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AngelNWings88
10-30-2011, 02:42 PM
That sucks you dealt with that problem. I've never really had problems luckily. I've dated outside my race a lot.

I have dealt with other people have problems specifically guys who get jealous. I dated a black guy in high school for about 2 years and it pissed off other guys seeing a white girl with a black guy.

One of these days were all going to be mixed anyway it's just a evolving change that will take a few more years to get used to.

mediocrity
10-30-2011, 03:57 PM
I've dated quite a few different races. I love hispanic men, middle eastern men, I LOVE Moroccan men, Jewish guys (my husband is half ethnic Jewish), white guys, and all mixed up in between. I'm pretty much as white as it gets. I've never been attracted to black men or indian men though.

tempest666
11-04-2011, 11:50 AM
This isn't exactly dating but this customer of mine is the whitest little Puerto Rican metalhead and he is so fucking cute. I told him "you're the first nonwhite guy I have had a crush on" :)

ShellyConnors
11-06-2011, 08:37 PM
I want to change my answer. I've only dated black men or black mixed with something else. But one thing I'm noticing is that I don't think race has anything to do with it. I like foreign born/raised/influenced men. The guys (and girls) I've dated who were born/raised in different countries I've clicked with so much better than American born people. They have been leaps and bounds more respectful, goal oriented, have had more values and they've all been multilingual (umm can you say hawt)...

For that matter I'm not attracted to American white men either, but bring on the Dutch boys! So yeah, I can't say I'd be more inclined to date out of my race, but nationality. I can go the rest of my life without dating an American black man ever again. Seriously.

Kisca
11-08-2011, 08:43 PM
I mostly dated guys who were a similar background as me. My parents are the old fashioned european type and jugde everything. With the "right" background of their approval they'd be throwing out money like trash, but with the wrong one they'll disown me as soon as they would found out.

I learned that I get along with men who are similar to my background and who moved to this country since we seem to share the same values, tradations, and family background. I've been with a guy who was born here, who my parents liked but his views on supporting me, helping me out when I really needed (such as looking for a job) werent even in his book as thats my own "thing". The guy whom I with now who moved here we share similar values, he helps me cook, helps me through little to bigger things without me asking. Mainly, I like a man being a man and to help me and support me, thats what a european guy is for, not the men born here that ive met.

missjzone
11-09-2011, 05:04 PM
I"m a tall blonde and usually only attracted to other whites. Part of it is physical, I dont find black men attractive and the 1 time I hooked up with a black guy in hs, he had the littlest penis and he had trouble getting it up.. I know he doesnt represent everyone but, I just find I get turned on by caucasians. Especially southern Europeans. Greeks etc..

I have this thing for well dressed, intelligent men who are manly and handle thier shiit behind closed doors..

Like Sakis Rouva..mmmm..}:D

Vyanka
11-11-2011, 05:07 PM
I"m a tall blonde and usually only attracted to other whites. Part of it is physical, I dont find black men attractive and the 1 time I hooked up with a black guy in hs, he had the littlest penis and he had trouble getting it up.. I know he doesnt represent everyone but, I just find I get turned on by caucasians. Especially southern Europeans. Greeks etc..

I have this thing for well dressed, intelligent men who are manly and handle thier shiit behind closed doors..

Like Sakis Rouva..mmmm..}:D


He's a hottie. I love that look too.

22lligm
11-16-2011, 11:29 AM
I don't know what it is but I'm SO attracted to milk chocolate guys!! I think that's why I think my bf is so cute because he looks like he's half black (he's portuguese). I told him he needs to get a tan cause when he's in the sun alot he gets super dark ;)

btw i'm white

glitzy
11-24-2011, 01:20 PM
I'm half Irish, 25% German, 25% Cherokee. Blonde hair, green eyes.
Have never been attracted to other blonde guys or standard white guys.

I am really into exotic looks. One ex was Basque (gorgeous bone structure, pillowy lips, olive skin), the other was half Indonesian and half Irish (cheekbones like whoa, dark hair, pale skin, freckles). My current boyfriend is from Tanzania, Africa but has North Indian (Gujarati) heritage with super dark skin, very tall... His parents are Muslim but he is not and I am very lucky that his parents are open-minded and just want him to be happy. Maybe it helps that he's only dated white girls. :p We joke around that he has a free pass to have sex with an Indian girl because he's in his mid thirties and never even kissed someone of his own race.

CurvySweet
01-10-2012, 03:01 PM
I've only dated white guys. I lived in a place where it was mostly white at the time. At school I was the only black girl. Is that why i'm attracted to white guys, who knows. While at college I got picked on by Africans something awful because I sounded and acted 'white' to them. And when they found out I had a white bf I got some awful comment from African men yet would not mind having a white gf! Talk about double standards.

I love how black men call me a fat black sell out.

