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Erika_Xstacy
03-18-2022, 09:48 AM
I received MP yesterday
I am stopping that service. when i transfer im prompted that i don't have enough money and have to do it a few times. that is not a good feeling

waogtrain
03-18-2022, 10:25 AM
I wasn't able to stream or get paid until they verified my address. It would have been nice if they were more upfront about that. Thankfully it only took a couple days to get approved again but it was very stressful and I didn't get paid this week. Waiting on support to get back to me with reassurance that I will be getting both payments next week.

roseforarose
03-18-2022, 10:39 AM
Thank you! and no options with cryptowallets?

I believe there's a bitcoin option and a binance option or something? I've never looked into it properly though as I don't typically use bitcoin

roseforarose
03-18-2022, 10:39 AM
Anyone get their masspay? Mine is still processing, usually comes in by now I wonder why it is so slow this time around

I got mine yesterday but later than I usually do

whirlerz
03-18-2022, 11:41 AM
no
it involves personal info


Thank you so much!
This idiot told me I could. ::)

liquidsilk
03-18-2022, 01:06 PM
You can transfer to a US bank account for like 3 dollars or something on mass pay

izshadow
03-18-2022, 01:08 PM
My migraine may win today. I hate wasting this makeup though. Ugh.

Halestorm
03-18-2022, 01:10 PM
My migraine may win today. I hate wasting this makeup though. Ugh.

take some pics!

izshadow
03-18-2022, 01:12 PM
take some pics!

That is a good idea!

Erika_Xstacy
03-18-2022, 01:51 PM
Thank you so much!
This idiot told me I could. ::)

these guys give no fucks

when we block from messenger do they not show up in the block list?

MissAdriana
03-18-2022, 02:43 PM
I got mine yesterday but later than I usually do

Thanks hun, usually it seems to be 24 hours exactly for me give or take an hour, one time it was in within 12 hrs. I wonder if it's the bank that makes it slower sometimes

fetishqueen
03-18-2022, 03:24 PM
You can transfer to a US bank account for like 3 dollars or something on mass pay

When I withdraw to the bank in the UK it costs $4.10 on Masspay. There are several options it seems but that's how I do it, can't remember exactly what it is but it's the fourth one down on the list of withdrawal options. Instant, too.

~Carmen~
03-18-2022, 04:45 PM
these guys give no fucks

when we block from messenger do they not show up in the block list?

Unfortunately not. They are only blocked from messenger.

Jill89
03-19-2022, 02:21 AM
Hi everyone. I would really appreciate any thoughts or advice. I ve been camming for 3 years now while being married. We have a kid together. My husband was fine with me doing it since it was bringing money and i was making much more than he did. Since we were a family and been together for a while i paid off most of his credit cards debt. Long story short, we got in a huge fight and im thinking about filing for divorce. What he is saying i wont be able to get my kid living with me under the same roof cause of me being a webcam model, that im basically just a cyber whore. Which breaks my heart cause he was totally fine with this job while it was paying bills and was giving us all great life. Did any of you went through divorce having kids? I am planning to find a lawyer next week but now I am just not sure how to explain what i do for living and what it can do in regards of custody for my son:(

BuffyFlame
03-19-2022, 03:13 AM
Hi everyone. I would really appreciate any thoughts or advice. I ve been camming for 3 years now while being married. We have a kid together. My husband was fine with me doing it since it was bringing money and i was making much more than he did. Since we were a family and been together for a while i paid off most of his credit cards debt. Long story short, we got in a huge fight and im thinking about filing for divorce. What he is saying i wont be able to get my kid living with me under the same roof cause of me being a webcam model, that im basically just a cyber whore. Which breaks my heart cause he was totally fine with this job while it was paying bills and was giving us all great life. Did any of you went through divorce having kids? I am planning to find a lawyer next week but now I am just not sure how to explain what i do for living and what it can do in regards of custody for my son:(

Does he watch porn? Virtually, the same thing. Legally, watching porn is seen just as morally currupt as doing porn. And porn WATCHING is listed as a reason for %60 of divorces.
Obviously, it would depend on the judge. There ARE risks for doing this type of thing. But there ARE risks for WATCHING porn too. Google "is porn infidelity" and then show him the results.

