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bigbum
08-22-2021, 11:54 PM
I have had both of those errors where you can't kick or block in messenger or in chat for the past week or so

yep . still have the error.

bigbum
08-22-2021, 11:58 PM
Does the face scan just not work on Chrome? It took ages to load for me, but then I couldn't see any image or frame (which I assume you're meant to since you're meant to be in frame?)

I switched to chrome last year because I couldn't get the lovense extension to work on Firefox, so I don't want to switch back and lose out on money with the Lush not working :/


edit: I got it to work, but ironically the lush wouldn't work despite being connected :/

yes my face scan works on chrome
but my lush is on but hasnt actually vibed in 3 weeks.
i might need to replace it. does your connect ? but not buzz? or just doesnt connect?

Seductive_Brit
08-23-2021, 01:43 AM
In relation to the above posts, I've been in the same boat a couple of times, where my anxiety went through the roof and I panic end a show if I feel super vulnerable or awkward.

One time I had a guy want me to explain in great detail times I've been tickled while showing my feet. easy enough, I've done that with him before, but for some reason this time I could not come up with any stories. I even told him before hand I would have to think of a time I was tickled cause I wasn't able to think of one right away. He took me anyway. my mind was blank, I couldn't even think of a made up story! I was laying there wiggling my feet and I felt like I looked so stupid. that along with my mind literally being unable to think of what to say I just got up and ended the show. He didn't leave a rating, and even came back once later on and I tried to talk to him about it but he left too quick.

I just kind of accepted that It is impossible for every show to be amazing, and like any other job there will be days that aren't so great. we are only human after all, not sex robots.... as much as some of these guys prob wish we were....lol

I'm sorry that happened, this is why I often abhor dirty talk, it can be so awkward when your mind goes blank. As you say we all have those days. Most of the guys I get on with and have the longest shows with like that I'm just myself, I don't do fake sexy and they prefer that because if they wanted a sex robot they could just go watch free porn. If they're interacting with a real person you'd hope it's because they want a real person. Unfortunately we know this is not always the case, but luckily the worser ones are always freeloaders and I love that on Streammate they get NOTHING.

roseforarose
08-23-2021, 03:16 AM
yes my face scan works on chrome
but my lush is on but hasnt actually vibed in 3 weeks.
i might need to replace it. does your connect ? but not buzz? or just doesnt connect?

It connects but doesn't buzz- is yours doing the same? I tested and it still works fine on other sites, so it could be SM if yours is also connected. I skipped about a week of stream but it was working the week before last

Luckygoldfish
08-23-2021, 06:12 AM
so dead today

roseforarose
08-23-2021, 06:51 AM
yes my face scan works on chrome
but my lush is on but hasnt actually vibed in 3 weeks.
i might need to replace it. does your connect ? but not buzz? or just doesnt connect?

update:
I contacted support- they said it's a known issue due to the fact that your IP on your phone isn't the same as that on your PC? However in the UK, and I'm assuming other places, static IP addresses aren't usually provided by ISPs and each device has a different device ip...

So basically there's no solution and they said there's also nothing to predict when it will or won't work :(

Ambercat
08-23-2021, 07:20 AM
update:
I contacted support- they said it's a known issue due to the fact that your IP on your phone isn't the same as that on your PC? However in the UK, and I'm assuming other places, static IP addresses aren't usually provided by ISPs and each device has a different device ip...

So basically there's no solution and they said there's also nothing to predict when it will or won't work :(

I have this problem sometimes. I worked out that as long as i turn off my mobile data and run it on the house wifi while i'm working it's fine. (also no VPN on either device)

DeliveryLadyx
08-23-2021, 07:47 AM
update:
I contacted support- they said it's a known issue due to the fact that your IP on your phone isn't the same as that on your PC? However in the UK, and I'm assuming other places, static IP addresses aren't usually provided by ISPs and each device has a different device ip...

So basically there's no solution and they said there's also nothing to predict when it will or won't work :(

No, what is going on is the ipv4 ad ipv6. Most likely your phone uses ipv6 and your pc is ipv4. nothing to do with the static ip. YOu need to go on your router and disable ipv6 for example and this way you conncet on your pc and phone by default on ipv4. If youdon't know how to use your router, contact the ISP ;ove chat which will be super happy to do that for you x

emkato
08-23-2021, 07:53 AM
so dead today

Oh no... not what i want to hear. Not that I expected it to be busy but my anxiety about logging in is so bad already. Contest weeks for me are never any good

DeliveryLadyx
08-23-2021, 07:55 AM
Is dead in my room as well. I will just stay 8 hours today no matter what, a regular or 2 will visit at some point. Besides, need hours, dead or not.

