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Luckygoldfish
01-03-2022, 06:09 PM
Yes same. also, organic vids sales (people buying naturally them without me pedaling them) is also up this week for me. Vids sales died off for me big time the last couple of months but i'm noticing way more so far this week. I'm hoping good things are happening for the site!

Oh yes I noticed that video sales from the gallery went up as well
I thought it’s because I was streaming a lot

Cutie101
01-03-2022, 08:48 PM
do you know cutie if they are still requiring professional photos?

Hey bigbum, sorry i didn't answer, I saw NattyFetish responded to you in the livejasmin thread, she's also a Jasmin veteran and she knows the site well. I didn't want to say the same thing. Yes, they still want that, but they also accept profesionally made by phone pics, if they are really good done, like... instagram type. Or if you have a friend with a DSLR, you can simply take some normal pics, in the park (some nice headshots with a nice background behind, some trees, etc- my own profile pic on jasmin is a headshot), at the beach (if the location or weather allows), edit them nicely and give it a try?

CAMGIRLANA
01-04-2022, 01:21 AM
Hello,

This performer account with Streamate has been closed permanently.

The reason for this is due to site policy violation and/or participation in fraudulent/failure to report fraudulent activity on a previous account. We take this very seriously and this behavior is unacceptable. As such, you are not able to have any accounts with us going forward.
this is waht streamate write to me , im realy mad now coz i dont do nothing , how can i know they have fraud customer they take 70% of out money so they should check it realy good , im a model so its not my job to check customer . Now i need to look for some good sites coz streamate was my first and best , someone can help ? i know mfc . chaturbate , strip chat im live , live jasmin, flirt4free,bonga . any advice??plz

laurielegs
01-04-2022, 01:42 AM
Hello,

This performer account with Streamate has been closed permanently.

The reason for this is due to site policy violation and/or participation in fraudulent/failure to report fraudulent activity on a previous account. We take this very seriously and this behavior is unacceptable. As such, you are not able to have any accounts with us going forward.
this is waht streamate write to me , im realy mad now coz i dont do nothing , how can i know they have fraud customer they take 70% of out money so they should check it realy good , im a model so its not my job to check customer . Now i need to look for some good sites coz streamate was my first and best , someone can help ? i know mfc . chaturbate , strip chat im live , live jasmin, flirt4free,bonga . any advice??plz

I'm really sorry to hear that they won't let you back on. I like Stripchat a lot, but if I were you I would try more than one site out and see how it goes for you. There are threads here for each site and reading through those can be really helpful too.

CAMGIRLANA
01-04-2022, 02:22 AM
:( yes im on others too but that was best for me , i try on stripchat but its quiet empty room nothing , can u give me advive?

seicento
01-04-2022, 03:14 AM
Hello,

This performer account with Streamate has been closed permanently.

The reason for this is due to site policy violation and/or participation in fraudulent/failure to report fraudulent activity on a previous account. We take this very seriously and this behavior is unacceptable. As such, you are not able to have any accounts with us going forward.
this is waht streamate write to me , im realy mad now coz i dont do nothing , how can i know they have fraud customer they take 70% of out money so they should check it realy good , im a model so its not my job to check customer . Now i need to look for some good sites coz streamate was my first and best , someone can help ? i know mfc . chaturbate , strip chat im live , live jasmin, flirt4free,bonga . any advice??plz

I'd say wait for a bit, maybe Liz will be able to help. I have been in this situation, had my account closed for fraud. I explained and eventually begged and they reopened it. I might have been lucky. It is really unfair as we can't know when a spending customer is doing fraud. Personally I just thought that he was enjoying spending time with me/ had an addiction, in the beginning he was only using an account. When he started changing accounts I reported him and the result was me having my account closed. I did what I was supposed to do, report him. Yet, I was also punished. I fear these situations a lot now because I just can't know what every customer is doing. It's definitely not our job to figure out a fraud and when we suspect something and do what's right, report, it's definitely unfair to have our accounts closed.

