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roseforarose
02-07-2022, 02:42 PM
its hard to tell but I will keep a eye on mine today for you
have you tried rebooting your computer? unplugging and replugging your cam?
I have also had to flip to different modes in the broadcaster dropdown but then back to the c922 and it will register (logi, obs, cyberlink), to get the c922 to show up as 1080 and i cant use any software such as logi or it will not register and give me whack resolutions but picks up resolution most times fine using the basic built in or just the c922
does this make sense to you bc i feel like im confusing and this is why i offer zero tech help lmao but this is one I figured out on my end so if it helps .... :)
Yes that makes sense haha. I have noticed that my stream keeps auto resetting to 'up to 720p' every day now, whereas it used to stay at 'up to 1080p' not sure if that's based on my connection or just a glitch though. I usually reboot my router, reload the page, and do a speed test if its showing as 'poor' for a while but haven't tried more than that yet!
Luckygoldfish
02-07-2022, 04:01 PM
Okay but you complain about SM way more than you praise it, so how common are you making money like this? If it's only happening once in a blue moon Idk if it's worth staying on a site you hate?
Ngl I find this hard to believe. It's rare for me to be in rows 1-3 and I'm not having the issues you are. From the STFO thread you don't seem like you do very many hours either so unless you are making crazy money during the few hours you work a week I find it hard to believe your placement is always so high, and if that was the case I don't think you'd be so upset with SM 'not working' all the time.
Something I have noticed a lot is girls---who regularly post about how dead it is and how bad they're doing---will talk about how dead/bad it is for them even though they're in the "top row" or "have great placement" and it definitely makes me suspicious.
Sometimes it is dead on a first row. But placement isn’t everything I see plenty of models mid pages or lower who have more people in free chat than girls on a first row. I think placement just an indication who earns more in a shorter period of time as customers have their own list and it’s also based on priorities /regions/languages ect
For instance this week seems like only regs are paying and a first hour is always literally nothing , resolution is all over the place . Income is less than usual 1.5 time but still decent money
I actually think they are building something huge and I have a sense it’s gonna be good at the end of the day , maybe they are trying to make it work in a way so it’s less pressure on servers and make site work more efficiently
whirlerz
02-07-2022, 04:12 PM
U Ladies are all so Cute!:)
Carry on!
Luckygoldfish
02-07-2022, 04:17 PM
To help me feel better on slow days /weeks in my mind I set up my own lowest $\hour and decided if it drops below that for 3 month it would not make sense to be there anymore I will wonder off elsewhere,no drama, say thank you very much SM it was great knowing you lol
it actually works
However I think we should be grateful for this job and SM in particular
lula_xoxox
02-07-2022, 04:55 PM
without wanting to pile on to the vents and complaints, is it just me or is it crazy quiet this evening?
fwiw, i sometimes worry that i'm a bit of a negative nancy on here - truth is, i'm often only compelled to come on here to see if it's not just me suffering with poor traffic. when it's busy (which it still is for me sometimes) i'm too busy lapping it up to post! i should get into the habit of posting more in the camming rocks thread when things are going well :)
hi all, i miss some payments, instead to disturb LIz or write to support...the REQUEST REISSUE button is there for that? ty so much for help!! xx
Marina Starr
02-07-2022, 05:07 PM
Yes but I think there's a $25 charge for each request. I'm a stingy hoe so I would definitely reach out to Liz if it's multiple missed payments.
hi all, i miss some payments, instead to disturb LIz or write to support...the REQUEST REISSUE button is there for that? ty so much for help!! xx
MsJess
02-07-2022, 05:12 PM
Is it allowed to use bottles as sex toys on SM? A reg asked me for this, I told him it wasn't allowed (idk lol) and He was like: I hAd AnOtHeR GiRl Do iT FoR Me (insert sponge bob meme face here) UGH
~Carmen~
02-07-2022, 05:59 PM
Yes but I think there's a $25 charge for each request. I'm a stingy hoe so I would definitely reach out to Liz if it's multiple missed payments.
I think the charge is only if you don't want to wait 6 weeks for re-issue, then it's free. That's how it used to be anyway, unless it's been changed since I stopped getting paid by check.
Marina Starr
02-07-2022, 06:15 PM
I think that's right. I am NOT waiting 6 weeks for my 'pussy selling' money. ACH all the way.
