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martez120
07-02-2011, 01:30 AM
I frequent a strip bar and I am in love with a stripper there. I normally pay her $1200 per visit at least once a week. We go into the VIP and its the same thing.... I just want lap dances but she wants to give me head everytime. She loves giving head and says she could do it for 24 hours if she could. I do not get off by this. I really like her but this makes her seem dirty to me. She gets her way usually and gives me head in the VIP. I never get off. The last time it happened, she really sucked me hard and fast. When about 3 songs finished, I told her we needed to take a break and go back out and have some more drinks. When we left the VIP area she said "It was good, but I rather have the whole thing". I left it at that, but I wanted to ask the forum.... was she talking about having my entire penis out (because she simply did it by unzipping my pants), or was she talking about wanting me to cum? :-\

Michele.2
07-02-2011, 01:37 AM
LOL...

pussyinboots
07-02-2011, 02:11 AM
LOL...

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4everresolutions
07-02-2011, 02:40 AM
I frequent a strip bar and I am in love with a stripper there. I normally pay her $1200 per visit at least once a week. We go into the VIP and its the same thing.... I just want lap dances but she wants to give me head everytime. She loves giving head and says she could do it for 24 hours if she could. I do not get off by this. I really like her but this makes her seem dirty to me. She gets her way usually and gives me head in the VIP. I never get off. The last time it happened, she really sucked me hard and fast. When about 3 songs finished, I told her we needed to take a break and go back out and have some more drinks. When we left the VIP area she said "It was good, but I rather have the whole thing". I left it at that, but I wanted to ask the forum.... was she talking about having my entire penis out (because she simply did it by unzipping my pants), or was she talking about wanting me to cum? :-\

Ah, see you misunderstood her.

She didn't say she wanted the "Whole thing". She said "HOLE thing". As in Hole - like a vagina.

She's telling you she's actually a lesbian and wishes you had a pussy.

You should totally get sex change operation. It will make her much happier.

JayATee
07-02-2011, 07:25 AM
Yes we all dream about this...

martez120
07-02-2011, 10:28 AM
Some of you are making jokes and some are missing the point of what I am asking. I often see other strippers getting napkins and such for the purposes of dealing with guys that cum. I have never required this because I have never came while getting a dance or getting head. My question is actually "are strippers pissed off when a guy cums when they dance or give extras or do they EXPECT guys to cum?" If it is EXPECTED, is my friend actually DISAPPOINTED that i am NOT cumming?

sananeko
07-02-2011, 10:43 AM
I wouldn't.. If she wants you to cum in a stripclub she is not a stripper, only someone pretending to be one cause shes too much of a moron to be a escort and make lots of money if she screens right..

Having girls in the club like this makes it harder for clean dancers cause men think all the dancers do it.. But also something to chew on.. If shes blowing you, good chance shes blowing more than you.. and alot of these girls don't use mouthwash afterwards.. only move on to the next john.. So you should be asking yourself am I dumb enough to keep doing this til I catch something or am I going to switch to a real dancer..

yoda57us
07-02-2011, 11:17 AM
My question is actually "are strippers pissed off when a guy cums when they dance or give extras or do they EXPECT guys to cum?" If it is EXPECTED, is my friend actually DISAPPOINTED that i am NOT cumming?

This question has been asked DOZENS of times on this site. Do a search and you will have good reading for days...

To answer the question based on my experience they do not want you to blow a load in your pants but they do want your money. Girls who have decided that getting you to blow a load for them is the way they want to make their money do not have a problem with you doing it. A as long as you keep spending I doubt they really care if you get off or not. If they act like they do care it's just a sales technique.

lfr
07-02-2011, 07:06 PM
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Kylea2
07-02-2011, 07:30 PM
That woman isn't a dancer, she's a prostitute... & generally prostitutes do want the customers to climax. It's sort of their way to know the customer enjoyed it & that he's likely to return.

With that being said, if you don't like it, maybe next time you should try spending time with an entertainer who actually knows how to dance & put on a show.

martez120
07-02-2011, 08:10 PM
"maybe next time you should try spending time with an entertainer who actually knows how to dance & put on a show."

