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bobsandvangene
08-24-2021, 01:20 PM
Hi Ladies! I have a very unpleasant problem, and I was wondering if you have ever experienced issues like this while camming, and if you have any idea how to get rid of them.

So I use dildos in most of my shows, mostly medium sized, and sometimes extra large with lots of lube. Even though I always use lube, I have small injuries at my vag entry very often, and it feels extremely painful. :( Earlier I used to wear the lush inside, but nowadays I just use it in my panties, and it's much more comfortable and less painful this way.

But the shows still hurt...Do you have any idea what to do against it? I know, don't use dildo, but that is not an option. :( Are there any products that help prevent the micro injuries or make them heal faster?

I would suggest not using big dildos at all, because those small cuts can definitely lead to infections, which would make it impossible for you to work and you would lose out on A LOT of money.

If you do want to use massive dildos, however, I’d ask them to tip you. It’s what I do whenever they want hardcore penetration because it’s so taxing on your body. I ask for a minimum 30 dollar tip before anything hardcore has even been started. A lot of them pay up, a lot of them change the subject, and some of them leave. It’s a quick way to get rid of shït clients too.

bobsandvangene
08-24-2021, 01:22 PM
I had to log off for the evening btw, I’ve still got AdultWork on in the background but my GOD streamate was like pulling teeth. I think a mixture of contest week and payday coming up AND it being the slowest month of the year has made it poop.

laurielegs
08-24-2021, 01:36 PM
Hi Ladies! I have a very unpleasant problem, and I was wondering if you have ever experienced issues like this while camming, and if you have any idea how to get rid of them.

So I use dildos in most of my shows, mostly medium sized, and sometimes extra large with lots of lube. Even though I always use lube, I have small injuries at my vag entry very often, and it feels extremely painful. :( Earlier I used to wear the lush inside, but nowadays I just use it in my panties, and it's much more comfortable and less painful this way.

But the shows still hurt...Do you have any idea what to do against it? I know, don't use dildo, but that is not an option. :( Are there any products that help prevent the micro injuries or make them heal faster?

I've tried many, many different types of lubes and they all irritate me. I was getting so irritated I couldn't stand to insert anything plus getting yeast infections.

I saw a veteran cam model recommend organic coconut oil and a glass dildo and it solved all the issues I was having. I can work all day with no irritation plus I haven't had a yeast infection in years. It will also help heal those micro cuts. I would take a break while they heal though.

Coconut oil is both anti-inflammatory plus anti-microbial and won't cause the issues that antibiotics do.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5109859/

It's naturally antibacterial and makes everything so comfy - also useful during sex (don't use with a latex condom though). I only use the organic kind. It's around $10 to $15 on Amazon for a HUGE jar that lasts me months. Also it makes me look very wet on cam! I love it.

fetishqueen
08-24-2021, 02:30 PM
I say no to a lot of shows, I don't offer anal, use big toys or do penetration at all if I can help it. I also really dislike role play. All this stuff I get asked for a lot. However, there are guys who like the things I DO offer, and also spending time talking to me, we are all unique and have something special to offer. I did get a Vixskin dildo, the small 5 inch one and I can manage that with lots of lube, only if I feel I want to. Also I am quite happy to lube it up in the show, never worried about it and never had anyone complain!

Doing things that make you miserable or sore is not the way to go. Of course I understand that some ladies do feel they may need to do shows they might not be 100% comfortable with and for me to say 'don't do it' is naive. For me though I have found that the more I turn down shows I don't like, the more I enjoy shows I do like if that makes sense. I'm more natural and relaxed.

JustineA
08-24-2021, 02:31 PM
Has anyone else noticed this week it alerts for new messages in messenger but they're not showing up?

roseforarose
08-24-2021, 02:40 PM
Has anyone else noticed this week it alerts for new messages in messenger but they're not showing up?

Yup, happened to me twice this today!

FloridaSunDoll
08-24-2021, 03:25 PM
Hi Ladies! I have a very unpleasant problem, and I was wondering if you have ever experienced issues like this while camming, and if you have any idea how to get rid of them.

So I use dildos in most of my shows, mostly medium sized, and sometimes extra large with lots of lube. Even though I always use lube, I have small injuries at my vag entry very often, and it feels extremely painful. :( Earlier I used to wear the lush inside, but nowadays I just use it in my panties, and it's much more comfortable and less painful this way.

