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kamiliam
09-28-2021, 01:50 PM
If you see the custie breaking the intox rules I wouldn’t acknowledge it in anyway, then in light of support’s latest communications-report.
I have the ‘advantage’ of previously partying and have no problem writing off those discussions with “I don’t party”
They barely get a FAQ or warnings beyond their messages being censored and the no outside contact message in chat. But most of them know that their thing such as blackmail is against the rules, they just try with whatever model get’s their dick hard.
SapphireXO
09-28-2021, 01:57 PM
OMG its so fucking dead today.
Yes. Terribly slow.
~Carmen~
09-28-2021, 02:22 PM
What is it about Tuesdays that are notoriously dead? Most hoes I've spoke to said the same thing. Tuesdays are the worst in their hoeing career.
My slowest days are Sunday and Tuesday. Sunday used to be great back in the day.
Erika_Xstacy
09-28-2021, 02:26 PM
I do blackmale shows but rarely post to social media. The guys have already gotten off
they get off on the thought
if i do post it, i post it to one of my accts not associated with guys that get shows. I fear they will think I record and post for fun or if I don't get my way I will out them.
I have a few guys that do poppers. it never bothers me
what gets me is their age, usually older heart attack age, please dont die lol
SoloDesire
09-28-2021, 02:32 PM
I have a few guys that do poppers. it never bothers me
what gets me is their age, usually older heart attack age, please dont die lol
So weird! Every popper guy I get looks younger. I never know what they expect from me, but I'll entertain it. No issues yet.
Marina Starr
09-28-2021, 02:43 PM
Fuckboys galore on Sundays. I block the most on Sundays. They're hit or miss. I think spenders are going to Church on Sunday confessing their sins and asking for forgiveness. Church says 'pray for a good harvest but keep on jerking'. AMEN.
My slowest days are Sunday and Tuesday. Sunday used to be great back in the day.
Erika_Xstacy
09-28-2021, 03:03 PM
So weird! Every popper guy I get looks younger. I never know what they expect from me, but I'll entertain it. No issues yet.
i do get the old freaks, sometimes they scare me not by what they do but the vibe they give me is weird even on cam
I have had young guys ask if I mind they get high, IDC what they do, most don't show what they are doing but i had one whip out his meth pipe, no shame in his game and i was kinda shocked
kamiliam
09-28-2021, 03:04 PM
So weird! Every popper guy I get looks younger. I never know what they expect from me, but I'll entertain it. No issues yet.
I worry about them at any age especially since so many take boner pills as well. It isn’t illegal to buy poppers just technically can’t be advertised for inhaling. I won’t go into the TMI story but I tried them once like a decade ago and it just gave me a gnarly headache, disappointing but I am not man so who knows.
Luci Fer
09-28-2021, 03:08 PM
My slowest days are Sunday and Tuesday. Sunday used to be great back in the day.
sundays are so different, but I feel like they used to be great, too. Now you never fucking know with them lol
So weird! Every popper guy I get looks younger. I never know what they expect from me, but I'll entertain it. No issues yet.
So Erika has mostly older poppers fans, you have young bois and mine are usually medium age like 30+ Guess we ve just divided the market perfectly ;D
Fuckboys galore on Sundays. I block the most on Sundays. They're hit or miss. I think spenders are going to Church on Sunday confessing their sins and asking for forgiveness. Church says 'pray for a good harvest but keep on jerking'. AMEN.
hahaha! if church said it, they would spend the whole sunday there!
Marina Starr
09-28-2021, 03:17 PM
Love Jesus at Church but freaks in the sheets! These Christians men are so wild in the sheets. A lot of them are blessed by the Lord with big dicks too! #christiandicks
hahaha! if church said it, they would spend the whole sunday there!
Luci Fer
09-28-2021, 03:38 PM
Love Jesus at Church but freaks in the sheets! These Christians men are so wild in the sheets. A lot of them are blessed by the Lord with big dicks too! #christiandicks
hahahaha! oh I'll need to make a research on that. From now on, when I encounter a dude with a big cock, I'm gonna ask him if he has a minute to talk about jesus ;D
littleprincessbella
09-28-2021, 10:21 PM
Daddy is allowed though. There are some banned words which don't even make it through the filter and their whole message is invisible.
