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Esixxx
11-05-2021, 04:27 AM
It isn't even a recent screenshot mine is from 2 days ago lol

I got hit with that glitch yesterday morning, my snapshot was from Wednesday- I just assumed it was a glitch- hopefully they get this shit ironed out soon.

Luckygoldfish
11-05-2021, 04:51 AM
What’s going on with snapshots!?!?
The page is full of unattractive horrible photos which site making himself! Wtf!? They said snapshot is 80% succes and now they are doing that!?
Is that shit permanent?

VVV
11-05-2021, 04:53 AM
What’s going on with snapshots!?!?
The page is full of unattractive horrible photos which site making himself! Wtf!? They said snapshot is 80% succes and now they are doing that!?
Is that shit permanent?

Yesssss, it's sucks now. My snap is awful omg

Luci Fer
11-05-2021, 04:54 AM
What’s going on with snapshots!?!?
The page is full of unattractive horrible photos which site making himself! Wtf!? They said snapshot is 80% succes and now they are doing that!?
Is that shit permanent?

hahahaha!;D yes lol. You saw it, didnot you? It's like 'awkward photos of 90s"
I checked it out, was shocked, then started to sit in free chat like an idol, almost not moving, so when they snap a pic I look great. And got more guys visiting me and taking me in shows.

Luckygoldfish
11-05-2021, 05:02 AM
hahahaha!;D yes lol. You saw it, didnot you? It's like 'awkward photos of 90s"
I checked it out, was shocked, then started to sit in free chat like an idol, almost not moving, so when they snap a pic I look great. And got more guys visiting me and taking me in shows.

How do u know when are they talking snapshots plz?

DeliveryLadyx
11-05-2021, 05:08 AM
Mate, am having a really shitty snapshot and no traffic. This week i canmot make money y every time i get online because i have only luck randomly. Is not a normal week.. Yet again.

VVV
11-05-2021, 05:11 AM
Mate, am having a rrally shitty snapshot and no traffic. This week i canmot make money y every time i get online because i have only luck randomly. Is not a normal week.. Yet again.

Yes, they should fix that asap please. Now I m going to decorate my room meanwhile.... half day lost basically f***

Luckygoldfish
11-05-2021, 05:17 AM
Yes,
Fix that nonsense please!

Luci Fer
11-05-2021, 05:17 AM
How do u know when are they talking snapshots plz?

Do you remember before they added that option of making a snap and setting it as a bio, they made random snaps during a stream and it had a countdown? We all had fugly biopics back then lol I think it just started to work like this again, probably because of some glitch.
Today earlier kamiliam (just check out the thread) mentioned she tried to find a pattern of these snaps and said it was about every 30 minutes.
I just thought it might be connected with that weird additional scroll randomly appearing in chat. So next time when you see it, try to pose, maybe it will capture a proper biopic (just guessing).
I messaged support about this, really hope it willbe worked out.

liquidsilk
11-05-2021, 05:28 AM
The front page looks like it should be set to this tiktok sound I swear

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM8xep7xq/

Luckygoldfish
11-05-2021, 05:29 AM
Do you remember before they added that option of making a snap and setting it as a bio, they made random snaps during a stream and it had a countdown? We all had fugly biopics back then lol I think it just started to work like this again, probably because of some glitch.
Today earlier kamiliam (just check out the thread) mentioned she tried to find a pattern of these snaps and said it was about every 30 minutes.
I just thought it might be connected with that weird additional scroll randomly appearing in chat. So next time when you see it, try to pose, maybe it will capture a proper biopic (just guessing).
I messaged support about this, really hope it willbe worked out.

I think I saw the scroll before all this nonsense happened ..
And I can’t just sit straight I need to grab my bbc and make a mess lol

Thank u!

liquidsilk
11-05-2021, 05:32 AM
I think I saw the scroll before all this nonsense happened ..
And I can’t just sit straight I need to grab my bbc and make a mess lol

Thank u!

And that's on brand management!

