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BlkSharpie
08-17-2011, 08:18 PM
I wasn't attacking you because of not being verified. Your reply came off to me as if you were being hateful to me because I mentioned a cruise. I didn't consider the lack of internet before I mentioned it. I haven't seen you on before and maybe I read your post the wrong way, but at the time it seemed as if you just popped up out of no where and started attacking me. After feeling like you were being hateful, I considered only using the private area, which seems to be drama free, that is all I was referring to.

Not to play devils advocate here but...how is saying "a cruise or resort would be nice" a hateful attack? She went on to suggest that without internet connection, some girls might go crazy...which is a legitimate concern.

I dont know if there was something else involved, but thats what you quoted when you pointed out that you are verified and want to take the conversation private.

So...I mean is this how its going to be? If someone unverified says something thats taken the wrong way, then off to hold conversations only with verified members? While that may have been a stab at one particular person, it does affect and exclude all of us who are not verified and have nothing to do with with whatever problems you are having with one particular member.

I mean, if you find it hateful that she said a cruise would be nice, then put her on ignore and you wont have to hear stuff like that anymore..that makes more sense and a lot less like an effort to separate yourself like making a point to say youre verified and want to take a conversation private where those of us who arent cant participate.

I dont know..I get the feeling non-verified members wont be welcome to attend this conference anyway..if thats the case then it actually is a good idea to go ahead and move the conversation to the private area so that you all can talk amongst yourselves about it. I genuinely mean that.

Im exiting this thread too. Goodness....forget it.

Arialandre
08-17-2011, 08:21 PM
Let's calm down guys.

Don't drink and type.

Only YOU can prevent Stripperweb fires.

:P

GlamourRouge
08-17-2011, 08:22 PM
I wasn't attacking you because of not being verified. Your reply came off to me as if you were being hateful to me because I mentioned a cruise. I didn't consider the lack of internet before I mentioned it. I haven't seen you on before and maybe I read your post the wrong way, but at the time it seemed as if you just popped up out of no where and started attacking me. After feeling like you were being hateful, I considered only using the private area, which seems to be drama free, that is all I was referring to.

I'm kinda done with all this, but I never once attacked you or said anything that could resemble an attack. I have no idea who you are, I've been on here for years.

As for a cruise, I was not the one who suggested it. I'm the one who said it was a good idea, but might not work out since there's no internet to cam. That's all I said? You quoted my post above.

Vegas seems consensus, though I will probably not be attending.

GlamourRouge
08-17-2011, 08:26 PM
Not to play devils advocate here but...how is saying "a cruise or resort would be nice" a hateful attack? She went on to suggest that without internet connection, some girls might go crazy...which is a legitimate concern.

I dont know if there was something else involved, but thats what you quoted when you pointed out that you are verified and want to take the conversation private.

So...I mean is this how its going to be? If someone unverified says something thats taken the wrong way, then off to hold conversations only with verified members? While that may have been a stab at one particular person, it does affect and exclude all of us who are not verified and have nothing to do with with whatever problems you are having with one particular member.

I mean, if you find it hateful that she said a cruise would be nice, then put her on ignore and you wont have to hear stuff like that anymore..that makes more sense and a lot less like an effort to separate yourself like making a point to say youre verified and want to take a conversation private where those of us who arent cant participate.

I dont know..I get the feeling non-verified members wont be welcome to attend this conference anyway..if thats the case then it actually is a good idea to go ahead and move the conversation to the private area so that you all can talk amongst yourselves about it. I genuinely mean that.

Im exiting this thread too. Goodness....forget it.

There was nothing else involved. What's sad about this is that I AM verified and I have been on SW for YEARS.

Anyway, lets keep it on topic!!! }:D

BlkSharpie
08-17-2011, 08:37 PM
There was nothing else involved. What's sad about this is that I AM verified and I have been on SW for YEARS.

Anyway, lets keep it on topic!!! }:D

So confused...why then the point of bringing up being verified and taking this private...when you too are verified. She just wanted another way to bring it up I guess?

This whole verified private group thing has gotten out out control...okay yeah, back on track...I have no desire to go to the conference now so theres no reason for me to be in this thread anymore anyway.

