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zeusydoo
10-06-2021, 05:36 PM
I'll have to create a quick preset about not meeting up. There's no doubt it's gonna be put to good use. Can't type all that everytime they ask.
Imagine doing an hour long show using quick preset explaining why we can't meet up.
There are guys that would actually stay that long thinking we're playing hard to get and it's their mission to change our minds.
Usually I would milk that shit but now I wouldn't risk it.
I have a quick response for guys wanting to meet up
I am here for online fun only, I am not interested in hooking up in real life, nor am I looking for a fuck buddy, sorry
works like a dream lol
Marina Starr
10-06-2021, 05:48 PM
This needs to be on a shirt to wear on and off cam. Free chat doesn't just end off cam!
I have a quick response for guys wanting to meet up
I am here for online fun only, I am not interested in hooking up in real life, nor am I looking for a fuck buddy, sorry
works like a dream lol
zeusydoo
10-06-2021, 06:00 PM
This needs to be on a shirt to wear on and off cam. Free chat doesn't just end off cam!
true true but I just got so sick of guys from my country assuming I want to meet and fuck them ,,um no I am married go away just give me your money. I also find most of those guys dont spend a diome anyways.
Marina Starr
10-06-2021, 06:04 PM
They'd rather give you all the money in person!
true true but I just got so sick of guys from my country assuming I want to meet and fuck them ,,um no I am married go away just give me your money. I also find most of those guys dont spend a diome anyways.
zeusydoo
10-06-2021, 06:11 PM
They'd rather give you all the money in person!
Most are broke ass 20 year olds with the attention span of a gnat
MsJess
10-06-2021, 06:46 PM
How do I verify on the SM discord channel? pls halp :S
Erika_Xstacy
10-06-2021, 07:02 PM
Yes, i lost connection today and I almost never have this kinda problems :S same, this week i am working w/out a Ethernet cord until it arrives so I kinda worried it was that
one arrived and it doesn't give any speed so im waiting on another one
^yes, i was just kicked out of excl and offline. we were able to go back and finish tho.
edit: i am also missing gold tips from the show, hopefully just a glitch.
nvm i found them lol
yay for finding them :) I had hit goal and boom... stream disconnected and reconnected
satan can go right back to hell today
are webcams streaming smooth or anyone getting a glitch? im getting random glitches
all of this is happening when i have no ethernet cord to confirm its me not being wired or whatever
Luci Fer
10-06-2021, 07:04 PM
you mean like check stats? when you go to dashboard>activity feed, your posts are displayed in an unclickable list format. unfortunately there are no detailed stats, like it doesn't show which posts have sold. only indicators are any reactions but not everyone reacts. and you are right, all we see is 'video purchase' in our earnings report
edit: i think i know what you mean by cropped now, yes the thumbnails are cropped a bit oddly. however when you right click on the photo you can see the full view and its original dimensions, so i am assuming the customers get to see everything just fine :)
yes, the stats! damn, I really expected to find them there, lol. It's pity they don't have such option.
yeah, I just right-clicked the pic and it was fine, guess I can ditch that game with resizing them too much, thank you!
bigbum
10-06-2021, 09:41 PM
Did you ever hear from them about what we can say etc? maybe we can make some kind of wiki ourselves here - like what do you say to certain things/requests while still effectively selling others in the room lol
mods can we start a thread for SM allowed/not allowed
with screen shots from email sources ect from sm directly
and make the thread private?
that would be great!
Luci Fer
10-06-2021, 10:51 PM
mods can we start a thread for SM allowed/not allowed
with screen shots from email sources ect from sm directly
and make the thread private?
that would be great!
I support the idea!
Seductive_Brit
10-07-2021, 06:09 AM
Erika, do you have that weird effect of ...I don't know how to explain properly..when you stream, there is a quick moment of an additional scroll in the chat (on the right side), and then it disappears? It always happens in private/exclusive shows now, and I think this is when they check us out.
Omg! This happens to me too, ooh that's creepy.