A friend of mine recently filed for divorce and her husband pulled this sht too. She printed out his google account history and took it to court. The judge (thankfully female) rubbed HIS nose in HIS porn history (which was mostly hardcore) and embarrassed him. Said as long as she wasnt doing it in front of their kids (and him agreeing to her doing it/spending the money) he had NO rights to pull the rug o ut from under her after spending the money, then asked him outloud why his porn habits are so agressive and if he thinks he might have a porn addiction that led his wife to doing it.

Now, again. This depends on the judge/local laws. Im a spiteful woman. If this happened to me, I would in every case print out every dirty deed hes done, and every porn hes ever watch to DISPLAY to the judge how porn dosnt seem to be a problem when HES enjoying it.
Ive been with my husband since we were like 12. In all these years hes only ONCE brought up camming in a argument and was shut down so hard and fast with "You dont mind nutting to porn" / "You dont mind spending porn money" that he never dared this shit again.

Dont do anything illegal. Dont do anything with your kids around. (check with local laws because if your in a area its illegal you might be screwed) Try to be as morally clean as you can otherwise (important to me doing cam) and MOST judges are going to roll their eyes and ask about your actual parenting.
But again, you could get a asshole whos wife left him over his Eaffairs who wants to take it out on you, so if you do go that way get a lawyer. Most will let you pay it off.... And a fking printer!
I dont know your husband, hopefully someone who has no morals SPENDING porn money but does with MAKING porn money is surley just pressing your buttons? If not, hes a real genuine jerk and needs to be spoon fed the reality of porn WATCING/MAKING in the eyes of the law. Sorry if this is typed poorly my keyboard is broke.

Jill89
03-19-2022, 06:33 AM
Thanks for your support, i really needed it! Still shocked he brought it up. Im in US so i assume its legal unless it goes by state.I ve been camming for over 3 years.And he does watch porn and was himself promoting my page on twitter and took pictures for OF, we did B/G video for my good customers too. Thats what i hate he was loving the money i made but now he puts it against me. I dont do anything illegal especially around my kid, dont have anything on me but parking tickets years back.

whirlerz
03-19-2022, 07:28 AM
Thanks for your support, i really needed it! Still shocked he brought it up. Im in US so i assume its legal unless it goes by state.I ve been camming for over 3 years.And he does watch porn and was himself promoting my page on twitter and took pictures for OF, we did B/G video for my good customers too. Thats what i hate he was loving the money i made but now he puts it against me. I dont do anything illegal especially around my kid, dont have anything on me but parking tickets years back.

I'm definitely in your corner!
Have you consulted w/attorney?

Some area have a free (limited) legal services, mine you can call Mon -Thurs 8 am -noon only, staffed by volunteer attorneys

Or try nolo.com, ask around for a caseworker in your area, good luck!

Jill89
03-19-2022, 07:45 AM
Thank you so much! I didnt yet as it just happened last night, been waiting for Monday. Will look for one now.

MissAdriana
03-19-2022, 08:49 AM
Still waiting on mine, it’s now nearly 5pm here. It’s usually in by 2pm.

Did you get yours hun? Mine came in last night while I was sleeping the message woke me up LOL

waogtrain
03-19-2022, 10:40 AM
I was trying to check my offline placement but it looks like we need to have a customer account to do that now. Streamate only shows online models and when you click "show offline models" it prompts you to sign up with an account.

kamiliam
03-19-2022, 10:51 AM
I got a message from a guy I blocked a couple of years ago, at the time blocked him via old messenger then from chat. Now on the updated one he is able to message me again. Checked block list and he was only still blocked from chat. I fixed that but noticed my block list has reduced from nearly 1300 to under 1000. Obviously some accounts will be purged just like favorites, but that is a large chuck of people I didn’t want contact with who appear to have access to me again.

I know guys were working around the block when they introduced the two different types but never noticed this depletion of my block list till they merged.

looklovely
03-19-2022, 02:33 PM
I recently opened a customer account, didn't spend anything but my credit card was charged $14. Is there a fee for members now?