Luckygoldfish
11-05-2021, 05:38 AM
Ok panic is over Christina said it’s a glitch and they are working on it and it’s not gonna be permanent xx

DeliveryLadyx
11-05-2021, 05:42 AM
The front page looks like it should be set to this tiktok sound I swear

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZM8xep7xq/

Lol lol lol

Luci Fer
11-05-2021, 06:02 AM
And I can’t just sit straight I need to grab my bbc and make a mess lol


Loved that ;D

roseforarose
11-05-2021, 07:01 AM
Is anyone else's payment late this week? I've not received mine yet so I assume I'll get it Monday, but :/

I have a slowwww payment from another site that I'm still waiting for so I'm starting to worry it's my bank

liquidsilk
11-05-2021, 07:19 AM
Is anyone else's payment late this week? I've not received mine yet so I assume I'll get it Monday, but :/

I have a slowwww payment from another site that I'm still waiting for so I'm starting to worry it's my bank

Idk if this is relevant to you but if you bank with rev0lut they are having tech issues at the moment

kinkydirtybitch
11-05-2021, 07:29 AM
Ok panic is over Christina said it’s a glitch and they are working on it and it’s not gonna be permanent xx
Thank fuck:O

liquidsilk
11-05-2021, 07:33 AM
"we are working on it" and "it is not going to be permanent" reminds me a lot of the room topic situation....
Every day I lose a little bit more enthusiasm for this site.

Luci Fer
11-05-2021, 07:44 AM
"we are working on it" and "it is not going to be permanent" reminds me a lot of the room topic situation....
Every day I lose a little bit more enthusiasm for this site.

yeah lol, this shit (with ugly biopics) is still around. I wonder how that ever happens? It worked fine. I always imagine some awkward geek who occasionally presses some wrong button and then oops.

roseforarose
11-05-2021, 08:04 AM
Idk if this is relevant to you but if you bank with rev0lut they are having tech issues at the moment

I'm not with revolut, but ty anyway :)

roseforarose
11-05-2021, 08:06 AM
"we are working on it" and "it is not going to be permanent" reminds me a lot of the room topic situation....
Every day I lose a little bit more enthusiasm for this site.

Yeah honestly idk how the room topic situation could *possibly* be all that complicated, if they want to stop people posting to socials all they need to do is ban a few words + the @ symbol

Marina Starr
11-05-2021, 08:08 AM
I actually prefer when we could use approved static pictures over this snapshots shit but you know Streamate always keeps it interesting.
Always trying to keep Hoes on our toes.


yeah lol, this shit (with ugly biopics) is still around. I wonder how that ever happens? It worked fine. I always imagine some awkward geek who occasionally presses some wrong button and then oops.

FloridaSunDoll
11-05-2021, 08:18 AM
I can’t remember who mentioned it a little while back about a scammer named Quentin but wanted to give y’all a heads up he’s still creeping around and trying to scam the system any chance he gets. I wasn’t able to grab the new account number Bc he got out too fast. But he did the classic scam of changing his user name to be the same as highest tipper of gold show and then tried to tell me to moan Quentin instead of the HT name. Yeah right been doing this long enough to know better. But that’s the same shit he used to pull when he wasn’t committing fraud with bad funds

liquidsilk
11-05-2021, 08:26 AM
Yeah honestly idk how the room topic situation could *possibly* be all that complicated, if they want to stop people posting to socials all they need to do is ban a few words + the @ symbol

maybe they knew just how bad it was going to get and wanted to stop people posting their resignations and new sites :boobies::computer:

gbjenna
11-05-2021, 09:00 AM
I can’t remember who mentioned it a little while back about a scammer named Quentin but wanted to give y’all a heads up he’s still creeping around and trying to scam the system any chance he gets. I wasn’t able to grab the new account number Bc he got out too fast. But he did the classic scam of changing his user name to be the same as highest tipper of gold show and then tried to tell me to moan Quentin instead of the HT name. Yeah right been doing this long enough to know better. But that’s the same shit he used to pull when he wasn’t committing fraud with bad funds

Omg it was me who shared the warning about fraudster Quentin and I also had a little moan about the other Quentin trying the HT thing in a gold show! He didn’t stop harping on the entire show!—I thought it was two different Quentin’s lool. I should have known. I do remember thinking how it was an unusual name haha

MissAdriana
11-05-2021, 09:06 AM
I don't understand, there's a ten second countdown before the cam goes on---you need lightning speed to click a button in less than ten seconds?