Hope the ladies who do go have a great time though!

GlamourRouge
08-17-2011, 08:38 PM
So confused...why then the point of bringing up being verified and taking this private...when you too are verified. Just another way to bring it up I guess.

This whole verified private group thing has gotten out out control...okay yeah, back on track...I have no desire to go to the conference now so theres no reason for me to be in this thread anymore anyway.

Hope the ladies who do go have a great time though!

I wasn't verified at the time, it was pending. Verification takes time, guys!

BlkSharpie
08-17-2011, 08:44 PM
I wasn't verified at the time, it was pending. Verification takes time, guys!

I understand that...that wasnt what I was saying though. When you were seemingly unverified and didnt have your badge, she felt comfortable treating you like a non-verified member by suggesting taking the conversation where you cant participate. Sort of funny that now thats not possible since you are ...but all the same..doesnt change how you were perceived for being non-verified at the time.

I dont know. Anyway, I dont want to get annoyed by this verification thing coming up all the time. Im going to just go on hiatus from the boards for awhile.

Lusty Laken
08-17-2011, 08:56 PM
I mean, if you find it hateful that she said a cruise would be nice, then put her on ignore and you wont have to hear stuff like that anymore..that makes more sense and a lot less like an effort to separate yourself like making a point to say youre verified and want to take a conversation private where those of us who arent cant participate.


"I think a few girls would go crazy though with no internet for a few days (aka no camming). Cruise ships don't have internet, right?"

I took this part wrong because she had only posted on a couple of other threads at the time. Not knowing who she was, I was thinking "Wow, is this some guy, trolling here, trying to be a smartass?". I read it wrong and know that I was wrong now. It isn't that I don't want to talk to unverified models at all, and I can definitely see how all of you ladies are feeling offense. Especially GlamourRouge, for whom I owe a dear apology for misinterpreting at the time.

I don't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable at all. I removed my "verfied" signature, as it is not worth losing touch with wonderful people over.

BlkSharpie
08-18-2011, 02:18 AM
"I think a few girls would go crazy though with no internet for a few days (aka no camming). Cruise ships don't have internet, right?"

I took this part wrong because she had only posted on a couple of other threads at the time. Not knowing who she was, I was thinking "Wow, is this some guy, trolling here, trying to be a smartass?". I read it wrong and know that I was wrong now. It isn't that I don't want to talk to unverified models at all, and I can definitely see how all of you ladies are feeling offense. Especially GlamourRouge, for whom I owe a dear apology for misinterpreting at the time.

I don't want to make anyone feel uncomfortable at all. I removed my "verfied" signature, as it is not worth losing touch with wonderful people over.


Okay, Im off haitus...lol! Is that a record? My longest was a year from the board, so if we average it out, pretend I was gone 6 months :D

Seriously though, I appreciate your response...that really is cool of you. Also, I think maybe Im just overall feeling touchy. Take a lot to get me annoyed, but once I am...everything annoys me no matter what. But Im over it and in a way better mood now. Im not so scary at my worst tho eh? ;D

Btw...to answer the initial question...cruise ships do indeed have internet access...but usually only in a computer lounge. So ladies would still be able to check email and keep in touch with fam/friends/custies/etc... but being able to cam would not be possible. It's also at a rate that rivals most hotels, ie per minute and expensive. Unless you're like me and win a raffle for free internet!

But even with as addicted to the internetz as I am, I only went on once a day to email my then bf and tell him how amazing the cruise was, and I missed a couple days of going online cause I was having too much fun ;D

sammii
08-18-2011, 02:51 AM
Okay, Im off haitus...lol! Is that a record? My longest was a year from the board, so if we average it out, pretend I was gone 6 months :D
Haha, I lol'd at this.

About a conference thing, there's tons of awesome unverified chica's that I'd love to meet, so I don't think it should be limited to verified girls only. If I didn't have school, saved up enough money, didn't move back in with my parents, I would be totally for a cruise. If a guy shows up, we can push him overboard. }:D

roast
08-18-2011, 03:55 AM
If a guy shows up, we can push him overboard. }:D

Haha, I think Id be the first to do it - esp if the cruise goes into that sweet 'no laws apply' spot out in the ocean.

