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bigbum
11-24-2022, 05:51 PM
did you ladies get paid today? my payment didn’t arrive i assume due to thanksgiving holiday. to my usa bank account
anonamiss
11-24-2022, 06:03 PM
did you ladies get paid today? my payment didn’t arrive i assume due to thanksgiving holiday. to my usa bank account
No I didn't get my direct deposit, but the SM payment history page has the ACH dated for tomorrow the 25th so I assume it'll be there then
waogtrain
11-24-2022, 06:07 PM
did you ladies get paid today? my payment didn’t arrive i assume due to thanksgiving holiday. to my usa bank account
No, but I'm sure it will show up tomorrow.
MelanieJ
11-24-2022, 11:43 PM
If anyone's wondering, I ended the night at rank 91 and made about $350 tonight for reference. I completely forgot there was a contest going on, but it wasn't too bad for a Thanksgiving night.
Genoveve
11-25-2022, 12:28 AM
^^Are you sure? Sometimes it takes a few min for your ranking to refresh. I made $371 and am ranked at 35.
anonamiss
11-25-2022, 12:37 AM
tonight was trash for me, other than a handful of regs that hung out and sent a few generous free chat tips. several requests for race play and nonconsent roleplays, requests for meetups and guys getting butthurt when i said i wasn't single. lots of guys had connection issues, they would tip and then get immediately booted. my tech (mic, camera, and general stream) got disconnected multiple times.
i lasted a little over three hours and called it quits. couldn't even hit $100. glad i had a decent night last night and will try again tomorrow.
Jayleashaxo
11-25-2022, 12:38 AM
What day was this?! I made 357 and only ranked 189! on the 24th which was yesterday for me
anonamiss
11-25-2022, 12:43 AM
What day was this?! I made 357 and only ranked 189! �� on the 24th which was yesterday for me
yeah this was close to my earnings & ranking for yesterday "the 24th" as well.
i assume they are talking about today (the new "day" started at 4pm PST)
MelanieJ
11-25-2022, 12:50 AM
^^Are you sure? Sometimes it takes a few min for your ranking to refresh. I made $371 and am ranked at 35.
Yep. Now I'm in the #120's.
Probably due to different time zones, I'm on EST.
Genoveve
11-25-2022, 12:54 AM
^^^I'm 2 hours behind you and have 16 hours till this contest ends.
MelanieJ
11-25-2022, 01:15 AM
^^^I'm 2 hours behind you and have 16 hours till this contest ends.
This time zone thing with the contests kills me, lol. There's 15H 44m left on my end.
Hersheykissed
11-25-2022, 01:37 AM
My DD usually hit early morning before I get up for cam, nothing so far….. I hate that holidays screws this up.
Edit. DD just hit
Jayleashaxo
11-25-2022, 01:59 AM
So do different time zones have different amount of time left? I’m confuses the hell out of me I’m in GMT and have 15hrs left on the 25th
kamiliam
11-25-2022, 02:15 AM
No it is all on the same time zone, goes by gmt. Ends at the same time for everyone
MissAdriana
11-25-2022, 09:48 AM
You can look back on your earnings reports from prior Thanksgiving weeks to get an idea. I didn't work those weeks during 2020-2021 but I checked my 2016-2019 reports which had contest weeks for all of them. Three out of four years it looks like I put in a good chunk of hours and my hourly average was slightly higher than usual.
It's a toss up for the winter holidays. I find some guys are reeeally generous, either because they are lonely and are appreciative to have someone to hang out with, or because they are plastered drunk and just having a good time throwing money around. On the flip side, holidays can also bring out troll behavior pretty hard, drunk or otherwise. I always prepare for the possibility of rude questions on Thanksgiving and Christmas, like "why are you here and not with your family? did they disown you for being a stupid dirty whore?" lol.
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my experiecne exactly
I have worked it before multiple times and I can't remember how it ever went lol, but big holidays tend to either be extremely dead or extremely busy IME.
Every holiday I am either $9/hr or $99/hr only need to work an hour to figure out which it gonna be LOL
anonamiss
11-25-2022, 11:57 AM
If anyone's wondering, I ended the night at rank 91 and made about $350 tonight for reference. I completely forgot there was a contest going on, but it wasn't too bad for a Thanksgiving night.
^^Are you sure? Sometimes it takes a few min for your ranking to refresh. I made $371 and am ranked at 35.
