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Genoveve
04-13-2022, 05:05 PM
I have been wanting to bring this up but, I don't want to sound like I'm being a Narc? or Karen but, there is a model who is often on the first page and she has a sign stating it is her last night and just saying how awful the site is and more I clicked on her a few times and she screams at these guys even when they tip and says SM is awful she is done over and over? I don't understand her hustle at all and think it makes SM look really awful.
Is this the one who went viral years ago? Older posters on here would know.
I keep getting disconnected every 20 minutes or so, is this happening to anyone else? Wondering if it's my internet though it appears to be working fine
I got disconnected twice today during pvts for the first time in idk how long, and I'm not sure if it was my wifi or the site because the error message that came up said *I* disconnected my stream when in the past if it was my internet it would just say 'stream disconnected,' but that was so long ago that idk if they changed it. BUT, I went to go plug my ethernet in to see if it would help and I realized this laptop has no ethernet port!! I can't believe I never noticed. I'm looking at adapters in another tab right now.
Also I see that we are finally able to see the details on blocked users again.
zeusydoo
04-13-2022, 05:12 PM
[QUOTE=Genoveve;3280197]Is this the one who went viral years ago? Older posters on here would know.
Is this green eyes or something like that you are talking about crying on cam etc?
~Carmen~
04-13-2022, 05:14 PM
I find that if I watch other models, it tends to interfere with my own hustle so I pretty much stopped. I pick up on other's moods very easily. I'm not good at hiding my feelings.
There was another model years ago who got upset on cam a lot. I won't say what happened to her but it was tragic.
JustMilfnAround
04-13-2022, 05:15 PM
I think it's hard to judge why certain models hustle the way they do. As long as they're not breaking the rules that could get the site shut down, I'll stay in my lane.
If a certain model that was stated above have been hustling this way then obviously it's working for her.
If she's struggling or dealing with mental issues then I totally feel for her.
There are plenty of models who are so battered with happy, positive hustles that you wouldn't know what they're dealing with.
So if any hoe that want to cry, get angry or tear up your house on cam, do it. There's nothing unhoe about being human.
Point is, I try to be mindful because it's hard to judge.
VERY well put.
I do not like to talk about other models but in her defense she was not like this prior to the holidays. I'd seen her have a few bad shifts but most of the time she was pretty nice. I feel for her. I've watched her downward spiral for months and I literally check in on her from time to time because I am concerned for her. I watched another model basically have a year+ long public breakdown on SM too and she's gone now and I still worry about her from time to time.
We've all had those times on cam that have damn near broken us, be it contests, traffic, trolls, tech issues, stalkers or a severe decline in income. Most models can paste a smile on or may make a snarky comment here and there or log off because their mood went full blown dumpster fire. She may be dealing with something we know nothing about. I do agree it doesn't make the site look good, and she should probably log off instead of raging but I definitely feel for her.
Imagine if she's in a position to lose her home or something and she loses her access to income because people reported her. SM allowing a top row model to get away with fucking toys in free chat is WAY MORE of a problem for ALL of us than someone having a public mental breakdown.
I kept my comments to myself the first few posts about her but I've been watching her for awhile (her tits are amazing btw!) and she was pretty nice, so from my perspective something on SM broke her or she is dealing with something rough in her life. I do agree she needs to not do that online but we don't know her situation. Not my position to judge, but I will worry about her.
zeusydoo
04-13-2022, 05:44 PM
I find that if I watch other models, it tends to interfere with my own hustle so I pretty much stopped. I pick up on other's moods very easily. I'm not good at hiding my feelings.
There was another model years ago who got upset on cam a lot. I won't say what happened to her but it was tragic.
Was very tragic and horrible
~Carmen~
04-13-2022, 05:47 PM
Was very tragic and horrible
Yes it was.
Marina Starr
04-13-2022, 05:55 PM
Same! I can only run my own room. If I take the time to see what every hoe is doing, I lose my hoe ground.
Every hoe has their own hustle, their own vibe, some I can't watch without feeling there's a dark cloud over my head. I don't want to carry that vibe to my room.
I find that if I watch other models, it tends to interfere with my own hustle so I pretty much stopped. I pick up on other's moods very easily. I'm not good at hiding my feelings.