If you check on the guys main page there is a whole category called daddy! It is popular too lol. It would be the equivalent as them banning feet or big tits for the girls side. Theres a category for girls called granny too so it's like how can we be categorised with familial descriptors but not use them?
I'm not sure if incest was ever explicitly listed in the tos, I would have to check through older copies I have saved but it isn't on there at present. I know some people have emailed in and got the general response that yeah nah incest isn't allowed just be step daddy or whatever but its definitely not a clear no no.
thanks I have been having a panic attack about all the dudes with fucking daddy in their name (I hate how open to interpretation the words are)
Ladybuggie
09-29-2021, 05:44 AM
The week started pretty good for me because of some isolated but very long shows and video sales, but yesterday it started to get slow and today it's the slowest it's been on SM for me in months. It took like 5 minutes for someone to even come into my room. I thought I was offline! lol what is this
DeliveryLadyx
09-29-2021, 05:50 AM
Same here, identical experience like you for the week and today. I am literally staying at no potentials or any one coming in room. I checked myself and i am pixelating when I move but my internet is rock solid.
Btw, did in 2 browsers, deleted cookies, incognito, with vpn and without. in 4k streaming and in 1080p 60 fps and still pixelating. Is the site. I will go for a nice walk in the park as is sunshine and be back much later, maybe Streamate is sorting themselves out, am gonna send a ticket to let them know in Help in sm connect for them to know they have glitches. i suggest anyone else seeing no traffic and pixelating do the same.
Ladybuggie
09-29-2021, 05:56 AM
Same here, identical experience like you for the week and today. I am literally staying at no potentials or any one coming in room. I checked myself and i am pixelating when I move but my internet is rock solid.
It's so weird because on the days that I did better, my bitrate and RTT were on red and orange randomly but people seemed to see me just fine. Today it seems green and smooth but it's abismal. I've even enabled free chat on AW to try and keep me entertained.
lttc892
09-29-2021, 06:15 AM
yes! they dont show but if i look myself up, they are on my profile
Sunnylexie
09-29-2021, 08:21 AM
My feed's been HIDEOUSLY laggy for 2 days, like huge visible lag where I twirl and see myself still turned back to the cam when done. I'm surprised I'm getting any shows at all.
fetishqueen
09-29-2021, 08:32 AM
My feed's been HIDEOUSLY laggy for 2 days, like huge visible lag where I twirl and see myself still turned back to the cam when done. I'm surprised I'm getting any shows at all.
Same although it's been about a week and a half now, in the red the majority of the time. What exactly is Bitrate anyway? Is it down to SM or is it me? I don't have any issue on AW AFAIK.
Sunnylexie
09-29-2021, 08:40 AM
Same although it's been about a week and a half now, in the red the majority of the time. What exactly is Bitrate anyway? Is it down to SM or is it me? I don't have any issue on AW AFAIK.
I've been lagging with all greens, guess it's not the internet but rather the site or the streaming client.
fetishqueen
09-29-2021, 08:48 AM
Fed up with it tbh, it's hard enough to earn right now without the stream looking like shit.
DeliveryLadyx
09-29-2021, 10:08 AM
Logged on again. Not a soul in my room. :)) This site has serious issues today. Oh well, if after so many hours they haven't fixed.... Be back tomorrow, gutted.
Miss_ShaSha
09-29-2021, 10:49 AM
I've streamed 11 hrs so far for nadadamnthing lolollll. This contest blows. The rest of Oct pay periods I'm STFO! 30-40 hr weeks. I got a hefty goal to reach, but by the looks of last year...either it was so dead I couldn't bear to STFO or I had enough in savings and was like fuck this month hahahaaa.
Next week I'm not playing any games :D
emkato
09-29-2021, 11:37 AM
Considering its a ghost town online I am using today as an excuse for me to catch up on my youtube videos and podcasts, while simultaneously sitting pretty on cam with my 3 potentials that never ever leave. Ive got nothing better to do lol.
