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Joijoijoi
04-11-2020, 01:53 AM
Very very rarely you have to be honest its mostly wanting you to be under the legal age.
Arwen25
04-11-2020, 02:15 AM
Following from Cat's post it got me thinking..How many of you ladies offer cam2cam in group? I can never decide whether to ask them to tip for it or just tell them to go into private. I am trying to improve my group hustle and I can't help feeling cam2cam would detract from a group show. Just wondering what approach you have for it? First come, first served? Allow it with a tip? I've never been able to make my mind up on this one..
Joijoijoi
04-11-2020, 02:28 AM
I hate group to be honest, I never do any shows in there. Most people always come prvt with me and if I do get any come into group I advise them I only chat in there about requests prior to a show - as some customers like to do this. And if they want a show its always prvt. Most move to prvt - if there a serious customer that is. The ones that don't don't bother me one bit as people don't tend to last long in group anyway and I like to fish for the long shows, bigger spenders etc and big spenders don't use group in my personal experience. I am all about working smart not hard. Maximising my time and money. But if you are doing group I wouldn't be offering c2c in there at all but that's just my opinion.
Arwen25
04-11-2020, 04:15 AM
I'm with you on working smarter, not harder! I'm not a fan of group either, generally. I don't manage it well, but on the few occasions I have pulled it off, it has been very lucrative in a small amount of time (A sub tipping and other guys watching). I'm very much a one-on-one performer too, so group shows don't come naturally to me. I find it interesting to hear how others approach it though.
PixiieGirl
04-11-2020, 04:42 AM
Hello, how are you?
Could you please recommend me something to read in order to learn about AGE PLAY phone sex?
I am looking for anything, it could be: books (including psychology), courses, posts on forums, movies, etc. You can DM me if it is more appropriate.
Or maybe you will be kind to tell me how did you learn AGE PLAY.
Thanks a lot, have a wonderful day!!! Stay safe.
Id check out fetlife - be aware tho age play of all sort especially DD/LG is very heavily stigmatised and looked down on (rightly or wrongly, not getting into that haha) even within the BDSM community - you also will likely get actual pedophiles within that fetish. It's usually not allowed on most sites - and when it is you are often told to stress you're playing over 18 only. however you can just google "ageplay psychology" and a ton of sources come up - both academic and none. sex psych is a big thing so there will be a load of literature about it.
google scholar is what I use to find papers for when Im writing (Im a psych writer for my other job)
also moving away from the kink aspect if you look up "age regression" - thats the psychological term for when someone "regresses" in their mind to a certain age - thats not inherently sexual, and not all age players regress just as not all people who regress are into ageplay
Classy_Katy
04-11-2020, 06:00 AM
Very very rarely you have to be honest its mostly wanting you to be under the legal age.
I was over 40 when I started on AW...they have never wanted me to be under the legal age.
Classy_Katy
04-11-2020, 06:02 AM
Following from Cat's post it got me thinking..How many of you ladies offer cam2cam in group? I can never decide whether to ask them to tip for it or just tell them to go into private. I am trying to improve my group hustle and I can't help feeling cam2cam would detract from a group show. Just wondering what approach you have for it? First come, first served? Allow it with a tip? I've never been able to make my mind up on this one..
Never. They must come into private if they want cam2cam. Firstly, I don't think it's fair on the others who are paying the same but receiving less, and secondly, it's something extra that justifies the increased cost of private.
Arwen25
04-11-2020, 06:59 AM
Yes, Katy; that's always been my take on it, too!
CatBBW
04-11-2020, 08:14 AM
Hello, how are you?
Could you please recommend me something to read in order to learn about AGE PLAY phone sex?
I am looking for anything, it could be: books (including psychology), courses, posts on forums, movies, etc. You can DM me if it is more appropriate.
Or maybe you will be kind to tell me how did you learn AGE PLAY.
Thanks a lot, have a wonderful day!!! Stay safe.
I only ever get asked to do ageplay with me being the older/dominant, I could probably count on one hand the amount of times I've been asked to pretend to be younger (and I don't do the me being younger scenerio, it doesn't work for me). The way I do it is I imagine I'm talking to my cat. So I put the "babying" voice on, and say soothing things. I also speak in the third person, so I say for example "Mummy loves that", which takes me one step out of the role play but also reinforces the fantasy for the client. This is literally how I learned it, I tried it once, it worked for me, I carried on offering it.