"hey ladies, I think I recognize some faces here - I hope this doesn't freak you out that Im here too but I am a big fan of camgirls and have been reading StripperWe---hey, hey, where did you come from? What are you doing? Stop pushing me. I'm just trying to- STOP PUSHING. OMG, let go of my shirt. wtf - why are you biting me and growling like a wild animal?! STOP PUSHING ME Wait- wait that is the- the ledge... STOP! SomeoneHELP, HELP HELP!"

:splosh:

"You must be roast, fuuuuck you!"


.


I'm on it.

sammii
08-18-2011, 04:12 AM
Roast, you read my mind. I'll let you do the honors and I'll take immense pleasure in watching.

KitanaBlades
08-19-2011, 03:08 PM
Wow really? Now we are going to get technical and pull punches as to who is verified and who isn't?

Stop letting paranoia running your lives people. It's not worth it.

If a bunch of girls are going to get together and some douchebag guy shows up, beat his ass ans get it over with....

IT IS WHAT IT IS - many of you need to accept the adult business is what it is and stop trying to find different ways to go over the top all the time....the epic paranoia is starting to show and you guys are biting heads off for no reasons....

Just because you have a "verified cam girl" by your name - doesn't mean I am going to treat you any different as an individual and because of what you are here for. I've come to terms with the fact people will be fake - there's nothing I can do about it and I just leave it be. NOT starting a fight - but let's not have the cool kids group...that's gay.

All here for the same reason guys....jesus.

exquizit
08-19-2011, 07:13 PM
It would be hard to garunteed all girls would pick the same cruise for the same day, you have no way of knowing, I proboley would want a cruise trip with some sw girls I knew better, im going with my hubbs in november though.. Excited,.. but I still vote Vegas I will always vote Vegas lol

Lusty Laken
08-26-2011, 01:11 AM
Vegas. I'm in. Let's roll ladies!!! and have a good time. Fuck the drama. All are invited ** But. Due to safety I feel that we should all know who we are meeting up with. I hope this doesn't turn into another "Unverified" drama bitch. And for those who took offense to my previous posts, excuse the hell out of me for wanting proof of who I will be traveling to see. For those who are ready to plan, I'm ready! (:

.. and our trip shouldn't be planned in the open. All camgirls are welcome, and I am not paranoid, but I don't want some creepy bastard following me on a plane.

So before any more people pop up out of nowhere and attack me and accuse me of hating because I am verified and they are not. I'm just saying........................................

LAChloe
08-26-2011, 01:15 AM
I'll help you plan, LL...and verify! LOL. I think that we should make an itinerary of places to meet. Everyone can stay where ever they want and come to what ever places we are.

I know when I started on this board there were a group of dancers that were really tight and used to meet up all the time. :)

Lusty Laken
08-26-2011, 01:34 AM
There was nothing else involved. What's sad about this is that I AM verified and I have been on SW for YEARS.

Anyway, lets keep it on topic!!! }:D

And as for you, GlamourRouge, just because you have been on the forum since 20XX doesn't mean you have the right to talk to or about me like crap. Before or after your issue with me. I have frequented this forum since 2004 and this is my second account, only because I could not retrieve access to my other one from the past. Email issues. So give your superior attitude a rest.

Lusty Laken
08-26-2011, 01:37 AM
I'll help you plan, LL...and verify! LOL. I think that we should make an itinerary of places to meet. Everyone can stay where ever they want and come to what ever places we are.

I know when I started on this board there were a group of dancers that were really tight and used to meet up all the time. :)

Awesome!! I can help with getting good deals in places. Tips. And even if we all stay at different locations, we can plan to meet up and a specific place. Good idea!!! We all need a vacation, and I think this will be fun!

LAChloe
08-26-2011, 01:38 AM
You can find rooms for cheap at so many cool hotels in Vegas, too. What dates are you thinking?