I have received email from Liz and with Boleyn speaking to her on my behalf she did reinstate my account with a 3 days suspension as I didn't do the wrong with a malicious intent. It was the damn porn!!! I can go back to work only on Friday at the earliest. I will have to revisit a lot of my regulars and give the boot to a good chunk of them and be off the Submissive category etc because does attract different clientele. Thank you for trying to boost my morale and support!
I am so so happy for you hun my heart was sick with worry for you following that drama. Thanks goodness you got it sorted.
I just wanted to thank all of the models on here for some inspiration on something. Normally I never care if someone takes me for only 60-90 seconds. I always thought "Money is money" but I saw so many models on here saying "I hate it when a guy takes me for only a minute and it kills my traffic."
I never thought about that. So I started making notes on clients and called them "minute men". Sure enough, I had a regular come into my room and I saw his notes were THREE TIMES only a minute long shows.
I was getting tips rolling in with my lovense and he said he wanted to play again, I told him "You know, you only take me for barely a minute each time just to show your blown load to me and then you leave. You kill my traffic that I have to work up all over again. It's rude to take a model for only a minute and kill her traffic."
He said he was sorry and sure enough ended up only tipping $10 into a gold show because that was "all he had".
I ended up making almost $40 in tips when he wanted to take me private and I only would have earned $3.50 with him.
So thank you ladies
Omg what an absolute ass, yes eventually you get to a point of even blocking them because they're not worth the 5 dollars you earned from them.
[email protected]
Thanks for this and everyone who responded to me! I really appreciate it. The lovely Ambercat also let me know the UK rep, such a legend. You're all legends!
In answer to the tags issue, I can see them on dashboard and my page, sorry to the girls who are having issues with it. Must be a glitch I hope is sorted soon. Streamate keeps crashing for me today but I guess that's standard at the minute lol.
Seductive_Brit
10-07-2021, 06:17 AM
I asked them particularly about intoxication/hypnosis roleplay, blackmail roleplay. Also seen a girl online once, she looked so posh, having a nice glass of martini, and I asked them if I could do it (not drinking like a pig, I mean, but more like elegant) Funny, that we aren't allowed to drink, but allowed to smoke on cam (cigarettes) - as far as I know.
They said strict 'no' to any of it. Absolutely. I have another questions related to restrictions, but I feel like I message them too much ;D
However, I'll post it here if I ask them and get their responses.
Have you read posts here about filming guys (by their request)? Ladies here mentioned it was forbidden, too.
Regarding meetups -I just say plain 'no', I know it can be roleplayed (like imaginary meet), but I am worried it can be interpreted wrong. So it's better to find proper wording, so everybody can see you won't really meet and you don't plan to do it. (I'll message support about it, too lolol)
Funnily, I just read an article about Hayes Code (in Hollywood of 30s) and how the cinema industry moguls were angry about these rules that got more and more strict. Then one of directors said that the Code was good thing, because it made screenwriters and directors think in unusual ways how to play scenes so they are not prohibited, and they did better movies because they had to keep all these restrictions in mind.
I don't mean we need to bend forbidden fetishes/requests in a certain way to avoid the rules, I mean it really challenges the mind and also cuts some creepy dudes off. I do think what to answer.
Thanks for this info! For people asking for meetups or contact details I have this prerecorded message, I click the button and send, feel free to use if anyone wants to:
Please note that performers are not allowed to share any personal information with customers. Encouraging performers to meet is solicitation and equally not permitted. Failure to comply will result in the suspension of your account.
^^^ How good that sounds, like official type of message, nice one! I'll save it too for the guys that insists and did not see the flag, problem is, with my new real location nobody asks to meet lol.
KittenGirl
10-07-2021, 07:28 AM
Thanks for this info! For people asking for meetups or contact details I have this prerecorded message, I click the button and send, feel free to use if anyone wants to:
Please note that performers are not allowed to share any personal information with customers. Encouraging performers to meet is solicitation and equally not permitted. Failure to comply will result in the suspension of your account.