If there actually was that much discrepancy in the ranks with such similar earnings then maybe Melanie has some ineligible earnings that don't count toward the contest ranks? This would include media sales, Fan Club subscriptions, and Cammodel earnings. I otherwise don't think a difference of $20 would have over 50 rank spots in between... though I suppose it's possible especially if last night was really slow for a lot of models. Hmm.
MelanieJ
11-25-2022, 12:31 PM
If there actually was that much discrepancy in the ranks with such similar earnings then maybe Melanie has some ineligible earnings that don't count toward the contest ranks? This would include media sales, Fan Club subscriptions, and Cammodel earnings. I otherwise don't think a difference of $20 would have over 50 rank spots in between... though I suppose it's possible especially if last night was really slow for a lot of models. Hmm.
I didn't make any money on ineligible earnings at all last night. It was all from tips and exclusive shows. I have no idea.
BrookeRide
11-25-2022, 12:41 PM
does any one know what it takes to get in the top 100 of the contest thats going on today right now?
thnks
Genoveve
11-25-2022, 12:58 PM
I otherwise don't think a difference of $20 would have over 50 rank spots in between... though I suppose it's possible especially if last night was really slow for a lot of models. Hmm.
I wouldn't have thought so either, but maybe since earning in the $300s is pretty average for a shift I would imagine that, since when I wrote that the contest had been going for 7 hours, maybe there were a lot of chicks who had made in the mid $300s at that point.
bigbum
11-25-2022, 12:59 PM
My DD usually hit early morning before I get up for cam, nothing so far….. I hate that holidays screws this up.
Edit. DD just hit
mine just arrived today from e*trade it was a day later than usual
KittenGirl
11-25-2022, 08:38 PM
I do agree with you 100% on every word you just said. Even when gold was first introduced not so bad constant back to back private shows, now it’s starting to seem amd feel like a token site but much worse. I had a mental breakdown and didn’t cam for like 2 years and the past year back, not the same site. Couldn’t have said it better myself
I agree. I think she said a mouthful. Even I'm starting to feel the vibe of a tip site here. There was a model on the discord server who was upset about girls fucking themselves in free chat at a fuck machine. And while I agree, I've HAD to resort to that several times or I don't make shit. I don't show holes or anything. But it's what it is.
I tried mfc multiple times. I just don't have the energy to spend 6 hours on a token site making only $100 when i make roughly $60-$117/hr on SM. Not to mention, I can't spread my mind out that thin to organize all these social media platforms to promote myself. I did it for 3 months and only got 2 OF subscribers that have since canceled.
I definitely have my gripes about both. But damn. I started in 2011 and I use to get $20-$50 tips on average. Now every fucking guy wants you to fucking do a full sex show for $1 in free chat
BrookeRide
11-26-2022, 10:38 AM
does any one know what it takes to break into the top 100 for todays contest. yesterdays contest I #208 and made 345.00
CAMGIRLANA
11-27-2022, 03:28 AM
hi . girls can u help me ? im ban from streamate forever i need site like steamate coz my budged going down ;(( im on mfc chaturbate and bonga , can u help me ? i have realy bad situation now :(
Luci Fer
11-27-2022, 03:43 AM
^hey, what happened? They must 've sent you an email message with a reason of ban. Did you receive it?
CAMGIRLANA
11-27-2022, 04:10 AM
hi yes of course , they tell that i fraud the money , and bann me pernmently . i dont understand coz situation was that some guy tip me a lot i was suprise coz i see moey on streamate avount but dont see tip info on chat so i write that to them but not answer, and after 2 day when i was online they bann me , i dont think i do something bad i send them email with info aout strange act of that guy and they just bbann me after 2 days and when i write to them still got the same answer that im ban and cant back forevr . i dont do nothing wrong so i feel bad
CAMGIRLANA
11-27-2022, 04:11 AM
i was long time model there so i think they not treal me well
Luci Fer
11-27-2022, 07:51 AM
Message Liz!
[email protected]
That dude, who tipped you, was he your regular customer? Did he just tipped you out of blue? If you have any screenshots of chat, add them - so they see you didnot even see the tip (it was SM bug, I believe)
They try to find fraudsters, but they lay that burden on models backs. Model should report anyone who tips big amounts of money or often changes accounts. But in your case - you say you didnot see it in chat- you can let them know it.
