up a notch
so I can get the good stuff you're on and be in the "batshit crazy" level. My paxil just makes me like a zombie....
But I'm glad you are on the meds......us crazy babes need to stick together!!!...lolol
Marina Starr
08-18-2021, 01:47 PM
Amen! Crazy hoes unite!
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DAMN! I'm jealous. I'm manic depressive/anxiety GAD and I am the "crazy" catagory but I'd rather go up a notch
so I can get the good stuff you're on and be in the "batshit crazy" level. My paxil just makes me like a zombie....
But I'm glad you are on the meds......us crazy babes need to stick together!!!...lolol
Erika_Xstacy
08-18-2021, 02:03 PM
I just had a member try to ask me something in free chat and it didn’t register.
He went exclusive and asked but it didn’t register. I felt bad and showed him it didn’t register. He then asked in Spanish and it came through.
Does blocking the tag prevent them from asking or have y’all still been asked w the tag blocked?
Or is sm going to filter?
he was asking about dirty anal. I just blocked that tag
SoloDesire
08-18-2021, 02:13 PM
I just had a member try to ask me something in free chat and it didn’t register.
He went exclusive and asked but it didn’t register. I felt bad and showed him it didn’t register. He then asked in Spanish and it came through.
Does blocking the tag prevent them from asking or have y’all still been asked w the tag blocked?
Or is sm going to filter?
he was asking about dirty anal. I just blocked that tag
SM does block a lot of words from showing up in chat. I just had a guy ask for blackmail and he had to spell it bl4ckmail for it to show up. I don't have a tag blocked with that in it, so it's just on the block list SM has set.
kamiliam
08-18-2021, 02:24 PM
They block a ton of words in chat now. I know from trusted regulars who don’t ask for outside contact or no no’s and sometimes they are real mundane words.
Some of these sitting in our room types are actually writing to us, the site is just blocking it.
Erika_Xstacy
08-18-2021, 02:24 PM
SM does block a lot of words from showing up in chat. I just had a guy ask for blackmail and he had to spell it bl4ckmail for it to show up. I don't have a tag blocked with that in it, so it's just on the block list SM has set.
Really? They do have one?
It’s probably the way he asked, very direct and plain (spelled correctly)
Usually guys use the emoji or ask just for dirty.
yesterday a guy tried giving me his email so I could message him and it didn’t show up. Usually those do show up but maybe he added a .com at the end. I wouldn’t know bc it didn’t show up on my screen.
HippyCamel
08-18-2021, 06:46 PM
I found that if you open the broadcast page and your webcam video feed doesn't show up. Sometimes the way to fix it is go to the top of the screen, click Settings>encoder. Then make sure web encoder is selected, and not external encoder.
One time I found that it had randomly switched to the wrong setting when I loaded the page.
~Carmen~
08-18-2021, 08:51 PM
DAMN! I'm jealous. I'm manic depressive/anxiety GAD and I am the "crazy" catagory but I'd rather go up a notch
so I can get the good stuff you're on and be in the "batshit crazy" level. My paxil just makes me like a zombie....
But I'm glad you are on the meds......us crazy babes need to stick together!!!...lolol
I'm a happy and proud member of "batshit crazy" too. Got to have meds!!!
Luckygoldfish
08-19-2021, 02:23 AM
Girls nothing on payment history?
Can you plz check it out? Suppose to be send out and nothing
random stripper
08-19-2021, 02:56 AM
I just tried the messenger mode for messages first time. Is there a point to this? I wasn't gonna read all that bs, but I dunno if I am missing out? Can I just ignore? LOL
I also do not see the prior week on payment history, but I am guessing this is just a website glitch and payments should be ok?
Strawberryblonde
08-19-2021, 03:01 AM
Two weeks ago my payment did not show in history, and I did not receive the payout email. I contacted Liz who told me there was a glitch on my account. She put it through I received it the following Tuesday.
Today payment history is not showing payout, I hit the minimum so that shouldn't be an issue.
This could be completely unrelated.
Luckygoldfish
08-19-2021, 03:02 AM
I just tried the messenger mode for messages first time. Is there a point to this? I wasn't gonna read all that bs, but I dunno if I am missing out? Can I just ignore? LOL
I also do not see the prior week on payment history, but I am guessing this is just a website glitch and payments should be ok?
Thanks I am not alone then
I hope it’s a glitch and we get paid tomorrow
Luckygoldfish
08-19-2021, 03:03 AM
Two weeks ago my payment did not show in history, and I did not receive the payout email. I contacted Liz who told me there was a glitch on my account. She put it through I received it the following Tuesday.
Today payment history is not showing payout, I hit the minimum so that shouldn't be an issue.
This could be completely unrelated.
