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Glamourmilf
03-30-2016, 12:11 PM
Thanks for sharing this. I love it!:thumbsup:
Girly_Girl
03-30-2016, 12:45 PM
Can someone please explain what the girlfriend experience is or what you would offer please?
AlyssaJane
03-30-2016, 12:49 PM
That sounds like a cute idea. What type of movie will you preview?
whatever they want ;)
BigCutieZelda
03-30-2016, 01:38 PM
I'm curious too.
Rispy_Girl
03-30-2016, 03:50 PM
From what I understand you act like their girlfriend lol. You might use a texting app, go on a virtual date (like have dinner at the same time over skype and watch a movie after) OOh you could make the same food and try to match stuff up to make it more realistic.
cutiecam
03-30-2016, 04:13 PM
This is my approach. Treat him as if he were someone you actually cared about! Get to know him, remember details and overall be his online best friend. For the right regulars I will go out of my way to send personalized pictures, create inside jokes and write special messages. Does his love hunting? Send him a picture of you at target practice. Does he always watch the Golden State Warrior games? Send him a picture of you on the couch watching the game. The pictures rarely have to be sexual, and shouldn't require too much time or effort. I send short messages through the week, simply bullshitting asking about his day or telling him about mine. Again, this shouldn't take you too much time. For me, 5 minutes out of my day isn't wasting my time for a regular who I know will see me often. The small things in life do matter! It also enabled the Law of Reciprocity. When you do something nice for someone, they tend to do something nice for you in return. If they don't reciprocate, simply move on.
The trick, is to not lead them on. Don't promise things you wont or cant deliver. If they want to move the girlfriend experience to the next level, be honest. Don't get it twisted, at the end of the day, you are a webcam girl. Be their online best friend and sexual goddess. The good ones will understand and stay, all others will leave after a few expensive sessions. If they leave, try and be nice. They often come back later down the road after their tantrums. =p
When it comes to the virtual girlfriend experience, fucking will not earn you bigger checks. Your mind will. Make is a point to read, and do it often! Bill Gates is well known for taking "reading vacations". All he does, is sit in a comfy chair and read piles of books. Everyone should take after his example. Pick up self help books. Increase your charisma, learn the art of talking, read about human psychology. Buy books on various topics, science/sports/theology/economics and more. If you know your regular loves old cars, read about it! Doing this puts you miles ahead of any camgirl, stripper or escort.
A true girlfriend experience is something you can't fake. Even if you "fake" it, micro expressions can be read by humans in as little as a millisecond. See the good in people and have a great time being the girlfriend experience of his dreams. The customer is your ally, not your adversary. Am I saying trust him with your personal details? No. Keep yourself safe. You can still walk the line between online best friend girlfriend experience extraordinaire and a regular ol' camgirl. You just have to balance this better than a normal "civilian" girl would.
CocoaCaramelBBW
03-30-2016, 05:30 PM
Pick up self help books. Increase your charisma, learn the art of talking, read about human psychology. Buy books on various topics, science/sports/theology/economics and more.
I know this is totally left field, but when you said this, all I could think was The Sims :D
sarabimaraj
03-30-2016, 07:44 PM
I just had a virtual date with one of my customers last weekend. We watched Netflix and had dinner.
xxxluv
03-30-2016, 08:20 PM
Yes, def offer it they will love it. I have two GFE customers right now (they pay monthly) one of things I offer is a a min of 1 date night a week and netflix and chill is a popular choice, we also order in or get the same food (well from the same place) and usually after the movie I talk their head off and they are tired and not to worried about the "chill" and just want a kiss goonight.
cutiecam
03-30-2016, 08:57 PM
I know this is totally left field, but when you said this, all I could think was The Sims :D
lol I love it! Level 10 anyone? :p
Im loving this idea, id have to get more comfortable on the cam but sounds good
missmercedes
06-01-2016, 06:48 PM
I know there's been a thread or two on kik pricing already but tbh there wasn't a whole lot of specific #s mentioned, more questions than answers, so any help here is appreciated! Even looking on ELM at typical kik pricing, it's so widely varied...some girls sell kik for life for $25, others $25 for an hour....I'm discussing pricing with this guy right now so need quick responses if at all possible. I'm afraid of asking too much or too little.