PixiieGirl
04-11-2020, 08:27 AM
I only ever get asked to do ageplay with me being the older/dominant, I could probably count on one hand the amount of times I've been asked to pretend to be younger (and I don't do the me being younger scenerio, it doesn't work for me). The way I do it is I imagine I'm talking to my cat. So I put the "babying" voice on, and say soothing things. I also speak in the third person, so I say for example "Mummy loves that", which takes me one step out of the role play but also reinforces the fantasy for the client. This is literally how I learned it, I tried it once, it worked for me, I carried on offering it.
Id imagine it depends on your age look & if you’re domme or submissive, I only ever get to play younger but I’m a sub leaning switch in my twenties who looks young lol
I only ever get asked to do ageplay with me being the older/dominant, I could probably count on one hand the amount of times I've been asked to pretend to be younger (and I don't do the me being younger scenerio, it doesn't work for me). The way I do it is I imagine I'm talking to my cat. So I put the "babying" voice on, and say soothing things. I also speak in the third person, so I say for example "Mummy loves that", which takes me one step out of the role play but also reinforces the fantasy for the client. This is literally how I learned it, I tried it once, it worked for me, I carried on offering it.
How nice is this to talk like with your cat!
How nice!!!
Thanks.
PineappleC
04-12-2020, 07:50 AM
Hi ladies, hope you don’t mind me join.When it comes to age play I think it depends on your look and if you are a domme or not( as pixiiegirl said).I do look younger than my age and I m not a domme so I always had guys asking me to be under age for them.Only a couple of times guys wanted me to be older, but that’s just my experience .I never offer under age shows because I m not comfortable with that and I as I know it is against the rules of the website.Speaking of which...can you ladies help me out with tabboos that are acceptable on Aw? I m confused...is incest role play okay? I m getting a ton of guys asking for this.
sexysusie
04-12-2020, 01:22 PM
Hi ladies, hope you don’t mind me join.When it comes to age play I think it depends on your look and if you are a domme or not( as pixiiegirl said).I do look younger than my age and I m not a domme so I always had guys asking me to be under age for them.Only a couple of times guys wanted me to be older, but that’s just my experience .I never offer under age shows because I m not comfortable with that and I as I know it is against the rules of the website.Speaking of which...can you ladies help me out with tabboos that are acceptable on Aw? I m confused...is incest role play okay? I m getting a ton of guys asking for this.
No it is not allowed. Many indulge taboos as there are ways around it, but generally it's best to avoid. For full details see:
http://www.adultwork.com/SCPage.asp?TU=http%3A%2F%2Fwww%2Eadultwork%2Ecom%2 FLegal%2Easp&SN=UserAgreementV7
Arwen25
04-15-2020, 07:10 AM
I've often wondered how many people have actually received a warning or been banned due to being caught acting out "taboos". There's a line everyone is comfortable with. I have mine, and I know what I will do and won't do very clearly.. I feel like that's something which comes with time. I mean, I was checking my placement the other day and checking out this gorgeous girl's profile..but Jesus, the stuff I read on it..She was explicitly offering underage stuff and bestiality fantasies..So I am assuming, as always with AW, there's not rhyme or reason to what they allow and who they end up "picking on".
Joijoijoi
04-15-2020, 10:35 AM
I've often wondered how many people have actually received a warning or been banned due to being caught acting out "taboos". There's a line everyone is comfortable with. I have mine, and I know what I will do and won't do very clearly.. I feel like that's something which comes with time. I mean, I was checking my placement the other day and checking out this gorgeous girl's profile..but Jesus, the stuff I read on it..She was explicitly offering underage stuff and bestiality fantasies..So I am assuming, as always with AW, there's not rhyme or reason to what they allow and who they end up "picking on".