CAMGIRLANA
11-27-2022, 02:54 PM
i maasage them about it but no answer , it was new customer and it was strange , thats the way its make me worry , and yes he change account , it was just one day and then next but after one i send them short note about it . its not fair that we need know who is fraud or who dont , i dont feel guilty . i speak with Liz before she tell me to explain that i do bu after it she never write me again i send her few emails , so i think its end of my account there . it was some time ago so i try ong to back there but i dont think its posible ;((
naughtybabe1
11-28-2022, 05:15 AM
ugh..why did i even get on this morning? it's soooo slow then realized the contest was over. couldn't even tell. everyone is broke or just asking for forbidden shit. I'll do the time for placement which still sucks. help me cam gods!
Hersheykissed
11-28-2022, 10:59 AM
Hey ladies, I’m trying send a custom through sm message, but after I hit submit for approval after uploading it says “post process script failed”
Anyone knows what that’s about? I tried a shorter custom just to test it but same thing.
liquidsilk
11-28-2022, 11:28 AM
Hey ladies, I’m trying send a custom through sm message, but after I hit submit for approval after uploading it says “post process script failed”
Anyone knows what that’s about? I tried a shorter custom just to test it but same thing.
We aren't able to send videos to individual members in messenger. The workaround is to upload the video to your gallery, make it not appear for sale, then send it to the user via your earnings tab.
Hersheykissed
11-28-2022, 11:43 AM
Ok so I’m tech sucky a little lol I understand the first part but send to user via earnings? How the heck would my dumb butt do that?
liquidsilk
11-28-2022, 11:53 AM
Open the streaming interface and click earnings, select the date they paid, roll down and find them and click send video. Pick the one from your gallery and hit send. I'm sure there is another way too just going from media manager but I just use the earnings window from the sm connect page.
Hersheykissed
11-28-2022, 12:23 PM
I think I see a way you can select users in video manager. Thank you so much.
littleprincessbella
11-28-2022, 02:36 PM
We aren't able to send videos to individual members in messenger. The workaround is to upload the video to your gallery, make it not appear for sale, then send it to the user via your earnings tab. OMG....... I have been struggling For days with this exact thing!
Hersheykissed
11-28-2022, 02:40 PM
I am so glad it wasn’t only me. Lol it was complicated. It’s takes a while for review to be approved it seems
h0ttie
11-28-2022, 10:07 PM
what browser do u girls find works best on sm?
zeusydoo
11-28-2022, 10:28 PM
what browser do u girls find works best on sm?
google chrome
giuseppezanottis
11-28-2022, 10:37 PM
these men are obsessed w/ asking what EYE like or what MY favorite roleplays are like this isn't a job i'm doing bc i have to keep a roof over my head and food on the table :laughing: i literally had a dude just come in and say he's "open to anything taboo and extreme" (YUCK) and "it would be great if you had something you like or specialize in, it would feel more authentic" like you must be kidding me lol we're not mind-readers. tell us what you want, be specific, and we'll tell you if we can accommodate. it drives me up the wall bc i KNOW they're waiting for me to bring up THEIR specific fantasy so they can be like omg that's just what i was looking for but it's like bitch how would i know???? omg lol rant over
i maasage them about it but no answer , it was new customer and it was strange , thats the way its make me worry , and yes he change account , it was just one day and then next but after one i send them short note about it . its not fair that we need know who is fraud or who dont , i dont feel guilty . i speak with Liz before she tell me to explain that i do bu after it she never write me again i send her few emails , so i think its end of my account there . it was some time ago so i try ong to back there but i dont think its posible ;((
just scary that they ban you for a thing not on your control. i mean how you can know..more you report and they do that
these men are obsessed w/ asking what EYE like or what MY favorite roleplays are like this isn't a job i'm doing bc i have to keep a roof over my head and food on the table :laughing: i literally had a dude just come in and say he's "open to anything taboo and extreme" (YUCK) and "it would be great if you had something you like or specialize in, it would feel more authentic" like you must be kidding me lol we're not mind-readers. tell us what you want, be specific, and we'll tell you if we can accommodate. it drives me up the wall bc i KNOW they're waiting for me to bring up THEIR specific fantasy so they can be like omg that's just what i was looking for but it's like bitch how would i know???? omg lol rant over
100% i will always say it is your choice. many they do not know what they want basically. typical men that are not for me. i do prefer that asking me straigth a banned show that i refuse ofc than ppl wondering around and expecting i babysit them.
love your shoes taste LOL
one came in excl i showed me his credit card OO LOL how fun our job is eheh so much different kind of ppl! then that is why when guys in perso life send pm on ig and asking how are you? ahah please not again!really now why i should care about his credit card?
