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Genoveve
04-09-2022, 11:38 AM
https://www.amazon.com/Cat-Ethernet-Cable-White-Connectors/dp/B00WD017GQ/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?crid=3HPUUAM3OQIM&keywords=extra+long+ethernet+cable&qid=1649529466&sprefix=extra+long+ethe%2Caps%2C118&sr=8-3
Damn there’s really no limit.
kiki399
04-09-2022, 11:40 AM
Damn, that is one sexy upload speed!
OMG! You made me laugh so hard, I needed that. Did you try to reset your router? I had an issue the other day and now I am getting them sexy numbers. That was great, Im still laughing
Smurfette
04-09-2022, 11:41 AM
50 feet? Damn, that would do it lol
Genoveve
04-09-2022, 11:42 AM
+1 on resetting the router, that can fix random internet glitches.
whirlerz
04-09-2022, 12:06 PM
50 feet? Damn, that would do it lol
I've a 75', previously had a 50'.
35 or so ft from my room to router in kitchen, I like have extra cord, + it's up high on the wall. :)
kamiliam
04-09-2022, 02:10 PM
when someone insults me in free chat i know its a model. most Guys don't want to come off as incel behaviour.
members get snarky when we ignore them and that's about it
The guys get dirty when they don’t get what they want. Ignoring them, telling them no, and not being able to afford what they want all bring out the insults from them. The models are out here passive aggressively battering down right as they enter.
Genoveve
04-09-2022, 02:27 PM
^^^Mine are always men. There was ONE time where, I can't remember what their insult was, but whatever it was and the way they delivered it immediately read as a salty female to me.
kamiliam
04-09-2022, 02:45 PM
^^^Mine are always men. There was ONE time where, I can't remember what their insult was, but whatever it was and the way they delivered it immediately read as a salty female to me.
I think we all have a sixth sense about it, based mostly on the responses we know we get when people are triggered by us.
whirlerz
04-09-2022, 03:13 PM
Shrugs
I can't tell either way..
I boot or ban..
The other day, one came in complaining about my prices, I usually boot, but I just ignored & it left
Genoveve
04-09-2022, 03:14 PM
Well I had a guy c2cing in his mom's lingerie. No big deal. He tells me he is high af and planning on getting higher, again no big deal because chances are he means marijuana. Then he leans over and starts doing lines. Goodbye sir.
Erika_Xstacy
04-09-2022, 03:30 PM
The guys get dirty when they don’t get what they want. Ignoring them, telling them no, and not being able to afford what they want all bring out the insults from them. The models are out here passive aggressively battering down right as they enter.
i had the "ewww fat blob" yesterday and then a member said your beautiful w a ding to go private ::)
emkato
04-09-2022, 07:36 PM
i had the "ewww fat blob" yesterday and then a member said your beautiful w a ding to go private ::)
Love this! Lol
Some men are so shallow and brainwashed by society telling them who and what they are allowed to be attracted to, that seeing a confident sexy women that THEY deem "unattractive" getting a ton of positive male attention makes their heads explode lol.
bigbum
04-09-2022, 11:18 PM
I am pretty sure it's SM again!! I have emailed Liz several times, but still never heard back from support. I emailed her again just now because it's not us.
5699056991
literally i have the exact same issue.
bigbum
04-09-2022, 11:21 PM
50 feet? Damn, that would do it lol
keep in mind there is a limit to how long it can be before it stops working the tech told me it was 100 meters . up to 100 meters.
Strawberryblonde
04-10-2022, 04:22 AM
I am pretty sure it's SM again!! I have emailed Liz several times, but still never heard back from support. I emailed her again just now because it's not us.
5699056991
I was getting this and assumed it was my internet, restarted router, contacted ISP through an automated system, improved.
But before that had a cam session on another site absolutely fine(customer contacted me externally (which you can do on that site afterwards))
When I looked on SM I was very pixellated it was awful.
One customer in free (not spending that day) was actually quite quite horrible about it, blamed my equipment was patronising, said it was my PC, reboot, must have full memory. I'm using a brand new high spec machine, had only been online a few minutes, everything updated and I purposely keep the memory fairly empty. I'm wired in do not rely on WiFi. I explained this but he did not listen, kept typing the same things. When he came back later and my stream was good he was still adamant he was only trying to help, and that my machine would have been contributing.
