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KittenGirl
08-01-2022, 10:39 PM
I just now got an insistent taboo request that I blocked.
Now just blocked a meet in person jerk, TF?
Yeah... they need to have a "rules of engagement" type thing that all members have to click on before they join a room. Like what we have to do when we sign on
anonamiss
08-02-2022, 01:50 AM
Nobody amends a performer contract more than Streamate.. my gosh.. I do not have to constantly sign new agreements on other sites. Why are they so difficult?
while i agree it's super annoying, over the past several years with various conflicts like AB-5, Fosta-Sesta, the Mastercard/Visa situation, etc. I do feel like SM makes a concerted and noticeable effort to be on top of the legal landscape of online sexwork compared to other sites that either ignore it altogether or wait until it's an issue and then abruptly dump it on their models/user base after it's become problematic. some might see it as SM being excessive or paranoid but i still ultimately feel safer sticking with SM because of the way they seem to be on top of things like this. obviously SM has a ton of flaws, but updating their TOS to be hyper compliant with everchanging rules outside of their control isn't a negative IMO. just my two cents.
Lolaki
08-02-2022, 05:14 AM
I have blocked a guest from sending me messages, however I cannot find his nickname in the block customers list, so as to block him in case he come in my room. Anyone knows another way to block? Ty
whirlerz
08-02-2022, 08:41 AM
Yeah... they need to have a "rules of engagement" type thing that all members have to click on before they join a room. Like what we have to do when we sign on
Well, I thought they did already have this in place?
anonamiss
08-02-2022, 11:55 AM
Well, I thought they did already have this in place?
Nope, all the users have is the TOS that no one reads when they sign up, and the warning in the chatbox not to exchange personal info with models.
We have to check multiple boxes that ensure we are compliant with rules every time we log on. Something similar with a basic list of banned acts should be required of the users when they log on.
I've asked regs if they have an easy link to access the rules and they said they don't. the only way they would know what's not allowed is if they clicked and read the long Terms and Conditions link at the very bottom of the site page.
Dreamqueen
08-02-2022, 12:41 PM
while i agree it's super annoying, over the past several years with various conflicts like AB-5, Fosta-Sesta, the Mastercard/Visa situation, etc. I do feel like SM makes a concerted and noticeable effort to be on top of the legal landscape of online sexwork compared to other sites that either ignore it altogether or wait until it's an issue and then abruptly dump it on their models/user base after it's become problematic. some might see it as SM being excessive or paranoid but i still ultimately feel safer sticking with SM because of the way they seem to be on top of things like this. obviously SM has a ton of flaws, but updating their TOS to be hyper compliant with everchanging rules outside of their control isn't a negative IMO. just my two cents.
I agree.
I'm just wondering if another model's actions can get the entire site shut down.
There's a model who I've noticed logs in at the same time as me ( I never log in at the same time on any day).
She wears the same thing and even has bought wigs and toys to match mine.
Annoying, but whateva.
I only click on her room so that I can change what I'm wearing.
However. Every time I do she's doing something against the sites rules.
I've caught her giving out her personal email address, showing porn from her phone, smoking a joint, telling her guys that they can go private to show others their cam.
Her dog and cat are on cam, and she leaves the cam for a long time, ( which I've been warned not to do).
She also does incest, underage, and diaper play.
The list goes on and on.
And that's just in the minute or so that I click in to make sure she's not wearing the same thing ( she always is).
I don't care what others do.
But if it affects my income, then I'm going to care.
I'm never going to report her, because just my luck, I'LL be banned!
anonamiss
08-02-2022, 01:29 PM
I agree.
I'm just wondering if another model's actions can get the entire site shut down.
There's a model who I've noticed logs in at the same time as me ( I never log in at the same time on any day).
She wears the same thing and even has bought wigs and toys to match mine.
Annoying, but whateva.
I only click on her room so that I can change what I'm wearing.
However. Every time I do she's doing something against the sites rules.
I've caught her giving out her personal email address, showing porn from her phone, smoking a joint, telling her guys that they can go private to show others their cam.
Her dog and cat are on cam, and she leaves the cam for a long time, ( which I've been warned not to do).
She also does incest, underage, and diaper play.
The list goes on and on.
