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~Carmen~
03-11-2022, 09:44 PM
I hate the term breeding. I always think of a barbaric country redneck fuck like we're on a farm
i do shows and it takes all of me to not laugh when I read "i want to breed your pussy" usually followed by id love to meet you. lmao hell fuck no get your country bumpkin ass away from me, fuckn scary mfrs
when your done breeding, you going to fight me next? lol am i chicken or a dog? grass fed?
cringeworthy word lol but i just go with it, fuck it, for 9.99 you can breed whatever lol idgaf at this point
Are you a purebred or mixed farm animal breed?
Luci Fer
03-11-2022, 10:23 PM
Are you a purebred or mixed farm animal breed?
hahaha! I had that kind of dirty talk too. Also Erika - "country bumpkin ass" made me laugh out loud ;D
"You look so healthy, I want to breed you"
I usually imagine not rednecks but extraterrestrial creatures though. "I wanna breed you. Female must be bred. Let's breed. Beep beep."
;D
Dreamqueen
03-11-2022, 10:52 PM
i think it is regulating when calculating lol did that even make sense? and the grey is new and probably with layout changes.
my bit rate has been 3.50. normally the bit rate 2.50
Thank You for clarifying.
I'll take a photo of it and post it here.
I've never seen it before this week.
~Carmen~
03-11-2022, 10:59 PM
hahaha! I had that kind of dirty talk too. Also Erika - "country bumpkin ass" made me laugh out loud ;D
"You look so healthy, I want to breed you"
I usually imagine not rednecks but extraterrestrial creatures though. "I wanna breed you. Female must be bred. Let's breed. Beep beep."
;D
You both got me laughing in free chat, seemingly at nothing. I'm cray crayyyy;D
fetishqueen
03-12-2022, 07:00 AM
Has anyone sent any videos to guys today? I just did but I never got the message in my inbox, the one that says 'You have received a video from XXXX etc'. I wanted to send another message to thank the guy but now I can't. I have no way to message him now. Also I like to see that message to know they have got the video. I wonder if this is a change or just a glitch, I hope it's only a glitch...
MissAdriana
03-12-2022, 07:55 AM
Im getting the messages but they are all messed up it looks like code inside the message and looks like a shit. And when I sent group message it floods my messenger with what i ssent to every user
fetishqueen
03-12-2022, 09:48 AM
I've had the messages with the code in brackets instead of my username for a while but not getting these messages at all is new. And annoying!
WanderingW
03-12-2022, 10:57 AM
I hate the term breeding. I always think of a barbaric country redneck fuck like we're on a farm
i do shows and it takes all of me to not laugh when I read "i want to breed your pussy" usually followed by id love to meet you. lmao hell fuck no get your country bumpkin ass away from me, fuckn scary mfrs
when your done breeding, you going to fight me next? lol am i chicken or a dog? grass fed?
cringeworthy word lol but i just go with it, fuck it, for 9.99 you can breed whatever lol idgaf at this point
Could Not Agree More Erika!!
JustMilfnAround
03-12-2022, 11:17 AM
I hate the term breeding. I always think of a barbaric country redneck fuck like we're on a farm
i do shows and it takes all of me to not laugh when I read "i want to breed your pussy" usually followed by id love to meet you. lmao hell fuck no get your country bumpkin ass away from me, fuckn scary mfrs
when your done breeding, you going to fight me next? lol am i chicken or a dog? grass fed?
cringeworthy word lol but i just go with it, fuck it, for 9.99 you can breed whatever lol idgaf at this point
I laughed WAY TF TOO HARD at this!!! Luckily I was off cam :) Thanks for the ugly laughing with tears hahahaha!!
roseforarose
03-12-2022, 06:48 PM
Do you guys ever get sph requests from guys with pretty big dicks? I never used to get them but *all week* I've been getting SPH shows, then guys don't have small dicks.
Like, large to the extent where I think lying and saying it's tiny is not even believable. I'm great at SPH when the guy actually has a small dick, but idk how to handle this new influx of dudes! No one has complained yet but I really don't think my shows are good when I'm clearly shocked and lying that it's small, or lost for words for what to say lol.
Luci Fer
03-12-2022, 07:10 PM
Do you guys ever get sph requests from guys with pretty big dicks? I never used to get them but *all week* I've been getting SPH shows, then guys don't have small dicks.
Like, large to the extent where I think lying and saying it's tiny is not even believable. I'm great at SPH when the guy actually has a small dick, but idk how to handle this new influx of dudes! No one has complained yet but I really don't think my shows are good when I'm clearly shocked and lying that it's small, or lost for words for what to say lol.
