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kitinboots
08-13-2011, 02:41 AM
Blonde. Always.
_Elle_
08-13-2011, 08:36 AM
In my experience.... have been doing it for at least six years. Usually at least 26.
rareaspasia
08-13-2011, 08:51 AM
I've noticed they don't sweat the small stuff. This shows itself in different ways, like in not wearing a lot of makeup (if any at all) or wearing the same outfits over and over again. They always look acceptable but they could care less about being perfect looking because they know it's all about the hustle and that most guys aren't going to notice the little things. We only have twenty dollar dances, no champagne rooms or VIPs, so our top girls are like machines that never stop moving and pushing for dances. A lot of the ones where I work also either have or have had serious painkiller problems. I'm assuming that they get to be awesome hustlers because if they don't get they money to get their shit they'll be really sick.
kitinboots
08-13-2011, 11:46 AM
Actually, and this isn't everywhere, but some of the top earners I've met, who have really dedicated regulars just have this certain charisma that makes them approachable. I don't think its something you can learn, there's just something about them that puts you at ease, whether you're a guy or a girl. Maybe its just that they're truly comfortable in who they are that they don't feel threatened by other girls or under pressure around guys with big personalities. They're the girls you can't even be envious of, you can only aspire to be like them.
amorescudero
08-13-2011, 12:18 PM
There's one girl who works every friday day shift and Saturday day shift. She always wears lingerie (garters and stockings), and wears red lipstick. She never ever hangs out in the dressing room, she's always on the floor acting cheerful, smiling alot, and talking to guys. She never does pole tricks. She's not stunningly gorgeous or anything either....but she's the top earner. I seriously think its the lingerie that works
xGigi
08-13-2011, 02:32 PM
aren't afraid of rejection at ALL. when she approaches a customer she's not worried that he's not ready for a dance or doesn't have the money. she assumes that everyone wants her around.
xGigi
08-13-2011, 02:38 PM
also they RARELY bitch and complain about customers in the dressing room. they rarely bitch about anything. one of the top earners at my club acts like she's just chilling at home when she's in the dressing room and talks about weekend plans or different things. she seems relaxed and not angry, moody, or negative
melb_oz_n00b
08-13-2011, 11:34 PM
Girls who think they are truly worth ridiculous amounts of money. I've been dancing 6 months, so I'm still very humbled if a single person wants to drop hundreds on me in one sitting. However I've noticed two top earners at two different clubs had a "Is that all?" attitude even towards large amounts. Once I was booking a V.I.P. room at the same time as one of the top earners, and he booked her for a long time. Later in the dressing room I congratulated her on getting him to pay that much for her. She just said, "He was rich, I should've got a lot more out of him."
The top earner at my current club is a tiny, perfect Thai girl who basically just leans against their crotch for entire dances. (This isn't allowed - most girls only do light grinding if anything.) To her credit, she also puts her head down and works tirelessly 5 nights a week and has a string of regulars on dead weeknights when the rest of us are sitting around doing nothing. I NEVER see her bitching in the DR.
This is a very useful thread, btw! Thanks for posting.
rebecca1974
08-14-2011, 05:51 AM
^^depends, some wear a lot of eyeshadow, some a little, but most dont wear heavy black eyeliner. I felt more comfortable in heavy eyeliner but found myself in a rut and went light on eye makeup and made more money!
Btw, I always wear fake eyelashes, sometimes two on the top, and sometimes bottom lashes. That helps me a LOT more than heavy makeup.
interesting, I have noticed the eyliner part,also.Does anyone have a clue why that is?:O
xGigi
08-14-2011, 06:15 AM
interesting, I have noticed the eyliner part,also.Does anyone have a clue why that is?:O
it's about enhancing your features. if you wear heavy heavy eyeliner you actually make your eyes look smaller, not bigger. if you just put a touch on the outer corners of your eyes and a light line on your TOP eyelid your eyes will look enormous. men are subconsciously attracted to big eyes because it's a sign of fertility.
luscious sadie
08-15-2011, 10:08 AM
Girls who think they are truly worth ridiculous amounts of money. I've been dancing 6 months, so I'm still very humbled if a single person wants to drop hundreds on me in one sitting. However I've noticed two top earners at two different clubs had a "Is that all?" attitude even towards large amounts. Once I was booking a V.I.P. room at the same time as one of the top earners, and he booked her for a long time. Later in the dressing room I congratulated her on getting him to pay that much for her. She just said, "He was rich, I should've got a lot more out of him."
this is me, exactly, but should be all of us. We should all strongly believe that we are worth ridiculous amounts of money and that whatever we are given is just not enough.
cairalis
08-15-2011, 01:25 PM
I love this thread!
