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Luckygoldfish
01-07-2022, 04:49 PM
Anyone having luck on Sm right now. So far in just a guy who wants me to be his mom and two guys using the “N” word in free chat…all against site rules! Happy Friday!

Not much luck no lol in and out , in and out -
Didn’t have it for a while I thought I had it fixed by changing the laptop, naive me
To be expected though: no one has $$ after holidays + all
Models are back online

Luckygoldfish
01-07-2022, 04:52 PM
Hopefully nobody gets offended but traffic was great today for me personally . Made my daily total needed in under 3.5 hours

Ah just saw you message -that’s good to know!
Than means it’s those bloody algorithms again when you made good $ over a period of time and it’s not your turn anymore :D that’s better though than no one has any $$, algorithms will change , better be soon lol

freyasnecklace
01-07-2022, 07:12 PM
Any tips to deal with members that just pop in and out? And do ya all usually greet everyone that enters? I like to engage and say hi to everyone but most have zero social skills. And the ones that do talk are rude . In the last 45 minutes I have blocked 10 asshats.

I attempt to greet everyone unless it is a ton of people. You could also say “Hey everyone. How are you?” Usually, some dude will then be like “hi bb” and you can initiate convo with that person. After hellos and relevant things like “any weekend plans?” I ask “what are you into? Anything kinky or do you just want to cum together?” (Because I do fetish and vanilla)

Also, if your rates are on the low side, there seems to be more asshats. Try raising them a bit. Asshats also love targeting new models. I just resurrected from a few years hiatus and made a new stage name— it’s insane how many dumb pervs linger. Block abs kick away. You will find good regulars.

roseforarose
01-07-2022, 07:20 PM
Hopefully nobody gets offended but traffic was great today for me personally . Made my daily total needed in under 3.5 hours

Not offended at all, it's great you had a good day! I'm pulling crazy hours (for me) today, it's slowly picking up now ;D

roseforarose
01-07-2022, 07:25 PM
Any tips to deal with members that just pop in and out? And do ya all usually greet everyone that enters? I like to engage and say hi to everyone but most have zero social skills. And the ones that do talk are rude . In the last 45 minutes I have blocked 10 asshats.

Have you tried raising your rates? Idk what you're at currently but I get a lot less annoying or rude people now I don't have very low rates.

Also, I say hi to everyone- if they don't respond I send an auto message that says hi, if they ignore that I kick. If they say hi and are rude I kick or block and do not respond. . If someone keeps coming in and out I ask if they're having connection issues, after a while I'll block them if they don't explain why they're in and out (like 6+ times in 20 mins and I ban them).

Honestly don't take it personally with rude people, plenty of people have zero manners and/or just like to be mean online. It makes me mad sometimes too, if I get too pissy I take a 10 min break.

naomi_doll
01-07-2022, 07:29 PM
I attempt to greet everyone unless it is a ton of people. You could also say “Hey everyone. How are you?” Usually, some dude will then be like “hi bb” and you can initiate convo with that person. After hellos and relevant things like “any weekend plans?” I ask “what are you into? Anything kinky or do you just want to cum together?” (Because I do fetish and vanilla)

Also, if your rates are on the low side, there seems to be more asshats. Try raising them a bit. Asshats also love targeting new models. I just resurrected from a few years hiatus and made a new stage name— it’s insane how many dumb pervs linger. Block abs kick away. You will find good regulars.

I agree. I say "hello" and "how are you?" If they ask me how I am, I always say some variation of horny. I ask them what trouble we are getting into. I have a whole list of talking points about what I do. I walk around my room. It works pretty well for me.