This guy wants to basically get long-term GFE on kik, he wants sporadic texting thru the day and one decent/lengthier convo every day. He does not really care about getting pics or vids. He found me on a diff site but is open to making an account on CMD tonight so i can get a higher percentage (eeee!!!!). I'm pretty much on my phone all day already tbh, so it's not that inconvenient for me, but obviously not gonna come right out n say that to him lol cuz at the same time it is a commitment. He wants to talk late night when im usually in bed w my man relaxing (altho i dont mind very much cuz i stay up suuuper late). Hes wanting me to be super reliable
Would $100/wk be reasonable or is that way too much? What ya'll ladies think? Any of u had a similar arrangement and how much did u charge?
Thanks babies. xoxo
FreakyFranky
06-01-2016, 07:17 PM
A good way to look at this, in my opinion, is how much money do you make on average in an hour camming, etc? Go based off of how much money you would miss out on (which is hard I know) by spending that hour with him having that serious conversation. Just my two cents? I'm horrible at this pricing thing too, I never know what to charge for kik, snapchat, etc. Any other input is appreciated, haha.
missmercedes
06-01-2016, 07:20 PM
Ugggh. So i got antsy waiting for responses and said i felt $70/wk would be fair. I said I feel an hour+ of my time everyday is definitely worth $10, and shit i'm super reliable and not gonna send 1 word texts. He said that's more than double what he imagined and he gets it if i see it as an hourly thing, but he doesnt feel it should be seen as "work"....lol. He said he thinks of it as "Were good friends and i buy u dinner every wk kinda thing." UGH I really want to get more regular sources of income like this, but idk how to respond without being a bitch... So u seek me out to pay me for my time yet i should see it as we're automatically friends and i just talk to u cuz i want to? lol. Uggh...
anoncamgirl
06-01-2016, 07:41 PM
I'm doing a Domme GFE this week and I charged him $300. The guy your dealing with is definitely either
1. hoping to take advantage of you because you are inexperienced/new to camming or kik
2. trying to make you feel bad and keep you around for rock bottom pricing.
Personally, I really value my time. The time spent sitting next to my partner at night is a big deal to me. I don't want to waste it. I'm not going to spend the rest of my life being young and attractive. It's veryvaluavle that I spend my time right now doing things important to me.
This dude is being cheap and wants a lot of your precious time for what...$35? Are you kidding me? That's what I charge for a 10 minute show on Skype. He's not paying you enough and you will regret it. There's other guys out there who are willing to pay what you're worth.
missmercedes
06-01-2016, 07:43 PM
Ok so sorry for this pointless thread ya'll, it can be deleted now cuz i don't think kik is for me. lol dude said he can't afford $100 a MONTH! U think me being available for u every day and night and offering u friendship isn't worth $100/month? Jesus christ. If u want a friend u don't have to pay for quit going on sites where u have to pay girls for their time, or else don't be surprised when u keep getting fucked over and ignored by girls u pay $20/wk to.
missmercedes
06-01-2016, 07:45 PM
I'm doing a Domme GFE this week and I charged him $300. The guy your dealing with is definitely either
1. hoping to take advantage of you because you are inexperienced/new to camming or kik
2. trying to make you feel bad and keep you around for rock bottom pricing.
Personally, I really value my time. The time spent sitting next to my partner at night is a big deal to me. I don't want to waste it. I'm not going to spend the rest of my life being young and attractive. It's veryvaluavle that I spend my time right now doing things important to me.
This dude is being cheap and wants a lot of your precious time for what...$35? Are you kidding me? That's what I charge for a 10 minute show on Skype. He's not paying you enough and you will regret it. There's other guys out there who are willing to pay what you're worth.
No i totally agree! i would be txting him at night when me and my bf have alone time, too i don't think he gets that i'm not gonna get shit out of it and giving up time for it......there's no way i'd do it for $35 a wk lol i think he was just a young broke nerd who doesn't know better or wanted to guilt trip me based on the way he acted.
avalon_rose
06-01-2016, 08:29 PM
Comparing it to taking you out to dinner once a week? $35 vs. $70 is like the difference between Applebee's and the half-decent steakhouse in the good part of town. Pffft. It ain't worth going to Applebee's THAT much. ;)
PrincessfromHell
06-01-2016, 11:16 PM
Overall cheap dudes are more stress than profit. He will pay you 100 a month and then will be all needy and demanding every bloody day. Just trust my guts. It is better to turn some things down. You can use this time for resting more = more energy for a longer shift on cam or film a clip. And you will get this extra cash and way more.
sexysusie
06-27-2016, 10:40 AM
How much do you ladies normally charge for an ongoing GFE or cuckold relationship? I have a guy who wants this. He already spent a lot on me taking me shopping and buying wishlist items, now he wants texts, pics, panties on a monthly basis and i'm wondering if a monthly tribute fixed amount would work out or not :/
SylvySinclair
06-27-2016, 12:10 PM
Hey sus,
i have 2 guys like that and i charge them for pics, panties and text (not 24/7) texts, only during the day, $200 monthly. that includes 10 messages a day, 3 panties a month and 2 pics every day.