I know its crazy some get picked up about it but alot don't. A few yers ago when i first started i noticed everyone offering it and were busy so changed my name to have the taboo tag and that week i made the most money i have ever made in a week on aw but i didn't quite realise how taboo the stuff would be and after doing it for a week some of the things i was hearing i decided i no longer wanted to offer it as 9/10 when people say they want taboo its under age or incest roleplay and even though its acting i thought hang on a minute i dont feel comfortable indulging this as im allowing them to get off by going along with this rank fantasy. If we as cam girls go along with it we are part of the problem in facilitating these paedos acting or not so I decided to not continue it. Its disturbing what they say and want you to roleplay and its sickening how many of them are on aw wanting this.
sexysusie
04-15-2020, 01:59 PM
I know its crazy some get picked up about it but alot don't. A few yers ago when i first started i noticed everyone offering it and were busy so changed my name to have the taboo tag and that week i made the most money i have ever made in a week on aw but i didn't quite realise how taboo the stuff would be and after doing it for a week some of the things i was hearing i decided i no longer wanted to offer it as 9/10 when people say they want taboo its under age or incest roleplay and even though its acting i thought hang on a minute i dont feel comfortable indulging this as im allowing them to get off by going along with this rank fantasy. If we as cam girls go along with it we are part of the problem in facilitating these paedos acting or not so I decided to not continue it. Its disturbing what they say and want you to roleplay and its sickening how many of them are on aw wanting this.
I don't believe that at all. It's a fantasy just like any other. I'd never kick a guy in the balls in real life or racially humiliate him but if he wants it on cam I'll take that money gladly, likewise taboos. The only thing i never touch is bestiality but that's just personal preference. You can't be squeamish about this stuff in our line of work. If you don't like it fine, just move on, it's not going to stop just because you don't agree.
Re warnings like with everything on there it's down to being reported or if the auto catcher spots a banned word on the profile and then someone manually looks into it.
PixiieGirl
04-15-2020, 02:11 PM
I don't believe that at all. It's a fantasy just like any other. I'd never kick a guy in the balls in real life or racially humiliate him but if he wants it on cam I'll take that money gladly, likewise taboos. The only thing i never touch is bestiality but that's just personal preference. You can't be squeamish about this stuff in our line of work. If you don't like it fine, just move on, it's not going to stop just because you don't agree.
Re warnings like with everything on there it's down to being reported or if the auto catcher spots a banned word on the profile and then someone manually looks into it.
100%, I have some "extreme" fantasies and kinks (note: not any mentioned in this convo) and theyre just that, fantasies, very different to actually doing them
Joijoijoi
04-15-2020, 11:27 PM
I don't believe that at all. It's a fantasy just like any other. I'd never kick a guy in the balls in real life or racially humiliate him but if he wants it on cam I'll take that money gladly, likewise taboos. The only thing i never touch is bestiality but that's just personal preference. You can't be squeamish about this stuff in our line of work. If you don't like it fine, just move on, it's not going to stop just because you don't agree.
Re warnings like with everything on there it's down to being reported or if the auto catcher spots a banned word on the profile and then someone manually looks into it.
WOW I actually find that crazy that your saying you would happily take their money just because its a fantasy and your acting? I don't know how you think its right to play someone who is underage. So your telling me if a guy comes in and says he wants you to act like a six year old your happy to facilitate that and hear all the disgusting things he wants to do to a child? That is crazy to me. Your saying its fine because its a fantasy and they are just watching it being played out not actually touching a child? That's completely messed up. And if we are indulging these peoples fantasies of under age play we are apart of the problem for partaking in it. It sounds like your prepared to sacrifice your morals just for a few quid. I am sure if you said to anyone with children that your happy to facilitate and act underage or even agree with people doing underage roleplays even the cam girls who have kids would be disgusted. You cannot compare race play with underage play regarding acting like a young child for example and then say we should get used to it and not be squeamish? There are plenty of so called kinks i wouldn't feel comfy doing but if others offered them i wouldn't care because their not involving something that's illegal and also there not hurting anyone if that person is into it. However none of the above can be said about acting underage and listening to a guy describing how we wants to rape a child in detail whilst he masturbates! Its messed up point black period and any of you that offer that are also messed up. I am astounded you can't see how wrong that is.
gbjenna
04-16-2020, 12:35 AM
WOW I actually find that crazy that your saying you would happily take their money just because its a fantasy and your acting? I don't know how you think its right to play someone who is underage. So your telling me if a guy comes in and says he wants you to act like a six year old your happy to facilitate that and hear all the disgusting things he wants to do to a child? That is crazy to me. Your saying its fine because its a fantasy and they are just watching it being played out not actually touching a child? That's completely messed up. And if we are indulging these peoples fantasies of under age play we are apart of the problem for partaking in it. It sounds like your prepared to sacrifice your morals just for a few quid. I am sure if you said to anyone with children that your happy to facilitate and act underage or even agree with people doing underage roleplays even the cam girls who have kids would be disgusted. You cannot compare race play with underage play regarding acting like a young child for example and then say we should get used to it and not be squeamish? There are plenty of so called kinks i wouldn't feel comfy doing but if others offered them i wouldn't care because their not involving something that's illegal and also there not hurting anyone if that person is into it. However none of the above can be said about acting underage and listening to a guy describing how we wants to rape a child in detail whilst he masturbates! Its messed up point black period and any of you that offer that are also messed up. I am astounded you can't see how wrong that is.