roseforarose
08-23-2021, 08:26 AM
No, what is going on is the ipv4 ad ipv6. Most likely your phone uses ipv6 and your pc is ipv4. nothing to do with the static ip. YOu need to go on your router and disable ipv6 for example and this way you conncet on your pc and phone by default on ipv4. If youdon't know how to use your router, contact the ISP ;ove chat which will be super happy to do that for you x

I was just going with what support told me- they said it's because I'm not using a static IP and should change it. If that's incorrect they should probably change the info they give out lol. It was working fine on the same wifi/network until the other week, and I've not changed any settings to do with ipb6 vs ipv4, so I'm not sure why it's suddenly being difficult. Either way, I'm not camming from my own place right now so have no control over the router settings and such unfortunately. I'll just try to buy the dongle for my PC and see if that helps

DeliveryLadyx
08-23-2021, 09:24 AM
Hey girls, do you have potentials appearing only after few minutes of streaming? Been like this yesterday and i see today as well. besides, no traffic. Perfect tech on my side. I was in an exclusive and for the first time my camera stayed frozen 2 times. Of course, we have no model support to ask....

DeliveryLadyx
08-23-2021, 09:29 AM
I was just going with what support told me- they said it's because I'm not using a static IP and should change it. If that's incorrect they should probably change the info they give out lol. It was working fine on the same wifi/network until the other week, and I've not changed any settings to do with ipb6 vs ipv4, so I'm not sure why it's suddenly being difficult. Either way, I'm not camming from my own place right now so have no control over the router settings and such unfortunately. I'll just try to buy the dongle for my PC and see if that helps
The dongle won't help. Is strictly the IP, the mobile phone will connect always with ipv6 as first choice and pc ipv4. And with wifi being dynamic IP, every time you switch off the router is changing the IP. You can go on your pc, network settings => adapter =>click right, proprietes, click ipv4 and untick it and leave only the ipv6. those steps if you aren't home now.

SoloDesire
08-23-2021, 09:54 AM
Translation anyone?

I think we need some punctuation first lol. Holy run on sentence Batman!

JustMilfnAround
08-23-2021, 10:01 AM
Just a minor quick vent - I REALLY wish the contests were NOT for a whole week... A few days of crap traffic is okay but a whole week? UGH. I literally lose a whole week of income every time they do these week long contests :(

gbjenna
08-23-2021, 10:38 AM
Hey girls, do you have potentials appearing only after few minutes of streaming? Been like this yesterday and i see today as well. besides, no traffic. Perfect tech on my side. I was in an exclusive and for the first time my camera stayed frozen 2 times. Of course, we have no model support to ask....

It happened to me yesterday too with the potentials. They stayed at 0 for a few mins. I don’t think it’s anything to worry about, just quiet probably!

DeliveryLadyx
08-23-2021, 10:42 AM
Tried 4 times to change my flag to GB, even changed browsers, all cleared cookies, it defaults to US. And trully, I don't have traffic. I am getting pissed off here lol

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-23-2021, 10:48 AM
Ladies just report. Please don't engage..

Edit: To be clear I'm asking for you ladies to not engage in the silly drama. Spare your brain cells and just report it.

looklovely
08-23-2021, 01:09 PM
Ladies just report. Please don't engage..

Edit: To be clear I'm asking for you ladies to not engage in the silly drama. Spare your brain cells and just report it.

I typically report members, by copying and pasting their text from free chat. I wonder if support actually looks at it. There are a couple of trolls, I like to kick and report--yet they STILL have an account. Perhaps, it's because they spend on other models?

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
08-23-2021, 01:17 PM
I typically report members, by copying and pasting their text from free chat. I wonder if support actually looks at it. There are a couple of trolls, I like to kick and report--yet they STILL have an account. Perhaps, it's because they spend on other models?

Hey girl! Thank you for the insight. But unfortunately my post was in regards to drama I had to delete here on SW. I'm sorry for the confusion.

liquidsilk
08-23-2021, 02:59 PM
Is dead in my room as well. I will just stay 8 hours today no matter what, a regular or 2 will visit at some point. Besides, need hours, dead or not.


not even a 25 hr bonus for this one :'(

DeliveryLadyx
08-23-2021, 03:16 PM
not even a 25 hr bonus for this one :'(

I know...:( but want to demonstrate myself I can stay on 40-50 hours this week. And I have a feeling it does help with placement so.. :)

looklovely
08-23-2021, 03:36 PM
I only check out SM's front page when it's slow...Lots of vagina in preview photos and a couple of models sitting nude, spread eagle, masturbating...All on the front page, and they happen to be from one particular country(maybe they are from a studio). I don't see the point in reporting, waste of time, most likely won't remedy anything.