If only I had 2 monitors, maybe I'd get away with playing the sims and no one online would even notice :rotfl:
Cant stream, the verifying process is taking forever, i tried several times and is not taking a frame for my face, it's spinning endless.
Trying for 15-20 mins already. Anyone else pls?
ETA: it worked finally after many tries, phew!!
~Carmen~
09-29-2021, 08:35 PM
I've streamed 11 hrs so far for nadadamnthing lolollll. This contest blows. The rest of Oct pay periods I'm STFO! 30-40 hr weeks. I got a hefty goal to reach, but by the looks of last year...either it was so dead I couldn't bear to STFO or I had enough in savings and was like fuck this month hahahaaa.
Next week I'm not playing any games :D
I'm with you for next week. I'm going to try streaming 5 days instead of my usual 4, to make up for contest week.;D
Luci Fer
09-29-2021, 09:37 PM
I asked support about poppers and users using drugs and they said it was strictly prohibited and told me to ban and report them.:-[
Strawberryblonde
09-29-2021, 10:13 PM
I asked support about poppers and users using drugs and they said it was strictly prohibited and told me to ban and report them.:-[
Thanks for this I would guess it is to protect from charge backs, and of course facilitating.
I would like to see clear rules for customers ie they get something more obvious like we do. So many times I say "This site is for webcam only", Customer ; "Can I send you a message?", Me ; "They monitor messages", Customer ; "Where can we talk?", Me ;"We can't, we can't exchange contact details".
Luci Fer
09-29-2021, 10:22 PM
Thanks for this I would guess it is to protect from charge backs, and of course facilitating.
I would like to see clear rules for customers ie they get something more obvious like we do. So many times I say "This site is for webcam only", Customer ; "Can I send you a message?", Me ; "They monitor messages", Customer ; "Where can we talk?", Me ;"We can't, we can't exchange contact details".
Yes! I don't know if members have their own Code of Conduct or nothing at all?
Regarding poppers: I asked them about roleplays including poppers too and things like hypnosis roleplay and they didnot specify, they just said to ban and report. Honestly,I didnot expect it lol
Ugh I wish they let the guys know it somehow. I don't like to say 'no you cant, no it's forbidden'. I feel like a fucking mommy when I do it: 'no, you should wash your hands before you touch your weewee'
Strawberryblonde
09-29-2021, 10:33 PM
Yes! I don't know if members have their own Code of Conduct or nothing at all?
Regarding poppers: I asked them about roleplays including poppers too and things like hypnosis roleplay and they didnot specify, they just said to ban and report. Honestly,I didnot expect it lol
Ugh I wish they let the guys know it somehow. I don't like to say 'no you cant, no it's forbidden'. I feel like a fucking mommy when I do it: 'no, you should wash your hands before you touch your weewee'
I went onto one of the sites just browsing looked for T&C, the not to contact performers was in there and not in tiny print.
Luci Fer
09-29-2021, 10:44 PM
I went onto one of the sites just browsing looked for T&C, the not to contact performers was in there and not in tiny print.
Also, I believe they have this 'dont exchange personal info' thing when they log in any model's room. So looks like some of them deliberately ignore it.
bigbum
09-29-2021, 10:56 PM
Yes! I don't know if members have their own Code of Conduct or nothing at all?
Regarding poppers: I asked them about roleplays including poppers too and things like hypnosis roleplay and they didnot specify, they just said to ban and report. Honestly,I didnot expect it lol
Ugh I wish they let the guys know it somehow. I don't like to say 'no you cant, no it's forbidden'. I feel like a fucking mommy when I do it: 'no, you should wash your hands before you touch your weewee'
omggg hahahahha!!! yes!!
Sunnylexie
09-29-2021, 11:07 PM
Also, I believe they have this 'dont exchange personal info' thing when they log in any model's room. So looks like some of them deliberately ignore it.
