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Jayleashaxo
11-01-2022, 02:28 PM
Another canned response because this is what they sent last Thursday when I contacted them. They haven't responded to multiple emails since.
Oh is it it’s different to the emails they sent me before!
how annoying that they haven’t replied to you, they did to me but our ally the same response every damn time
DivineMissDeviant
11-01-2022, 02:31 PM
Oh is it it’s different to the emails they sent me before!
how annoying that they haven’t replied to you, they did to me but our ally the same response every damn time
Very poor practice. Each customer deserves a personal response - especially when you're handling that customer's money.
JustMilfnAround
11-01-2022, 03:07 PM
Anyone else legit freaking the fuck out right now? I am......
DivineMissDeviant
11-01-2022, 03:11 PM
Yup - and SM are passing the buck back to MP who won't reply. This is very shady. Very very shady on both parts.
fetishqueen
11-01-2022, 03:12 PM
Masspay has pissed me the fuck off, I've opened a Cosmo account to use so I'll see if that's any good. Liz has kindly contacted Accounts for me and they have recalled my funds from Masspay, to send via Cosmo. I don't know if they are any good either but nothing is happening with Masspay and it's getting stupid now. I don't want the Cosmo card either, I just want to be able to transfer into my bank, where I pay my bills like normal people.
God only knows what this fuck up has done to people who need the money straight away. Not saying I don't, just that I have a bit of a buffer just in case and I'm incredibly grateful for that. If I'd needed it next day then no doubt it would have caused a ton more upset than it already has, I feel like it's been a weight over my mood ever since it's started so I'm hoping for better with Cosmo.
Honestly, the way they have treated us, especially at such difficult times, is beyond disgusting. Even a message popup when the site loads. SOMETHING. Fuck you, Masspay.
Jayleashaxo
11-01-2022, 03:27 PM
It’s shocking they didn’t let anyone know about the situation! I was on holiday for my partners birthday and it sorta put a dampener on the whole trip cos i was panicking!
A simple email to everyone who uses the platform would of been decent enough of them but for us to find out by not actually getting our money is shocking
I dread to think how some other people may feel if they desperately needed that money for bills etc… lucklie I have savings to fall back on but I know some people don’t have that and that’s just not fair for MP to fuck up like that
DivineMissDeviant
11-01-2022, 03:35 PM
Masspay has pissed me the fuck off, I've opened a Cosmo account to use so I'll see if that's any good. Liz has kindly contacted Accounts for me and they have recalled my funds from Masspay, to send via Cosmo. I don't know if they are any good either but nothing is happening with Masspay and it's getting stupid now. I don't want the Cosmo card either, I just want to be able to transfer into my bank, where I pay my bills like normal people.
God only knows what this fuck up has done to people who need the money straight away. Not saying I don't, just that I have a bit of a buffer just in case and I'm incredibly grateful for that. If I'd needed it next day then no doubt it would have caused a ton more upset than it already has, I feel like it's been a weight over my mood ever since it's started so I'm hoping for better with Cosmo.
Honestly, the way they have treated us, especially at such difficult times, is beyond disgusting. Even a message popup when the site loads. SOMETHING. Fuck you, Masspay.
I'm beyond angry with them so I've sent my docs to Cosmo. If I'm approved - Masspay can disappear up their own arse.
DivineMissDeviant
11-01-2022, 03:49 PM
Now mass pay have removed to SEPA option again. What the fuck are they playing at?!
Jayleashaxo
11-01-2022, 04:02 PM
Now mass pay have removed to SEPA option again. What the fuck are they playing at?!
ahah are you like me and keep checking like every hour just in case cos I noticed this earlier. My feeling is they are trying to sort something since it keeps changing, regardless, I’m not useing them once my cosmo account gets accepted
tashiepuck
11-01-2022, 04:56 PM
I've tried reading back not to have to ask this question about the masspay situation .. but what is exactly happening . I'm canadian and I have not had any issues regarding getting paid last week . Is this only happening for UK ?
Thanks
zeusydoo
11-01-2022, 05:59 PM
ahah are you like me and keep checking like every hour just in case cos I noticed this earlier. My feeling is they are trying to sort something since it keeps changing, regardless, I’m not useing them once my cosmo account gets accepted
This happened in the beginning of the year for Australian models getting paid by masspay. I was lucky as I had paxum as a back up, MassPay still doesnt have an Australian partner. So maybe change to cosmo or paxum for the interim till things get sorted with Masspay
Hope this helps some
DeliveryLadyx
11-02-2022, 01:07 AM
Now mass pay have removed to SEPA option again. What the fuck are they playing at?!