There was another model years ago who got upset on cam a lot. I won't say what happened to her but it was tragic.
zeusydoo
04-13-2022, 06:03 PM
[QUOTE=JustMilfnAround;3280201]VERY well put.
I do not like to talk about other models but in her defense she was not like this prior to the holidays. I'd seen her have a few bad shifts but most of the time she was pretty nice. I feel for her. I've watched her downward spiral for months and I literally check in on her from time to time because I am concerned for her. I watched another model basically have a year+ long public breakdown on SM too and she's gone now and I still worry about her from time to time.
We've all had those times on cam that have damn near broken us, be it contests, traffic, trolls, tech issues, stalkers or a severe decline in income. Most models can paste a smile on or may make a snarky comment here and there or log off because their mood went full blown dumpster fire. She may be dealing with something we know nothing about. I do agree it doesn't make the site look good, and she should probably log off instead of raging but I definitely feel for her.
Imagine if she's in a position to lose her home or something and she loses her access to income because people reported her. SM allowing a top row model to get away with fucking toys in free chat is WAY MORE of a problem for ALL of us than someone having a public mental breakdown.
I kept my comments to myself the first few posts about her but I've been watching her for awhile (her tits are amazing btw!) and she was pretty nice, so from my perspective something on SM broke her or she is dealing with something rough in her life. I do agree she needs to not do that online but we don't know her situation. Not my position to judge, but I will worry about her.[/QUOTE
Thank you for putting it in another perspective, I didnt even think of that when I posted .So thanks for making me think about the bigger picture and not judging people with out knowing what could be really going on in some ones life. I feel like I should be slapping myself on the wrist and saying shame on you girly
bigbum
04-13-2022, 06:15 PM
She might cry & is Older but, mostly gives off a Mommie Dearest Vibe OMG she is downright scary but, seriously can hurt business on there with her antics.
omggg mommy dearest omggg you didnt!! i am laughing so hard over here!!!!!!
maybe she is having a hard time in life and maybe she just needs help IDK.
on the other hand
its clearly it's working so.. maybe its a big act? I mean i am an actress when i cam. maybe she is channeling her mommy dearest and she is a genius?!
damn if she is please get that women an oscar. hell maybe she can pull a will smith and give chris rock a smack while she is at it and drain his wallet too.
i think sm mostly cares about money and if she isnt breaking any rules..
i would never ever report any model no matter what. unless it was something harmful to a underage person someone was getting hurt or something really bad like that.
live and let live my stripperweb models friends. live and let live.
KittenGirl
04-13-2022, 06:54 PM
If it's who i think it is, i watched her almost two years ago and she was like that then. I stopped watching other models except for a few sexy guys a long time ago.
But imagine how the world would be if we reached out to the person to ask them if they're okay and if we could help instead of gossiping about them on a public forum
Marina Starr
04-13-2022, 07:00 PM
I don't think it was done out of malice but I would still be very hurt if it was about me.
If it's who i think it is, i watched her almost two years ago and she was like that then. I stopped watching other models except for a few sexy guys a long time ago.
But imagine how the world would be if we reached out to the person to ask them if they're okay and if we could help instead of gossiping about them on a public forum
Marina Starr
04-13-2022, 07:20 PM
I don't want to be the 'judge and jury' on what other models do that have no bearing on me. SM has been strongly enforced the rules and banning rules breakers.
I bet they knew about her and thought 'making the site look bad' isn't violating their code of conduct but you can contact Liz and express your concerns and see what she'll say.
I hear what you are saying but she does break rules & makes the site look bad
kamiliam
04-13-2022, 07:28 PM
omggg mommy dearest omggg you didnt!! i am laughing so hard over here!!!!!!
maybe she is having a hard time in life and maybe she just needs help IDK.
on the other hand
its clearly it's working so.. maybe its a big act? I mean i am an actress when i cam. maybe she is channeling her mommy dearest and she is a genius?!
damn if she is please get that women an oscar. hell maybe she can pull a will smith and give chris rock a smack while she is at it and drain his wallet too.
i think sm mostly cares about money and if she isnt breaking any rules..
i would never ever report any model no matter what. unless it was something harmful to a underage person someone was getting hurt or something really bad like that.
live and let live my stripperweb models friends. live and let live.
the white knights who fall for this deserve it. It is obvious what is going on right away.
to me it seems like a hustle, perhaps discovered through or amplified because of personal hardship. I would personally always do what I could do to help if they made that request. I’m sure support has had to follow up on the reports.