Also, if anyone wants to exchange tags we can do that, DM me. I already did it for one model.

Carmel57
03-19-2022, 02:42 PM
Did you get yours hun? Mine came in last night while I was sleeping the message woke me up LOL
Yes I did, I messaged them and by the time I got a reply it was in. Phew.

freya_jade_
03-19-2022, 11:40 PM
Thanks for your support, i really needed it! Still shocked he brought it up. Im in US so i assume its legal unless it goes by state.I ve been camming for over 3 years.And he does watch porn and was himself promoting my page on twitter and took pictures for OF, we did B/G video for my good customers too. Thats what i hate he was loving the money i made but now he puts it against me. I dont do anything illegal especially around my kid, dont have anything on me but parking tickets years back.

Oh if he's made stuff WITH you then he has absolutely nothing to go off of here.

bigbum
03-20-2022, 12:21 AM
Pondosinatra----Hey sexy, sorry, I'm boycotting this site as they've banned Russian cam girls.
Hypocrisy is everywhere as I don't recall them banning US cam girls for all the bullshit invasions the US has done over the years.
i dont have his id number . ugg
block this fucking troll.
stirring up crap during contest week.... just what we all need.
i love my russian model friends. but free chat and trolling isnt going to solve things.

bigbum
03-20-2022, 12:41 AM
omgg i am in the top 20! lol i am sure ill be in the bottom 1000 by tomorrow. but hey !!

BuffyFlame
03-20-2022, 02:36 AM
Im actually curious how the russian model ban is going to effect SM/MFC/OFs . Those are all owned by NATO nations and have banned camgirls.
Theyve banned the russian members as well.

Because there are so many Russian cam girls there are a HUGE amount of Russian MEMBERS as well. I mean, last time I looked it was up there in the top 3 by group and those top 3 made up like %90 of all traffic.
That means SM/MFC/OFs has lost a around 1 third of their member/model base all at once. Less models (and those who charge less) will inevitably result in less member traffic, even if they wernt our direct clientele.
I think this will greatly hurt these cam sites in the long run. Less foot traffic is less foot traffic at the end of the day. Even if they mostly stuck to the Russain girls, its going to cut site funding/advertising/etc..
All in all, I feel like im seeing it. I /feel/ like there is less altogether traffic, even though im still getting traffic my potential/overall room traffic has been spotty.
Anyone have any opinions on this. Not in terms of the war, I just mean strictly as camgirls who make most of our money this way. I know it sounds shitty to even say youre thinking of your job when it comes to war but its something I really cant help but consider.

Luci Fer
03-20-2022, 04:25 AM
Im actually curious how the russian model ban is going to effect SM/MFC/OFs . Those are all owned by NATO nations and have banned camgirls.
Theyve banned the russian members as well.

Because there are so many Russian cam girls there are a HUGE amount of Russian MEMBERS as well. I mean, last time I looked it was up there in the top 3 by group and those top 3 made up like %90 of all traffic.
That means SM/MFC/OFs has lost a around 1 third of their member/model base all at once. Less models (and those who charge less) will inevitably result in less member traffic, even if they wernt our direct clientele.
I think this will greatly hurt these cam sites in the long run. Less foot traffic is less foot traffic at the end of the day. Even if they mostly stuck to the Russain girls, its going to cut site funding/advertising/etc..
All in all, I feel like im seeing it. I /feel/ like there is less altogether traffic, even though im still getting traffic my potential/overall room traffic has been spotty.
Anyone have any opinions on this. Not in terms of the war, I just mean strictly as camgirls who make most of our money this way. I know it sounds shitty to even say youre thinking of your job when it comes to war but its something I really cant help but consider.

no, no, I get what you mean here. You don't sound cynical. I thought about it, too. So MFC and OF also banned them? :( Coz I started to suspect like SM was owned by american Senate or president hahahaha
I also thought there were so many russian cammers, really on certain hours on SM 2 pages were full of them, and now what?
But what could SM/OF/MFC do anyways if someone in government told them to do it? I bet if there were no restrictions, SM would not care about the politics and let russian girls cam.
Also...honestly, since january 2022 I started to have many shitty shifts on SM. At first I blamed myself for laziness, but then I checked out my weekly hours and found out I put the same amount of time (sometimes even more hrs), but my income per week decreased almost 50%. You probably remember I posted here about guys jerking it off too quickly in shows.