And that's just in the minute or so that I click in to make sure she's not wearing the same thing ( she always is).
I don't care what others do.
But if it affects my income, then I'm going to care.
I'm never going to report her, because just my luck, I'LL be banned!
i wonder if you could report her from a separate email address that doesn't connect back to your real name or model persona. like what if you just made something like "anonSMgirl @gmail" and sent reports to support/liz/whomever from that?
i don't think any of us should stress too much over a few rule breaking models getting SM shut down. even though some models slip through the cracks, SM has clearly shown that they give a shit about enforcing rules because they've flat out banned top/veteran models for doing certain roleplays at this point. frankly i think it's the token sites that are more likely to get a legal crackdown because there's so much live pornography available publicly/not behind a paywall where minors can easily access it, and a ton of the "rules" don't get enforced at all.
Strawberryblonde
08-02-2022, 10:19 PM
while i agree it's super annoying, over the past several years with various conflicts like AB-5, Fosta-Sesta, the Mastercard/Visa situation, etc. I do feel like SM makes a concerted and noticeable effort to be on top of the legal landscape of online sexwork compared to other sites that either ignore it altogether or wait until it's an issue and then abruptly dump it on their models/user base after it's become problematic. some might see it as SM being excessive or paranoid but i still ultimately feel safer sticking with SM because of the way they seem to be on top of things like this. obviously SM has a ton of flaws, but updating their TOS to be hyper compliant with everchanging rules outside of their control isn't a negative IMO. just my two cents.
I like the way they highlight the changes, which are really clarifying the rules. In my experience of other sites some of these can be in response to users, providers, performers genuinely misunderstanding or actually actively trying to get around rules, other times it is to protect performers and the site.
What can be annoying is when customers use the 'rules are meant to be broken' response. I explain I like being on the site, and do not intend losing my account.
how is slow on wednesday for me just drastic changes compared to others dayssss. i saw so many gold show canceled so it is not just me??
so now they ask the anal squirt O O how crazy are? i mean it is NOT possible?? am i wrong? i can not squirt when i do double also
i squirt just if put a dildo in my pussy!
KittenGirl
08-03-2022, 08:48 AM
so now they ask the anal squirt O O how crazy are? i mean it is NOT possible?? am i wrong? i can not squirt when i do double also
i squirt just if put a dildo in my pussy!
Wow... men are really that stupid huh?
FloridaSunDoll
08-03-2022, 09:00 AM
Wow... men are really that stupid huh?
definitely. I saw one of those stupid game adds last night that showed a cartoon woman getting turned on using an electric beater (like the electric mixer things for baking)...no wonder men have no concept of female anatomy or pleasing a woman. I blame the internet
lozkeegan
08-03-2022, 10:10 AM
Do you have the discord link? Been searching and cant find it
emkato
08-03-2022, 10:27 AM
Do you have the discord link? Been searching and cant find it
On your performer dashboard, on the right side, click streamate help under support, there will be a discord link there.
I believe someone said that its a personalized link that changes or is different for every model.
Dreamqueen
08-03-2022, 11:36 AM
i wonder if you could report her from a separate email address that doesn't connect back to your real name or model persona. like what if you just made something like "anonSMgirl @gmail" and sent reports to support/liz/whomever from that?
i don't think any of us should stress too much over a few rule breaking models getting SM shut down. even though some models slip through the cracks, SM has clearly shown that they give a shit about enforcing rules because they've flat out banned top/veteran models for doing certain roleplays at this point. frankly i think it's the token sites that are more likely to get a legal crackdown because there's so much live pornography available publicly/not behind a paywall where minors can easily access it, and a ton of the "rules" don't get enforced at all.
If I knew for sure that it wouldn't link back to me, I would have done it a long time ago.
Not aware if they could see my name, etc.
KittenGirl
08-03-2022, 11:59 AM
definitely. I saw one of those stupid game adds last night that showed a cartoon woman getting turned on using an electric beater (like the electric mixer things for baking)...no wonder men have no concept of female anatomy or pleasing a woman. I blame the internet
OMG NO HAHA HAHA HAHA!!!! PLEASE TELL ME YOU'RE JOKING!!! I literally laughed so hard!
What the hell??!! Never once do women have their partners go and buy an electric mixer and say "sorry baby I'm really in the mood to scramble my eggs tonight."
