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freyasnecklace
01-13-2022, 10:22 PM
I do a lot of bbc and cuck shows, and use the “boring” dirty talk exclusively. Works out just fine, I guess the only thing I am worried about is sph. My understanding is that I can still talk shit about white guys, right? Obviously no slurs but if I can reference a BWC I should be able to say the reverse. I and many others don’t believe you can be racist against white people, they are the majority and do not face systematic oppression.
I have no idea any more. I asked to clarify all of number 12 in code of conduct. They responded with “no race play”. It says:
Streamate does not condone harassment. If you are found to be harassing, bothering, teasing, distracting and/or mocking others (either as a model or a member), your account may be suspended or terminated. Additionally, you may not engage in any unlawful, harmful, threatening, abusive, harassing, defamatory, obscene, hateful, or racially or ethnically objectionable content. Streamate supports all models and wants everyone to succeed. We expect all models to behave maturely and support each other.
This is literally the only place it mentions this. And the code of conduct linked beneath the stream button does not say this. I think BBC etc is fine, but I’m not sure about “worthless tiny white dick.”
freyasnecklace
01-13-2022, 10:24 PM
Has anyone been having issues with c2c? It will not connect automatically even after multiple attempts, I have to manually accept. Also, I had a guy using his phone and his cam was HUGE on my end...I couldn't adjust it and it was bigger than I keep my own cam preview. It's always been the same size for every member...I hope this isn't a new update they are working on.
Also having a glitch where I have been accepting exclusive session requests and nothing happens, multiple times with the same member. I just stayed in free chat. After 3 attempts they took me private (so I thought since no popup this time) but they were charged as an exclusive?! So either a glitch or a delay. So excited for this contest coming up with all these glitches happening already....not.
I haven’t. Also bumping this post for visibility because I put a wall of text up about rules.
ravenskyy
01-13-2022, 10:59 PM
I'm so grateful for these new rules and restrictions. Makes it sooooo much easier for me to say no to things that I don't want to do. I don't like roleplays, step family shit and I definitely don't do raceplay. I LOVE that I can use the sites new rules as my reason for saying no.
And I know that step family roleplays are allowed, but I have yet to have a customer participate in a roleplay and not try to change the wording to mommy or sister. Fucking Yuck!
One thing I've noticed though is after the rule change, I constantly get random dudes coming into my room saying "Hi Mommy", "Mommy" or pasting a random message about underage or incest stuff. I never had these issues like this until now. I feel like these fuckers are trying to get us banned.
~Carmen~
01-13-2022, 11:00 PM
I wonder if it's okay to say " big black cock" if they have one and request it? Is the rule only in regards to humiliation?
freyasnecklace
01-13-2022, 11:21 PM
I'm so grateful for these new rules and restrictions. Makes it sooooo much easier for me to say no to things that I don't want to do. I don't like roleplays, step family shit and I definitely don't do raceplay. I LOVE that I can use the sites new rules as my reason for saying no.
And I know that step family roleplays are allowed, but I have yet to have a customer participate in a roleplay and not try to change the wording to mommy or sister. Fucking Yuck!
One thing I've noticed though is after the rule change, I constantly get random dudes coming into my room saying "Hi Mommy", "Mommy" or pasting a random message about underage or incest stuff. I never had these issues like this until now. I feel like these fuckers are trying to get us banned.
I’m adopting your mentality now. Please disregard all other of my complaints. Much easier to just avoid being lead into dumb conversations and do other more vanilla shows. That mommy shit annoys me too.
BambiCutie
01-14-2022, 12:04 AM
I don't know if we can even say the word daddy, not sure why guys use this in their screennames.
Also had some clients say their internet connection was messing up, then one stated my cam went dark, even though my speed was shown as Excelled. /:O
anonamiss
01-14-2022, 12:21 AM
I don't know if we can even say the word daddy, not sure why guys use this in their screennames.
Also had some clients say their internet connection was messing up, then one stated my cam went dark, even though my speed was shown as Excelled. /:O
they made it pretty clear that daddy is fine as long as it's not used in a way that suggests incest or underage play.
from the FAQ: "The terms “daddy” and “mommy” are not banned and may be used during your shows. However, the context of these terms is important. For example, “spank me daddy” is acceptable. But “show daddy your X year-old sister” is NOT acceptable. If phrases such as “daddy” or “mommy” are used to suggest incest, non-consent, or underage sexual activity, then they violate the Streamate Code of Conduct (https://streamatehelp.com/performer-code-of-conduct/). If a member uses these terms in this way, stop the scene and then report and block them. During an investigation, this report is a positive sign that you are helping us keep this content off the site. In the past there has been some confusion about this term, but we have corrected this issue and will follow the above policy going forward."