I think the charge is only if you don't want to wait 6 weeks for re-issue, then it's free. That's how it used to be anyway, unless it's been changed since I stopped getting paid by check.
bigbum
02-07-2022, 06:39 PM
So on the back of the bitrate topic, does anyone definitively know what bitrate we need to have the 'excellent' stream quality in 1080p?
My bitrate is currently fluctuating from 1.5-3.5mbps and is just stuck around fair, SM is varying my quality between 960x540p and 1080p.
According to the speed tests I've done my upload speed is actually around 10mbps right now, which is pretty decent for the UK (I know that's considered slow elsewhere), for whatever reason it's just slow af on SM.
i have crazy fast fiber optic. its fiber for businesses in my area its thats strong
and even then right now its says "poor" stream quality.
everything is gone for me after 1 year of it being perfect.
1 question are you using logitec by chance? is that window open when you stream?
bigbum
02-07-2022, 06:41 PM
Is it allowed to use bottles as sex toys on SM? A reg asked me for this, I told him it wasn't allowed (idk lol) and He was like: I hAd AnOtHeR GiRl Do iT FoR Me (insert sponge bob meme face here) UGH
i know there is 1 famous lady on sm who uses a baseball bat, and her bed post but that was awhile ago
she also used an electric drill
bigbum
02-07-2022, 06:46 PM
its hard to tell but I will keep a eye on mine today for you
have you tried rebooting your computer? unplugging and replugging your cam?
I have also had to flip to different modes in the broadcaster dropdown but then back to the c922 and it will register (logi, obs, cyberlink), to get the c922 to show up as 1080 and i cant use any software such as logi or it will not register and give me whack resolutions but picks up resolution most times fine using the basic built in or just the c922
does this make sense to you bc i feel like im confusing and this is why i offer zero tech help lmao but this is one I figured out on my end so if it helps .... :)
hey erika so you are having the issue when the logic tech software is on? i am wondering if thats my issue. anyone else want to chime in on bitrate with logitech software?
bigbum
02-07-2022, 06:49 PM
To help me feel better on slow days /weeks in my mind I set up my own lowest $\hour and decided if it drops below that for 3 month it would not make sense to be there anymore I will wonder off elsewhere,no drama, say thank you very much SM it was great knowing you lol
it actually works
However I think we should be grateful for this job and SM in particular
yep my thoughts exactly
kamiliam
02-07-2022, 06:50 PM
hey erika so you are having the issue when the logic tech software is on? i am wondering if thats my issue. anyone else want to chime in on bitrate with logitech software?
I usually have mine on with the aforementioned results
*I do use the older “Logitech webcam software”
zeusydoo
02-07-2022, 07:17 PM
i know there is 1 famous lady on sm who uses a baseball bat, and her bed post but that was awhile ago
she also used an electric drill
she is still on seen her this morning
Erika_Xstacy
02-07-2022, 07:41 PM
hey erika so you are having the issue when the logic tech software is on? i am wondering if thats my issue. anyone else want to chime in on bitrate with logitech software?
yes. when it is on and in use it fucks my shit up.
i had zero issues until a few months ago I only really like it bc I can have my name in the corner lol so damn basic
i open the c922 on sm and open the logi software after and my logi settings for my white balance work but I have to use the old logitech software for pan/zoom and that is limited lol
if I have my logi software open and turn on sm it will give me bullshit specs and i have to go through all the bullshit to get it to pick up my c922 properly . lol
~Carmen~
02-07-2022, 07:44 PM
^Same! Logicapture would be wonderful if it didn't fuck everything up. It uses too many resources. I do love how it looks on my stream.
wonderland1
02-07-2022, 08:14 PM
Newb butting in here ladies and trying to understand the Logitech software issues, and issues with the bitrate stuff you are having on SM. I'm not tech savvy but are any of you using the Logitech Brio and are you using the Logitech G-Hub software with it? I am and have not had any issues (knock on wood). Here's the link to download if interested and I also have a good YT video link for it, too, if interested. (Edit- oops apparently, I cannot add a link, message me if interested)
laurielegs
02-07-2022, 10:07 PM
So did anybody get to connect to the tea time conference call?
It would not surprise me if they had tech issues with that too and couldnt even do it LOL
Yes, I attended it.
No tech issues. It ran smooth as silk.
Now, if they could only get the site to run like that, we'd be happy.
Hey , Girlies , has anyone attended content boost sales tea party or whatever it was called lol
Never participated in this kind of things , anything useful ?