I also try to just forget guys who come in and out or who are jerks. I worked retail for years so I just think of how blessed I am to block them instead of having to just take it when they yell at me or threaten to jump the counter.

bigbum
01-07-2022, 08:05 PM
I hate when the first thing one says is “I want to stick my 12 inch cock up your ass”. Like maybe it doesn’t bother some, but that annoys me. Talk to me like a normal person first!

oh that would be an insta block... no doubt

FloridaSunDoll
01-07-2022, 10:33 PM
I'm really starting to lose my patience with uploading videos on SM. They seem to be picking apart every single detail lately and half the staff says one thing is ok and the other half will reject it for the very same reason. I upload A LOT of videos and since December I am almost constantly having to reach out to Liz to help with getting videos approved. It's really starting to get to me. Mostly because one person will tell me its fine so I put all the time and effort into making these videos just to have a different person reject them. Ugh.



*edited to add* On that note....my newest video was rejected because I used a "banned phrase" in the tags and didnt tell me which it is so i could correct it....if anyone know which of these it is I'd be very grateful for your help..."trailer, teaser, free, toy, dildo, vibrator, fetish, kink, nude, pussy, tits, role play, cuck, cuckolding, sissy, domination, dom, sub, blow job, deepthroat, phat, pov, shower, bath, feet, toes, heel, cake, pedicure, outfit, school girl, real, cock, bg, cei, sph, ride, worship, gfe, sexy, hot, best, amazing, clip, slideshow" Only thing I can think of is SPH (which doesnt make sense bc its on the god menu) or domination

gbjenna
01-07-2022, 11:59 PM
My immediate guess would be “school girl” if they’re suggesting a banned phrase ^

Angela888
01-08-2022, 02:23 AM
Masspay is awesome , works flawlessly

As long as you enter your details right lol and don’t need customer service ! Now all my details are correct it’s all working well thou.

Angela888
01-08-2022, 03:15 AM
I hate when the first thing one says is “I want to stick my 12 inch cock up your ass”. Like maybe it doesn’t bother some, but that annoys me. Talk to me like a normal person first!

agreed, very annoying ! Good Manners are free.

Teddy_Bear
01-08-2022, 05:50 AM
So glad I decided not to leave Boleyn now as with the disappearance of bank transfer I'd still be losing the 5% in fees and have no control over when I get paid, sounds like a massive headache to me.

So SM sucked for me my last 2 shifts and I took 2 days off for myself to recuperate from the mental trauma. Going back on in an hour I'm not looking forward to it at all but I'm going to log on regardless, discipline ladies.

KatM
01-08-2022, 06:29 AM
Do any of u guys use to split SM with Chaturbate successfully?
I cant take the deadness on SM and AW anymore so i went to Chaturbate with a new account.
What i wish to know is, does external encoder (OBS) help with placement there?
I will post this in CB thread as well but i know u guys SM cammers split several sites including CB.
I need to update my windows so i can use the OBS studio version they require, i tried with classic old OBS and it created an error i am not able to fix no matter what i do.

anyway, i am thinking to cam on CB like on SM, means nude cum show in pvt only and did this for the 1st 2 days but last nite it was awful cause i made no money anymore, i expected a friday to be better there. is this method doable on long term? i mean compared to what people do there in freechat and how good some look like i am not sure i can do well in there, i am older, curvy to bbw (working on loosing weight) and pretty vanilla, not even doing fetish much anymore, i mean i can do foot fetish but the guys there focus on the tip toy (i got my lush 2 now and it works great thanks god!)

A model on another forum said she works CB like SM but she is young, fit, beautiful, as i said i look different but the guys love me and my personality if they give me the chance to show what is behind the looks. I look good too, always put together, wearing make up, nice outfits, nice hair but u know how it is, depends on who likes u, i dont look like a typical beauty so that's why i feel kinda insecure there.

Ty for input xx

Strawberryblonde
01-08-2022, 07:40 AM
Last streamed Thursday took 40 minutes to start stream, same thing is happening now. On Thursday Liz said there had been a problem with the site in Europe. It's exactly the same now. I've not changed anything, keeps hanging on verification scan.

On Thursday it suddenly let me start, back to normal. Really hope it's not going to be 40 minutes everytime I try to start.

Strawberryblonde
01-08-2022, 08:20 AM
Finally got on, took 40 minutes of retrying, refreshing, turning computer off and back on.