I never felt there was amazing traffic in my room (before that war shit), yet I always managed to earn stable and decent $. Really like a fucking clock. I always set my goals and managed to reach them. Maybe it's me, but I feel like something has changed in january, before the war and all that shit. Maybe I burnt out, who knows. I had no proper vacay since 2019 lol :(
Russian girls migrated to the sites that let them work by now. If this shitty war ends, maybe there is a (very, very small) chance that everything would be back. But being a realist...I doubt :(
I agree that it hurts these sites now. As for members - idk. I am sure there were russian webbies who worked as affiliates for SM and others, they were probably banned too, so it might mean less traffic at first. But I think it will be fine eventually, because new girls from other countries signing up to cam every day. So money is always there, I just feel like the ways they (money) are rolling in the business have changed.
I might delete the post, so please don't quote:)

BuffyFlame
03-20-2022, 05:46 AM
no, no, I get what you mean here. You don't sound cynical. I thought about it, too. So MFC and OF also banned them? :( Coz I started to suspect like SM was owned by american Senate or president hahahaha
I also thought there were so many russian cammers, really on certain hours on SM 2 pages were full of them, and now what?
But what could SM/OF/MFC do anyways if someone in government told them to do it? I bet if there were no restrictions, SM would not care about the politics and let russian girls cam.
Also...honestly, since january 2022 I started to have many shitty shifts on SM. At first I blamed myself for laziness, but then I checked out my weekly hours and found out I put the same amount of time (sometimes even more hrs), but my income per week decreased almost 50%. You probably remember I posted here about guys jerking it off too quickly in shows.

I never felt there was amazing traffic in my room (before that war shit), yet I always managed to earn stable and decent $. Really like a fucking clock. I always set my goals and managed to reach them. Maybe it's me, but I feel like something has changed in january, before the war and all that shit. Maybe I burnt out, who knows. I had no proper vacay since 2019 lol :(
Russian girls migrated to the sites that let them work by now. If this shitty war ends, maybe there is a (very, very small) chance that everything would be back. But being a realist...I doubt :(
I agree that it hurts these sites now. As for members - idk. I am sure there were russian webbies who worked as affiliates for SM and others, they were probably banned too, so it might mean less traffic at first. But I think it will be fine eventually, because new girls from other countries signing up to cam every day. So money is always there, I just feel like the ways they (money) are rolling in the business have changed.
I might delete the post, so please don't quote:)

Same. Unless something has changed MFC/OFs have ties to the UK who are part of the nato ally's and said they will be next to shut off transactional agreements with Russia(online transactional sanctions). I'm not sure if they've implemented it online /yet (as they seem to be taking more time getting their affairs in order) but pretty much all of the NATO allies have said they agree to cut off Russia financially, and wont support transactions curing/going from them to Russia. Canada, Uk, US and Germany amongst the biggest chunks who agreed to it.
But Russia had a bigger client base on camming than UK/Germany combined.

On top of that Russia announcing they will phase out "international internet", meaning they too will not allow their residents to broadcast outside of their country, and it just guarantees in the end all of camming loses the Russian client base. Which is a HUGE chunk of the client base.

I'm burnt out too. I get more so the more I broad cast with low room numbers. Hell even basic members who don't chat coming in/out at least give me hope of making a sell.
And no SM wouldn't care for the Russian models (or their paying client base) to keep working if they didn't HAVE to give them up. Its so useless. The government punishing the citizens to "send a message" to their leader who clearly doesn't care if his citizens suffer/rise/revolt and loves dishing out punishment for doing just that.
I mean, i get large corporations like McDonalds whos pulled out of Russia, but small independent workers (cam, ebay, streamers, ect) and starving THEM at in hopes that.. what? One of them gets made enough at Putin to force him to change his mind? is silly.

