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DottieMay
07-15-2011, 07:38 AM
I guess it depends on person to person. I've seen ugly fat chicks and ugly skinny chicks. I'm personally on the small end of BBW and I know I'm pretty lol. But I do have a lot of guys who tell me I'm not fat enough. And guys who will ask me to gain weight for them. I'm not into that. I do exercise and try to eat right, so I wouldn't say that I am unhealthy. So it's a little harder for me because most fat fetishists will tend to over look me. Most of my clients and customers on cam say they like me because I look like a real woman, not particularly men who are into the fat fetish. But me personally I am not attracted to fat guys lol. I don't mind chubby but no guys that are really big. It's weird because I've noticed most of the guys that are into BBW's are really thin and when ever I see a really big guy he is usually with a thin girl. Maybe it's the whole crushing fetish. I dunno. But yea, I don't hate on anyone, but I do know an ugly chick when I see one lol.

Spinnerette
07-15-2011, 07:50 AM
Meh, I've seen some well-kept larger women. Meticulously clean, pretty faces, dressed appropriately for their body shape. They were attractive to me.

But overall (and this may be because I see it everyday) fat isn't cute. It's just not. I saw 3 individuals yesterday walking into a Chinese buffet and they looked like they were STRUGGLING to get across the parking lot. People can ring the bell for fat acceptance all they want and I'll back it because I do think it's a bit unfair how the women who are actually trying to better themselves and get to a healthy weight are attacked and belittled. BUT this attitude of complacency and borderline encouragement is enraging. I'm sick of the thyroid excuse. If people would eat worth a damn instead of trying to live off cheetos and diet coke, they wouldn't have to worry about their body's chemical balances being fucked-up and therefore trying to compensate by packing on pounds.

Eat less, move more. It's that simple. Yes, it really is. Fuck the naysayers. My husband was 50 lbs overweight and since he quit his desk job, he's been doing just that. He currently has 30 lbs left before he's at his ideal. Whodathunk?

Nutrition is another subject.

MrsHollyDDD
07-15-2011, 08:08 AM
I've been on Streamate and in the adult industry for only a few months and I am in the BBW category. I am 5'7 220 lbs and wear a size 16. To be completely honest I do have a disease that effects the way my body metabolizes sugar and that has caused me to not be able to lose weight. I go to the gym everyday, cook at home everyday, do not consume junk food, etc. For some women it is just hard... and I am one of them. I have been struggling for years! However, I am still very well kept. I use cellulite and stretch mark creams, that 100% help. My hair and makeup is always classy and nice. My clothes and lingerie fit appropriately. I shave, wax and groom all the appropriate areas and I do frequent the tanning beds. I am one of the models that is on the borderline of 'curvacious' and 'BBW'. I can comfortably fit on every ride at Disneyland! I am considered one of the girls 'with a lil meat on her bones'... not 200 lbs of extra meat!
However, I have seen a lot of the 'SSBBW' models and it really does drive me crazy. In that instance I do think that is toooooo overweight! I have seen some sites that require the models to be over 300 lbs. I get it- it is a fetish. That is why there are no mainsteam websites, expos, award shows etc that are dedicated to that catagory of the adult industry. These women think that being SSBBW makes it okay for their health to go to shit!
I have been trying to break into the print and film in the adult industry and it has been really hard for me because I see myself next to 300 lb. women and it drives me crazy- I DO NOT want to be in the same category as them! It is 100% a health concern! SSBBW is the same un-health fetish as the weird animal sex people and scatters!

I am just very confused right now because I will actually be having gastric bypass in two months because it is the ONLY way to correct my disease so my body will no longer metabolize sugar incorrectly. It was recommended to me by my endocrinologist, physician and gynecologist (my disease is related to my reproductive organs). I CANNOT WAIT to be out of the BBW category!

I already have a good following of fans through my webcam and the promotional events I have been doing. So, I just do not know what will happen after I lose the 60 lbs. that will come off after surgery.

In conclusion, I do not mean to offend anyone in the BBW community or seem like I am making excuses for myself. I believe in being health, exercising, eating correctly and having high self esteem. I do not think that the SSBBW community is a healthy fetish- at all. I believe that in most situations, these women found this niche and are using it as a crutch for self-esteem.

BBW is just an excuse. If you are morbidly obese, you need to correct it- not justify it because someone making money off you said that you were so sexy with your curves.

jack0177057
07-15-2011, 08:12 AM
I don't think obesity is sexy, but nor do I think anorexic women are sexy.

Having said that, if your complaint is health care costs - are you just attacking obese women for this, are will you raise this issue with athletes (who expose themselves to risks of sports injuries) and other people with high-health-risk lifestyles.

xGigi
07-15-2011, 08:19 AM
I'm a twig basically (5'6 98 lbs) I'm one of the tiniest girls at my club and guys are ALWAYS going on and on to me about how I have such a great body and they don't like "thick" girls. I always get tipped more on stage than bigger girls. idk about dances because I have no idea how many dances everyone gets, but if it's me and a BBW on stage I always get tipped more. I worked at a club with a 200lb girl and when we were stage partners guys would always be like "what's SHE doing here?"

whenever I'm the thinnest girl on stage, I always get the most tips. not trying to sound vain here, but it's a consistent observation. I would say most men prefer my body type.