It's not 10 it's 8 and ya


Mate, am having a really shitty snapshot and no traffic. This week i canmot make money y every time i get online because i have only luck randomly. Is not a normal week.. Yet again.

Same I thought it would be back to normal when contest ended

FloridaSunDoll
11-05-2021, 09:13 AM
Omg it was me who shared the warning about fraudster Quentin and I also had a little moan about the other Quentin trying the HT thing in a gold show! He didn’t stop harping on the entire show!—I thought it was two different Quentin’s lool. I should have known. I do remember thinking how it was an unusual name haha

Oh yes he’s gotten over on me before too when I had a full gold show and too much going on to stop and notice what was happening. This time unfortunately for him he doesn’t know how DEAD quiet it’s been so I have all the time in the world to pay attention to what’s going on in my room lol I had some fun with him and I think scared the shit out of him. he thought he had me this time. but it won’t stop him. He’ll keep trying. He’s a scammer for life I guess

Luckygoldfish
11-05-2021, 09:15 AM
He is now hacking into accounts and tipping large amounts instead of copying HT username. Be aware of QuentinTheKing

IvyRose
11-05-2021, 09:20 AM
yeah lol, this shit (with ugly biopics) is still around. I wonder how that ever happens? It worked fine. I always imagine some awkward geek who occasionally presses some wrong button and then oops.

I think that is IT! Lolololll

kamiliam
11-05-2021, 10:11 AM
Do you remember before they added that option of making a snap and setting it as a bio, they made random snaps during a stream and it had a countdown? We all had fugly biopics back then lol I think it just started to work like this again, probably because of some glitch.
Today earlier kamiliam (just check out the thread) mentioned she tried to find a pattern of these snaps and said it was about every 30 minutes.
I just thought it might be connected with that weird additional scroll randomly appearing in chat. So next time when you see it, try to pose, maybe it will capture a proper biopic (just guessing).
I messaged support about this, really hope it willbe worked out.

Even after I kinda figured it out, the one after the semi decent one would be a blur. Mostly because it brought in customers and I was able to do my job and be engaging and not posing for a picture. Liz got back to me and also said it wasn’t permanent. When I checked my profile offline, it is showing the “chosen” live pic I took last night in the background and not the random images, so it is a live/main page problem.

Erika_Xstacy
11-05-2021, 10:51 AM
With the low potential number I assumed I was on page 2 or three but still making good money so I didn’t sweat it. Yesterday I saw my placement was normal and assume that had happened because of the money I’ve been making. Taking a week off and a new profile was stressful enough and seeing low room count made me work harder lol
I should have never looked and continued to work harder. but, I jumped on sw and read while camming and that kills my income for the day lol so there’s that recipe for disaster

Love y’all so much but y’all kill my income :) bitch got to make some monies.


Being in the new girl category is a pain.
I’m asked to do things I wouldn’t do.
Yesterday a customer told me I needed the money. Yup, sure do, that’s why I work
But he was saying it as if I should be showing him everything for free just so he can go in private or exclusive.
I’m a seasoned cam girl and it still bothered me some little dick saying that. I’m not camming in despair.
No shade to anyone that does cam in despair. Been there, done that and will do it again bc camming is a great resource.