I dont think citizens realize just how big the Russian market is. Especially in Etrade. Small business runners like Ebay/netflix/Amazon ect dont realize that THEY are the ones who are going to be punished, not the corporations. All those coaptations have russian outlets. aka Ebay-Russia, NetflixRussia, AmazonRussia. THEY will all be getting their Russian bottom line, its just the small business NATO/russian workers who are going to be affected. Nobody ever mentions that.

WanderingW
03-20-2022, 06:32 AM
Thanks for your support, i really needed it! Still shocked he brought it up. Im in US so i assume its legal unless it goes by state.I ve been camming for over 3 years.And he does watch porn and was himself promoting my page on twitter and took pictures for OF, we did B/G video for my good customers too. Thats what i hate he was loving the money i made but now he puts it against me. I dont do anything illegal especially around my kid, dont have anything on me but parking tickets years back.If you have proof of him in the Video he does porn too!!

SapphireXO
03-20-2022, 07:35 AM
Hi everyone. I would really appreciate any thoughts or advice. I ve been camming for 3 years now while being married. We have a kid together. My husband was fine with me doing it since it was bringing money and i was making much more than he did. Since we were a family and been together for a while i paid off most of his credit cards debt. Long story short, we got in a huge fight and im thinking about filing for divorce. What he is saying i wont be able to get my kid living with me under the same roof cause of me being a webcam model, that im basically just a cyber whore. Which breaks my heart cause he was totally fine with this job while it was paying bills and was giving us all great life. Did any of you went through divorce having kids? I am planning to find a lawyer next week but now I am just not sure how to explain what i do for living and what it can do in regards of custody for my son:(

There was a model thread about this in the AmberCutieForums. Literally the exact same story. When she went to the custody hearing, her ex tried to destroy her. However, it didn't work and the judge just advised her to possibly pick another career path. It didn't change the ruling. Camming is legal and if you have a seperate camming space that is locked at all times, there is no safety issue to be noted. It's a fear tactic. The thread was in the Daily Model Pondering section if you join and get verified to soothe your mind.

Luci Fer
03-20-2022, 08:00 AM
Same. Unless something has changed MFC/OFs have ties to the UK who are part of the nato ally's and said they will be next to shut off transactional agreements with Russia(online transactional sanctions). I'm not sure if they've implemented it online /yet (as they seem to be taking more time getting their affairs in order) but pretty much all of the NATO allies have said they agree to cut off Russia financially, and wont support transactions curing/going from them to Russia. Canada, Uk, US and Germany amongst the biggest chunks who agreed to it.
But Russia had a bigger client base on camming than UK/Germany combined.

On top of that Russia announcing they will phase out "international internet", meaning they too will not allow their residents to broadcast outside of their country, and it just guarantees in the end all of camming loses the Russian client base. Which is a HUGE chunk of the client base.

I'm burnt out too. I get more so the more I broad cast with low room numbers. Hell even basic members who don't chat coming in/out at least give me hope of making a sell.
And no SM wouldn't care for the Russian models (or their paying client base) to keep working if they didn't HAVE to give them up. Its so useless. The government punishing the citizens to "send a message" to their leader who clearly doesn't care if his citizens suffer/rise/revolt and loves dishing out punishment for doing just that.
I mean, i get large corporations like McDonalds whos pulled out of Russia, but small independent workers (cam, ebay, streamers, ect) and starving THEM at in hopes that.. what? One of them gets made enough at Putin to force him to change his mind? is silly.

I dont think citizens realize just how big the Russian market is. Especially in Etrade. Small business runners like Ebay/netflix/Amazon ect dont realize that THEY are the ones who are going to be punished, not the corporations. All those coaptations have russian outlets. aka Ebay-Russia, NetflixRussia, AmazonRussia. THEY will all be getting their Russian bottom line, its just the small business NATO/russian workers who are going to be affected. Nobody ever mentions that.

I can't imagine they would create their inner live cam thing, because I 've always thought that russians would never pay for cam sites (as clients). The main clientele are mostly americans, brits, germans...scandinavians. Well, unless you have different experience than me and really have some paying russian customers. There are russian cam sites ofc, but idk how are the things going there.
But I know, people always find the ways. For example I wonder, how chinese models manage to cam. They are from isolated country, they have isolated internet afaik (the great chinese firewall, as they call it) and yet they cam, and so many chinese girls are successful top models on Stripchat, for example. I think they all use VPNs.