I just have to tell a little story:
I used to live with a top top TOP earner in Japan. She used to make between 20 000 - 40 000 USD a month. Maybe more.
She was definitely not the prettiest girl in the club and she was not the best dancer. She didnt really put in much effort anywhere. Would wear her thin hair in a ponytail. Her body was not a head-turner either. AND she was also kind of prude...I remember being chocked from how prude she was!!! She wasnt sexual or sensual...just demanding and very very focused on MONEY.
BUT she had regular costumers coming in EVERY day that she worked, some of them she had have for YEARS! but they didnt just "happen" to come in, she told them to come and she CHOSE the time and the day for them to come, I mean that she wouldnt even let them come whenever they wanted, she just told one to come Monday and one Tues etc. Then she would basically sit and talk to the guy for the whole night, sometimes she did dances but not necessarily, she had them pay for dances that she didnt do, and paying for champagne etc. And plenty of tips and gifts for her. IF she did dances she barely touched the guy. She definitely didnt do anything even close to extras...she rather did MINIMUM. If she felt it was enough or if she had another costumer coming she would just tell the guy to go home. Everything was on her terms.
She inivited me to sit with her and her costumers a couple of times and what I noticed the most was that her costumers were terribly dull and insipid, some even seemed retarded. Some were Japanese, some were Americans or Europeans. She definitely had an eye for spotting men with money that also were "a little behind" and she had no problem telling them what to do. I mean she REALLY used them. She was HEARTLESS. Obviously she also had a lot of patience with them...I dont think her ways is for everyone (not for me at least) but it def worked for her!!!
tempest666
08-15-2011, 05:08 PM
Blonde. Always.
Again bleached blonde hair is like Kevlar.....combine it with fake tits and your chances of survival increase exponentially.
crystalize
08-16-2011, 12:59 AM
Again bleached blonde hair is like Kevlar.....combine it with fake tits and your chances of survival increase exponentially.
NOT in Miami unfortunately... that's exactly my look and people don't really appreciate that here... probably cause there's barely any white people here and that seems to me their favorite type
tempest666
08-16-2011, 02:34 AM
NOT in Miami unfortunately... that's exactly my look and people don't really appreciate that here... probably cause there's barely any white people here and that seems to me their favorite type
Trade places with ya dude. In El Paso and Albuquerque they would be up on your shit like white on rye. Ask Kylea and Athena. Maybe I should check out Miami, heh. I'm short, big ass, tatted, pierced soon to have fake titties. But ironically white guys are my best demographic. I don't do well with Latinos.
xGigi
08-16-2011, 06:27 AM
Again bleached blonde hair is like Kevlar.....combine it with fake tits and your chances of survival increase exponentially.
not all the top earners at my club are blonde but ALL of them have LONG LONG LONG hair or extensions
xGigi
08-16-2011, 07:47 AM
I love this thread!
I just have to tell a little story:
I used to live with a top top TOP earner in Japan. She used to make between 20 000 - 40 000 USD a month. Maybe more.
She was definitely not the prettiest girl in the club and she was not the best dancer. She didnt really put in much effort anywhere. Would wear her thin hair in a ponytail. Her body was not a head-turner either. AND she was also kind of prude...I remember being chocked from how prude she was!!! She wasnt sexual or sensual...just demanding and very very focused on MONEY.
BUT she had regular costumers coming in EVERY day that she worked, some of them she had have for YEARS! but they didnt just "happen" to come in, she told them to come and she CHOSE the time and the day for them to come, I mean that she wouldnt even let them come whenever they wanted, she just told one to come Monday and one Tues etc. Then she would basically sit and talk to the guy for the whole night, sometimes she did dances but not necessarily, she had them pay for dances that she didnt do, and paying for champagne etc. And plenty of tips and gifts for her. IF she did dances she barely touched the guy. She definitely didnt do anything even close to extras...she rather did MINIMUM. If she felt it was enough or if she had another costumer coming she would just tell the guy to go home. Everything was on her terms.
She inivited me to sit with her and her costumers a couple of times and what I noticed the most was that her costumers were terribly dull and insipid, some even seemed retarded. Some were Japanese, some were Americans or Europeans. She definitely had an eye for spotting men with money that also were "a little behind" and she had no problem telling them what to do. I mean she REALLY used them. She was HEARTLESS. Obviously she also had a lot of patience with them...I dont think her ways is for everyone (not for me at least) but it def worked for her!!!
