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Angela888
09-06-2022, 04:51 AM
Jesus Christ what is wrong with SM, I’ve just logged off out of sheer frustration . Yes very entitled dick heads .
emkato
09-06-2022, 08:40 AM
Jesus Christ what is wrong with SM, I’ve just logged off out of sheer frustration . Yes very entitled dick heads .
The quality of SM as a whole has gone downhill big time. The vibe of the site is so different now. Good paying customers are few and far between. Its such a shame. Im amazed I still am able to make a decent living on here sometimes lol.
Erika_Xstacy
09-06-2022, 09:06 AM
I unblock members all the time.
I dont know if there’s benefits to
Unblocking, I just hate leaving money on the table.
When I see a day I blocked a lot of guys I tend to think I was having a off day and it probably wasn’t their fault that I was super sensitive. I unblock that list immediately.
I blocked my current biggest spender the first day and unblocked him later that day. He was in free chat, good convo but no money spent.
Hes a example why I unblock. It doesn’t happen every time but that one member that comes back to redeem himself makes it worth the try.
he logs on everyday and spends $$$$$ everyday for the past year.
JustMilfnAround
09-06-2022, 09:54 AM
HOLY SHIT!
So this just happened. Had a guy by the username of Rocky came in and out of my room for about 45 minutes. Asked about a show the first time, then left, came back a few minutes later and asked how long I was going to be on. Sat and stared for awhile and then when I had a good tipper come in and I was sending the tipper his videos, I had a exclusive request pop up and the username was the same as the high tipper so I accepted the show. When he got into exclusive and typed Hi, it showed up as Rocky and gave him away.
If you want to block him, his ID is: 107877659
That was so manipulative I am pissed AF and trying to calm down so I can stream again
Dreamqueen
09-06-2022, 10:09 AM
I unblock members all the time.
I dont know if there’s benefits to
Unblocking, I just hate leaving money on the table.
When I see a day I blocked a lot of guys I tend to think I was having a off day and it probably wasn’t their fault that I was super sensitive. I unblock that list immediately.
I blocked my current biggest spender the first day and unblocked him later that day. He was in free chat, good convo but no money spent.
Hes a example why I unblock. It doesn’t happen every time but that one member that comes back to redeem himself makes it worth the try.
he logs on everyday and spends $$$$$ everyday for the past year.
Yes, this is exactly why I'm thinking of unblocking the ones where I've left the message option open.
I'm a temperamental bitch, with mood swings. If I'm in a bad mood, everyone gets blocked that day, if they even say one thing to piss me off. Lol
I'm going to try it and see what happens.
Angela888
09-06-2022, 10:25 AM
The quality of SM as a whole has gone downhill big time. The vibe of the site is so different now. Good paying customers are few and far between. Its such a shame. Im amazed I still am able to make a decent living on here sometimes lol.
Yes I’ve only been camming two years but there is a major difference now, agreed it is such a shame . Right, I got 3 more hours of an 8 hour shift to do so I’m logging back on into the swamp of ass hole losers, wish me luck ladies
Angela888
09-06-2022, 10:27 AM
HOLY SHIT!
So this just happened. Had a guy by the username of Rocky came in and out of my room for about 45 minutes. Asked about a show the first time, then left, came back a few minutes later and asked how long I was going to be on. Sat and stared for awhile and then when I had a good tipper come in and I was sending the tipper his videos, I had a exclusive request pop up and the username was the same as the high tipper so I accepted the show. When he got into exclusive and typed Hi, it showed up as Rocky and gave him away.
If you want to block him, his ID is: 107877659
That was so manipulative I am pissed AF and trying to calm down so I can stream again
What a dick!! Don’t let him lower your vibe hun , unfortunately at the moment there are tons of these online. He will get his karma … love your you tube channel by the way. I’m same personality type as you. Xx
JustMilfnAround
09-06-2022, 10:48 AM
What a dick!! Don’t let him lower your vibe hun , unfortunately at the moment there are tons of these online. He will get his karma … love your you tube channel by the way. I’m same personality type as you. Xx
Thank you Angela! Being an introvert on days this bad SUUCCKKSSS! I was peopled out 15 minutes in.