But the shows still hurt...Do you have any idea what to do against it? I know, don't use dildo, but that is not an option. :( Are there any products that help prevent the micro injuries or make them heal faster?


I’m so sorry I know how you feel and it’s awful!! I used to have this issue often! Especially on “busy” weeks at times I couldn’t even insert my lush Bc of the pain! I have changed so much of my hustle since then and now I NEVER get sore..here’s my advice: I NEVER reach for my dildo in paid chat unless they specifically ask for it. (Even if they ask for it I’m usually able to draw out a little longer out of them before grabbing it) You’d be surprised how many customers are actually just happy with fingers/dirty talk. If they ask for a dildo, I am very gentle on myself. Use the manipulation of angles to your advantage. Make it look like you’re doing more than your actually doing. If they want “bigger” toys it’s an up charge. On days when I’m feeling like my vag could use a break, I use the ferri tip vibe and regulars in particular love when I switch it up Bc I’m “in the mood” for the change of pace. I set gold shows at a high goal so when I do penetration it for a high amount with little time. You would think that doing less penetration would affect your earnings but I make WAY more and I’m NEVER sore which used to put me out of comission for so long


Edited to add**
Oh and yes to so much lube. I’ll Often take my lush out just to reapply lube. And even with fingers, vibrators, everything..so. much. lube lol

kamiliam
08-24-2021, 03:29 PM
As someone who uses "big" toys regularly, the guys who just want the biggest will demand that regardless, never big enough. Doesn't matter if by the time they turn c2c on their dick is inches smaller then the one I am using all while claiming a 9 inch.

so if YOU are not into it, doesn't seem worth it to cater to these size queens-said as a size queen.

~Carmen~
08-24-2021, 03:47 PM
I have been easing off on the dildos. I try to educate the guys that dildos don't feel that great. It's clit vibration that gets me going.

I won't do shows with guys who expect penetration right away. Also, no "harder/faster. The last 2 times I streamed, I never used a dildo at all. I'm heading toward giving them up altogether. My trash man can pick them up.

I agree with glass toys or old fashioned fingers. It is much easier on your nether regions than silicone.

emkato
08-24-2021, 04:05 PM
I have been easing off on the dildos. I try to educate the guys that dildos don't feel that great. It's clit vibration that gets me going.

I won't do shows with guys who expect penetration right away. Also, no "harder/faster. The last 2 times I streamed, I never used a dildo at all. I'm heading toward giving them up altogether. My trash man can pick them up.

I agree with glass toys or old fashioned fingers. It is much easier on your nether regions than silicone.

not to mention the way my arm cramps up while using them. I remember in the past I would do long shows where all they wanted was hard dildo fucking and it was miserable. I cant even focus on the "pleasure" when my arm is burning and my pussy keeps drying up lol

LeilaB
08-24-2021, 04:14 PM
Thank you for all the answers, they are all so helpful! It's good to know that I'm not the only one with this issue, and I'm grateful for all the ideas.
I definitely have to stall a bit more, and today at the last 2 hours I put aside the toys (they used to be on my bed in a bowl, so every guest could see them) and guys didn't ask for a bigger toy in my shows. I had a show in which I didn't even do penetration, and the guy was happy. BBC excl shows are gonna be another story, but I will try to do as less penetration as I can, it just needs more creativity.

Regarding lubes, I've been planning to use organic coconut oil since I first read about this product here, but I still have a lot of average lube at home, and first i wanted to use that. But I will use them alternately until the average runs out.

Thank you again girls xx

Marina Starr
08-24-2021, 04:20 PM
Make sure you wrap and label them clearly for him.

55838


I have been easing off on the dildos. I try to educate the guys that dildos don't feel that great. It's clit vibration that gets me going.

I won't do shows with guys who expect penetration right away. Also, no "harder/faster. The last 2 times I streamed, I never used a dildo at all. I'm heading toward giving them up altogether. My trash man can pick them up.

I agree with glass toys or old fashioned fingers. It is much easier on your nether regions than silicone.

~Carmen~
08-24-2021, 04:23 PM
Make sure you wrap and label them clearly for him.

55838

LMAO If it's a vibrator, I make sure to leave it ON!!!