They have a content review team, if you didn't do anything wrong they should see from reviewing your pvt/excl. This should be solved if you were not involved as you say. Good luck!

CAMGIRLANA
01-04-2022, 03:36 AM
I'd say wait for a bit, maybe Liz will be able to help. I have been in this situation, had my account closed for fraud. I explained and eventually begged and they reopened it. I might have been lucky. It is really unfair as we can't know when a spending customer is doing fraud. Personally I just thought that he was enjoying spending time with me/ had an addiction, in the beginning he was only using an account. When he started changing accounts I reported him and the result was me having my account closed. I did what I was supposed to do, report him. Yet, I was also punished. I fear these situations a lot now because I just can't know what every customer is doing. It's definitely not our job to figure out a fraud and when we suspect something and do what's right, report, it's definitely unfair to have our accounts closed.

They have a content review team, if you didn't do anything wrong they should see from reviewing your pvt/excl. This should be solved if you were not involved as you say. Good luck!

i hope so i realy dont know why they do it and i dont report coz i got higher tip 2 days so i tought ohh im lucky but probably if he will keep tiping it longer i wil ldo it coz it will be strange but what strange is in have 2 days bigger tip i think nothing but they think difrent , hmm manyway im waiting i ccant do nothing more now

Strawberryblonde
01-04-2022, 08:48 AM
Oh yes I noticed that video sales from the gallery went up as well
I thought it’s because I was streaming a lot

I noticed vid sales somewhere else increased particularly New Year's Day.

Can't currently get vids from my phone uploaded to SM.

Luckygoldfish
01-04-2022, 10:55 AM
I noticed vid sales somewhere else increased particularly New Year's Day.

Can't currently get vids from my phone uploaded to SM.

I never tried uploading from my phone but I never had problems loading from PC.
Yes at the start it looks like nothing happening then u just wait and don’t close the browser and eventually in around 15 mins I open up another tap of video manager and it appears in pending vids. just make sure it’s less than 2G otherwise it won’t work at all

CatBBW
01-04-2022, 11:02 AM
Photo ID rejected again!! I've emailed to ask what exactly is the problem, as I am following the guidelines exactly.

laurielegs
01-04-2022, 11:43 AM
:( yes im on others too but that was best for me , i try on stripchat but its quiet empty room nothing , can u give me advive?

On Stripchat I get some fetish clients. If you do different fetishes be sure your profile reflects that.

Halestorm
01-04-2022, 12:38 PM
How is January going so far for everyone? =)

I started yesterday and it was dead as hell. Maybe still too early to have an opinion. I remember January 2021 was good.

FloridaSunDoll
01-04-2022, 12:42 PM
How is January going so far for everyone? =)

I started yesterday and it was dead as hell. Maybe still too early to have an opinion. I remember January 2021 was good.

back to normal for me..some days dead, some days good. Traffic definitely seems up and a lot of new members

edited to add: as I mentioned yesterday also noticed video sales from the gallery are up

roseforarose
01-04-2022, 01:31 PM
How is January going so far for everyone? =)

I started yesterday and it was dead as hell. Maybe still too early to have an opinion. I remember January 2021 was good.

It's going alright, a bit slow traffic wise but my earnings are fine. It's only the 4th so I have no real opinion on the month yet lol.

roseforarose
01-04-2022, 01:35 PM
If guys ask for something against the rules (while you're already in excl) do you guys just say no, or do you also ban them?

Earlier I had a rando start calling himself daddy, he hadn't said anything directly related to or implying age play so I just continued the show and ignored it. Then he said he's into pee.
I told him that's against the rules and he can't talk about that, or anything else taboo and against the rules in my chat. He agreed and we went back to normal, he said daddy a few more times but nothing technically against the rules again.

Now I'm STRESSED that I'm gunna get banned bc he mentioned pee!! I didn't report him because it seems like sometimes we get banned too if we report them? Am I just stressing over nothing here, or is this an issue?