I totally disagree with this. I think what people need to do is use their common sense and judgement in a situation like this and deal with it case by case.
I offer taboo roleplays. I have a very strict boundary of what I will and will not offer and even then that comes down to my discretion based on who’s asking for that kind of show at the time and based on the feel I get for the situation. Like the majority of shows I do.
I personally think the way they go about asking, how they word it etc says a lot about what sort of person you’re dealing with. YES some people who ask for this stuff may well or probably be fantasising about something more sinister, but in my opinion I do think it’s wrong to tar everyone with the same brush.
Again, in my opinion it is no different to the men on cam sites who are dominant or “dominant” and looking for submissive girls, and don’t seem to understand the difference between wanting to be dominant and just wanting an excuse to be vile and abuse us. Some just have a fantasy and some have a more sinister motive beyond the fantasy. Or they’re just plain pricks, to put it another way.
And from my experience, I’ve definitely had MUCH more questionable things said to me on a handful occasions during shows with clients who weren’t indulging in taboos or anything of remotely close, which did make me wonder who the hell I was dealing with!! Considerably more so than the taboos because I point blank refuse the taboos if I feel they’re going to overstep the mark.
And just to add too, I’ve done a lot of taboo roleplays and never once listened to a guy talk about how he wants to ‘rape a child in detail whilst he masturbates’. I think this must be just your view or experience on what taboos are and they aren’t a one size fits all just like most things aren’t.
Joijoijoi
04-16-2020, 12:52 AM
I totally disagree with this. I think what people need to do is use their common sense and judgement in a situation like this and deal with it case by case.
I offer taboo roleplays. I have a very strict boundary of what I will and will not offer and even then that comes down to my discretion based on who’s asking for that kind of show at the time and based on the feel I get for the situation. Like the majority of shows I do.
I personally think the way they go about asking, how they word it etc says a lot about what sort of person you’re dealing with. YES some people who ask for this stuff may well or probably be fantasising about something more sinister, but in my opinion I do think it’s wrong to tar everyone with the same brush.
Again, in my opinion it is no different to the men on cam sites who are dominant or “dominant” and looking for submissive girls, and don’t seem to understand the difference between wanting to be dominant and just wanting an excuse to be vile and abuse us. Some just have a fantasy and some have a more sinister motive beyond the fantasy. Or they’re just plain pricks, to put it another way.
And from my experience, I’ve definitely had MUCH more questionable things said to me on a handful occasions during shows with clients who weren’t indulging in taboos or anything of remotely close, which did make me wonder who the hell I was dealing with!! Considerably more so than the taboos because I point blank refuse the taboos if I feel they’re going to overstep the mark.
And just to add too, I’ve done a lot of taboo roleplays and never once listened to a guy talk about how he wants to ‘rape a child in detail whilst he masturbates’. I think this must be just your view or experience on what taboos are and they aren’t a one size fits all just like most things aren’t.
I think you may have not read properly what I was saying. I never said all taboos are bad and all are the same. I highlighted in all my posts on here that 9/10 personally when people ask about taboo in my room they want under age play and how I don't offer this. I even said in my post that you can't put one taboo such as race play in the same box as under age play? My whole point was that under age play is messed up not all taboo in general like you said its a case by case basis but I don't really offer taboo at all personally as in my experience everyone who asks for it seems to want either incest or under age roleplay and I stand by what I said its messed up to even do those roleplays. In regards to my comment about 'listen to a customer rape a child in detail' I am afraid if you indulge in under age play that is what you will likely hear and if you don't hear it they are still laying there wanking off and imagining it anyway as you sit behind your computer and pretend to be a child. Fantasy or not its fucked up and by acting as that role in the roleplay you are part of the messed up fantasy. I don't know how anyone can be contesting what im saying in regards to that its not up for discussion some things are just black and white and pretending to be a child in a roleplay whilst the guy masturbates its disgusting.