I'm now wondering if this is SM, not my internet (I don't have the opportunity of speeds like the ones in the photo here, but I do have fastest I can buy and SM have confirmed I should not have problems with that or my machine (they asked for speedtest and machine spec when I had log in issues a few months ago)).
whirlerz
04-10-2022, 06:14 AM
i had the "ewww fat blob" yesterday and then a member said your beautiful w a ding to go private ::)
Some ppl are just flat out ignorant! ^
MissAdriana
04-10-2022, 06:40 AM
Pants down error again, got disconnected in the middle of a show, can't connect toy and can't send videos. Gonna be hard to make anything at all on here today. This is why I work so many sites
kiki399
04-10-2022, 10:20 AM
I was getting this and assumed it was my internet, restarted router, contacted ISP through an automated system, improved.
But before that had a cam session on another site absolutely fine(customer contacted me externally (which you can do on that site afterwards))
When I looked on SM I was very pixellated it was awful.
One customer in free (not spending that day) was actually quite quite horrible about it, blamed my equipment was patronising, said it was my PC, reboot, must have full memory. I'm using a brand new high spec machine, had only been online a few minutes, everything updated and I purposely keep the memory fairly empty. I'm wired in do not rely on WiFi. I explained this but he did not listen, kept typing the same things. When he came back later and my stream was good he was still adamant he was only trying to help, and that my machine would have been contributing.
I'm now wondering if this is SM, not my internet (I don't have the opportunity of speeds like the ones in the photo here, but I do have fastest I can buy and SM have confirmed I should not have problems with that or my machine (they asked for speedtest and machine spec when I had log in issues a few months ago)).
Hopefully we hear something back tomorrow from support. Because its NOT us!!!!
MissAdriana
04-10-2022, 10:25 AM
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I am annoyed ladies ... to fill out the big long form for feedback, with tons of detail and info olnly to have support not read it and bot like copy pasta response. I doubt our help from tickets even getting passed on to tech support at all
whirlerz
04-10-2022, 11:31 AM
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I am annoyed ladies ... to fill out the big long form for feedback, with tons of detail and info olnly to have support not read it and bot like copy pasta response. I doubt our help from tickets even getting passed on to tech support at all
Wow, weird, an error contacting support? ^
Idk if I said this earlier, I had to (after stopping my show a bit) get a new screen going, it said error a couple of times.
kiki399
04-10-2022, 12:40 PM
How is everyone's day today, this is the deadest Sunday in the history of working on SM for me, I only been with the site for like 13 years on and off. It's usually my best money day of the week, ill go drink a fucking seltzer or 6 cuz this is killing me!!!
Update i had a hero do a 45 min exc block
for experience changing my flag from Uk to US will change my placement? right? being in UK and working day time so not really the us time can be worst for a business perspective? or i could reach some customers off hours and British looking for Us model??? thank you
Erika_Xstacy
04-10-2022, 03:30 PM
^^^ It can’t hurt to try
I changed mine from US to Canada long long long time ago, it didn’t change my placement but I feel like customers saw me that don’t normally see me or maybe it was just me.
I went back to US lol
Ppl would say I wasn’t from Canada like they got mad demanding to know why I changed up to Canada. Dumbest shit ever
What I was doing was trying to get ppl to stop asking me to meet them. But then Canadians asked like omg stopppp lol
Dreamqueen
04-10-2022, 11:24 PM
How is everyone's day today, this is the deadest Sunday in the history of working on SM for me, I only been with the site for like 13 years on and off. It's usually my best money day of the week, ill go drink a fucking seltzer or 6 cuz this is killing me!!!
Update i had a hero do a 45 min exc block
Glad your hero showed up.
My Sunday was horrific.
It took me 6 hours to make my low goal, and that was on 2 sites!
Plus, my computer started crashing in hour 5.
ggminx
04-11-2022, 06:18 AM
^^^ It can’t hurt to try
I changed mine from US to Canada long long long time ago, it didn’t change my placement but I feel like customers saw me that don’t normally see me or maybe it was just me.
I went back to US lol
Ppl would say I wasn’t from Canada like they got mad demanding to know why I changed up to Canada. Dumbest shit ever
What I was doing was trying to get ppl to stop asking me to meet them. But then Canadians asked like omg stopppp lol
i'm an american living abroad and some of these custies say i need to change my flag bc i'm not american anymore :laughing: it's my passport and accent sooooo i'm keeping the flag on the profile
JessRyan
04-11-2022, 09:46 AM
I wish streamate would send out a message telling us of site maintenance happening. LIKE EVERY OTHER CAMSITE I CAM ON. **eye roll**
I usually upload a couple new videos every Monday morning, and that section of my model dashboard is down. (the picture and video page is down)
JessRyan
04-11-2022, 09:49 AM
okay, now it's back. Why am I even surprised?? When it comes to hiccups on sm, it's never you, or the member. It's ALWAYS the site.
don't let them EVER tell you otherwise.