I am very confused about this Masspay situation, I cannot see if have sepa still because I have 0 funds and doesn't let me see. Its extremely poor without any message something to let us know if they cannot pay. I just changed in Cosmo and I hope the Streamate team will approve to get paid for last week this Thursday in Cosmo. I'm not happy at all with a 3rd party and the associated high fees, but I cannot waste days and get unmotivated working and stay stressed all the time whether I will be able to access my own money.
DeliveryLadyx
11-02-2022, 01:09 AM
I've tried reading back not to have to ask this question about the masspay situation .. but what is exactly happening . I'm canadian and I have not had any issues regarding getting paid last week . Is this only happening for UK ?
Thanks
It affecting only EU, UK from what I know, but have paxum or another method available just in case.
Nymphette99
11-02-2022, 01:15 AM
I got paid yesterday. It was in the UK and I chose the $28 option which I cannot afford but neither can I afford to not receive it. I requested it from Masspay Thursday evening and it is my first ever payment. I hope they rectify the SEPA option soon.
Ladybuggie
11-02-2022, 05:26 AM
Just logged off because I was on for an hour with 8 potentials and no one in my chat - anyone else? People complaining about losing connection a lot too. I just had a breakdown (((:
Yup it's breakdown city here too! =) Also lots of potentials and also 0 traffic.
DivineMissDeviant
11-02-2022, 07:30 AM
I got paid yesterday. It was in the UK and I chose the $28 option which I cannot afford but neither can I afford to not receive it. I requested it from Masspay Thursday evening and it is my first ever payment. I hope they rectify the SEPA option soon.
Did you actually receive the funds? And what did you put for the routing number?
Jayleashaxo
11-02-2022, 07:33 AM
I got paid yesterday. It was in the UK and I chose the $28 option which I cannot afford but neither can I afford to not receive it. I requested it from Masspay Thursday evening and it is my first ever payment. I hope they rectify the SEPA option soon.
what did you put for the routing number, someone told me to put the swift number in again and that worked for them but it doesn’t for me :(
DivineMissDeviant
11-02-2022, 10:52 AM
Out of interest, I know SM pay euros into Skrill. Can this be transferred to GBP for withdrawal to U.K. bank account? I’m visiting all avenues just in case.
Nymphette99
11-02-2022, 12:40 PM
I left the routing number section blank.
goddessgalore
11-02-2022, 08:58 PM
First night trying SM. It's the norm for guys to come into my room and leave seconds later? A little bit of a confidence killer.
Maybe it's because I'm going for the domme angle and not getting nakie? Is SM more vanilla than not?
*edit: Still getting enough guys (who are clearly not subs) coming into my room telling me that they are jacking to me without giving any gold...lmao...trying to find the balance between showing a little to attract these fools without showing enough for them to finish to....
It's so interesting how each hustle (token and private) are both challenging in their own way.
*last edit: $50 in 2 hours. 2 quick exclusives. Spent most of the time talking to a guy in free chat (he was tipping). Wondering if maybe I'm a token gal.
Strawberryblonde
11-02-2022, 11:09 PM
First night trying SM. It's the norm for guys to come into my room and leave seconds later? A little bit of a confidence killer.
Maybe it's because I'm going for the domme angle and not getting nakie?
*edit: Still getting enough guys (who are clearly not subs) coming into my room telling me that they are jacking to me without giving any gold...lmao...trying to find the balance between showing a little to attract these fools without showing enough for them to finish to....
It's so interesting how each hustle (token and private) are both challenging in their own way.
All absolutely normal, and welcome - that's you welcome.
Ladybuggie
11-03-2022, 04:38 AM
First night trying SM. It's the norm for guys to come into my room and leave seconds later? A little bit of a confidence killer.
Maybe it's because I'm going for the domme angle and not getting nakie? Is SM more vanilla than not?
*edit: Still getting enough guys (who are clearly not subs) coming into my room telling me that they are jacking to me without giving any gold...lmao...trying to find the balance between showing a little to attract these fools without showing enough for them to finish to....
It's so interesting how each hustle (token and private) are both challenging in their own way.
*last edit: $50 in 2 hours. 2 quick exclusives. Spent most of the time talking to a guy in free chat (he was tipping). Wondering if maybe I'm a token gal.
