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fetishqueen
11-04-2017, 09:02 AM
why didn't you just facetime him I'm confused? especially as on phone already
Because I'm technologically retarded and I haven't got an iPhone, he didn't suggest it so maybe he couldn't have done it on his phone. Off to check out android alternatives, thanks Goddess! xx
sexysusie
11-04-2017, 06:44 PM
Has anyone experimented with lowering the standard of what they offer i.e lowering the picture size, not offering hd etc? Just wondering if that might make a difference if these guys are using phones or tablets to access. Tonight i only had two guys stay a decent length of time, the rest were booted in under 10 seconds :(
Blue-Velvet
11-05-2017, 01:44 AM
Has anyone experimented with lowering the standard of what they offer i.e lowering the picture size, not offering hd etc? Just wondering if that might make a difference if these guys are using phones or tablets to access. Tonight i only had two guys stay a decent length of time, the rest were booted in under 10 seconds :(
I was wondering the same thing before. I know you can watch an HD movie on a phone, but I would assume live-streaming an HD quality webcam feed would need more.
In other news, AW has stopped letting us dirty foreigners co-mingle with British girls in groups from now on. I was only in group KDB for promotional purposes, so it's not a huge loss for me, but there's a list of high-risk countries now that includes the US. Doesn't matter if you're a permanent UK resident, you need a British passport to be in a group with British girls. I've been here 14yrs and would love to have British citizenship, but it's hella expensive.
Goldenx.Chiquis
11-05-2017, 04:52 AM
Omg after hearing about how dead it's been and all of the system errors on the computer (Do most of y'all have MacBooks?) it makes me regret hounding AW the past week. I had my AW profile for a while and I'm in the States and once I finally wanted to use it I was reduced to content producer... So I had to go through an extended verification process AGAIN since the US is a "high risk country"... *queue eyeroll* I mean I guess lol. But this week I'll be trying the direct cam for Domming/fetish and uploading fetish clips on there as well as my other clip stores like IWC, C4S and etc.
sexysusie
11-05-2017, 05:27 AM
I was wondering the same thing before. I know you can watch an HD movie on a phone, but I would assume live-streaming an HD quality webcam feed would need more.
In other news, AW has stopped letting us dirty foreigners co-mingle with British girls in groups from now on. I was only in group KDB for promotional purposes, so it's not a huge loss for me, but there's a list of high-risk countries now that includes the US. Doesn't matter if you're a permanent UK resident, you need a British passport to be in a group with British girls. I've been here 14yrs and would love to have British citizenship, but it's hella expensive.
OK we'll I'll try it today and see if it helps. Makes you regret actually investing in your business :(
NinaC
11-06-2017, 01:56 AM
OK we'll I'll try it today and see if it helps. Makes you regret actually investing in your business :(
I don't have HD and don't have much problem with connection dropping. I really think you might be right susie. My picture is pretty poor quality but if I'm honest although HD is brilliant My confidence isn't marvellous so I feel better with a less high definition cam.
My biggest issue at the moment is how dead it is. Last year September to Dec was really good for me, now it takes long hours to hit 1/3 of what I was. Grrrrrrr
xx
Classy_Katy
11-06-2017, 02:01 AM
I wonder if the connection dropping happens more in the evening and night time. It doesn't happen too much to me during the day and I am in HD...I haven't been online that much though. The idea of dropping my HD pains me although I wonder how much guys really care when you see how few girls actually have it.
NinaC
11-06-2017, 03:20 AM
I wonder if the connection dropping happens more in the evening and night time. It doesn't happen too much to me during the day and I am in HD...I haven't been online that much though. The idea of dropping my HD pains me although I wonder how much guys really care when you see how few girls actually have it.
the most popular cammers all appear to have HD in common, there's no doubt it's offering a better service, but for AW it hasn't hindered my business, some of my regs tell me my picture is wack but only when I ask.., I think if I was to go on mfc or other sites it would be a problem as they seem to have a higher standard and professional looking set ups, more professional profile pictures too, and mine looks like I'm using an Amstrad computer in comparison lol. I do like adultwork though, there's more variety in cammers and seems more friendly to women over 35 than other sites do.