MissAdriana
04-11-2022, 10:06 AM
Can't get a 5 star rating to even save my life anymore. I am trying so hard to do the best show. It's like they don't even want to be asked what they like, nor do they even want roleplay or outfits or whatever after they say they do, what they really want is you to grab a 15" dildo and jam it in asap it's pathetic I dont want this kind of customer in my chat at all and wish they would stop taking me for shows
whirlerz
04-11-2022, 10:53 AM
Can't get a 5 star rating to even save my life anymore. I am trying so hard to do the best show. It's like they don't even want to be asked what they like, nor do they even want roleplay or outfits or whatever after they say they do, what they really want is you to grab a 15" dildo and jam it in asap it's pathetic I dont want this kind of customer in my chat at all and wish they would stop taking me for shows
Aw.
Don't let em get to you, sometimes theydon't even know WTF they want..
Just keep trying, you'll get some 5 stars!
FloridaSunDoll
04-11-2022, 10:54 AM
Can't get a 5 star rating to even save my life anymore. I am trying so hard to do the best show. It's like they don't even want to be asked what they like, nor do they even want roleplay or outfits or whatever after they say they do, what they really want is you to grab a 15" dildo and jam it in asap it's pathetic I dont want this kind of customer in my chat at all and wish they would stop taking me for shows
I hate the "biggest toy as hard as you can" type. I upped my prices enough that I get way less of those types. Or, I'll say only in block sessions or for extra 25G ect and they usually move along. They are the cheapest guys in my opinion so I can usually get rid of them with expensive prices. Occasionally I'll get one thats a good spender and at least its worth
wonderland1
04-11-2022, 11:16 AM
I hate the "biggest toy as hard as you can" type. I upped my prices enough that I get way less of those types. Or, I'll say only in block sessions or for extra 25G ect and they usually move along. They are the cheapest guys in my opinion so I can usually get rid of them with expensive prices. Occasionally I'll get one thats a good spender and at least its worth
I get this all the time, too, and I just tell them I am not your girl for that. I tell them I have average sized toys and I dont tear up my p*ssy by shoving massive sized toxic toys in it or aggressive toy f*cking and to move along now, to the next model who will. Many times they still want to go private with my average sized toys, lol.
emkato
04-11-2022, 07:07 PM
How is everyone's day today, this is the deadest Sunday in the history of working on SM for me, I only been with the site for like 13 years on and off. It's usually my best money day of the week, ill go drink a fucking seltzer or 6 cuz this is killing me!!!
Update i had a hero do a 45 min exc block
I'm happy you got a whale to make your day, I had a day like that recently where I didn't make hardly any money and then had someone come in and tip for my goddess appreciation several times which was awesome. No one ever tips that much lately so it was refreshing and got me to my low goal.
I miss the time when Sundays were so busy I couldn't even get a moment to breathe beause I was constantly in shows. Its like where tf did the Sunday crowd dissapear to?? Id love to know, ugh
Halestorm
04-11-2022, 08:16 PM
okay, now it's back. Why am I even surprised?? When it comes to hiccups on sm, it's never you, or the member. It's ALWAYS the site.
don't let them EVER tell you otherwise.
i agree 100% !! Its ALWAYS the site! Everytime I complain they say it's on me!
My toy hasn't connected in weeks and they say the problem is on me (its connecting in every other site i cam on)
My stream has been taking 20 minutes to load and start (they said its my internet when every other site is working fine)
Halestorm
04-11-2022, 08:21 PM
I need to vent. These customers are so fucking non-sense. I wonder how these guys are in real life? Seriously.
This member spent lile $50 on me and since then he's been joining my freechat every night to talk about his day. I tell him to take me PVT and he ignores and continues talking. I don't want to kick so I have to take a break everytime he comes.
It's literally the same thing as sitting in a bar and starts talking to the bartender NON STOP! Order no drinks, give no tips, and just keeps talking when that bartender is trying to work! It's rude, nonsense, it's an absurd. These guys are fucking stupid
Lolaki
04-11-2022, 09:18 PM
Is Streamate full of freeloaders lately, or I am the lucky one? :/
Dreamqueen
04-11-2022, 09:23 PM
I need to vent. These customers are so fucking non-sense. I wonder how these guys are in real life? Seriously.