That's just the rhythm of SM, I'm afraid! I remember feeling a bit weirded out by it back when I started but you get used to it pretty quickly. Welcome and good luck!
Nymphette99
11-03-2022, 04:57 AM
They hop in and out all the time don't worry!
Nymphette99
11-03-2022, 04:58 AM
In my vast experience.of three weeks that is!
fetishqueen
11-03-2022, 05:49 AM
Is Masspay working now? I've not seen one post about it since yesterday, I thought someone would have posted to say was still broken or it was fixed... I'm waiting on Cosmo approving me now, fed up waiting!
DivineMissDeviant
11-03-2022, 07:28 AM
Finally, a decent response from the Director of Customer Service at Masspay - and only because I spent yesterday doing some serious sleuthing to find somebody higher up that the idiots who send canned responses:
Hello - Apologies for the issues that you've encountered. Our SEPA partner is experiencing some issues on their end which our team is working with them to resolve. There is not a timetable in place yet, but we're optimistic that the service will be restored soon. I understand that this is an inconvenience and do appreciate your patience.
At this point, I highly recommend you use a different method in the interim, because it looks like this is going to go on for a while yet. I've changed to Skrill so I should get paid via them next week. Yes, there will be more fees in involved because SM pay via Euros for Skrill - but at least you get your money.
fetishqueen
11-03-2022, 07:39 AM
Finally, a decent response from the Director of Customer Service at Masspay - and only because I spent yesterday doing some serious sleuthing to find somebody higher up that the idiots who send canned responses:
Hello - Apologies for the issues that you've encountered. Our SEPA partner is experiencing some issues on their end which our team is working with them to resolve. There is not a timetable in place yet, but we're optimistic that the service will be restored soon. I understand that this is an inconvenience and do appreciate your patience.
At this point, I highly recommend you use a different method in the interim, because it looks like this is going to go on for a while yet. I've changed to Skrill so I should get paid via them next week. Yes, there will be more fees in involved because SM pay via Euros for Skrill - but at least you get your money.
Well he did give a decent polite response but in general their behaviour has been pretty shocking. I'm using Cosmo although still waiting for docs to be approved. I tried to set up Skrill before when they stopped the Worldpay option but found them a nightmare to set up. This whole thing is just ridiculous, they are messing with people's livelihoods.
DivineMissDeviant
11-03-2022, 07:45 AM
You can get paid in GBP with Skrill - it's just they will charge a fee for exchanging it from Euros.
DivineMissDeviant
11-03-2022, 07:49 AM
It can take up to 3 business days to be approved with cosmo, longer if they have an influx of new accounts.
redvelvette
11-03-2022, 07:55 AM
First night trying SM. It's the norm for guys to come into my room and leave seconds later? A little bit of a confidence killer.
Maybe it's because I'm going for the domme angle and not getting nakie? Is SM more vanilla than not?
*edit: Still getting enough guys (who are clearly not subs) coming into my room telling me that they are jacking to me without giving any gold...lmao...trying to find the balance between showing a little to attract these fools without showing enough for them to finish to....
It's so interesting how each hustle (token and private) are both challenging in their own way.
*last edit: $50 in 2 hours. 2 quick exclusives. Spent most of the time talking to a guy in free chat (he was tipping). Wondering if maybe I'm a token gal.
Those guys are probably checking your profile and your rates. They'll probably come back for a show in a few days or maybe a week or two. It still happens to me all the time if I work hours I don't usually work. My first few nights at the new time I get a lot of people popping in and out, a few chatters, nobody spending, but I recognize the names when they come back later to get shows. I think maybe they watch you logged out and just log in to see your rates. Don't let it discourage you. I think Streamate has a lot of shy guys who take a bit of time to ask for what they want. Especially if you're attracting submissive men.
You do what you like, but personally if someone tells me they're masturbating for free I block them. I feel like that's a power play and I don't like it. Other models may be successful at getting money from them, but I feel like they've lost the privilege of experiencing me because of their rudeness. I'm a vanilla model though, so maybe these guys are brats or sams or whatever and dommes deal with it differently.
DivineMissDeviant
11-03-2022, 08:12 AM
First night trying SM. It's the norm for guys to come into my room and leave seconds later? A little bit of a confidence killer.
Maybe it's because I'm going for the domme angle and not getting nakie? Is SM more vanilla than not?