My whole point was doing underage roleplays is messed up and its disgusting to partake in that. I never said all taboo was the same at all.
fetishqueen
04-16-2020, 02:21 AM
Slightly back to the topic of AW, does anyone happen to know whether AW can actually see what's going on on cam, or hear the conversation, or read what's typed? I do wonder about that. I know that some words like skype aren't able to be typed, i don't know what happens but all guys (idiots) that ask always spell it differently. But I would love to know if shows can actually be seen / heard or read by AW.
I tend to assume any issues would come from a customer reporting something but does anyone know at all?
PixiieGirl
04-16-2020, 02:32 AM
age play in general is quite complex & theres a ton of reasons to be into it - however yes some who are into it are going to be actual pedophiles, personally its not my thing and I wouldnt indulge it on cam (or in my real life) but I also know littles from the kink scene who are into it for a wide range of reasons (but then only engage in it with people they trust etc etc) & its less about the age and more about the caring dynamic. Then you have age regression which is a legit psychological phenomena
but yeah back on topic lol - fetish I think they'd probably have the means to check streams & chats - but I imagine they dont bother unless alerted to something? thats kinda how I've always assumed all sites are tbh
Joijoijoi
04-16-2020, 02:43 AM
age play in general is quite complex & theres a ton of reasons to be into it - however yes some who are into it are going to be actual pedophiles, personally its not my thing and I wouldnt indulge it on cam (or in my real life) but I also know littles from the kink scene who are into it for a wide range of reasons (but then only engage in it with people they trust etc etc) & its less about the age and more about the caring dynamic. Then you have age regression which is a legit psychological phenomena
but yeah back on topic lol - fetish I think they'd probably have the means to check streams & chats - but I imagine they dont bother unless alerted to something? thats kinda how I've always assumed all sites are tbh
There are tons of reasons to be into it if the customer is of legal age and they want you to play older than you are - yes get the caring nature but that's not what was being discussed. It was the whole point of playing someone underage that was my issue and is wrong. But yes moving on...
sexysusie
04-16-2020, 03:57 AM
My whole point was doing underage roleplays is messed up and its disgusting to partake in that. I never said all taboo was the same at all.
This is your opinion. Engaging in safe consensual taboo kink is not disgusting to others. If you don't like it move on. There are rules in place against underage so if a customer asks for this from you just say it's against tos. What other people choose to do is not under your control.
Joijoijoi
04-16-2020, 06:03 AM
This is your opinion. Engaging in safe consensual taboo kink is not disgusting to others. If you don't like it move on. There are rules in place against underage so if a customer asks for this from you just say it's against tos. What other people choose to do is not under your control.
The whole point was me saying underage isn't safe and consensual taboo kink and you were all there saying that you don't agree with me being against it like you think its acceptable to partake in it. I know what other people choose to do isn't under my control but I am allowed to say its wrong and out of order and you shouldn't be on here promoting it saying its fine its just fantasy I don't agree bla bla bla. And that is what you said in your first reply to me. I have said on many occasions on my posts further up there is a big difference between some taboos and underage. Its not opinion either anyone in their right mind would agree with what I was saying about underage stuff.
You and a few others have responded in a way that makes it sound I am saying all taboo is wrong and I never said that I was focusing on what particular type is wrong. Why am I being told i'm wrong for saying partaking in roleplays where you act underage is wrong. It is wrong!!
Anyway I said what I said and that's the end of this convo.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-16-2020, 06:24 AM
Points were made and now it's time for everyone to keep it moving. The back and forth is just clogging up the thread. Have a great day and go forth and prosper.
Blue-Velvet
04-19-2020, 07:06 AM
Random question, but does anyone here use Paxum? After being verified/approved/whatever for ages and having done several bank transfers in the past, I'm suddenly seeing a notification that my account has been limited until my documents have been approved by a member of their team. I haven't submitted any new documents, and now I can't withdraw money to my bank, or even transfer from my USD to EUR Paxum accounts. I just wondered if anyone else is having an issue with Paxum right now.