SoloDesire
08-23-2021, 03:44 PM
I see nothing but Columbian models on the front page. They're obviously fucking with the site. I don't recognize anyone on the first page. (This is logged out and just browsing not logged in to my customer account)

looklovely
08-23-2021, 03:50 PM
I see nothing but Columbian models on the front page. They're obviously fucking with the site. I don't recognize anyone on the first page. (This is logged out and just browsing not logged in to my customer account)

Thanks, I'm in the USA, and thought it was just me and my odd IP address.

WhistlingDux
08-23-2021, 03:56 PM
people that are usually on page one are so far back in placement right now. I'm in the top 3 redheads category and not even showing until page 15 on main. Massive placement glitch right now. lots of models with 4 stars on front page

Marina Starr
08-23-2021, 03:58 PM
Damn, I took a nap and missed all the fun!

55835

WhistlingDux
08-23-2021, 04:03 PM
its fixed it looks like :)

bigbum
08-23-2021, 05:38 PM
update:
I contacted support- they said it's a known issue due to the fact that your IP on your phone isn't the same as that on your PC? However in the UK, and I'm assuming other places, static IP addresses aren't usually provided by ISPs and each device has a different device ip...

So basically there's no solution and they said there's also nothing to predict when it will or won't work :(
yeah same issue here. but for some reason when i move the stem wire around on the toy it seems to work sometimes. do i dont know.
ill have to try it on another site to see if the toy is breaking. ill let you know when i do and report back.

bigbum
08-23-2021, 06:52 PM
Does anyone know if the jive brand we-vibe connects to the feelconnect app? My esca died two days ago and I swear my traffic has died since then so I'm assuming not having a toy connected has messed with my placement/earnings. Unfortunately no stores near me sell lush or esca toy but everyone does seem to see the we-vibe for whatever reason. Can't seem to find anything about this on google.

did you check amazon? i know lush has an official store on there! i live outside the usa and i was able to order it from there easier.

bobsandvangene
08-24-2021, 01:54 AM
So yesterday I did 630 total. Today it feels like pulling teeth. So many pingers I could scream.

Ambercat
08-24-2021, 02:02 AM
hours or dollars? x

gbjenna
08-24-2021, 02:14 AM
Thanks for replying. I can order from a few different places online but I need something tomorrow morning I can’t wait for shipping unfortunately.

Your profile doesn’t say where you’re based but if you’re in the U.K. then there’s Amazon Prime and LoveHoney both for next day delivery. Surely there’s Amazon Prime for other countries too?
I can never get enough of Amazon Prime lol

bobsandvangene
08-24-2021, 02:33 AM
hours or dollars? x

$630 in 7 hours x

Ambercat
08-24-2021, 02:43 AM
Of course. My brain is fried right now, I've got out of the habit of contest hours. I'm finding this morning really slow also. about 6hrs ago was decent but i had to sleep and none of my regulars have popped in in the 2hrs since I've been back on. It's going to be a long week!

bobsandvangene
08-24-2021, 06:13 AM
Well I ended up logging off. It was so quiet and all a bunch of dudes who didn’t understand that they have to pay to see the goods. Honestly idk what they expect me to say other than “I offer that in private” when they tell me a fantasy they want to enact with me.

roseforarose
08-24-2021, 07:23 AM
Does anyone know, roughly speaking, how much you need to earn to be in the top 1000 in contests?

This is my first 'top 1000' contest I'm doing on the site and I'm seemingly not even in the top 1200. However, my earnings for the week are pretty good so far, so idk if I'm near to being in the top 1000, or if I'm miles off and shouldn't bother ;D

Do you guys try a lot for top 1000 contests, or just cam on your normal schedule?

Ambercat
08-24-2021, 08:39 AM
Does anyone know, roughly speaking, how much you need to earn to be in the top 1000 in contests?

This is my first 'top 1000' contest I'm doing on the site and I'm seemingly not even in the top 1200. However, my earnings for the week are pretty good so far, so idk if I'm near to being in the top 1000, or if I'm miles off and shouldn't bother ;D

Do you guys try a lot for top 1000 contests, or just cam on your normal schedule?

I'm not ranking either and I'm curious to know. In earlier contests this year there was under a dollar between places until it got towards the top 400 and then it gets harder to climb.

For this contest last year I did around $1600 and was 20 of so places out of the top 300. Sorry I can't be more precise, I've got a new profile since then and can't find my papers about it.

