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Luci Fer
11-28-2021, 02:33 PM
I totally agree.
I have an email even older than that ( going way back to 2019), from Liz saying Step role play is fine.
I'm a person who always follows rules.
So, for them to cut my stream for being out of frame for a minute or so, baffles me.
Especially when there are no clear cut rules against it.
Regarding using 'mummy' - there can be the case when it's used in dom/sub play, power play.. For example, AVN stars mentioned that 'mummy' could be used in this context, but incest is forbidden.
Idk if it can be like that on Streamate
SoloDesire
11-28-2021, 02:33 PM
what to do if you are in pvt show and change outfit and guy asks you to do it behind the cam?:(
I don't wanna log off from the paid chat, wtf!
I agree it's a stupid rule (not really even a rule since it's not listed ANYWHERE), but there are ways around it. Just tilt the cam up so you can still see your face/top of your head while you change.
Marina Starr
11-28-2021, 02:47 PM
This doesn't apply when you're in the show. It's only if you're in free chat you can no longer be out of view.
what to do if you are in pvt show and change outfit and guy asks you to do it behind the cam?:(
I don't wanna log off from the paid chat, wtf!
Luci Fer
11-28-2021, 02:52 PM
I agree it's a stupid rule (not really even a rule since it's not listed ANYWHERE), but there are ways around it. Just tilt the cam up so you can still see your face/top of your head while you change.
it's a proper way! So they need to see at least a part of me? hahaha
This doesn't apply when you're in the show. It's only if you're in free chat you can no longer be out of view.
*sigh of relief*
JustMilfnAround
11-28-2021, 03:03 PM
I've been dodging clothing change shows all day because of this. Told 1 to tip, and that I would "take a VERY short break" to get the outfit and come right back 2 minutes tops and he left. A LOT of SM guys like clothing changes - how are we supposed to do that now? I'm not putting ALL of my clothes in this little ass room.
Nice guy talking about a show - he waited for me on a 5 minute pee break, loaded up his account and then started talking about Delta 8. I banned him :(
Is MILF even allowed anymore? I'm really confused and really fucked if it isn't (I'm 46). I have had to ban guys left and right and that REALLY seems counterproductive but it is all them breaking rules. Should we get Handmaids Tale robes at this point? I'm confused AS FUCK.
emkato
11-28-2021, 03:39 PM
This doesn't apply when you're in the show. It's only if you're in free chat you can no longer be out of view.
I have a guy who comes once in a blue moon and likes to do paid exclusives to be ignored. I walk off cam and ignore him. Its a fun time. It would be a shame (and stupid) if that wasn't allowed :p
Luci Fer
11-28-2021, 04:02 PM
I have a guy who comes once in a blue moon and likes to be ignored. I walk off cam and ignore him. Its a fun time. It would be a shame (and stupid) if that wasn't allowed :p
So he needs an empty cam room? You could just turn your cam to your hip for example while reading a book royally ;D
Miss_ShaSha
11-28-2021, 05:52 PM
This doesn't apply when you're in the show. It's only if you're in free chat you can no longer be out of view.
Can attest: left excl twice today for about 30s-1m & no warning. HAS to just be free. I use break button now in free to avoid warning.
There is no reverification if you keep SMConnect up and don't exit it. Just "Stop Show" and then "Start Show" when you come back, and that won't count against your minutes online like the break button does.
Sometimes I must reload the page. It happens. So I must verify again. Anyway Yes, you are right!! X I don't have any issues to follow rules lol I would prefer to know them not by a warning. Just scary. So so v stressful day!
Dreamqueen
11-28-2021, 10:18 PM
@Lizzerd Will you please come on here and clarify what's going on, and why?
Thank You.
ravenskyy
11-28-2021, 11:39 PM
Did anyone get the bonus pay yet? I thought we were usually paid this by now.
anonamiss
11-29-2021, 04:06 AM
Just noting, I tested out walking away from free chat tonight with no negative consequence. I had a big group hanging out, around 15 people, and i really had to pee but didn't want to use the pause button and have them all scatter away. I told them I may get kicked off based on what I read here , but nothing happened. I was gone maybe a little over a minute.
Marina Starr
11-29-2021, 05:12 AM
This thread is starting to hurt my head. There is just so much going on that caused a lot of confusion.
I'm just an average Hoe, all I want to do is sell pussy.