PixiieGirl
04-19-2020, 07:15 AM
Random question, but does anyone here use Paxum? After being verified/approved/whatever for ages and having done several bank transfers in the past, I'm suddenly seeing a notification that my account has been limited until my documents have been approved by a member of their team. I haven't submitted any new documents, and now I can't withdraw money to my bank, or even transfer from my USD to EUR Paxum accounts. I just wondered if anyone else is having an issue with Paxum right now.
I just checked mine and it seems fine - but I've not withdrawn money from it in a while - will be on wednesday so I can update then if it works
CatBBW
04-20-2020, 04:14 AM
HEADS UP - AW now reject and remove any uploaded clips that they deem to be "Too poor quality, screen size too small". I just had an email about one that I uploaded yesterday morning - I don't know what they mean by screen size too small as it played/fitted perfectly on my computer screen.
EDIT - just checked and it's the same res (actually, a little higher, 854x480) as most of the other clips uploaded there. I can only guess it was the content - bellybutton fetish. AW aren't very clued up in fetish and kink. Probably would have stayed up if I'd been naked and sticking a bare cock into it.
Blonde-Ambition
04-20-2020, 04:31 AM
has anyone's money gone in yet? xx
Princess_ki
04-20-2020, 04:47 AM
No mines not in yet... was just thinking the same ?! Xx
Blonde-Ambition
04-20-2020, 04:54 AM
oh god! i always panic now!
let me know if you get it
xx
Princess_ki
04-20-2020, 04:57 AM
I know me too !!! I have had it go in at 4oclock before so try not to worry to much xxx
CatBBW
04-20-2020, 04:58 AM
Nothing here either.
Blonde-Ambition
04-20-2020, 05:00 AM
ok thank you! trying to remain calm! lol xx
Blonde-Ambition
04-20-2020, 05:00 AM
aw it's JUST gone in now! :)
Princess_ki
04-20-2020, 05:01 AM
Mines just got into !!!! LOOL can relax now !!! Xxx
Indiankitten
04-25-2020, 01:29 PM
Hi everyone
I am new to webcamming so happy to find this place, I was feeling so alone!
I hope this is the right section to post my questions.
I am on aw only.
My questions are what do you say when they enter? I am getting a lot who go after 5 seconds!?
Also without direct postitioning I don’t get any calls, is this normal?
Thank you
kikixxxx
04-25-2020, 02:01 PM
You will get a lot of peeping toms on adultwork unfortunately. Just coming in for 2 or 3 seconds and then leaving. These are the guys who 9 times out of 10 have no intention of spending any money anyway. It drives me mad! I usually just say hi and if they are gonna spend they will reply hi back. Don’t worry just stick at it! Xx
Indiankitten
04-25-2020, 03:14 PM
You will get a lot of peeping toms on adultwork unfortunately. Just coming in for 2 or 3 seconds and then leaving. These are the guys who 9 times out of 10 have no intention of spending any money anyway. It drives me mad! I usually just say hi and if they are gonna spend they will reply hi back. Don’t worry just stick at it! Xx
KiKi, Thank you for your reply. I have done escort work previously and honestly these peeling toms felt like a walk out!!
Sometimes though I say hi they say hi back then leave! I’m sat there scratching my head. Yes it drives me mad to Kiki, I will run to my laptop when I’m doing something and in he comes and out he jumps.
Now sometimes this happens in private too, would you know why that is as private is more expensive at £4.00
Last question please -
featured for webcamming and positioning which is better please?
kisses right back you xx
fetishqueen
04-25-2020, 03:32 PM
KiKi, Thank you for your reply. I have done escort work previously and honestly these peeling toms felt like a walk out!!
Sometimes though I say hi they say hi back then leave! I’m sat there scratching my head. Yes it drives me mad to Kiki, I will run to my laptop when I’m doing something and in he comes and out he jumps.
Now sometimes this happens in private too, would you know why that is as private is more expensive at £4.00
Last question please -
featured for webcamming and positioning which is better please?
kisses right back you xx
This happens to EVERYONE, I'm not sure why they do it and it's annoying but it really is very normal, not cause for worry! I imagine that in group it might be because you are not there with everything hanging out and in my opinion, group customers often expect you to do more and for them to pay less, weird but is my experience. I charge less than you and I get it plenty too. Put your efforts into the genuine customers and don't worry about these ones, you'll never please everyone so don't worry!
sexysusie
04-25-2020, 03:33 PM
KiKi, Thank you for your reply. I have done escort work previously and honestly these peeling toms felt like a walk out!!