Actually, she is a "great" dancer.....one of the best I have seen. She does pole tricks, hand stand tricks, etc...... I praise her on her dancing all the time. She doesn't blow me everytime. I would say she does it about 60% of the time, and that is mainly because I stress I want a PG-13 experience. Then she begs me and humoruously starts talking to my penis while she is grinding on me in the VIP saying things like "See, he missses me..... please, please let me do it". She will then pull it out my pants and get her way. Like i mentioned before, I never cum. So after a couple songs, she will tuck it back in ...zip up my pants and start back grinding and so forth.

setian
07-02-2011, 08:16 PM
How is this guy smart enough to make 4800 a month to blow in a SC and not know his dick is about to fall off?

Kylea2
07-02-2011, 11:26 PM
"maybe next time you should try spending time with an entertainer who actually knows how to dance & put on a show."

Actually, she is a "great" dancer.....one of the best I have seen. She does pole tricks, hand stand tricks, etc...... I praise her on her dancing all the time. She doesn't blow me everytime. I would say she does it about 60% of the time, and that is mainly because I stress I want a PG-13 experience. Then she begs me and humoruously starts talking to my penis while she is grinding on me in the VIP saying things like "See, he missses me..... please, please let me do it". She will then pull it out my pants and get her way. Like i mentioned before, I never cum. So after a couple songs, she will tuck it back in ...zip up my pants and start back grinding and so forth.

She's still a prostitute. I'm starting to suspect that maybe you haven't seen a great striptease show before... what you are describing has nothing to do with what the striptease show business is about.

Anyhow, if she's doing this to you then she's doing it to others. Does that make you feel any better?

lfr
07-03-2011, 02:08 AM
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Bob_Loblaw
07-03-2011, 02:13 AM
Anyhow, if she's doing this to you then she's doing it to others. Does that make you feel any better?
It never ceases to amaze me how this fact is lost on so many.


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Brandi_Lynn
07-03-2011, 02:25 AM
I frequent a strip bar and I am in love with a stripper there. I normally pay her $1200 per visit at least once a week. We go into the VIP and its the same thing.... I just want lap dances but she wants to give me head everytime. She loves giving head and says she could do it for 24 hours if she could. I do not get off by this. I really like her but this makes her seem dirty to me. She gets her way usually and gives me head in the VIP. I never get off. The last time it happened, she really sucked me hard and fast. When about 3 songs finished, I told her we needed to take a break and go back out and have some more drinks. When we left the VIP area she said "It was good, but I rather have the whole thing". I left it at that, but I wanted to ask the forum.... was she talking about having my entire penis out (because she simply did it by unzipping my pants), or was she talking about wanting me to cum? :-\

She was saying she wants the whole thing -as in your wallet, your bank account, your savings acount, your house, etc.... minus you, your kids & wifey.

At least thats what I mean when I'm sucking massive dick or doing anal or something else against the rules in a CR ::)

JayATee
07-03-2011, 06:51 AM
Some of you are making jokes and some are missing the point of what I am asking. I often see other strippers getting napkins and such for the purposes of dealing with guys that cum. I have never required this because I have never came while getting a dance or getting head. My question is actually "are strippers pissed off when a guy cums when they dance or give extras or do they EXPECT guys to cum?" If it is EXPECTED, is my friend actually DISAPPOINTED that i am NOT cumming?

She's not your friend. ::) And who the fuck knows? We're dancers here.

setian
07-03-2011, 06:51 AM
At least thats what I mean when I'm sucking massive dick or doing anal or something else against the rules in a CR ::)[/QUOTE]

ROTFLMAO.

jannisary
07-03-2011, 08:59 PM
Wow... this is still the basement right? I see Blue...

In this instance it doesn't matter what "strippers want", in this particular instance the lady in question wants the guy to cum. I'm with Yoda in that I believe the reason is probably financial though. Are you trying not to cum for some reason? Probably by this point she sees making you cum as some sort of challenge. Perhaps even that you are playing a game of sorts by holding back and not cumming despite her efforts. If you're not comfortable with the situation then change it.

xGigi
07-05-2011, 05:56 PM
do STRIPPERS want customers to cum? no

do PROSTITUTES want customers to cum? I have no idea.

STRIPPERS do not give head to customers btw.

DesuvsDeath
07-05-2011, 06:09 PM
I don't know why you guys are making jokes. This is a serious problem!
This is just like how every time I go to the club... this girl keeps pulling out my penis and riding it for hours past the end of the dance even though I don't want her to and frequently ask that she not do it at all and only dance!!!!
It can be very frustrating having thousands and thousands of dollars of disposable income a month and not being able to get strippers off your dick!