*wagon* I was paid on time
Is it not showing on sm side that you have been paid?
Two weeks ago I did receive payment 1 day late
I alerted Liz and she checked w accounting, they sent it the next day

gbjenna
11-05-2021, 11:41 AM
Oh yes he’s gotten over on me before too when I had a full gold show and too much going on to stop and notice what was happening. This time unfortunately for him he doesn’t know how DEAD quiet it’s been so I have all the time in the world to pay attention to what’s going on in my room lol I had some fun with him and I think scared the shit out of him. he thought he had me this time. but it won’t stop him. He’ll keep trying. He’s a scammer for life I guess

He only just missed catching me out, but only because my reg was the HT! I couldn't understand why he wanted to be called Quentin and not his usual name, then I asked out loud to confirm what name he wanted and they both answered at the same time! One with his actual name and one with Quentin. That's when I realised!! If it hadn't been for that then I'd have been fooled all along.

FloridaSunDoll
11-05-2021, 11:50 AM
He only just missed catching me out, but only because my reg was the HT! I couldn't understand why he wanted to be called Quentin and not his usual name, then I asked out loud to confirm what name he wanted and they both answered at the same time! One with his actual name and one with Quentin. That's when I realised!! If it hadn't been for that then I'd have been fooled all along.

what an ass. dudes like that spend soooo much time trying to scam the site AND US. They need a job to fill all this spare time they have and then he can have actual money to spend.. Idol hands..

VVV
11-05-2021, 12:15 PM
Now the snapshot thing is fixed but my room empty. Lol I made more money when my snapshot was my sofa ahah or my closed eyes :) ... laughing but ohhh I made x4 money last Friday. Now 1/4 this is insane. Ooh today!! Hopefully get better later or tomorrow.

FloridaSunDoll
11-05-2021, 12:17 PM
Now the snapshot thing is fixed but my room empty. Lol I made more money when my snapshot was my sofa ahah or my closed eyes :) ... laughing but ohhh I made x4 money last Friday. Now 1/4 this is insane. Ooh today!! Hopefully get better later or tomorrow.

SAME! WTF...traffic was slowly getting better last night with my goofy ass half eye open pic but now its DEAD again...ughhh trying to stay patient because it'll come around eventually..I hope at least lol

Marina Starr
11-05-2021, 12:18 PM
It must be ME because I never do well on Friday or Saturday. After so many failed Fridays and Saturdays I stop trying to figure out why.

Marina Starr
11-05-2021, 12:33 PM
Rule #1, never ever check sw camming connection, especially Streamate thread when hoeing unless you're dealing with glitches and technical shit. It's the only good time to check so you know you're the only one dealing with glitches.

I'm surprised he didn't tell you he was ready to go private or exclusive RIGHT NOW if you show him everything for free. RIGHT NOW is the catch! You left so much money on the table, girl. I hope he comes back and spoil you.

Even if you were hoeing in despair, let that be the only motivation you need to step your pussy up. Just don't show your despair because these fuckers are sadists that will party in your despair.



With the low potential number I assumed I was on page 2 or three but still making good money so I didn’t sweat it. Yesterday I saw my placement was normal and assume that had happened because of the money I’ve been making. Taking a week off and a new profile was stressful enough and seeing low room count made me work harder lol
I should have never looked and continued to work harder. but, I jumped on sw and read while camming and that kills my income for the day lol so there’s that recipe for disaster

Love y’all so much but y’all kill my income :) bitch got to make some monies.


Being in the new girl category is a pain.
I’m asked to do things I wouldn’t do.
Yesterday a customer told me I needed the money. Yup, sure do, that’s why I work
But he was saying it as if I should be showing him everything for free just so he can go in private or exclusive.
I’m a seasoned cam girl and it still bothered me some little dick saying that. I’m not camming in despair.
No shade to anyone that does cam in despair. Been there, done that and will do it again bc camming is a great resource.

*wagon* I was paid on time
Is it not showing on sm side that you have been paid?
Two weeks ago I did receive payment 1 day late
I alerted Liz and she checked w accounting, they sent it the next day

Susperia
11-05-2021, 12:44 PM
OMG I thought the other day was dead, but today takes the fucking cake. Hardly any potentials and hardly any guys coming in and out....what's going on? SEND HELP.

Erika_Xstacy
11-05-2021, 01:09 PM
Rule #1, never ever check sw camming connection, especially Streamate thread when hoeing unless you're dealing with glitches and technical shit. It's the only good time to check so you know you're the only one dealing with glitches.