BetiBoom
08-24-2021, 05:31 PM
Hey, I'm looking for some advice. I'm not a full time cam girl, usually 2 or 3 hours, about 4 nights a week, but when I come online I have a bunch of guys who come into my room the second I log on, and usually stick around for the entire time I'm online. Every time. They chat to me constantly, which is good as it gives me someone to interact with. They say I'm their favourite cam girl (I know, I know, they probably say it to everyone), but they never tip or take me to pvt or excl. I usually hit about $150/$200 in the 2-3 hours I'm online (not big money like most of you, but I'm happy enough with it), but since it's been so slow this week, it's been bugging me more and more that they say they love chatting to me but give absolutely f all in return. It is so hard to stay motivated.

So, what do you do? They're not freeloading, as we talk about every day stuff, a little flirty, as I'm trying to get them to pay, but no flashes or anything else. They're also giving me false hope that after months and months they pay absolutely nothing. How on earth do you keep your spirits up and get some cash into the bank?

Oh, also, why the hell do SM run dumbass competitions at the end of the month when most of their paying customers are waiting for payday?!

Sorry. Needed to rant. I made $12 in 3 hours tonight. I'm just pissed off.

Sugarsteepdoll
08-24-2021, 05:42 PM
Hey, I'm looking for some advice. I'm not a full time cam girl, usually 2 or 3 hours, about 4 nights a week, but when I come online I have a bunch of guys who come into my room the second I log on, and usually stick around for the entire time I'm online. Every time. They chat to me constantly, which is good as it gives me someone to interact with. They say I'm their favourite cam girl (I know, I know, they probably say it to everyone), but they never tip or take me to pvt or excl. I usually hit about $150/$200 in the 2-3 hours I'm online (not big money like most of you, but I'm happy enough with it), but since it's been so slow this week, it's been bugging me more and more that they say they love chatting to me but give absolutely f all in return. It is so hard to stay motivated.

So, what do you do? They're not freeloading, as we talk about every day stuff, a little flirty, as I'm trying to get them to pay, but no flashes or anything else. They're also giving me false hope that after months and months they pay absolutely nothing. How on earth do you keep your spirits up and get some cash into the bank?

Oh, also, why the hell do SM run dumbass competitions at the end of the month when most of their paying customers are waiting for payday?!

Sorry. Needed to rant. I made $12 in 3 hours tonight. I'm just pissed off.


Those are called freeloaders and they get off having some kind of friendship or relationship with you. If they never spend they are worthless and you need to block those losers ASAP. If a dude doesnt spend on me within the third time of visiting my room I block them! They NEVER spend!!

BetiBoom
08-24-2021, 05:53 PM
Those are called freeloaders and they get off having some kind of friendship or relationship with you. If they never spend they are worthless and you need to block those losers ASAP. If a dude doesnt spend on me within the third time of visiting my room I block them! They NEVER spend!!

Sigh. You're right. I guess I'm just hopeful that they aren't the cheap shits that they seem to be. I actually called one of them out tonight and said that if I was actually his favourite he'd show his appreciation. I guess it's better to talk to myself in an empty room than to have these wankers get anything from me.

I hate time wasters, and that's exactly what they are. $12 ffs. What a waste of my time tonight!!

Marina Starr
08-24-2021, 06:04 PM
Really not good because they're robbing the attention that you could spend on converting potential spenders into sales.

Let's call them what they are: FREELOADERS. You have to set boundaries because freeloaders never do. I would block every single one of them and start setting boundaries. Can't undo what you have allowed. What truly matters is how you handle them going forward.

More to add: these losers are worst than freeloaders. At lease with freeloaders you tell them to tip x amount for what they what or go into a show. They can pay, leave or get blocked etc. With these losers you are afraid to rock the boat because they're "nice" guys in hoping one day they'll finally spend.

Would they do this to any business in person?



Hey, I'm looking for some advice. I'm not a full time cam girl, usually 2 or 3 hours, about 4 nights a week, but when I come online I have a bunch of guys who come into my room the second I log on, and usually stick around for the entire time I'm online. Every time. They chat to me constantly, which is good as it gives me someone to interact with. They say I'm their favourite cam girl (I know, I know, they probably say it to everyone), but they never tip or take me to pvt or excl. I usually hit about $150/$200 in the 2-3 hours I'm online (not big money like most of you, but I'm happy enough with it), but since it's been so slow this week, it's been bugging me more and more that they say they love chatting to me but give absolutely f all in return. It is so hard to stay motivated.

So, what do you do? They're not freeloading, as we talk about every day stuff, a little flirty, as I'm trying to get them to pay, but no flashes or anything else. They're also giving me false hope that after months and months they pay absolutely nothing. How on earth do you keep your spirits up and get some cash into the bank?