I've had like 4 people want to be called daddy in the past week?! I've had maybe two requests *total* in the 7 months prior so idk what's in the water right now

Vlodina
01-04-2022, 02:02 PM
If guys ask for something against the rules (while you're already in excl) do you guys just say no, or do you also ban them?

Earlier I had a rando start calling himself daddy, he hadn't said anything directly related to or implying age play so I just continued the show and ignored it. Then he said he's into pee.
I told him that's against the rules and he can't talk about that, or anything else taboo and against the rules in my chat. He agreed and we went back to normal, he said daddy a few more times but nothing technically against the rules again.

Now I'm STRESSED that I'm gunna get banned bc he mentioned pee!! I didn't report him because it seems like sometimes we get banned too if we report them? Am I just stressing over nothing here, or is this an issue?

I've had like 4 people want to be called daddy in the past week?! I've had maybe two requests *total* in the 7 months prior so idk what's in the water right now

Outright banning people without giving them a chance to correct their behaviour isn't in Streamate's best interest, or ours. $$! Some of them do it on purpose and are dicks but some just don't know. They don't keep up with all the changes like we do. I tell them off once, they have a chance. If they carry on I ban them. I haven't gotten in any trouble.

"Daddy" is fine as long as it's not incest roleplay. (may be in their head of course, but if verbal chat and text isn't then it's fine)

gbjenna
01-04-2022, 02:34 PM
If guys ask for something against the rules (while you're already in excl) do you guys just say no, or do you also ban them?

Earlier I had a rando start calling himself daddy, he hadn't said anything directly related to or implying age play so I just continued the show and ignored it. Then he said he's into pee.
I told him that's against the rules and he can't talk about that, or anything else taboo and against the rules in my chat. He agreed and we went back to normal, he said daddy a few more times but nothing technically against the rules again.

Now I'm STRESSED that I'm gunna get banned bc he mentioned pee!! I didn't report him because it seems like sometimes we get banned too if we report them? Am I just stressing over nothing here, or is this an issue?

I've had like 4 people want to be called daddy in the past week?! I've had maybe two requests *total* in the 7 months prior so idk what's in the water right now

Whether I warn them or they get an instant ban depends for me on what they say/do. Something like pee then IÂ’d tell them itÂ’s against the rules and ask them not to mention it again. If they mention again then they have to go.
If they bring incest/rape/underage stuff up then I refuse and itÂ’s an instant ban and report.

I refuse everything in writing so thereÂ’s explicit evidence of me turning down requests and telling them stuff is against the rules and I always report.

Daddy is within the rules but I wonÂ’t use it as I donÂ’t trust them not to start twisting it!! I donÂ’t like grey areas or leaving room for them to start escalating it into illegal/out of bounds stuff.
IÂ’ve had a couple of guys recently ask to be called daddy and I suggested sir or master instead. They were both really happy with that, so maybe thatÂ’s an option for you if you want to avoid the daddy thing and limit the possibility of losing the customer over it?

Genoveve
01-04-2022, 02:37 PM
Outright banning people without giving them a chance to correct their behaviour isn't in Streamate's best interest, or ours

I tend to agree but somewhere in their literature SM told us to block and and report violators and that our behavior will look a lot better(as in not complicit) on SM's end if they end up having to investigate and see that we blocked the offender.

I had a guy yesterday talking about how he loves to puke on cock and I didn't know if I should let it slide because the rule is that WE are not allowed to talk about puke stuff, at least that's how it IS worded, and I wasn't. But then he started talking about his 'mom's dick' and I figured that could count as incest so I ended up blocking him anyway.

Vlodina
01-04-2022, 02:41 PM
To an extent it depends on each individual situation/customer for me, and how he reacts. Sometimes I screenshot anyway. Man, MC and VISA are sucking all the damn joy out of life lol

roseforarose
01-04-2022, 02:45 PM
Daddy is within the rules but I won’t use it as I don’t trust them not to start twisting it!! I don’t like grey areas or leaving room for them to start escalating it into illegal/out of bounds stuff.