I'm surprised he didn't tell you he was ready to go private or exclusive RIGHT NOW if you show him everything for free. RIGHT NOW is the catch! You left so much money on the table, girl. I hope he comes back and spoil you.

Even if you were hoeing in despair, let that be the only motivation you need to step your pussy up. Just don't show your despair because these fuckers are sadists that will party in your despair.
i think the new girl section has so many trolls. he was in there for a while and stated he needed a reason to go private
it happens a lot the past two weeks

Marina Starr
11-05-2021, 01:21 PM
Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder could see through that bullshit.

You need to see if you like his money first. Trolls are great teachers for new hoes. If you can't handle trolls then you won't be selling pussy for long.


i think the new girl section has so many trolls. he was in there for a while and stated he needed a reason to go private
it happens a lot the past two weeks

Erika_Xstacy
11-05-2021, 02:30 PM
I am having trouble using MassPay, I did not receive my payment yesterday or today. I emailed customer support and they said it went to my old email address not the new one on SM I've been using, then they updated it.
I'm trying to reset my password=No email link. Trying to activate=No user found. I checked my spam=Nothing. Should have stuck with ACH, would have my funds already.
did u check ur old email?

i learned updating w sm can be annoying

looklovely
11-05-2021, 03:43 PM
did u check ur old email?

i learned updating w sm can be annoying

I transferred my funds from Masspay, to my bank account for $2 same day. It's 3 pm PST/6pm EST says "Processing." Will I receive the funds today or Monday perhaps?

Erika_Xstacy
11-05-2021, 03:50 PM
I transferred my funds from Masspay, to my bank account for $2 same day. It's 3 pm PST/6pm EST says "Processing." Will I receive the funds today or Monday perhaps?

it might be a late request for same day bc that has to be done by 10;30am not sure what time zone, maybe monday if the funds are not there by saturday am

KittenGirl
11-05-2021, 04:08 PM
Question: what do you ladies feel about impregnation fetishes? I use to not mind them. But lately it feels incredibly invasive and too personal. The client seems like they start actually believing you want it and are unable to differentiate between fantasy and reality. I think it's because they always have this "inject and leave" mindset that it almost comes off as nonchalant abuse, rapist and entitlement mindset. I've limited a lot of things because they're starting to become uncomfortable for me. Like BBC fetish and BBC cuckolding. For the last several months, it's like I can't just have a black man who wants to act normal with it. He wants me to belittle other races, worship him as supreme, act like I cheated on my husband with him, or ask me if I "only like black dick." Which is hard, because I'll say yes for the money but in free chat I like all dicks and don't want to be called a lying bitch. I've been a little emotionally taxed lately and I'm not sure what to do.

kamiliam
11-05-2021, 04:24 PM
Question: what do you ladies feel about impregnation fetishes? I use to not mind them. But lately it feels incredibly invasive and too personal. The client seems like they start actually believing you want it and are unable to differentiate between fantasy and reality. I think it's because they always have this "inject and leave" mindset that it almost comes off as nonchalant abuse, rapist and entitlement mindset. I've limited a lot of things because they're starting to become uncomfortable for me. Like BBC fetish and BBC cuckolding. For the last several months, it's like I can't just have a black man who wants to act normal with it. He wants me to belittle other races, worship him as supreme, act like I cheated on my husband with him, or ask me if I "only like black dick." Which is hard, because I'll say yes for the money but in free chat I like all dicks and don't want to be called a lying bitch. I've been a little emotionally taxed lately and I'm not sure what to do.

I want to make clear that I am of the belief that in this type of work if something you are doing is making you feel bad you should stop doing it. Little thing or big it is important to check in.

Your experience with those fetishes hasn’t been mine. Sure I get asked for some of the things mentioned, but I say no or redirect to align the fetish with my values. There are problematic customers in every category. It’s about what you offer not what they want, then asserting when they try to push.