Today has been awful. The money has been decent but these guys are something else! I've blocked 15 ish dudes and reported 3 in the last hour and a half. I'm trying to chill but my patience has reached it's limit, that's for sure!
Angela888
09-06-2022, 01:00 PM
Thank you Angela! Being an introvert on days this bad SUUCCKKSSS! I was peopled out 15 minutes in.
Today has been awful. The money has been decent but these guys are something else! I've blocked 15 ish dudes and reported 3 in the last hour and a half. I'm trying to chill but my patience has reached it's limit, that's for sure!
yuk yes agreed!! I’ve done my 8 hours of dealing with complete turds , tomorrow is a new day x
bobsandvangene
09-06-2022, 02:13 PM
Seems to be connection issues today? Taking ages to allow me to stream and then c2c hardly works and keeps kicking people out
Erika_Xstacy
09-06-2022, 04:29 PM
Seems to be connection issues today? Taking ages to allow me to stream and then c2c hardly works and keeps kicking people out
same here
Esixxx
09-06-2022, 04:38 PM
I had the issue where it was taking a long time to get my stream to load. I didn't have any issues with c2c. I thought it was on my end because my cams went to looking funky for a little bit
Genoveve
09-06-2022, 08:04 PM
HOLY SHIT!
So this just happened. Had a guy by the username of Rocky came in and out of my room for about 45 minutes. Asked about a show the first time, then left, came back a few minutes later and asked how long I was going to be on. Sat and stared for awhile and then when I had a good tipper come in and I was sending the tipper his videos, I had a exclusive request pop up and the username was the same as the high tipper so I accepted the show. When he got into exclusive and typed Hi, it showed up as Rocky and gave him away.
If you want to block him, his ID is: 107877659
That was so manipulative I am pissed AF and trying to calm down so I can stream again
Hate to break it to you but for months now I occasionally see a glitch where the site seems to screw up usernames. The site will say that say Bill447799 went exclu, but when he types it will say his username is Jim2748 in the chat box. It usually seems to incorrectly display the name of someone who was there earlier.
Guys do switch their usernames to be sneaky, but they will keep showing up everywhere under the new username. I also assume it was probably that glitch in your instance because why would a guy try to manipulate you in such a way? Like what would their purpose be?
izshadow
09-06-2022, 08:30 PM
I can not get SM to connect tonight! I'm about to scream!
bigbum
09-06-2022, 11:09 PM
there must be some kind of wave of sickos. ive had a great last 2 nights on cam . easy and fun.
but one creep sent me a DM and listed his address and said that he had 2 17 year old girls . and wanted me to come over. so fucking creepy.
i reported him. i hope they do something. sicko!!
its been a minute since i had sickos like that in my room. and its always the ones that just send a DM but arent even active in the room or in the room at all.
there must be some kind of wave of sickos. ive had a great last 2 nights on cam . easy and fun.
but one creep sent me a DM and listed his address and said that he had 2 17 year old girls . and wanted me to come over. so fucking creepy.
i reported him. i hope they do something. sicko!!
its been a minute since i had sickos like that in my room. and its always the ones that just send a DM but arent even active in the room or in the room at all.
i had fab daysssssss, today omg worst ever hopefully is going ok on others websites
fetishqueen
09-07-2022, 06:49 AM
Losing connection over and over today, keeps disconnecting me. I know it's SM because other site is ok.
JustMilfnAround
09-07-2022, 08:33 AM
Hate to break it to you but for months now I occasionally see a glitch where the site seems to screw up usernames. The site will say that say Bill447799 went exclu, but when he types it will say his username is Jim2748 in the chat box. It usually seems to incorrectly display the name of someone who was there earlier.