This is actually really good. I'm gonna save this so it looks more like an automated message from the site
KittenGirl
10-07-2021, 07:34 AM
Heads-up for a total asshole alert. I never knew we could report members until I started really reading this forum.
Be on a watch for Lucifer. He came in and told me I was hot then started calling me a beached whale. He started telling everyone how fat I was. I kept ignoring him and it just got worse. So I reported him and blocked him.
redvelvette
10-07-2021, 09:21 AM
Hi. I streamed for my first time on Streamate. If my window says exclusive show (party chat) does that mean I'm in exclusive or premium? Thanks
FloridaSunDoll
10-07-2021, 09:42 AM
Hi. I streamed for my first time on Streamate. If my window says exclusive show (party chat) does that mean I'm in exclusive or premium? Thanks
That would be exclusive (1 on 1). Exclusive chat you’ll get a request pop up that you can accept or deny but private chat (group show) will automatically switch over without a request
LullaBelle
10-07-2021, 09:54 AM
Hey ladies, I have been experiencing another screen glitch along with the greyed out small portion of the bottom of my streaming screen (it's no longer constant but happens sporadically throughout my stream) Every now and then (not aligning with the other glitch) I will have a screen freeze almost as if a screenshot is being taken. At first I thought my graphics card might be going out but it only happens when I am on Streamate. Has anyone else been experiencing that?
DeliveryLadyx
10-07-2021, 10:45 AM
Same, does this: All performers are eligible to earn one of these gifts, including performers in the top 500 ranking. Make sure you stream at least 25 hours throughout the week to qualify. mean we only get one or the other?
My understanding is that both are combined if qualified. I haven't received yet the 100$ bonus and nor they appear in stats in pay adjustment. Anyone else through Boleyn and received the bonus? Was hoping to have this bonus for hairdresser tomorrow.
kamiliam
10-07-2021, 10:54 AM
My understanding is that both are combined if qualified. I haven't received yet the 100$ bonus and nor they appear in stats in pay adjustment. Anyone else through Boleyn and received the bonus? Was hoping to have this bonus for hairdresser tomorrow.
I cannot recall it ever being one or another. Sometimes they show up on different earning reports and sometimes separate paychecks. I didn’t work 25 this last contest so I can’t check, but it has always been contest $ and hours bonus for the prize. If they are changing that I find that messed up considering that they are obviously able to cover contest prizes and the top spots are more and more money to reach.
iamcocoloca
10-07-2021, 11:25 AM
Hey ladies, I have been experiencing another screen glitch along with the greyed out small portion of the bottom of my streaming screen (it's no longer constant but happens sporadically throughout my stream) Every now and then (not aligning with the other glitch) I will have a screen freeze almost as if a screenshot is being taken. At first I thought my graphics card might be going out but it only happens when I am on Streamate. Has anyone else been experiencing that?
YES! usually at least once a stream; sometimes more but since i can only stream for about 80 mins at time - once a stream; I do however have old graphics card (nvidia 640 LOL) waiting for 3080 bad boooiiiii thoooo!!!!
Hey ladies, I have been experiencing another screen glitch along with the greyed out small portion of the bottom of my streaming screen (it's no longer constant but happens sporadically throughout my stream) Every now and then (not aligning with the other glitch) I will have a screen freeze almost as if a screenshot is being taken. At first I thought my graphics card might be going out but it only happens when I am on Streamate. Has anyone else been experiencing that?
Yes i noticed too yesterday, had couple of back to back shows and it felt like i was stuck now and then, everything froze for a very short time, several times, i remember it happened while in freechat and paid chat as well, i was thinking its my pc (i too have old graphics card) but looks like my system is ok so must be SM then if u guys report the same issue.
Marina Starr
10-07-2021, 04:47 PM
These fuckers thrive on us breaking the rules 'just for them'. They really get off on no boundaries/no limits/anything goes shit.