Smurfette
11-29-2022, 07:58 AM
these men are obsessed w/ asking what EYE like or what MY favorite roleplays are like this isn't a job i'm doing bc i have to keep a roof over my head and food on the table :laughing: i literally had a dude just come in and say he's "open to anything taboo and extreme" (YUCK) and "it would be great if you had something you like or specialize in, it would feel more authentic" like you must be kidding me lol we're not mind-readers. tell us what you want, be specific, and we'll tell you if we can accommodate. it drives me up the wall bc i KNOW they're waiting for me to bring up THEIR specific fantasy so they can be like omg that's just what i was looking for but it's like bitch how would i know???? omg lol rant over
I hate this more than anything. I have a skype reg who does this and it drives me crazy. He messages me almost every day wanting to do a roleplay show.
Me: Sure, what kind of roleplay you wanna do today?
Him: I dunno. Can you think of one this time? A fantasy that really turns you on? I care most about your pleasure.
Me: ...*ignores him for 2 hours because I'm annoyed, then finally type out some half-assed idea*
Him: Um... I dunno if I like that... it's not really my thing... any other ideas...??
NO MOTHERFUCKER IT'S YOUR JOB TO COME UP WITH THE IDEAS, GRRRRRR!!!!!!!
And he wonders why I consistently ignore him and rarely respond to his annoying dumb ass.
MissAdriana
11-29-2022, 08:08 AM
these men are obsessed w/ asking what EYE like or what MY favorite roleplays are like this isn't a job i'm doing bc i have to keep a roof over my head and food on the table :laughing: i literally had a dude just come in and say he's "open to anything taboo and extreme" (YUCK) and "it would be great if you had something you like or specialize in, it would feel more authentic" like you must be kidding me lol we're not mind-readers. tell us what you want, be specific, and we'll tell you if we can accommodate. it drives me up the wall bc i KNOW they're waiting for me to bring up THEIR specific fantasy so they can be like omg that's just what i was looking for but it's like bitch how would i know???? omg lol rant over
I tell them a roleplay, there is a 50/50 chance they like it. i have scripts for a few i go off of. Make a note what 1 i told them. next time they ask tell them different 1. If they come back do it too many times i ban.
Tell them what they want. Thats the sale
WHAT is going on with the "what your specialty?" question I am getting it suddenly daily now
Strawberryblonde
11-29-2022, 08:31 AM
I say my favourite is the one they (you) like, there are so many, then I mention a few I have done. If I'm asked about favourite whatever I respond with "Depends on the situation, who with, how my body feels, where we are in the proceedings - I'd get bored with the same thing all the time".
naughtybabe1
11-29-2022, 12:31 PM
I say my favourite is the one they (you) like, there are so many, then I mention a few I have done. If I'm asked about favourite whatever I respond with "Depends on the situation, who with, how my body feels, where we are in the proceedings - I'd get bored with the same thing all the time".
I'm to the point where I'm not even doing rp anymore. it's like everyone says, these morons don't know what they want, expect us to be fuking mind readers and just sit there like lumps. i have a few regs that really love RP and really get into it and I do it with them because of that but these other idiots aren't worth it anymore. All i really get anyways is the do you do "taboo" rp..ugh..i just kick or ban
giuseppezanottis
11-29-2022, 03:23 PM
I say my favourite is the one they (you) like, there are so many, then I mention a few I have done. If I'm asked about favourite whatever I respond with "Depends on the situation, who with, how my body feels, where we are in the proceedings - I'd get bored with the same thing all the time".
i'd like to tell them my favorite one is where i'm a spoiled housewife and you're my loser cuck husband who gives me all your money to go shopping...but something tells me that's not what most of these guys have in mind :laughing:
fetishqueen
11-29-2022, 03:48 PM
I hate fucking role play. I can just about manage cuckold, if you want to listen to me tell you about how big cocks are the best, over and over. But I usually find that requests for role play are code for 'against the rules', OR tell me all about it in free chat so I can cum without paying you, so they can generally fuck off.
kamiliam
11-29-2022, 07:00 PM
I do a lot of roleplay. Guys who like roleplay know which one they want. The guys who ask your favorites are usually just jacking off at the mere mention of it. That does bring in shows though so I decide day by day how much to tolerate
Hersheykissed
11-30-2022, 06:02 AM
What would you guys consider a large tip?
Like what’s above you’re normal that you would feel the need to report it?
I’m just casually wondering because my chat tips are getting bigger, which should be a great things except you’re always suspicious now and wondering. I don’t want to be emailing about every large tip I get if it’s not from a regular, we all get new regulars that sign up everyday.