Guys do switch their usernames to be sneaky, but they will keep showing up everywhere under the new username. I also assume it was probably that glitch in your instance because why would a guy try to manipulate you in such a way? Like what would their purpose be?
Hate to break it to you, but you are telling me nothing new and I am already familiar with the glitch. I've seen it before, multiple times so I am aware of how it works.
Rocky messaged me right away after I went offline to type notes and finish my ban process after banning him from the show. I hadn't banned him from messages yet so the message came through. He asked when I would be back online and the message was under the username of Rocky.
I also viewed the username that Rocky used to imitate the tipper and there was a slight variation at the very end so it's pretty obvious he changed his username. Also, on the block list it shows as "Rocky". Both user ID's match up on the blocked details card from the black list AND in the earnings section. The user ID for the tipper is different.
I assume his purpose would be to get me to accept his show even though I had a VERY generous tipper that I was sending videos to, Rocky was likely wound up and horny so he wanted to be sure I would accept the show. I had rejected a show just prior to his exclusive request and told the person I was not accepting shows at the time as I was trying to send the big tipper his videos and of course was trying to stay in public chat in case I had more large tips coming. What model walks away from someone tipping $50-$75 NUMEROUS TIMES for a rando that's been bugging about a show for 45 minutes and running his mouth without tipping or actually doing a show. What better way to get me to accept the show than by impersonating the big tipper?
High tips in free chat 90% of the time (at least in my 7 years of experience) brings out the dumbfucks and manipulators.
livroyale
09-07-2022, 08:46 AM
I just tried to upload a recorded show to SM to sell and it says "Rejected: Copy of livestream content." It's been a while since I've uploaded videos there, but the ones I have are recorded privates/exclusives/gold shows. Are those not allowed anymore? I thought that was the whole point of recording our shows, so we could continue to profit from them.
NitaBaby
09-07-2022, 09:36 AM
I just tried to upload a recorded show to SM to sell and it says "Rejected: Copy of livestream content." It's been a while since I've uploaded videos there, but the ones I have are recorded privates/exclusives/gold shows. Are those not allowed anymore? I thought that was the whole point of recording our shows, so we could continue to profit from them.
That's odd. I just uploaded a show recording two days ago and it was accepted. Got my first sale for it this morning. I have no idea why they would claim it's a problem.
Erika_Xstacy
09-07-2022, 01:34 PM
userid=112964646
block his ass
jerkmate88
he is recording shows
bigbum
09-07-2022, 10:15 PM
omg I knew it! I blocked him right away when is saw his username. I block ppl just for user names often lol
userid=112964646
block his ass
jerkmate88
he is recording shows
tashiepuck
09-08-2022, 01:59 PM
No payment today ... anyone else ?
FloridaSunDoll
09-08-2022, 02:04 PM
No payment today ... anyone else ?
I got ACH today
sexyalex2828
09-08-2022, 02:16 PM
I think you have to still be on safari on an iPhone and give access to your phone before? I tried it once and it seemed clunky
I keep giving it access and it doesn’t work and streamate support advice didn’t work smh
Erika_Xstacy
09-08-2022, 02:30 PM
I keep giving it access and it doesn’t work and streamate support advice didn’t work smh
I wonder if you can ask for a static pic so you dont have to do a photo
Erika_Xstacy
09-08-2022, 03:56 PM
today is weird
Im having great bursts of paying traffic, mostly regulars and then its dead for a while
Prussia
09-08-2022, 06:37 PM
Hey ladies... I have a question about tip vibes. I want to get one for SM. I took a look at their FAQ help page, but it hasn't been updated since 2020. (I was going to link the specific FAQ page, but I'm not sure if I should link that page/site publicly here?)
I emailed support but, well you can guess how that went. Does anyone know where I can find an up to date list of brands and models that are compatible? Those toys are so expensive I just don't want to end up buying one that won't work. I see lots of models with a certain pink one, it's kinda of a u shaped insertable one... It seems very popular, but lovense I think? I'd be most interested in that one tbh.