I had a guy once ask me if I would ever scissor a woman to get off. I said "Why the fuck would I do that?"
He goes "I dunno. It seems to really get women off. Don't all women love fucking around with other women?"
I said "Honey, for $1,200 a scene a woman will act like knitting a fucking blanket can make her squirt. Stay off Redtube."
FloridaSunDoll
08-03-2022, 12:46 PM
OMG NO HAHA HAHA HAHA!!!! PLEASE TELL ME YOU'RE JOKING!!! I literally laughed so hard!
What the hell??!! Never once do women have their partners go and buy an electric mixer and say "sorry baby I'm really in the mood to scramble my eggs tonight."
I had a guy once ask me if I would ever scissor a woman to get off. I said "Why the fuck would I do that?"
He goes "I dunno. It seems to really get women off. Don't all women love fucking around with other women?"
I said "Honey, for $1,200 a scene a woman will act like knitting a fucking blanket can make her squirt. Stay off Redtube."
I literally had to wake my husband up to show him the mixer game add! This is a topic I often bring up in the "stupid annoying things I hear on cam" thread.. the internet has rotted these guys brains to the point that they don't even know what REAL sex is anymore nor how to please a woman. I mentioned one the other day...he wanted to "tease" my throat..as if fucking my face would be somehow pleasurable to me...Ugh but I digress lol
emkato
08-03-2022, 02:16 PM
I literally had to wake my husband up to show him the mixer game add! This is a topic I often bring up in the "stupid annoying things I hear on cam" thread.. the internet has rotted these guys brains to the point that they don't even know what REAL sex is anymore nor how to please a woman. I mentioned one the other day...he wanted to "tease" my throat..as if fucking my face would be somehow pleasurable to me...Ugh but I digress lol
This got me thinking about how pretty everything I do on cam is for the male gaze. Especially when it comes to masturbation shows. How silly I feel when I am asked to moan and I of course oblige. All my moans are completely faked, and they have no idea. Moaning is literally just for a males ego and validation. When I masturbate for real I lay completely still in bed and don't make a sound lmao. We are kind of forced to perceive ourselves through the male gaze, even when it comes to "our" pleasure.
KittenGirl
08-03-2022, 02:20 PM
This got me thinking about how pretty everything I do on cam is for the male gaze. Especially when it comes to masturbation shows. How silly I feel when I am asked to moan and I of course oblige. All my moans are completely faked, and they have no idea. Moaning is literally just for a males ego and validation. When I masturbate for real I lay completely still in bed and don't make a sound lmao. We are kind of forced to perceive ourselves through the male gaze, even when it comes to "our" pleasure.
This hit me in a terrible way. As I read this, I recalled the very few times I've had sex with a man, I felt more like I had to "perform" to be perceived as a good lover instead of relaxing and enjoying myself. Everything you said is so true.
I mean, there are sometimes when I get off I actually do make sounds but I don't really think I ever moan. It's more of like loud breathing and subtle yelps.
Erika_Xstacy
08-03-2022, 02:28 PM
Can anyone show me how to locate a customer's account to block him?
I've been sending out the prepaid photo messages.
One customer messaged me that he's not interested in getting any more messages from me, and to take him off of my list.
I'm concerned that if I don't, he's going to report me for spamming him, and I'll lose my ability to send out ANY messages.
Thanks in advance.
models do not lose the ability to send messages, its your job to make money
if his bitch broke ass contacts support, support will tell him its his choice to buy it or ignore it.
he sounds more like a troll than somebody Id worry about
ask him how cool his moms basement is lmaooooo
KittenGirl
08-03-2022, 03:00 PM
models do not lose the ability to send messages, its your job to make money
if his bitch broke ass contacts support, support will tell him its his choice to buy it or ignore it.
He sounds more like a troll than somebody id worry about
ask him how cool his moms basement is lmaooooo
i love you this was epic haha!
