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Marina Starr
11-30-2021, 12:17 PM
You never have to be sorry for venting because God knows I VENT and RANT all the time. I thrive on drama, lmao ;D
I swear a lot of them think just because they pay us, we're supposed to be open to boundaries crossing and anything goes.
If they want to have it their way, go to Burger King. I regulate what goes in my room.
Porn has fried so many men's brains they don't know how to talk to women anymore. Ive heard stories from porn addicts who cant even get off having ACTUAL SEX because its not the same as their precious porn. Real intimacy is dead to them, they just wanna take take take and make things so extreme that eventually northing will satisfy their perversions. If men learned to actually like women as people and not just like us for our bodies I guarantee their whole viewpoint on pleasure would change but we are not people to them, we are just sex objects that no have feelings. ( I saw someone on here say "big boober porno lady no have feelings" recently and it made me giggle ngl lol )
As for raceplay that shit is disgusting. They just assume everyone will be ok with it at this point. Thats the problem, they assume because we get naked on cam that we have no limits or boundaries, or fucking feelings for that matter. I posted a few pages back about someone trying to trick girls into unknowingly saying the N word by giving their name but when a girl tries to sound it out its really just the N word in disguise. Thats pretty vile.
sorry had to vent :D
whysky
11-30-2021, 12:37 PM
I think most non sex workers think of sex work as paying to cross boundaries and use a body how the client wants. When infact what is is/could be/should be, is that they are paying for our experience, knowledge, skills and having access to a person who is professionally sexual/sexy. The more we enforce that, the more people will learn that paying for sex does not equal paying to access boundaries.
Dont_Care
11-30-2021, 12:56 PM
Im curious if the issue is seen by me only or others too. I have logged on streamate.com from my pc and the placement its very funny, it shows me the romanian models, americans are on page 2. Plus, if i enter any room, it redirects me to fling.com....wtf.... is the site corrupted or what is going on. One hour ago i came online and couldn't connect my toy either..On phone, placement works fine, even the rooms but desktop version is very weird.
Erika_Xstacy
11-30-2021, 01:28 PM
Im curious if the issue is seen by me only or others too. I have logged on streamate.com from my pc and the placement its very funny, it shows me the romanian models, americans are on page 2. Plus, if i enter any room, it redirects me to fling.com....wtf.... is the site corrupted or what is going on. One hour ago i came online and couldn't connect my toy either..On phone, placement works fine, even the rooms but desktop version is very weird.
looks like the regular mix on my end and I am not redirected to fling
Dont_Care
11-30-2021, 01:48 PM
looks like the regular mix on my end and I am not redirected to fling
It seems back to normal now...probably it was a glitch, who knows....lately SM is full of surprises!
kinkydirtybitch
11-30-2021, 02:49 PM
I think your base discord name needs to be your cam name, not just the nickname in the SM channel. If that makes sense. I’m not a discord expert. But I had to make a new account with my cam name as it didn’t recognize it when it was just the nickname.
Yes I thought it had to be our model name which it is I was just wondering how to get verified since I’ve been removed from the stripper web one.
Aquamarin3
11-30-2021, 03:45 PM
There's a StripperWeb discord?!
Yes I thought it had to be our model name which it is I was just wondering how to get verified since I’ve been removed from the stripper web one.
naomi_doll
11-30-2021, 03:54 PM
There's a StripperWeb discord?!
It's not official and it's really only for cammodels and content creators, but yes! Please please please send a moderator (on the server, not here) your cam link so we can verify that only cammodels are on there. Thank you!
https://discord.gg/nUKq8RzK
Erika_Xstacy
11-30-2021, 03:58 PM
I am not hitting on shit today and not enthused by the amount of people lurking
i will log off and log back on this evening
zeusydoo
11-30-2021, 04:30 PM
models use to do sleep goldshows, usually wanting to make their goal so they sleep but members wouldn’t read the title of the gold show, buy in and complain to support
a model use to work the site and just cover up her pillows.
I was told no more sleep shows bc guys complained. This was 2013
it’s a voyeur thing, usually models that live stream their life do this.
there was that one model on Streamate that was popular for her life voyeur shows. I can’t remember her name.