This member spent lile $50 on me and since then he's been joining my freechat every night to talk about his day. I tell him to take me PVT and he ignores and continues talking. I don't want to kick so I have to take a break everytime he comes.
It's literally the same thing as sitting in a bar and starts talking to the bartender NON STOP! Order no drinks, give no tips, and just keeps talking when that bartender is trying to work! It's rude, nonsense, it's an absurd. These guys are fucking stupid
These types of guys piss me off to no end.
I had a new customer buy a show yesterday, then he came back to free chat to hang out, because he ran out of money.
I didn't mind, because as mentioned above Sunday was horrific and took me 5 hours to make my low goal.
He kept my room busy between shows.
He promised to buy a show today, when his credit limit was filled up.
What does he do?
All cam girls reading this will guess correctly.
He entered my chat within minutes of me logging on.
Told me he doesn't have money, and will I be on later?
Later?
I'm here now dude!
He asked if I cam anywhere else, and can he give me his number? :O
He has no intention of spending any more money on me, is my guess.
I could be wrong.
Give a guy an inch (free attention), and he'll take a mile.
I'm REALLY friendly.....until I'm not.
Then, they wish they had never met me.
Lol
Halestorm
04-11-2022, 09:53 PM
If they have no intention in spending then don't even come! We are trying to work and make money.
I'm not online 8hrs a day trying to make friends or meet new people. This is not omegle. I take this is a job very seriously and it's pissing me off these stupid idiots coming trying to chat FOR FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Dreamqueen
04-11-2022, 10:13 PM
If they have no intention in spending then don't even come! We are trying to work and make money.
I'm not online 8hrs a day trying to make friends or meet new people. This is not omegle. I take this is a job very seriously and it's pissing me off these stupid idiots coming trying to chat FOR FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I agree!
I've had guys that I've had lots of shows with come by to say hi.
No. I tell them not to do that.
I explain that this is my JOB. That I work on commission.
I usually can get them to at least tip, because I tell them that they would NEVER just free load, would they?
It's a bit of a guilt trip, but I don't care.
I'm not a charity, and I don't do this job for shits and giggles.
I block so many guys for doing this.
I give them numerous chances.
Then, their time is up.
Vlodina
04-12-2022, 03:52 AM
I have a notice on my dashboard telling me to update my ID. My passport expires in June, I have already renewed it and have the new one.
My question is, if I go ahead and go through verification with my new passport, will I be able to stream in the meantime until it's checked and approved?
MissAdriana
04-12-2022, 06:59 AM
This may sound silly but I fucking love my five stars. It gets me off LOL. So on days where I don't get any ratings I stop my stream and say a little manifestation line. Something like:
"I'm having a great time! I am attracting so much money in all positivity from my customers! Lots of long shows and tip vibe lovers! My customers are amazing and loving our shows! I'm having an amazing time and and receiving all positive great five star ratings, amazing comments, and sexy tags. It is such an amazing time and full of positivity, money, and five stars."
Might sound crazy but I always notice better customers and get my sexy five stars afterwards loll.
Thamk you I am taking it as part of the process
56996
Ladies I think I got my toy going back to normal today. If you are using chrome open settings and go to the "about chrome" page and restart after it updates. It worked for me
laurielegs
04-12-2022, 08:41 AM
I have a notice on my dashboard telling me to update my ID. My passport expires in June, I have already renewed it and have the new one.
My question is, if I go ahead and go through verification with my new passport, will I be able to stream in the meantime until it's checked and approved?
I would email support and tell them those details and ask them before you do so you will know what to expect. I wouldn't put it past the site to pause your stream until it's verified again.
MissAdriana
04-12-2022, 08:49 AM
My question is, if I go ahead and go through verification with my new passport, will I be able to stream in the meantime until it's checked and approved?
Last time I did it I was disabled from streaming, think it was 4 or 5 days
seicento
04-12-2022, 09:33 AM
I have a notice on my dashboard telling me to update my ID. My passport expires in June, I have already renewed it and have the new one.
My question is, if I go ahead and go through verification with my new passport, will I be able to stream in the meantime until it's checked and approved?