Luckygoldfish
08-24-2021, 09:07 AM
Oh no... not what i want to hear. Not that I expected it to be busy but my anxiety about logging in is so bad already. Contest weeks for me are never any good

No , don’t let it put you off I stayed on long hours and eventually made something decent . Today is way better

Luckygoldfish
08-24-2021, 09:15 AM
Tried 4 times to change my flag to GB, even changed browsers, all cleared cookies, it defaults to US. And trully, I don't have traffic. I am getting pissed off here lol

I change for GB as well. I think Americans have trouble seeing us...
Europe never ever have problems in seeing me right away . I get a lot of “you are not real British” again but I will tolerate it lol at least it’s some people who are taking now!

Hey u need to wait for a country to changec24 hours or so x

emkato
08-24-2021, 09:44 AM
No , don’t let it put you off I stayed on long hours and eventually made something decent . Today is way better

logging in soon, positive vibes! I personally am not trying to place in the contest, but would like to make my usual which can be challenging this week. fingers crossed!

DeliveryLadyx
08-24-2021, 09:49 AM
logging in soon, positive vibes! I personally am not trying to place in the contest, but would like to make my usual which can be challenging this week. fingers crossed!

Good luck babe! Never be put off, I learned that when for one is bad, for me may be super and so on, except when is a general fucked tech. Haven't gone online today, had a bad short sleep and I got carried with other stuff and I won't get on for 2 hours only. Tomorrow on back full time.

DeliveryLadyx
08-24-2021, 09:52 AM
I change for GB as well. I think Americans have trouble seeing us...
Europe never ever have problems in seeing me right away . I get a lot of “you are not real British” again but I will tolerate it lol at least it’s some people who are taking now!

Hey u need to wait for a country to changec24 hours or so x
I had to ask the UK representative to manually change the display country. I will just leave to UK but tell my regulars I ma still in the US but registered with UK docs. Whatever it takes. Yesterday was something up for sure with US, it was one of the worst days I had lol. Not been today, but back tomorrow full time and will let y'all know if is any difference. So far, with all the smart tech Streamate is pursuing, maybe they want your country display matching the documents on file in order to have a happy time online if that is a thing? They are doing non stop changes this summer, am getting fed up to the back teeth of this role coaster.

LeilaB
08-24-2021, 10:10 AM
Hi Ladies! I have a very unpleasant problem, and I was wondering if you have ever experienced issues like this while camming, and if you have any idea how to get rid of them.

So I use dildos in most of my shows, mostly medium sized, and sometimes extra large with lots of lube. Even though I always use lube, I have small injuries at my vag entry very often, and it feels extremely painful. :( Earlier I used to wear the lush inside, but nowadays I just use it in my panties, and it's much more comfortable and less painful this way.

But the shows still hurt...Do you have any idea what to do against it? I know, don't use dildo, but that is not an option. :( Are there any products that help prevent the micro injuries or make them heal faster?

Ambercat
08-24-2021, 10:29 AM
I never use large dildos and the guys that ask about this I just tell them I'm very tight. Your health is important and there are enough customers on the site that you'll do just fine without the ones who feel like they need to see a woman cram as much into her vag as possible.

Instead of having a lush maybe you could try the osci which is a clit vibe, then you can tell them it's because you love the feel of them buzzing while it's on you nipple/neck/back of knees or whatever. I've seen a couple of ladies using that (or something similar) and they talk as though the vibrations are where the customer is touching them.

AuroraJade
08-24-2021, 10:45 AM
I have the same problem/issue. I almost never use dildo's; only when a GS goal is completed (at leaaaaaast 100 gold for dildo penetration) or a customer is in Excl for a longer time and asks about it, or he likes dildo shows and I know he is a regular that pays good. So, only when I have the money in the pocket or I know I can make a lot more money off it. In a show, Only do penetration when the customer asks about it and dont let him rush you! And use lube off camera.

I dont use the Lush inside me. I put it in my panties. I use it inside me when a guy keeps tipping in a GS or Excl show. Then I put it in. Again, with lube.

You dont have to use big dildos. I dont either. If it makes you uncomfortable, never compromise your health for a show. Working on your hustle, stalling, teasing, use your fingers or an external vibrator, you can stretch the show out for as long as possible.

If you are having micro tears you are probably dry. That can be caused by not being aroused ofc, but also some medical issues or medications. Using lubrication helps prevent these tears. But when you have them, let them heal before you do penetration again. Think about your health.

Esixxx
08-24-2021, 12:02 PM
Hi Ladies! I have a very unpleasant problem, and I was wondering if you have ever experienced issues like this while camming, and if you have any idea how to get rid of them.