I think her name was Madison something I remember her well , doing voyeurs in her house and in the car, fixing the car etc etc . Highly entertaining she was
kamiliam
11-30-2021, 05:16 PM
I think most non sex workers think of sex work as paying to cross boundaries and use a body how the client wants. When infact what is is/could be/should be, is that they are paying for our experience, knowledge, skills and having access to a person who is professionally sexual/sexy. The more we enforce that, the more people will learn that paying for sex does not equal paying to access boundaries.
just wanted to tell you that this is wonderfully stated
JoiDivision
11-30-2021, 07:17 PM
Dang, for some reason I'm only just now getting the double-tip glitch today. It's been happening for my gold shows, which is frustrating because it's showing I've got double the gold that I have. For example, $60/$100 of my goal even though it's actually $30. :( I've been making my goals a lot higher to make up for the glitch.
Erika_Xstacy
11-30-2021, 07:35 PM
I think her name was Madison something I remember her well , doing voyeurs in her house and in the car, fixing the car etc etc . Highly entertaining she was
You described her perfect but it was mercedes
Dreamqueen
11-30-2021, 08:09 PM
It's ageplay so isn't allowed at all, they have a 0 tolerance policy for it
56255
Hmmm. Interesting. I clicked on her room, and there she was, telling a guy to take her exclusive so she could see his poopy diaper. Huh???
Then I watched her return to free chat, and tell a guy she will call him the "N" word in exclusive.
I never watch cams, but after being threatened with being fired for leaving the cam, I thought I'd take a look.
I scanned the site, and clicked on a few rooms.
What I saw was shocking.
One model was firing up a blowtorch to a glass pipe. Watched others give out their only fans, wishlist, etc. One lady told a guy that she'd be his little girl.
Saw many out of frame for more than 10 minutes.
Yikes.
I'm not one to report others, but, geesh.
And I get clocked for leaving the cam to get something for a few minutes.
Ok. Got it.
Sam38g
11-30-2021, 08:15 PM
I rarely have guys ask me to do taboo or illegal shows, but most have learned that I won't. And it is my room, so it is my rules. Some ask to push your boundaries because they love pushing our buttons.
It is also them training you, but I've got my guys trained pretty well.
Sam38g
11-30-2021, 08:21 PM
56255
Hmmm. Interesting. I clicked on her room, and there she was, telling a guy to take her exclusive so she could see his poopy diaper. Huh???
Then I watched her return to free chat, and tell a guy she will call him the "N" word in exclusive.
I never watch cams, but after being threatened with being fired for leaving the cam, I thought I'd take a look.
I scanned the site, and clicked on a few rooms.
What I saw was shocking.
One model was firing up a blowtorch to a glass pipe. Watched others give out their only fans, wishlist, etc. One lady told a guy that she'd be his little girl.
Saw many out of frame for more than 10 minutes.
Yikes.
I'm not one to report others, but, geesh.
And I get clocked for leaving the cam to get something for a few minutes.
Ok. Got it.
And they are all taking a risk of losing their account on SM. Not one for calling people stupid, but they are being stupid. These are against our OVERLORD's TOS aka Visa/Mastercard. SM risks losing it's billing and thus sooner or later those people will be terminated off of the site.
Some don't read the TOS and some think the risk for the money is worth it. In the long run, it is mentally unhealthy and they will lose their job.
Also don't watch other cam rooms if the experience is going to be negative time after time. Focus on your room, being positive & making as much money as you can. Let those stupid people have the worst customers in the world who are also always the cheapest jerks too.
And those guys might be setting up those other performers to get them fired or to blackmail them. Either way, not the customer base you want.