however i've literally never encountered a guy using the word mommy with any other intent but being incestuous, so i never allow it and block any guy that tries to use it. but i use daddy in vanilla shows all the time with no issues.
and i have also had a lot of guys with connection errors tonight.
anonamiss
01-14-2022, 02:41 AM
tonight was so weird and inconsistent. i made almost half my nightly goal in the first hour and 20 minutes, was super busy in exclusives and had great traffic which made me excited to keep going.
then i stayed the fuck on for almost four more hours and made less than minimum wage for the rest which was all from random free chat tips. i kept telling myself "just stay on, it will turn back around" and then i literally didn't get any more shows. i'm annoyed that i wasted all of that time and even more annoyed i was so confident and hopeful about it. i barely put a dent in my goal after what i made that first hour. >_<
not looking forward to contest week at all but i need to try to work it for my monthly income goal. glad it's only a best 3 day and not the cumulative week, at least. i feel like i might have a shot at ranking but maybe i shouldn't be optimistic after tonight lol.
Marina Starr
01-14-2022, 05:17 AM
I don't see why that would be a problem?
How would we say it if it's actually is a big black cock?
Race play or humiliation would be something like 'big black n-cock'
There's no problems for damn sure saying big white cock.
Big black cock = $$$
It's sad that black cocks matter more than black lives but that's the ugly reality.
I wonder if it's okay to say " big black cock" if they have one and request it? Is the rule only in regards to humiliation?
Dont_Care
01-14-2022, 06:19 AM
Any idea what happens when you report yourself?
They add ur issue/mistake in a data base and keep it as a proof for eventually reports, if there's any!
If they receive any reports from models/members then ur bum is saved and u're not getting any suspension or ban!
seicento
01-14-2022, 06:34 AM
They add ur issue/mistake in a data base and keep it as a proof for eventually reports, if there's any!
If they receive any reports from models/members then ur bum is saved and u're not getting any suspension or ban!
Thanks! Good to know. I have a sneaky cat, sometimes I don't even know she's in the room when I start lol.
kortneykay
01-14-2022, 08:41 AM
tonight was so weird and inconsistent. i made almost half my nightly goal in the first hour and 20 minutes, was super busy in exclusives and had great traffic which made me excited to keep going.
then i stayed the fuck on for almost four more hours and made less than minimum wage for the rest which was all from random free chat tips. i kept telling myself "just stay on, it will turn back around" and then i literally didn't get any more shows. i'm annoyed that i wasted all of that time and even more annoyed i was so confident and hopeful about it. i barely put a dent in my goal after what i made that first hour. >_<
not looking forward to contest week at all but i need to try to work it for my monthly income goal. glad it's only a best 3 day and not the cumulative week, at least. i feel like i might have a shot at ranking but maybe i shouldn't be optimistic after tonight lol.
Same except I did 6H and $10 in 2 days. But the guys were chatty and broke. Not a single cent made last night.
MissAdriana
01-14-2022, 08:48 AM
What?! What do you mean even in the paid section?
Yes. Even in the paid section. Try for yourself to submit pay to view nudity and see what they do for yourself. I tried and they rejected it multiple times now
KittenGirl
01-14-2022, 08:59 AM
Be weary of a guy coming in your room with the screen name MitchWantsToChat or even MitchLikesToChat. I can't remember which one it is.
He starts off in free chat asking if I have experience being a sugar baby. Big red flag already. He takes me private, not exclusive, and starts telling me he just wants to chat and get to know me. When he starts asking for my age and my location and what kind of guys I like, I told him with a laugh "are you trying to pick up on me? Because not only do I not do that, I'm not allowed to do that here."
He said no, but then sent a wink and then a hehe. Other guys came in and were sweet and asked if they could see me suck a toy so I started doing it. The Mitch guy got angry, pissed off and said "I don't wanna watch you fool around I wanna talk".
I told him "there's other people in my room. You didn't take me exclusive so I gotta give other people what they want too." He got a HUGE attitude, and left his email on the screen and then left before I could ban him or block him. So I reported him.
roseforarose
01-14-2022, 09:03 AM
I mean, I do feel “called out.” But, I’ve been in RT, lifestyle, and online fetish for over 15 years.
This is why I hate admitting to sensitive topics because of backlash, but do want to share and be honest. The response of “Well, I never do that or get that type of show.” Not that what anyone is saying isn’t valid or is “high-horse.” It is just what I’m saying is truly my experience.