Oh, also, why the hell do SM run dumbass competitions at the end of the month when most of their paying customers are waiting for payday?!

Sorry. Needed to rant. I made $12 in 3 hours tonight. I'm just pissed off.

Erika_Xstacy
08-24-2021, 06:06 PM
Hey, I'm looking for some advice. I'm not a full time cam girl, usually 2 or 3 hours, about 4 nights a week, but when I come online I have a bunch of guys who come into my room the second I log on, and usually stick around for the entire time I'm online. Every time. They chat to me constantly, which is good as it gives me someone to interact with. They say I'm their favourite cam girl (I know, I know, they probably say it to everyone), but they never tip or take me to pvt or excl. I usually hit about $150/$200 in the 2-3 hours I'm online (not big money like most of you, but I'm happy enough with it), but since it's been so slow this week, it's been bugging me more and more that they say they love chatting to me but give absolutely f all in return. It is so hard to stay motivated.

So, what do you do? They're not freeloading, as we talk about every day stuff, a little flirty, as I'm trying to get them to pay, but no flashes or anything else. They're also giving me false hope that after months and months they pay absolutely nothing. How on earth do you keep your spirits up and get some cash into the bank?

Oh, also, why the hell do SM run dumbass competitions at the end of the month when most of their paying customers are waiting for payday?!

Sorry. Needed to rant. I made $12 in 3 hours tonight. I'm just pissed off.

presets work wonders :) and all you have to do is click it. Address it to the whole room and if you want act like there is a room full when talking to just one guy you can say WOW why is everyone typing invisible lol then click the preset.
I get guys that spend money and lurk after.
honestly Id block them at this point. but, you can possibly get them to tip.
I'm honest w guys I've become friendly with and tell them interacting w them is costing me money and I get in trouble with my studio if not making money.. the last part is lie lol, im not in a studio

This preset clears out a room fast if not spending money
"Block lurkers and conversationalist. Money is the name of the cam game. Gold/Privates and Exclusives (Block shows copy of show) Tip menu CAM2CAM/ONE ON ONE AND PHONE IN EXCLUSIVE"


come up with presets if you haven't already. that will help entice spending

FloridaSunDoll
08-24-2021, 06:23 PM
Hey, I'm looking for some advice. I'm not a full time cam girl, usually 2 or 3 hours, about 4 nights a week, but when I come online I have a bunch of guys who come into my room the second I log on, and usually stick around for the entire time I'm online. Every time. They chat to me constantly, which is good as it gives me someone to interact with. They say I'm their favourite cam girl (I know, I know, they probably say it to everyone), but they never tip or take me to pvt or excl. I usually hit about $150/$200 in the 2-3 hours I'm online (not big money like most of you, but I'm happy enough with it), but since it's been so slow this week, it's been bugging me more and more that they say they love chatting to me but give absolutely f all in return. It is so hard to stay motivated.

So, what do you do? They're not freeloading, as we talk about every day stuff, a little flirty, as I'm trying to get them to pay, but no flashes or anything else. They're also giving me false hope that after months and months they pay absolutely nothing. How on earth do you keep your spirits up and get some cash into the bank?

Oh, also, why the hell do SM run dumbass competitions at the end of the month when most of their paying customers are waiting for payday?!

Sorry. Needed to rant. I made $12 in 3 hours tonight. I'm just pissed off.


Definitely free loaders. They get to have your time and attention and of course they get to stay an enjoy anyone else’s tips/flashes. I used to have tons of those sort of guys when I first started out. When I started getting wiser and explained to them that my time is valuable and I’d appreciate if they would tip me occasionally suddenly they would leave or make up an excuse. Some did this for years and never spent a dime so I eventually blocked them. If you think about it, they’re taking advantage of you. They know their etiquette wouldn’t fly in other girls’ room. Personally, I agree with having someone to keep you from looking bored but I don’t have the patience to entertain anyone for free

Edited to add ** about the contest- they run them when they know it’ll be slow so WE get to work harder and pull more money out of them 🙄

emkato
08-24-2021, 08:32 PM
Definitely free loaders. They get to have your time and attention and of course they get to stay an enjoy anyone else’s tips/flashes. I used to have tons of those sort of guys when I first started out. When I started getting wiser and explained to them that my time is valuable and I’d appreciate if they would tip me occasionally suddenly they would leave or make up an excuse. Some did this for years and never spent a dime so I eventually blocked them. If you think about it, they’re taking advantage of you. They know their etiquette wouldn’t fly in other girls’ room. Personally, I agree with having someone to keep you from looking bored but I don’t have the patience to entertain anyone for free