Mr Hyde
07-15-2011, 09:30 AM
That's great, what does that have to do with comparing an obese person to human shit?

And if you truly feel this strongly then shouldn't you be less 'sensitive' and say all the above to an obese person directly?

I never compared a person to human shit. What are you talking about with that?

I don't feel THAT strongly, to be honest...but "fat acceptance" is bad for our society.

AngelKing
07-15-2011, 09:43 AM
There was a comment posted where someone compared being into obese people with being into having someone shit on them.

I have no problem with people's tastes either for or against anything, but part of my personality is just that when people start saying unnecessarily mean or judgmental things about people with any kind of physical or mental issues I always stand up and say something to try and bring balance to the situation. I've been in more fights than I can remember standing up for people around me, and not always just verbal ones.

I just don't think that being behind the safety of the internet is any reason to forget your manners when talking about others.

Kellydancer
07-15-2011, 11:11 AM
First off, I wasn't trolling a BBW board, I was trolling a dating board. There were a few women who posted about being proud to be a BBW. It was an open message and I stated my views, stating I don't like to pay for something like this.

As for me having had HPV I got that from a monogamous relationship. 80% of all women will be diagnosed with it in their life. It has been cleared and my doctor told me it's gone. I'm not even sure where this idea that I slept around came from. Sure, I was more open about sleeping with people but sleeping around? Nope, I was still careful who I slept with. The yeast infection I had was in fact not a yeast infection it was from psoriasis, so nice try to turn it into my supposed poor hygiene (which in fact I do not).

Kellydancer
07-15-2011, 11:12 AM
I don't think obesity is sexy, but nor do I think anorexic women are sexy.

Having said that, if your complaint is health care costs - are you just attacking obese women for this, are will you raise this issue with athletes (who expose themselves to risks of sports injuries) and other people with high-health-risk lifestyles.

I get where you are going, but how many people are athletes compares to obese? The amount of athletes is small.

innes
07-15-2011, 11:18 AM
Someone called me a BBW once and I was like whaaatt? I'm a size large / size 12 or 14 (depending on the fit). Yeah I get it, it's "large" or curvy or whatever but I am no where near a BBW. I weigh like 150 ... not 300!!!! Anyway, it kinda made me laugh.

I definitely think curvy girls can be sexy. I don't find BBWs attractive at all but I know that some people do. That girl who you posted ... the one that's size 12 ... she is gorgeous! See that is average and curvy. My build is like hers except I'm a lot shorter lol.

Some people have told me to put on more weight (presumably so I could become a BBW) ahhhhh no way aha sooo not happening :s

BringOnTheMen
07-15-2011, 11:58 AM
If a big group of BBWs...
Can you even have a small or regular size group of BBWs? Oh, the metaphysics of fat people...

And yeah, most strains of HPV are harmless, and the majority of sexually active adults will get it. A lot of the time it will go away by itself and they don't even know they had it. You've probably had it. It's no big deal. It's like a grey pubic hair.

And yes, it's totally ok for someone to openly and vocally disapprove of a trend that not only is unhealthy for individuals and hurtful for our society, but glorifies it.

MarvelGirl
07-15-2011, 12:03 PM
Can you even have a small or regular size group of BBWs? Oh, the metaphysics of fat people...

And yeah, most strains of HPV are harmless, and the majority of sexually active adults will get it. A lot of the time it will go away by itself and they don't even know they had it. You've probably had it. It's no big deal. It's like a grey pubic hair.

And yes, it's totally ok for someone to openly and vocally disapprove of a trend that not only is unhealthy for individuals and hurtful for our society, but glorifies it.

You can't understand what a slippery slope it would be for an insurance company to cut off paying clients because "they did it themselves"?

Seriously? A sex worker can't understand this?

Say goodbye to your insurance if that ever happens. Because a bunch of other people don't want to pay for whores to get medical treatment. Sad but true.

UV69
07-15-2011, 12:30 PM
I'm highly against promoting obesity as anything but the ED or true medical problem it is.

Back in the day we didn't want lil girls starving & vomiting to be unnaturally & unhealthy thin--now BBW has it happening the other way around. 300lb women are being told they are not fat enough by some1 who wants to watch them eat their way into a heart attack. Hello how is that any better.

Sorry it is a weight problem that has negative effects on a person's body, mobility, & health.

I don't find obesity attractive or anything that should be promoted. It's a real issue that a person should dealt with thur diet, exercise, & the use of medical advances.

BringOnTheMen
07-15-2011, 12:41 PM
You can't understand what a slippery slope it would be for an insurance company to cut off paying clients because "they did it themselves"?

Seriously? A sex worker can't understand this?

Say goodbye to your insurance if that ever happens. Because a bunch of other people don't want to pay for whores to get medical treatment. Sad but true.

I wasn't talking about insurance companies, I was talking about the difference between catching HPV and promoting excessive eating habits.

And no, I don't accept slippery slope arguments to be valid. http://www.unc.edu/depts/wcweb/handouts/fallacies.html#8