GeezLouise
06-28-2016, 07:16 AM
It depends, is he purely into GFE / cuckolding or also into being used?
My experience is that GFE guys, just want vanilla fun and will buy pretty stuff for me to wear and send a picture / video of.
However, with cuckolding they usually like a monthly or session fee, but LOVE it when I get bratty and demand money of a gift all out of the blue on top of their set fee because "I'm going out with a black guy with a massive dick and need a pretty dress" or whatever I come up with.
If he is the last category that you're lucky and you might be able to take massive amounts of money from him.
sexysusie
06-28-2016, 08:32 AM
Yep he's the 2nd type except he's into knowing about me and my (white) fiance. We've come up with an arrangement now which will see him pay a monthly tribute as well as shopping trips and wishlist gifts :D
GeezLouise
06-29-2016, 03:35 AM
Lucky you! All I got lately are my longtime regulars and lots of timewasters on AW pretending to be into findom or anything related to it.
Girly_Girl
10-31-2016, 03:01 PM
Those of you that offer this, can you explain what all you offer please? Also how much do you charge by the week and how much by the month?
I had a guy contact me thru one of my indy sites and he payed for a show but he also wants to know how much I would charge for GFE. He said that another model he had bought from charged $125 a week and asked what I would charge. I think he is wanting video pictures, text messages and so much Skype time.
Marina Starr
10-31-2016, 03:03 PM
That would depend on how needy of a boyfriend he is. I charged married/taken men more.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-31-2016, 03:26 PM
In my experience new guys and I mean new to me, only suggest this if they're trying to take advantage. They see your prices and immediately expect some sort of price cut. Oh so let me entice her with the "promise" of consistent money. Its a way of haggling. I don't like dealing with guys like that. But thats up to you, just know that a guy who suggest this first is usually a lot of work. They suck up your free time negotiating.
Girly_Girl
10-31-2016, 03:33 PM
In my experience new guys and I mean new to me, only suggest this if they're trying to take advantage. They see your prices and immediately expect some sort of price cut. Oh so let me entice her with the "promise" of consistent money. Its a way of haggling. I don't like dealing with guys like that. But thats up to you, just know that a guy who suggest this first is usually a lot of work. They suck up your free time negotiating.
I didn't think about that but you might be right cause he has messaged me all day on skype almost and then he finally paid for a show a couple of hours in advance. We just did our show and now he is still sending me messages on skype talking about how good the show was, asking other sexual questions, etc, etc....omg...lol. I think he may be too needy for me to offer the GFE afterall.
I've thought about offering the GFE before but I DON'T want to do it with someone that is needy or thinks that I've got to give them attention all day and night.
How do you set boundaries on something like this?
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-31-2016, 03:36 PM
I didn't think about that but you might be right cause he has messaged me all day on skype almost and then he finally paid for a show a couple of hours in advance. We just did our show and now he is still sending me messages on skype talking about how good the show was, asking other sexual questions, etc, etc....omg...lol. I think he may be too needy for me to offer the GFE afterall.
I've thought about offering the GFE before but I DON'T want to do it with someone that is needy or thinks that I've got to give them attention all day and night.
How do you set boundaries on something like this?
I mean Im sure he's had that sort of arrangement with someone else in the past. Chances are she got tired of him and now he's off to the next one. I think it can work but its not something that you should offer to each and every customer. And considering that he's the one that suggested it in the first place sends off red flags.
PhatGirlDynomite!!!
10-31-2016, 03:39 PM
You set boundaries by making them pay for the services that you DO offer. If you aren't offering membership type stuff then tell them. If you want to test him let him know that he needs to cross a specific threshold in order to get those perks, and right now he's far from it. GFE takes time its not something that should be rushed.
Girly_Girl
10-31-2016, 03:41 PM
I mean Im sure he's had that sort of arrangement with someone else in the past. Chances are she got tired of him and now he's off to the next one. I think it can work but its not something that you should offer to each and every customer. And considering that he's the one that suggested it in the first place sends off red flags.