Edited to add ** about the contest- they run them when they know it’ll be slow so WE get to work harder and pull more money out of them ��

I used to have a lot of these kinds of guys when I first started as well, I was far too nice. Nowadays I seem to scare them off pretty quick just by acting far less accommodating. Recently had a guy who liked the same video game as me, we had a good conversation about it and he said he only talks to girls on SM who game. Ok i guess..? He started announcing when he would leave my room, like "BRB sorry I'll be back" as if I care?

It's pretty obvious when they aren't going to spend because they treat us like friends who owe them our time rather than directly paying us for our time. Its a waste of energy.

And yeah. Contests suck. Im always counting the hours til its over so the winners can take their money just to dissappear til the next one and things go back to normal. I miss when they did 3 day contests...what ever happened to those? Lol

xXMamiXx
08-25-2021, 05:13 AM
Hey Beauties

I believe I read in this thread that the Ferri vibrator works with SM... but I’m now being told it doesn’t based on their list in the help section ?

I have the Ferri and it says it’s connected on my app, but SMconnect shows me nothing...

Did I get the wrong toy ? Frack.

TiA

Esixxx
08-25-2021, 05:22 AM
Hey Beauties

I believe I read in this thread that the Ferri vibrator works with SM... but I’m now being told it doesn’t based on their list in the help section ?

I have the Ferri and it says it’s connected on my app, but SMconnect shows me nothing...

Did I get the wrong toy ? Frack.

TiA


The Ferri does work on SM. That's what I use.

Did you click on the "Vibe Toys" section of your streaming window to set it up?

xXMamiXx
08-25-2021, 05:54 AM
The Ferri does work on SM. That's what I use.

Did you click on the "Vibe Toys" section of your streaming window to set it up?


hey 💖

i did use the button in the encoder, yeah ! And my Lovense app says it’s connected, but when I click refresh / check connection there is nothing there so I can’t be sure it’s properly paired... can’t see it on my profile when looking as a guest (not logged in)...

what would I see if it’s connected ?

thanks so much. Having the most whack IT trouble shooting week across platforms. Dying x

Esixxx
08-25-2021, 06:45 AM
hey ��

i did use the button in the encoder, yeah ! And my Lovense app says it’s connected, but when I click refresh / check connection there is nothing there so I can’t be sure it’s properly paired... can’t see it on my profile when looking as a guest (not logged in)...

what would I see if it’s connected ?

thanks so much. Having the most whack IT trouble shooting week across platforms. Dying x

Did you scan the QR code to connect it to the mobile app?

Usually I have to start my stream first, then connect it.

When it is connected on the SM side it will show "ferri" and a green dot when you click on refresh in the tip vibe settings.

xXMamiXx
08-25-2021, 07:06 AM
Did you scan the QR code to connect it to the mobile app?

Usually I have to start my stream first, then connect it.

When it is connected on the SM side it will show "ferri" and a green dot when you click on refresh in the tip vibe settings.


ok thanks so much ! Now I know what I need to look for, although I seem to have tried everything (I’ve been scanning the code, I’ve tried while streaming and whilst not streaming, have turned the Bluetooth on and off on my laptop in case that was relevant… After I scan the code as I say it shows up on the actual toy app, but there is no change on the SM side… I’m guessing it will work eventually for no apparent reason

thank you again x

VVV
08-25-2021, 07:38 AM
Hey, I'm looking for some advice. I'm not a full time cam girl, usually 2 or 3 hours, about 4 nights a week, but when I come online I have a bunch of guys who come into my room the second I log on, and usually stick around for the entire time I'm online. Every time. They chat to me constantly, which is good as it gives me someone to interact with. They say I'm their favourite cam girl (I know, I know, they probably say it to everyone), but they never tip or take me to pvt or excl. I usually hit about $150/$200 in the 2-3 hours I'm online (not big money like most of you, but I'm happy enough with it), but since it's been so slow this week, it's been bugging me more and more that they say they love chatting to me but give absolutely f all in return. It is so hard to stay motivated.

So, what do you do? They're not freeloading, as we talk about every day stuff, a little flirty, as I'm trying to get them to pay, but no flashes or anything else. They're also giving me false hope that after months and months they pay absolutely nothing. How on earth do you keep your spirits up and get some cash into the bank?