I know some girls like this! I WISH I could have that type of personality, but I just can't do it.
this story actually reminds me of a specific dancer who had a gut, huge thighs, a flat ass, no boobs, and made a KILLING because she had this "me me me" attitude.
if a customer didn't want a dance from her she'd demand a tip and if he asked why she'd have this attitude like "what do you MEAN you're not even gonna TIP me? are you fucking serious???"
she had a guy who would come in once a month and cut her a check for her rent because she told him to. she got guys to deliver drugs to the club for her for free.
she NEVER did extras either. she hops around clubs a lot and when she first showed up and was banking like crazy the managers had bouncers watch her like a hawk and she wouldn't even do so much as touch a guy's cock over the pants.
Money_Worshipper
08-16-2011, 08:34 AM
According to the book "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene, the me me me attitude is called a Natural.
Psychologically, people naturally are attracted to these "Natural" people because they possess a childlike quality which makes everybody forgives them and spoil them. It's all about attitude. If you believe you deserve something no matter what, you get it.
People are attracted to "Natural" people because it reminds them of their lost childhood where they demand something, they get it. As they grow up, society and parents tried to teach them that being selfish is not nice and it's better to be please other people so they lose the attitude.
However there are some people who keep the attitude which make normal people envious of this childlike quality.
"The Art of Seduction" is the best book ever!!!! It talks about Marilyn Monroe, Cleopatra etc... secrets on how to seduce men.
xGigi
08-16-2011, 08:53 AM
According to the book "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene, the me me me attitude is called a Natural.
Psychologically, people naturally are attracted to these "Natural" people because they possess a childlike quality which makes everybody forgives them and spoil them. It's all about attitude. If you believe you deserve something no matter what, you get it.
People are attracted to "Natural" people because it reminds them of their lost childhood where they demand something, they get it. As they grow up, society and parents tried to teach them that being selfish is not nice and it's better to be please other people so they lose the attitude.
However there are some people who keep the attitude which make normal people envious of this childlike quality.
"The Art of Seduction" is the best book ever!!!! It talks about Marilyn Monroe, Cleopatra etc... secrets on how to seduce men.
DEFINITELY something to bear in mind and I'll check that book out for sure!!
cairalis
08-17-2011, 02:37 AM
I have also noticed that top earners usually are in a relationship! Or even married.
xGigi
08-17-2011, 09:54 AM
I have also noticed that top earners usually are in a relationship! Or even married.
I think that's most girls in general at the club though. I'd say 90% of the dancers I've met are in a relationship
crystalize
08-18-2011, 07:33 AM
Trade places with ya dude. In El Paso and Albuquerque they would be up on your shit like white on rye. Ask Kylea and Athena. Maybe I should check out Miami, heh. I'm short, big ass, tatted, pierced soon to have fake titties. But ironically white guys are my best demographic. I don't do well with Latinos.
yea girl your type would work better here.. i wish i could travel cause it seems they love my type everywhere else... here it's big asses and tattoos it seems
tempest666
08-18-2011, 07:40 AM
There's one girl who works every friday day shift and Saturday day shift. She always wears lingerie (garters and stockings), and wears red lipstick. She never ever hangs out in the dressing room, she's always on the floor acting cheerful, smiling alot, and talking to guys. She never does pole tricks. She's not stunningly gorgeous or anything either....but she's the top earner. I seriously think its the lingerie that works
she wouldn't happen to be named after the title of a book by Vladimir Nabokov would she? }:D
amorescudero
08-18-2011, 07:46 AM
she wouldn't happen to be named after the title of a book by Vladimir Nabokov would she? }:D
mmmhmmmm......i want to know her damn secret! Ive seen her sales totals for the end of the month...and hot damn.
Even some of the hotter girls wont work her shifts bc they say they make no money bc of her.
xGigi
08-18-2011, 08:04 AM
mmmhmmmm......i want to know her damn secret! Ive seen her sales totals for the end of the month...and hot damn.
Even some of the hotter girls wont work her shifts bc they say they make no money bc of her.
that is SERIOUS hustler status
tempest666
08-18-2011, 08:09 AM
that is SERIOUS hustler status
She's cute, requisite pair of fakies, nice midsection. She had reddish hair last time I saw her. Talking to her made me decide to go with my aureola incision.
pollywogg
08-18-2011, 08:28 AM
there is one girl that I worked with who was undeniably the most consistent top earner I've ever worked with... she was a slow dancer, not very creative... the kind of dancer that just sort of poses a lot on stage and did not really do much for table dances either... one day i watched her give a dance and she did not touch the guy... she was dancing with her back to him and he touched her ... near or on her buns (not sure) and she literally stopped what she was doing and turned her head around and glared at him ... she was always very conservative on the floor and she was always in the VIP where she would do the contact lapdance, and was conservative comparatively in the VIP too ... I think a lot of her success was due to the fact that she EXPECTED to be respected and paid and to end up in the VIP ... I'm sure she hit everyone up for the VIP ... she was not extraordinarily beautiful, but certainly pretty and she had small breasts, but no cellulite whatsoever, not even one dimple ... she was never sitting around the dressing room gossiping/complaining etc. ... did not drink (that I noticed) ... she worked every day, literally, from about 3pm to 2pm
I love my areola incision!