I feel the same way. None of these guys bringing up daddy stuff had mentioned or even implied they were into it prior to them randomly saying it in excl! If I'd have known beforehand I'd say no to the show as the grey area makes me uncomfortable on SM.

Suggesting master or sir instead is a good idea! I think I need to get better at rejected their grey-area ideas, it honestly just catches me off guard if I'm literally fucking myself and they start throwing random things out there ;D like...what?!

I think I may make a note about the guy from earlier to remind myself not to do a show with him again, and in future if someone wants to be called daddy I'll just suggest sir instead

roseforarose
01-04-2022, 02:51 PM
I tend to agree but somewhere in their literature SM told us to block and and report violators and that our behavior will look a lot better(as in not complicit) on SM's end if they end up having to investigate and see that we blocked the offender.

Yeah this is what is getting to me, I didn't do anything against the rules but he technically did. He also said he knew it was against the rules once I pointed it out so :/ that's annoying! At least he didn't do it again but...ugh! If it was free chat I'd just block him but I always feel uncomfortable blocking/reporting mid-show if they've not done something egregious

They don't want us to overeport, but also want us to report seemingly everything so? I'm not sure where to stand with things like this. I've changed my bio to what I think will be more off-putting to ddlg types so hopefully that sorts the issue 😂

Erika_Xstacy
01-04-2022, 03:00 PM
before i wouldn't worry about report what a custi does
last night i had a custi admit to smoking meth and that's why he couldn't cum making him edge for 3 days
I noticed his speech was becoming really slurred and when he sat down it was a more of a fall, one arm slumped over the chair w his head back.
I asked him if he was ok, he said yes and i know from my visual he didnt hit that pipe when we were online

I kept asking if he was sure he was ok. he held up a syringe and said dont be mad :( first of all, i am worried about you, not mad.

secondly, worried about my acct
do i report this?
he admitted to smoking meth/heroin but didn't say it, he held up the pipe
he didnt verbally say shooting up, he held up the syringe

freyasnecklace
01-04-2022, 03:01 PM
Outright banning people without giving them a chance to correct their behaviour isn't in Streamate's best interest, or ours. $$! Some of them do it on purpose and are dicks but some just don't know. They don't keep up with all the changes like we do. I tell them off once, they have a chance. If they carry on I ban them. I haven't gotten in any trouble.

"Daddy" is fine as long as it's not incest roleplay. (may be in their head of course, but if verbal chat and text isn't then it's fine)

I’m confused about this because in the TOS it now says nothing about incest or racism. It’s all bestiality, ageplay, rape, and the other usuals. But incest and racial slurs are no longer specified. Does it just fall under the “obscenity” umbrella? I know for a fact it used to be in the language.

Edit: it says “ any local community standard of “obscenity.” Legally these laws are in regard to protecting children from pedos. I’m too scared to ask SM haha

Erika_Xstacy
01-04-2022, 04:04 PM
I’m confused about this because in the TOS it now says nothing about incest or racism. It’s all bestiality, ageplay, rape, and the other usuals. But incest and racial slurs are no longer specified. Does it just fall under the “obscenity” umbrella? I know for a fact it used to be in the language.

Edit: it says “ any local community standard of “obscenity.” Legally these laws are in regard to protecting children from pedos. I’m too scared to ask SM haha

https://streamatehelp.com/streaming-rules-faq/#toggle-id-12

scroll down to the bottom if you havent seen this one. its confusing having rules posted all over the site


The terms “daddy” and “mommy” are not banned and may be used during your shows. However, the context of these terms is important. For example, “spank me daddy” is acceptable. But “show daddy your X year-old sister” is NOT acceptable. If phrases such as “daddy” or “mommy” are used to suggest incest, non-consent, or underage sexual activity, then they violate the Streamate Code of Conduct. If a member uses these terms in this way, stop the scene and then report and block them. During an investigation, this report is a positive sign that you are helping us keep this content off the site.