So you didn’t get paid in time then. Inconvenient
Strawberryblonde
08-19-2021, 03:12 AM
So you didn’t get paid in time then. Inconvenient
Yes they did waive the wire fee, which I'm guessing was compensation.
There was a mega issue back just after I started January this year, second payment went AWOL then returned. Lots of stress, and me phoning the bank most days and a hold on payments from my SM.No reason ever given but did get paid eventually.
I asked about it on here at the time.
Also was charged extra wire fee recently, that was refunded on next payment but was not told why.
Yes they did waive the wire fee, which I'm guessing was compensation.
There was a mega issue back just after I started January this year, second payment went AWOL then returned. Lots of stress, and me phoning the bank most days and a hold on payments from my SM.No reason ever given but did get paid eventually.
I asked about it on here at the time.
Also was charged extra wire fee recently, that was refunded on next payment but was not told why.
I didn't get payment since 2 weeks too lol. Weird. History is showing only 6 August payment. I will send an email to the support. Tks for sharing
Marina Starr
08-19-2021, 06:10 AM
Last two ACH payments I got on Thursday. Today is Thursday and I didn't see payment so I'm expecting it tomorrow, Friday as how we usually get paid.
Side note, this is NOT a panic post. There's no need to quote my post with panic replies.
DeliveryLadyx
08-19-2021, 06:38 AM
Anyone's bitrate and rtt fluctuates like crazy?
random stripper
08-19-2021, 06:44 AM
is there any chance i can get rid of a 4 star for like an 11 min show?
DeliveryLadyx
08-19-2021, 06:46 AM
is there any chance i can get rid of a 4 star for like an 11 min show?
Very unlikely... but I wouldn't worry if youget more other 5 stars.
MissAdriana
08-19-2021, 07:39 AM
Girls nothing on payment history?
Can you plz check it out? Suppose to be send out and nothing
Nothing for me either hun
Marina Starr
08-19-2021, 07:57 AM
Sometimes payment issued date doesn't show up under payment history 'til late Thursday or Friday morning.
MissAdriana
08-19-2021, 07:59 AM
Didn't they send a newsletter saying that payment history might not show up until fridays now? Maybe I'm imagining it... cant find it now of course LOL
Miss_ShaSha
08-19-2021, 09:37 AM
I'm in US and I have been paid by direct deposit twice on Thurs. I have been paid today although it is not showing in payment history as issued.
SoloDesire
08-19-2021, 10:19 AM
I'm in US and I have been paid by direct deposit twice on Thurs. I have been paid today although it is not showing in payment history as issued.
Same here, I got paid today but it's just not showing in payment history.
Panthera
08-19-2021, 10:23 AM
Anyone's bitrate and rtt fluctuates like crazy?
Yep, mine even disappears from time to time and it only shows some dashes! lol
DeliveryLadyx
08-19-2021, 10:27 AM
I had the potentials with lines... I did nearly low goal and 4 h and a half and I am just very done because, frankly, is just super dead and fucks my morale. For sure they updates the site every Thursday :))))
Panthera
08-19-2021, 10:37 AM
Hmm, I did once 10$ and was ok, think i will take a leap of faith and increase my exclusive at 10 :)))) I do have the ohmibod and that is how i get loads of tips :) with lovense no, they like the light.
What type of ohmibod do you have, if you don't mind? I have 2 of them, the little clit stimulator and one dildo, but I could not connect any of them to streamate, they are not in the list, so I was thinking about buying a new one. Now that I hear ohmibod is working, I just got curious!
DeliveryLadyx
08-19-2021, 10:42 AM
I have Esca2. Have you installed Feel performer and scanned the qr code? The toy is shit to be honest and is very .... moody with bluetooth connection, may work on a mobile phone or another to stay connected for longer. But is the only toy which makes me way more money than lush because the guys see the light when they buzz. And also, they think is no app like with lush. If i wear lush, i get lot of cheapstakes wanting to control lush via lovense app and i earn 30% less than with esca. believe me, i would rather have lush, but I experimented countless times and esca2 is my money maker.
I am talking about Kiiroo brand, Esca 2.
fetishqueen
08-19-2021, 11:50 AM
No payment history showing for me either, I'm in the UK. Seems there has been a LOT of payment 'glitches' lately, blaming banks for the mistakes. Do not fuck with my money, SM.
Marina Starr
08-19-2021, 11:54 AM
Just woke up from a nap... checked my bank account, got my payment but it's not showing under payment history. Now I have money for Chick Fil A.
There's also a glitch when I tried to log in, it said wrong password. Logged in again and it's working.
Whenever this happens, there's nothing wrong with your username and password, it's Streamate being glitchy. Give it some time and log in again. This has happened before in the past.
Strawberryblonde
08-19-2021, 12:39 PM
No payment history showing for me either, I'm in the UK. Seems there has been a LOT of payment 'glitches' lately, blaming banks for the mistakes. Do not fuck with my money, SM.