They 100% DO see it, and they DO deliberately ignore it. I literally ask every guy asking to meet or sharing their contacts whether they've seen the warning and every fucking one will be like oh yeah I have so what:banghead:.
I have a semi-reg who once asked whether I'd do a show on skype. I told him asking for contacts was a big no-no with the site, but he kept asking once in a while whether I'd changed my mind. I thought it to be a joke, but he keept changing his nickname like once in a few months and I asked why. He told the site keeped banning him for some reason saying it was because of numerous reports; he believed one "couldn't be loved by everyone" (c) so just kept making new accounts. I asked if he asked anyone else for skype, he said yes. I told him he was getting reported for breaking the site TOS I had told and kept telling him about. He was SO shocked THE RULES ACTUALLY WERE TO BE FOLLOWED. He earnestly thought the models saying "no, I can't, it's forbidden" were just playing hard to get and whoever reported him did it just out of some weird personal spite.
My thought is that since they see SM as a place to relax and entertain themselves, they don't believe the rules are for real and think them to be a play-pretend to add up to the experience. You know, the way a guardian in a MMO RPG warns you to keep clear of the edges of a teleport to avoid injury, but nothing really happens if you don't. I won't be surprised if they think the site put the TOS and all the warnings there just to give them the extra thrill of rulebreaking.
Strawberryblonde
09-30-2021, 01:17 AM
They 100% DO see it, and they DO deliberately ignore it. I literally ask every guy asking to meet or sharing their contacts whether they've seen the warning and every fucking one will be like oh yeah I have so what:banghead:.
I have a semi-reg who once asked whether I'd do a show on skype. I told him asking for contacts was a big no-no with the site, but he kept asking once in a while whether I'd changed my mind. I thought it to be a joke, but he keept changing his nickname like once in a few months and I asked why. He told the site keeped banning him for some reason saying it was because of numerous reports; he believed one "couldn't be loved by everyone" (c) so just kept making new accounts. I asked if he asked anyone else for skype, he said yes. I told him he was getting reported for breaking the site TOS I had told and kept telling him about. He was SO shocked THE RULES ACTUALLY WERE TO BE FOLLOWED. He earnestly thought the models saying "no, I can't, it's forbidden" were just playing hard to get and whoever reported him did it just out of some weird personal spite.
My thought is that since they see SM as a place to relax and entertain themselves, they don't believe the rules are for real and think them to be a play-pretend to add up to the experience. You know, the way a guardian in a MMO RPG warns you to keep clear of the edges of a teleport to avoid injury, but nothing really happens if you don't. I won't be surprised if they think the site put the TOS and all the warnings there just to give them the extra thrill of rulebreaking.
I am wondering if "Do you want me to be banned/removed from here" might work a little better?
Ambercat
09-30-2021, 02:43 AM
Please can someone give me an idea of total $ to rank in this best 3 days? I'm trying to decide whether to go for it or be happy with the 25hr bonus and focus on other things.
roseforarose
09-30-2021, 03:43 AM
I am wondering if "Do you want me to be banned/removed from here" might work a little better?
A large percentage of those breaking the rules don't care. 'No, I don't break the rules/wanted to be banned etc' just results in them saying 'plssss bby, you won't get caught! Do it for meeee'. Just block them lol, not worth the time
emkato
09-30-2021, 04:46 AM
Also, I believe they have this 'dont exchange personal info' thing when they log in any model's room. So looks like some of them deliberately ignore it.
100%. Sunnylexie said it perfectly.
Remember, they want to "get to know us" *eye roll*. They want to feel special by talking to us on as many social media accounts besides streamate as possible, suck up as much of our time and energy as they can for free. They think because we get naked online for money we are an easy conquest and no doubt they think they can easily manipulate us into sending nudes back and forth on snapchat instead of paying for a show. I think they genuinely see us as "easy" women, when in fact its the total opposite lol.
Long story short a lot of them don't care about rules, men get very entitled when they start thinking with the wrong head.
Marina Starr
09-30-2021, 05:19 AM
They don't give a fuck about us. Love the 'let's play on skype because I'd rather give you all the money instead of the site taking a cut.'