Sorry I wasn't trying to make you feel called out, I was quoting to try and respond mainly to the sph thing. I didn't mean it like 'well IIII never do that!', I interpreted your previous post as saying you only do racial-related sph, so wanted to say there are other options.
I know what you mean about not the sensitive topics, there are several fetishes I engage in (unfortunately, now only offline) that I'm sure would enrage lots of people, and are varying levels of banned from cam etc. I wasn't intending my comment to be backlash.
I am sorry about your fetish Cheerios though 😅! They should just make the rules consistent across the board. Also I do wonder if the video rejection changes from reviewer-to-reviewer because that cnc thing sounds extremely strict
Marina Starr
01-14-2022, 09:13 AM
What the fuck is up all these under 5 minutes shows this morning???!!!
kortneykay
01-14-2022, 10:32 AM
What the fuck is up all these under 5 minutes shows this morning???!!!
At least you're getting shows 🤣
liquidsilk
01-14-2022, 10:45 AM
At least you're getting shows 🤣
At least you can log in :hyper:
freyasnecklace
01-14-2022, 10:55 AM
Sorry I wasn't trying to make you feel called out, I was quoting to try and respond mainly to the sph thing. I didn't mean it like 'well IIII never do that!', I interpreted your previous post as saying you only do racial-related sph, so wanted to say there are other options.
I know what you mean about not the sensitive topics, there are several fetishes I engage in (unfortunately, now only offline) that I'm sure would enrage lots of people, and are varying levels of banned from cam etc. I wasn't intending my comment to be backlash.
I am sorry about your fetish Cheerios though ! They should just make the rules consistent across the board. Also I do wonder if the video rejection changes from reviewer-to-reviewer because that cnc thing sounds extremely strict
I’m not mad at all at your post haha. I just felt like I needed to speak my truth in case anyone else was engaging in anything like that.
Yeah my lifestyle/RT paid fetish stuff is much different than what we can do online. I’m over my frustrations now, abs ready to just move forward with caution.
kortneykay
01-14-2022, 11:03 AM
At least you can log in :hyper:
Unfortunately me being logged in is similar to not. On any site but it's Friday so I'm hopeful.
Vlodina
01-14-2022, 01:03 PM
Two armpit fetish shows in a row, not something I regularly get! Some new traffic at least! :D
anonamiss
01-14-2022, 01:11 PM
i've said this before but it's super annoying how if we choose "block messages" on the customer black list page, it doesn't actually block users from the new messenger, only the classic one. from what i've experienced you have to separately block them from within the new messenger window itself. in this case, the guy i blocked had never sent me a message before. so after i blocked him, he of course sends me a message asking why i blocked him.
anyway i had a question about this, not just a rant -- i ended up sending him a response telling him why i blocked him and told him not to come back or message me, then after i sent it, i blocked him specifically from the messenger window.
does anyone know if he will actually receive the message i sent him? i am hoping it shows up in the message window for him to read, but he'll just not have the ability to type/send a response because i blocked him.
freyasnecklace
01-14-2022, 01:39 PM
Is C2C broke ass right now on sm connect?
Vlodina
01-14-2022, 01:48 PM
Is C2C broke ass right now on sm connect?
Cams have been fine for me today, but nobody can do audio (I don't really mind, but they want it, so it's annoying that it's not working for them).
Genoveve
01-14-2022, 02:20 PM
I have had two c2cs today, I think both guys were on a desk top. They had no issues.
Genoveve
01-14-2022, 02:35 PM
Well now I am experiencing the 'none Quality Limitation' thing and my stream quality is stuck at Unknown.
freyasnecklace
01-14-2022, 02:47 PM
I have had two c2cs today, I think both guys were on a desk top. They had no issues.
Thanks. I haven’t had any more c2c. Maybe it was just that dude.
Genoveve
01-14-2022, 04:25 PM
I just noticed an update; a guy did mobile c2c and it was vertical. Unfortunately when I popped his cam out into a new window, because with it in vertical it completely blocks out the time and quality boxes that are normally underneath, once I popped it back in it went black and there was no sound so I had to have him restart it.
~Carmen~
01-14-2022, 04:43 PM
i've said this before but it's super annoying how if we choose "block messages" on the customer black list page, it doesn't actually block users from the new messenger, only the classic one. from what i've experienced you have to separately block them from within the new messenger window itself. in this case, the guy i blocked had never sent me a message before. so after i blocked him, he of course sends me a message asking why i blocked him.
anyway i had a question about this, not just a rant -- i ended up sending him a response telling him why i blocked him and told him not to come back or message me, then after i sent it, i blocked him specifically from the messenger window.
does anyone know if he will actually receive the message i sent him? i am hoping it shows up in the message window for him to read, but he'll just not have the ability to type/send a response because i blocked him.