I personally would take what support said with a grain of salt. Depends on who is reading your message so you'll get a different answer with different support.
Anything I want to know for certain, I reach out to Liz.
I asked them particularly about intoxication/hypnosis roleplay, blackmail roleplay. Also seen a girl online once, she looked so posh, having a nice glass of martini, and I asked them if I could do it (not drinking like a pig, I mean, but more like elegant) Funny, that we aren't allowed to drink, but allowed to smoke on cam (cigarettes) - as far as I know.
They said strict 'no' to any of it. Absolutely. I have another questions related to restrictions, but I feel like I message them too much ;D
However, I'll post it here if I ask them and get their responses.
Have you read posts here about filming guys (by their request)? Ladies here mentioned it was forbidden, too.
Regarding meetups -I just say plain 'no', I know it can be roleplayed (like imaginary meet), but I am worried it can be interpreted wrong. So it's better to find proper wording, so everybody can see you won't really meet and you don't plan to do it. (I'll message support about it, too lolol)
Funnily, I just read an article about Hayes Code (in Hollywood of 30s) and how the cinema industry moguls were angry about these rules that got more and more strict. Then one of directors said that the Code was good thing, because it made screenwriters and directors think in unusual ways how to play scenes so they are not prohibited, and they did better movies because they had to keep all these restrictions in mind.
I don't mean we need to bend forbidden fetishes/requests in a certain way to avoid the rules, I mean it really challenges the mind and also cuts some creepy dudes off. I do think what to answer.
Luci Fer
10-07-2021, 10:06 PM
These fuckers thrive on us breaking the rules 'just for them'. They really get off on no boundaries/no limits/anything goes shit.
I personally would take what support said with a grain of salt. Depends on who is reading your message so you'll get a different answer with different support.
Anything I want to know for certain, I reach out to Liz.
Damn, this is good one, and very reasonable, Marina - about the support. At times they gave me generic answers so I had to repeat my question asking to read it carefully (not about fetishes though), lol. So, true that.
when a dude comes to me and asks if I shit in a show - I'm 90% sure he is the type you mentioned (these who love to make us break the rules). There re also guys (mostly,in my case) who don't ask for forbidden things blatantly, it just somehow goes from their request, they can be polite etc. So I take it they are not aware it is forbidden. Personally for me recording a guy and that moment with porn watching during a show (Delivery Lady's story) was a big surprise. Really didnot know it, and won't do. But if she didnot tell us, I wouldn't even think it was forbidden. They need to clarify this shit in their ToS.
liquidsilk
10-08-2021, 02:39 AM
I don't think the button that says 'my live vibe is on' is a thing anymore, can anyone see it in any rooms?
DeliveryLadyx
10-08-2021, 03:09 AM
I don't think the button that says 'my live vibe is on' is a thing anymore, can anyone see it in any rooms?
Indeed. I was looking after you said and is no one having live toy icon.
Indeed. I was looking after you said and is no one having live toy icon.
Oh, then i can say my toy is on even it's not *wink*, if nobody else has the online button then they shall believe us our toys are connected.
My tags are gone and i am pissed because my page looks like a newbie page with no tags.
DeliveryLadyx
10-08-2021, 04:34 AM
Oh yes! I wish Esca toy by Kiiroo would be more long lasting. Bought 2 new ones packaged in the spring from eBay and one died after 3 months and the second one is gonna die soon by the look of it. The Kiiroo declined warranty claim because is been bought from eBay and Same applies if bought from amazon. I don't get the same response aka lot of gold from guys with the lovense toys, most guys which see the lush want to control it for free and I am not into it, I much rather get lot of gold buzzing in freechat or paid chat. They are interested in the lighting when they tip, such visual creatures men!
liquidsilk
10-08-2021, 04:47 AM
worldpay email running a little late again...still waiting on it here
DeepThoughts
10-08-2021, 07:36 AM
Thanks for this info! For people asking for meetups or contact details I have this prerecorded message, I click the button and send, feel free to use if anyone wants to:
Please note that performers are not allowed to share any personal information with customers. Encouraging performers to meet is solicitation and equally not permitted. Failure to comply will result in the suspension of your account.