Oh, also, why the hell do SM run dumbass competitions at the end of the month when most of their paying customers are waiting for payday?!

Sorry. Needed to rant. I made $12 in 3 hours tonight. I'm just pissed off.

It's like to visit a shop everyday go inside and stay there without buying lol. Wasting energy just to talk is useless IMO but it's up to you. I prefer to focus on things that matter vs small talk without outcome. I block them after third visit average. I never talk more than few lines on free chat.. I can talk further if they are paying tho! It's not respectful of my time as well... they need to learn that our time is money

VVV
08-25-2021, 09:07 AM
Very zzzzzz slowly today omg. Crazzyyyyy slow.

If I get a breast augmentation how many days I must take off...one week is sure but I would be able to work wearing maybe the bras I suppose I ll have some marks...? I hope some of you can share their experience :) thank you so much

kinkydirtybitch
08-25-2021, 09:23 AM
Fuck I had two months off to heal properly! Health and safety comes first and didn’t want to rush the healing process and end up with wonky nockers. They healed perfectly both when they went in and when they came out 10 years later

LeilaB
08-25-2021, 09:45 AM
Hey, I'm looking for some advice. I'm not a full time cam girl, usually 2 or 3 hours, about 4 nights a week, but when I come online I have a bunch of guys who come into my room the second I log on, and usually stick around for the entire time I'm online. Every time. They chat to me constantly, which is good as it gives me someone to interact with. They say I'm their favourite cam girl (I know, I know, they probably say it to everyone), but they never tip or take me to pvt or excl. I usually hit about $150/$200 in the 2-3 hours I'm online (not big money like most of you, but I'm happy enough with it), but since it's been so slow this week, it's been bugging me more and more that they say they love chatting to me but give absolutely f all in return. It is so hard to stay motivated.

So, what do you do? They're not freeloading, as we talk about every day stuff, a little flirty, as I'm trying to get them to pay, but no flashes or anything else. They're also giving me false hope that after months and months they pay absolutely nothing. How on earth do you keep your spirits up and get some cash into the bank?

Oh, also, why the hell do SM run dumbass competitions at the end of the month when most of their paying customers are waiting for payday?!

Sorry. Needed to rant. I made $12 in 3 hours tonight. I'm just pissed off.

Girl, they take advantage of you, it's clear. They may seem to be nice guys, but you can be sure, they cum for free, enjoy the flashes others tip for, and just rob your attention. I learned if someone doesn't pay in the first 3-4 mins, he never will. This is 95% true. I think the best you can do is to be very direct while being in free chat. Ask direct questions about what the guest wanna do, what he likes, and if they want to distract, don't let them do that. If they give you blurry answers, or say "I just want to build connection, I'm looking for friendship" etc. that is all bullshit. I think the best you can do with these freeloaders is to block them. They never gonna pay, and you can't pay enough attention to the potentially paying customers.

Ambercat
08-25-2021, 10:32 AM
Very zzzzzz slowly today omg. Crazzyyyyy slow.

If I get a breast augmentation how many days I must take off...one week is sure but I would be able to work wearing maybe the bras I suppose I ll have some marks...? I hope some of you can share their experience :) thank you so much

A friend recently had and took 6 weeks. Implants only, not just lift. I'm having both so planning for Jan so it matches with my slow time and i dont lose out on too much.

looklovely
08-25-2021, 11:25 AM
Anyone else having issues logging in? It just spins, then "You have stopped streaming." I'm using Chrome, cleared cookies and restarted.

Panthera
08-25-2021, 11:31 AM
Anyone else having issues logging in? It just spins, then "You have stopped streaming." I'm using Chrome, cleared cookies and restarted.

For me it only works with Firefox

looklovely
08-25-2021, 11:37 AM
For me it only works with Firefox

Thanks, I tried Firefox also and same thing.

Your streaming session has ended because you stopped streaming. After the scan and everything.

DeliveryLadyx
08-25-2021, 11:54 AM
I had that today, on Chrome, Edge and Firefox. But went back to Firefox and insisted. This week something is up... Cannot change the display country again, I have to request to support. Anyone else the same?

euro_princess
08-25-2021, 12:25 PM
Such a graveyard this week! I can’t stay on while I’m making biscuits money. Lord, give me patience to survive this emptiness.

Other than that, connection has been solid for me. No issue scanning my face, no bitrate dropping. But hey, I would rather take some error and more traffic than the other way.