*edit: Still getting enough guys (who are clearly not subs) coming into my room telling me that they are jacking to me without giving any gold...lmao...trying to find the balance between showing a little to attract these fools without showing enough for them to finish to....
It's so interesting how each hustle (token and private) are both challenging in their own way.
*last edit: $50 in 2 hours. 2 quick exclusives. Spent most of the time talking to a guy in free chat (he was tipping). Wondering if maybe I'm a token gal.
Yup, perfectly normal. That's how it is for me and I'm strictly Domme. Some of those guys who pop in and out will be guys who can't read and think they're getting a vanilla show. If they are jacking without giving gold, boot them out - they soon learn. I have a strict "no wank" policy in my free chat. The genuine guys will pay a fine (tip) and the vanilla chancers will leave - it separates the wheat from the chaff. My advice is don't show them anything too risque unless they go into paid mode - you're a Goddess and to see more means they have to show they are worthy.
You'll soon find that the exclusives/privates will come flowing in. You're new so you're at a big advantage. And there are those who will pop in to get a feel for you before going to a paid show.
fetishqueen
11-03-2022, 08:17 AM
It can take up to 3 business days to be approved with cosmo, longer if they have an influx of new accounts.
I guess they might have an influx right now! It's been 3 days so shouldn't be much longer. :)
Nymphette99
11-03-2022, 09:17 AM
This is hopeless the bank wire method on Masspay isn't working now either. I was going to wait but how long will it take to fix? I decided to request my money but it won't work. Will have to move to Cosmo ....
DivineMissDeviant
11-03-2022, 09:21 AM
This is hopeless the bank wire method on Masspay isn't working now either. I was going to wait but how long will it take to fix? I decided to request my money but it won't work. Will have to move to Cosmo ....
Definitely pick another method - this is going to go on for a while.
JessRyan
11-03-2022, 09:37 AM
Yup, perfectly normal. That's how it is for me and I'm strictly Domme. Some of those guys who pop in and out will be guys who can't read and think they're getting a vanilla show. If they are jacking without giving gold, boot them out - they soon learn. I have a strict "no wank" policy in my free chat. The genuine guys will pay a fine (tip) and the vanilla chancers will leave - it separates the wheat from the chaff. My advice is don't show them anything too risque unless they go into paid mode - you're a Goddess and to see more means they have to show they are worthy.
You'll soon find that the exclusives/privates will come flowing in. You're new so you're at a big advantage. And there are those who will pop in to get a feel for you before going to a paid show.
Great post/reply. SM is a private based site. EVERYTHING sexy & worth while happens in PAID private.
Which is also tricky because it's YOUR job to get them into paid private.
I'm in casual clothes, fully dressed in free chat.
They must pay for the good stuff. If they want free shows, they can go to Chaturbate.
They're in my streamate room. They get nothing but small talk in free chat.
On SM you're a sales woman. Imagine you're a car salesman. Imagine there's a real guy behind the screen.
Unlike some camgirls who think just because they're cute, hot or ready to play the member OWES them a tip & or private. Don't be that camgirl. Don't listen to those girls. And you'll soon find out who they are the longer you cam.
Members owe you nothing. It's your job to figure out your hustle.
Camming isn't rocket science & not meant for everyone. But it is a "talent" you either get it or you don't.
Its sales. When you find a good salesman in any field, you go back to him. When a member finds a camgirl he likes, he goes back to her.
Contrary to popular belief here, men are not stupid.
They're on a camsite for sexual companionship, connection with a woman who gets it and gets them off.
As I said it's not rocket science, but it is a science of male & female dynamics
Be forgiving towards men, don't under estimate them, and smile.
Men can spot a bitter entitled camgirl a mile away.
DivineMissDeviant
11-03-2022, 10:15 AM
SM have just advised me that last week's payment has been reversed and will be sent via Skrill next week. So that's one weight off my mind!
JessRyan
11-03-2022, 10:37 AM
I'm just now reading the Streamfans agreeement,
so for those who are trying Streamfans, what do you think of the agreement, Section H where it states, "Self-promotion and Social Media Links are allowed. All external links are reviewed and subject to removal. See further discussion in Section J."
After YEARS of it being drilled into out heads we can't do this??
SM has long needed to get on board, when they say we can't do this after all these years under penalty of federal prison (just about) if we mention ...god forbid, shhhh whisper.... twitter.
But then they send us support mail/message to tweet hashtags about any contest. I thought Twitter was forbidden territory.