So I use dildos in most of my shows, mostly medium sized, and sometimes extra large with lots of lube. Even though I always use lube, I have small injuries at my vag entry very often, and it feels extremely painful. :( Earlier I used to wear the lush inside, but nowadays I just use it in my panties, and it's much more comfortable and less painful this way.

But the shows still hurt...Do you have any idea what to do against it? I know, don't use dildo, but that is not an option. :( Are there any products that help prevent the micro injuries or make them heal faster?

I used to have this problem.

I got a glass wand to use in my shows- it's small and it gets the job done :)

The other thing that I changed is my lube- I now use Shibari- it's super slick and stays slick.
If I do penetration in my shows I use the bathroom afterwards and wash my hands.

What Ambercat mentioned might be a good idea- I use the Ferri- there is a magnet that you can attach to your panties.

Also prelubing helps- I put some lube on before starting my shifts as well. I have a pump dispenser on my lube so it's easy access during the show. I quit offering really large toys in my shows, for a bit of time I would offer it if they paid a certain amount of gold or a block session- but I was upfront about letting them know I needed time to warm up.

When you have them I would suggest not doing penetration while it is healing because it could make it worse. There are creative ways to get these guys to spend money without penetration.

I don't know of anything specifically that will help them heal faster.

If it keeps on being an ongoing issue it's a good idea to see a doctor.

gbjenna
08-24-2021, 12:10 PM
Hi Ladies! I have a very unpleasant problem, and I was wondering if you have ever experienced issues like this while camming, and if you have any idea how to get rid of them.

So I use dildos in most of my shows, mostly medium sized, and sometimes extra large with lots of lube. Even though I always use lube, I have small injuries at my vag entry very often, and it feels extremely painful. :( Earlier I used to wear the lush inside, but nowadays I just use it in my panties, and it's much more comfortable and less painful this way.

But the shows still hurt...Do you have any idea what to do against it? I know, don't use dildo, but that is not an option. :( Are there any products that help prevent the micro injuries or make them heal faster?

I’ve had this before, I’ve made myself so sore that just inserting/taking out my Esca was sheer agony, let alone using other toys.

If I were you, I’d eliminate penetration until you are fully healed! I know it’s easier said than done, but try not to worry too much about potentially lost money/shows in the meantime because if you carry on, you could seriously prolong the problem and make it even worse, which would mean you would lose even more in the long term if you literally cannot work!

Are your toys hard and with ridges? I had to buy softer, silicone toys with less ridges all over them and it’s so much less painful. Some lubes dry up really easily too so maybe a different kind of lube will help?
Maybe also some g spot vibrators could help? I’ve got small and larger vibrators which are very soft and smooth, I use those instead of dildo’s sometimes just for a change or to prevent soreness if I’ve had a busy day.
I really bang on about how powerful my vibrators are and the guys are totally sold. It’s a win win for them and me.

I’m sure you will find there are lots of guys who will enjoy your shows without toys or even dildo’s. Maybe try and put a different spin on it about how much more wet you get using just fingers etc etc. If you lose a customer because you stop doing one thing, you will most likely replace him with another customer who likes what you have to offer now x

Marina Starr
08-24-2021, 12:17 PM
I would suggest only do toys in Exclusive, use your fingers, and lots of teasing so you don't dildo yourself to death while giving your pussy a break. The majority of guys don't care. Quality shows are much more than toys and penetration.

Guys that pushed for toys and fucking yourself to death can fuck off. We're not robots. It's good to be receptive but stay closed minded to self harm.



Hi Ladies! I have a very unpleasant problem, and I was wondering if you have ever experienced issues like this while camming, and if you have any idea how to get rid of them.

So I use dildos in most of my shows, mostly medium sized, and sometimes extra large with lots of lube. Even though I always use lube, I have small injuries at my vag entry very often, and it feels extremely painful. :( Earlier I used to wear the lush inside, but nowadays I just use it in my panties, and it's much more comfortable and less painful this way.

But the shows still hurt...Do you have any idea what to do against it? I know, don't use dildo, but that is not an option. :( Are there any products that help prevent the micro injuries or make them heal faster?

bobsandvangene
08-24-2021, 01:18 PM
Does anyone know, roughly speaking, how much you need to earn to be in the top 1000 in contests?

This is my first 'top 1000' contest I'm doing on the site and I'm seemingly not even in the top 1200. However, my earnings for the week are pretty good so far, so idk if I'm near to being in the top 1000, or if I'm miles off and shouldn't bother ;D

Do you guys try a lot for top 1000 contests, or just cam on your normal schedule?

I never really try during contests, because I hate how they pit sex workers against each other.

However, I’m on about $700 for the week and I’m in the 400s if that helps at all x