It’s a slippery slope to judge what is/isn’t an embarrassment to the site.
~Carmen~
04-13-2022, 07:40 PM
We deal with so much bs on cam. Sometimes it gets to be too much, especially when you are having a tough time in your personal life. I try really hard not to but have lost it on cam many times through the years.
~Carmen~
04-13-2022, 07:43 PM
I don't want to be the 'judge and jury' on what other models do that have no bearing on me. SM has been strongly enforced the rules and banning rules breakers.
I bet they knew about her and thought 'making the site look bad' isn't violating their code of conduct but you can contact Liz and express your concerns and see what she'll say.
Agreed! SM will deal with her if they have a problem with it.
Marina Starr
04-13-2022, 07:43 PM
That's why we have to stay highly medicated. Being batshit crazy hoes ain't easy.
We deal with so much bs on cam. Sometimes it gets to be too much, especially when you are having a tough time in your personal life. I try really hard not to but have lost it on cam many times through the years.
kamiliam
04-13-2022, 08:44 PM
Site is still kicking us off randomly, all freaking day. Seen complaints here and on Twitter. Had it happen 3x to me already, once in a show. Doesn’t make me super motivated
Genoveve
04-13-2022, 09:28 PM
Site is still kicking us off randomly, all freaking day. Seen complaints here and on Twitter. Had it happen 3x to me already, once in a show. Doesn’t make me super motivated
Were you getting the same error message as me?
I got disconnected twice today during pvts for the first time in idk how long, and I'm not sure if it was my wifi or the site because the error message that came up said *I* disconnected my stream when in the past if it was my internet it would just say 'stream disconnected,' but that was so long ago that idk if they changed it.
Happened to me like 6 times in almost 3 hours.
bigbum
04-13-2022, 09:57 PM
the white knights who fall for this deserve it. It is obvious what is going on right away.
to me it seems like a hustle, perhaps discovered through or amplified because of personal hardship. I would personally always do what I could do to help if they made that request. I’m sure support has had to follow up on the reports.
It’s a slippery slope to judge what is/isn’t an embarrassment to the site.
i agree it is a hustle that was stumbled upon and then amplified out of other issues.
you are a wise women.
Percy
04-13-2022, 11:01 PM
omggg mommy dearest omggg you didnt!! i am laughing so hard over here!!!!!!
maybe she is having a hard time in life and maybe she just needs help IDK.
on the other hand
its clearly it's working so.. maybe its a big act? I mean i am an actress when i cam. maybe she is channeling her mommy dearest and she is a genius?!
damn if she is please get that women an oscar. hell maybe she can pull a will smith and give chris rock a smack while she is at it and drain his wallet too.
i think sm mostly cares about money and if she isnt breaking any rules..
i would never ever report any model no matter what. unless it was something harmful to a underage person someone was getting hurt or something really bad like that.
live and let live my stripperweb models friends. live and let live.
I never watched other models. I never cared what they did. But I have been known to fake things to get men who are sensitive to fall for it. Her bank account is not my business. I am my own business is how I see it. And others are their own business.
I get the curiosity.
kamiliam
04-13-2022, 11:18 PM
Were you getting the same error message as me?
Happened to me like 6 times in almost 3 hours.
Had to wait till it happened again for the 4th time but yeah it said "Your streaming session has ended because you stopped streaming."
Sucks because I was having a pretty great week before this
Alexa89
04-14-2022, 01:47 AM
I am getting kicked too with the message "Your streaming session has ended because you stopped streaming."
Candyland69
04-14-2022, 02:29 AM
same here over and over again!!! it makes it difficult to stay on!! this is damn frustrating!im in the uk , maybe uk girls have the issue?