Hey,
I had the same experience last year I think. The dude was fine but wanted SPH. It's a head thing, nothing to do with their real size sometimes.
I just played it like "nah it's small af I prefer BIGGER" I also have some unnaturally big toys, and in comparison with them any normal dick would look small. hahahaha
whirlerz
03-12-2022, 07:58 PM
I've experienced that, ^just today I had a guy he wanted Dom, but then he wanted to be humiliation about his D.
It was actually a decent size (c2c) but I just played along & it went well.
Dreamqueen
03-12-2022, 08:50 PM
i think it is regulating when calculating lol did that even make sense? and the grey is new and probably with layout changes.
my bit rate has been 3.50. normally the bit rate 2.50
56858
This is what it shows.
Any idea what it means?
*Ladies, just a reminder that cutoff will be 1 hour later starting Sunday.
Erika_Xstacy
03-12-2022, 10:21 PM
56858
This is what it shows.
Any idea what it means?
*Ladies, just a reminder that cutoff will be 1 hour later starting Sunday.
i get that too but it evens out within a few seconds
does yours stay like that the whole stream?
SapphireXO
03-13-2022, 04:58 AM
Do you guys ever get sph requests from guys with pretty big dicks? I never used to get them but *all week* I've been getting SPH shows, then guys don't have small dicks.
Like, large to the extent where I think lying and saying it's tiny is not even believable. I'm great at SPH when the guy actually has a small dick, but idk how to handle this new influx of dudes! No one has complained yet but I really don't think my shows are good when I'm clearly shocked and lying that it's small, or lost for words for what to say lol.
Honestly, all the time. I think it has to do with deep-down insecurities with men watching porn ALL THE TIME. For the most part, porn exemplifies very large male genitalia and normal men just can't compare. Not that they are small but they genuinely feel small with all the content they watch.
roseforarose
03-13-2022, 05:00 AM
56858
This is what it shows.
Any idea what it means?
*Ladies, just a reminder that cutoff will be 1 hour later starting Sunday.
Yup this happens to me too, I think they're just trying iterations of showing the stream stats (isn't this the 3rd one in as many months?).
My bitrate is definitely distinctly higher on SM than it used to be, but I do think what they were saying about CPU stuff might actually be true now :/
I constantly have the CPU/bandwidth thing, and at least for this week only about 30% of my time is at 'excellent', the rest is just fair but with a great bitrate. I've not had any guys complain though so hopefully it won't make too much of a difference
SapphireXO
03-13-2022, 05:01 AM
I asked about breeding and a customer that was talking about how many kids we would have. This is Liz’s response:
56855
I hate hate hate when customers do this!!!! On Friday I had a customer say, "I've been like this since I was 10." I was like for fucks sakes. It was in regards to doing self wedgies but still.
roseforarose
03-13-2022, 05:02 AM
Honestly, all the time. I think it has to do with deep-down insecurities with men watching porn ALL THE TIME. For the most part, porn exemplifies very large male genitalia and normal men just can't compare. Not that they are small but they genuinely feel small with all the content they watch.
Yeah I think that's 100% what it is, I'm just shocked I never had the big dick sph guys until this week . I'll just keep lying to them I suppose lol, and maybe do what Luci Fer said and get a massive just-for-show toy too
roseforarose
03-13-2022, 06:17 AM
Sorry for all the questions guys butttt, has anyone had their thumbnail be blurry recently? My camera is fine and my stream is decently clear, but whenever I take the thumbnail (and also verification pic) it looks out of focus. My camera is definitely in focus as I only use manual focus
Is this a recent glitch, or just on my end?
Esixxx
03-13-2022, 06:59 AM
Sorry for all the questions guys butttt, has anyone had their thumbnail be blurry recently? My camera is fine and my stream is decently clear, but whenever I take the thumbnail (and also verification pic) it looks out of focus. My camera is definitely in focus as I only use manual focus
Is this a recent glitch, or just on my end?
I think it's on SM's end
56858
This is what it shows.
Any idea what it means?
*Ladies, just a reminder that cutoff will be 1 hour later starting Sunday.
already? still going on that? what time Seattle time or UK time? :) ty just avoid panic if something happen
Susperia
03-13-2022, 09:05 AM
Do you guys ever get sph requests from guys with pretty big dicks? I never used to get them but *all week* I've been getting SPH shows, then guys don't have small dicks.