Lusty Laken
08-26-2011, 01:54 AM
You can find rooms for cheap at so many cool hotels in Vegas, too. What dates are you thinking?

I'm flexible. I want to leave it up to everyone else who wishes to attend. What would you all prefer?

LAChloe
08-26-2011, 02:15 AM
Whenever! I'm so close...it's not a huge deal to get there for me. :) Yay! It would be fun to be there when it is warm enough to pool still!

AmyLynne
08-26-2011, 08:03 AM
If you want to do this in Vegas I could host it at my studio. That way we could use the studio suites for live training and look at lighting and yes just about everything were doing could be done in a home studio, except maybe the platforms that look like beds.

Im like 3 minutes from the strip walking. You can see the Bellagio and all the big casinos from my office window. I also can get the space next to me for a meeting and conference room.

kaiarose
08-26-2011, 08:41 AM
Please stop the drama in this thread. Stay on topic!

KitanaBlades
08-26-2011, 05:18 PM
I have a concern with this...and I hope that some of you will hear me out on this.

With all the personal and other attacks going on between everyone these days, I wonder if this is a good idea. I am saying this because I can only wonder what will happen once people see what someone else looks like and can use that against them as an attack. I say this, because it really may hurt someone's feelings if it is brought up. I understand that some of you may say - "We are all adults" but keep in mind that some people don't act like adults.

I am just saying that with all the negative tension that I fear that with alcohol and in a party spot like Vegas, I would hope that this sort of thing wouldn't turn into WWIII. All of those things and the added negative tension with remarks here couldn't turn out well in real life...

I am only saying this because I am concerned on how it would play out concerning money and business along with personal and "fun" time. It worries me, a lot.

Many people have the intention of being good but like I have said in previous threads - we can only read words on a screen. We don't know the feeling behind the words someone has posted, we can only assume and ask for clarification. When clarification is asked for, sometimes it's too late. Like I have said repeatedly, I am not perfect and often accused of not keeping my nose in my own business on a "PUBLIC" thread - but I have since learned when I have had my moments here that I do not think before I open my own mouth....Meaning - I don't put myself in the other person's shoes and REALLY try to understand what they are saying before I pop off with someone that may hurt someone's feelings. I have learned that being honest is great and I have since been very careful with much of how I have worded things....because the women here aren't just cam girls - we are all supposed to be supportive and like a family....

I know. I know. I am preaching to the choir - but I hope to see SW one day totally united and drama free without these attacks and what not. I can only say my point of view, say I am not perfect and pray to GOD if you girls choose to do this it works out for everyone....Moneywise and personality wise. Hopefully, it would go off without problem and a great time.

I don't want to be a negative Nancy but I just really think this is no longer a good idea. I will still offer help in anything you guys need for the traveling purpose but, I cannot attend this because of these fears. I have enough issues of my own personally and I feel if these things I listed DID happen - I wouldn't feel like I could come back to SW for just advice and a place to breathe.

Again, I hope this really works out for those of you that are attending and plan on doing this.

xoxoxo!

LAChloe
08-26-2011, 09:11 PM
Yay! I can't wait! Lusty- open a thread in the verified section. I'm assuming that if a girl won't go through the process of getting verified, they won't put in the effort to go to Vegas either. xx

FoxyWithAnR
08-26-2011, 09:34 PM
I live in Vegas and have a private conference room I can reserve here at my condo complex downtown. Im game.

BlkSharpie
08-26-2011, 10:16 PM
Kitana, you would be surprised.

On my local escorts forum, there are guys who fight to the death, two men go in, one comes out style...saying the nastiest things, being all out jerks... And then when we meet up at GT's, they are all so chill and hanging out and everything is cool and whatever.

I dont think theres much to be worried about with that...sometimes meeting someone in person sort of changes your whole perception. Not everyone speaks the way they type, or maybe thier tone or how they convey themselves in written word doesnt compare to when they are in person. Or maybe they are a lot bolder with a keyboard than they are to ones face. It could be anything...

But I have seen some "there will be blood!" fights break out on the forum, and then a week later everyones at the GT BBQ acting like the best of friends. Its weird :D

KitanaBlades
08-27-2011, 03:11 AM
I hope so Sharpie...I really do love!