You can't let such negativity be in your life, especially when camming. It does affect your mindset & money.
whirlerz
11-30-2021, 09:46 PM
Most, (if not all) men need to be diapered, whether they know it or not!
kinkydirtybitch
11-30-2021, 10:41 PM
It's not official and it's really only for cammodels and content creators, but yes! Please please please send a moderator (on the server, not here) your cam link so we can verify that only cammodels are on there. Thank you!
https://discord.gg/nUKq8RzK
ivebeena cam model and creator for 20 years and was removed from the group yesterday and now the link no longer works
I was removed after sending my links
LucyLynk
12-01-2021, 03:28 AM
I live in California can I work for streammate? I remember some law passed That affected California cam models, has anything changed like if I were to sing up for streammate as a California resident would I be accepted and if They are not excepting California models can somebody please recommend the top earning WebCam sites to join that do except new WebCam models from California
ravenskyy
12-01-2021, 06:58 AM
I'm still missing my bonus week money and no one from SM is responding to my emails. Freaking nice! I know I qualified for it so wtf!?!?
Vlodina
12-01-2021, 08:41 AM
Guys cams disappearing repeatedly, just me? So frustrating!
roseforarose
12-01-2021, 10:44 AM
I've been trying to complain less here but...my god today was AWFUL! Worse than my contest days. Did multiple hours online, had decent traffic but made $0. Like, actually zero not even a single tip!! ughhhhh, not a great start to the month
AuroraJade
12-01-2021, 11:50 AM
Porn has fried so many men's brains they don't know how to talk to women anymore. Ive heard stories from porn addicts who cant even get off having ACTUAL SEX because its not the same as their precious porn. Real intimacy is dead to them, they just wanna take take take and make things so extreme that eventually northing will satisfy their perversions. If men learned to actually like women as people and not just like us for our bodies I guarantee their whole viewpoint on pleasure would change but we are not people to them, we are just sex objects that no have feelings. ( I saw someone on here say "big boober porno lady no have feelings" recently and it made me giggle ngl lol )
sorry had to vent :D
As a young woman I had my fair share of male bed partners who can't satisfy a woman in a way that she likes. After one time of 'regular' sex they start talking about doing anal. And oh yeah, all women can squirt buckets. Of course. And I won't start talking about the erectile disfunction they all have. LOL.
Thats also why they want more and more extreme stuff on cam (ageplay/incest/humiliation) just to search out what gives them a thrill. Like a drug addict.
anonamiss
12-01-2021, 12:49 PM
I live in California can I work for streammate? I remember some law passed That affected California cam models, has anything changed like if I were to sing up for streammate as a California resident would I be accepted and if They are not excepting California models can somebody please recommend the top earning WebCam sites to join that do except new WebCam models from California
CA model here, AB-5 is the law you're referring to. We had to become employees of a Streamate studio for several months in order to comply, but it all got retracted and now we are self employed/contractors again.
So yes you should be fine to work for SM.
Esixxx
12-01-2021, 01:24 PM
I just tried to refresh my stream and I got this.
56260
Is this just happening to me? Anyone else
I just tried to refresh my stream and I got this.
56260
Is this just happening to me? Anyone else
Yeeeeeees I was thinking was my connection but I tried everywhere lol. Today wasn't my day :p I would just cry
It's down completely!! I just had the most stressful day my internet crushed and I found a new location for streaming and now lol obsly no traffic. Glad I visited some fam members and just chatted :) I did not loose lot
ravenskyy
12-01-2021, 01:29 PM
It's down for me too :confused:
Esixxx
12-01-2021, 01:31 PM
It's back up
Got it on my phone and pc.
laurielegs
12-01-2021, 02:24 PM
Seems to be working okay now.
looklovely
12-01-2021, 02:42 PM
Customer, in private called me "Daddy", is this allowed? I reported after the "Dumb Bitch" comment.
Erika_Xstacy
12-01-2021, 02:43 PM
Customer, in private called me "Daddy", is this allowed? I reported after the "Dumb Bitch" comment.
yes it is
as long as it is not incest
looklovely
12-01-2021, 03:08 PM
yes it is
as long as it is not incest
He also wanted to see dicks, on cam but said it's against the rules.
They can verbally abuse us, as long as no rules are broken, correct?
whirlerz
12-01-2021, 03:38 PM
Not working for me
Genoveve
12-01-2021, 03:56 PM
^^It's working for me.
ravenskyy
12-01-2021, 04:02 PM
Bonus week has been fixed. Yay!