Luckygoldfish
04-14-2022, 02:38 AM
Girls , is Anyone working now? I am loosing connection every 2 minutes and I believe my internet and PC are fine . Something weird with webcam resolution though
Mozilla doesn’t detect any webcams which is weird , what’s going on
Luckygoldfish
04-14-2022, 02:40 AM
Yes. I am in U.K. as well
Carmel57
04-14-2022, 03:08 AM
Thank you ladies who answered my question on gold shows v tipping. Too many to quote so I’ll just sat thanks all.
I think next time as he was a big tipper I would ask the other guy to postpone the show. I suppose there is no guarantee either will go on to be better than the other, but I feel it was rude of me to leave a paying customer. Offering a show later to a request for one is not as rude I don’t think. Probably never come up again now anyway.
Vlodina
04-14-2022, 03:42 AM
I also keep getting disconnected. Really bloody unmotivating. 4 times I think, in the past half hour or so.
Edit: and again. Fuck this, I'm going to make lunch.
ggminx
04-14-2022, 03:57 AM
I also keep getting disconnected. Really bloody unmotivating. 4 times I think, in the past half hour or so.
Edit: and again. Fuck this, I'm going to make lunch.
i dropped connection once today with that message. it was happening to me recently a couple weeks ago a few times during the day
Alexa89
04-14-2022, 04:05 AM
same here over and over again!!! it makes it difficult to stay on!! this is damn frustrating!im in the uk , maybe uk girls have the issue?
I'm in Romania. Just got diconnected in the middle of a pvt show:-[
Carmel57
04-14-2022, 05:25 AM
I’ve been getting disconnected all morning. Have logged off and will stick with a reliable stream on AW. I’ll make them money instead.
WanderingW
04-14-2022, 05:26 AM
OK I’m going to say this one time I am not gossiping I am worried about our platform in which we work on. I’m going through the worst time of my life guess what I have cancer I am very concerned about retaining my spot on Streamate and don’t need other models disparaging our platform. I am 55 years old and have been doing this over 25 years imagine if every time you went into a store the cashier screamed at you over and over again they would close the store eventually. I am not gossiping about anyone I’m concerned about someone harassing our customers for years apparently I’m just done with this form I don’t understand why you’re not seeing what I’m saying but whatever
WanderingW
04-14-2022, 05:33 AM
Well I will post this one last post "Don't shit where you eat"
naomi_doll
04-14-2022, 05:47 AM
OK I’m going to say this one time I am not gossiping I am worried about our platform in which we work on. I’m going through the worst time of my life guess what I have cancer I am very concerned about retaining my spot on Streamate and don’t need other models disparaging our platform. I am 55 years old and have been doing this over 25 years imagine if every time you went into a store the cashier screamed at you over and over again they would close the store eventually. I am not gossiping about anyone I’m concerned about someone harassing our customers for years apparently I’m just done with this form I don’t understand why you’re not seeing what I’m saying but whatever
I am so sorry to hear that, I hope your treatment goes well. Guys who like that sort of thing will stay in her room and the guys who don't will be refreshed to see your smiling face in your room. If she's been doing it for years and we're still making money then guys must not take it too seriously.
kiki399
04-14-2022, 05:52 AM
OMG I have seen her as well holding up the sign and telling the guys to fuck off and she hates all men etc etc etc , then the cam goes to the ceiling and she starts screaming at them . I am like you hate this so much then quit like you keep threatening, last week I think it was she was saying this is my last 4 hours i hate you all and I hate SM. Real weird
I know exactly who your talking about!!! Its a pity party 24/7
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-14-2022, 06:00 AM
Well I will post this one last post "Don't shit where you eat"
Good morning! I just tried to respond to your pm, but you have your PM's turned off. Please turn them on so we can talk. ❤️
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-14-2022, 06:05 AM
Y'all I believe that person being discussed is a member on this board? Please be mindful of what you say because you could very well become the next hot topic. Bringing up other models is a slippery slope.
Smurfette
04-14-2022, 06:32 AM
This is exactly why I work split schedules. I'm SO GLAD to see someone else saying the same thing! I use to strictly work mornings because it would be busy AF for like 3 hours. And I refused to get on after 1pm my time because it would be DEAD SLOW. But I ended up having to work afternoons for a while and I was like making $100/hr on average but it died after about an hour and a half. So I was like "maybe afternoons are where it's at?"