Honestly it's very confusing and I don't trust reading this.
Nymphette99
11-03-2022, 10:38 AM
Definitely pick another method - this is going to go on for a while.
How long do MassPay mean when they say amendments to their site will take a while? I can wait two weeks but no more. Not sure if worth the hassle in changing to Cosmo....??
fetishqueen
11-03-2022, 10:41 AM
SM have just advised me that last week's payment has been reversed and will be sent via Skrill next week. So that's one weight off my mind!
That's a relief! It's worth mentioning again in case anyone's worrying and didn't see, you can ask SM to recall the money and then send it out another way. Or even ask them to recall it from Masspay while you decide where to send it. Mine got recalled pretty fast. I never realised we could even do that with Masspay and I feel much better now that my money is not with them.
fetishqueen
11-03-2022, 10:45 AM
How long do MassPay mean when they say amendments to their site will take a while? I can wait two weeks but no more. Not sure if worth the hassle in changing to Cosmo....??
If I were you I'd open an account with Cosmo anyway, it costs nothing and you don't have to use it if you don't want to. It takes a few days to be approved but you can let that happen and maybe Masspay works in the meantime, if not, you have a back up ready if you need it. I did it and I felt better taking a bit of control.
Also, if MP works and you never use the Cosmo account you set up, it's there as a fallback if MP fuck up again in the future.
HiLola
11-03-2022, 10:47 AM
Finally, a decent response from the Director of Customer Service at Masspay - and only because I spent yesterday doing some serious sleuthing to find somebody higher up that the idiots who send canned responses:
Hello - Apologies for the issues that you've encountered. Our SEPA partner is experiencing some issues on their end which our team is working with them to resolve. There is not a timetable in place yet, but we're optimistic that the service will be restored soon. I understand that this is an inconvenience and do appreciate your patience.
I got this exact same response back in july when their crypto whitdrawal service wasn't working, I waited for about a month and decided to do a SEPA instead, not sure if they ever fixed it. I would highly recommend using a different payment method as it seems weird they are now experiencing the same with SEPA :detective
This is what they sent me on july 7:
Hello,
We understand the frustration, unfortunately we are attached to multiple partners and as some of their servers are down, this automatically affects us. I can guarantee you that our team is working it's best to restore service asap. This never happens, we want to provide you the best service. Please bare with us and sorry for this inconvenience
Thanks for understanding.
Nymphette99
11-03-2022, 10:54 AM
If I were you I'd open an account with Cosmo anyway, it costs nothing and you don't have to use it if you don't want to. It takes a few days to be approved but you can let that happen and maybe Masspay works in the meantime, if not, you have a back up ready if you need it. I did it and I felt better taking a bit of control.
Also, if MP works and you never use the Cosmo account you set up, it's there as a fallback if MP fuck up again in the future.
Yes you are right. Cheers.
goddessgalore
11-03-2022, 11:02 AM
All absolutely normal, and welcome - that's you welcome.
Omg. CRYING. Lol.
DivineMissDeviant
11-03-2022, 11:02 AM
Throughout my sleuthing yesterday, I discovered Masspay has form for this. The reviews on trust pilot are terrible. One on earth SM went with them I don't know - can only assume they were cheap. But cheap is not good when they don't provide a quality service.
goddessgalore
11-03-2022, 11:05 AM
That's just the rhythm of SM, I'm afraid! I remember feeling a bit weirded out by it back when I started but you get used to it pretty quickly. Welcome and good luck!
Aww. Thanks! Yeah. Definitely a totally different vibe than I'd gotten used to. I'm going to get on today during the day and see what that's like. Thanks for the words of encouragement.
littleprincessbella
11-03-2022, 06:34 PM
Hey guys, is anyone else having low traffic, and a lot of guys saying that their internet is not working. I'm not trying to complain just want to know if the issue is sitewide, or if I should email support.
pippapippa
11-03-2022, 06:54 PM
Hey guys, is anyone else having low traffic, and a lot of guys saying that their internet is not working. I'm not trying to complain just want to know if the issue is sitewide, or if I should email support.
It’s extremely slow. Going long periods with no one in my room.
littleprincessbella
11-03-2022, 07:13 PM
Same here, it's like straight up contest traffic
hotmodel
11-03-2022, 08:06 PM
Same here....DEADDDD...thanks ladies for confirming its not just me ugh =(
Genoveve
11-03-2022, 08:25 PM
Dead here too. Football has been on though.