JoeUnCool
07-05-2011, 06:17 PM
Wow, ok, there are some many directions that you can go with this question and its associated answers. Here are a few thoughts on this:


She might like you. She could be saving herself for someone like you. its entirely possible, however, I have never heard of something like this happening. :P
She could be a freak. Some girls get off by getting others off. It happens. I've met these girls, they do exist.
She could be merely enticing you to come back. I bet if I was spending big bucks in a club as a regular, I would be getting a lot of action.
She may want more and is trying to get it from you by giving up something now. She may be wanting OTC and more money.

I think the bottom line on this, is "who knows"? Some might say "who cares?" Since we all know you won't stop, I'd suggestion a few things:


Protect yourself emotionally. She doesn't like you for you, she likes you for your money.
Protect yourself physically. Condoms are a big deal.
Protect your stuff. No OTC at your place or her place. Hotels are what you need.


You are in control of the situation. Do as you think.

rickdugan
07-05-2011, 06:32 PM
do STRIPPERS want customers to cum? no

do PROSTITUTES want customers to cum? I have no idea.

STRIPPERS do not give head to customers btw.

Those lines blur for some girls - one minute she's dancing on stage, the next she's in VIP doing her other job. Hmmm...perhaps they should have reversible panties? When she's on stage she'll have STRIPPER stamped on her ass, but before she goes back into VIP to give a guy head she could turn those panties inside out and display her PROSTITUTE label. :thinking:

Anyway, just trying to think outside of the box here.

UV69
07-05-2011, 10:21 PM
4get her sucking you raw against your better intentions & desires. The evil slut pretending to be a stripper you should ask 4 your money back lol Well dear only thing I want is your wallet. I'll be glad to tease you 4 hours without you ever having to worry about me touching your penis in fact I'ld like to imagine you don't have 1 of those at all. Problem solved.

kcash2126
07-05-2011, 10:27 PM
So please tell me how you could be in love with a woman who INSISTS on sucking you off even if you don't want her to? That tells me this chick has some serious daddy issues and is probabley sucking off any guy in the club who will take her back to the VIP. Gross! If I had to make a wild guess I would say she is addicted to coke and fueling her habit any way she can! Also, when she made that little comment about wanting it all she probabley meant she wants to screw you! DUH :D

martez120
07-06-2011, 06:03 AM
THanks for all the comments. I have recently seen her at another bar that is actually closer to me. She was suspended from the previous bar due to fighting. Seeing her at the bar right around the corner from my house completely caught me off guard. I will refer to this other club as club 'B'. I have visited club B for sometime now as it is closer than club A, but I am not as attracted to anyone there. I get dances from time to time at club B, but it never gets to the point of getting head. Anyhow, when I entered club B, I did not see her right away. I seen her friend who also dances at club A usually. Her friend told me that she was mad at me. I later talked to my friend and she said she was upset that I lied about coming to club B. According to what I told her, I never come to club B as the dancers are not very hot....which is very true. She also told me that she ran into one of the regular strippers from club B that I have gotten dances from in the past. I have received dances from the stripper in question and have always talked about how much I liked my friend from club A. "I've been getting dances from your customer and talking with him OTC", the stripper in question told my friend. "Well, he's more than just a customer", my friend told her. My friend was very upset by the comment the stripper in question made regarding seeing me OTC. I told my friend that was a lie, but the stripper in question has often told me that she was attracted to me and wanted OTC.....which again, never happened. My friend then sat me down and asked me if this was true, and also if I had a girlfriend. I said no to both questions. "Well, why have I never been to your house before?", my friend asked. "Well, you never asked", I said. She then had to get on stage. Once she got off we went back to the VIP for a few "clean" dances ( I would never get head in club B, as the VIP is not very private, just another room with a bunch of chairs and no privacy). I got a few dances and paid her like $120. She later attempted to get my new number, as I had it changed some time ago. She had to get a napkin and a pen to write it down.....but also had to go back on stage for a grand finale of like three songs. When she got on stage, I went to the bathroom and then snuck out the back door. I have not seen her again.