Dahlia Fallon
08-25-2021, 01:15 PM
Such a graveyard this week! I can’t stay on while I’m making biscuits money. Lord, give me patience to survive this emptiness.

Other than that, connection has been solid for me. No issue scanning my face, no bitrate dropping. But hey, I would rather take some error and more traffic than the other way.


I will now be adopting the term "biscuits money" thank you x

LullaBelle
08-25-2021, 01:19 PM
I pulled up Streamate and it's only showing the non-US Models on the first couple pages. I have no preference's preset or anything like that. My traffic has been peanuts and I was wondering why.. Anyone else have this happening too? Contest weeks are the damn worst for me *throws a mental fit and just sits on the floor*

DeliveryLadyx
08-25-2021, 01:37 PM
Yep. I only yesterday changed to UK traffic and is still shiite. Changed only because is absolutely flimsy for US. But I cannot stand the few British guys I had. I did try yo change back to US and again it defaults to UK (the other day I tried 6-7 times to change to UK and defaulted to US lols). Need to contact support to change manually. Shouldn't be such hassle. I did email Liz asking her if she can change back to US display. I wonder what the hell Streamate is working on this week, what other security updates...?

looklovely
08-25-2021, 01:53 PM
I pulled up Streamate and it's only showing the non-US Models on the first couple pages. I have no preference's preset or anything like that. My traffic has been peanuts and I was wondering why.. Anyone else have this happening too? Contest weeks are the damn worst for me *throws a mental fit and just sits on the floor*

Posted about that the other day, and a lot of nude/masturbating on the first page. I'm making less than minimum wage.

LullaBelle
08-25-2021, 01:59 PM
Posted about that the other day, and a lot of nude/masturbating on the first page. I'm making less than minimum wage.


Same. In 4 hours, I just hit $19.42. Hang in there <3

looklovely
08-25-2021, 02:01 PM
Same. In 4 hours, I just hit $19.42. Hang in there <3

That was yesterday. Today, I can't even log in...Contacted support and waiting to hear back again.

liquidsilk
08-25-2021, 02:39 PM
I just checked by viewing my customer account through a VPN in the USA and there are no American models at all until page 3/4. Same as when I log in without a VPN (so UK). No USA for pages. BUT all the UK models are top row which explains the difference in traffic as UK models were not competing with any USA CA or AUS.

I know that placement is different for everyone based on spending and browsing history but I am checking this on a fresh account so no influence there, and it is the same on the customer account that I actually use for browsing and tipping.

checked from Aus, only Aus models, then no USA/UK. Checked from Canada, all Canadians top row, no USA/UK/AUS etc.

USA priority placement seems to be switched off for viewers based in the USA on Streamate for logged in customers. Not whitelabels.

It is all very different to a regular order.

It is only on streamate though. Everything is normal on jerkmate, pornhublive etc so whitelabels are not affected.

Probably sounds nonsense because everything looks normal on Streamate UNTIL you log in.



so to clarify:

Streamate, jerkmate, PHL - not logged in - everything normal

Jerkmate, PHL - logged in - everything normal

Streamate - logged in - all odd.

I have a lot of accounts lol.



Same as before, happening again :(

There is something going on with country names at least. It used to say the country code, now it says the whole country so United kingdom instead of UK for example.

emkato
08-25-2021, 02:53 PM
Recently had a guy who liked the same video game as me, we had a good conversation about it and he said he only talks to girls on SM who game. Ok i guess..? He started announcing when he would leave my room, like "BRB sorry I'll be back" as if I care?

It's pretty obvious when they aren't going to spend because they treat us like friends who owe them our time rather than directly paying us for our time. Its a waste of energy.

Ok so idk if anyone cares but I feel like I have to share more on this topic lol...

Gamer guy came back into my room today and told me he "just popped in to say hello to my friend, Please let me know if you need anything or help." I replied " what would I need help with?" he says "you know, with gaming or anything"

....does this LOOK like Twitch????? Dude this site isnt for you!!! Not that he would have much success there either since he has no intention of tipping here so why would he there? even though those girls are millionaires for simply existing and doing squats...

I told him tips for my time or flashes is always appreciated. he sat silent for a minute and I just logged off. The quality of customers on SM has gone so downhill, or maybe none of the quality customers like me anymore. Cant help but laugh or else I'd cry :''')

roseforarose
08-25-2021, 03:02 PM
Ok so idk if anyone cares but I feel like I have to share more on this topic lol...