Sometimes though I say hi they say hi back then leave! I’m sat there scratching my head. Yes it drives me mad to Kiki, I will run to my laptop when I’m doing something and in he comes and out he jumps.
Now sometimes this happens in private too, would you know why that is as private is more expensive at £4.00
Last question please -
featured for webcamming and positioning which is better please?
kisses right back you xx
Positioning gives you more exposure but don't go crazy as often the price doesn't justify itself nowadays. I'd alternate doing some hours potitioned with others where you start with free chat. I know exactly how you feel re it being like a walk out, unfortunately with cam it's just something we have to put up with. Often they are not looking at your profile first, they are on their phones pressing the 'next' button from the last model's profile, they're just flicking through the site till they spot something they like. It's not personal. Welcome to AW x
Indiankitten
04-25-2020, 04:02 PM
Positioning gives you more exposure but don't go crazy as often the price doesn't justify itself nowadays. I'd alternate doing some hours potitioned with others where you start with free chat. I know exactly how you feel re it being like a walk out, unfortunately with cam it's just something we have to put up with. Often they are not looking at your profile first, they are on their phones pressing the 'next' button from the last model's profile, they're just flicking through the site till they spot something they like. It's not personal. Welcome to AW x
Thank you Susie and thanks you again Kiki,
SS, Why would you suggest doing free? Do you think it’s beneficial?I don’t show my face on my profile would I have to in free? I don’t like the idea of chatting to these men without making anything. All that energy!
Also re positioning if I did say 12 - 3pm, How much should I be bidding for each hour please?
I have to share this one- I had a special offer on where it said “ Me masturbating ” so I got this on my screen and I so wasn’t ready! Anyway this man did not say a word throughout and paid extra when it went over it’s time.
If a man does not say anything what do I do? Play with my self? Or just sit there?
Webcamming is surely different to Escort work😋 x
Indiankitten
04-25-2020, 05:13 PM
This happens to EVERYONE, I'm not sure why they do it and it's annoying but it really is very normal, not cause for worry! I imagine that in group it might be because you are not there with everything hanging out and in my opinion, group customers often expect you to do more and for them to pay less, weird but is my experience. I charge less than you and I get it plenty too. Put your efforts into the genuine customers and don't worry about these ones, you'll never please everyone so don't worry!
Fetishqueen, Thank you to you to!
Sorry I’m on my phone and my eyes are not great so I missed your post.
I have to admit I tend to do what I do in group in private, I’m new and I don’t know what to say after “Hi” so I say how was your day then “ “ are you horny”!
I will look through the threads here and see if I can find any pointers on what other girls say!
kikixxxx
04-25-2020, 05:55 PM
I know I’m the same - I find it hard to make conversation when the other person is blunt or hardly speaking back to me lol. I’m quite shy so It doesn’t come naturally to me as it is. What your saying is what I imagine most girls say to start off though. How are you, are you horny etc. Where are you from. Remember they are likely wanking at the same time so that’s why they aren’t typing much or making conversation probably.
The peeping toms used to bother me too, I used to take it personally but It isn’t anything personal. They are just flicking across a bunch of girls to see what everyone’s upto. Curiosity maybe. Don’t take it to heart though. Xx
sexysusie
04-25-2020, 10:50 PM
Fetishqueen, Thank you to you to!
Sorry I’m on my phone and my eyes are not great so I missed your post.
I have to admit I tend to do what I do in group in private, I’m new and I don’t know what to say after “Hi” so I say how was your day then “ “ are you horny”!
I will look through the threads here and see if I can find any pointers on what other girls say!
Definitely read these:
How to stall and make more money https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?150777-Ways-To-STALL-and-Make-More-Money
Starting place for camgirls https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?150383-Starting-Place-For-Cam-Girls
The Adultwork thread https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?156654-The-AdultWork-Thread
Positioning can get very expensive particularly if you're on at a busy time which is why i say to alternate an hour of positioning with the next hour doing say 20 mins of free chat. This is what i do as both will gain you exposure to guys looking through the site. You can try 60p - £3, but these days it's usually over £5 to get a decent spot at prime times so unless you feel like burning through all your money on positioning i'd utilise other ways. If you're aiming to use AW as your only site you're most likely going to have to use free chat occasionally. If you prefer not to at all then add another private site or two and split cam them all.