Will try get a few hours in now.

MissAdriana
01-08-2022, 12:02 PM
Yes that happens to me all the time and I can't always type in the box either whatever I type gets erased

Passed 3500 banned users

Sugarsteepdoll
01-08-2022, 01:12 PM
What do you do when a good customer stops spending? Do you block them eventually? Ignore? Im getting annoyed with those types.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-08-2022, 01:19 PM
Had a great start for a bit over an hour….thought I could easily make my money goal before cut off for pay time. But then it just dies again. Like unreal how it could be great then absolutely nothing.

You still have several hours before the cutoff.

PhatGirlDynomite!!!
01-08-2022, 01:24 PM
What do you do when a good customer stops spending? Do you block them eventually? Ignore? Im getting annoyed with those types.

Stop paying attention to them. If you've been polite and they're still not spending then act like they don't exist. Sometimes it helps to pretend you just got a tip from someone else or start thanking an imaginary customer for the great show you just did. And I do this regardless of what they can see in my chatroom. You gotta train them.

laurielegs
01-08-2022, 02:29 PM
Had a great start for a bit over an hour….thought I could easily make my money goal before cut off for pay time. But then it just dies again. Like unreal how it could be great then absolutely nothing.

That's how camming is but I've found if I stick it out it will usually even out in the end. When I stay on even during the slow times my average hourly pay is way more than I could make at any outside job.

I read this thread for inspiration when it's slow to remind me of what is possible:

https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?197329-The-quot-Just-stay-the-fuck-on-quot-thread

~Carmen~
01-08-2022, 02:40 PM
Do any of u guys use to split SM with Chaturbate successfully?
I cant take the deadness on SM and AW anymore so i went to Chaturbate with a new account.
What i wish to know is, does external encoder (OBS) help with placement there?
I will post this in CB thread as well but i know u guys SM cammers split several sites including CB.
I need to update my windows so i can use the OBS studio version they require, i tried with classic old OBS and it created an error i am not able to fix no matter what i do.

anyway, i am thinking to cam on CB like on SM, means nude cum show in pvt only and did this for the 1st 2 days but last nite it was awful cause i made no money anymore, i expected a friday to be better there. is this method doable on long term? i mean compared to what people do there in freechat and how good some look like i am not sure i can do well in there, i am older, curvy to bbw (working on loosing weight) and pretty vanilla, not even doing fetish much anymore, i mean i can do foot fetish but the guys there focus on the tip toy (i got my lush 2 now and it works great thanks god!)

A model on another forum said she works CB like SM but she is young, fit, beautiful, as i said i look different but the guys love me and my personality if they give me the chance to show what is behind the looks. I look good too, always put together, wearing make up, nice outfits, nice hair but u know how it is, depends on who likes u, i dont look like a typical beauty so that's why i feel kinda insecure there.

Ty for input xx

Rock who you are Kat! Don't worry about younger and "more beautiful" models. Confidence is key. I know that's cliche but it's true. I have grown my hair out silver and pretty much stopped wearing makeup. There's nothing wrong with makeup and hair color, it's just not for me anymore.

I'm just saying that how you look does not matter that much. Men don't care as much as we might think that they do. A fun personality goes a long way.

KatM
01-08-2022, 03:17 PM
Rock who you are Kat! Don't worry about younger and "more beautiful" models. Confidence is key. I know that's cliche but it's true. I have grown my hair out silver and pretty much stopped wearing makeup. There's nothing wrong with makeup and hair color, it's just not for me anymore.
I'm just saying that how you look does not matter that much. Men don't care as much as we might think that they do. A fun personality goes a long way.

Thank you Carmen, I love you, thank you for support :-*
I saw u some time ago with natural hair and u looked great plus u don't need make up; it will take me some more years to have the confidence to cam like u now, w.o make up on I feel 'naked' if u know what I mean, make up is my mask, my protection, part of my cam persona, I can't go on cam 'naked' but I don't mind getting naked on cam Lol.
Kisses, hugs and a happy new year for you!