Pre-Recorded in writing or as a video??
JustMilfnAround
10-08-2021, 07:47 AM
I don't think the button that says 'my live vibe is on' is a thing anymore, can anyone see it in any rooms?
That explains why my gold/buzz toy tips were down so much yesterday - it's literally half of my income. WTH?
Cutie101
10-08-2021, 07:53 AM
That explains why my gold/buzz toy tips were down so much yesterday - it's literally half of my income. WTH?
Right when I wanted to add a vibe toy to Streamate, lol. I wonder if it comes back :))
DeliveryLadyx
10-08-2021, 07:57 AM
Has to come back. That makes me upset and not motivated to get online this afternoon. Tips/gold makes up 80% of my income, no kidding. I am pricey for pvt/exclu and I prefer to earn more by working less. The live toy icon has to come back! If I were a technician, I would put the live toy icon on by default for every performer which ticked the interactive toy box regardless of being connected for real or not. We do wear the toys anyway. Is just those men have to see that visual thing on screen and on the model.
DeliveryLadyx
10-08-2021, 07:58 AM
Pre-Recorded in writing or as a video??
I think she meant to auto save as a message and just click the autosaved message to every dude asking for meets.
liquidsilk
10-08-2021, 08:06 AM
worldpay email running a little late again...still waiting on it here
Any UK wire transfer people been sent their pay email yet?
honeybirdette
10-08-2021, 08:14 AM
im really not sure how where to post this, but can i use my vibe toy to connect to multiple sites? so i can splitcam between 3/4 sites using the same toy? how do i do it? xx
DeliveryLadyx
10-08-2021, 08:18 AM
You can, on feel connect or lovense connect app you just scan the code for each site and you are live on all in the same time.
JustMilfnAround
10-08-2021, 09:02 AM
I made a quick text saying to buzz my toy and I keep spamming my room with it - helps a bit :)
Shouldn't have to fuck with that - but, we adapt right?
gbjenna
10-08-2021, 10:59 AM
Ladies beware of a customer called Quentin the King (all one word) or maybe even variations of the name too.
He tipped a large amount of money into a gold show the other day and I ran the account by support to check all was ok. Then later that night he came back again and tipped a really excessive amount. I had a bad feeling so emailed one of the reps and she got back to me today and confirmed that he wasn't a legitimate customer.
I've been told the customer has been banned from the site now, but the first time I reported, support got back to me within minutes to say they'd investigate, so I don't know what action was taken initially but regardless, he was able to come back.
If anyone comes across him I'd just block him straight away!
honeybirdette
10-08-2021, 11:10 AM
Ladies beware of a customer called Quentin the King (all one word) or maybe even variations of the name too.
He tipped a large amount of money into a gold show the other day and I ran the account by support to check all was ok. Then later that night he came back again and tipped a really excessive amount. I had a bad feeling so emailed one of the reps and she got back to me today and confirmed that he wasn't a legitimate customer.
I've been told the customer has been banned from the site now, but the first time I reported, support got back to me within minutes to say they'd investigate, so I don't know what action was taken initially but regardless, he was able to come back.
If anyone comes across him I'd just block him straight away!
no way!!!! my gut always tells me if something feels amiss also.
does that mean you won't be paid or what? sometimes SM covers chargebacks but i haven't had one in so long so im not sure.
FloridaSunDoll
10-08-2021, 11:17 AM
Ladies beware of a customer called Quentin the King (all one word) or maybe even variations of the name too.
He tipped a large amount of money into a gold show the other day and I ran the account by support to check all was ok. Then later that night he came back again and tipped a really excessive amount. I had a bad feeling so emailed one of the reps and she got back to me today and confirmed that he wasn't a legitimate customer.