AmyLynne
08-27-2011, 10:46 AM
I ca host this and provide all of the catering through my cousins company etc. And I have Ill have the studio up and going at the time so we can use that all for training or new ideas and things... I also have contacts with some of the makeup artists who work with the showgirls and the girls at rehab and bare.

All anyone has to cover is their air and hotel and you can get rooms and air packages for like 250-400 all over town.

roast
08-27-2011, 12:06 PM
^No offense intended here but you're posting your office twice, and I want to throw this out (note, I am speaking only for myself here):

Id rather avoid having the meeting place at someone's project. Particularly if they keep hinting at training(?), lighting(?), demos(?) makeup artists(unless Im reading into your meaning - why would we... need this if we're not getting on cam?) kind of ruins the purpose of everyone coming together on equal footing. Personally I wouldn't want to feel beholden to anyone when there are so many other options available. A neutral location like a conference room in someone's condo or a hotel (or any local nonprofit that gives space - which many would) would be far more ideal.

If you still want to offer free catering offsite - awesome - I probably misread what your intent, and I apologize... but catered food, professional makeup services, a location, etc. is a lot of awesome stuff to just offer. Perhaps Im too cynical, but Id rather not feel obligated at a business & social conference - even if it just to provide a thank you.

Ive been to sex worker meetups before and there are a few personalities that always wreck the sense of fun, knowledge-sharing, and relaxation:

1. Former sex workers who are clearly just there to promote their current business ventures and contacts... but sneakily slide in since they use their 'former worker' cred to gain entry
2. Customers, fans (allies I guess, but not the good kind. the good kind would know to not show up) and activists-who-aren't-workers there to suck up the air
3. Boyfriends and husbands of sex workers who have codependency or entitlement issues that kept them from realizing they shouldn't be there
4. Hustlers who can't turn off hustle & self-promo mode, even around other hustlers

AmyLynne if you're still a current & active camgirl - awesome, you should come and participate. Unless I missed the general spirit of this - this is a cam model business conference - not a proprietor of cam model's conference.

Others seem to know you but I'm not terribly familiar with you (except that you're launching a studio) and don't know... if you cam or where you're coming from. I am dead serious at apologizing though if I am way off base.

AmyLynne
08-27-2011, 12:17 PM
First I have the space to do it.
2nd It's free.
3rd- Training can be informal or just among the participants just to try things out and discuss cameras and lighting, backdrops etc.
4th. Ive been in the business as an entertainer and cam girl for over 6 years. Yes I have a business now but am in now way using this to promote it. Its simply an hnest offer of my space and my time and yes even some of my financial resources. I dont want a penny in return.. I just want to see this industry unite more and the gils finally get what they deserve financially without the bs...

I have not been active since fall of 2010, but I will be helping my studio girls a lot more by having the background I do and uniting that with the financial resources and busness backgrounds of my husband and my family!

Noa
08-27-2011, 01:16 PM
I'm not sure I understand what you mean by training. To cam for you?

I was sort of thinking that the idea behind this conference would be to give experienced camgirls an opportunity to share what they've learned, brainstorm how to tackle challenges, be mutually supportive, etc.

Not sure why any of us would need training to do anything unless I'm missing something.

AmyLynne
08-27-2011, 01:44 PM
I didnt say by me. I just said you all can use my space for whatever you want.
Sheesh someone is trying to help out hen most are trying to exploit!

I have 6 years experience as a dancer and 1 1/2 as a camgirl Im not just a studio owner Ive been where you all have been. Everything I offer for this conference is free without strings.

roast
08-27-2011, 01:58 PM
Thanks for clarification (studio space is NSA & no expectations) - & c'mon throw yourself back to when you cammed and stripped: they're understandable questions to get clarification on.

/thread derail

Nikki_Fox
08-27-2011, 03:28 PM
I think the idea of linking in with an existing event sounds interesting - i think there is something in vegas in febuary that is adult related

AmyLynne
08-29-2011, 07:42 PM
Adult Entertainment Expo and Ill have a booth there at the tradeshow!