Thank you!
Thanks hun I was curious.. I guess they only wanted certain models there.. why they even send the message then
I totally forgot about it and only saw the last few mins, but I discovered they posted it on SM's youtube channel (didnt even know they had one, stumbled on it by accident)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JoH1aBL_-I
Strawberryblonde
02-08-2022, 01:21 AM
I think it's just the typical end of the month slowdown it'll be back up to normal very soon.
So did anybody get to connect to the tea time conference call?
It would not surprise me if they had tech issues with that too and couldnt even do it LOL
Yes it was actually very good, went well glad I attended.
Luckygoldfish
02-08-2022, 02:20 AM
thx for vouching bigb <3. just in my defense... i shared several recent january screenshots of my placement w/Genoveve, including two screenshots being in spot 1 row 1, and i have LOTS more screenshots where that came from. my good placement has been consistent since i took off geoblock off last summer.
i jumped on last night for the sole purpose of checking placement/taking brand new screenshots last night where i was in fact row 1 & 2. but then tonight... my placement was much worse, like bottom of the page worse. IDK if it's accurate or a glitch, was only online for a minute. anyone else notice anything or just me??? i remember FloridaSundoll saying she experienced something similar.
at any rate! no matter what placement she sees me in next time we are on together, it does NOT invalidate anything i said about glitches/deadness *or* the 100% TRUTH that my placement was top (as recently as last night w/ screenshot proof!) while experiencing any of the glitches/deadness i've mentioned in the STFO thread. my offline glitch is real. the end!
*i wish for speculation to end here as sufficient proof has been provided. there does not need to be some awkward public announcement about my future placement, it's irrelevant to my recent placement+glitch complaints.* ty & peace out
I am curious now which model you are :))
First row first spot for USA Listing ?
kamiliam
02-08-2022, 02:30 AM
Well that thing I said about placement not correlating, it was happening real bad tonight. Also wasn’t showing until way down first page, but 1st in USA, to me at least logged in. With people way lower ranking in US/can/uk/aus ahead on first page, saw it with other models, as I paid attention to others who normally work the same hours. Also high first page not logged in.
I don’t care THAT much about it like I’ve said. However it does get annoying when you have 89 potentials and 2 silent creepers for 30 minutes. Had that till I got a show and then I was sent to purgatory for 10 minutes before traffic or potentials returned. Ended up ok though.
freyasnecklace
02-08-2022, 07:12 AM
So, my account was just closed for “underage” and “bestiality” but I definitely have never done that before ever. Uhhhh i don’t even know how to begin arguing that. I do primarily femdom— because no way I was close to age play abs wtf at bestiality?! I reported/blocked a guy for requesting bestiality
bobsandvangene
02-08-2022, 07:14 AM
I’m occasionally first place and mini checked my placement and it was row 8, and then jumped back up to the top two rows. Traffic last night was strange too - massive surges and then nothing at all, just a trickle. I managed to make double what my target was though, but it wasn’t smooth sailing at all. C2C kept glitching, people kept losing connection and not interacting with me (I’m super talkative all the time so no excuse for me being boring etc) - was just a bit bonkers!
It’s irritating because I know I can make a killing on cam, and I do make a lot, but it is so demoralising and downright infuriating when the site doesn’t work properly.
Vlodina
02-08-2022, 07:35 AM
So, my account was just closed for “underage” and “bestiality” but I definitely have never done that before ever. Uhhhh i don’t even know how to begin arguing that. I do primarily femdom— because no way I was close to age play abs wtf at bestiality?! I reported/blocked a guy for requesting bestiality
No way. :( Can they show you (maybe Liz) show you the "proof" of this? You make them a hell of a lot of money!
freyasnecklace
02-08-2022, 07:41 AM
No way. :( Can they show you (maybe Liz) show you the "proof" of this? You make them a hell of a lot of money!
I don’t know about a hell of a lot. My income comes from 3 avenues. I guess I can email her. I replied to support, but I know once SM slams down the hammer— that’s usually it. I think I know the show they are referring to, but I blocked him and reported mid show when he started talking about fucking horses . Barf
SapphireXO
02-08-2022, 07:41 AM
So, my account was just closed for “underage” and “bestiality” but I definitely have never done that before ever. Uhhhh i don’t even know how to begin arguing that. I do primarily femdom— because no way I was close to age play abs wtf at bestiality?! I reported/blocked a guy for requesting bestiality
Another model reported her account was shut down as well for reporting a member with screenshots requesting age play. I think it's an auto reaction. This needs to be corrected as this obviously deters models from reporting vs. blocking.