~Carmen~
01-08-2022, 03:49 PM
Thank you Carmen, I love you, thank you for support :-*
I saw u some time ago with natural hair and u looked great plus u don't need make up; it will take me some more years to have the confidence to cam like u now, w.o make up on I feel 'naked' if u know what I mean, make up is my mask, my protection, part of my cam persona, I can't go on cam 'naked' but I don't mind getting naked on cam Lol.
Kisses, hugs and a happy new year for you!

Aww thanks Kat! I think you are beautiful just as you are. All that matters is that you feel comfortable.

It was a slow process for me. I still wear a little eyeshadow and mascara. I'm not ready to let it all go;D. ​

As a wise hoe (Marina) always says, "Old is gold".

We older women have a lot to offer!

~Carmen~
01-08-2022, 03:56 PM
Oops, I forgot to answer your first question. I have never split cammed. I'm exclusive to Streamate. I don't think a token site is the right atmosphere for me. Plus the whole token conversion is confusing. I can get that 1 gold is $1. haha

I hope it works out for you!

KatM
01-08-2022, 04:22 PM
Oops, I forgot to answer your first question. I have never split cammed. I'm exclusive to Streamate. I don't think a token site is the right atmosphere for me. Plus the whole token conversion is confusing. I can get that 1 gold is $1. haha

I hope it works out for you!

I am glad SM is working good for you so u don't need to splitcam, I saw you on first page upper rows so u get good traffic there, I am far behind now, ashamed to tell where and I am not getting any traffic or good spenders, I managed to still make some money from my few regs and repeats but thisgs are getting harder every day especially when they run contests I make nothing and my regs or repeats are not coming to me nor new guys so I need a new site.
These sites are indeed different but I have no other choice as sm does not love me anymore, I feel they blocked me for traffic and put me on a bad server everytime I get on. Can't prove this but that's how I feel here.
Good luck to u too on SM, all the best xx

looklovely
01-08-2022, 04:24 PM
Dumb question: Where can I find MY referral link to refer a model to Streamate?

~Carmen~
01-08-2022, 04:33 PM
I am glad SM is working good for you so u don't need to splitcam, I saw you on first page upper rows so u get good traffic there, I am far behind now, ashamed to tell where and I am not getting any traffic or good spenders, I managed to still make some money from my few regs and repeats but thisgs are getting harder every day especially when they run contests I make nothing and my regs or repeats are not coming to me nor new guys so I need a new site.
These sites are indeed different but I have no other choice as sm does not love me anymore, I feel they blocked me for traffic and put me on a bad server everytime I get on. Can't prove this but that's how I feel here.
Good luck to u too on SM, all the best xx

I don't think you are blocked for traffic. Sometimes changes can help, even if they are small ones. Maybe something different in your backdrop or a different angle. Trying different things can be fun too!

alexiarose22
01-08-2022, 08:50 PM
I havent cammed on streamate since 2019
Early 2020. How has camming changed in the past couple years
Because of the pandemic in your opinion has it gotten harder to make money? more saturated or is it about the same?
Thanks for any responses in advance

Miss_ShaSha
01-09-2022, 04:56 AM
Do any of u guys use to split SM with Chaturbate successfully?
I cant take the deadness on SM and AW anymore so i went to Chaturbate with a new account.
What i wish to know is, does external encoder (OBS) help with placement there?
I will post this in CB thread as well but i know u guys SM cammers split several sites including CB.
I need to update my windows so i can use the OBS studio version they require, i tried with classic old OBS and it created an error i am not able to fix no matter what i do.

anyway, i am thinking to cam on CB like on SM, means nude cum show in pvt only and did this for the 1st 2 days but last nite it was awful cause i made no money anymore, i expected a friday to be better there. is this method doable on long term? i mean compared to what people do there in freechat and how good some look like i am not sure i can do well in there, i am older, curvy to bbw (working on loosing weight) and pretty vanilla, not even doing fetish much anymore, i mean i can do foot fetish but the guys there focus on the tip toy (i got my lush 2 now and it works great thanks god!)