I tell them I only feel comfortable with guys getting to know me in exclusive. If they ignore my request and keep going, I'll say 'you ready to go exclusive?' If they don't oblige in a minute or less I ruthlessly block away!
They think all is fair and game until I block the fuck out of all of them. I don't let stupid run my room!
100%. Sunnylexie said it perfectly.
Remember, they want to "get to know us" *eye roll*. They want to feel special by talking to us on as many social media accounts besides streamate as possible, suck up as much of our time and energy as they can for free. They think because we get naked online for money we are an easy conquest and no doubt they think they can easily manipulate us into sending nudes back and forth on snapchat instead of paying for a show. I think they genuinely see us as "easy" women, when in fact its the total opposite lol.
Long story short a lot of them don't care about rules, men get very entitled when they start thinking with the wrong head.
Sunnylexie
09-30-2021, 06:20 AM
SM disabled the room topics and people are sticking their @handles onto their avvies like nothing's wrong lol. Wondering what SM is gonna do now. My guess is, go back to the premade and premoderated userpics))
I am wondering if "Do you want me to be banned/removed from here" might work a little better?
IMO they don't care (you get banned but they're still left with 1500 other models+new ones coming everyday) or don't take it seriously (like, MFC does have the "frontal nudity only" rule, and what they see is pussy spread and stuffed all over the front page).
Seductive_Brit
09-30-2021, 07:10 AM
Has anybody else been kicked out? I found the email saying my documents had not been approved but since then the banner had disappeared and said it was approved. I am seriously panicking right now. It's saying I don't have the right password, I reset it and still locked out. Last time this happened it was a glitch and Streammate fixed it but yeah very worried.
Sunnylexie
09-30-2021, 07:13 AM
Has anybody else been kicked out? I found the email saying my documents had not been approved but since then the banner had disappeared and said it was approved. I am seriously panicking right now. It's saying I don't have the right password, I reset it and still locked out. Last time this happened it was a glitch and Streammate fixed it but yeah very worried.
Looks like the login server is down again. Not letting me to the profile saying password or login are incorrect. Still letting me stream though, as far as I'm only making pauses and not stopping the stream.
passionflower
09-30-2021, 07:21 AM
I'm also unable to login, even after a password reset. Had a moment of panic but feeling a little better that it's not just me.
Angela888
09-30-2021, 07:23 AM
I’m unable to log in at all, just says verifying connection but never connects
Sunnylexie
09-30-2021, 07:24 AM
Don't panic, the login issue's been officially acknowledged on the Russian SM telegram. It's definitely NOT you.
DeliveryLadyx
09-30-2021, 07:25 AM
I have logged on this morning, same thing as yesterday, zero traffic, very few potentials. Tried again now, cannot log in. Another wasted day and nerves.... I must go back on AW and splitcam when this site is having issues because at the. Moment is weekly, every Wednesday and Thursday. Gutted because I cannot get my lowest day paid again and get 30% with Boleyn because this site is simply not letting me work every day even 3 hours if I desire to do so. I hate when things aren't under my control.
naughtybabe1
09-30-2021, 07:27 AM
yeah i took a break and cant get back in now either...bad password blah blah....stupid shit
Seductive_Brit
09-30-2021, 07:27 AM
Thanks guys for the responses. So glad we have this. So it's a site wide issue. I stupidly emailed support though and mentioned about the ID, which had apparently since been verified hope I haven't fucked that for myself in my panic. Should have posted here first :')
MissAdriana
09-30-2021, 07:35 AM
I can't login either
emkato
09-30-2021, 07:44 AM
so glad I woke up early for this ;D
xoprincessremy
09-30-2021, 07:44 AM
I'm logged in but can't stream. It just keeps loading and loading and eventually stops. It's the same never-ending loading blue circle.
emkato
09-30-2021, 07:46 AM
I'm logged in but can't stream. It just keeps loading and loading and eventually stops. It's the same never-ending loading blue circle.
same but I refreshed my dashboard and then it logged me out