CatBBW
02-08-2022, 07:57 AM
Just discovered you can't say "humiliate" in your profile text... I was actually in the middle of updating my entire profile, saving as I went along, and SM removed ALL my new text in EVERY section putting all the old stuff (which also has banned words in /slaps head) back, and as I hadn't had a chance to save the new text offline (as I hadn't finished editing yet) I lost the entire new fresh text.
/grumble
EDITED: I have gone over the rules and can't find Humiliation mentioned anywhere. Am about to search this thread, but if anyone has a link to the SM policy I would be grateful.
EDITED AGAIN: wow, fck. Found a discussion here from 2020 about it. Although still no link to the policy, just a communication with Liz that it can't be in profiles.
freyasnecklace
02-08-2022, 08:23 AM
Another model reported her account was shut down as well for reporting a member with screenshots requesting age play. I think it's an auto reaction. This needs to be corrected as this obviously deters models from reporting vs. blocking.
Ok, I emailed Liz and support with a description of the show that I believe must have triggered it. Hopefully it was ok. The guy started with liking D/s with the terms Miss and pet. I assumed that was fine because it isn’t bestiality and there are plenty of “kitten” models etc. He liked the idea of “pony play”, which I’ve done IRL and it isn’t about wanting to eff horses. It’s just like… a state of mind thing where you get brushed and cared for and dress up. The bridle and saddle being like a leash and collar for typical subs.
Then he was like WHAT ABOUT A REAL HORSE. Fuck. So, I blocked and reported. This was right after I was in here like “no more RP ever.” Then I violated my own rules. I don’t know why I didn’t think there would be an issue. I guess because being someone’s goodboy/girl, kitten, slut— that’s all common and fine.
JustMilfnAround
02-08-2022, 10:00 AM
I wonder if the traffic issues could be linked to a crack down on the rules?
The guys requiring the more hardcore/roleplay stuff left for sites that allow that type of content or are more lenient with it (CB, etc.). My requests for odd shit seem to be gradually mellowing out.....
Just a random thought while being stared at in free chat LOL
JustMilfnAround
02-08-2022, 10:03 AM
Ok, I emailed Liz and support with a description of the show that I believe must have triggered it. Hopefully it was ok. The guy started with liking D/s with the terms Miss and pet. I assumed that was fine because it isn’t bestiality and there are plenty of “kitten” models etc. He liked the idea of “pony play”, which I’ve done IRL and it isn’t about wanting to eff horses. It’s just like… a state of mind thing where you get brushed and cared for and dress up. The bridle and saddle being like a leash and collar for typical subs.
Then he was like WHAT ABOUT A REAL HORSE. Fuck. So, I blocked and reported. This was right after I was in here like “no more RP ever.” Then I violated my own rules. I don’t know why I didn’t think there would be an issue. I guess because being someone’s goodboy/girl, kitten, slut— that’s all common and fine.
OMG! FFS! I hope Liz can help you - that is clearly not your fault! I wonder if they are instituting more AI to be able to be compliant with the more strict rules and as AI does, it is fucking up? I hope you are able to get your account back!
FloridaSunDoll
02-08-2022, 10:07 AM
Ok, I emailed Liz and support with a description of the show that I believe must have triggered it. Hopefully it was ok. The guy started with liking D/s with the terms Miss and pet. I assumed that was fine because it isn’t bestiality and there are plenty of “kitten” models etc. He liked the idea of “pony play”, which I’ve done IRL and it isn’t about wanting to eff horses. It’s just like… a state of mind thing where you get brushed and cared for and dress up. The bridle and saddle being like a leash and collar for typical subs.
Then he was like WHAT ABOUT A REAL HORSE. Fuck. So, I blocked and reported. This was right after I was in here like “no more RP ever.” Then I violated my own rules. I don’t know why I didn’t think there would be an issue. I guess because being someone’s goodboy/girl, kitten, slut— that’s all common and fine.
I was terrified to report a creep requesting age play for this very reason. Do they want us to do our part in keeping the site running the way they want or do they want to lose good models for doing exactly that?? Sorry to hear Freya. I hope you get some resolution because that’s totally fucked up
emkato
02-08-2022, 10:12 AM
I wonder if the traffic issues could be linked to a crack down on the rules?