In the past there has been some confusion about this term, but we have corrected this issue and will follow the above policy going forward.

roseforarose
01-04-2022, 04:17 PM
before i wouldn't worry about report what a custi does
last night i had a custi admit to smoking meth and that's why he couldn't cum making him edge for 3 days
I noticed his speech was becoming really slurred and when he sat down it was a more of a fall, one arm slumped over the chair w his head back.
I asked him if he was ok, he said yes and i know from my visual he didnt hit that pipe when we were online

I kept asking if he was sure he was ok. he held up a syringe and said dont be mad :( first of all, i am worried about you, not mad.

secondly, worried about my acct
do i report this?
he admitted to smoking meth/heroin but didn't say it, he held up the pipe
he didnt verbally say shooting up, he held up the syringe

That honestly sounds heartbreaking, I'm really sorry :(

Personally I would report this, I do have guys mention drugs occasionally but I tell them I don't talk about anything illegal. If they showed something I'd report. For the guy you mentioned I'd hope the reporting him would maybe somehow stop him spending? (I know that highly unlikely, but still). If he's that out of it that he's slurring and can't hold himself up then I'd be worried about how well he could even consent and if he should be spending money on cam tbh.

That stuff aside, I think being that high would be very obvious to anyone checking the footage or chat, especially if he's showing syringes that's definitely against the rules. I feel really sorry for him though; I had a reg last year who was an alcoholic, eventually I had to ban him as he was becoming distruptive to my chat room and making people feel uncomfortable

freyasnecklace
01-04-2022, 04:20 PM
https://streamatehelp.com/streaming-rules-faq/#toggle-id-12

scroll down to the bottom if you havent seen this one. its confusing having rules posted all over the site


The terms “daddy” and “mommy” are not banned and may be used during your shows. However, the context of these terms is important. For example, “spank me daddy” is acceptable. But “show daddy your X year-old sister” is NOT acceptable. If phrases such as “daddy” or “mommy” are used to suggest incest, non-consent, or underage sexual activity, then they violate the Streamate Code of Conduct. If a member uses these terms in this way, stop the scene and then report and block them. During an investigation, this report is a positive sign that you are helping us keep this content off the site.

In the past there has been some confusion about this term, but we have corrected this issue and will follow the above policy going forward.

Yeah, I figured anything that gets even remotely close to age play is a hard NO. Except for all those models in onesies, pigtails, and such clearly saying “little girl” **eye roll **. Sure would be great if they put that in the actual agreement.

~Carmen~
01-04-2022, 04:28 PM
I'm so confused. I had a new guy who tipped quite a bit. I reported him, just in case it was fraud. He also acted like he knew me, which made me uncomfortable.

After I logged off, he sent me his phone number in messenger so I also reported him for that. Then he came back with another account in messenger, telling me he's working on being so obsessive. He told me I had also blocked his old account. I also reported that.

Is this considered abusing the reporting system?

I try very hard to stay within the rules but I'm always worried that I might have done the wrong thing.

MsJess
01-04-2022, 04:36 PM
Yeah, I figured anything that gets even remotely close to age play is a hard NO. Except for all those models in onesies, pigtails, and such clearly saying “little girl” **eye roll **. Sure would be great if they put that in the actual agreement.

I was wondering about teddy bears etc. that looks pretty much like age play to me...

MsJess
01-04-2022, 04:44 PM
I'm so confused. I had a new guy who tipped quite a bit. I reported him, just in case it was fraud. He also acted like he knew me, which made me uncomfortable.

After I logged off, he sent me his phone number in messenger so I also reported him for that. Then he came back with another account in messenger, telling me he's working on being so obsessive. He told me I had also blocked his old account. I also reported that.

Is this considered abusing the reporting system?

I try very hard to stay within the rules but I'm always worried that I might have done the wrong thing.

Screenshot everything, report one time refusing to engage and you will be safe :)

Redcandy
01-04-2022, 06:56 PM
Anyone else having issues uploading videos? It says uploading, but then the progress bar disappears and the videos are nowhere to be found. I never had this issue before, until they switched to the media manager.
Once it say uploading yes the progress bar will disapear because the upload is processing on sm servers. Dont close out the page or minimize it. After about 15 -20 mins when you refreash page you will find the video under pending

KatM
01-04-2022, 07:09 PM
Now we have to report guys who tip big or spend good on us?! What about u guys saying in here "i got a whale" and are happy about it? Cant new guys not be legit, how do we know the difference between legit guys and fraud?