Classy_Katy
11-06-2017, 03:35 AM
I did intend to have some professional profile photos taken and I found a lady photographer who was happy to take them but I decided to lose some weight first, which never happened. Having amateur photos fits with my home alone housewife persona, anyway. I've considered joining another site so many times but I just prefer AW. I feel too that the variety in cammers is one of the benefits.
goddesslouboutin
11-06-2017, 03:44 AM
i do dayshfit from 6am till early eve and I am not having connection problems where it kicks me out - touchwood! Have had the odd day where I think guys are getting kicked from my chats though.
Ladybuggie
11-06-2017, 05:39 AM
What JCI settings do you girls normally use, and what ones are you trying now not to stream in HD? I'm having a lot of the issues you mentioned (plus no traffic but that's a different topic) and I'm trying to fix my stream somehow. Thanks in advance! x
LolaLu
11-06-2017, 06:26 AM
I cam in the day and at night. The drop outs definately happen more late at night and I'm on a hardwire fibre connection.
I have experimented with lowering my cam picture. Obviously you dont show up in the HD section f you lower it from HD but I didnt find that to be too much of a problem with regards the amount of men coming in. I have downsized mine to 620px and still get compliments on the clarity of thwe cam. I don't want to lower it too much more because I like the quality. It's about finding a balance. I always say they need to not be streaming other stuff to maintain a connection.
Ladybuggie
11-06-2017, 07:12 AM
I cam in the day and at night. The drop outs definately happen more late at night and I'm on a hardwire fibre connection.
I have experimented with lowering my cam picture. Obviously you dont show up in the HD section f you lower it from HD but I didnt find that to be too much of a problem with regards the amount of men coming in. I have downsized mine to 620px and still get compliments on the clarity of thwe cam. I don't want to lower it too much more because I like the quality. It's about finding a balance. I always say they need to not be streaming other stuff to maintain a connection.
LolaLu, how do I know if I'm streaming in HD? I can't seem to find the HD section, could someone link me to it? One year in this site and it still confuses me sometimes!
Thanks!
sexysusie
11-06-2017, 07:27 AM
You need an upload speed of 2mb or above and picture size 1080x720 or above to be in HD. If your setup can't support that it won't let you change the picture size above a certain rate.
I've certainly had guys comment on the rare times I'm not in HD or without my profile lighting etc. It would pain me too to be without it. I pride myself in offering the absolute best quality :(
Lola you said you experimented but didn't say what the results were - did you see a difference between offering the different picture size/HD?
Re pics guys genuinely prefer the amateur look. I had pro pics done a few times and they hated it. I've spoken to daily pay recently because of all this and he said of the profiles on his books, the less professional looking profiles do far better. Go figure!
LolaLu
11-06-2017, 07:45 AM
Sorry Susie, I did find the lower pic quality kept them in more but like you say, the quality is pants. I decided to kind of go half way. I dont use the HD size as I get noone stay connected for very long they all say they can only see a loading scree. Most of the time I use 720*400 but at night time I go down lower to 640*480 - I do think it makes a difference to them staying connected
fetishqueen
11-06-2017, 07:53 AM
You need an upload speed of 2mb or above and picture size 1080x720 or above to be in HD. If your setup can't support that it won't let you change the picture size above a certain rate.
I've certainly had guys comment on the rare times I'm not in HD or without my profile lighting etc. It would pain me too to be without it. I pride myself in offering the absolute best quality :(
Lola you said you experimented but didn't say what the results were - did you see a difference between offering the different picture size/HD?
Re pics guys genuinely prefer the amateur look. I had pro pics done a few times and they hated it. I've spoken to daily pay recently because of all this and he said of the profiles on his books, the less professional looking profiles do far better. Go figure!
Hi ladies, Suzie, what you say is right regarding HD in general, 1080 by 720 being the minimum. However on AW you don't need to broadcast anywhere near that quality to show on the HD cams page. I can't link to the page but go to the Help drop down, then type HD cam into the search box (as a phrase, not a keyword) then click on the How do I get listed on the HD cams page. You see the minimum requirements there and they are much lower. I tested it with a size of 640 x 480 and I was still on the HD cams page. And with less drop out!