I spent six weeks playing around with different schedules and it didn't matter when I worked--after a little under two hours traffic literally becomes nonexistent. Even though my percent in paid is 55%+, and I garner roughly 6 five stars and no other lower ratings. So now I know that after that prime time is over I log off and do something else. I make about $450 in 4 hours with it regularly
Wow, that is so weird! Yep it's the same for me, I've also noticed it doesn't really matter when I log on... it's always the same pattern, good for a couple hours then dead. I suppose I should just log off once the traffic dies down to focus on my other sites, then wait a few hours and try SM again later.
Luckygoldfish
04-14-2022, 06:49 AM
Who are you all taking about ? I haven’t seen anyone like that on the site but I don’t browse much . I personally think she can’t impact negatively on the website and hey if she is at the top means they are paying lol
Who cares ? She will not impact us whatsoever
There are plenty rude girls (sometimes me included when I loose my cool lol) and so what ? All it does drive those guys who are not into that stuff away to another model
MissAdriana
04-14-2022, 07:22 AM
I haven’t seen anyone like that on the site but I don’t browse much . I personally think she can’t impact negatively on the website and hey if she is at the top means they are paying lol
Who cares ? She will not impact us whatsoever
100. This isn't youtube or twitch where streamers have 40k - 1mil viewers watching them. The tops might have a couple hundred at a time ? 1 person ranting occasionally means nothing imo
Luckygoldfish
04-14-2022, 08:06 AM
Girls I am still loosing connection every 3 mins
I cleaned cookies I did it all not sure what’s going on
Anyone else?
Mozilla chrome all the same shit
Ladybuggie
04-14-2022, 08:25 AM
It is already painfully slow, but I also just got kicked out of the only shows I've had in like 2 hours, TWICE for the same guy, and the earnings from the second show are not even showing. Wtf are they doing?!
whirlerz
04-14-2022, 08:31 AM
It is already painfully slow, but I also just got kicked out of the only shows I've had in like 2 hours, TWICE for the same guy, and the earnings from the second show are not even showing. Wtf are they doing?!
A short while ago, my stream randomly cut off in free chat..
Luckygoldfish
04-14-2022, 08:32 AM
I am getting disconnected every 2 mins for the last 3 hours :( I don’t understand what’s going on .
MissAdriana
04-14-2022, 08:40 AM
I haven't got that many disconnections but it is very slow, might not be worth being on at all today, isn't it tax day tomorrow ? Might be a good time to take off... I am on 4 sites and all are pretty slow
naughtybabe1
04-14-2022, 08:41 AM
Yep me too. Disconnected while in shows and for no reason. Flaky damn site. starting to piss me off!
whirlerz
04-14-2022, 09:00 AM
They gotta be doing something ..
I know, not exactly a news flash lol. ::)
JessRyan
04-14-2022, 09:20 AM
Y'all I believe that person being discussed is a member on this board? Please be mindful of what you say because you could very well become the next hot topic. Bringing up other models is a slippery slope.
Exactly. Thankyou. A lot of models here do not use their cam names & for good reason.
Luckygoldfish
04-14-2022, 09:21 AM
So girls anyone else who get kickers out literally every 2-3 mins ? Or just me? If u let me know I will stop
Abusing my PC and just wait . I am on island close to U.K. ..
I haven't got that many disconnections but it is very slow, might not be worth being on at all today, isn't it tax day tomorrow ? Might be a good time to take off... I am on 4 sites and all are pretty slow
same i am on 4 and it is sooooo dead! yday was okay tho! :P tbh no brain! i just show on and keep calm! it is not a personal situation but overall everywhere. better time will come soon! x
JustMilfnAround
04-14-2022, 09:47 AM
Dead AF for me too, and I just got disconnected as well about 5 minutes ago. After my disconnect I had a sweet regular trying to do a show and his sound wouldn't work on C2C, we tried everything and are pretty sure it is on SM's end. I'll try in a few hours, hopefully it is fixed by then :)
Yep, Monday is tax day and quarterlies (USA) are due tomorrow. The only time of the year where being self employed REALLY sucks LOL - business slows down and we are all feeding the IRS our annual and quarterly taxes. I'm not really into anal.......much less without lube LOL