The guys requiring the more hardcore/roleplay stuff left for sites that allow that type of content or are more lenient with it (CB, etc.). My requests for odd shit seem to be gradually mellowing out.....
Just a random thought while being stared at in free chat LOL
this has 100% crossed my mind and I guarantee a lot of guys have dipped because of it.
Erika_Xstacy
02-08-2022, 10:24 AM
Offline placement is the same as online just broader.
If y’all are trying to prove placement go to offline and you should be placed around models you are use to seeing when on cam but offline about 100 more that are placed high when streaming
Miss_ShaSha
02-08-2022, 10:36 AM
Is Liz responding to your emails sent recently (Feb 3-7). I'm waiting for a response from an email sent Feb 3rd.
Responses usually show up within 48 business hrs. A little concerned.
Halestorm
02-08-2022, 10:49 AM
Hello people. May I ask how do you do your lightning?
I have 1 ring light in front of me which works well but you can see the darkness in the rest of the room.
Do you set up 2 ring lights? 3? what do you do? Any tips will be appreciated xx
FloridaSunDoll
02-08-2022, 10:53 AM
Is Liz responding to your emails sent recently (Feb 3-7). I'm waiting for a response from an email sent Feb 3rd.
Responses usually show up within 48 business hrs. A little concerned.
Last response I had was Feb 2nd
FloridaSunDoll
02-08-2022, 10:55 AM
Hello people. May I ask how do you do your lightning?
I have 1 ring light in front of me which works well but you can see the darkness in the rest of the room.
Do you set up 2 ring lights? 3? what do you do? Any tips will be appreciated xx
I use 2 soft boxes to light up my room. It totally depends on your preference. Some girls keep their rooms a lot darker and personally I like that but for whatever reason my cam refuses to keep up if the room is even a little dim so I light up the entire thing. I have them point from different directions so I don’t have any shadows
Miss_ShaSha
02-08-2022, 10:57 AM
Last response I had was Feb 2nd
Thanks!
bigbum
02-08-2022, 10:58 AM
yes. when it is on and in use it fucks my shit up.
i had zero issues until a few months ago I only really like it bc I can have my name in the corner lol so damn basic
i open the c922 on sm and open the logi software after and my logi settings for my white balance work but I have to use the old logitech software for pan/zoom and that is limited lol
if I have my logi software open and turn on sm it will give me bullshit specs and i have to go through all the bullshit to get it to pick up my c922 properly . lol
ive been selecting the logi as source. for some reason since i filmed some content using the logi software now my bit rate and everything is in red.
without the color balance i look like a witch babahahaha
so i kinda need it . ill play with it a bit and see if it changes.
bigbum
02-08-2022, 11:00 AM
I use 2 soft boxes to light up my room. It totally depends on your preference. Some girls keep their rooms a lot darker and personally I like that but for whatever reason my cam refuses to keep up if the room is even a little dim so I light up the entire thing. I have them point from different directions so I don’t have any shadows
i am using 2 softboxes as well recommened by our very own goldfish.
it helps a lot.
do you ladies have any tricks to hide cellulite?
i realized that how things appear on logi is not how clients actually see it.
and ummm well my body is in check but the back of my legs show every shadow.
any suggestions ladies?
bigbum
02-08-2022, 11:07 AM
thx for vouching bigb <3. just in my defense... i shared several recent january screenshots of my placement w/Genoveve, including two screenshots being in spot 1 row 1, and i have LOTS more screenshots where that came from. my good placement has been consistent since i took off geoblock off last summer.
i jumped on last night for the sole purpose of checking placement/taking brand new screenshots last night where i was in fact row 1 & 2. but then tonight... my placement was much worse, like bottom of the page worse. IDK if it's accurate or a glitch, was only online for a minute. anyone else notice anything or just me??? i remember FloridaSundoll saying she experienced something similar.
at any rate! no matter what placement she sees me in next time we are on together, it does NOT invalidate anything i said about glitches/deadness *or* the 100% TRUTH that my placement was top (as recently as last night w/ screenshot proof!) while experiencing any of the glitches/deadness i've mentioned in the STFO thread. my offline glitch is real. the end!