Liz has told me mine is showing at SM end even if it's not in Payment History.
sweetme
08-19-2021, 03:36 PM
is streamate having problems
bobsandvangene
08-19-2021, 03:50 PM
Anyone else struggling with SM cam turning black whenever anyone tries to take them into a show? Have a regular who came back after AGES and it seems to be doing it every time for him
tashiepuck
08-19-2021, 04:05 PM
No problems on my end here ! Traffic is good especially this week ! Super busy ! Made my weekly goal in two days this week !
minibagel
08-19-2021, 05:56 PM
Anyone else struggling with SM cam turning black whenever anyone tries to take them into a show? Have a regular who came back after AGES and it seems to be doing it every time for him
happened three times tonight with the same person. he was on chrome so i suggested he switch to firefox and he could finally see me but said it was grainy :shrug:
Erika_Xstacy
08-19-2021, 06:18 PM
happened three times tonight with the same person. he was on chrome so i suggested he switch to firefox and he could finally see me but said it was grainy :shrug:
a customer said he had to clear his cookies, came back and it was fine
tell the to clear and see if that helps
Seductive_Brit
08-20-2021, 04:35 AM
Has anyone ever found that a customer was irritating them, getting on their bad side, lurking, then finally go into exclusive. I gave a really unenthusiastic show because everything that guy was doing and saying was annoying me even though I don't think he had bad intentions. He gave me a 1 star rating. I feel awful about having given someone a show they weren't happy with as this isn't normally the case, but I had got to a point I was in such a shitty mood. Should I just end shows with people where I'm starting to feel like that?
I'm just feeling so down about it I had to log off. Don't know if anyone else has had this happen and could share how they coped and got themselves out of that mental hole.
Regardless I did everything they asked me to, it was stressful and uncomfortable for me. Still, I sent apology messages, was that stupid of me? Could they screenshot that and get their money back? If so would that be deducted from me? Because regardless, I did do the show, I did what I was asked to do and I did use my time.
Esixxx
08-20-2021, 05:30 AM
Has anyone ever found that a customer was irritating them, getting on their bad side, lurking, then finally go into exclusive. I gave a really unenthusiastic show because everything that guy was doing and saying was annoying me even though I don't think he had bad intentions. He gave me a 1 star rating. I feel awful about having given someone a show they weren't happy with as this isn't normally the case, but I had got to a point I was in such a shitty mood. Should I just end shows with people where I'm starting to feel like that?
I'm just feeling so down about it I had to log off. Don't know if anyone else has had this happen and could share how they coped and got themselves out of that mental hole.
Regardless I did everything they asked me to, it was stressful and uncomfortable for me. Still, I sent apology messages, was that stupid of me? Could they screenshot that and get their money back? If so would that be deducted from me? Because regardless, I did do the show, I did what I was asked to do and I did use my time.
It happens- Some days when I haven't had enough rest, pms kicking in, or anxiety, or whatever else throws off my mood and patience levels, or there is a personality that I do not mesh well with.
I personally like to have a little bit of interaction in free chat to see if I will mesh well with the customer- what kind of things they are into, etc. etc. There are some customers that are meh, the ones that can drive me up the wall, and ones I get along easily with.
One thing that has helped me is writing out a list of behaviors (things that say or do) that I find irritiating and also a list of behaviors of my best customers, then making a list of what I will tolerate and won't tolerate for future reference.
Take a little bit of time to self care- activities that soothe and calm you.
As far the apology message- you did what you thought was best and that is okay.
As far as your earnings- you are good you performed the show.
We all have our bad moments and that is okay. I have had bad ratings with shows that (in my mind) I knew I shouldn't have accepted. Just take it as a lesson learned.
Hope this helps.
Miss_ShaSha
08-20-2021, 05:45 AM
Has anyone ever found that a customer was irritating them, getting on their bad side, lurking, then finally go into exclusive. I gave a really unenthusiastic show because everything that guy was doing and saying was annoying me even though I don't think he had bad intentions. He gave me a 1 star rating. I feel awful about having given someone a show they weren't happy with as this isn't normally the case, but I had got to a point I was in such a shitty mood. Should I just end shows with people where I'm starting to feel like that?
I'm just feeling so down about it I had to log off. Don't know if anyone else has had this happen and could share how they coped and got themselves out of that mental hole.
Regardless I did everything they asked me to, it was stressful and uncomfortable for me. Still, I sent apology messages, was that stupid of me? Could they screenshot that and get their money back? If so would that be deducted from me? Because regardless, I did do the show, I did what I was asked to do and I did use my time.
I actually ended a show after about 20 min of them getting on my last nerve. I'm a domme and he was bossing me around. I said just before ending the show "I apologize, but I cannot continue this show" and then ended it.
Luckily he didn't rate. I was expecting a 1.