The crazy thing is that even though you can be "HD" with a relatively low picture size, it seems like only about 25% of cammers are showing on that page? I counted like Katy did and most seem to broadcast in even worse quality.
Classy_Katy
11-06-2017, 08:02 AM
LolaLu, how do I know if I'm streaming in HD? I can't seem to find the HD section, could someone link me to it? One year in this site and it still confuses me sometimes!
Thanks!
The link on AW to the HD page is really snuck out of the way, I don't expect many guys have found it. http://www.adultwork.com/TV/Categories.asp?CategoryID=-11
NinaC
11-06-2017, 08:18 AM
"Re pics guys genuinely prefer the amateur look. I had pro pics done a few times and they hated it. I've spoken to daily pay recently because of all this and he said of the profiles on his books, the less professional looking profiles do far better. Go figure!"
well yeah if you call pro photos those awful highly airbrushed cheesey ones where the woman is airbrushed into some Chincey looking boudoir that escort agencies favour. But there are really good natural pro photos you can get by photographers like Anna Fowler, that look amazing. A combination of a pro photo with an amateur one looks great cause it makes the pro ones look believable and proves it you.
A set of good photos amateur or not make a difference to traffic no doubt about it.
Classy_Katy
11-06-2017, 08:49 AM
I just compared the HD online page with the full list - around half the girls in paid shows are in HD but only those offering free preview, not many privates for the paid only HD girls but some may be in group. Ugh...must do more free preview, they do seem to notice HD when they see it.
HD page - http://www.adultwork.com/TV/Categories.asp?CategoryID=-11
Full list (top - group, middle - free preview, bottom - paid only.) - http://www.adultwork.com//TV/Categories.asp
sexysusie
11-06-2017, 08:51 AM
I only use good photographers. I used to model professionally so have lots of pro pics with different types of looks and very natural. Selfies always do better.
I'm going to try 640 tonight then and see what happens, thanks Lola x
Ladybuggie
11-06-2017, 09:12 AM
Thanks to everybody! I'll tweak some things and see if something works. Good luck to you too! x
sexysusie
11-06-2017, 09:25 AM
I just compared the HD online page with the full list - around half the girls in paid shows are in HD but only those offering free preview, not many privates for the paid only HD girls but some may be in group. Ugh...must do more free preview, they do seem to notice HD when they see it.
HD page - http://www.adultwork.com/TV/Categories.asp?CategoryID=-11
Full list (top - group, middle - free preview, bottom - paid only.) - http://www.adultwork.com//TV/Categories.asp
Same. Ugh hate free but needs must especially now positioning is ridiculously expensive (£4 only got me on line 10 last time!!!!)
LolaLu
11-06-2017, 10:18 AM
I couldnt believe it when I did my first late night in months and the positioning cost! OMG! I used to bid 3.80 and get line 1 between 10 and 12 but now its over 5.00!
Blonde-Ambition
11-06-2017, 10:45 AM
wtf is going on! cam is absolutely DEAD! i am sitting there doing nothing for hours! seriously losing patience with it all :(
xx
sexysusie
11-06-2017, 10:55 AM
Blonde if you're on right now how about experimenting with some of the stuff mentioned above? See if it makes a difference x
Teddy_Bear
11-06-2017, 05:22 PM
I increased to 640 and it was too much for my internet unfortunately and my CPU flew into the stratosphere so I put it back down to the lowest setting possible and I got MORE shows at the low setting but with the FPS at 30.
Finally earning money on that site again I'm keeping the settings as is for now. Shit stream I'm sure but at least they can stay connected and I've had no complaints yet.
