mediocrity
07-15-2011, 04:23 PM
^ I was married for ten years and I've been with my current GF on and off for a LONG time, so, I don't view relationships with the same Disney-fairy-tale-happy-ever-after-rose-colored-glasses that you do. I love my GF to death, but, I'm not always the BEST BF and she's not always the BEST GF - which is okay, because I'm-sorry-make-up-sex is the BEST! - shakes up emotions and reignites passion.
Every romantic movie includes conflict and make-up-sex. A romantic movie about two people that always get along would bore the audience to tears.
You're husband is NEVER a jerk to you? - He always does his fair share of household work, is always considerate of you and your feelings, gets along with your family, doesn't ever act selfishly, never spends more than he should on sports, boy toys or hobbies, never raises his voice or says something he regrets later,...?... Well that's too bad, because you are missing out on amazing make-up sex.
I think it's a matter of finding the right compatible person not fairy tales. I was married before for 5 years to the wrong person, and we never had sex... because I hated him, and we fought CONSTANTLY.
And no my husband doesn't do any of those things. He does more than his share of household work- I'm actually the one who has to be reminded. I don't have any family besides my dad, and he and my dad get along famously. He's not really into sports or video games, and he handles all the financial stuff- his dad was an accountant and he's very responsible with money. And no- we never yell at each other, or call names or anything- why would we? I'm not saying we don't disagree sometimes, but we know how to walk away and/or fight fairly. Like I always tell people, we never ARGUE, but we do DISAGREE sometimes.
All I was trying to say is, not every girl hides the keys to the golden pussy castle and makes you jump through hoops to get them.
Every romantic movie includes conflict and make-up-sex. A romantic movie about two people that always get along would bore the audience to tears.
You're husband is NEVER a jerk to you? - He always does his fair share of household work, is always considerate of you and your feelings, gets along with your family, doesn't ever act selfishly, never spends more than he should on sports, boy toys or hobbies, never raises his voice or says something he regrets later,...?... Well that's too bad, because you are missing out on amazing make-up sex.
I think it's a matter of finding the right compatible person not fairy tales. I was married before for 5 years to the wrong person, and we never had sex... because I hated him, and we fought CONSTANTLY.
And no my husband doesn't do any of those things. He does more than his share of household work- I'm actually the one who has to be reminded. I don't have any family besides my dad, and he and my dad get along famously. He's not really into sports or video games, and he handles all the financial stuff- his dad was an accountant and he's very responsible with money. And no- we never yell at each other, or call names or anything- why would we? I'm not saying we don't disagree sometimes, but we know how to walk away and/or fight fairly. Like I always tell people, we never ARGUE, but we do DISAGREE sometimes.
All I was trying to say is, not every girl hides the keys to the golden pussy castle and makes you jump through hoops to get them.