Yeah I agree and he says he was doing it with another girl. So I'm thinking you are right that she got tired of him being needy too.
avalon_rose
10-31-2016, 04:55 PM
GFE is my 'specialty'. Pretty much all of my clients are pay-per-minute and pay-per-session clients. In the past I have done a few 'packages' which included texting (with some pictures) - for a designated period of time. Just judging by that sort of thing, $125 - for what he's asking for, texting and Skype and pics, etc. - is way too low, in my opinion. But then again, you are your best judge of your time and what it's worth.
You set boundaries by making them pay for the services that you DO offer. If you aren't offering membership type stuff then tell them. If you want to test him let him know that he needs to cross a specific threshold in order to get those perks, and right now he's far from it. GFE takes time its not something that should be rushed.
Exactly this. You offer service, he pays for service. Boundary set.
Magical_Hoohah
10-31-2016, 05:38 PM
You've probably figured this out already, but that dude will suck up all your time. If you let him pay for a GFE package without firm limits, he'll most likely feel entitled to lightning fast text responses 24/7 and as many pics as he wants. Getting any amount of Skype time on top of that is an absurd request for the amount he's offering. For the amount of work he's probably going to put you through with an all-access package, I'd charge him enough to cover at least 70% of your bills. I know that sounds pretty excessive, but I personally hate neediness and really value my personal time and space, so for me, dealing with that kind of thing ought to pay like a nearly full time job.
Also, as a point of comparison, I charge about $125 for 35 minutes of my time on Skype, which is a pretty reasonable rate. I'm willing to bet that that guy will take up more than 35 minutes of your time in the first two hours after he pays you. And then you still have the rest of the week...
Tell him you don't accept GFE offers, only give them to your most elite playmates. He can use your regularly priced services, and if/when you feel he is qualified, you'll make him an offer.
sexysusie
10-31-2016, 06:07 PM
Totally agree with the above. I learned the hard way from the guy i was talking about earlier in this thread x
Snowy0Star
11-01-2016, 05:03 PM
I didn't think about that but you might be right cause he has messaged me all day on skype almost and then he finally paid for a show a couple of hours in advance. We just did our show and now he is still sending me messages on skype talking about how good the show was, asking other sexual questions, etc, etc....omg...lol. I think he may be too needy for me to offer the GFE afterall.
I've thought about offering the GFE before but I DON'T want to do it with someone that is needy or thinks that I've got to give them attention all day and night.
How do you set boundaries on something like this?
imo if hes asking asking sexual questions thats another red flag hes a cheap ass . he doesnt want GFE he wants a camgirl at his beck and call 24/7 not a girl a next door type buddy theres a difference.
the way i see it GFE camming is the virtual version of sugaring hes basically in a way opting to be ur virtual sugar daddy . think about the kind of guy that desires and can afford a sugar baby.
Brooke
05-16-2021, 01:41 PM
Hello Ladies! My customer was spending heavily and looking for a girlfriend experience. I put a lot of effort into keeping in touch with him when I am not broadcasting, and it was absolutely worth it. WAS. He has not done a private in over a month. I even broke my rule to never ask for a private and straight up asked him this weekend; he said he couldn't. I'm not sure how to remind him this is pay to play *without breaking character*. Advice or your experiences (positive or negative) would be sincerely appreciated.
Cutie101
05-16-2021, 01:55 PM
Stop responding to him. He will get the message.
A month without paying and wanting for your attention is a whole lot of time for free. You are in charge in here and you provide a paid service, you're not his girlfriend and this "friends" shit is what men use as manipulation for making us feeling guilty, for still charging them money, once they get closer. They maybe forget what we are, but we don't forget. I lost a lot of good paying members that way, once they stopped spending, thinking we are friends and shit. Yes, it's painful, it's comfortable to have a good paying regular and not worry, but we move on, find other clients. How did you survive without his $$$ during this time, when he hasn't spent? Obviously, being busy with other clients. Well, keep being busy with them. HE must be the one who chase you and your attention, not the other way around. If he can't spend on you, you don't have time for him either.
He will get bitter and shit, but who cares. There are two outcomes: he either starts spending again, he either leaves, not before telling you what a greedy woman you are and how he thought you're different and better than other sluts on the cam sites and how heartbroken he feels.... BLAH BLAH BLAH :)))))
moneybags
05-16-2021, 08:45 PM
Yeah...I don’t think you can be “nice”. He’s gonna get pissed. I would just say, “you know this is how I pay my bills, so as much as I like spending time/talking/texting with you I need you to pay me for my time.” Either he will pay or move on. All regulars have an expiration date. This is a transactional relationship. Either he can pony up the cash or move on.