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mediocrity
07-15-2011, 04:23 PM
^ I was married for ten years and I've been with my current GF on and off for a LONG time, so, I don't view relationships with the same Disney-fairy-tale-happy-ever-after-rose-colored-glasses that you do. I love my GF to death, but, I'm not always the BEST BF and she's not always the BEST GF - which is okay, because I'm-sorry-make-up-sex is the BEST! - shakes up emotions and reignites passion.

Every romantic movie includes conflict and make-up-sex. A romantic movie about two people that always get along would bore the audience to tears.

You're husband is NEVER a jerk to you? - He always does his fair share of household work, is always considerate of you and your feelings, gets along with your family, doesn't ever act selfishly, never spends more than he should on sports, boy toys or hobbies, never raises his voice or says something he regrets later,...?... Well that's too bad, because you are missing out on amazing make-up sex.

I think it's a matter of finding the right compatible person not fairy tales. I was married before for 5 years to the wrong person, and we never had sex... because I hated him, and we fought CONSTANTLY.

And no my husband doesn't do any of those things. He does more than his share of household work- I'm actually the one who has to be reminded. I don't have any family besides my dad, and he and my dad get along famously. He's not really into sports or video games, and he handles all the financial stuff- his dad was an accountant and he's very responsible with money. And no- we never yell at each other, or call names or anything- why would we? I'm not saying we don't disagree sometimes, but we know how to walk away and/or fight fairly. Like I always tell people, we never ARGUE, but we do DISAGREE sometimes.

All I was trying to say is, not every girl hides the keys to the golden pussy castle and makes you jump through hoops to get them.

Zinaida
07-15-2011, 04:30 PM
For me probably 10-30 tops. Including foreplay haha

NationwideStrippers
07-15-2011, 04:33 PM
Usually around 15 minutes :)

Davey17
07-16-2011, 07:14 AM
I think it's a matter of finding the right compatible person not fairy tales. I was married before for 5 years to the wrong person, and we never had sex... because I hated him, and we fought CONSTANTLY.

And no my husband doesn't do any of those things. He does more than his share of household work- I'm actually the one who has to be reminded. I don't have any family besides my dad, and he and my dad get along famously. He's not really into sports or video games, and he handles all the financial stuff- his dad was an accountant and he's very responsible with money. And no- we never yell at each other, or call names or anything- why would we? I'm not saying we don't disagree sometimes, but we know how to walk away and/or fight fairly. Like I always tell people, we never ARGUE, but we do DISAGREE sometimes.

All I was trying to say is, not every girl hides the keys to the golden pussy castle and makes you jump through hoops to get them.


Personally , I think its really difficult to have an incredible relationship ( both sexual / emotional ) if you dont have an incredible bond in a whole lot of different areas .

Really great sex should certainly make up a part of this ...but Im always suspect of guys who say their partner just is not interested ...Im always found the exact opposite ..and I just wonder why ..

I wouldn't want to be fighting ,arguing, disagreing within a relationship , just to complete a " Make up Bonk " .....No one couple / group of people will ever agree 100 % , Its comunication .. but sexual communication is extremely important also ...

Or you may as well just shack up with a friend ..if the Sex isn't great .

How long penetration lasts ? ( excluding fore play ) ..Not sure that matters at all really ..other than to compare one facit with another individual .:D:O:-X

Trem
07-21-2011, 08:23 AM
Me love you moderate amount of time.

Cleats
07-22-2011, 05:38 AM
I've tried to explain this to women before that were bragging about how long their man can last. I've lasted several minutes to an hour+. It all depends on how good the woman is in bed. How wet she is. And how hot (inside temp) she is. A girl that's hot, wet, and knows how to move it will get me off in no time. So ladies, if you get a man off fast be proud. It means you're really good. As far as lasting a long time, of course that's going to be the opposite of being good so don't brag about how long your man can last. Or yall are just drunk/high or are on round two lol.
You women complaining how you sex life used to last longer and it's not really short need to realize that 1) you're relationship isn't based on sex anymore and you are leadin busier lives and 2) you know your partner, you get them off a lot easier than when you first started dating which can be a good thing.
Personally, I like for it to last about 15-20min... Basically when she's tired of
having orgasms and tells me it's my turn lol