Miss_ShaSha
11-29-2021, 05:58 AM
This thread is starting to hurt my head. There is just so much going on that caused a lot of confusion.
I'm just an average Hoe, all I want to do is sell pussy.
Lolollll "just an avg hoe" I'm dead. I can't. Really fuckin can't. You're so not avg xoxo
JustMilfnAround
11-29-2021, 07:42 AM
I just can't keep a straight face when guys tell me they want to stroke to their step moms even after all these years of selling pussy. I don't think I'll ever be able to.
https://i.ibb.co/ZxCgmK8/giphy.gif
I fully feel this - after my gag reflex calms down the laughing starts LOL
Marina Starr
11-29-2021, 09:56 AM
Got a weird glitch this morning. I was doing a block private with this guy, cam to cam but he kept popping in and out of private while his cam was still on and moving. I thought it was a peep and blocked him, lol.
I felt bad and unblocked, was waiting for him to come back but he didn't. Oh well, I got paid for the whole block :)
MissAdriana
11-29-2021, 10:31 AM
Did anyone get the bonus pay yet? I thought we were usually paid this by now.
My friend said hers is on there.
So happy the payment page is back up OMG that took forever
I saw someone peep in my chat with a whole ass email set as their username. But yet we don't get topics back. Banned phrases should be banned for everyone. Not just us.
kamiliam
11-29-2021, 11:03 AM
Did anyone get the bonus pay yet? I thought we were usually paid this by now.
Yeah, It was on this last paycheck, and also posted to the pay history.
ravenskyy
11-29-2021, 12:55 PM
I'm with Boleyn Models, so I don't get paid directly through SM, but I still haven't received any bonus money and I worked over 25 hours.
gorgeousbbw
11-29-2021, 01:31 PM
C2c is there a setting to not allow it. tbh I've been doing this for years and I'm tired of seeing all these dicks and gross ass men licking the camera. I need a break but honestly instead of having to tell everyone I don't wanna do c2c is there a way to just shut that feature off entirely?
XSelinex
11-29-2021, 02:03 PM
On Boleynmodels said my account was suspended. Ahh seems its maintance.
Erika_Xstacy
11-29-2021, 02:09 PM
Papa27Hey in exclusive can you do many ither things not listed on your page
GucciRon has logged on
Papa27Mmmmh can not say
Papa27U b down or no
whysky
11-29-2021, 02:15 PM
In the SM discord, staff confirmed using Mommy in the same way as Daddy, for power play, dommes, nurturing domme, etc.
There is no chance in hellllll that they can allow Daddy and not Mommy to be used in that way.
bobsandvangene
11-29-2021, 02:30 PM
Is anyone else experiencing abysmal traffic today? It's actually so dead I want to die - next to no traffic at all.
Erika_Xstacy
11-29-2021, 03:20 PM
I can't get them to communicate which us weird
no acknowledgement when i say hi,
greet, ask if they can hear me, type to them.... nothing
gorgeousbbw
11-29-2021, 03:25 PM
I can't get them to communicate which us weird
no acknowledgement when i say hi,
greet, ask if they can hear me, type to them.... nothing
yep same here been having this issue alot lately. i'm like can u even hear me or see me wtf lol they say nothing
Marina Starr
11-29-2021, 03:26 PM
It's not just you. They do the same to me and I only type. Which is fine, I kicked them all out. I guess their keyboards are broken.
I can't get them to communicate which us weird
no acknowledgement when i say hi,
greet, ask if they can hear me, type to them.... nothing
Erika_Xstacy
11-29-2021, 03:39 PM
I assume we are cut off for not monitoring our room
I do not understand how a model can sleep with blankies and all on camera in free chat and not be reprimanded but a model walk away and get cut off by a admin?
laurielegs
11-29-2021, 04:13 PM
In the SM discord, staff confirmed using Mommy in the same way as Daddy, for power play, dommes, nurturing domme, etc.
There is no chance in hellllll that they can allow Daddy and not Mommy to be used in that way.
That's what I was thinking. I'll still have to ban a lot of guys but at least if they do it with me in charge in a domme style I won't have to.
Aquamarin3
11-29-2021, 05:39 PM
I assume we are cut off for not monitoring our room
I do not understand how a model can sleep with blankies and all on camera in free chat and not be reprimanded but a model walk away and get cut off by a admin?