Thanks! x
Genoveve
09-08-2022, 06:47 PM
today is weird
Im having great bursts of paying traffic, mostly regulars and then its dead for a while
Happened to me too, logged on and the first 40 min were non-stop busy then traffic suddenly completely died, I went like 20 min with no shows and at one point I logged off because I went almost 2.5 min with no one in my room and assumed the site was glitching. Came back a bit later and it's been normal.
waogtrain
09-08-2022, 07:08 PM
Sunday was the last day the site seemed normal to me. I worked Tuesday, Wednesday, and today. I'm middle of the first page and going 2-5 minutes without anyone coming into my room. When they do pop in, they rarely interact and then leave shortly after coming in. Most of the money I've made this week was from Sunday and I'm starting to get worried. Thankfully my stats are good and the people who have interacted say that they can see and hear me fine. Just hoping things will be better tomorrow/next week.
Prussia
09-08-2022, 07:10 PM
Happened to me too, logged on and the first 40 min were non-stop busy then traffic suddenly completely died, I went like 20 min with no shows and at one point I logged off because I went almost 2.5 min with no one in my room and assumed the site was glitching. Came back a bit later and it's been normal.
Not sure about earlier in the day, but tonight is opening night in football (NFL).
Strawberryblonde
09-08-2022, 09:52 PM
Not sure about earlier in the day, but tonight is opening night in football (NFL).
Also here in the UK the Queen has died, not sure how this will affect camming but sporting events and an important concert (The Proms) have been cancelled. Many people are upset, funeral likely to be a public holiday in 10 days or so.
Sunday was the last day the site seemed normal to me. I worked Tuesday, Wednesday, and today. I'm middle of the first page and going 2-5 minutes without anyone coming into my room. When they do pop in, they rarely interact and then leave shortly after coming in. Most of the money I've made this week was from Sunday and I'm starting to get worried. Thankfully my stats are good and the people who have interacted say that they can see and hear me fine. Just hoping things will be better tomorrow/next week.
honestly last few dayssss was so weird. i taken one week from gym to work harder and i was hoping to double my income on SM, i did not however i did on others website.
was very hard mentally more no gym so easy to have be more moody LOL, help to cope stress to handle w idiot OMG, patience 0 but less than 000000
my low intolance for idiot is something that play against me, i try to troll the troll and still is so damn hard. i wish i could be more silly
anyway i m going to join an agency to work on the side (no cam) because i would like to work less earn more and change some dayssss not always to work on pc :D
tashiepuck
09-09-2022, 06:39 AM
sorry for asking again ... but I did not receive payment into my masspay account this week although it says SM issued the payment ... anyone else ? Thanks for your help
littlewhitelies
09-09-2022, 01:21 PM
sorry for asking again ... but I did not receive payment into my masspay account this week although it says SM issued the payment ... anyone else ? Thanks for your help
I got my Masspay payment on schedule this week. If you haven't already, I would contact support.
waogtrain
09-09-2022, 05:15 PM
Sunday was the last day the site seemed normal to me. I worked Tuesday, Wednesday, and today. I'm middle of the first page and going 2-5 minutes without anyone coming into my room. When they do pop in, they rarely interact and then leave shortly after coming in. Most of the money I've made this week was from Sunday and I'm starting to get worried. Thankfully my stats are good and the people who have interacted say that they can see and hear me fine. Just hoping things will be better tomorrow/next week.
Today feels so much better. I now have multiple(?!) registered users in my room AND people are chatting. Maybe still a little slow but I don't even care. Interaction makes for a much better work environment.