This got me thinking about how pretty everything I do on cam is for the male gaze. Especially when it comes to masturbation shows. How silly I feel when I am asked to moan and I of course oblige. All my moans are completely faked, and they have no idea. Moaning is literally just for a males ego and validation. When I masturbate for real I lay completely still in bed and don't make a sound lmao. We are kind of forced to perceive ourselves through the male gaze, even when it comes to "our" pleasure.
when they ask me to scream, i always say lol i m not working in a circus or you maybe need to watch some horror movie LOL ;D
Strawberryblonde
08-04-2022, 12:19 AM
This got me thinking about how pretty everything I do on cam is for the male gaze. Especially when it comes to masturbation shows. How silly I feel when I am asked to moan and I of course oblige. All my moans are completely faked, and they have no idea. Moaning is literally just for a males ego and validation. When I masturbate for real I lay completely still in bed and don't make a sound lmao. We are kind of forced to perceive ourselves through the male gaze, even when it comes to "our" pleasure.
When they ask me to have an orgasm, cum after being instructed to use the dildo I explain the dildo won't make me cum - then I show them what will. Some stay and are hooked, some clear off. I only ever genuinely cum takes a while and I can manage perhaps 3 times a day max only,
kamiliam
08-04-2022, 12:42 AM
Sometimes I hate that customers know I can cum multiple times. Like not always? And not at the drop of the hat? Takes a vibrator now anyway. Occasionally still run into new guys that are scared off by them.
lozkeegan
08-04-2022, 01:46 AM
On your performer dashboard, on the right side, click streamate help under support, there will be a discord link there.
I believe someone said that its a personalized link that changes or is different for every model.
Oh thx, is it closed off for just models? Im thinking of starting up and thought the discord might be able to answer a few questions
whirlerz
08-04-2022, 05:57 AM
Well I contacted support about the taboo & meet up guys, I already blocked them, we'll see.
emkato
08-04-2022, 06:54 AM
When they ask me to have an orgasm, cum after being instructed to use the dildo I explain the dildo won't make me cum - then I show them what will. Some stay and are hooked, some clear off. I only ever genuinely cum takes a while and I can manage perhaps 3 times a day max only,
Same! I'll tell them that I have better orgasms from clit stimulation and if they want a genuine orgasm thats the way to go. If they still want dildo penetration ill do it but don't expect me to cum like I would from clit stimulation. I sometimes have orgasms when I use my glass dildo but its a different kind of O, like a milder one from hitting my g spot that doesn't feel AS good? but its still nice, if that makes sense.
Ill be honest I've had days where my patience is very thin and if a guy keeps harping on me to cum over and over, ill just do the most over the top fake orgasm noises just to get them off so they will leave. I don't care if they know its fake because they obviously don't care about my pleasure or understand that women aren't sex machines with a "CUM" button..
Same with squirting requests. "How fast can u squirt bb?" I tell them that there's no button to press on my pussy that makes cum shoot out. They usually leave. Good riddance lmao:D
Susperia
08-04-2022, 07:31 AM
When they ask me to have an orgasm, cum after being instructed to use the dildo I explain the dildo won't make me cum - then I show them what will. Some stay and are hooked, some clear off. I only ever genuinely cum takes a while and I can manage perhaps 3 times a day max only,
This is totally me as well. I love it when a customer actually understands and let's me do what makes me cum and they give me the time I need and seem to really get off on it.
Redcandy
08-04-2022, 11:08 AM
Heads Up..overheard my fiance and handyman talking about tonight is 1st preseason NFL game
naughtybabe1
08-04-2022, 02:44 PM
Heads Up..overheard my fiance and handyman talking about tonight is 1st preseason NFL game
OMGGGGG....ANNNNDDD....IT STARTS! The dreaded Football season (American). Im glad for the update. Thank you candy! My rule of FB...DON'T TRY TO COMPETE WITH IT!. I download my area NFL team play dates and times so I can be ready to NOT CAM DURING LIVE NFL GAMES. It sucks because Sundays are my best days. BUT! I can always say this with 100% certainty, AFTER that late game is over...BAM! My room is overrun with happy or pissed off horny dudes who need to get off. I leave my Indy sites open all day long and I'll get a few indy shows but if I do the big box site like SM during a game...CRICKETS!... I might get a few traffic but it's like the world just evaporated and all the men dissapeared...which might not be a bad thing. SO? what do you do?? I order a pizza. Open a $$$ bottle of wine. Keep the game on so I know when it ends and do some PSO and indy sites until the game is over and then I GET ON AND STAY ON!! Now this won't work for everyone. BUT...I've been doing this every football night which in the USA is now (SUNDAY ALL DAY, MONDAY NIGHT AND EVEN THURSDAY NIGHTS). Of course this might not impact other dudes in other countries. SO LADIES...GET READY! ARE YOU READY FOR SOME FOOTBALL???????????