SylvySinclair
11-06-2017, 06:28 PM
I didnt the contrary.....I put my cam to 1280 and got more shows than ever in the last month....lol I was going to say, hell yeah, HD says it all but now im wondering if it was just a coincidence and guys just now remembered i exist again! lmao
sexysusie
11-06-2017, 10:40 PM
Hmm so that's that theory blown then, if both of you are experiencing more customers but with opposite settings :/ Tonight I explored the app on my phone and noticed that all the IM chatters are mixed in with the cammers with no distinction. I was able to go into my own free chat room and it only took a few seconds at the loading screen. I was able to stay for 3 out of the 5 free minute with no issue at all. I tried another few ladies too so there doesn't seem to be an issue accessing IM from a phone. I noticed every single guy who came through on IM paid tonight just said "no cam/ i can't see you" etc and left, so obviously they're expecting cam, which is cutting those potential customers down grr. There must be something about cam though that we're just not seeing, cause there has most definitely been a change in the last year/few months with far less traffic and guys unable to stay connected for more than 10 seconds or so. Then again my regulars haven't reported any issues so i am at a loss..
Classy_Katy
11-06-2017, 10:56 PM
Then again my regulars haven't reported any issues so i am at a loss..
That's an interesting point...I would normally be told if there was a problem. I've been having shows with regulars with no problems at all.
We can see from comparing the HD list and the full list that girls doing free in HD make up around half those in paid shows. Maybe in the evening that would be less if the issues are worse then. My feeling is that HD is still best.
SylvySinclair
11-07-2017, 05:50 AM
I can say for sure, when i ask clients why they left (in case they come back, which is not frequent) why they did, and all of them with no exception, tell me they got booted. All of them! I know there are peepers that just wanna see whats going inside your room when you are not in free, but most tell me that they got booted. So, i have 2 theories:
One: their connection or browsers have issues and thats why they get kicked or is something on AW end. Yesterday i was on and suddenly i lost connection with JCI, so i looked my other laptop and i was on, my other software didnt go down, so it is somthing on aw's end for sure and if u add to that, the guys connections which usually suck, then you have the answer for the problem.
NinaC
11-07-2017, 05:56 AM
I've just had a conversation with my group manager. Adultworks traffic has been on a huge decline this year even though they were told they would do more to help increase it. It appears earnings in group on cam are also in the same dilemma; this is a real problem around for AW and as a result girls are panicking and paying over the usual odds on positioning. Last night I paid 8 credits for top row positioning for an hour at my peak time and I had one two minute session. Today I have since 9am, that's 6 hours, made 4 credits. I basically now make less than a cleaner lol:
I always preferred working for AW only and it was always enough, but this traffic issue is just tragic, I went on CB and noticed up to 450 members and 350 anonymous viewers looking at a of a close up of a girls twitching asshole, and I thought good on her, they were making her a fortune, the real asshole is me sitting around hoping things will change on AW when they clearly don't seem to care that our business is dying. You would think they want to help but what exactly are they doing, I have no idea..
sexysusie
11-07-2017, 06:16 AM
I doubt they were making her a fortune. CB is mostly exhibitionists. If you want to try a free chat site mfc actually has tipping customers x
NinaC
11-07-2017, 06:44 AM
I was watching it, and saw exactly what tokens she was getting and how many people were participating. Shhheshhh.
For a group manager of one of the biggest groups on A/w to say earnings are less than half on last year as a GROUP I think that confirms a serious problem. Just passing on facts not opinions or hearsay.
LolaLu
11-07-2017, 06:52 AM
I've just had a conversation with my group manager. Adultworks traffic has been on a huge decline this year even though they were told they would do more to help increase it. It appears earnings in group on cam are also in the same dilemma; this is a real problem around for AW and as a result girls are panicking and paying over the usual odds on positioning. Last night I paid 8 credits for top row positioning for an hour at my peak time and I had one two minute session. Today I have since 9am, that's 6 hours, made 4 credits. I basically now make less than a cleaner lol:
I always preferred working for AW only and it was always enough, but this traffic issue is just tragic, I went on CB and noticed up to 450 members and 350 anonymous viewers looking at a of a close up of a girls twitching asshole, and I thought good on her, they were making her a fortune, the real asshole is me sitting around hoping things will change on AW when they clearly don't seem to care that our business is dying. You would think they want to help but what exactly are they doing, I have no idea..
Your group manager is highly unlikely to know the traffic situation of the site. There are more girls online now than ever so the traffic is simply being spread about more. I am touching wood when I say this but, yes I have bad days but I also hit my target, which is higher now than it was 3 years ago when I started. If it's quiet log into phone, add some photos, change your profile or sit in free chat for half hour. There is still money to be made....lots of it.