I have listened to all the comments that have been said, positive and negative, and I agree that she may have wanted me to cum that previous night at club A, but was not upset by it not happening. She often would call me a 'tease' on nights I did not allow her to give me head. I agree that she also was possibly doing it for others, even though she would get upset when I told her that. "I hate when you say that..... I only do that with you", she would tell me. Either way, I think I am done with her and will probably not attend club A or B in the near future.

jayslittlekitten22
07-06-2011, 07:49 AM
You want my blunt opinon. She is a whore. She prolly does the same thing to other guys. She isnt a dancer at all. She is a prostitue. A dancer has class and doesnt do stuff like that. At least i dont and never would. I dont get that personal because I couldnt do that. You are there for us to dance for not screw or blow. If you are a good man and are unciomfortable with it let her know. Its your money if you dont want to pay for that than dont. You want our opinions ur getting mine. Many may not like what I have to say but its the truth. For the girls out there that do extras I think its wrong. Hate what I say but it is. For me its a performance and thats it. I love it for the fact that i can show what i got. I dont think im great or anything but I do have class. That girl dont. So I think you need to rethink that stuff your letting her do because if it got out and ur getting a bj when cops bust it than u get in trouble as well. think twice.

jayslittlekitten22
07-06-2011, 07:51 AM
Read ur last post and thats a good descision. It will save you problems in the future hun.

rickdugan
07-06-2011, 12:31 PM
Idk martez, but I think that you were awfully selfish about the whole thing. She worked very hard, over multiple visits, to make you happy. And what does she get for all of her efforts? A complete lack of appreciation. She clearly enjoys sucking guys off and your efforts to limit her to regular dances must be very frustrating for her. You really need to think about somebody other than yourself here. ;)

rickdugan
07-06-2011, 12:47 PM
You want my blunt opinon. She is a whore. She prolly does the same thing to other guys. She isnt a dancer at all. She is a prostitue. A dancer has class and doesnt do stuff like that. At least i dont and never would. I dont get that personal because I couldnt do that. You are there for us to dance for not screw or blow. If you are a good man and are unciomfortable with it let her know. Its your money if you dont want to pay for that than dont. You want our opinions ur getting mine. Many may not like what I have to say but its the truth. For the girls out there that do extras I think its wrong. Hate what I say but it is. For me its a performance and thats it. I love it for the fact that i can show what i got. I dont think im great or anything but I do have class. That girl dont. So I think you need to rethink that stuff your letting her do because if it got out and ur getting a bj when cops bust it than u get in trouble as well. think twice.

A dancer is still a dancer regardless of what she does to get by. You might want to tone that stuff down a bit. This is a support site for all strippers, not just for overly self-righteous ones who feel the need to spew hatred and condescension.

DesuvsDeath
07-06-2011, 03:06 PM
Oh man, martez... it's like we're living the same life!
I HATE when I go to the club and all the dancers are fighting with me about who gets to meet me OTC and fuck me.

jayslittlekitten22
07-06-2011, 05:21 PM
Im not self rightous Im just saying that its not right the girls can do that and it be ok. I dont care who you are. I support the girls and people on here. just not the extra girls. sry.

rickdugan
07-06-2011, 06:22 PM
Im not self rightous...

Really?

Exhibit 1

You want my blunt opinon. She is a whore. She prolly does the same thing to other guys. She isnt a dancer at all. She is a prostitue. A dancer has class and doesnt do stuff like that. At least i dont and never would...

Seems like a text book example to me.

In case there is some confusion about my reference, a "text book" is that thing that the other kids had open in school when they were learning to read and write in English. But I digress...

It's easy to criticize others when you are not facing hard choices. What would you do after your child is born if your fiance decided to split and left you holding the bag? What if those choices were the difference between whether or not you could keep a roof over your child's head and food in his/her belly?

There are no easy answers here. It is tough out there in a lot of places and some girls, many of whom have kids to feed, have chosen to do things that I'm sure they never intended to do when they started in this business.

A little more tolerance is in order here. Like I said, this is supposed to be a place for all strippers, not just those who think that they are better than others because they draw the line in a different place than those other dancers.

sananeko
07-06-2011, 06:45 PM
Really?

It's easy to criticize others when you are not facing hard choices. What would you do after your child is born if your fiance decided to split and left you holding the bag? What if those choices were the difference between whether or not you could keep a roof over your child's head and food in his/her belly?

There are no easy answers here. It is tough out there in a lot of places and some girls, many of whom have kids to feed, have chosen to do things that I'm sure they never intended to do when they started in this business.