I think I am the model with blankies you may be referring to :cutie:
I was super concerned about this too, because my primary thing is sleep shows :( I think maybe because I am on cam always, they let me stay on. I hate the idea of going off cam and it causing us to get kicked out. Because during my "awake" shows, I am also always going off camera for snacks, to use the restroom, etc.
Luci Fer
11-29-2021, 06:23 PM
@Lizzerd Will you please come on here and clarify what's going on, and why?
Thank You.
Hey I asked Liz regarding leaving the cam. So that's what she answered.
Erika_Xstacy
11-29-2021, 08:03 PM
I think I am the model with blankies you may be referring to :cutie:
I was super concerned about this too, because my primary thing is sleep shows :( I think maybe because I am on cam always, they let me stay on. I hate the idea of going off cam and it causing us to get kicked out. Because during my "awake" shows, I am also always going off camera for snacks, to use the restroom, etc.
LOL I will say one model sleeps sexy, maybe this is you? helps she has a banner saying this is sleep show w her tip toy in.. that is acknowledging a sleep show.
kamiliam
11-30-2021, 12:35 AM
So many dudes jumping into exclusive and asking for their abbreviated banned fetish/word. They had enough brain functioning to realize that they can’t say it in free, but not that the site probably doesn’t want us doing that banned thing.
Having us do this admin work uncompensated is ridiculous and not in our agreement.
fetishqueen
11-30-2021, 02:07 AM
This may sound odd but what is a sleep show? Are you sleeping in free, or paid? What happens if someone asks you something or tips like a Gold menu item? Do they get pissed that you ignore them? I am intrigued!
kinkydirtybitch
11-30-2021, 02:21 AM
In the SM discord, staff confirmed using Mommy in the same way as Daddy, for power play, dommes, nurturing domme, etc.There is no chance in hellllll that they can allow Daddy and not Mommy to be used in that way.Do you have the link for SM discord please?
Dahlia Fallon
11-30-2021, 04:53 AM
I don't think we are authorized to share it here, but if you check your internal messenger they sent us a link in the model refresher on 2021-02-23
kinkydirtybitch
11-30-2021, 05:22 AM
Gottit thank you! Missed that the first time around
misspandora
11-30-2021, 05:41 AM
On Boleynmodels said my account was suspended. Ahh seems its maintance.
Have you seen the Boleyn thread lately? They're claiming it's a trademark dispute??
And for some reason we can't get paid because everything goes through this one domain they lost....???
I'm very very upset right now.
I don't understand how their site being down means they can't pay us until it's back up. So many of us rely on daily pay.
And who knows how hard it might be to get our accounts transferred back over to streamate's payment system. I hope I don't have to set up a new profile.
misspandora
11-30-2021, 05:42 AM
Does anyone know if "adult baby" diaper roleplay is ok? I kicked a customer from my room the other night because I was paranoid, but that IS a pretty common fetish.
roseforarose
11-30-2021, 07:52 AM
Does anyone know if "adult baby" diaper roleplay is ok? I kicked a customer from my room the other night because I was paranoid, but that IS a pretty common fetish.
It's ageplay so isn't allowed at all, they have a 0 tolerance policy for it
misspandora
11-30-2021, 08:17 AM
It's ageplay so isn't allowed at all, they have a 0 tolerance policy for it
Thanks! OK, glad I blocked him!!
ravenskyy
11-30-2021, 08:33 AM
Does anyone know if "adult baby" diaper roleplay is ok? I kicked a customer from my room the other night because I was paranoid, but that IS a pretty common fetish.
I insta-ban ALL of that mess. I'm going to go full vanilla on these fuckers and I'm so happy to be doing so. Fetishes have ruined the industry for me. Men are freaking disgusting and its like all they want is more, more, more! I'm sick of it and done with it. I'm happy that these things aren't allowed anymore. Everyday, I get asked to do raceplay and I'm fucking sick of it. You come into my room with an offensive username and I will ban you before your stupid fingers can type out the word "Hi"!
Erika_Xstacy
11-30-2021, 08:36 AM
This may sound odd but what is a sleep show? Are you sleeping in free, or paid? What happens if someone asks you something or tips like a Gold menu item? Do they get pissed that you ignore them? I am intrigued!
models use to do sleep goldshows, usually wanting to make their goal so they sleep but members wouldn’t read the title of the gold show, buy in and complain to support
a model use to work the site and just cover up her pillows.