And as for only camming on AW - that's silly. ALWAYS have a backup site or 2! I wouldn't do the token sites - I don't like them and don't like their freeloading mindset but I have a couple of Private sites I work and can split cam with AW if I feel the need - I also do Indie Skype and 1 Phone chat site. Have more than 1 egg. AW has been known to be the target of a few huge DDOS attacks which have left their site down for days on end. With no other eggs - What are you going to do??
I don't mean to patronise you and I hope thats not how its coming acros, there are some issues with AW at the moment but rather than people trying to work through it they complain no end. Thats not productive. As for your group manager - the only ones I would listen to are Boleyn Models or Adultworks finest. They have been around forever and have contacts within AW - everyone else will just be waffling!
SylvySinclair
11-07-2017, 06:52 AM
Yes, i have felt the same, my income on aw has decreased in 70% not 50%. Its absolute deadness and i thought it was something wrong with my internet or something, but reading these posts now, i feel better (sorry) as i was really getting concerned. Now i continue to be concerned and i really hope traffic comes back as i definetely love to cam on aw and would hate to leave due to poor traffic.
NinaC
11-07-2017, 07:02 AM
Your group manager is highly unlikely to know the traffic situation of the site. There are more girls online now than ever so the traffic is simply being spread about more. I am touching wood when I say this but, yes I have bad days but I also hit my target, which is higher now than it was 3 years ago when I started. If it's quiet log into phone, add some photos, change your profile or sit in free chat for half hour. There is still money to be made....lots of it.
And as for only camming on AW - that's silly. ALWAYS have a backup site or 2! I wouldn't do the token sites - I don't like them and don't like their freeloading mindset but I have a couple of Private sites I work and can split cam with AW if I feel the need - I also do Indie Skype and 1 Phone chat site. Have more than 1 egg. AW has been known to be the target of a few huge DDOS attacks which have left their site down for days on end. With no other eggs - What are you going to do??
I don't mean to patronise you and I hope thats not how its coming acros, there are some issues with AW at the moment but rather than people trying to work through it they complain no end. Thats not productive. As for your group manager - the only ones I would listen to are Boleyn Models or Adultworks finest. They have been around forever and have contacts within AW - everyone else will just be waffling!
You so realise that group managers deal directly with AW over such issues, I'm glad for you if you are hitting target but earnings are down on groups on the year, that's a fact, and yes you are patronising me.
NinaC
11-07-2017, 07:12 AM
Also my group is one of the biggest on AW as you mentioned. I don't want to say who but they are not waffling, they are reputable and they are trustworthy. I don't like complaining or get anything from it, but.. these are facts; traffic is down and earnings are for a lot of girls, there is only one AW thread here and not all of us have technical issues, it seems that unless you want to talk about other things than tech issues then you get greated with hostility or rudeness by certain people on here, that's not cool and actually quite upsetting to be constantly told you are talking shit by the same people time and time again. Try being supportive; it's a redeeming feature. Camming can be quite lonely and some of us don't have personal friends that do the job that understand or can relate. I know negativity is a drag for some but I really think some of he responses here are nothing short of talking down to people.
This is my experience, what I've been told and things that are effecting me; I'm sorry if they aren't to your taste.
fetishqueen
11-07-2017, 07:30 AM
Also my group is one of the biggest on AW as you mentioned. I don't want to say who but they are not waffling, they are reputable and they are trustworthy. I don't like complaining or get anything from it, but.. these are facts; traffic is down and earnings are for a lot of girls, there is only one AW thread here and not all of us have technical issues, it seems that unless you want to talk about other things than tech issues then you get greated with hostility or rudeness by certain people on here, that's not cool and actually quite upsetting to be constantly told you are talking shit by the same people time and time again. Try being supportive; it's a redeeming feature. Camming can be quite lonely and some of us don't have personal friends that do the job that understand or can relate. I know negativity is a drag for some but I really think some of he responses here are nothing short of talking down to people.
This is my experience, what I've been told and things that are effecting me; I'm sorry if they aren't to your taste.