Keep having issues in bitrate/rtt. Now reloading hope that it's going to be better!! :p
zeusydoo
12-01-2021, 04:51 PM
You described her perfect but it was mercedes
ah yes that's it, I didn't think Madison was right, thank you Erika, and wasn't she fantastic to watch
looklovely
12-01-2021, 05:04 PM
Anyone get the BillClinton, troll today? If anyone has him blocked, I'd like his ID # to block him. He has creepy personal information about me, wasn't rude before, but today I was so shocked I logged off. I didn't want him to know FOR SURE I read what he said in free chat.
anonamiss
12-01-2021, 05:59 PM
He also wanted to see dicks, on cam but said it's against the rules.
They can verbally abuse us, as long as no rules are broken, correct?
yep it's up to you if you want to deal with non-rule-breaking "verbal abuse."
i consent to "verbally abusive shows" from a couple of dominant regs because it doesn't bother me at all to be called a fat pig/stupid whore/whatever *in exclusive*. i'll happily take someone's money if they just want to sit there and pay to insult me. but all of them ask first and emphasize boundaries/safe words if i ever feel like they push too far, which i appreciate (but seriously, no amount of typed out "abuse" would affect me... maybe at a certain point i'd draw a line if it were actually audio based, but i doubt it if we talked about it before hand and it was someone i already established a rapport with.)
but i have zero tolerance for any type of "abuse" in free chat. even when someone casually says something like "hey whore/slut/etc will you do XYZ for me?" i'm like "hello dear. calling me names is a privilege and you don't have that yet because i don't know you. address me by my name and let's have a polite interaction first then we'll see." most of them just leave lol. it's a conversational way of filtering out assholes. occasionally they'll apologize and turn into legit nice customers so for me it's worth not blocking them straight away.
Marina Starr
12-01-2021, 06:01 PM
LMAO, I got him as well today but he didn't say shit to me. I was hoping he'd ask if I still have that blue dress .
Anyone get the BillClinton, troll today? If anyone has him blocked, I'd like his ID # to block him. He has creepy personal information about me, wasn't rude before, but today I was so shocked I logged off. I didn't want him to know FOR SURE I read what he said in free chat.
anoncamgirl
12-01-2021, 07:01 PM
ivebeena cam model and creator for 20 years and was removed from the group yesterday and now the link no longer works
I was removed after sending my links
Hello there, I'm the admin of the group and I'll admit your ban caused a bit of a stir.
We're in a state where I'm transitioning out of cam. It's a work in progress. As a result of this, the server is in a state of evolution. Members of the group voted for mods, and the mods have been enacting new policies. It's a knight of the round table situation, and in a few months, the mods will vote for the new admin of the server. In the meantime, however, I'm still running it in a hands-off manner, but the newly-appointed mods are doing most of the work and I'm very grateful.
During this transition, there's been a few bumps in the road, and I'm sure it should have been expected. Essentially, what happened was that the mods wanted members to be verified with a selfie and camlinks. The reasoning was that they only wanted verified camgirls in the group, and did not want a male lurking who doesn't even work on these sites. It's a private group and we support privacy and respect towards all of our members. There was a miscommunication with how the verification should be handled. Essentially, we did not work out if members needed to post only their links, or a link and a selfie to ensure no one was imitating another model to gain access to the server. I believe everyone agreed that if a model was live and willing to give some kind of indication to a moderator while streaming, then they would be approved. If a model was not live, then they would ask for a selfie. To be VERY clear, we **do not** ask for an ID or anything with your real name, just a simple selfie with a picture of you holding up a piece of paper with the date. Nothing else, certainly nothing nude or incriminating. The last thing anyone wants is for a model to feel like they're being taken advantage of, and safety is very important to all of us.