A model on another forum said she works CB like SM but she is young, fit, beautiful, as i said i look different but the guys love me and my personality if they give me the chance to show what is behind the looks. I look good too, always put together, wearing make up, nice outfits, nice hair but u know how it is, depends on who likes u, i dont look like a typical beauty so that's why i feel kinda insecure there.

Ty for input xx

I've split SM & MFC before. That was tiring. I'm just exclusive now with SM.

I'm 44, 152 lbs, don't style my hair, & only wear red lipstick & blush. Very natural & men swear I'm hot AF. It's all about self-esteem. I am confident & IDGAF what other models in my category look like. I can appreciate a sexy woman, but I'm sexy in my own way.

Keep praising yourself. You're special.


Rock who you are Kat! Don't worry about younger and "more beautiful" models. Confidence is key. I know that's cliche but it's true. I have grown my hair out silver and pretty much stopped wearing makeup. There's nothing wrong with makeup and hair color, it's just not for me anymore.

I'm just saying that how you look does not matter that much. Men don't care as much as we might think that they do. A fun personality goes a long way.

THIS!

LolaLuxx
01-09-2022, 08:36 AM
I couldn't get my paxum to link so I had to go to skrill and their exchange rate is shocking. I've had to send it to tech because I want to be paid via paxum. Their exchange rate is better and only charge a flat rate as far as I can see

LolaLuxx
01-09-2022, 08:38 AM
Yes!! Same as mine. SM said it was because my name was different in paxum (my middle name was noted but not on SM) so they changed it and still didn't work. It's a shit show tbh, I don't actually think they want us to use paxum.

LolaLuxx
01-09-2022, 08:42 AM
I attempt to greet everyone unless it is a ton of people. You could also say “Hey everyone. How are you?” Usually, some dude will then be like “hi bb” and you can initiate convo with that person. After hellos and relevant things like “any weekend plans?” I ask “what are you into? Anything kinky or do you just want to cum together?” (Because I do fetish and vanilla)

Also, if your rates are on the low side, there seems to be more asshats. Try raising them a bit. Asshats also love targeting new models. I just resurrected from a few years hiatus and made a new stage name— it’s insane how many dumb pervs linger. Block abs kick away. You will find good regulars.

What are low rates on SM?

LolaLuxx
01-09-2022, 08:49 AM
Can someone confirm if guys get free paid show previews? I get people popping in and out constantly when I'm in pvt and I never see their name on the earnings page so I don't know if they're getting free looks or just bad connection

MissAdriana
01-09-2022, 08:54 AM
Unfortunately they are getting free looks cumming and leaving.

I've seen in on cams that automatically loaded without me wanting to and without any extra tip. Doing it while my back was turn. A few of them are bad connections and you can easily tell who those are. I hope SM gets rid of the free time very soon. The free time is really not a selling point and they use free chat to test their connections anyway. Nowadays with everybody peeping on their phones there is no reason they shoudl get any free time IMO

LolaLuxx
01-09-2022, 09:04 AM
I want to cry. It's midnight (Sunday to Monday) here in UK and I just had my updated docs rejected after a 3+ day wait. I thought I had got past the selfie thing that I was having problems with before, but now I have been rejected because of:

Do not use camera flash. (I DIDNT)
Avoid direct light on your ID. (I AVOIDED)
Use indirect or natural light to prevent glare. (IT WAS DAYLIGHT)
If your ID has a hologram overlay, angle your camera so the hologram does not cover the info underneath it. (I CANNOT SEE TO CHECK THIS COS THE SITE WANTS ME TO NOT BE WEARING GLASSES! I CANNOT SEE THIS DETAIL WITHOUT MY GLASSES!)
Confirm ALL text is in focus and legible. (AS ABOVE - CANNOT SEE WITHOUT MY GLASSES BUT THE SITE WANTS THE PICS OF ME/SELFIE/ME HOLDING ID WITHOUT GLASSES)
To be approved, the photo must be a live capture of your ID card. (IT WAS)
We do not accept photos of screens or any images of a previously taken photograph (IT WASNT)


If anyone has any ideas how to progress, I would be most grateful. Right now I am going to go and sulk in bed with my stupid long-sighted eyes.