Agreed...
LolaLu
11-07-2017, 07:45 AM
Also my group is one of the biggest on AW as you mentioned. I don't want to say who but they are not waffling, they are reputable and they are trustworthy. I don't like complaining or get anything from it, but.. these are facts; traffic is down and earnings are for a lot of girls, there is only one AW thread here and not all of us have technical issues, it seems that unless you want to talk about other things than tech issues then you get greated with hostility or rudeness by certain people on here, that's not cool and actually quite upsetting to be constantly told you are talking shit by the same people time and time again. Try being supportive; it's a redeeming feature. Camming can be quite lonely and some of us don't have personal friends that do the job that understand or can relate. I know negativity is a drag for some but I really think some of he responses here are nothing short of talking down to people.
This is my experience, what I've been told and things that are effecting me; I'm sorry if they aren't to your taste.
I totally agree - it is lonely. I dont have friends in the industry either. I used to manage a group and actually most groups do NOT have any contact with AW of such issues. So I do have some idea of what I'm talking abut - Maybe you need to calm down. I rarely post here in reponse to such comments but the constant negativity is ridiculous and me saying I meet my targets was more a way of saying 'Hey! Its possible - change stuff up' But if you want your negative attitude to take it in a condescending manner then you go right ahead. Seems to me that you have found fault with every bit of information that has been offered to you here. I've not seen any hostility or rudeness - maybe it's just your interpretation. I do feel hostile right now towards you however because I tried to offer advice and you went on the defensive. I'll happily keep my mouth shut and keep making bank every week.
NinaC
11-07-2017, 07:56 AM
I totally agree - it is lonely. I dont have friends in the industry either. I used to manage a group and actually most groups do NOT have any contact with AW of such issues. So I do have some idea of what I'm talking abut - Maybe you need to calm down. I rarely post here in reponse to such comments but the constant negativity is ridiculous and me saying I meet my targets was more a way of saying 'Hey! Its possible - change stuff up' But if you want your negative attitude to take it in a condescending manner then you go right ahead. Seems to me that you have found fault with every bit of information that has been offered to you here. I've not seen any hostility or rudeness - maybe it's just your interpretation. I do feel hostile right now towards you however because I tried to offer advice and you went on the defensive. I'll happily keep my mouth shut and keep making bank every week.
most group not having contact with AW isn't all groups is it?
And yes I would prefer it if you didn't respond to anything I write, you come across as a bully.
If I was working on as many sites as you and my main income was from camming I am sure I would make bank; but for some of us AW is a side line and we don't have time to be doing this as our career aspiration or full time source of income, I have a civi job which pays for my home in central London and AW is to cover my bills and treats, so unless you know my situation you are making assumptions you have no idea about, and offering advice in an area that wasn't required or asked of. I might be a novice on here but I have been on AW since 2009 I know what changes have occurred year on year regardless of what my group manager tells me, and as it happens what he is saying is how it is.
I don't respond to your techy questions by patronising you or others because I can't relate, so if you don't like my posts then don't reply, being mean is ugly. So your mouth staying shut is welcomed.
SylvySinclair
11-07-2017, 08:20 AM
Girls, cummon, lets all be nice to each other.....we can talk abt whatever we need and want on this thread. Tech or non tech doesnt matter. We are here to exchange info and ask for help and keep company to others like us. I know that business being slow on aw is making some of us a bit on edge but we are all colleagues here and need to support each other. mwah to both of u.
Essie
11-07-2017, 08:21 AM
Saturday AM, I had a guy come in my room and say that he couldn't buy credits. Checked the "buy credits" page and there is a small note in red at the top about one of the methods being offline.
I asked him if he could use one of the other methods listed but he said he'd tried all options just to use his card and none would work.
The message is still there at the top of the page today but I have no idea which method most guys use to actually purchase them.
Just thought I'd mention it as it may explain why it has been quieter at least since Saturday anyways. Unless you looked at that page you'd never know as it's not mentioned elsewhere.