I will not ban or report the guys spending good on me unless i see evidence of fraudulent activity, if they say something about using someone else's Card or if they say they underage, or if i see they look underage, if they have multiple accounts for the same person and tips/ spends big on them telling me its the same guy, yeah, these are obvious reasons to be suspicious.

I refuse to be paranoid and cam in fear, i stick with the rules and do this since i got on this site same like i did/do on all sites, i will not do SM's job to police every guy and turn down shows, money, tips for no real reason.

KatM
01-04-2022, 07:16 PM
I'm so confused. I had a new guy who tipped quite a bit. I reported him, just in case it was fraud. He also acted like he knew me, which made me uncomfortable.

After I logged off, he sent me his phone number in messenger so I also reported him for that. Then he came back with another account in messenger, telling me he's working on being so obsessive. He told me I had also blocked his old account. I also reported that.

Is this considered abusing the reporting system?

I try very hard to stay within the rules but I'm always worried that I might have done the wrong thing.

Hi Carmen :-*
My friend was banned after she reported a guy who was giving her nice tips from multiple accounts, go figure. So, after i report fraud u also ban me the model who was helping u SM by reporting suspicious member so u can take care of him? Ridiculous!
Her account was opened back by Liz but this was scary for her. They need to get back to their senses.

MsJess
01-04-2022, 07:26 PM
Hi Carmen :-*
My friend was banned after she reported a guy who was giving her nice tips from multiple accounts, go figure. So, after i report fraud u also ban me the model who was helping u SM by reporting suspicious member so u can take care of him? Ridiculous!
Her account was opened back by Liz but this was scary for her. They need to get back to their senses.

maybe the guy who was using a stolen credit card was in her same state? idk but it would look suspicious even if it was a conincidence... so many things to think about

bigbum
01-04-2022, 07:30 PM
maybe the guy who was using a stolen credit card was in her same state? idk but it would look suspicious even if it was a conincidence... so many things to think about
am i the only one who thinks that reporting users just draws more attention to your account? so they can review your shows and then ban you?
or asking for those 1 stars to be removed.
they just investigate you more.. and then ban you.
just a thought.

KatM
01-04-2022, 07:32 PM
maybe the guy who was using a stolen credit card was in her same state? idk but it would look suspicious even if it was a conincidence... so many things to think about
Yeah, i did not say Carmen did good or wrong, it's very subjective situation.
Just explained that sometimes SM is taking some crazy decisions against us.
Reporting might get us in trouble but not reporting can do the same so what gives?!

MsJess
01-04-2022, 07:35 PM
maybe the guy who was using a stolen credit card was in her same state? idk but it would look suspicious even if it was a conincidence... so many things to think about

definitely LOL that's how i got my account flagged for fraud but I had Rhinoplasty LOL, I look like a different person now.

MsJess
01-04-2022, 07:36 PM
Yeah, i did not say Carmen did good or wrong, it's very subjective situation.
Just explained that sometimes SM is taking some crazy decisions against us.
Reporting might get us in trouble but not reporting can do the same so what gives?!

Screenshots will save our ASS!!!!

bigbum
01-04-2022, 07:37 PM
I was wondering about teddy bears etc. that looks pretty much like age play to me...
any outfits with any words or logos i send in to have approved just to be sure even with words like 666 or pot or something.
i just send it all for approval.
i dont take any chances.
sometimes i even get replies that say "this SHOULD BE OK"
if the reply from support is "should" then i dont use it.