Prussia
09-09-2022, 06:02 PM
Ok I figured out the toy I mentioned in my post above. Lovense Lush. I see that there are a few versions of it... does anyone know if the latest model Lush 3 is compatible with SM? Or if y'all recommend one of the three as the best to use? I've been in and out of the loop with camming the last year or so, and I'm trying to get serious with camming again. I'm really confused with the interactive toys stuff. xo
Here is the FAQ page I mentioned earlier... they really need to update this page. :-/
https://streamatehelp.com/interactive-vibes
Prussia
09-09-2022, 06:04 PM
Also here in the UK the Queen has died, not sure how this will affect camming but sporting events and an important concert (The Proms) have been cancelled. Many people are upset, funeral likely to be a public holiday in 10 days or so.
I'm in Canada. Yeah, it's a big deal here too. I was going to mention that as well, but then I was like, hmmm I don't think many guys are at home watching the news about the Queen instead of jerking off on cam lol. :P
Erika_Xstacy
09-09-2022, 08:18 PM
I'm in Canada. Yeah, it's a big deal here too. I was going to mention that as well, but then I was like, hmmm I don't think many guys are at home watching the news about the Queen instead of jerking off on cam lol. :P
I imagine most of America will watch, it is expected to be the biggest television event of the year
Erika_Xstacy
09-09-2022, 08:20 PM
Ok I figured out the toy I mentioned in my post above. Lovense Lush. I see that there are a few versions of it... does anyone know if the latest model Lush 3 is compatible with SM? Or if y'all recommend one of the three as the best to use? I've been in and out of the loop with camming the last year or so, and I'm trying to get serious with camming again. I'm really confused with the interactive toys stuff. xo
Here is the FAQ page I mentioned earlier... they really need to update this page. :-/
https://streamatehelp.com/interactive-vibes
yes it does, mine is a 3
Strawberryblonde
09-09-2022, 10:14 PM
I'm in Canada. Yeah, it's a big deal here too. I was going to mention that as well, but then I was like, hmmm I don't think many guys are at home watching the news about the Queen instead of jerking off on cam lol. :P
Football cancelled for the weekend, that's a lot of spare time. Other events cancelled.
bigbum
09-10-2022, 01:22 AM
yes it does, mine is a 3
my 3 just broke open. that was like 2 whole months of use lol.
and the magnetic charger barely works.
how often do you ladies replace your lush these days?
Angela888
09-10-2022, 01:57 AM
my 3 just broke open. that was like 2 whole months of use lol.
and the magnetic charger barely works.
how often do you ladies replace your lush these days?
I’ve gone through 3 in 2 years, prefer the lush 2 over lush 3 x
Angela888
09-10-2022, 02:00 AM
Sunday was the last day the site seemed normal to me. I worked Tuesday, Wednesday, and today. I'm middle of the first page and going 2-5 minutes without anyone coming into my room. When they do pop in, they rarely interact and then leave shortly after coming in. Most of the money I've made this week was from Sunday and I'm starting to get worried. Thankfully my stats are good and the people who have interacted say that they can see and hear me fine. Just hoping things will be better tomorrow/next week.
did things improve for you? I don’t understand what’s going on, my potentials are like 1-5 max used to be way higher. Yesterday I sat for 2 hours with hardly anyone coming In For long stretches, I’m not experiencing such deadness on other sites so I’m really wondering if SM is actually ok. I so miss how SM used to be, I bloody love this site
wonderland1
09-10-2022, 03:34 AM
did things improve for you? I don’t understand what’s going on, my potentials are like 1-5 max used to be way higher. Yesterday I sat for 2 hours with hardly anyone coming In For long stretches, I’m not experiencing such deadness on other sites so I’m really wondering if SM is actually ok. I so miss how SM used to be, I bloody love this site
Something must be wrong on site because I have never experienced it so dead as I have the past 3 weeks. I am making 1/4 of what I normally do. I can understand if it is just slow (or even slow for me) but some regular guys (non spenders, just a few useful idiots that like to chat who I choose tolerate in Free) came in tonight and asked where I have been. I was like "dude, I just got done camming 16 days in a row with no days off to make up for slow traffic lately, I've been here, where have you been?!". And 3 of them said they have been on the site regularly during that time, they already have me added to faves and still did not see me. These are guys I believe. I also took all geo restrictions off a few weeks ago and I have less potentials than I did with them on! I even lowered my rates and tried new stuff and still nada. I already contacted tech support about the geo thing, etc., and they're "looking into it"...sigh... This shit is painful... luckily, I dont have all my eggs in 1 basket and have a small fetish specific site I can cam on as a buffer when sm acts up . I dunno what to think....I feel shadow banned or that my account is 'broken' since I moved. Very strange and depressing since I was making some of my highest earnings about a month ago and then bam right before the last big contest, everything changed. Has this happened to anyone else? How do you explain this?