A little more tolerance is in order here. Like I said, this is supposed to be a place for all strippers, not just those who think that they are better than others because they draw the line in a different place than those other dancers.
Strippers are dancers that tease and not do sexual acts. If someone is down on there luck and want to resort to sex to make cash. They can become a escort and not make it harder for the real dancers.

bem401
07-07-2011, 04:24 AM
Strippers are dancers that tease and not do sexual acts. If someone is down on there luck and want to resort to sex to make cash. They can become a escort and not make it harder for the real dancers.

But lets be honest, for the most part, nobody in this business is thinking of anybody but themselves and maybe their family when they are doing this type of work. Its unreasonable to expect any workers to change what they're doing out of consideration for the competition.

jayslittlekitten22
07-07-2011, 05:33 AM
Ok so I may have been mean in my earlier post. Im am just a blunt forward person. I apologize for offending anyone. But I still am going to hold to what I said. rickdugan you think it is ok for you to attack me because I have standards that I hold to. So my question to you(not being rude) you defend them so much are you the type of guy that likes to get extras when at a club? Honest question. If a girl wants to have sex in the vip room than they need to be an escort. I agree with sananeko post. Just because we are two people that choose to have priorities and dont approve of extras doesnt mean we are rude.. And as for the whole family and money thing idc how bad i needed money I would never ever resort to doing extras. I would work my ass off to make my money the way thats right. when girls do favors for the guys it makes life hard for others there because than it makes the guys think all the girls do it. Than it makes them lose respect for the others that arent extras. As well as overall taking the clubs standards down. Im sorry but I may not be supporting these girls but its for good reasons. My reasons anyways. I try to have respect for all fellow dancers unless they make themselves seem like they dont deserve it. This is a great community on here and has helped me out alot. These girls that have are great. Im just saying no matter how much you argue with me rick you are not going to sway me to say different or think different. Its a battle you wont win. Anyone who argues with me my own fiancee wont win. Its because thats how i am and if that makes me horrible than it does. But thats me and there are plenty that love me for me.

bem401
07-07-2011, 05:54 AM
I think a little perspective is necessary here. Extras girls are quite often to strippers what strippers are quite often to civilians. Just like strippers say they don't really care what the civilian perspective of them is, I doubt the extras girls care what the non-extras girls' perspective of them is either. I'm not taking one side or the other but am observing both parties are "pushing the envelope" to varying degrees. Expecting either one of them to accommodate the other seems a little futile. It would be no different than the $200 per visit customers complaining about the $500 per visit customers. Its part of the landscape, it just has to be dealt with.

rickdugan
07-07-2011, 09:53 AM
Ok so I may have been mean in my earlier post. Im am just a blunt forward person. I apologize for offending anyone. But I still am going to hold to what I said. rickdugan you think it is ok for you to attack me because I have standards that I hold to. So my question to you(not being rude) you defend them so much are you the type of guy that likes to get extras when at a club? Honest question. If a girl wants to have sex in the vip room than they need to be an escort. I agree with sananeko post. Just because we are two people that choose to have priorities and dont approve of extras doesnt mean we are rude.. And as for the whole family and money thing idc how bad i needed money I would never ever resort to doing extras. I would work my ass off to make my money the way thats right. when girls do favors for the guys it makes life hard for others there because than it makes the guys think all the girls do it. Than it makes them lose respect for the others that arent extras. As well as overall taking the clubs standards down. Im sorry but I may not be supporting these girls but its for good reasons. My reasons anyways. I try to have respect for all fellow dancers unless they make themselves seem like they dont deserve it. This is a great community on here and has helped me out alot. These girls that have are great. Im just saying no matter how much you argue with me rick you are not going to sway me to say different or think different. Its a battle you wont win. Anyone who argues with me my own fiancee wont win. Its because thats how i am and if that makes me horrible than it does. But thats me and there are plenty that love me for me.

Huh? Are you really a stripper? I'm now seriously wondering if I got sucked into a conversation with a troll.

But assuming for a moment that you are what you actually claim...

Nobody was attacking you, but rather I was taking the side of those that you were attacking. This is not the club, but rather a support site for all strippers, including those who do things that you do not like. If you want to be the activities police at your club then fine, but you might want to consider whether that is appropriate here.

I know a lot of girls who could probably benefit from a site like this but who would not feel welcome here because of a few dancers who lose their minds every time some girl says something that deviates from the their strict beliefs about what is and is not ok. Things as seemingly tame as "I rubbed his inner thigh with my hand", "I met him OTC for dinner" or even "I kissed him" are enough to start the flames, even though everyone but the baby strippers understands that this shit, and much more, happens all the time in a ton of clubs.