MsJess
01-04-2022, 07:40 PM
any outfits with any words or logos i send in to have approved just to be sure even with words like 666 or pot or something.
i just send it all for approval.
i dont take any chances.
sometimes i even get replies that say "this SHOULD BE OK"
if the reply from support is "should" then i dont use it.

why are they so vague? they are covering their asses also

bigbum
01-04-2022, 07:45 PM
before i wouldn't worry about report what a custi does
last night i had a custi admit to smoking meth and that's why he couldn't cum making him edge for 3 days
I noticed his speech was becoming really slurred and when he sat down it was a more of a fall, one arm slumped over the chair w his head back.
I asked him if he was ok, he said yes and i know from my visual he didnt hit that pipe when we were online

I kept asking if he was sure he was ok. he held up a syringe and said dont be mad :( first of all, i am worried about you, not mad.

secondly, worried about my acct
do i report this?
he admitted to smoking meth/heroin but didn't say it, he held up the pipe
he didnt verbally say shooting up, he held up the syringe
omg you should report that right away! but since you didnt ban or kick him from the chat i would think reporting it at this point might go against you.
IDK.

i had 1 guy say he was taking aderol (spelling?) but i think that is a prescription drug so i dont know if he has a note from a doctor or not.
in short of asking him for a receipt from his doctor i just figured in that case i would let it slide.
who am i to judge what he is taking. and he just mentioned it once.

he did flash his cam on some porn for a few seconds so i think thats breaking the rules as well?
i told him he cant show porn on cam and kicked him out . too bad it was like a long exclusive but i think its against the rules

but needles and all that . oh for sure thats a no go rule breaking.
i think it wouldnt do you good to report him now becuse you never kicked or blocked him . so . just my opinion.

MsJess
01-04-2022, 07:54 PM
I tend to agree but somewhere in their literature SM told us to block and and report violators and that our behavior will look a lot better(as in not complicit) on SM's end if they end up having to investigate and see that we blocked the offender.

I had a guy yesterday talking about how he loves to puke on cock and I didn't know if I should let it slide because the rule is that WE are not allowed to talk about puke stuff, at least that's how it IS worded, and I wasn't. But then he started talking about his 'mom's dick' and I figured that could count as incest so I ended up blocking him anyway.


I barely block anyone, and it's been like this since 2005! no problem here, I just explain them the rules and what i offer! If they still wanna see me , they stay.

kamiliam
01-04-2022, 08:01 PM
am i the only one who thinks that reporting users just draws more attention to your account? so they can review your shows and then ban you?
or asking for those 1 stars to be removed.
they just investigate you more.. and then ban you.
just a thought.


not saying they aren’t making note of those who over report. But a guy who is pissy enough to rate 1 star is also the type to ask for a refund or complain to support.

damned if you do, damned if you don’t

bigbum
01-04-2022, 08:17 PM
i give them usually 1 chance if its exclusive to change what they wrote or re word it and tell them its not allowed if its just 1 word by mistake

but if its a creep i ban and report.

lately they like to sneak it in in private
i caught someone today when my back was turned in a private group show write "suck your brothers cock"
i blocked him instantly and reported.
and his comment was so out of context because it was a rubbing pussy cum show with a thong .
they just like to throw words in there in private because it gets them off and they now know its against the rules
so be on the look out in privates and make sure you read everything in the group shows.

~Carmen~
01-04-2022, 08:18 PM
not saying they aren’t making note of those who over report. But a guy who is pissy enough to rate 1 star is also the type to ask for a refund or complain to support.

damned if you do, damned if you don’t

I try not to speculate too much. It causes stress, which we all have too much of as it is. I think sometimes we overthink and worry too much. I'm going to try to stop. The things we worry about are usually for nothing. We are all trying our best and that's all we can do.

bigbum
01-04-2022, 08:24 PM
why are they so vague? they are covering their asses also
if they wanted the rules clear they would have a wiki with each rule specifically stated in a way that was very easy to understand.
i block kick and report for anything i can when i have time.
thats all we can do.
contrary to what a lot of ppl in this thread think about "sm favorites" a lot of top models are loosing accounts.
everyone is replaceable.
to think otherwise or to think that we are an exception or that they wont care because we make them XXX amount per month
would be a mistake.
i love working on SM but i do loose sleep over my account. i am not going to lie no matter how hard i police it.

even if they like to dom me and say " big daddy likes this slut " oor their user name is daddy and its a show that has NOTHING to do with daddy i STILL
i make them right "step daddy" even if its no where near meant in that way.
i dont care if they dont like it. they do what i say even if they think they are domming me.. and you know what ladies? they write step lol even if it has nothing to do with the show. each and every time. they write it.

so atleast there is that.