This specific moderator felt that you were being disrespectful when you questioned her about it, because she just wanted to keep the group safe from prying eyes. But, it also may have been a misunderstanding on how we are handling the governance of the server. We're worked out how to handle this now, and if you'd like to come back and post a verification picture, and perhaps clear up any hurt feelings this mod felt towards the sharing of your conversation, you'd be more than welcome back to the server, we'd love to have you.
looklovely
12-01-2021, 07:11 PM
LMAO, I got him as well today but he didn't say shit to me. I was hoping he'd ask if I still have that blue dress .
You're better than me! He's been coming in for years asking the same question, but today was bad. I'll inbox what he said to me, if I may...
Marina Starr
12-01-2021, 07:30 PM
yes, inbox. He must have read most popular tag 'quick to ban'.
You're better than me! He's been coming in for years asking the same question, but today was bad. I'll inbox what he said to me, if I may...
Erika_Xstacy
12-01-2021, 09:14 PM
ah yes that's it, I didn't think Madison was right, thank you Erika, and wasn't she fantastic to watch
LOL it didnt sound right but it started w a m and she drove a mercedes. the lightbulb came on
she was a god w internet in her car lol Id be like how???? so cool lmao
briannebanksxo
12-01-2021, 09:35 PM
Can anyone share a link to the streamate discord? I have friends who are in it but they've told me that invites have been disabled for now.
My discord tag is VJ#2709 if anyone is comfortable messaging me there. I can verify my identity if needed.
Erika_Xstacy
12-01-2021, 11:08 PM
Can anyone share a link to the streamate discord? I have friends who are in it but they've told me that invites have been disabled for now.
My discord tag is VJ#2709 if anyone is comfortable messaging me there. I can verify my identity if needed.
^^ i need this as well
Erikaxstacy#5936
and the sw support group? or are they the same? i need to reverify
briannebanksxo
12-01-2021, 11:33 PM
^^ i need this as well
Erikaxstacy#5936
and the sw support group? or are they the same? i need to reverify
Sent you a DM. They started doing verifications last month.
kinkydirtybitch
12-02-2021, 02:49 AM
Hello there, I'm the admin of the group and I'll admit your ban caused a bit of a stir. We're in a state where I'm transitioning out of cam. It's a work in progress. As a result of this, the server is in a state of evolution. Members of the group voted for mods, and the mods have been enacting new policies. It's a knight of the round table situation, and in a few months, the mods will vote for the new admin of the server. In the meantime, however, I'm still running it in a hands-off manner, but the newly-appointed mods are doing most of the work and I'm very grateful. During this transition, there's been a few bumps in the road, and I'm sure it should have been expected. Essentially, what happened was that the mods wanted members to be verified with a selfie and camlinks. The reasoning was that they only wanted verified camgirls in the group, and did not want a male lurking who doesn't even work on these sites. It's a private group and we support privacy and respect towards all of our members. There was a miscommunication with how the verification should be handled. Essentially, we did not work out if members needed to post only their links, or a link and a selfie to ensure no one was imitating another model to gain access to the server. I believe everyone agreed that if a model was live and willing to give some kind of indication to a moderator while streaming, then they would be approved. If a model was not live, then they would ask for a selfie. To be VERY clear, we **do not** ask for an ID or anything with your real name, just a simple selfie with a picture of you holding up a piece of paper with the date. Nothing else, certainly nothing nude or incriminating. The last thing anyone wants is for a model to feel like they're being taken advantage of, and safety is very important to all of us.This specific moderator felt that you were being disrespectful when you questioned her about it, because she just wanted to keep the group safe from prying eyes. But, it also may have been a misunderstanding on how we are handling the governance of the server. We're worked out how to handle this now, and if you'd like to come back and post a verification picture, and perhaps clear up any hurt feelings this mod felt towards the sharing of your conversation, you'd be more than welcome back to the server, we'd love to have you.How is this rude? and why are my links not sufficient when I was live at the time as I am now? I've got a big fuck off neon sign that has my name on and have a photo of me in front of it but the thread will not accept my photo. 56262
bobsandvangene
12-02-2021, 04:01 AM
Hello again girls - was just wondering if admin deactivate reviews after a set period? I seem to be stagnant on 25 reviews, and I noticed they only go back to September? And then other models have hundreds of reviews. I'm so confused.