I don't know if this was answered but I had this and had to contact Cristina to get it sorted out.

LolaLuxx
01-09-2022, 09:05 AM
Unfortunately they are getting free looks cumming in literally 10 secs and leaving.

I've seen in on cams that automatically loaded without me wanting to and without any extra tip. Doing it while my back was turn. A few of them are bad connections and you can easily tell who those are. I hope SM gets rid of the free time very soon. The free time is really not a selling point and they use free chat to test their connections anyway. Nowadays with everybody peeping on their phones there is no reason they shoudl get any free time IMO

Ffs!! I'm not usually fast enough to block them in a pvt show. I don't do them often thank god. I push for exclusive

VVV
01-09-2022, 09:42 AM
They are allowed to show ppl in cam? Clients can show his wife with a friend, and the client? I just refused one request bc not sure they actually can. Do you allow that sex party? Ty all!!

MsJess
01-09-2022, 11:27 AM
Girls check your TAGS!!!!!!! a fuck¡ng dumb ass is adding " daddies slut" "age play" and "does age play" on them, I don't do that and I haven't even streamed this year, last year I didn't have these tags, they also added "couples" which is stupid cause I am a solo account - So now this seems really suspicious and smells pretty bad having in mind that we can lose our account due to this things...

Genoveve
01-09-2022, 02:32 PM
It seems like the messages of guys who are typing in invisible are only showing up once you click on their name again.

anonamiss
01-09-2022, 04:59 PM
Why do members think incest is ok?

in my experience a lot of guys just assume that because we're on a porn site there are no rules. they also might assume that as long as it is a consensual act between two adults, then it's fine (which is honestly the way it should be, in an ideal world at least.) they don't realize that the credit card processors are basically our overlords and are the ones who dictate what we can and cannot do.

also incest porn is insanely popular on tube sites these days so that is definitely a factor in why so many guys ask for it.

roseforarose
01-09-2022, 06:37 PM
I had a member take me private and started talking incest. I typed and verbally said it was against site rules. Member didn’t push it, and we ended show shortly after. I took screenshot of chat. Debated whether to report, since it did not continue. But decided to report anyway. Why do members think incest is ok?

I think it's because it is allowed on several other cam sites and is allowed on most of the clipsites, and pretty much all of the tube sites. They just don't consider that it's against the rules and certainly don't bother to read any rules or agreements shown to them

laurielegs
01-09-2022, 07:31 PM
I thought incest and underage was banned on all cam sites, except for maybe stripchat which is not USA based and allows almost anything. I worked CB for years and don’t think they allowed it.

It's against the terms of service on Stripchat too. I've seen models suspended or banned for it. On every site there are models who try to get away with breaking the rules.

roseforarose
01-09-2022, 07:36 PM
I thought incest and underage was banned on all cam sites, except for maybe stripchat which is not USA based and allows almost anything. I worked CB for years and don’t think they allowed it.

Underaged is banned everywhere. Ageplay/roleplay is allowed on most video sites, and some cam sites are a lot more lenient about it despite it technically being against their rules. I've seen plenty of CB models do ageplay despite it being against the rules- and arguably there are SM models that do it too. Idk what the rules are on MFC but I know they allow a lot of things that are banned elsewhere, including drugs and streaming movies, so I wouldn't be surprised if they let it slide too.

Incest is allowed on most video sites too, and most camsites are a lot less fussy about particular wording than SM is. E.g saying 'daddy' isn't a grey area on a lot of other sites, it's just allowed across the board. Stuff like mommy vs step-mommy is less of an issue on some other sites too.