Cutie101
11-05-2021, 04:29 PM
Question: what do you ladies feel about impregnation fetishes? I use to not mind them. But lately it feels incredibly invasive and too personal. The client seems like they start actually believing you want it and are unable to differentiate between fantasy and reality. I think it's because they always have this "inject and leave" mindset that it almost comes off as nonchalant abuse, rapist and entitlement mindset. I've limited a lot of things because they're starting to become uncomfortable for me. Like BBC fetish and BBC cuckolding. For the last several months, it's like I can't just have a black man who wants to act normal with it. He wants me to belittle other races, worship him as supreme, act like I cheated on my husband with him, or ask me if I "only like black dick." Which is hard, because I'll say yes for the money but in free chat I like all dicks and don't want to be called a lying bitch. I've been a little emotionally taxed lately and I'm not sure what to do.

Avoid what makes you uncomfortable. There's no point into doing metally taxing things for a few dollars. There are things money can't buy. This job is mentally taxing itself, we don't need to burden ourselves with things we are not ok with.
I started being uncomfortable getting naked and stopped doing it. I am being uncomfortable with certain fetishes, I refuse them.
It's ok if you used to not mind certain things and now they are bothering you. We are humans, we are evolving, we are growing, we change our perspectives and views, pleasures and taste in anything about life. From food, to music, movies, sex, types of people we surround ourselves with.
I remember the first months I went non nude- fetish, there were abusive members who were telling me "oh i remember how u used to get naked, u can't say u are non nude now, i have seen your pussy and tits". Or I have this member that still comes, 4 years later, to remind me how he has naked videos with me that he keeps watching. It's annoying but I play cool and act impressed and cocky, only to shut him up. He hates to see me so confident, he has no idea I am dying inside and he makes me feel like shit and that deep inside myself he loses his stupid computer and has all of his porn collection erased :)).
Speaking of lying, I did write here what I think about looking like a lying bitch :)) : https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?232110-Do-your-regulars-ever-attempt-to-assert-control-over-you-by-quot-boycotting-quot-you&p=3246422&viewfull=1#post3246422

Erika_Xstacy
11-05-2021, 07:21 PM
Question: what do you ladies feel about impregnation fetishes? I use to not mind them. But lately it feels incredibly invasive and too personal. The client seems like they start actually believing you want it and are unable to differentiate between fantasy and reality. I think it's because they always have this "inject and leave" mindset that it almost comes off as nonchalant abuse, rapist and entitlement mindset. I've limited a lot of things because they're starting to become uncomfortable for me. Like BBC fetish and BBC cuckolding. For the last several months, it's like I can't just have a black man who wants to act normal with it. He wants me to belittle other races, worship him as supreme, act like I cheated on my husband with him, or ask me if I "only like black dick." Which is hard, because I'll say yes for the money but in free chat I like all dicks and don't want to be called a lying bitch. I've been a little emotionally taxed lately and I'm not sure what to do.

99.9% of customers do not care what you like in free chat but will ask
there is no way you can serve the world and only like 1 dick. You can but earnings might tank

i use to feel this way about big dick vs lil dick.. scared i was scaring off lil dicks lol

JessRyan
11-05-2021, 10:10 PM
I can’t remember who mentioned it a little while back about a scammer named Quentin but wanted to give y’all a heads up he’s still creeping around and trying to scam the system any chance he gets. I wasn’t able to grab the new account number Bc he got out too fast. But he did the classic scam of changing his user name to be the same as highest tipper of gold show and then tried to tell me to moan Quentin instead of the HT name. Yeah right been doing this long enough to know better. But that’s the same shit he used to pull when he wasn’t committing fraud with bad funds

I've suggested before that they somehow highlight gold show high tipper names. Make them bold and gold. Oh, that would make things easier though

anonamiss
11-06-2021, 01:14 AM
just wanted to commiserate with previous posts about how insanely dead it was tonight. i would have preferred trolls to how quiet it was, at least the trolls engage. even when there was someone in the room, hardly anyone talked. i can't stand feeling like i'm just being stared at awkwardly. hope tomorrow is way better.