TheAnonymousGal
08-04-2022, 11:25 PM
This got me thinking about how pretty everything I do on cam is for the male gaze. Especially when it comes to masturbation shows. How silly I feel when I am asked to moan and I of course oblige. All my moans are completely faked, and they have no idea. Moaning is literally just for a males ego and validation. When I masturbate for real I lay completely still in bed and don't make a sound lmao. We are kind of forced to perceive ourselves through the male gaze, even when it comes to "our" pleasure.
When they ask me to have an orgasm, cum after being instructed to use the dildo I explain the dildo won't make me cum - then I show them what will. Some stay and are hooked, some clear off. I only ever genuinely cum takes a while and I can manage perhaps 3 times a day max only,
I just tell them THE TRUTH in the most SEXY way I can: Toys don't work for me--only the REAL thing does. Then I REDIRECT the conversation towards a discussion about what they'd do to me if they were in the room with me. Try it and let me know if it works for you! They always respond positively and I haven't lost a viewer yet.
I also use "wanna watch me make my clit grow" with 100% success. As cam MODELS We have the opportunity to TEACH/MODEL THESE MEN INTO WHAT WOMEN REALLY WANT. Let's do it! If not us, then who!?!
TheAnonymousGal
08-04-2022, 11:30 PM
OMGGGGG....ANNNNDDD....IT STARTS! The dreaded Football season (American). Im glad for the update. Thank you candy! My rule of FB...DON'T TRY TO COMPETE WITH IT! AFTER that late game is over...BAM! My room is overrun with happy or pissed off horny dudes who need to get off.
Been camming since '01 and I agree--this seems to be the pattern and solution for US Sports and other World Events.
Fun Fact: The most lucrative day of camming for me was the day after Trump was elected.
fetishqueen
08-05-2022, 10:04 AM
Does anybody here split SM with MFC please? I need another site similar to SM and I looked at Stripchat but their payout options are rubbish for the UK. Would it be feasible to split both SM and MFC at the same time and still do well? I split until recently with AW but the rules are so different for free there that it wasn't worth it.
Also as an aside, would MFC work as an older model, I'm in my 40's. I remember seeing that one of the big sites had an age limit but I can't for the life of me remember which, or even if that's true! :)
I appreciate I'm asking about MFC on the SM thread but I'd really like to know how they work side by side. TIA!
JustMilfnAround
08-05-2022, 10:05 AM
Are we allowed to use recorded shows as clips if the guy has c2c and audio? I just did a bad ass dom show and want to use it.
Are we allowed to use recorded shows as clips if the guy has c2c and audio? I just did a bad ass dom show and want to use it.
In my opinion the answer is NO because the person appearing on ur recording is not age verified and not linked to ur model account as a performer.
naughtybabe1
08-05-2022, 10:33 AM
Does anybody here split SM with MFC please? I need another site similar to SM and I looked at Stripchat but their payout options are rubbish for the UK. Would it be feasible to split both SM and MFC at the same time and still do well? I split until recently with AW but the rules are so different for free there that it wasn't worth it.
Also as an aside, would MFC work as an older model, I'm in my 40's. I remember seeing that one of the big sites had an age limit but I can't for the life of me remember which, or even if that's true! :)
I appreciate I'm asking about MFC on the SM thread but I'd really like to know how they work side by side. TIA!
I split with Stripchat and SM and I do pretty good on there. Some days I make more on SC than I do on SM. I'm 50...IRL..but look barely 40. I don't there is an age limit. I'm in USA so not sure about the payment options. I am with Boleyn Models. Maybe you could look at joining them as a daily payout? Just my two cents...good luck!
kiki399
08-05-2022, 11:26 AM
Does anybody here split SM with MFC please? I need another site similar to SM and I looked at Stripchat but their payout options are rubbish for the UK. Would it be feasible to split both SM and MFC at the same time and still do well? I split until recently with AW but the rules are so different for free there that it wasn't worth it.