But I agree with you and think the same. It's very unprofitable for the small business. All that- broadcasting, streaming, using Instagram (for adult and non-adult) business,using paypal, using Etsy have evolved so well in russia and it's silly to divide borderless things such as the internet. I just pray that your opinion will magically get to their dumb heads somehow so they solve their "bigger dick" contest without fucking international economy up and without harming citizens of both countries anymore.
I am planning to take a vacay soon, because I don't want to let myself burn out.

Luci Fer
03-20-2022, 08:06 AM
There was a model thread about this in the AmberCutieForums. Literally the exact same story. When she went to the custody hearing, her ex tried to destroy her. However, it didn't work and the judge just advised her to possibly pick another career path. It didn't change the ruling. Camming is legal and if you have a seperate camming space that is locked at all times, there is no safety issue to be noted. It's a fear tactic. The thread was in the Daily Model Pondering section if you join and get verified to soothe your mind.

oh, it's great. Because wow.. how low must be a man that can do such things to his woman? I hope Jill will be okay!

Genoveve
03-20-2022, 09:39 AM
Im actually curious how the russian model ban is going to effect SM/MFC/OFs . Those are all owned by NATO nations and have banned camgirls.
Theyve banned the russian members as well.

Who banned Russian camgirls? I haven't heard of Russian chicks being banned off any camsites but I haven't been specifically searching for the info. I hope that's not the case. I have been wondering what their options are for receiving pay with more and more digital banking services being cut from Russia. I was watching a Russian youtuber who was saying that he has no way to get paid by Youtube now and that all streamers and anyone whose income was coming from a country outside of Russia are now fucked.

fetishqueen
03-20-2022, 09:45 AM
Afternoon ladies! I'm interested in whether you would have stopped this Exclusive, it's a new one on me!

Guy comes through, turns on cam and he's driving. Actually driving, not in passenger seat. Phone is on the dash and he says he just wants dirty talk and tits then pussy. Perfect for my normal show, no problem! But I'm thinking it's really not safe, for him or other people on the road. I got my tits out but then he wanted pussy and I just thought no, I have a responsibility here. So I told him he would have to come back if he parked and we ended the show.

I should probably say this was in the US, here in the UK all phone usage while driving is banned I believe but not sure about there. But that's beside the point, would I want to be driving near to a guy who was stroking his dick to camgirls instead of watching the traffic? Fuck no!

What would you have done?

VVV
03-20-2022, 10:56 AM
so just wondering to change my flag in Us one to get maybe more money lol and less boring meeting up requests? actually a brit flag!
i can not never get a nice position in contest if my rate are low eheh 3.54pvt 5.24exc
i think i am pretty i won once a contest 1k so i think i got some potential but maybe is wrong if i look more expansive fees guys maybe give you more value like luxury objet ???? :P
should change flag and price like 5pvt 6excl? take that risk? ty all :P

just to know i do anal, dp, atm and blabla

JustMilfnAround
03-20-2022, 11:06 AM
Afternoon ladies! I'm interested in whether you would have stopped this Exclusive, it's a new one on me!

Guy comes through, turns on cam and he's driving. Actually driving, not in passenger seat. Phone is on the dash and he says he just wants dirty talk and tits then pussy. Perfect for my normal show, no problem! But I'm thinking it's really not safe, for him or other people on the road. I got my tits out but then he wanted pussy and I just thought no, I have a responsibility here. So I told him he would have to come back if he parked and we ended the show.

I should probably say this was in the US, here in the UK all phone usage while driving is banned I believe but not sure about there. But that's beside the point, would I want to be driving near to a guy who was stroking his dick to camgirls instead of watching the traffic? Fuck no!

What would you have done?

I've had that happen and did the same exact thing you did. I think you made the right call!