*i wish for speculation to end here as sufficient proof has been provided. there does not need to be some awkward public announcement about my future placement, it's irrelevant to my recent placement+glitch complaints.* ty & peace out
girlie you dont need to prove anything to anyone, ive always told you that. every time i talked with you you always sent me screen shots ect. when celebrating your victory.
and i always told you that your word is what matters most.
but yeah.. to those who dont know.. she is top row (sometimes even top left 1st screen when amanda bb and a few others arent on not on contests obvi) and drains wallets very hard in her own style and does what works for her.
and not only on 1 site might i add.
this site is all about trust and respect . i take each and everyone of you at your word.
because if we cant be honest with each other after dealing with this pricks all day.. who can we be honest with regarding our work?
ggminx
02-08-2022, 11:07 AM
I use 2 soft boxes to light up my room. It totally depends on your preference. Some girls keep their rooms a lot darker and personally I like that but for whatever reason my cam refuses to keep up if the room is even a little dim so I light up the entire thing. I have them point from different directions so I don’t have any shadows
i have a ring light in front of me, a soft floor lamp behind, then i turn on the bed side table lamps on even though they are on the other side of the room. i cam with only ceiling to floor length curtains in the frame
bigbum
02-08-2022, 11:08 AM
So, my account was just closed for “underage” and “bestiality” but I definitely have never done that before ever. Uhhhh i don’t even know how to begin arguing that. I do primarily femdom— because no way I was close to age play abs wtf at bestiality?! I reported/blocked a guy for requesting bestiality
this is what i mean about reporting. damned if you do , damned if you dont.
SapphireXO
02-08-2022, 11:45 AM
Hello people. May I ask how do you do your lightning?
I have 1 ring light in front of me which works well but you can see the darkness in the rest of the room.
Do you set up 2 ring lights? 3? what do you do? Any tips will be appreciated xx
I have 2 large 18in ring lights in both corners of my cam room + 2 small ring lights that is an all in one clip on light behind my camera. All of my lights are dimmable and have warm/cool temperature controls. MAKES A HUGE DIFFERENCE!
SapphireXO
02-08-2022, 11:48 AM
i am using 2 softboxes as well recommened by our very own goldfish.
it helps a lot.
do you ladies have any tricks to hide cellulite?
i realized that how things appear on logi is not how clients actually see it.
and ummm well my body is in check but the back of my legs show every shadow.
any suggestions ladies?
A direct light that you can control the brightness and color will help A TON. Like a GOVEE light bar. Keep it under your desk or at waist height. You can flush out imperfections with direct light. Anytime light is overhead or at harsh angles, it will create shadows.
liquidsilk
02-08-2022, 11:49 AM
I know Angela replies to some of the liz emails and she is on holiday from 4th to 9th Feb
Erika_Xstacy
02-08-2022, 12:06 PM
you have to log in bc my page is restricted but here ya go
Open c922
then open logi
then fuck w white balance lol I thought it just switched over to the warmer tone and never thought to play w the toggle
https://youtu.be/jZ4MHC3v5CM
ive been selecting the logi as source. for some reason since i filmed some content using the logi software now my bit rate and everything is in red.
without the color balance i look like a witch babahahaha
so i kinda need it . ill play with it a bit and see if it changes.
Marina Starr
02-08-2022, 01:06 PM
What happened to you is over regular support's head. Liz is the person that would be able to do something about it. I hope she can reopen your account.
This is why I've stopped doing all role plays because there are just too much ambiguity. I do not trust sm support nor want them to be the 'judge and jury' of what is or isn't against the rules.
I'm also Trans so I see no disadvantage for not doing role plays because Trans is already a built-in fetish. My shows are super vanilla. I like to do the least for the most money, lol.
Ok, I emailed Liz and support with a description of the show that I believe must have triggered it. Hopefully it was ok. The guy started with liking D/s with the terms Miss and pet. I assumed that was fine because it isn’t bestiality and there are plenty of “kitten” models etc. He liked the idea of “pony play”, which I’ve done IRL and it isn’t about wanting to eff horses. It’s just like… a state of mind thing where you get brushed and cared for and dress up. The bridle and saddle being like a leash and collar for typical subs.
Then he was like WHAT ABOUT A REAL HORSE. Fuck. So, I blocked and reported. This was right after I was in here like “no more RP ever.” Then I violated my own rules. I don’t know why I didn’t think there would be an issue. I guess because being someone’s goodboy/girl, kitten, slut— that’s all common and fine.