Also as an aside, would MFC work as an older model, I'm in my 40's. I remember seeing that one of the big sites had an age limit but I can't for the life of me remember which, or even if that's true! :)
I appreciate I'm asking about MFC on the SM thread but I'd really like to know how they work side by side. TIA!
Yes, I do MFC and CB while streaming on SM. SM is my main site but I make serious bank on those sites some days, and im in my late 40's and do well, its hit or miss on any site in the summer, but if you can handle splitcamming it never hurts, because when SM is dead I can make my daily goal 80% of the time in a few hours.
kiki399
08-05-2022, 11:29 AM
Football is not too bad, I am an American and an NFL fan. I always cam during games, I work around the Cowboys games though. If they are playing around 1pm I don't cam, but if they play 4 or 8pm, I am online and still can make money. It's also something that I talk about too, which is good if its football season and your into the same sport, you can get some shows just from that from some guys.
... I remember seeing that one of the big sites had an age limit but I can't for the life of me remember which, or even if that's true! :) I think it is LiveJasmin
Mindyourbusiness
08-05-2022, 01:05 PM
Hi everyone! Is there a way to delete mass message pic that you already submitted but still pending?
I checked everywhere but it seems impossible?
fetishqueen
08-05-2022, 02:27 PM
Thank you ladies! I will have to have a look at both MFC and Stripchat to see which is better for me. Although it's so hard to tell until you join and start, looking at the main page of any site including SM scares the shit out of me! They both look like possibles for a decent 2nd site though and if I start on one and don't like it I can try the other.
And well, LiveJasmin can kiss my ass! :D
JustMilfnAround
08-05-2022, 02:27 PM
I think it is LiveJasmin
Can confirm - I'm 46 but pass for 30/35 and they turned me down. They are missing out on that MILF money, kind of a dumb move on their part.
fetishqueen
08-05-2022, 02:27 PM
I think once you submit it that's it, you can't make any changes at all.
fetishqueen
08-05-2022, 02:30 PM
Can confirm - I'm 46 but pass for 30/35 and they turned me down. They are missing out on that MILF money, kind of a dumb move on their part.
Shit yes, I'm a similar age and SO many young guys love older women. Admittedly most of them last under 2 minutes and balk at my prices but hey, some do pay sometimes! MILF's are where it's at!
SuperPookie
08-05-2022, 04:04 PM
$3.50 in 4 hours. Wtf is going on today :( ?
whirlerz
08-05-2022, 08:16 PM
$3.50 in 4 hours. Wtf is going on today :( ?
Exactly! ^
Some real prize custys, to boot. *Heavy Sarcasm *
Mindyourbusiness
08-06-2022, 07:27 AM
Damn it! I sent it for free without setting up the price:(
emkato
08-06-2022, 10:21 AM
just a few minutes ago I had an experience online that I haven't had in a long time. I had an influx of guys come in my room all at once. not just potentials but actual members, like 20 of them, all of them talking and tipping. like they all got a notification that my room was the place to be or something. It was nice but so random cause lets be real, the site has changed a lot, theres a lot less engagement and activity than there used to be, and most of the time theres maybe 1 or 2 guys in my room max at any given time. It truly was like i went back in time for 5 minutes to when SM was in its prime. I wish this kind of thing happened more often, because just like that my room is back to the new normal AKA the boring wasteland that is known as Streamate lol.
anyway just thought I'd share.
fetishqueen
08-06-2022, 10:58 AM
Random question - if you have c2c on in private and others come into the show can they hear what the guy says on his cam? Surely if I can hear him talking, they can and that would be a problem for the rules? But it can't be because c2c is allowed in private, with every possibility that could happen.
I never thought about it until today when it happened! I only allowed it because the guy had been in exclusive with c2c, got cut off and came back and I rarely get multiples in private.
JustMilfnAround
08-06-2022, 12:23 PM
OMG, My psychotic ex just tried to dox me by coming into my room with my actual name as the username. I reported to support and explained the situation. Has anyone ever had this or something like it happen? How did support handle it?
He lives with me (LONG STORY) and I just checked the modem and sure enough it was him. I asked if support could provide the IP address or location so I could make a police report if necessary.