I was able to continue streaming, probably because the previous ID was still valid when I uploaded the new one. That was last year.
kiki399
04-12-2022, 09:35 AM
I'm happy you got a whale to make your day, I had a day like that recently where I didn't make hardly any money and then had someone come in and tip for my goddess appreciation several times which was awesome. No one ever tips that much lately so it was refreshing and got me to my low goal.
I miss the time when Sundays were so busy I couldn't even get a moment to breathe beause I was constantly in shows. Its like where tf did the Sunday crowd dissapear to?? Id love to know, ugh
I think it might be NBA I saw all these scores Monday morning but I agree I want our Sunday traffic back. I was sitting for hours just getting rando cheap tips until my whale saved the day, glad you got your whale too, be nice to have a whale. But same, non stop busy lately I still go on but don’t expect much atm
Smurfette
04-12-2022, 09:40 AM
how come every time I get a long exclusive, when it's over my free chat is a ghost town?! You would think it'd be the opposite. Like today I logged on, it wasn't super busy but about average traffic, then exc and now I've been sitting here 15 minutes with a completely empty room, only one person at a time popping in briefly. Argh
emkato
04-12-2022, 09:50 AM
If they have no intention in spending then don't even come! We are trying to work and make money.
I'm not online 8hrs a day trying to make friends or meet new people. This is not omegle. I take this is a job very seriously and it's pissing me off these stupid idiots coming trying to chat FOR FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
It's like they really think we are online because we are just soooo horny and looking for any male attention. I can get male attention anywhere, I'm here to make money and to get you off dude. Do these same men go into a strip club with $0 in their wallet and expect 5 star treatment? It really makes me wonder. These are the type of men who get off off on being "different", every other guy is a customer but I could be her friend mentality (eye roll), so that they can tell all their friends that they befriended/fucked a sex worker and DIDNT HAVE TO PAY! I've seen so many guys try and play that game, they see it as a challenge.
I shared this in the stupid annoying things I hear on cam thread, but people who stream on websites like twitch and YouTube have a chat of people clamoring for any ounce of attention from the content creator, but only those who spend money with a superchat or a donation get any attention. 9 times out of 10, the person streaming will ignore everyone except for those who pay them. I try and have the same mentality for my chat room. Streaming on a porn site shouldn't be any different. If someone starts to waste my time i stop replying or i mute my mic and give short typed responses. If they can't get the hint after that, i log off for a minute then hop back on.. if they still come back after that?? ill finally block them.
I heard someone I watch on YouTube recently say that people who expect your time for free when you're offering something aren't worth the energy (someone asked why she dare charge a flat fee to join her discord). She mentioned how our time on this earth is valuable and limited and we have no obligation to cater to the masses for free just cause they want you to.
Gotta put your foot down because people are soul sucking vultures and will take advantage of you as long as you allow them to.
/end rant lol
whirlerz
04-12-2022, 10:09 AM
This may sound silly but I fucking love my five stars. It gets me off LOL. So on days where I don't get any ratings I stop my stream and say a little manifestation line. Something like:
"I'm having a great time! I am attracting so much money in all positivity from my customers! Lots of long shows and tip vibe lovers! My customers are amazing and loving our shows! I'm having an amazing time and and receiving all positive great five star ratings, amazing comments, and sexy tags. It is such an amazing time and full of positivity, money, and five stars."
Might sound crazy but I always notice better customers and get my sexy five stars afterwards loll.
I'll try this, TY! ^
liquidsilk
04-12-2022, 10:10 AM
how come every time I get a long exclusive, when it's over my free chat is a ghost town?! You would think it'd be the opposite. Like today I logged on, it wasn't super busy but about average traffic, then exc and now I've been sitting here 15 minutes with a completely empty room, only one person at a time popping in briefly. Argh
There is a problem with the "I'm in exclusive" screen staying static for people who were in your room before you went exclusive. The discord mods said it's with tech support but don't know when it will be fixed.
I've seen it myself with my customer account sat in my room.
Smurfette
04-12-2022, 10:17 AM
Wow that is... not good. I hope it gets fixed soon.
laurielegs
04-12-2022, 10:39 AM
I got my pay early in my bank and somehow the ACH had a little note attached with a party hat that says "early ach" haha. What a nice surprise.
I would sooo love it if this is a regular thing. The earlier I get paid the more motivated I am to get online.
Just an update - I thought it was Streamate paying early but apparently it's something new Discover checking is doing. I guess when you've gotten paid by ACH from a large company and have a track record of the deposits being good they have started to credit them a day early. I realized that today when they credited my Niteflirt deposit early too and it had that little party hat icon there also.