And comments to the effect of "then she should be an escort" are just dumb. First, one does not suddenly become an escort and there are plenty of escorts who go hungry too. Second, the whole reason that she is getting offers in the first place is because guys meet her at the club and like what they see, while she would be starting from scratch if she decided to switch to full-time escorting. Third, many of these girls still think of themselves as dancers first and do this stuff only as the right opportunities present themselves or if they become desperate.

Like I said before, there are no easy answers here. But it sucks that many girls that I deal with - and I deal with a lot of strippers over the course of a year - would probably feel unwelcome here because of the disrespect and flaming of a relative few.

Brandi_Lynn
07-07-2011, 09:57 AM
Those lines blur for some girls - one minute she's dancing on stage, the next she's in VIP doing her other job. Hmmm...perhaps they should have reversible panties? When she's on stage she'll have STRIPPER stamped on her ass, but before she goes back into VIP to give a guy head she could turn those panties inside out and display her PROSTITUTE label. :thinking:

Anyway, just trying to think outside of the box here.

Funny shit -hahah! :D

Brandi_Lynn
07-07-2011, 10:05 AM
Wow, ok, there are some many directions that you can go with this question and its associated answers. Here are a few thoughts on this:


She might like you. She could be saving herself for someone like you. its entirely possible, however, I have never heard of something like this happening. :P
She could be a freak. Some girls get off by getting others off. It happens. I've met these girls, they do exist.
She could be merely enticing you to come back. I bet if I was spending big bucks in a club as a regular, I would be getting a lot of action.
She may want more and is trying to get it from you by giving up something now. She may be wanting OTC and more money.

I think the bottom line on this, is "who knows"? Some might say "who cares?" Since we all know you won't stop, I'd suggestion a few things:


Protect yourself emotionally. She doesn't like you for you, she likes you for your money.
Protect yourself physically. Condoms are a big deal.
Protect your stuff. No OTC at your place or her place. Hotels are what you need.


You are in control of the situation. Do as you think.

This is more than it -prob right on the nose in fact, I'm willing to guess. And your advice he should heed. In fact, he might wanna just go ahead & get himself tested by now anyways. Because STD s & STI s can be transferred orally. :yuck:

Brandi_Lynn
07-07-2011, 10:08 AM
I think a little perspective is necessary here. Extras girls are quite often to strippers what strippers are quite often to civilians. Just like strippers say they don't really care what the civilian perspective of them is, I doubt the extras girls care what the non-extras girls' perspective of them is either. I'm not taking one side or the other but am observing both parties are "pushing the envelope" to varying degrees. Expecting either one of them to accommodate the other seems a little futile. It would be no different than the $200 per visit customers complaining about the $500 per visit customers. Its part of the landscape, it just has to be dealt with.


Hmmm...enlightening. Never had an extreme prob w/ the extras girls anyways. But this is a whole new light in looking at it. Nice

JoeUnCool
07-08-2011, 08:15 AM
Huh? Are you really a stripper? I'm now seriously wondering if I got sucked into a conversation with a troll.

But assuming for a moment that you are what you actually claim...

Nobody was attacking you, but rather I was taking the side of those that you were attacking. This is not the club, but rather a support site for all strippers, including those who do things that you do not like. If you want to be the activities police at your club then fine, but you might want to consider whether that is appropriate here.

I know a lot of girls who could probably benefit from a site like this but who would not feel welcome here because of a few dancers who lose their minds every time some girl says something that deviates from the their strict beliefs about what is and is not ok. Things as seemingly tame as "I rubbed his inner thigh with my hand", "I met him OTC for dinner" or even "I kissed him" are enough to start the flames, even though everyone but the baby strippers understands that this shit, and much more, happens all the time in a ton of clubs.

And comments to the effect of "then she should be an escort" are just dumb. First, one does not suddenly become an escort and there are plenty of escorts who go hungry too. Second, the whole reason that she is getting offers in the first place is because guys meet her at the club and like what they see, while she would be starting from scratch if she decided to switch to full-time escorting. Third, many of these girls still think of themselves as dancers first and do this stuff only as the right opportunities present themselves or if they become desperate.

Like I said before, there are no easy answers here. But it sucks that many girls that I deal with - and I deal with a lot of strippers over the course of a year - would probably feel unwelcome here because of the disrespect and flaming of a relative few.