I was told no more sleep shows bc guys complained. This was 2013
it’s a voyeur thing, usually models that live stream their life do this.
there was that one model on Streamate that was popular for her life voyeur shows. I can’t remember her name.
kinkydirtybitch
11-30-2021, 09:23 AM
In the SM discord, staff confirmed using Mommy in the same way as Daddy, for power play, dommes, nurturing domme, etc.
There is no chance in hellllll that they can allow Daddy and not Mommy to be used in that way.
How do you get verified after joining the discord and changing your name to your sm name?
TIA
emkato
11-30-2021, 09:55 AM
I insta-ban ALL of that mess. I'm going to go full vanilla on these fuckers and I'm so happy to be doing so. Fetishes have ruined the industry for me. Men are freaking disgusting and its like all they want is more, more, more! I'm sick of it and done with it. I'm happy that these things aren't allowed anymore. Everyday, I get asked to do raceplay and I'm fucking sick of it. You come into my room with an offensive username and I will ban you before your stupid fingers can type out the word "Hi"!
Porn has fried so many men's brains they don't know how to talk to women anymore. Ive heard stories from porn addicts who cant even get off having ACTUAL SEX because its not the same as their precious porn. Real intimacy is dead to them, they just wanna take take take and make things so extreme that eventually northing will satisfy their perversions. If men learned to actually like women as people and not just like us for our bodies I guarantee their whole viewpoint on pleasure would change but we are not people to them, we are just sex objects that no have feelings. ( I saw someone on here say "big boober porno lady no have feelings" recently and it made me giggle ngl lol )
As for raceplay that shit is disgusting. They just assume everyone will be ok with it at this point. Thats the problem, they assume because we get naked on cam that we have no limits or boundaries, or fucking feelings for that matter. I posted a few pages back about someone trying to trick girls into unknowingly saying the N word by giving their name but when a girl tries to sound it out its really just the N word in disguise. Thats pretty vile.
sorry had to vent :D
misspandora
11-30-2021, 09:57 AM
models use to do sleep goldshows, usually wanting to make their goal so they sleep but members wouldn’t read the title of the gold show, buy in and complain to support
a model use to work the site and just cover up her pillows.
I was told no more sleep shows bc guys complained. This was 2013
it’s a voyeur thing, usually models that live stream their life do this.
there was that one model on Streamate that was popular for her life voyeur shows. I can’t remember her name.
I actually did a sleep custom video for a fan once. 20 minutes of just me sleeping in a chair. Easiest clip ever. lol
misspandora
11-30-2021, 09:59 AM
I insta-ban ALL of that mess. I'm going to go full vanilla on these fuckers and I'm so happy to be doing so. Fetishes have ruined the industry for me. Men are freaking disgusting and its like all they want is more, more, more! I'm sick of it and done with it. I'm happy that these things aren't allowed anymore. Everyday, I get asked to do raceplay and I'm fucking sick of it. You come into my room with an offensive username and I will ban you before your stupid fingers can type out the word "Hi"!
I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. I also think our political environment doesn't help, w people thinking they can say any racist garbage that flies like diarrh*ea out of their mouths.
I've made a good living off freaky fetishes for the last 10 yrs, so I guess I'm pretty jaded lol.
After reading an article about how some pedos are enticing poor women to do horrible things on cam sites, I can see why SM is being so hard about this stuff. It's scary and gross, and ruins it for eveyrone.
Aquamarin3
11-30-2021, 10:34 AM
LOL I will say one model sleeps sexy, maybe this is you? helps she has a banner saying this is sleep show w her tip toy in.. that is acknowledging a sleep show.
Hell nah, I'm a mouth breather and I sound like a freight train. I wish I slept sexy!
misspandora
11-30-2021, 10:46 AM
Hell nah, I'm a mouth breather and I sound like a freight train. I wish I slept sexy!
You can fake it :)
whysky
11-30-2021, 12:09 PM
How do you get verified after joining the discord and changing your name to your sm name?
TIA
I think your base discord name needs to be your cam name, not just the nickname in the SM channel. If that makes sense. I’m not a discord expert. But I had to make a new account with my cam name as it didn’t recognize it when it was just the nickname.