Optimist
01-10-2012, 10:51 PM
^^^Holy shit that's horrible. I'm sorry to hear you went through that harassment.

lokikola
01-10-2012, 10:59 PM
I'm Mexican, don't date hispanics. My rule as far as dating: Once you go white, you know you're right!

missplayful
01-10-2012, 11:20 PM
100% Turkish and Muslim HERE. I dated with Swiss guy,Greek guy and Lithuanian.i have datED with Americans i married with one German-American and Divorced. Now my boyfriend is Irish-American again.They were all White of course.I had a lot of problems with my Ex husband's family. Not only radical Muslim comunity some Christians are also pretty strict about premarital sex and some other stuff...My country is pretty modern and free country. I lost my virginity when i was 17 i did whatever i wantED i worn whatever i wished i had great life no difference than USA. But my ex husband's family would not like me to wear tANK tops and skirts, HIS mother never worn a pants always long long skirt, she kinda try to convert me, she never worn a make up no fragrance never get a hair cut SHE BELIEVED those are evil . His family did not own a tv cause they believed somehow tv was a bad evil thing.Sports was Evil everything was pretty much Evil.She was unrealistic person whenever i had problem she would tell me talk to Jesus... nothing else but talk to Jesus..I believe Jesus but i do not believe to talk to Jesus for every single problem i have and i will.. I better wanna do some action instead of try to talk Jesus ad wait wait wait... My ex had a lil bro he was 14 but their mom did not let watch some certain movies always block tons of stuffs she doesnt like on computer and did not let boy the play fighting killing games etc.... She was so strict and sorry but made me crazy.I did not even be treated that way at my hometown it was too much. I did not have a chance to meet with them before i married but narrow minded people are everywhere. And pretty annoying.

I wont date with any kinda crazy religious person no matter what. Doesnt matter Christian or Muslim or JEWISH... done for me.

Also wont date black guys cause their mind games are too much me... Firstly it takes time for me understand their game secondly i have no time for games. Do not like it.Hispanic guys behave like black guys somehow too i dont get it why? Arabs... no we arent even close lol do not like it. I love white guys and i would date with Asian man they are adorable only every if Asians could have big or at least decent size penis.

tempest666
01-10-2012, 11:28 PM
I'm Mexican, don't date hispanics. My rule as far as dating: Once you go white, you know you're right!

LOL same here even though i'm half white!!!!

chanzep
01-15-2012, 12:11 AM
I am mixed black,white and latino. I have only dated black and latino men, I would date a white man but only a Paul Walker lookalike!

SabrinaStar
04-06-2012, 03:51 PM
I'm white and I've been with a lot of different races....black, hispanic, asian..mixed u name it.

strippername
04-08-2012, 01:13 PM
Why isn't "no" an option on this poll? I don't and won't.

kortneykay
04-11-2012, 04:30 PM
DH is white, I'm black mixed with Native American and Irish. I love me some white bois :)

CupCake
04-12-2012, 03:26 PM
I'm a mullato sooo..I guess I'm always dating outside of my race lol:) I personally prefer whites/hispanics. I would NEVER date a black guy, and asians seem to stick to their own where I live so I haven't had much luck with the asians lol. Anyway I see nothing wrong with dating outside of your race, or within it. It's a prefernce:O) To the OP I hope his parents back off, they should just be happy their son is happy. Don't be upset if the parents don't let up.

BTW I'm dating a nerdy white guy (mmhmm just the way I like em!):)

sammii
04-27-2012, 03:55 AM
My SO asked me about the top 5 celebrities I'd bang. 4 were white and I mentioned 1 black guy ... Tyson Beckford. I dare someone to debate me.

JaidaMarie
05-01-2012, 07:33 PM
I have dated diffrent races. I am black...but I seem to drift toward hispanic men. My daughters father is Mexican. I think im so open bc my family is. My stepmom is italian and indian she was raised in a predominantly white town. Which is why I find it weird I can bring any race home other than white. in the end it is my choice but I guess parents kind of stick with how it was like when they were raised and if they steer clear of other races then all they jave to go off of is stereotypes which not always works out in your favor.

I would just be myself and show that I am there for my so and that my race will not change that.

LibraSnake
05-03-2012, 09:18 PM
I'm white. And I've only dated Asians (East Asians - Korean, Chinese, etc). For some reason, I attract them like mad, and I'm attracted to them as well.

The chopstick cock rumor is false, let me assure you that. ;)

However, I had a bad experience dating a Korean guy - and that goes with their reputation as possessive, borderline abusive types. They're not all like that, but that instance fell in line with the stereotype.

For some reason, black and hispanic guys have no interest in me.

missjzone
05-09-2012, 11:05 AM
My SO asked me about the top 5 celebrities I'd bang. 4 were white and I mentioned 1 black guy ... Tyson Beckford. I dare someone to debate me.

ok.. ill take you up on it.. does nada for me.. however if we're debating, you need to buy the wine.:) }:D

crystalize
05-09-2012, 07:46 PM
LOL same here even though i'm half white!!!!

LOL if I made that rule, I'd never find a guy considering there are barely any white guys down here. Hispanic all the way for me, at least for now.