Gamer guy came back into my room today and told me he "just popped in to say hello to my friend, Please let me know if you need anything or help." I replied " what would I need help with?" he says "you know, with gaming or anything"

....does this LOOK like Twitch????? Dude this site isnt for you!!! Not that he would have much success there either since he has no intention of tipping here so why would he there? even though those girls are millionaires for simply existing and doing squats...

I told him tips for my time or flashes is always appreciated. he sat silent for a minute and I just logged off. The quality of customers on SM has gone so downhill, or maybe none of the quality customers like me anymore. Cant help but laugh or else I'd cry :''')

Lmaooo, I used to play low-fi gaming mixes in my room, had to switch back to normal music because the gamer guys are awful! I've only ever had one good guy that came from a convo about gaming, not seen him in like a month so wasn't good enough to be a reg anyway! The quality of customers this week has been grim for me. So many 'new' guys who don't know how to work the site, then complaining when they finally figure out my pricing, ew!

emkato
08-25-2021, 03:16 PM
Lmaooo, I used to playing low-fi gaming mixes in my room, had to switch back to normal music because the gamer guys are awful! I've only ever had one good guy that came from a convo about gaming, not seen him in like a month so wasn't good enough to be a reg anyway! The quality of customers this week has been grim for me. So many 'new' guys who don't know how to work the site, then complaining when they finally figure out my pricing, ew!

Agreed, they never bring anything to the table other than being annoying and entitled. I am not looking for friendship, or a gaming buddy. I play solo RPGS anyway so f off lol.... I think with how slow its been the past few months and how little I've been making, this asshat coming in my room was the straw that broke the camels back. Frustrated me way more than it should have. I'm done for the day, my mood is sour. there's always tomorrow.

edit: also how DARE he assume I need help with my video games lmao. why, cause I'm and uwu gamer girl who doesn't know any bettter uwu?? foh

/endrant

FloridaSunDoll
08-25-2021, 07:33 PM
Ok I have no experience with cash app because I’ve never used it. Do you ladies know why time wasters ALWAYS want to use cash app instead of the site. I always assume it’s because they’ve figured a way to scam the system and charge back but I was wondering if anyone had better knowledge. I always shame and report them but I can’t properly shame unless I’m certain there’s a scam behind it lol

laurielegs
08-25-2021, 08:53 PM
Ok I have no experience with cash app because I’ve never used it. Do you ladies know why time wasters ALWAYS want to use cash app instead of the site. I always assume it’s because they’ve figured a way to scam the system and charge back but I was wondering if anyone had better knowledge. I always shame and report them but I can’t properly shame unless I’m certain there’s a scam behind it lol

You can lose your account if you take an outside payment method. Usually the cash app idiots are trying to get you to work for half price because they will point out you get to keep it all, plus they can do a chargeback to take the money back if they claim fraud. It's not safe.

FloridaSunDoll
08-25-2021, 09:08 PM
You can lose your account if you take an outside payment method. Usually the cash app idiots are trying to get you to work for half price because they will point out you get to keep it all, plus they can do a chargeback to take the money back if they claim fraud. It's not safe.

Oh I have absolutely no interest in taking them up for the offer. I never have and never will. In my opinion if you don’t have money to spend on the site then you don’t have money to spend. I was just asking bc I wasn’t sure what the lure of using cash app to them was.I assumed it was the chargebacks. I wanted to check with you ladies so when I shame them I know exactly what I’m shaming them for lol

Ambercat
08-26-2021, 03:04 AM
Oh I have absolutely no interest in taking them up for the offer. I never have and never will. In my opinion if you don’t have money to spend on the site then you don’t have money to spend. I was just asking bc I wasn’t sure what the lure of using cash app to them was.I assumed it was the chargebacks. I wanted to check with you ladies so when I shame them I know exactly what I’m shaming them for lol

I've made a generic auto message for these ass hats, something along the lines of "CAUTION - As per the Terms of Service of this platform it is strictly forbidden......failure to comply will lead to your removal" How they respond depends on whether I block them ;D

Ambercat
08-26-2021, 03:08 AM
I've got my first payout showing in the payment history, it's dated tomorrow, does that mean it's going to hit my bank then or they will process it tomorrow and I'll get it during the week next week? I'm sure I read somewhere on here the payments were processed Monday/Tuesday but I know there has been a reporting problem.