Like, large to the extent where I think lying and saying it's tiny is not even believable. I'm great at SPH when the guy actually has a small dick, but idk how to handle this new influx of dudes! No one has complained yet but I really don't think my shows are good when I'm clearly shocked and lying that it's small, or lost for words for what to say lol.
Whenever I get those type of guys I don't know what to say......I'm like uhhhhh........I find it mind boggling and usually give the wrong answer and then they leave.....
Miss_ShaSha
03-13-2022, 09:32 AM
Do you guys ever get sph requests from guys with pretty big dicks? I never used to get them but *all week* I've been getting SPH shows, then guys don't have small dicks.
Like, large to the extent where I think lying and saying it's tiny is not even believable. I'm great at SPH when the guy actually has a small dick, but idk how to handle this new influx of dudes! No one has complained yet but I really don't think my shows are good when I'm clearly shocked and lying that it's small, or lost for words for what to say lol.
It's interesting: I usually get SPH shows from white men with small dicks, but if the white guy has a big dick I just talk about how BBC is superior and talk about how a BBC is much bigger and better. Seems to keep them in.
If it's a black guy, which it hardly ever is, I'll just say my last BBC was 9.5 in and the girth was amazing...you just don't compare.
fetishqueen
03-13-2022, 09:46 AM
Hi ladies I did ask a while back but nobody knew or answered :). The little circle icon next to the name on SM Connect is sometimes grey, sometimes blue. What does this indicate please? It doesn't seem to relate to their spending on me, at least. TIA!
roseforarose
03-13-2022, 10:32 AM
Whenever I get those type of guys I don't know what to say......I'm like uhhhhh........I find it mind boggling and usually give the wrong answer and then they leave.....
The first guy I got this week I thought he was pranking me!! I didn't do the SPH and he left a couple mins into some other dirty talking lol. I seriously thought he was kidding lmao
MissAdriana
03-13-2022, 10:45 AM
Has anyone sent any videos to guys today? I just did but I never got the message in my inbox
I take it back I am having this problem today now, so annoying
freyasnecklace
03-13-2022, 12:20 PM
My bitrate was all over the place today. stream looked okay, though
Genoveve
03-13-2022, 01:23 PM
Is anyone's webcam not working? No matter which browser I use SM won't recognize my webcam all of the sudden, when I open up the streaming page my logitech just keeps blinking, so does my internal webcam, and the stream window just stays black. Both cams are working outside of SM.
JustMilfnAround
03-13-2022, 02:48 PM
Did someone leave the gate open at the asshole farm today?
Redcandy
03-13-2022, 02:55 PM
Is anyone's webcam not working? No matter which browser I use SM won't recognize my webcam all of the sudden, when I open up the streaming page my logitech just keeps blinking, so does my internal webcam, and the stream window just stays black. Both cams are working outside of SM.
Yes it happen to me on Friday. After 3 times closing streaming page it finally showed my webcam. Its something on sm end for sure!
Genoveve
03-13-2022, 03:02 PM
^^^I’ve been trying for oven an hour and have had Best Buy remote tech support working on it and nothing is working.
Genoveve
03-13-2022, 03:36 PM
^^^Okay after spending forever with support (and having to pay) they fixed it and said a bunch of drivers needed to be updated. I wouldn't have thought that that would be the case with a brand new laptop but what do I know. All I know is this happened after an update was installed last night, I was trying to see if I could undo that update first but couldn't figure it out and called tech. I just got a notification that my laptop needs another update and I just paused all updates for a couple weeks because I'm scared it's going to happen again.
zeusydoo
03-13-2022, 06:45 PM
Hi ladies I did ask a while back but nobody knew or answered :). The little circle icon next to the name on SM Connect is sometimes grey, sometimes blue. What does this indicate please? It doesn't seem to relate to their spending on me, at least. TIA!
Grey is when they are in free chat , blue is when they are in a show if that helps
Luci Fer
03-13-2022, 08:03 PM
I hate hate hate when customers do this!!!! On Friday I had a customer say, "I've been like this since I was 10." I was like for fucks sakes. It was in regards to doing self wedgies but still.
damn, it's the worst because when people say it, they might not mean it in perverted way 'I did it since I was 10. woohooolets go and fuck every 10 y o now!".
I been there and I could say things like this dude said. Just purely out of sincerity, to tell more about myself and my personality. I hate it when it 's so demonized (by porn sites, ironically) that people see pedophilia in anything now. I am glad they still successfully manage to deliver children because in fact they do in (omg!) through vagina.