Here's the thing, and Esixxx has said it well: you tried and did what you think is best. She's given stellar advice.
Chargebacks are covered and you're ok in that department. I'd go through and manually block him from chat and messages.
If you're unsure how to manually block with member ID # I can link the thread that has been extremely helpful to myself and many SM models alike.
roseforarose
08-20-2021, 05:46 AM
Has anyone ever found that a customer was irritating them, getting on their bad side, lurking, then finally go into exclusive. I gave a really unenthusiastic show because everything that guy was doing and saying was annoying me even though I don't think he had bad intentions. He gave me a 1 star rating. I feel awful about having given someone a show they weren't happy with as this isn't normally the case, but I had got to a point I was in such a shitty mood. Should I just end shows with people where I'm starting to feel like that?
I'm just feeling so down about it I had to log off. Don't know if anyone else has had this happen and could share how they coped and got themselves out of that mental hole.
Regardless I did everything they asked me to, it was stressful and uncomfortable for me. Still, I sent apology messages, was that stupid of me? Could they screenshot that and get their money back? If so would that be deducted from me? Because regardless, I did do the show, I did what I was asked to do and I did use my time.
If they're annoying me that much I just block them before they even get to exclusive tbh. I've had one or two where we eventually did excl and, lo and behold, it sucked because I didn't like them anyway lol. The dude got a bad show because he had a bad attitude and annoyed you, that's his own fault!
liquidsilk
08-20-2021, 05:59 AM
might we see record numbers online next week with the contest combining with models returning to cam after OF drips more info....
MissAdriana
08-20-2021, 06:46 AM
Still nothing in payment history so far
Seductive_Brit
08-20-2021, 07:15 AM
It happens- Some days when I haven't had enough rest, pms kicking in, or anxiety, or whatever else throws off my mood and patience levels, or there is a personality that I do not mesh well with.
I personally like to have a little bit of interaction in free chat to see if I will mesh well with the customer- what kind of things they are into, etc. etc. There are some customers that are meh, the ones that can drive me up the wall, and ones I get along easily with.
One thing that has helped me is writing out a list of behaviors (things that say or do) that I find irritiating and also a list of behaviors of my best customers, then making a list of what I will tolerate and won't tolerate for future reference.
Take a little bit of time to self care- activities that soothe and calm you.
As far the apology message- you did what you thought was best and that is okay.
As far as your earnings- you are good you performed the show.
We all have our bad moments and that is okay. I have had bad ratings with shows that (in my mind) I knew I shouldn't have accepted. Just take it as a lesson learned.
Hope this helps.
It really does help! Thank you so much for the detailed response, I really appreciate it! Like generally I'm so good about these things but I think this morning I was off and in a distracted state of mind. So glad I have you girls to talk to.
Seductive_Brit
08-20-2021, 07:20 AM
I actually ended a show after about 20 min of them getting on my last nerve. I'm a domme and he was bossing me around. I said just before ending the show "I apologize, but I cannot continue this show" and then ended it.
Luckily he didn't rate. I was expecting a 1.
Here's the thing, and Esixxx has said it well: you tried and did what you think is best. She's given stellar advice.
Chargebacks are covered and you're ok in that department. I'd go through and manually block him from chat and messages.
If you're unsure how to manually block with member ID # I can link the thread that has been extremely helpful to myself and many SM models alike.
Thanks so much Sha! Really appreciate this. You always give good advice and energy on the threads and it helps so much. It's very validating to know most of us experience this kind of thing at one time or another.
If they're annoying me that much I just block them before they even get to exclusive tbh. I've had one or two where we eventually did excl and, lo and behold, it sucked because I didn't like them anyway lol. The dude got a bad show because he had a bad attitude and annoyed you, that's his own fault!
I often do do that, but I think cos I haven't been on much this week I was in make as much money as you can mode and forgot my own rules for a second. Thanks very much Rose.
You ladies rock!!!! I feel so much better than this morning.
emkato
08-20-2021, 08:14 AM
In relation to the above posts, I've been in the same boat a couple of times, where my anxiety went through the roof and I panic end a show if I feel super vulnerable or awkward.
One time I had a guy want me to explain in great detail times I've been tickled while showing my feet. easy enough, I've done that with him before, but for some reason this time I could not come up with any stories. I even told him before hand I would have to think of a time I was tickled cause I wasn't able to think of one right away. He took me anyway. my mind was blank, I couldn't even think of a made up story! I was laying there wiggling my feet and I felt like I looked so stupid. that along with my mind literally being unable to think of what to say I just got up and ended the show. He didn't leave a rating, and even came back once later on and I tried to talk to him about it but he left too quick.
I just kind of accepted that It is impossible for every show to be amazing, and like any other job there will be days that aren't so great. we are only human after all, not sex robots.... as much as some of these guys prob wish we were....lol