MsJess
01-04-2022, 09:24 PM
i give them usually 1 chance if its exclusive to change what they wrote or re word it and tell them its not allowed if its just 1 word by mistake

but if its a creep i ban and report.

lately they like to sneak it in in private
i caught someone today when my back was turned in a private group show write "suck your brothers cock"
i blocked him instantly and reported.
and his comment was so out of context because it was a rubbing pussy cum show with a thong .
they just like to throw words in there in private because it gets them off and they now know its against the rules
so be on the look out in privates and make sure you read everything in the group shows.

Yeah, definitely is wise to block those with the forbidden words... never hesitate if your gut says othersise

HollyD
01-04-2022, 11:27 PM
Hey uk girls! What payment do you guys use as they've gotten rid of worldpay for us? Only just come back on

seicento
01-04-2022, 11:58 PM
maybe the guy who was using a stolen credit card was in her same state? idk but it would look suspicious even if it was a conincidence... so many things to think about
Nope, he said he was living on some island, I don't remember now, been a few years since that happened. He was not in my country nor same nationality. He came to see me weekly for a couple months, 30 sometimes 60 mins exclusives. Then one night he did an exclusive with his usual account and when he reached limit came back with two other accounts. That's where I started suspecting and reported him. I had no reasons to suspect earlier, he was using the same account every time, wanting ass/ foot worship shows, I just thought he's paying for his fetish like many others do. And then I had to beg to get my account back lol.

MissAdriana
01-05-2022, 11:46 AM
Outright banning people without giving them a chance to correct their behaviour isn't in Streamate's best interest, or ours. $$! Some of them do it on purpose and are dicks but some just don't know. They don't keep up with all the changes like we do. I tell them off once, they have a chance. If they carry on I ban them. I haven't gotten in any trouble.

100% they are giving themselves a bad reputation to ban so many models for things they have no control over. They don't have a site without us.

There is a user I stopped getting shows with because of the new rules. He MUST hear me say the word "faggot" to get off. But I don't say it now as I'm sure it falls under hate speech.

As far as giving the users a second chance, if it is a very busy day it is hard to even read all of the things they are typing in chat. Worst now than ever with the "logged in/out" messages. It is not right for SM so expect us to be able to see EVERY message especially when our backs are turned away from the screen.

Why are they so against adding a word blocker? It solves these problems easily

freyasnecklace
01-05-2022, 12:30 PM
100% they are giving themselves a bad reputation to ban so many models for things they have no control over. They don't have a site without us.

There is a user I stopped getting shows with because of the new rules. He MUST hear me say the word "faggot" to get off. But I don't say it now as I'm sure it falls under hate speech.

As far as giving the users a second chance, if it is a very busy day it is hard to even read all of the things they are typing in chat. Worst now than ever with the "logged in/out" messages. It is not right for SM so expect us to be able to see EVERY message especially when our backs are turned away from the screen.

Why are they so against adding a word blocker? It solves these problems easily

The “hate speech” rules confuse me. It reads like no harassing, insulting, racist speech towards models or members — but like… sph, homewrecking, dirty slut stuff is common. So I’m not sure if it is okay within requested RP. Like, big thick black cocks are better than “tiny [whatever race] dick” is a commonly requested. Seems perfectly fine to tell someone they are a worthless, ugly , small dicked jerkoff slut. Or tease the sissies. Where’s the actual limit and why isn’t it clearly stated.

The answer is: that taboo rp with Daddy and slurs makes money that they want, but also want to be able to ban us if they get slapped on the wrist.