BuffyFlame
03-13-2022, 09:24 PM
Allot of the "big dick" (normal or slightly over+) SPH guys just want you to go into chat and say "OMG! I cant SPH you!! Your penis is GREAT! Its the most beautiful dick EVER!"
I know this for a fact because I do a TON of SPH/Femdom stuff, and noticed on occasion I would do SPH and get a 1 star after, after a few different guys did this I messaged one and said "I noticed you rated me one star, just wondering why as I wanted to improve show quality" or some bullshit.
And he said "im really sorry, i just walked away from our show feeling pretty bad about myself. I guess when i went into it i did not fully understand the whole concept of sph and maybe i thought i could handle or but part of me thought that you would see me and try to change the pace of the show but when you didnt it was a pretty big bust to my ego and even now i still feel pretty bad about it".
This is one of the most pissed I've ever gotten over a show and the maddest I've ever gotten over a star rating.
I did exactly what he asked for and he rated me poorly because I literally couldn't read his fucking mind.
Ever since then, and its been a few years, I preface every sph with "Sure, Ill do SPH but just know going in it will be SPH, I dont care how big your dick is once Im in the mood your cock is going small" and you would be shocked how many leave my room after I say that, which is fine by me because those are a literal no win situation. Its real fucking annoying because SPH/Femdom is literally %90 of my client base.
Dreamqueen
03-13-2022, 10:24 PM
i get that too but it evens out within a few seconds
does yours stay like that the whole stream?
Yes, the entire time that I'm streaming.
already? still going on that? what time Seattle time or UK time? :) ty just avoid panic if something happen
To calculate, it's one hour later than it's been. So, if cutoff for you was 7 pm, it's now 8.
bigbum
03-13-2022, 10:24 PM
Allot of the "big dick" (normal or slightly over+) SPH guys just want you to go into chat and say "OMG! I cant SPH you!! Your penis is GREAT! Its the most beautiful dick EVER!"
I know this for a fact because I do a TON of SPH/Femdom stuff, and noticed on occasion I would do SPH and get a 1 star after, after a few different guys did this I messaged one and said "I noticed you rated me one star, just wondering why as I wanted to improve show quality" or some bullshit.
And he said "im really sorry, i just walked away from our show feeling pretty bad about myself. I guess when i went into it i did not fully understand the whole concept of sph and maybe i thought i could handle or but part of me thought that you would see me and try to change the pace of the show but when you didnt it was a pretty big bust to my ego and even now i still feel pretty bad about it".
This is one of the most pissed I've ever gotten over a show and the maddest I've ever gotten over a star rating.
I did exactly what he asked for and he rated me poorly because I literally couldn't read his fucking mind.
Ever since then, and its been a few years, I preface every sph with "Sure, Ill do SPH but just know going in it will be SPH, I dont care how big your dick is once Im in the mood your cock is going small" and you would be shocked how many leave my room after I say that, which is fine by me because those are a literal no win situation. Its real fucking annoying because SPH/Femdom is literally %90 of my client base.
also i want to add that if its with c2c they really want to record it and upload it to clip sites.
this happened to another model on sm (I found the vid and sent it sm to take it down because it up set me to see models being used like that)
thats why i really dont like doing it. they record , upload and there you are everywhere online complimenting some asshole prick.
or insulting him. either way it worries me. i mean a gold show its like yeah we get it will be stolen and uploaded. but this is different.
idk maybe i care too much but yeah.
Ambercat
03-13-2022, 11:09 PM
Yes, the entire time that I'm streaming.
To calculate, it's one hour later than it's been. So, if cutoff for you was 7 pm, it's now 8.
It's not 1hr later for all of us yet. UK and Europe haven't moved to summer time clocks and won't do so for another couple of weeks.
Streamate runs on GMT and you can check this using the clock on your streaming page.
Luci Fer
03-14-2022, 12:28 AM
And he said "im really sorry, i just walked away from our show feeling pretty bad about myself. I guess when i went into it i did not fully understand the whole concept of sph and maybe i thought i could handle or but part of me thought that you would see me and try to change the pace of the show but when you didnt it was a pretty big bust to my ego and even now i still feel pretty bad about it".
Mwahahahah it's so great though! I am sorry for 1 star rating, but you did that dude. I mean you literally DID him! Until this day he probably looks in his pants and feels....a bit unsure.;D
Strawberryblonde
03-14-2022, 12:16 PM
^^^Okay after spending forever with support (and having to pay) they fixed it and said a bunch of drivers needed to be updated. I wouldn't have thought that that would be the case with a brand new laptop but what do I know. All I know is this happened after an update was installed last night, I was trying to see if I could undo that update first but couldn't figure it out and called tech. I just got a notification that my laptop needs another update and I just paused all updates for a couple weeks because I'm scared it's going to happen again.