I've been told the customer has been banned from the site now, but the first time I reported, support got back to me within minutes to say they'd investigate, so I don't know what action was taken initially but regardless, he was able to come back.
If anyone comes across him I'd just block him straight away!
I've reported him in the past for some sketchy behavior also. He has more than one account too. I noticed he would tip massive amounts and once the account was maxed out he'd log in under a new account similar in name and do it all over again...it was too suspicious and I'm not going down with whatever scam he's trying to run lol
Marina Starr
10-08-2021, 02:23 PM
I wonder what Liz would say if we told her 'they'd rather give us all the money in person'.
Erika_Xstacy
10-08-2021, 05:05 PM
This type of "custi" gets on my nerves
watch me for a few minutes in chat
say hi and then this
Bigone63alot of the girls on here are leaving not enough businesss u hear about that?
I say no. I have also been on the site a long time.
Bigone63 has logged off (reason: user left)
That tells me it is a model.
Customers: A. dont care about the site B. if they do care, they want to chat about it
Erika_Xstacy
10-08-2021, 05:10 PM
I've reported him in the past for some sketchy behavior also. He has more than one account too. I noticed he would tip massive amounts and once the account was maxed out he'd log in under a new account similar in name and do it all over again...it was too suspicious and I'm not going down with whatever scam he's trying to run lol
a lot of time support doesn't raise limits on all member accounts so they do have more than 1
I have guys that have to come back on another acct very similar name bc they hit their limit
My take on the name is if the name is similar they prob are legit
Erika_Xstacy
10-08-2021, 05:32 PM
no way!!!! my gut always tells me if something feels amiss also.
does that mean you won't be paid or what? sometimes SM covers chargebacks but i haven't had one in so long so im not sure.
Models do not have chargebacks, we are protected, part of the reason we get paid 30-35%
I think sm is the only cam site that does protect us
Erika_Xstacy
10-08-2021, 08:41 PM
QuailWhat's up, you old fucking asshole
QuailYou piece of SHIT
QuailYou old ugly witch
QuailShut your FUCK up
I guess this one doesn't want to go private ;)
Luci Fer
10-08-2021, 08:49 PM
I've reported him in the past for some sketchy behavior also. He has more than one account too. I noticed he would tip massive amounts and once the account was maxed out he'd log in under a new account similar in name and do it all over again...it was too suspicious and I'm not going down with whatever scam he's trying to run lol
What does it mean if they tip big? And why 's it bad?
QuailWhat's up, you old fucking asshole
QuailYou piece of SHIT
QuailYou old ugly witch
QuailShut your FUCK up
I guess this one doesn't want to go private ;)
wow, PMS hit that dude hard.
FloridaSunDoll
10-08-2021, 08:57 PM
QuailWhat's up, you old fucking asshole
QuailYou piece of SHIT
QuailYou old ugly witch
QuailShut your FUCK up
I guess this one doesn't want to go private ;)
OMG just two nights ago someone called me an "old ugly witch" so I guess he's not very creative with his trolling haha. I told him I am in fact witch and I wanted to show him one of my magic spells "abra ca blocked" lol
Erika_Xstacy
10-08-2021, 09:14 PM
OMG just two nights ago someone called me an "old ugly witch" so I guess he's not very creative with his trolling haha. I told him I am in fact witch and I wanted to show him one of my magic spells "abra ca blocked" lol
I have always been slightly entertained by trolls. I like to troll back.
one actually became a customer and someone that reached out to help me with my dads veteran affairs.. he doesn't like BBWs so he would call me fat, pig, cow, I wasnt worth my price, he said some mean shit
he always showed up during goldshow countdowns. Everyday i was like oh look its my daily dose of abuse loool
I am a person that what is said to me doesn't bother me. i will kick them and if they come back still typing out their feelings, I block them.
FloridaSunDoll
10-08-2021, 10:39 PM
Maybe it's just me...but I feel like ever since SM sent that "policy reminder message" I feel like I'm getting asked MORE THAN EVER to meet up or do any other banned activities/roleplay...