Ambercat
03-20-2022, 12:38 PM
I've ended shows and booted guys from my free room for telling me they're driving with one hand on the wheel and are messaging me and touching them self. I always suggest they pull over immediately but for whatever reason guys that do this think it's cool.

bigbum
03-20-2022, 04:29 PM
i never bother with contests... but this time im in the top 50.
i hope to make the top 100 this week fingers crossed
all the traffic dropped off for me the past few hours. but im not giving up.

maybe it will be my lucky week.
its so great to hear that others are doing well. i love this positive energy here in the SM thread lately

lets make this an amazing spring.


xoox

bigbum
03-20-2022, 04:31 PM
Who banned Russian camgirls? I haven't heard of Russian chicks being banned off any camsites but I haven't been specifically searching for the info. I hope that's not the case. I have been wondering what their options are for receiving pay with more and more digital banking services being cut from Russia. I was watching a Russian youtuber who was saying that he has no way to get paid by Youtube now and that all streamers and anyone whose income was coming from a country outside of Russia are now fucked.

hopefully our russian sisters will be ok during this time. i hope they all have savings.
just imagine how we feel when our account is suspended. or traffic drops off .
it must be like that x10.
maybe they can try bonga cam or livejasmin?

FloridaSunDoll
03-20-2022, 09:04 PM
so just wondering to change my flag in Us one to get maybe more money lol and less boring meeting up requests? actually a brit flag!
i can not never get a nice position in contest if my rate are low eheh 3.54pvt 5.24exc
i think i am pretty i won once a contest 1k so i think i got some potential but maybe is wrong if i look more expansive fees guys maybe give you more value like luxury objet ???? :P
should change flag and price like 5pvt 6excl? take that risk? ty all :P

just to know i do anal, dp, atm and blabla

definitely up those prices!

BuffyFlame
03-21-2022, 02:12 AM
I dont do anal, DP, Atm or deepthroat and I charge 9 a minuet for both pvt/exc. I move it around some, but usually always return to around this price.

I dont care if cheaper guys arnt interested in private with me. Those types will feed off of you and abuse you until there is nothing left, then click off to the next girl.

Dont get me wrong, if you enjoy doing those things they are for SURE an edge! Quality shows over quantity, for sure. I dont mind doing a bit of anal play for a client if they buy a long enough show (meaning time to put on lidocaine lube, let it kick in, ect) and never with toys.
But Im personally just not into anal. It hurts pretty bad for me. I dont do it in bed either. It sucks that people think its just a "shove it in" type of thing like with the vag. Its for SURE a "add on" package and they should have to pay extra fees.

Ive always dreamed of a "add onn pvt" type of payment system. like/

bronze. $5a min Dirty talk, stripping, no penetration.
Silver $6.50 a min, above +fingering +non-taboo roleplay
Gold $8 a min above +dildos+dirtier roleplays +fetish stuff
Platinum $10 Above +anal +gagging +you can cuss me out
Dirty $4 -- I watch Netflix in the background with my mic muted.

Obviously you would set your own boundaries. I know girls who wouldnt dirty talk/Strip for under $10 a minuet. Wish it were me :( I do something like this with block sessions now.

roseforarose
03-21-2022, 06:00 AM
I recently opened a customer account, didn't spend anything but my credit card was charged $14. Is there a fee for members now?

Also, if anyone wants to exchange tags we can do that, DM me. I already did it for one model.


I can't see if someone answered this but I believe there's sometimes a sneaky/hidden charge. Membership itself is free, but somewhere during signing up you either tick or untick a box to sign up to another thing, and that's what the charge is. I've not had it myself (don't have a member account) but there's a decent amount of people who've talked about it on the ambercutie forum if you want more info on it

Erika_Xstacy
03-21-2022, 11:49 AM
Hi everyone. I would really appreciate any thoughts or advice. I ve been camming for 3 years now while being married. We have a kid together. My husband was fine with me doing it since it was bringing money and i was making much more than he did. Since we were a family and been together for a while i paid off most of his credit cards debt. Long story short, we got in a huge fight and im thinking about filing for divorce. What he is saying i wont be able to get my kid living with me under the same roof cause of me being a webcam model, that im basically just a cyber whore. Which breaks my heart cause he was totally fine with this job while it was paying bills and was giving us all great life. Did any of you went through divorce having kids? I am planning to find a lawyer next week but now I am just not sure how to explain what i do for living and what it can do in regards of custody for my son:(

First of all get emergency cudtody of your child. My X tried keeping our youngest from me bc neither one of us had emergency custody. I had her back within 24 hours.