Ultimately age play and incest are very popular kinks right now and some of the most popular categories on porn sites, so it's not surprising to me that guys don't think it's banned. If you go onto Manyvids you'll see that the majority of top selling videos recently are either incest or hardcore ageplay videos, so it's not just tube sites either

LolaLu
01-10-2022, 05:48 AM
Gosh! I havent been on SM for very long but did 2 hours so far today and earn $30!!! WORST EVER CAM day.

CatBBW
01-10-2022, 06:07 AM
MY ID VERIFICATION HAS BEEN REJECTED AGAIN (3rd/4th time) - but I think they are getting as frustrated as me now as I noticed that they have added new text into the guidelines in the email.

"Need the actual ID not just the passport cover" - when I do the ID next to face section, it is most definitely the actual photo ID pages of my passport that are in the image, NOT the passport cover. Then it goes on to request "front of ID" and "back of ID" - well, as it's a passport the FRONT is the front cover and the BACK is the back cover. If that's not what the system is asking for then what exactly am I supposed to be showing in the system photos? "Front" - the photo ID pages? "Back" - the passport cover? (even though it states NOT the passport cover)

I have drafted an email to Liz including this info, but thought it's probably quicker to ask here first as you are all verified and know what you sent to them.

Thanks!

MsJess
01-10-2022, 06:30 AM
MY ID VERIFICATION HAS BEEN REJECTED AGAIN (3rd/4th time) - but I think they are getting as frustrated as me now as I noticed that they have added new text into the guidelines in the email.

"Need the actual ID not just the passport cover" - when I do the ID next to face section, it is most definitely the actual photo ID pages of my passport that are in the image, NOT the passport cover. Then it goes on to request "front of ID" and "back of ID" - well, as it's a passport the FRONT is the front cover and the BACK is the back cover. If that's not what the system is asking for then what exactly am I supposed to be showing in the system photos? "Front" - the photo ID pages? "Back" - the passport cover? (even though it states NOT the passport cover)

I have drafted an email to Liz including this info, but thought it's probably quicker to ask here first as you are all verified and know what you sent to them.

Thanks!

I was asked to show back and front of my ID also which it's a passport and i just simply took a pic again of the passport page with the photo and data, that's it lol, cause actual passport back and front are definetly not required.

liquidsilk
01-10-2022, 06:42 AM
For back of passport I just used the reverse of the photo page. If you have a drivers license it is much easier to pass first time. Just make sure the address matches your account.

Front - photo of the photo page in passport

Back - photo of the reverse side of the same page.

Ambercat
01-10-2022, 07:02 AM
Anyone else having lovense/SM connection issues today?

whirlerz
01-10-2022, 07:12 AM
I want to cry. It's midnight (Sunday to Monday) here in UK and I just had my updated docs rejected after a 3+ day wait. I thought I had got past the selfie thing that I was having problems with before, but now I have been rejected because of:

Do not use camera flash. (I DIDNT)
Avoid direct light on your ID. (I AVOIDED)
Use indirect or natural light to prevent glare. (IT WAS DAYLIGHT)
If your ID has a hologram overlay, angle your camera so the hologram does not cover the info underneath it. (I CANNOT SEE TO CHECK THIS COS THE SITE WANTS ME TO NOT BE WEARING GLASSES! I CANNOT SEE THIS DETAIL WITHOUT MY GLASSES!)
Confirm ALL text is in focus and legible. (AS ABOVE - CANNOT SEE WITHOUT MY GLASSES BUT THE SITE WANTS THE PICS OF ME/SELFIE/ME HOLDING ID WITHOUT GLASSES)
To be approved, the photo must be a live capture of your ID card. (IT WAS)
We do not accept photos of screens or any images of a previously taken photograph (IT WASNT)


If anyone has any ideas how to progress, I would be most grateful. Right now I am going to go and sulk in bed with my stupid long-sighted eyes.


Can you try using a hand held magnifying glass?

CatBBW
01-10-2022, 07:25 AM
Can you try using a hand held magnifying glass?

Tried all that - however, it seems they actually want the front and back of my passport (they've added this info to my generic guidelines email), just not literally the front and back cover, so I will try that and then email Liz if that fails.