Agree 100% on that one. Unfortunately, according to cp, or was it yoda, this battle has already been fought, and lost. :(

rickdugan
07-08-2011, 05:42 PM
Agree 100% on that one. Unfortunately, according to cp, or was it yoda, this battle has already been fought, and lost. :(

I'm not sure that I agree with that. I actually believe that this place is lightening up a little bit, but regardless fwiw I will be one person who will continue to call it out, particularly when it happens in the basement.

natilinia rouge
07-09-2011, 10:10 AM
You want my blunt opinon. She is a whore. She prolly does the same thing to other guys. She isnt a dancer at all. She is a prostitue. A dancer has class and doesnt do stuff like that. At least i dont and never would. I dont get that personal because I couldnt do that. You are there for us to dance for not screw or blow. If you are a good man and are unciomfortable with it let her know. Its your money if you dont want to pay for that than dont. You want our opinions ur getting mine. Many may not like what I have to say but its the truth. For the girls out there that do extras I think its wrong. Hate what I say but it is. For me its a performance and thats it. I love it for the fact that i can show what i got. I dont think im great or anything but I do have class. That girl dont. So I think you need to rethink that stuff your letting her do because if it got out and ur getting a bj when cops bust it than u get in trouble as well. think twice.

so im guessing you think that escorts are wrong too?? i agree with you on some level that yes it is wrong to fuck in the strip club because that does bring the club down but i disagree with you on it being gross and nasty because that is the same thing escorts do and i see no problem with legal prostitution and escorting nor do i think that is is nasty in any way sometime you just have to watch how you word things you could hurt someones feelings that way especially if a newbie was to come here looking for support and see that. and since when did girls who fuck for money have no class?

Kylea2
07-10-2011, 09:50 PM
I'm not sure that I agree with that. I actually believe that this place is lightening up a little bit, but regardless fwiw I will be one person who will continue to call it out, particularly when it happens in the basement.

More like mutual understanding of motivation & concerns allowing better communication. Dancers understand why some Johns insist on wanting their own hunt to land prey of specific qualities... & Johns better understand why we dancer's feel that the hunt occurring in the clubs put more people at legal risk than just those involved in the hunter/prey categories.

Desu - loving the sarcasm. I'm not sure if that's the first time I've seen that from you, the first time I've picked it up or what. It was amusing though.

rickdugan
07-12-2011, 07:09 AM
Dancers understand why some Johns insist on wanting their own hunt to land prey of specific qualities... & Johns better understand why we dancer's feel that the hunt occurring in the clubs put more people at legal risk than just those involved in the hunter/prey categories.

Kylea, that is exactly what I am talking about. Of course, this is no surprise coming from a dancer who feels the need to call the local police precinct to find out what is acceptable in a LD. ;)

Seriously though, sanctimony may play in some places, but there are a lot of cities where that approach would make it very tough for you to earn. And when that judgmental stuff is harshly spewed in a forum like this, it almost guarantees that you are going to exclude a lot of dancers from participating.

Small wonder that cammers are taking over a lot of this site (nothing at all against cammers), since they can talk openly about what they deal with without the moral hazard brigade jumping down their throats.

JoeUnCool
07-13-2011, 06:14 AM
Seriously though, sanctimony may play in some places, but there are a lot of cities where that approach would make it very tough for you to earn. And when that judgmental stuff is harshly spewed in a forum like this, it almost guarantees that you are going to exclude a lot of dancers from participating.


Agreed. Apologies if it sounds like I am jumping on the hate train myself, as that is not my goal. Seriously, some of the stuff that is spewed in the penthouse really has no place in any reasonable forum. The penthouse police are way too sensitive.

Gary McPenis
07-29-2011, 12:07 AM
That woman isn't a dancer, she's a prostitute....

Six of one....

You say tomato....

You get where i'm going with this

4everresolutions
07-29-2011, 05:10 AM
^No.

Strippers and Prostitutes are not one in the same.

Kelly_Lover
07-29-2011, 05:17 AM
That woman isn't a dancer, she's a prostitute... & generally prostitutes do want the customers to climax. It's sort of their way to know the customer enjoyed it & that he's likely to return.

With that being said, if you don't like it, maybe next time you should try spending time with an entertainer who actually knows how to dance & put on a show.

I agree to some extent. I'll leave it at that, Cause I still call marriage legal prostitution.