MissTyler
08-26-2011, 08:53 PM
Again bleached blonde hair is like Kevlar.....combine it with fake tits and your chances of survival increase exponentially.
Fucking hilarious!
Laurisa
08-27-2011, 01:08 AM
I've noticed that top earners can be very charming, but also very conniving.
femmefatale88
08-27-2011, 01:37 AM
have big butts, big boobs or both, or very long legs. (physically speaking)
kitinboots
08-27-2011, 04:53 AM
The girls I see doing the most table or private dances are usually blonde and have big tits. The girls I see drinking the most expensivechampagne and spending the most time in VIP are not.
Dasza
08-27-2011, 06:33 AM
top earners in my club are usually Russian. they just dont stop. they will chat every single person. they usually trying to find a client who is on his own for at leas a moment then some how after few minutes guys taking lots of dances with them(starts with one athe the beginning).
DominoDiva
08-29-2011, 09:13 PM
ive had many personalities while working, so ill go through what has and has not worked for me.
The newbie
* eagerness
*extremely friendly
*patient
*non-desperate
*spoke to every single guy, no matter what.
*always wore lingerie, stockings and matching shoes (most dancers wore bikinis when i was new)
*always had over the top glam eye make-up
This one worked out well for me between 250 and 400 pound a night while in this stage. (unless it was a rediculus dead night)
The "cant be arsed"
*sat on my arse most the night
*was very ratty with guys
*would walk away cussing a guy at the slightest thing he said wrong.
*complained alot about making no money (obviously coz im sat on my arse lol)
*Stopped caring about my make-up as much
This really was a low point in my earnings.
The "wreck head/Piss head"
*Got drunk almost an hour into a shift
*couldnt focus or think
*sat down alot
*was very depressed which came across
*cried for a good 2 hours a night in the toilets.
*didnt make effort in my appearence, hair, makeup, outfits.
I made virtually nothing in this state, i actually took time out to get my head stright.
The Level headed strong stripper
*hair, makeup and clothes where thought out and done classy.
*Eager to speak to every guy i can.
*I tend not to spend too much time with the same group/guy if i havnt had a dance off them yet.
*My personal problems dont follow me to the club no more.
*I help out fellow dancers in getting dances.
*I no longer feel guilty about taking a guys last bit of money (he's a grown man)
*I dont talk to guys with attitude problems long, but i still ask if thier interested in any dances.
*Ask the guy if he would like to go VIP after he has a standard lapdance.
*Always ask if he would like more dances.
*Always suggest he can go to the cash machine if he has no money and escort him to it.
This one is the one ive adopted latly and its pulling in around the top 40% earners of the club, and has made me top earner a few times, which im proud of.
what ive ALWAYS done.
*been polite to staff and other dancers.
*been ontime.
*never cancelled a shift at last min.
*Always turned up for shifts ive booked myself in for unless something bad has kept me from turning in ie. gran parents death, etc
What ive noticed form top earners over time, (3yrs)
*They are not always the attractive ones in the club, nor are they always hygenic.
*They are not always the "extra" girls.
*Alot do the dirty sexy talk (which i cant do, makes me cringe lol)
*Alot have the "ill give u a blowy" look, even when they dont do it or say they will.
*Alot will work with another girl to push for "lesbian" dances.
*Majority wont waste time on a guy with little or no money.
*They all graft, very hard workers and wont stop even when the clubs quiet.
Ive known the most stunning girls to make the most, and ive known the most dreadful looking ones to earn the most, and vise verser.
One thing i have noticed is that they all have a confident presence.
SweetNSour
09-01-2011, 06:15 PM
I am new to dancing, but I have done a great job of paying attention and selling so far. From what I have seen in about 6 months at my club...