If someone doesn't say anything I will ask if they're enjoying themselves? If there is no response i will tease, just move seductively without saying or doing anything in particular for a while, then ask again. If still no response i remove my face from the cam in case they are recording (silence is a classic sign). If they're just carried away wanking then usually by the 2nd time you ask they will respond.
fetishqueen
04-26-2020, 12:56 AM
Something to be aware of with the special offers too. I believe that if they are cut off during their time they get 5 mins to reconnect and continue, otherwise they lose the rest of their offer. Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong but it's useful to tell guys when they come through on a special offer.
I'd never advise just sitting there doing nothing if they are over their special offer time, they probably haven't finished so just carry on with what you've been doing until they go if they don't type, many find it hard to type and wank! If they want to spend more, great!
BritishCammer1992
04-26-2020, 01:54 AM
Oh yes SO many guys who will not say a word, for those guys I just kind of do a slow strip tease and then start playing. I sometimes say little prompts to them like ,"Hope you're enjoying this as much as I am" etc. but if I don't get a reply I'm just assuming his hands are otherwise occupied!!!
In group you will get guys coming in very briefly in the hope you're naked and playing to get that quick sneak peak, they're basically just cheapskates and they're annoying! The most frustrating thing is when you've just had a group there's a little delay period for a minute or so afterwards where it can still show on AW that you're in group. You get the guys that join and, as I'm now fully dressed again, I greet them with a "Hi, how are you? Welcome" and they're gone before I've even finished the sentence!
I definitely suggest directcam positioning for when you're online, especially with how saturated the sites become these last couple of months. It gives you that extra exposure to try and stand out amongst everyone else. I usually spend 3/4/5 credits depending on if I'm online during the day or at night when it's busier. Don't pay too much, usually something that will be covered by a 1-2 minute show to make that money back :)
xoxo
Arwen25
04-26-2020, 03:59 AM
will ask if they're enjoying themselves? If there is no response i will tease, just move seductively without saying or doing anything in particular for a while, then ask again. If still no response i remove my face from the cam in case they are recording (silence is a classic sign). If they're just carried away wanking then usually by the 2nd time you ask they will respond.
Some great from all the ladies above. This is very true and good to remember. ^ I don't have much to add but this is all excellent advice. I find a combination of reading here, and just camming and getting to grips with what your style and hustle is, is definitely the way to go. I offer largely fetish and domination but do do some vanilla with regulars. So, I start with something fairly generic, but make it clear I won't be riding a dildo and saying "yes sir" (nothing wrong with that, just not something I can do convincingly/enjoy) so something like, "Welcome" I'm ... What brings you to my profile today?" or.. "Welcome, is this our first time together?" Best of luck, IndianKitten. x
Indiankitten
04-27-2020, 01:00 AM
Definitely read these:
How to stall and make more money
Starting place for camgirls
The Adultwork thread
Positioning can get very expensive particularly if you're on at a busy time which is why i say to alternate an hour of positioning with the next hour doing say 20 mins of free chat. This is what i do as both will gain you exposure to guys looking through the site. You can try 60p - £3, but these days it's usually over £5 to get a decent spot at prime times so unless you feel like burning through all your money on positioning i'd utilise other ways. If you're aiming to use AW as your only site you're most likely going to have to use free chat occasionally. If you prefer not to at all then add another private site or two and split cam them all.
If someone doesn't say anything I will ask if they're enjoying themselves? If there is no response i will tease, just move seductively without saying or doing anything in particular for a while, then ask again. If still no response i remove my face from the cam in case they are recording (silence is a classic sign). If they're just carried away wanking then usually by the 2nd time you ask they will respond.
SS
Apology for the late reply...
Thank you so much for those links and taking the time to find and post them. I am grateful, these are super helpful.
I can see what you are saying about free chat now, this totally makes sense. I will take this on board and try this.
SS, what do you talk about in free? And do you show your face? How many mins do you give please?
I hope he didn’t record me, no he didn’t try or anything at all, when his special offer run out he went over which I noticed in my credit. I was so nervous I am pretending to having orgasms, I so wasn’t ready for that one! Masturbation on demand! So yes my face was visible at some point.
I am finding they like a certain outfit then I don’t get too many walk outs , but how many times can I wear same dress and bra!? They will think I don’t have any other outfits.
Is cam like escort work where it goes quite end of month?
Thank you again SS
You rock xx