I obsessively check everything, updates first thing in the morning or last thing at night - Windows Update plus the manufacturer update tool. It's a pain in the neck but reduces the hanging/problems when they all catch up with you. Brand new laptop needed lots of updates when I first opened it, then one or two weeks later. The Windows updates can be a frequent as twice weekly, but mostly monthly.
Then I check other software Skype, Zoom, anything else followed by phones.
looklovely
03-14-2022, 02:12 PM
Anyone want to exchange tags that has a members account?
I just left tags on a model as requested. Feel free to DM me.
Genoveve
03-14-2022, 03:09 PM
I obsessively check everything, updates first thing in the morning or last thing at night - Windows Update plus the manufacturer update tool. It's a pain in the neck but reduces the hanging/problems when they all catch up with you. Brand new laptop needed lots of updates when I first opened it, then one or two weeks later. The Windows updates can be a frequent as twice weekly, but mostly monthly.
Then I check other software Skype, Zoom, anything else followed by phones.
What do you mean though? How and what do you obsessively check to prevent issues?
AuroraJade
03-14-2022, 03:45 PM
also i want to add that if its with c2c they really want to record it and upload it to clip sites.
this happened to another model on sm (I found the vid and sent it sm to take it down because it up set me to see models being used like that)
thats why i really dont like doing it. they record , upload and there you are everywhere online complimenting some asshole prick.
or insulting him. either way it worries me. i mean a gold show its like yeah we get it will be stolen and uploaded. but this is different.
idk maybe i care too much but yeah.
This is also why I don't do dick ratings. They do it with dick ratings A LOT. You will def get recorded if you do them on the regular, they make whole compilations out of it.
TBF I think dick rating is a stupid fetish anyway... I mean men can gush over a pretty pussy for hours... To us women a dick is just a dick. Unless the dick is attached to a handsome and sweet man.
Luci Fer
03-14-2022, 07:09 PM
TBF I think dick rating is a stupid fetish anyway... I mean men can gush over a pretty pussy for hours... To us women a dick is just a dick. Unless the dick is attached to a handsome and sweet man.
I agree that the fetish is silly, because mostly they just want to be praised. They likely won't appreciate some deep detailed review about their dicks, full of examples, diagrams, references and the quotes from the most famous scientists of our century ;D
But for me dick is not just a dick. I differ them. I've seen some which were "ewwww, take this stupid thing away and never show it again" and some which were "wow this is interesting, give it to me" . There are the shapes I like more than others too. But honestly when I was younger they were all the same for me. Like 'dick is just a dick", yeah. Now, when I got more experienced, I 've become a picky hoe ;D
Dreamqueen
03-14-2022, 09:15 PM
I love how comments that guys write show up shortly after the show.
They used to take weeks to show up.
Good job Streamate. :thumbsup:
Vlodina
03-15-2022, 04:09 AM
Just clicked on earnings and there's two tips from about an hour ago that never showed up in my room. :/
Vlodina
03-15-2022, 05:28 AM
Having a look on the site to see a girl with a sign behind her with cashapp and paypal usernames on it, telling them to tip her there. :O
fetishqueen
03-15-2022, 06:04 AM
Having a look on the site to see a girl with a sign behind her with cashapp and paypal usernames on it, telling them to tip her there. :O
I see her too. >:(
Not to mention the fact that Paypal don't approve of anything adult related at all, seems a bit risky to me. Why do people still continue to break the rules so blatantly?
Susperia
03-15-2022, 08:06 AM
Speaking of the dick rating fetish and SPH.......I had some older man come into a pvt show then turn on his cam and he's like "what do you think of that" I was like "I only like big dicks" and he seemed offended. Of course his dick was rather on the small side....but what the fuck.....then I had to lie and say it was big. Super annoying.
Cutie101
03-15-2022, 08:22 AM
Speaking of the dick rating fetish and SPH.......I had some older man come into a pvt show then turn on his cam and he's like "what do you think of that" I was like "I only like big dicks" and he seemed offended. Of course his dick was rather on the small side....but what the fuck.....then I had to lie and say it was big. Super annoying.
I wouldn't have lied, he legit asked what do you think, lololololol. And if he was being that offended, i would have said "if you tip 50 extra, maybe it will look bigger" :))))))) ahahahahahahaa!!!