Top earners are usually pretty quiet and dress classy. I agree with the girl who said they don't wear much eyeliner! However, I can think of one who does. One thing they all seem to share in common... is they DON'T talk to other dancers - they are friendly - but they WORK. You wont be having many conversations with them. I think there is so much good advice on these forums, but you really have to BELIEVE what you are saying and EXECUTE the advice well... otherwise it's worthless!
tempest666
09-01-2011, 09:01 PM
have big fake tits jajajajajajajajajajajajajajaja
TigerToes
09-02-2011, 12:47 PM
there is one girl that I worked with who was undeniably the most consistent top earner I've ever worked with... she was a slow dancer, not very creative... the kind of dancer that just sort of poses a lot on stage and did not really do much for table dances either... one day i watched her give a dance and she did not touch the guy... she was dancing with her back to him and he touched her ... near or on her buns (not sure) and she literally stopped what she was doing and turned her head around and glared at him ... she was always very conservative on the floor and she was always in the VIP where she would do the contact lapdance, and was conservative comparatively in the VIP too ... I think a lot of her success was due to the fact that she EXPECTED to be respected and paid and to end up in the VIP ... I'm sure she hit everyone up for the VIP ... she was not extraordinarily beautiful, but certainly pretty and she had small breasts, but no cellulite whatsoever, not even one dimple ... she was never sitting around the dressing room gossiping/complaining etc. ... did not drink (that I noticed) ... she worked every day, literally, from about 3pm to 2pm
that's one long shift!
_Avery_
09-02-2011, 06:05 PM
I have noticed that top earners really don't get drunk and rarely ever drink.
Too focused on making that money.
Lea21
09-03-2011, 12:23 AM
wish i had something to add! well i plan to be a top earnewr when i turn 21 cuz i cant work at any of the good clubs yet!!!all the clubs that really make money are 21 and over..that sucks....the 18 and over ones in my town and i aint going there i hope i can finf one in a off city that takes 18 year olds.....
shasta
09-03-2011, 01:09 AM
^ I can guarantee that you will not be a top earner using words like "ain't" and "cuz."
crystalize
09-03-2011, 02:56 AM
I noticed they are extremely focused and work for it. It doesn't just happen to them but they give their all. Looks and hustle style are different..
kitinboots
09-03-2011, 04:20 AM
There's something in the way they walk. I can't describe it well, but they glide around the room in a different way to the others.
Corey
09-04-2011, 01:47 PM
i discovered a top earner in a club that I am relatively new in. She is somewhat over weight, her boots are clunky and retro, she wears a ton of make-up, but to her credit, she wears lingerie type dresses to hide her tummy on the floor. She is not that pretty. But, she is friendly (at least to me) and almost always has a smile on her face. I have no idea what she is saying to custies, but she had a couple guys in our lap dance area for at least 10 dances...and we do air dances for $20 a piece! Oh, and she doesn't glide across the room, she has clunky heels and short, thick legs.
I glide damn it! Both her guys were really into me while I was on stage, then she came along.....
I'll just have to watch and learn:D
Kisca
09-04-2011, 01:55 PM
- They stick to themself
- They have that "look" in their eyes before they appraoch a customer
- They change their voice from their regular self their stripper voice
- They dont cause drama
elijah
09-07-2011, 10:29 PM
i will agree they typically to extras here in the south bleh!
DollyStrips
09-08-2011, 12:16 AM
I have noticed that top earners generally..Keep going and going and going and going
without fail this is a trait of every top earner
afterhoursmint
11-16-2011, 08:08 PM
This thread deserves to be revived. I love all of it. One question, why don't top earners do pole tricks? I love the pole! But I want to be a top earner!
charlie61
11-16-2011, 08:12 PM
^ Because guys have NO idea how much effort and skill it takes to do pole tricks! Guys who like pole tricks are relatively rare (this is regional).
The biggest reason is because if you're paying attention to the pole, then that means you aren't paying attention to HIM. He wants you to be looking at him, flirting with him, dancing for him while you're on stage.
IME, the girls who would do pole tricks and still did well would actually personalize their tricks for specific guys. This works best on slow nights. Dance all sexy in front of the customer, drop down to take a tip, then ask him if he wants to see you do a sexy pole trick / tell him you want to show him a pole move / etc. Make it about HIM even though it's not. Then walk back over for a second tip from him and follow it up with a private dance hustle when you get off stage!
AriahsPariah
11-16-2011, 08:14 PM
This thread deserves to be revived. I love all of it. One question, why don't top earners do pole tricks? I love the pole! But I want to be a top earner!
Because we save all our energy hustling in the VIP.
fawn296
11-16-2011, 08:33 PM
they try to take your customer while you are talking to him and are usually the ugliest smelliest girl in the club and wear same clothes and work every night and do extras..... i think it is guys are inimidated by the hot girl who smells pretty who doesnt give head in the back. but they go home and think about the hot girl.....