Something must be wrong on site because I have never experienced it so dead as I have the past 3 weeks. I am making 1/4 of what I normally do. I can understand if it is just slow (or even slow for me) but some regular guys (non spenders, just a few useful idiots that like to chat who I choose tolerate in Free) came in tonight and asked where I have been. I was like "dude, I just got done camming 16 days in a row with no days off to make up for slow traffic lately, I've been here, where have you been?!". And 3 of them said they have been on the site regularly during that time, they already have me added to faves and still did not see me. These are guys I believe. I also took all geo restrictions off a few weeks ago and I have less potentials than I did with them on! I even lowered my rates and tried new stuff and still nada. I already contacted tech support about the geo thing, etc., and they're "looking into it"...sigh... This shit is painful... luckily, I dont have all my eggs in 1 basket and have a small fetish specific site I can cam on as a buffer when sm acts up . I dunno what to think....I feel shadow banned or that my account is 'broken' since I moved. Very strange and depressing since I was making some of my highest earnings about a month ago and then bam right before the last big contest, everything changed. Has this happened to anyone else? How do you explain this?
yestersay i made the most ever, today and thursday was so depressing
today is slow everywhere but everywhere so far
so wasted my time
it will pick up for you, yes hold on
AuroraJade
09-10-2022, 05:46 AM
It the economy. I understand US models might now know, but we are having an energy crisis and hyperinflation here in Europe. A lot of people cant even pay for groceries. There is no money left for luxuries. Add to that the inflation in the USA which is already there but nowhere to the level we have here, and you'll get why its slow.
If you are in the USA, there's a big chance you don't understand how dire the situation is here. We are talking people who will be shut off power and heating for the winter because they have to pay 500-1000 euros/month on energy.
People who can't feed their kids because there is no money for food. A lot of SM customers are European. And yes, this will come to the USA. Please prepare yourself. Do what you want with this warning.
This will take 5-10 years. Plan accordingly. This also explains the influx of new models, why members and everybody in general is so angry and the constant looking for freebies.
Esixxx
09-10-2022, 06:27 AM
another 43sex com spammer account id 113184430
I attempted to block and it did not work.
Manually blocking them worked
It the economy. I understand US models might now know, but we are having an energy crisis and hyperinflation here in Europe. A lot of people cant even pay for groceries. There is no money left for luxuries. Add to that the inflation in the USA which is already there but nowhere to the level we have here, and you'll get why its slow.
If you are in the USA, there's a big chance you don't understand how dire the situation is here. We are talking people who will be shut off power and heating for the winter because they have to pay 500-1000 euros/month on energy.
People who can't feed their kids because there is no money for food. A lot of SM customers are European. And yes, this will come to the USA. Please prepare yourself. Do what you want with this warning.
This will take 5-10 years. Plan accordingly. This also explains the influx of new models, why members and everybody in general is so angry and the constant looking for freebies.
idk how to express that. anyway freebies/timewasters are always been there crisis or not ;D slow days also so the world is going to adapt in some way
AuroraJade
09-10-2022, 07:02 AM
There is not much to adapt when you have to pay 1000 in energy bills and people have to sit in a freezing home and there is no money for food. I dont think people understand how dire the situation is.
Adapting will mean that there will be people here who are going to lose their lives.