Yes! And when you block from the link, it only blocks from messages. Sometimes they are at the top of your block list so it's easy to also block from chat. Other times you have to go through page by page alphabetically.
~Carmen~
01-14-2022, 04:51 PM
I don't see why that would be a problem?
How would we say it if it's actually is a big black cock?
Race play or humiliation would be something like 'big black n-cock'
There's no problems for damn sure saying big white cock.
Big black cock = $$$
It's sad that black cocks matter more than black lives but that's the ugly reality.
Thank you sis. He did not c2c so I don't know if he had a bbc or wbc or sbc or swc.
Marina Starr
01-14-2022, 04:57 PM
At least you're getting shows ��
Girllll, I was tossed right back to free chat so many times I felt like a used hoe with ain't much to show for.
https://i.ibb.co/BfbPjXF/tiffany-pollard-cry.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
waogtrain
01-14-2022, 07:11 PM
Had one member restart exclusive chats multiple times saying that he couldn't hear me? I could hear my audio being repeated via his speakers but I wasn't sharp enough to communicate that in time. Now the option to take another snap shot has disappeared despite restarting my computer and restarting my browser. Is this happening to anyone else right now? I was hoping to update my photo due to a change in outfit. :/
~Carmen~
01-14-2022, 07:16 PM
Had one member restart exclusive chats multiple times saying that he couldn't hear me? I could hear my audio being repeated via his speakers but I wasn't sharp enough to communicate that in time. Now the option to take another snap shot has disappeared despite restarting my computer and restarting my browser. Is this happening to anyone else right now? I was hoping to update my photo due to a change in outfit. :/
I wasn't able to take another snapshot either. The camera thing was gone but it did ask for a snapshot again after I refreshed.
Erika_Xstacy
01-14-2022, 07:17 PM
Had one member restart exclusive chats multiple times saying that he couldn't hear me? I could hear my audio being repeated via his speakers but I wasn't sharp enough to communicate that in time. Now the option to take another snap shot has disappeared despite restarting my computer and restarting my browser. Is this happening to anyone else right now? I was hoping to update my photo due to a change in outfit. :/
snapshot update works for me so far
Erika_Xstacy
01-14-2022, 07:20 PM
Yes. Even in the paid section. Try for yourself to submit pay to view nudity and see what they do for yourself. I tried and they rejected it multiple times now
2 weeks aso it happened to me, i resubmitted and it was approved.
I uploaded below the belt today and it went through without a issue
freyasnecklace
01-14-2022, 08:48 PM
snapshot update works for me so far
Monday-Wednesday I had this happen on and off regardless of free/paid. Had to re-open browser and had no issues after.
kortneykay
01-14-2022, 08:57 PM
Girllll, I was tossed right back to free chat so many times I felt like a used hoe with ain't much to show for.
https://i.ibb.co/BfbPjXF/tiffany-pollard-cry.gif (https://imgbb.com/)
I jinxed myself. It is all I have been getting tonight for the past two hours but it's better than nothing.
kortneykay
01-14-2022, 11:09 PM
This is literally why I am annoyed this week. Why have I spent over 8 hours and free cat with extremely good Internet and I'm only at 7 minutes paid time This is why I don't work contests This is why I rarely work this site anymore.
56461 I think they're still punishing me for not updating my ID and the new contract. The same thing happened to me when I joined a studio a very long time ago it's like they're shadow banning me and my favorites were missing too I'm on page 6 or 7. Sorry to be so repetitive but I know this is not normal for me. I was also complemented all three shifts. My sound was clear my camera was clear my Internet was extremely fast. I looked incredible. And I got a lot of faves that are new so I know it's not me or my clients.
bigbum
01-14-2022, 11:54 PM
This is literally why I am annoyed this week. Why have I spent over 8 hours and free cat with extremely good Internet and I'm only at 7 minutes paid time This is why I don't work contests This is why I rarely work this site anymore.
56461 I think they're still punishing me for not updating my ID and the new contract. The same thing happened to me when I joined a studio a very long time ago it's like they're shadow banning me and my favorites were missing too I'm on page 6 or 7. Sorry to be so repetitive but I know this is not normal for me. I was also complemented all three shifts. My sound was clear my camera was clear my Internet was extremely fast. I looked incredible. And I got a lot of faves that are new so I know it's not me or my clients.
i am proud of you for atleast not being like... oh whats wrong with me? is it how i look? ect ect. because thats always the first thing I , or we as women tend to do. i think you have a great attitude that you know your worth you know you are looking at the top of your game with internet, lighting ect. . I hope and assume the money will follow.
i honestly dont feel motivated to work fridays anymore. it never is a good day for me.
maybe this weekend will be better. or tomorrow before the contest starts.