Arwen25
11-07-2017, 09:22 AM
Ugh..I can confirm that the guys getting kicked out keep happening. I split AW with 2 other private-based sites, plus two skype sites and I'm not having problems there. I'm wary to take to lower my feed quality, but I may try it tomorrow, and see what happens. The most people have stayed today is about 10 seconds; with the exception of one guy, who trued to come in three times (not a peeper, he waited on cam for me to get an outfit), who managed to stay 3 minutes. It's tough going when it's already quieter than usual! :/ x
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-07-2017, 09:55 AM
It seems that you ladies have worked things out and thats great. Sometimes the stress and pressure during slow times can make us all a bit snappy. Thats understandable. We got a report on the thread and honestly I don't think anyone is out to get anyone personally. Sometimes its good to just take a break and move away from the computer. :) And there is always the ignore feature. You can access thaat by clicking on a persons name then selecting their profile. Thats where you will see add to ignore list.
NinaC
11-07-2017, 10:12 AM
It seems that you ladies have worked things out and thats great. Sometimes the stress and pressure during slow times can make us all a bit snappy. Thats understandable. We got a report on the thread and honestly I don't think anyone is out to get anyone personally. Sometimes its good to just take a break and move away from the computer. :) And there is always the ignore feature. You can access thaat by clicking on a persons name then selecting their profile. Thats where you will see add to ignore list.
I'm not stressed or snappy because it's slow, I have savings for quiet times, I'm stressed because the same couple of members on here leave patronising responses and talk down to me when I am sharing my opinion on difficulties. This is meant place for everyone for support, and whilst most people are friendly and helpful - there are a few in a click who are more advanced members on here that talk down to and patronise others if they don't agree. All I have personally had here the last few days is exactly that.
are you saying that's ok on this thread admin? If so I'll throw my manners out the window.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-07-2017, 10:24 AM
It seems that you ladies have worked things out and thats great. Sometimes the stress and pressure during slow times can make us all a bit snappy. Thats understandable. We got a report on the thread and honestly I don't think anyone is out to get anyone personally. Sometimes its good to just take a break and move away from the computer. :) And there is always the ignore feature. You can access thaat by clicking on a persons name then selecting their profile. Thats where you will see add to ignore list.
I'm not stressed or snappy because it's slow, I have savings for quiet times, I'm stressed because the same couple of members on here leave patronising responses and talk down to me when I am sharing my opinion on difficulties. This is meant place for everyone for support, and whilst most people are friendly and helpful - there are a few in a click who are more advanced members on here that talk down to others.
If you have savings and all is well in the world but yet you're allowing strangers on the internet to stress you out then its definitely time to walk away from your computer and get some fresh air. The people who have annoyed you seem to have already done that. Its time to move along from this topic. Everything will be alright.
NinaC
11-07-2017, 10:28 AM
If you have savings and all is well in the world but yet you're allowing strangers on the internet to stress you out then its definitely time to walk away from your computer and get some fresh air. The people who have annoyed you seem to have already done that. Its time to move along from this topic. Everything will be alright.
Ok thanks for that useful advice. I will do as you say and just be equally as rude to them as they are me. Seems like you support the few women on here who talk down to others especially newbies
Thankyou for your valuable support.
For your information I am not on a computer staring at this thread all day long: I'm responding to notifications on my phone.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
11-07-2017, 10:37 AM
Ok thanks for that useful advice. I will do as you say and just be equally as rude to them as they are me. Seems like you support the few women on here who talk down to others especially newbies
Thankyou for your valuable support.
For your information I am not on a computer staring at this thread all day long: I'm responding to notifications on my phone.
I responded to your private message and I'm responding to you here on this thread for the last time. Arguing with prople on the internet is not how I'm going to spend my day. No one should. I made a post in hopes that you all would keep things civil but it appears you have something else in mind. I'm not doing this today. Please move a long and find something to do.
NinaC
11-07-2017, 10:38 AM
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NinaC
11-07-2017, 10:38 AM
I responded to your private message and I'm responding to you here on this thread for the last time. Arguing with prople on the internet is not how I'm going to spend my day. No one should. I made a post in hopes that you all would keep things civil but it appears you have something else in mind. I'm not doing this today. Please move a long and find something to do.
Why do you keep responding? You support bullies it's pretty clear from here.