Your attorney will guide you. Don’t hold nothing from your attorney.We are in a legitimate adult business. I went through 3 attorneys until I found one that would fight for me.
Keep receipts for everything you fund.
I was up against a married couple with two regular well
Paying jobs
if your husband is broke you will be able to corner him into a agreement.

Be on the lookout for drama:
I was visited by social services over a dozen times in a 3 year period bc that’s how long it was taking. Continued court etc.
I was drug tested. He tried telling social services I do drugs. For Christ sakes, I smoke weed.
I was followed by a private investigator.
They were going hard on me
When my job came into question
The judge asked him why he was ok w my job before but now it’s a problem bc he wants custody? He had no answer and she looked disgusted. She informed him my job was completely legal and he was harassing me as far as she was concerned and if he brought it up again she'd throw the case out of court.

I had a female attorney that kept holding off the case until we were assigned a female judge. She was sure a woman judge would not be concerned about my job and she was correct

You will need witnesses such as friends, ppl in the community etc
I pulled in daycare workers, camp counselors, school counselors, teachers. I had his family subpoenaed to court to testify on my side and these ppl had no clue what my job was they were just testifying about my parenting.

I wish you the best of luck bc it’s hell.
I’m in the Bible Belt. Our job is not acceptable at all but it’s not illegal.

whirlerz
03-21-2022, 12:00 PM
I just want to add^ I can relate, to EE!

My sitch is somewhat similar, but for me it involved the care of not kids, I had authorities stopping by, out of the blue visits from state ppl.

I was told, we can remove ___ from your care, & place them somewhere & not tell you?

Also, this one kind person (sarcasm) showed up randomly, kept reminding me she could do that, I said "Ok, I know" I knew it was an intimidation tactic.

I was a scared but hid it well.

Also, there was a group legal service I joined, Idk if they work w/all things but they were helpful.

Good luck!

Erika_Xstacy
03-21-2022, 12:07 PM
It’s all to scare us.
I had to learn to Hold my head high.
It’s very intimidating to have the whole world judge us

whirlerz
03-21-2022, 12:27 PM
Another time, I was getting my sticker for car windshield (city sticker) the city hall was busy, it was near the end of the due date..

I didn't have my current docs, but had last years, +I had lived there some years they had trouble finding me in the system..

Again, another authority figure, kept trying to stir up trouble by saying, "Idk why ppl can't have their proper documentation" & glaring my way..

I just kept my head turned away, the lady at the counter kept apologizing, I just told her to take her time, NBD.
Eventually, it go straightened out, but damn.

Erika_Xstacy
03-21-2022, 01:59 PM
Another time, I was getting my sticker for car windshield (city sticker) the city hall was busy, it was near the end of the due date..

I didn't have my current docs, but had last years, +I had lived there some years they had trouble finding me in the system..

Again, another authority figure, kept trying to stir up trouble by saying, "Idk why ppl can't have their proper documentation" & glaring my way..

I just kept my head turned away, the lady at the counter kept apologizing, I just told her to take her time, NBD.
Eventually, it go straightened out, but damn.
a huge trigger for me is authority figure with a attitude.
its not about a payscale, what taxes i pay, what they do for a living none of that its about having a attitude while having a certain rank.

social services like to ruffle their feathers and come off as superior when truth is most hate their job. its stressful. i felt sorry for them bc they really do deal w crazy homes

VVV
03-21-2022, 03:18 PM
definitely up those prices!

thank you @Florida and @BuffyFlame did it. tbh i think i need to work on myself and i should not understimate/value myself. xx

bigbum
03-21-2022, 03:56 PM
thank you @Florida and @BuffyFlame did it. tbh i think i need to work on myself and i should not understimate/value myself. xx
remmeber you def need to wait a bit to see if it works out . during a contest week might not reflect as well your new price change and earnings vs next week or the week after. so hang in there to get an overall feel for the change in price to change in income!