Erika_Xstacy
01-15-2022, 12:54 AM
Desktop:
Mobile:
Videos:
Activity Feed:
Other:
is "other" cam model earnings?
Kay and anyone, what means exactly "shadow banning"?! Cutting u off from traffic? Cause i feel they did the same to me til i could not handle it anymore and left.
It's not me, was never me cause now i am happy in other place(s).
Dont wanna brag and i wish i could make money on SM but that is not happening, i made 0 this week from sunday to wednesday and then i did not get on SM anymore, 0 in 4 days averaging 3 hrs shift/day?!
This never happened to me ever in 12 years on SM!
Me and some of u guys seem to be "shadow banned", I am baffled!
anonamiss
01-15-2022, 03:12 AM
Desktop:
Mobile:
Videos:
Activity Feed:
Other:
is "other" cam model earnings?
yes but as far as i can i tell it is specifically the 20% commission earnings you get from when someone spends on another model.
if one of your cammodel referrals spends on you, your extra 40% gets listed in your general earnings under "desktop."
Nikki66
01-15-2022, 03:33 AM
Yesterday I set online for 4 hours in completely silence.I just don’t understand :(
Can you tell me, please, what other places are you talking about?
Marina Starr
01-15-2022, 05:39 AM
How can you even stream without updating ID and contract? It was a huge mess not very long ago when all of us have to try numerous times before we were finally approved. It was made cleared we would not be able to stream without the ID and contract.
This is literally why I am annoyed this week. Why have I spent over 8 hours and free cat with extremely good Internet and I'm only at 7 minutes paid time This is why I don't work contests This is why I rarely work this site anymore.
56461 I think they're still punishing me for not updating my ID and the new contract. The same thing happened to me when I joined a studio a very long time ago it's like they're shadow banning me and my favorites were missing too I'm on page 6 or 7. Sorry to be so repetitive but I know this is not normal for me. I was also complemented all three shifts. My sound was clear my camera was clear my Internet was extremely fast. I looked incredible. And I got a lot of faves that are new so I know it's not me or my clients.
Angela888
01-15-2022, 07:24 AM
Yesterday I set online for 4 hours in completely silence.I just don’t understand :(
Can you tell me, please, what other places are you talking about?
I did 5 and a bit hours yesterday, for the first hour zero shows…. Most unlike SM however it’s January! The perves are poor after Xmas and new year celebrations , it will pick up as for shadow banning, I don’t know how they would do this, wouldn’t they just tell you they didn’t want you on the site anymore? It always picks up eventually. The world is in turmoil at the moment too.
Sending everyone a big hug.
Miss_ShaSha
01-15-2022, 08:41 AM
This is my first time not getting direct deposit on time. I emailed Liz and she said they sent it out on the 13th. I've checked with my bank twice now and they say they haven't received the direct deposit.
Has anyone had this issue with ACH? How did you resolve it?
MissAdriana
01-15-2022, 08:46 AM
2 weeks aso it happened to me, i resubmitted and it was approved.
I uploaded below the belt today and it went through without a issue
Thanks hun I will try again - all of my non nude ones were approved so I was like maybe I clicked the wrong boxes but no... everything was right and still rejected. I wonder if this is a glitch where even though we are checking explicit it's not accepting it maybe hmm
Erika_Xstacy
01-15-2022, 08:49 AM
Thanks hun I will try again - all of my non nude ones were approved so I was like maybe I clicked the wrong boxes but no... everything was right and still rejected. I wonder if this is a glitch where even though we are checking explicit it's not accepting it maybe hmm
I thought the same about clicking a box
then I thought it was a dumbass In support :D
Erika_Xstacy
01-15-2022, 08:51 AM
This is my first time not getting direct deposit on time. I emailed Liz and she said they sent it out on the 13th. I've checked with my bank twice now and they say they haven't received the direct deposit.
Has anyone had this issue with ACH? How did you resolve it?
I had this issue last week masspay
It took a week to hit my bank account
it was weird
Miss_ShaSha
01-15-2022, 09:00 AM
I had this issue last week masspay
It took a week to hit my bank account
it was weird
Thanks. I've never really had issues with payment. It must just be late. While I'm hesitant to stream...I'm sure it will work itself out.